I hope Brittany Griner returns home soon and safely. And I pray for peace and comfort for her and for her family and friends until that time. This video is NOT to blame Brittany for the current situation. This video is to add some important criteria to choosing your move abroad destination / second home.
@Stephanie Perry : We as The Afrikan Diaspora, The Modern-day Descendants of The Ancient Children of Yisrael do not need to move from Modern-day "BABYLON " United Snakes 🐍🐍🐍of Amerikkka, we need not move from one Racist Western Nation to another Racist Western Nation. Well those are just my thoughts, we need to return to our own land The Motherland a Mansion filled full of many different beautiful rooms (Countries) pick one for yourself and move to Afrika like I said just my thoughts. Shalom, Salaam Daughter of Zion, my Hebrew Yisraelite Sista of Yisrael. 💋💖💞🥰🕎😍💘💕👄
I think that the human rights record (child poverty, femicides, drug&human trafficking... ) of countries should also be looked at too, Stephanie. I'm glad you start considering these factors before choosing a country to live in.
@Marna Squires We won't Jesse or AL or our black leaders because they are the sell outs. They just talk. Our faith prayers and good works must be to The Most High God Yahawah and Yahawashi for our protection.
I would add: 1. Laws and safety for lgbtqa! Russia has laws banning gay marriage. Some countries you arent free to hold hands etc 2. Drug and alcohol laws! Some people love cannabis or cbd. Its banned in several nations. Some places certain tabaccos are illegal. Drinking laws can be strict too! 3. Proximity to NATO or Us Friendly country: if it hits the fan how far are you from a nation friendly to the u.s.? 4. Crime: people have been locked up for a small fight or argument not knowing the criminal system. 5. Diversity: this is huge for a lot of people. You can look up the demographics. 6. How are the children treated: i am not living in a country where TRAFFICKING, child labor, no orphanages are the norm. NOPE! 7. Societal norms for women: this is huge in orthodox or muslim nations. Dress codes, living arrangements etc may be an issue for individuals or couples. What rights do women not have there? I am not well travelled but i am well versed in geopolitics and laws abroad and history in relation to black folks!
Great video. I didn't think about this subject when I moved to Portugal, I was happy to see that in Portugal freedom of expression scored very higher even higher than in the United States, Canada, and the UK. Also as a resident now I have access to their National Health Insurance (totally free). So far I'm treated very kindly here, and I'm trying hard to not let my biases of how black- Americans are treated in the US. Expecting that same treatment here in Portugal. So far, I've not had similar experiences here, but I do realize that racism is everywhere.
Yea that good because Portugal and Spain started the Atlantic slave trade to the Americas Caribbean. The Spanish Inquisition was all about Spain and Portugal exporting all blacks from the countries. These blacks go back 700 years as the former rulership and academics, business leaders, Drs.
Portugal is interesting because I’ve heard of black women having amazing times and others not so much. That’s with all places, but I’ve noticed Portugal is particularly 50/50
Nothing great about this video. It's full of niavity and selfishness. Consider the thousands that have sacrificed their lives so that yours could be better. America is your country, stay put and fight to improve it for yourself and others.
So with you on this Stephanie! In making my Eat, Pray, Love list… I am very clear about leaving the US to go somewhere that’s NOT the same as here. That’s the reason I reject that theory “no place is perfect” Sure there are no perfect countries, but there are countries whose soul existence does not rest on all the “isms” of humanity. My list includes1) low cost of living 2) high quality of living 3) clean air/water 4) quality healthcare/ 5) high vibing folk 6) sound infrastructure 7) beaches 8) men who think ALL women are beautiful. 🤷🏽♀️
bruh. you need to get rid of the "grass is greener on the other side" attitude. I've lived in both Europe and US and think a lot of your expectations are over the top. of course I'm assuming your middle class (and maybe person of color).
Giiiirrrrllll, yes - you’ve addressed this - best and worst countries. Spain - no thank you, Montenegro, no thank you, China, no thank you, Buenos Aires, no thank you -- all of this i got from you and the CDMX crew (except Montenegro and Spain - I felt that for my self - y’all just confirmed)
I haven't been there yet, but everything I've read and researched about Spain says it is still much better for Black women, and for those from the USA, a good experience -that US passport privilege Stephanie speaks of. Notably, it has consistently been researched and proven as one of the safest places for women to walk alone at night.
@@dmarie44 Before I answer, I will say that I believe everyone should have their own experience in a place. I really didn't care for the people or the mood of the country. AND I kept being mistaking for a Brazilian prostitute (yes, this was what was said) How that worked when I was covered up the entire time....I'm not sure LOL! I also was alarmed by all of the swastikas graffitied everywhere. The economy was still really bad when I visited so I do think that part of the issue was that I was American, Black and seemed to have more money than the people I was encountering. I did enjoy the Spanish language program that I studied with (a short-term program and I don't remember the name now) I would return to Argentina but I would go to smaller towns
Stephanie you are always so responsible with your platform so thx for this. I’m afraid for Brittney and asking the universe and the ancestors for protection over this sister. Ladies do your research before you go to any country. For now I will stick with North America, The Caribbean and South America in my travels.
@@GlitterHippie2 Only because it's on Stephanie, the blogger's list for Black women! I have not been either, but it was on my "to go" list. I'm reconsidering tho.
Back in 2000 when I was in my 20s I decided to visit Ghana, West Africa which I notice I was treated a lot better then here in Canada but is no straight flight to Africa so stop of in Europe to go to Africa. I notice when I at Amsterdam Airport I and next person who is African been mistreated by Dutch authorities. Hearing what happened in Ukraine with African students show me things do not change that much.
Many American women who have left USA have recently returned. Life is so damn hard abroad. Different mentality. Different culture and not all countries make it easier for women.
Have u ever checked out Dominican Republic. I liked travelling there...thinking about moving there. Do u know if they have freedom of speech or Expression?
@@leevellpeoples6723 My husband’s brother just moved back to the US from the DR. He said it’s too dangerous to live there now. After living in the DR for 8 years. I think that you should reconsider dear.
Im glad you finally have dedicated a video to this topic. I’m currently working/living in the south of Spain in a small Pueblo and as soon as the school year is over I’m OUT!!!!
@@StephaniePerry wow 😮 overall the gaslighting and passive aggressiveness…and the people who SEE wrong but don’t correct it. I will preface my overall beef with the country with saying I have met people who have cared for me like my momma. There has been some real love. But that has been the rarity - the one off… you know how you’re having a bad day and God just sends you little kisses… ummm yeah. Upon arrival, I was struggling with treatment from cashiers ( people throwing my change at me) co-workers -etc. I spoke with my director about the difficulties and he said I quote “well, it’s your fault people are racist, your Spanish is bad. “😒it was downhill from there. I’ve had some great experiences in Madrid, although many sisters there have had many of my same complaints. Going to Madrid makes one grateful just to see another black person. I think black people need to think and really contemplate whether or not they are ok with not actually seeing much less speaking to another black person. I have a white American friend here ( and lo-key she made the best stuffing I have EVER had for thanksgiving this year) but it’s not the same…so yeah, the fetishization the racism the looking the other way and the whole straight hating on an educated black woman( finishing up masters and on to my doctorate currently) and the expectation of me looking the other way when they are hateful to the Africans here. Being and American excludes me from the utter virulent hatred of Africans but my fellow professors are annoyed when I call them out on how they treat them. So - ummmm - yeah - Im out!
@@MoInTheCity03 Oh - God…please see below!😂😂😂 it’s such a beautiful country. I will say honestly that I think it’s 60/40 or 70/30. Maybe we can start a dialogue here. The lesser numbers are those that are actively racist hurtful and want to cause issues. The larger numbers are those that are not. But are they if they don’t correct their fellow citizens? Rural areas in Spain are just a bad idea for POC.
Unfortunately Griner may have been targeted because she's American, female, Black and gay. It seems unlikely that she would be carrying prohibited items in her luggage... she's lived in Russia for quite a while and would have been well aware of the risks particularly as Russia wages war against Ukraine. Edit: The right wing in the US is dealing with a large number of people who essentially want to turn their personal political and religious beliefs into law for everyone. Also the GOP has been underfunding city and rural schools for decades while making sure their own children's schools are incredibly well funded. Part of that is an attempt to make sure their children come out ahead.
Sadly what probably happened was they let it slide to set her up. They like to allow dignitaries to do things and either blackmail or use the material for their nefarious purposes.
Because obviously, their children can't compete with others, just like their parents can't. If everything isn't rigged in their favor they will be second rate at best.
That;s the problem. Please stop declaring what you think someone will or won't do. It's illogical, particularly because you do not know this person personally.
@@breatheu 😂😂😂😂 nah its definitely cold but if you prepare its not as bad as you think! I was born in California and live in Texas so all I know is warm weather. The first day I SUFFERED but I acclimated quickly and was relatively comfortable. But my gloves were essential constantly so I'm not quite a local yet! Lol
Seasoned woman here. What I see a lot of? Is no one thinks anymore. I mean.... they are afraid of it. Instead of actually rationalizing and risk being different. They just blindly go along with the flow. The grass is not always greener. People need to think, to ponder, ask questions? Look before you leap. Feel free to weigh your options. Here's another old saying to consider. "Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread".
Sadly in the US, when the pandemic hit, we saw kids having to get on wifi busses or got to libraries. A lot of inner city and rural kids had to be given laptops and signed up for "cheap" internet. Along those lines, the cost of cable and internet is so blatantly more expensive in cities as opposed to the burbs. It's a darn shame.
Find out if your locality have a discount for households with school age children. Here it's 60 per month but my sister with a minor pays 19 per month .
Living in a country with no military can be risky. If another country decides to invade, who defends the country? With no military defense it's up to the citizens to fight and secure their country.
I live in Costa Rica we are not in risk of invasion because we are small and we don't have gas or gold as resources. We have different agreements with other countries and international organizations in case of an invasion ( we have a situation with Nicaragua some time ago and we did not need a military to solve it). And the military forces of our neighbors are not that strong, so I never feared something like that
There are so many American expat that the United States won't allow their citizens to be harmed. CR and US have a security agreement. Therefore, CR doesn't need to have a military.
Fortunate to go to the wrong airport for my resort and have to drive across the country of Costa Rica! Highly advanced and internet through out! It’s beautiful and the people are welcoming
You rock girl!! I’m completely supportive of you. USA is so racist it is disgusting. As a white woman I do what I can to open my eyes and be kind to all as well as call out racism as I encounter it.
You refer to her as “girl” but, refer to self as “a woman”? Lol! Open your eyes to the fact that she is a WOMAN - just like you. Most of y’all don’t know that you’re dehumanizing and “superior” but your words sure show it…
@@analalove419 : Maybe she's looking for approval . You know just like the White feminist did in the mid-late 60's. Always keeping a foot in the door with false pretense. Wolf in sheep clothing. Beware.
This is right on time for me. I was heading to Portugal this spring to do a scouting trip because I want to leave the US possibly permanently. But then this mess with Russia erupted and all I see is European sponsored evil. The same type of evil that I’m suffering in America. I’m a veteran. I served this country working in special operations in Europe in the late 90’s. What’s going on over there and here is very triggering to me. I changed my flight to go to Mexico inspired by you and some Dani Ellison videos. I’ve never been to South America. Just here and Europe. I’ll be there this spring. Hoping to feel what freedom feels like for an American black woman finally. Thank you for these videos. Now I’m also thinking about Costa Rica and other places. My mind is more open and aware.
I'm a black person from Europe. It's not like that everywhere. I wish I had time to explain. Also as a black woman here, I'd like to exchange mails about lifestyles here in Europe with other females overseas, just so we can learn from one another . Ladies, over the past 2 years things has change dramatically
@@lindywinthrop8260 in everyway things change. before i explain, id like to say to black american women that, when you travelled around europe, especially my country, talk with the people, talk with other black ladies. the language might be a barrier if the ladies are over 40, but youll learn so much just by a willing communication. now here i go, black american women dont really travelled alot here or even in the caribbean. ive worked in hotels and palacesin the past and the only black american women ive ever met are celebrities , three of the biggest name we knew. things has change especially since the corona, people are less opened up to others especially strangers.
Thank you for this. I have always said, to move where there is no -to-limited racial battle fatigue. We are tired, no need to relocate where we will not be treated as the beautiful people we are.
Great topic. Thank you for it! And I have read that russia is a bad place for black people to travel. I learned this while researching places to visit abroad when I started 25 years ago!
I was saying this to you before when I asked about human rights records of a foreign country. I am a gay woman, racism, homophobia or any kind of discrimination can be much more dangerous than it would be for me at home where I know people, have family and friends.
@Stephanie Perry this topic deserves a whole new RUclips channel. I can only imagine what is learned when one digs into the rights, freedoms and liberties of a country and how they impact on Black expats.
Thanks for this very necessary video. At this point in time I just assume every government has the ability to track their citizens by cell phone when they want to, even if they claim not to. I was a juror on a murder trial a few years back and baybeee... all of us can be tracked by phone and by camera.
Thank you for sharing this information, Stephanie! I am an expat in an Asian country, and I’ve only been here one year because of what you’re sharing. I need to explore a country where I can thrive, and I can’t thrive here. I am returning to the states this year because even though America is extremely flawed, I know that I can still be my full self.
I ❤️U From a young age, I always knew if I had been born dark skinned, I would not have remained in the USA. It’s great that you found better options and are helping others to see that they too have better options. I know your branding targets dark skinned women, but dark skinned men also need this kind of information and more importantly, your kind of inspiration. Your channel is important in letting people know that there are better countries to live in than the USA. While living overseas for 4 years, I was constantly told by people there that their dream was to live in the US. I laughed at their naivety and did my best to correct their delusional misconceptions. If I were dark skinned, my number one priority for choosing a new country to move to and live in would be racial equality, and not equality because it was legislated and enforced, but because it naturally exists there. I can’t begin to imagine what it is like to be dark skinned, but I do know as a gay man, some people are treated differently in different places based on appearances, etc. Not wanting to be in highly racist or anti gay community, I always gravitated to living in cities with multi-ethnicities and protections like NYC. Now, I enjoy living overseas. I’m back in the USA temporarily, taking care of stuff, but am planning to move overseas again in about six months. I was delighted to discover your channel, even though I am not your targeted audience. You’re a breath of fresh air. Keep up the great work. I wish you much success. ♥️
I’m glad you addressed this topic. Sometimes it seems like travelers idealize every country outside of the U.S. I personally feel like I have a great life here but I still like to learn about travel and lifestyle freedom for black women.
This was always at the top of my list. This is because I know I will be black everywhere I go. I thought about free education but not the implications on how it is treating its people. I wanted good cheap education but didn't think about how that is a form of respect for its people.
Please! PLEASE!! Provide more videos on this topic!!!! Not knowing if a country is safe to live in is by far my number one concern for moving abroad. I feel like I can research but it's nothing like getting a first hand perspective by people who have actual experience.
Excellent address of the “elephant in the room”. These are things that I’ve been taking into consideration when looking at other countries, but I had not thought about the education piece; great info for sure! The reason you listed for Turkey is exactly why I’m no longer looking at them. I’ve also been reviewing local unrest info when it comes to injustices experienced by other black people abroad; primarily our African brothers and sisters because their experiences will mirror ours since you can’t tell by looking at us if we are American or from an African nation. These stories are very concerning and are a major reason why I’ve removed Germany from my list as well. I’m focused on Portugal right now because of prior visits and the positive reviews from other black expats; but have found that Portugal is not without its share of injustices to black people when it comes to dealings with the police. My other requirement is to find a place that is not too close in proximity to areas that experience unrest and/or war or are in an area that has the potential (I’m very risk adverse when it comes to things like this); another reason why Turkey is off my list. This means keeping my ear to the ground on worldwide news as well, this preparing to live abroad thing is a lot of work for sure. So, again, many thanks for those of us who are on the hunt for that “just right spot”.
This video is incredibly informative. I love your energy, style, the topics - EVERYTHING! I'm so glad I discovered your channel. I'm in my second half now life now single, no children and am miserable here. I'm really considering moving abroad. My friend lived in Costa Rica with her husband for about 3 yrs and loved it. A deciding factor for me is definitely direct flights back to the U.S. , in case of emergency.
Go to Costa Rica first, ask the black people there what is life like for them there. There used to be a lot of black people living in Limon, on the Atlantic part of Costa Rica. Most black now live in the US. Ask them why everybody has moved to the US.
I too just discovered this channel and love it! Plus I lived the expat life, on and off, for the last 5 years (as a single and child-free woman). Definitely go abroad, so many opportunities (I co-founded a business to help expat and aspiring expat women ), theres so much more to life outside the US
I've been to CR several times and it's lovely, and had a history of fighting off the confederacy, but white expats dominate and it's now very expensive among the central American countries.
@@NicoleJButler Ms. Butler I just shared with my comment. In no way I want to discourage you in finding that perfect place to live. Unfortunately there is no such place. The eternal yearning of the human spirit to find the best place to live is what make them cross mountains, rivers and oceans. I am worried though by the fatalistic view by so many black Americans that the US is the worst place on the planet for them. We have black people from all over the world that have moved to the US and are enjoying all the fruits of the fights and struggles of the Black Americans. As for me I prefer to be grounded in the South of the US. This is where most black people live, land is cheap and beautiful and most of the HBCU's are located. I feel safer here than other whiter parts of the country. Booker T Washington in his "Atlanta Speach" had urged black people to "cast their buckets where they are in the South", instead of going North. Instead of been slowly killed in the streets of Minnesota, it is better to reverse the great migration and moved back down here. Ask Tyler Perry who live in Atlanta or Morgan Freeman who always try to run back to Mississippi how good life is down here.
I almost accepted an international teaching job in China. My gut kept telling me that was not the move 💯. Luckily, a Middle Eastern country offered me a position. I’ll say this: if one feels uncomfortable about any situation it’s highly likely that that’s not the move you should make. If you find yourself continuing to ask or inquire about a country’s treatment of blacks, you might want to go the other way. Now, I’m not saying all of China is bad and I know some who have great experiences there. I do plan to visit and vacation there in the future. Shoot, I may even change my mind and work there. But for now, after the things I heard, I knew it was best to seek opportunities elsewhere.
@Terri M - I lived and worked in Southeast Asia and the Arabian Gulf for almost 20 years. I would NOT ever accept any job in China! You dodged a bullet.
@@wiseonwords Yeah.....I heard so many horror stories. Out of 20, only 3 have been positive. I can't take the chance of being a part of the three lucky stories.
Yes a former friend went there and she said how bad the air quality was all the fake merchandise and all the fake crystals she bought back! She went with a person who likes to buy fake stuff and it made me see her differently cause she tagged along about all these fake crystals.
I live in East Asia now. I'm moving to South East Asia in a few months for another opportunity. Being here is good to save money, grow your career or study because it allows you to focus without too many distractions. But outside of these it can be challenging if you don't have a goal in mind.
Juring the Covid, China was kicking Black People out into the street from their homes. Some places like restaurants, night life, etc wouldn't let Blacks in and some hotels wouldn't let foreigners in altogether. However, Blacks are not being murdered by Police Officers on a regular basis in China. All in all, I'd rather live in China than ever set my foot in the United States ever again. May God Bless Black America The difference between China and the US is that at least in this day and age you wouldn't be prevented from entering any public place just for being Black. But it's not because America is not racist, It's rather because laws made in the name of Political Correctness compels Americans to not prevent Blacks from entering public and private establishments. However, worse than racism is what Blacks endure in the the United States of America primarily in the hands of White Policemen, which is MURDER under the guise of self defense, fear and mistake motivated by race
Hello Miss Perry, I have just finished enjoying your video on Black women traveling & living abroad. It was very informative. Thank you, not just for the education but for the chance to meet a young Black intelligent African American woman who is well traveled with the means and the desire to share her knowledge and unique perspective with her sisters. As an African American woman of a certain age, I have never felt comfortable in these United States. You have helped consider other places to live and travel. It's been a pleasure to meet you. BK
The categories you mentioned in this video have always been on my list of considerations in terms of travel and repatriation. I also have on my list how ADA friendly a city is in terms of mobility. This is a category I would love to see more RUclipsrs discuss when they are evaluating a city or country. Thanks, For sharing your thoughts on these topics.
Hey Stephanie...Awesome video.. It was number one on my list.. I have watched countless videos researching different areas, watching black women's videos to hear their experiences.. That's how I found you because I wanted to be safe and treated human. Number two, the country had to be affordable for my budget.
I don’t mind traveling to other places but staying hell no I will take my chances here in America. When I do travel from the states it will be placed where other black people are. I don’t like going places and getting looked at crazy because the color of my skin.
I have no idea how this got into my recommendations but thank you god. Such an insightful video for those of us that need better clarity on making travel decisions! 🔥🔥
You are so real ... There is no need to reinvent the wheel when trusted resources with cross references are available for general things.... Lol very well spoken. I am going to have to check your company out. Some people will take your knowledge out of context....but I am very impressed and excited to learn more. I want to travel but stay places like a month at a time. Not as an expat but simply as a human.
First off, Thank You!!! My family moved from Panama so I was raised here in the US. I have been seriously considering going back to live. I wanted to go to law school but didn't know if it was possible. Thank you for putting the information out there. I have started looking into retiring from my current job and moving there, going to school there and living out my dreams. Keep up this work it is great and much need.
Appreciate your information on various countries. I am considering taking a hiatus from the US for about six months by the end of 2022. Your channel is helpful since I am the founder of a very diverse group on LinkedIn (Women Entrepreneurs Worldwide) and even though prior to COVID I traveled extensively, your information is very helpful. Portugal was suggested to me as a possibility. Thank you.
This subject matter is timely especially as more and more of us want to exit, definitely conversations to be had and realities to be considered. Thank you.
Thank you, I have heard so many black men and black women think racism is an American product, and have bought into this idea of Europe being this race-neutral utopia.
I would tell you all something, but you would think I'm crazy. Let me just say that nowhere is safe for us as so called "black people" because it's spiritual and we haven't repented as a whole for something our ancestors did and we are still doing, I'll just leave it at that. 🤷🏾♀️ Deuteronomy 28.....
@@tiffanyyisrael7989 So why bring a biblical discussion to this page then speak in vagaries? Could it be that if you took your argument to a biblical page and spoke bluntly that you would lose the argument? Also, is there a one drop rule to curses, because there are people with African ancestry that blend into other communities and do just fine, and great sins against God and man have been committed by white people, yet they rule the international economies.
@@j.baldwin3012 yeah i dont buy that either, what great sins have we committed in our lifetimes. none so severe to deserve the treatment of the u.s. listen ive met very fine afro-brazilian, afro-colombian, and african ladies. they are all beautiful and pleasent to be around. i always said black ppl should be communicating throughout the diaspora. speak to articulate handsome and beautiful black men and black women worldwide.
15:33 YES YES YES ... I refuse to live long-term in a religious country ... especially as an atheist ... I don't need anyone's religion coded into law. That's partly why the US is so messed up.
When I travel I read up on country (s) for the do and don’t. I been to Turkey ( loved it) Russia ( hated it) etc. When in Rome Do as the Romans do. I never talk politics and never expect the same other country to operate as America. That being said you brought up some good points dealing moving to other countries vs just being a African America travelers.
Hi Stephanie I just discovered you a few weeks ago and really enjoy your show. It keeps me engaged and thinking. You surround yourself with lots of strong, intelligent Black women, it's great to watch and feel a part of your club.
So decided to make a list based off Stephanie's and the other comments - thank you for your contribution....- Please addddd to this list..lets divide and conquer and not recreate the wheel. Things to consider before exiting from USA: 1st register with the US Embassy "I spent a year in a country that experienced some unexpected political unrest. Embassy staff checked on us every day and advised us on safety procedures" 1) low cost of living 2) high quality of living 3) clean air/water 4) universal healthcare, even for non residents 5) sense of belonging, where I can thrive 6) sound infrastructure 7) men who think ALL women are beautiful. 8) importance they put on educating their people..is it free or low cost to attend college 9) Freedom of speech..what are the limits 10) Access to high speed internet (low cost) 11) renewable energy, taking advantage of water, wind and solar 12) limited police corruption 13) not known for human trafficking 14) child poverty 15) discrimination-how are the marginalized treated 16) secular country, can I maintain full autonomy 17) eligibility to buy or lease land 18) cost of return to US 19) ease of financial transactions 20) climate change impact - heat will kill ppl and plants 21) Direct flights to USA, affordability
Thank you for pointing out this topic. Not only is this info for AA women but also for us AAmen! I'm quickly looking at this lifestyle for my retirement. I also hope that Brittany Griner get released soon>
Lord yes. Iam a big proponent of having some kind International Green Book. Anti Blackness is global but shared resources for Black women can mitigate the pain, expense and humiliation of dealing with racism and antiBlackness. Thus there is a reason I would never set foot in large swathes of Asia like China, all of Eastern Europe, Russia, and huge chunks of Western Europe. Nope. No way.
@@Joyful_Smiles very racist. If you get attacked you won t necessarily get justice...i remember 15 years ago an african man who was visiting russia as a tourist got shot by a Russian soldier for no reason other than he was black and i believe nothing was done...Not really different from Ukraine
I love what you said about secular governments. LGBT research has shown a direct correlation to misogyny and homophobia. If a country has issues with LGBT peoplw, the will more than likely mistreat women as well.
14:43 really hits hard given that Roe. v Wade got overturned about a month ago. I was super surprised when I saw that you uploaded this 5 MONTHS ago! It might not've been intentional, but you really called it!
Oooooooooooooh Myyyyyyyy Goooooodness!💞. Soooooo Happy to Be a Part of this "Video link". Thanks Stephanie 😊 🙏 😀 🤲🙌👏. For all You Do to just keep Us/We/Me informed as You receive Your "Downloads"! 😊 💖. You're such a "Gift"! Much Respect!🤲🙌🙏👏🥰😇. P.S. Can You please possibly do a "Vid" on "Eye Laser Surgery". Thinking 🤔 about it. I'm a Senior Up in this 🤪 Piece/Peace!😃😁🤗. And still "State Side". Thank 😊 You!
Thank you for your videos. They are very much appreciated. I love your hair and skin! Have you ever considered doing a video on what makes them so nice? Would you mind sharing your beauty and diet regimen? Please and thank you. 🥰
What are your thoughts on registering with the US Embassy (if there is one) when visiting or living abroad? I’ve started doing this a couple of years ago when traveling abroad. They provide updates on political unrest and notices. I also keep in contact with family members back in the states while traveling. I would never want to find myself in a war zone without outside access. I’ve been scouting potential countries to live post retirement within the next 3 years, if not full time then at least 6 months out of the year.
As long as you are paying taxes while living abroad, you should at least get some benefit. Register with the embassy. I spent a year in a country that experienced some unexpected political unrest. Embassy staff checked on us every day and advised us on safety procedures. I find it best not to disclose my nationality. There is a lot of anti American sentiment abroad. I am respectful and speak the local language so folks are surprised to learn that I am from the US. Americans don’t have the best reputation abroad. Bonne chance.
Stephanie, I’m glad that you’re focusing on this subject. So many factors have to be considered, especially when moving abroad. I love this video content.
An incredibly helpful yet truly disturbing topic. Thank you for handling it with such grace and sensitivity as always. I would appreciate digging deeper into places to avoid based on the criteria you’ve covered.
Very good topic and great delivery… I tried to talk about this several years ago on ( your GF’s channel; Mexico 🇲🇽: their topic was dating abroad) when I noticed a number of AA women vlogging… Ive spent a number of years traveling in Mexico on business and saw numerous articles and billboards about femicide... So I mentioned the topic…😅 The sister handed me my head on a plater..she said to the other woman on the site… “ ignore him the game will be on in 40 minutes!” lol😅...
watching so many different people and opinions I really feel paralyzed that there is nowhere I can go as a black woman except Mexico, Panama and Ghana, and honestly I have no desire to go to any of those countries. One black travel channel says Montenegro is awesome for black people, then someone else says "worst experience of their life", one persons say Italy was life changing...and another person says, Italy was...life changing. I'm confused and heart broken, and the saying "you have to try it for yourself," doesn't help. Obviously that's why people are here to see whatsup before they go. Sigh, it's just so sad. I love being black, I wouldn't change it for anything, but sadly, it be nice to be invisible for a while and just be in peace while venturing the world.
Hi Stephanie, thank you for giving me back my sense of worth. I feel so diminished as an African American woman. Even though I'm not in a position to leave right now, your channel gives me such a sense of worth we don't get in our day to day living. I never imagined I'd feel the way I do now about this country. At time it seems there's no hope - but you give small doses of hope and that makes such a difference. Thank you! I have a question regarding the feature you did on starting your own business. You mentioned a business coach would be a good place to start. Could you refer one or two business coaches you've come across? Thank you again, Sheila Griffin
I love our channel. I agree that Russia is weird. Mother and stepfather ended up there as he became ill on a cruise. She a retired nurse he a CPA, wealthy and arrogant. Based upon his attitude they could have let him die. (per her) He was taken care of and sent back to the US. Not a fan just wanted to mention this. They were treated with a lot of respect so I was told. They even made comments about them being black Americans and wanted to treat them well. Who knew. Thanks for your content.
Hi Stephanie, love your videos. Regarding the UK, yes; higher education in the UK is not free just discounted for UK nationals. Regarding Brittany Griner’s boycott of Indiana it seems ironic since she elected to play for a Russian team in light of the country having anti-LGTQ laws and mentality. Don’t understand her rationale on that topic; however, wish her well
Yes, I don’t understand why any WNBA player would hoop there. Knowing Russia’s views on LGBT. There’s a reason why those citizens leave and reside in the UK or US.
Every single point is excellent. I’m an expat and have studied abroad many times over. The only caveat I would say is that quite a few black countries do not have all qualities listed. But for many of us, living in a majority Black Country is a priority and perhaps if we, like myself, are political animals, then it is part of our life’s work to join up with locals to further causes which would implement some of these qualities in black countries which don’t yet have them.
About Living In Portugal, I Can Only Speak Re My Own Personal Experiences. Had Been Visiting Since My Childhood & Only Stayed In 5* Hotels Where My Family & I Are Well Known, So Great Exclusive Properties & Excellent Service & Care. 10 Years Ago I Moved Here (Originally 6/6) And Only Rent Elegant, Expensive Properties Through Very Professional Agents. I’m Not In Expat Community As I Wanted To Embed Myself Within Portuguese Communities, Culture & People. In My Daily Life I’ve Never Experienced Anything Other Than Kindness, Professionalism, Great Service & Loving Friendships. “GO WHERE YOU’RE TREATED BEST” Is My Philosophy & I’m Very Happy, Fulfilled & Thriving Here In Portugal. This Is MY Story.🌹
This is fantastic...because there are a lot of under-surface (what escapes the tourist eyes) things to take into account prior to moving abroad. Thank you.
I hope Brittany Griner returns home soon and safely. And I pray for peace and comfort for her and for her family and friends until that time. This video is NOT to blame Brittany for the current situation. This video is to add some important criteria to choosing your move abroad destination / second home.
I really do pray she will be okay.
I’m praying for Brittany 🙏🏽
@@ladydylana americans are not loved in some country black or white
@Stephanie Perry : We as The Afrikan Diaspora, The Modern-day Descendants of The Ancient Children of Yisrael do not need to move from Modern-day "BABYLON " United Snakes 🐍🐍🐍of Amerikkka, we need not move from one Racist Western Nation to another Racist Western Nation. Well those are just my thoughts, we need to return to our own land The Motherland a Mansion filled full of many different beautiful rooms (Countries) pick one for yourself and move to Afrika like I said just my thoughts. Shalom, Salaam Daughter of Zion, my Hebrew Yisraelite Sista of Yisrael. 💋💖💞🥰🕎😍💘💕👄
Amen and Ase'
I think that the human rights record (child poverty, femicides, drug&human trafficking... ) of countries should also be looked at too, Stephanie. I'm glad you start considering these factors before choosing a country to live in.
Yes Ethaa! Very good point!
Where’s Jesse Jackson Al Sharpton
@Marna Squires
We won't Jesse or AL or our black leaders because they are the sell outs. They just talk. Our faith prayers and good works must be to The Most High God Yahawah and Yahawashi for our protection.
My concern is that, I believe our black daughters should not only stay out of Russia, but Poland and that entire area.
All of Eastern Europe - someone should have told Brittney Griner that. I guess she missed the lecture.
@@shirmelduggins9984 brazil would be better ladies.
go somewhere you fit in. brazil is a good choice. lots of crime in brazil. but its an easy assimilation point.
@@shirmelduggins9984YYYYEEESSS!!!!!! Anything East of Germany is a no-go for me, unless it's for a short visit.
Don’t forget about Dubai!!
I would add:
1. Laws and safety for lgbtqa! Russia has laws banning gay marriage. Some countries you arent free to hold hands etc
2. Drug and alcohol laws! Some people love cannabis or cbd. Its banned in several nations. Some places certain tabaccos are illegal. Drinking laws can be strict too!
3. Proximity to NATO or Us Friendly country: if it hits the fan how far are you from a nation friendly to the u.s.?
4. Crime: people have been locked up for a small fight or argument not knowing the criminal system.
5. Diversity: this is huge for a lot of people. You can look up the demographics.
6. How are the children treated: i am not living in a country where TRAFFICKING, child labor, no orphanages are the norm. NOPE!
7. Societal norms for women: this is huge in orthodox or muslim nations. Dress codes, living arrangements etc may be an issue for individuals or couples. What rights do women not have there?
I am not well travelled but i am well versed in geopolitics and laws abroad and history in relation to black folks!
Oh very good additions. Thank you.
I like the way you think.
Great comment!
Number 6, that is describing the USA.
Not every country opted for Sodom and Gomorrah. Choose yours..
Great video. I didn't think about this subject when I moved to Portugal, I was happy to see that in Portugal freedom of expression scored very higher even higher than in the United States, Canada, and the UK. Also as a resident now I have access to their National Health Insurance (totally free). So far I'm treated very kindly here, and I'm trying hard to not let my biases of how black- Americans are treated in the US. Expecting that same treatment here in Portugal. So far, I've not had similar experiences here, but I do realize that racism is everywhere.
Yea that good because Portugal and Spain started the Atlantic slave trade to the Americas Caribbean. The Spanish Inquisition was all about Spain and Portugal exporting all blacks from the countries. These blacks go back 700 years as the former rulership and academics, business leaders, Drs.
The Portuguese are racist they were the very first Europeans to enslave and colonise Africans in the 1400s.
Portugal is interesting because I’ve heard of black women having amazing times and others not so much. That’s with all places, but I’ve noticed Portugal is particularly 50/50
Nothing great about this video. It's full of niavity and selfishness. Consider the thousands that have sacrificed their lives so that yours could be better. America is your country, stay put and fight to improve it for yourself and others.
@@malvernwarmington4942 you can’t control other peoples lives. You should focus on yourself.
So with you on this Stephanie! In making my Eat, Pray, Love list… I am very clear about leaving the US to go somewhere that’s NOT the same as here. That’s the reason I reject that theory “no place is perfect” Sure there are no perfect countries, but there are countries whose soul existence does not rest on all the “isms” of humanity. My list includes1) low cost of living 2) high quality of living 3) clean air/water 4) quality healthcare/ 5) high vibing folk 6) sound infrastructure 7) beaches 8) men who think ALL women are beautiful. 🤷🏽♀️
That’s a good solid list- especially items 6 & 8👍🏽
So what countries have you come with?
I like your Vibe... this is my list as well.
bruh. you need to get rid of the "grass is greener on the other side" attitude. I've lived in both Europe and US and think a lot of your expectations are over the top. of course I'm assuming your middle class (and maybe person of color).
None. There’s no country that can achieve everything on this list unfortunately…
Giiiirrrrllll, yes - you’ve addressed this - best and worst countries. Spain - no thank you, Montenegro, no thank you, China, no thank you, Buenos Aires, no thank you -- all of this i got from you and the CDMX crew (except Montenegro and Spain - I felt that for my self - y’all just confirmed)
I haven't been there yet, but everything I've read and researched about Spain says it is still much better for Black women, and for those from the USA, a good experience -that US passport privilege Stephanie speaks of. Notably, it has consistently been researched and proven as one of the safest places for women to walk alone at night.
I did not like Buenos Aires...
You’ve talked about it and it was good info when you talked about places you did not like, ie China
@@michellejackson1319 please tell my why or what happened??? I am considering traveling there??
@@dmarie44 Before I answer, I will say that I believe everyone should have their own experience in a place. I really didn't care for the people or the mood of the country. AND I kept being mistaking for a Brazilian prostitute (yes, this was what was said) How that worked when I was covered up the entire time....I'm not sure LOL! I also was alarmed by all of the swastikas graffitied everywhere. The economy was still really bad when I visited so I do think that part of the issue was that I was American, Black and seemed to have more money than the people I was encountering. I did enjoy the Spanish language program that I studied with (a short-term program and I don't remember the name now) I would return to Argentina but I would go to smaller towns
Stephanie you are always so responsible with your platform so thx for this. I’m afraid for Brittney and asking the universe and the ancestors for protection over this sister. Ladies do your research before you go to any country. For now I will stick with North America, The Caribbean and South America in my travels.
Yes, protection for Brittney. 💗
But not Buenos Aires!!!
@@gabriellew.1164 interested in your thoughts of Buenos Aires. I have no plans to go, just curious.
@@GlitterHippie2 Only because it's on Stephanie, the blogger's list for Black women! I have not been either, but it was on my "to go" list. I'm reconsidering tho.
@@gabriellew.1164 I love Buenos Aires and im Brazilian. I don’t understand.🧐
Back in 2000 when I was in my 20s I decided to visit Ghana, West Africa which I notice I was treated a lot better then here in Canada but is no straight flight to Africa so stop of in Europe to go to Africa. I notice when I at Amsterdam Airport I and next person who is African been mistreated by Dutch authorities. Hearing what happened in Ukraine with African students show me things do not change that much.
Many American women who have left USA have recently returned. Life is so damn hard abroad. Different mentality. Different culture and not all countries make it easier for women.
Have u ever checked out Dominican Republic. I liked travelling there...thinking about moving there. Do u know if they have freedom of speech or Expression?
The Dominican Republic as a Black person? Are you sure?...They are known to have some 'issues', let us say.
@@leevellpeoples6723 My husband’s brother just moved back to the US from the DR. He said it’s too dangerous to live there now. After living in the DR for 8 years. I think that you should reconsider dear.
@@lindywinthrop8260 But why shouldn't matter as a black person? They're virtually all black.
@@jays-move8803 I’m also curious about this thread. I hear the DR is relatively safe and we could blend in easily.
Im glad you finally have dedicated a video to this topic. I’m currently working/living in the south of Spain in a small Pueblo and as soon as the school year is over I’m OUT!!!!
Heard Spain 🇪🇸 is racist.
I’ve heard some troubling things about Spain for black woman. What has been your experience.
Hey @tiffany edmonds ! What is it about Spain that's making you ready to leave?
@@StephaniePerry wow 😮 overall the gaslighting and passive aggressiveness…and the people who SEE wrong but don’t correct it. I will preface my overall beef with the country with saying I have met people who have cared for me like my momma. There has been some real love. But that has been the rarity - the one off… you know how you’re having a bad day and God just sends you little kisses… ummm yeah. Upon arrival, I was struggling with treatment from cashiers ( people throwing my change at me) co-workers -etc. I spoke with my director about the difficulties and he said I quote “well, it’s your fault people are racist, your Spanish is bad. “😒it was downhill from there. I’ve had some great experiences in Madrid, although many sisters there have had many of my same complaints. Going to Madrid makes one grateful just to see another black person. I think black people need to think and really contemplate whether or not they are ok with not actually seeing much less speaking to another black person. I have a white American friend here ( and lo-key she made the best stuffing I have EVER had for thanksgiving this year) but it’s not the same…so yeah, the fetishization the racism the looking the other way and the whole straight hating on an educated black woman( finishing up masters and on to my doctorate currently) and the expectation of me looking the other way when they are hateful to the Africans here. Being and American excludes me from the utter virulent hatred of Africans but my fellow professors are annoyed when I call them out on how they treat them. So - ummmm - yeah - Im out!
@@MoInTheCity03 Oh - God…please see below!😂😂😂 it’s such a beautiful country. I will say honestly that I think it’s 60/40 or 70/30. Maybe we can start a dialogue here. The lesser numbers are those that are actively racist hurtful and want to cause issues. The larger numbers are those that are not. But are they if they don’t correct their fellow citizens? Rural areas in Spain are just a bad idea for POC.
Unfortunately Griner may have been targeted because she's American, female, Black and gay. It seems unlikely that she would be carrying prohibited items in her luggage... she's lived in Russia for quite a while and would have been well aware of the risks particularly as Russia wages war against Ukraine. Edit: The right wing in the US is dealing with a large number of people who essentially want to turn their personal political and religious beliefs into law for everyone. Also the GOP has been underfunding city and rural schools for decades while making sure their own children's schools are incredibly well funded. Part of that is an attempt to make sure their children come out ahead.
Sadly what probably happened was they let it slide to set her up. They like to allow dignitaries to do things and either blackmail or use the material for their nefarious purposes.
She has been playing in Russia for YEARS. I think it’s terrible timing and her simply being a high profile American.
It was deliberate. They will use her as bait to get Biden to lift sanctions which is hurting the oligarchs of Russia. It's a setup.
Because obviously, their children can't compete with others, just like their parents can't. If everything isn't rigged in their favor they will be second rate at best.
That;s the problem. Please stop declaring what you think someone will or won't do. It's illogical, particularly because you do not know this person personally.
That's why I'm looking to go to Iceland. Visited in February and felt completely comfortable, welcomed and safe. I fell in love!
Don't you fear the cold? 😱😱👀👀😫😫
@@breatheu 😂😂😂😂 nah its definitely cold but if you prepare its not as bad as you think! I was born in California and live in Texas so all I know is warm weather. The first day I SUFFERED but I acclimated quickly and was relatively comfortable. But my gloves were essential constantly so I'm not quite a local yet! Lol
We have to be intentional about where we go. PERIOD!!!
Seasoned woman here. What I see a lot of? Is no one thinks anymore. I mean.... they are afraid of it. Instead of actually rationalizing and risk being different. They just blindly go along with the flow. The grass is not always greener. People need to think, to ponder, ask questions? Look before you leap. Feel free to weigh your options. Here's another old saying to consider. "Fools rush in, where angels fear to tread".
Sadly in the US, when the pandemic hit, we saw kids having to get on wifi busses or got to libraries. A lot of inner city and rural kids had to be given laptops and signed up for "cheap" internet. Along those lines, the cost of cable and internet is so blatantly more expensive in cities as opposed to the burbs. It's a darn shame.
Find out if your locality have a discount for households with school age children. Here it's 60 per month but my sister with a minor pays 19 per month .
Voting and non voting have consequences
@@shirmelduggins9984 I've missed 1election in over 30 decades. I've never received a benefit to voting. Every single politician is the exact same.
Living in a country with no military can be risky. If another country decides to invade, who defends the country? With no military defense it's up to the citizens to fight and secure their country.
I live in Costa Rica we are not in risk of invasion because we are small and we don't have gas or gold as resources. We have different agreements with other countries and international organizations in case of an invasion ( we have a situation with Nicaragua some time ago and we did not need a military to solve it). And the military forces of our neighbors are not that strong, so I never feared something like that
There are so many American expat that the United States won't allow their citizens to be harmed. CR and US have a security agreement. Therefore, CR doesn't need to have a military.
Thank you for your honesty and acknowledgment of things we take for granted here in USA
You're welcome Rosalyn. Thank you for watching. 💗
Fortunate to go to the wrong airport for my resort and have to drive across the country of Costa Rica! Highly advanced and internet through out! It’s beautiful and the people are welcoming
You rock girl!! I’m completely supportive of you. USA is so racist it is disgusting. As a white woman I do what I can to open my eyes and be kind to all as well as call out racism as I encounter it.
You refer to her as “girl” but, refer to self as “a woman”? Lol! Open your eyes to the fact that she is a WOMAN - just like you. Most of y’all don’t know that you’re dehumanizing and “superior” but your words sure show it…
As a white woman, what attracted you to this video that’s referencing black women specifically. I’m curious.
@@analalove419 : Maybe she's looking for approval . You know just like the White feminist did in the mid-late 60's. Always keeping a foot in the door with false pretense. Wolf in sheep clothing. Beware.
@@sandrabrown3387 "superior mentality" nothing about them is superior.
@@once_upon_a_canopy_tree for what?
This is right on time for me. I was heading to Portugal this spring to do a scouting trip because I want to leave the US possibly permanently. But then this mess with Russia erupted and all I see is European sponsored evil. The same type of evil that I’m suffering in America. I’m a veteran. I served this country working in special operations in Europe in the late 90’s. What’s going on over there and here is very triggering to me. I changed my flight to go to Mexico inspired by you and some Dani Ellison videos. I’ve never been to South America. Just here and Europe. I’ll be there this spring. Hoping to feel what freedom feels like for an American black woman finally. Thank you for these videos. Now I’m also thinking about Costa Rica and other places. My mind is more open and aware.
I'm a black person from Europe. It's not like that everywhere. I wish I had time to explain. Also as a black woman here, I'd like to exchange mails about lifestyles here in Europe with other females overseas, just so we can learn from one another . Ladies, over the past 2 years things has change dramatically
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@Tweetys Life...changed dramatically how?
@@tweetyslife253 would for you to describe the changes
@@lindywinthrop8260 in everyway things change. before i explain, id like to say to black american women that, when you travelled around europe, especially my country, talk with the people, talk with other black ladies. the language might be a barrier if the ladies are over 40, but youll learn so much just by a willing communication. now here i go, black american women dont really travelled alot here or even in the caribbean. ive worked in hotels and palacesin the past and the only black american women ive ever met are celebrities , three of the biggest name we knew. things has change especially since the corona, people are less opened up to others especially strangers.
Thank you for this. I have always said, to move where there is no -to-limited racial battle fatigue. We are tired, no need to relocate where we will not be treated as the beautiful people we are.
Great topic. Thank you for it! And I have read that russia is a bad place for black people to travel. I learned this while researching places to visit abroad when I started 25 years ago!
I was saying this to you before when I asked about human rights records of a foreign country. I am a gay woman, racism, homophobia or any kind of discrimination can be much more dangerous than it would be for me at home where I know people, have family and friends.
Definitely do not travel in Middle East Their religion run those countries They do not play about stepping outside of Gods rules publicly
What about culture? My wife is African American and she found Costa Rica boring. But, She LOVED Colombia. (She speaks some Spanish).
Good point! Another reason it's important to see places for yourself. I don't mind boring, because I don't do things. 😆
Yeah I can't be in a boring spot. NOLA and Miami is all I need lol
There are levels of mistreatment. You have to choose the lesser of the evils and decide which is worse to you and why.
point taken.
@Stephanie Perry this topic deserves a whole new RUclips channel. I can only imagine what is learned when one digs into the rights, freedoms and liberties of a country and how they impact on Black expats.
Stephanie your skin is glowing ✨ Beautiful! Thank you for your content!
Lady, you look more glowy every time you come on. You definitely look rested, hydrated, healthy and happy 🥰
Thanks for this very necessary video. At this point in time I just assume every government has the ability to track their citizens by cell phone when they want to, even if they claim not to. I was a juror on a murder trial a few years back and baybeee... all of us can be tracked by phone and by camera.
Thank you for sharing this information, Stephanie! I am an expat in an Asian country, and I’ve only been here one year because of what you’re sharing. I need to explore a country where I can thrive, and I can’t thrive here. I am returning to the states this year because even though America is extremely flawed, I know that I can still be my full self.
Stephanie i like your style lady. You spit facts uncover injustices,,and uplift Spiritually. Thanks for all u do.
Thank You for sharing your experience.
Is it a city in China? I used to be obsessed but it turns out it's hella racist
Hi, do you mind sharing which country?
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From a young age, I always knew if I had been born dark skinned, I would not have remained in the USA. It’s great that you found better options and are helping others to see that they too have better options.
I know your branding targets dark skinned women, but dark skinned men also need this kind of information and more importantly, your kind of inspiration.
Your channel is important in letting people know that there are better countries to live in than the USA.
While living overseas for 4 years, I was constantly told by people there that their dream was to live in the US. I laughed at their naivety and did my best to correct their delusional misconceptions.
If I were dark skinned, my number one priority for choosing a new country to move to and live in would be racial equality, and not equality because it was legislated and enforced, but because it naturally exists there.
I can’t begin to imagine what it is like to be dark skinned, but I do know as a gay man, some people are treated differently in different places based on appearances, etc. Not wanting to be in highly racist or anti gay community, I always gravitated to living in cities with multi-ethnicities and protections like NYC.
Now, I enjoy living overseas. I’m back in the USA temporarily, taking care of stuff, but am planning to move overseas again in about six months.
I was delighted to discover your channel, even though I am not your targeted audience. You’re a breath of fresh air. Keep up the great work.
I wish you much success.
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I’m glad you addressed this topic. Sometimes it seems like travelers idealize every country outside of the U.S.
I personally feel like I have a great life here but I still like to learn about travel and lifestyle freedom for black women.
This was always at the top of my list. This is because I know I will be black everywhere I go. I thought about free education but not the implications on how it is treating its people. I wanted good cheap education but didn't think about how that is a form of respect for its people.
Please! PLEASE!! Provide more videos on this topic!!!! Not knowing if a country is safe to live in is by far my number one concern for moving abroad. I feel like I can research but it's nothing like getting a first hand perspective by people who have actual experience.
Excellent address of the “elephant in the room”. These are things that I’ve been taking into consideration when looking at other countries, but I had not thought about the education piece; great info for sure! The reason you listed for Turkey is exactly why I’m no longer looking at them. I’ve also been reviewing local unrest info when it comes to injustices experienced by other black people abroad; primarily our African brothers and sisters because their experiences will mirror ours since you can’t tell by looking at us if we are American or from an African nation. These stories are very concerning and are a major reason why I’ve removed Germany from my list as well. I’m focused on Portugal right now because of prior visits and the positive reviews from other black expats; but have found that Portugal is not without its share of injustices to black people when it comes to dealings with the police. My other requirement is to find a place that is not too close in proximity to areas that experience unrest and/or war or are in an area that has the potential (I’m very risk adverse when it comes to things like this); another reason why Turkey is off my list. This means keeping my ear to the ground on worldwide news as well, this preparing to live abroad thing is a lot of work for sure. So, again, many thanks for those of us who are on the hunt for that “just right spot”.
This video is incredibly informative. I love your energy, style, the topics - EVERYTHING! I'm so glad I discovered your channel. I'm in my second half now life now single, no children and am miserable here. I'm really considering moving abroad. My friend lived in Costa Rica with her husband for about 3 yrs and loved it. A deciding factor for me is definitely direct flights back to the U.S. , in case of emergency.
Go to Costa Rica first, ask the black people there what is life like for them there. There used to be a lot of black people living in Limon, on the Atlantic part of Costa Rica. Most black now live in the US. Ask them why everybody has moved to the US.
I too just discovered this channel and love it! Plus I lived the expat life, on and off, for the last 5 years (as a single and child-free woman). Definitely go abroad, so many opportunities (I co-founded a business to help expat and aspiring expat women ), theres so much more to life outside the US
@@chocon8818 Pls share, if you know!
I've been to CR several times and it's lovely, and had a history of fighting off the confederacy, but white expats dominate and it's now very expensive among the central American countries.
@@NicoleJButler Ms. Butler I just shared with my comment. In no way I want to discourage you in finding that perfect place to live. Unfortunately there is no such place. The eternal yearning of the human spirit to find the best place to live is what make them cross mountains, rivers and oceans. I am worried though by the fatalistic view by so many black Americans that the US is the worst place on the planet for them. We have black people from all over the world that have moved to the US and are enjoying all the fruits of the fights and struggles of the Black Americans. As for me I prefer to be grounded in the South of the US. This is where most black people live, land is cheap and beautiful and most of the HBCU's are located. I feel safer here than other whiter parts of the country. Booker T Washington in his "Atlanta Speach" had urged black people to "cast their buckets where they are in the South", instead of going North. Instead of been slowly killed in the streets of Minnesota, it is better to reverse the great migration and moved back down here. Ask Tyler Perry who live in Atlanta or Morgan Freeman who always try to run back to Mississippi how good life is down here.
I almost accepted an international teaching job in China. My gut kept telling me that was not the move 💯. Luckily, a Middle Eastern country offered me a position.
I’ll say this: if one feels uncomfortable about any situation it’s highly likely that that’s not the move you should make. If you find yourself continuing to ask or inquire about a country’s treatment of blacks, you might want to go the other way. Now, I’m not saying all of China is bad and I know some who have great experiences there. I do plan to visit and vacation there in the future. Shoot, I may even change my mind and work there. But for now, after the things I heard, I knew it was best to seek opportunities elsewhere.
@Terri M - I lived and worked in Southeast Asia and the Arabian Gulf for almost 20 years. I would NOT ever accept any job in China! You dodged a bullet.
@@wiseonwords Yeah.....I heard so many horror stories. Out of 20, only 3 have been positive. I can't take the chance of being a part of the three lucky stories.
Yes a former friend went there and she said how bad the air quality was all the fake merchandise and all the fake crystals she bought back! She went with a person who likes to buy fake stuff and it made me see her differently cause she tagged along about all these fake crystals.
I live in East Asia now. I'm moving to South East Asia in a few months for another opportunity. Being here is good to save money, grow your career or study because it allows you to focus without too many distractions. But outside of these it can be challenging if you don't have a goal in mind.
Juring the Covid, China was kicking Black People out into the street from their homes. Some places like restaurants, night life, etc wouldn't let Blacks in and some hotels wouldn't let foreigners in altogether. However, Blacks are not being murdered by Police Officers on a regular basis in China. All in all, I'd rather live in China than ever set my foot in the United States ever again. May God Bless Black America
The difference between China and the US is that at least in this day and age you wouldn't be prevented from entering any public place just for being Black. But it's not because America is not racist, It's rather because laws made in the name of Political Correctness compels Americans to not prevent Blacks from entering public and private establishments. However, worse than racism is what Blacks endure in the the United States of America primarily in the hands of White Policemen, which is MURDER under the guise of self defense, fear and mistake motivated by race
Hello Miss Perry, I have just finished enjoying your video on Black women traveling &
living abroad. It was very informative. Thank you, not just for the education but for the chance to meet a young Black intelligent African American woman who is well traveled with the means and the desire to share her knowledge and unique perspective with her sisters. As an African American woman of a certain age, I have never felt comfortable in these United States. You have helped consider other places to live and travel. It's been a pleasure to meet you. BK
Welcome, Barbara! 💗
The categories you mentioned in this video have always been on my list of considerations in terms of travel and repatriation. I also have on my list how ADA friendly a city is in terms of mobility. This is a category I would love to see more RUclipsrs discuss when they are evaluating a city or country. Thanks, For sharing your thoughts on these topics.
Hey Stephanie...Awesome video..
It was number one on my list.. I have watched countless videos researching different areas, watching black women's videos to hear their experiences.. That's how I found you because I wanted to be safe and treated human.
Number two, the country had to be affordable for my budget.
I don’t mind traveling to other places but staying hell no I will take my chances here in America. When I do travel from the states it will be placed where other black people are. I don’t like going places and getting looked at crazy because the color of my skin.
I want more for Black women than to "take their chances." I want to THRIVE. 💗
I have no idea how this got into my recommendations but thank you god. Such an insightful video for those of us that need better clarity on making travel decisions! 🔥🔥
This video is so necessary. I’ve lived abroad for over 15 years and traveled all over the world.
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You are so real ... There is no need to reinvent the wheel when trusted resources with cross references are available for general things.... Lol very well spoken. I am going to have to check your company out. Some people will take your knowledge out of context....but I am very impressed and excited to learn more. I want to travel but stay places like a month at a time. Not as an expat but simply as a human.
God bless you for keeping it 100 real
Great video like always
We have to be aware of bad, ugly and good
That's right!
First off, Thank You!!! My family moved from Panama so I was raised here in the US. I have been seriously considering going back to live. I wanted to go to law school but didn't know if it was possible. Thank you for putting the information out there. I have started looking into retiring from my current job and moving there, going to school there and living out my dreams. Keep up this work it is great and much need.
You look Beautiful and inspiring...REFRESHED
Appreciate your information on various countries. I am considering taking a hiatus from the US for about six months by the end of 2022. Your channel is helpful since I am the founder of a very diverse group on LinkedIn (Women Entrepreneurs Worldwide) and even though prior to COVID I traveled extensively, your information is very helpful. Portugal was suggested to me as a possibility. Thank you.
Portugal is a good place for a hiatus / sabbatical. I hope you enjoy it! 💗 And than YOU for watching.
This subject matter is timely especially as more and more of us want to exit, definitely conversations to be had and realities to be considered. Thank you.
Thank you for addressing this topic. Great video.. Can you please do a part 2
I'll see if I can find someone to do a livestream with me about it. 💗
@@StephaniePerry Thank you. Greatly appreciated ❤
Thank you, I have heard so many black men and black women think racism is an American product, and have bought into this idea of Europe being this race-neutral utopia.
Yes and this can’t be further from the truth.
I would tell you all something, but you would think I'm crazy. Let me just say that nowhere is safe for us as so called "black people" because it's spiritual and we haven't repented as a whole for something our ancestors did and we are still doing, I'll just leave it at that. 🤷🏾♀️ Deuteronomy 28.....
@@tiffanyyisrael7989 So why bring a biblical discussion to this page then speak in vagaries? Could it be that if you took your argument to a biblical page and spoke bluntly that you would lose the argument? Also, is there a one drop rule to curses, because there are people with African ancestry that blend into other communities and do just fine, and great sins against God and man have been committed by white people, yet they rule the international economies.
@@j.baldwin3012 yeah i dont buy that either, what great sins have we committed in our lifetimes. none so severe to deserve the treatment of the u.s. listen ive met very fine afro-brazilian, afro-colombian, and african ladies. they are all beautiful and pleasent to be around. i always said black ppl should be communicating throughout the diaspora. speak to articulate handsome and beautiful black men and black women worldwide.
Europe does a good job of pretending they were never wicked to other countries & people, similar to Japan
15:33 YES YES YES ... I refuse to live long-term in a religious country ... especially as an atheist ... I don't need anyone's religion coded into law. That's partly why the US is so messed up.
When I travel I read up on country (s) for the do and don’t. I been to Turkey ( loved it) Russia ( hated it) etc. When in Rome Do as the Romans do. I never talk politics and never expect the same other country to operate as America. That being said you brought up some good points dealing moving to other countries vs just being a African America travelers.
Turkey… tracking definitely NO!
Thanks for this video and your point of view.. very good points.
Hi Stephanie I just discovered you a few weeks ago and really enjoy your show. It keeps me engaged and thinking. You surround yourself with lots of strong, intelligent Black women, it's great to watch and feel a part of your club.
So glad you're here Maria! Welcome. 💗
So decided to make a list based off Stephanie's and the other comments - thank you for your contribution....- Please addddd to this list..lets divide and conquer and not recreate the wheel.
Things to consider before exiting from USA: 1st register with the US Embassy "I spent a year in a country that experienced some unexpected political unrest. Embassy staff checked on us every day and advised us on safety procedures"
1) low cost of living
2) high quality of living
3) clean air/water
4) universal healthcare, even for non residents
5) sense of belonging, where I can thrive
6) sound infrastructure
7) men who think ALL women are beautiful.
8) importance they put on educating their people..is it free or low cost to attend college
9) Freedom of speech..what are the limits
10) Access to high speed internet (low cost)
11) renewable energy, taking advantage of water, wind and solar
12) limited police corruption
13) not known for human trafficking
14) child poverty
15) discrimination-how are the marginalized treated
16) secular country, can I maintain full autonomy
17) eligibility to buy or lease land
18) cost of return to US
19) ease of financial transactions
20) climate change impact - heat will kill ppl and plants
21) Direct flights to USA, affordability
The only thing we need to remember is we have no permanent friends or enemies.
I love your channel. Your candor and transparency are so refreshing.
Thank you for pointing out this topic. Not only is this info for AA women but also for us AAmen! I'm quickly looking at this lifestyle for my retirement. I also hope that Brittany Griner get released soon>
Lord yes. Iam a big proponent of having some kind International Green Book. Anti Blackness is global but shared resources for Black women can mitigate the pain, expense and humiliation of dealing with racism and antiBlackness. Thus there is a reason I would never set foot in large swathes of Asia like China, all of Eastern Europe, Russia, and huge chunks of Western Europe. Nope. No way.
Agreed that there should be an international greenbook of sorts made with Black women in mind.
@@stepahead5944 Exactly right.
I don’t understand why so many BP break their neck to go to China! A lot of them go to teach as if that’s the only option.
What's your reasoning for Russia? I had been looking into going there for possibly studying.
@@Joyful_Smiles very racist. If you get attacked you won t necessarily get justice...i remember 15 years ago an african man who was visiting russia as a tourist got shot by a Russian soldier for no reason other than he was black and i believe nothing was done...Not really different from Ukraine
Thank you for this awesome info I'm struggling with my leave,how to work and being in a place of peace this was very informative
I love what you said about secular governments. LGBT research has shown a direct correlation to misogyny and homophobia. If a country has issues with LGBT peoplw, the will more than likely mistreat women as well.
The Caribbean agrees with you
Doesn't it though!! ✨ ✨
14:43 really hits hard given that Roe. v Wade got overturned about a month ago. I was super surprised when I saw that you uploaded this 5 MONTHS ago! It might not've been intentional, but you really called it!
Oooooooooooooh Myyyyyyyy Goooooodness!💞. Soooooo Happy to Be a Part of this "Video link". Thanks Stephanie 😊 🙏 😀 🤲🙌👏. For all You Do to just keep Us/We/Me informed as You receive Your "Downloads"! 😊 💖. You're such a "Gift"! Much Respect!🤲🙌🙏👏🥰😇. P.S. Can You please possibly do a "Vid" on "Eye Laser Surgery". Thinking 🤔 about it. I'm a Senior Up in this 🤪 Piece/Peace!😃😁🤗. And still "State Side". Thank 😊 You!
In South Africa you will forever remain a beautiful Black empress.
Thank you for your videos. They are very much appreciated. I love your hair and skin! Have you ever considered doing a video on what makes them so nice? Would you mind sharing your beauty and diet regimen? Please and thank you. 🥰
What are your thoughts on registering with the US Embassy (if there is one) when visiting or living abroad? I’ve started doing this a couple of years ago when traveling abroad. They provide updates on political unrest and notices. I also keep in contact with family members back in the states while traveling. I would never want to find myself in a war zone without outside access. I’ve been scouting potential countries to live post retirement within the next 3 years, if not full time then at least 6 months out of the year.
As long as you are paying taxes while living abroad, you should at least get some benefit. Register with the embassy. I spent a year in a country that experienced some unexpected political unrest. Embassy staff checked on us every day and advised us on safety procedures. I find it best not to disclose my nationality. There is a lot of anti American sentiment abroad. I am respectful and speak the local language so folks are surprised to learn that I am from the US. Americans don’t have the best reputation abroad. Bonne chance.
I started doing that too. 🎈👍🏾
I never thought of that. Thanks for the info!
Steph, this was very educational! Thanks so much for this info! You hit it right on the head! More videos like this would b extremely useful!
Stephanie, I’m glad that you’re focusing on this subject. So many factors have to be considered, especially when moving abroad. I love this video content.
I moved to Queretaro, Mexico on 11-2-2021, and I love it!
An incredibly helpful yet truly disturbing topic. Thank you for handling it with such grace and sensitivity as always. I would appreciate digging deeper into places to avoid based on the criteria you’ve covered.
Very good topic and great delivery… I tried to talk about this several years ago on ( your GF’s channel; Mexico 🇲🇽: their topic was dating abroad) when I noticed a number of AA women vlogging… Ive spent a number of years traveling in Mexico on business and saw numerous articles and billboards about femicide... So I mentioned the topic…😅 The sister handed me my head on a plater..she said to the other woman on the site… “ ignore him the game will be on in 40 minutes!” lol😅...
watching so many different people and opinions I really feel paralyzed that there is nowhere I can go as a black woman except Mexico, Panama and Ghana, and honestly I have no desire to go to any of those countries. One black travel channel says Montenegro is awesome for black people, then someone else says "worst experience of their life", one persons say Italy was life changing...and another person says, Italy was...life changing. I'm confused and heart broken, and the saying "you have to try it for yourself," doesn't help. Obviously that's why people are here to see whatsup before they go. Sigh, it's just so sad. I love being black, I wouldn't change it for anything, but sadly, it be nice to be invisible for a while and just be in peace while venturing the world.
You are not alone
If there is a place that you are interested in, try group travel. You get the solo travel experience, but the safety of a group.
I've lived in Central America, it's not the safest for women. Costa Rica not excluded. Be safe y'all
Hi Stephanie, thank you for giving me back my sense of worth. I feel so diminished as an African American woman. Even though I'm not in a position to leave right now, your channel gives me such a sense of worth we don't get in our day to day living. I never imagined I'd feel the way I do now about this country. At time it seems there's no hope - but you give small doses of hope and that makes such a difference. Thank you!
I have a question regarding the feature you did on starting your own business. You mentioned a business coach would be a good place to start. Could you refer one or two business coaches you've come across? Thank you again, Sheila Griffin
Loving this. So educational and encouraging. I am not going to spend all my days here being mistreated, scorned, disrespected.
I love our channel. I agree that Russia is weird. Mother and stepfather ended up there as he became ill on a cruise. She a retired nurse he a CPA, wealthy and arrogant. Based upon his attitude they could have let him die. (per her) He was taken care of and sent back to the US. Not a fan just wanted to mention this. They were treated with a lot of respect so I was told. They even made comments about them being black Americans and wanted to treat them well. Who knew. Thanks for your content.
Hi Stephanie, love your videos. Regarding the UK, yes; higher education in the UK is not free just discounted for UK nationals. Regarding Brittany Griner’s boycott of Indiana it seems ironic since she elected to play for a Russian team in light of the country having anti-LGTQ laws and mentality. Don’t understand her rationale on that topic; however, wish her well
Yes, I don’t understand why any WNBA player would hoop there. Knowing Russia’s views on LGBT.
There’s a reason why those citizens leave and reside in the UK or US.
Yes, tertiary tuition is approximately £9,200 in the UK...for all public universities.
Every single point is excellent. I’m an expat and have studied abroad many times over. The only caveat I would say is that quite a few black countries do not have all qualities listed. But for many of us, living in a majority Black Country is a priority and perhaps if we, like myself, are political animals, then it is part of our life’s work to join up with locals to further causes which would implement some of these qualities in black countries which don’t yet have them.
How did I miss the LIVE? Didn’t get the notification 🤔. Stephanie I am considering visiting Costa Rica 🇨🇷 in April now. Thank you 🙏🏾
It wasn't live. You didn't miss it. I just uploaded this video a few minutes ago. 💗
Great video, Stephenie! You are on a roll and I'm loving this glow you've been serving up!
About Living In Portugal, I Can Only Speak Re My Own Personal Experiences. Had Been Visiting Since My Childhood & Only Stayed In 5* Hotels Where My Family & I Are Well Known, So Great Exclusive Properties & Excellent Service & Care. 10 Years Ago I Moved Here (Originally 6/6) And Only Rent Elegant, Expensive Properties Through Very Professional Agents. I’m Not In Expat Community As I Wanted To Embed Myself Within Portuguese Communities, Culture & People. In My Daily Life I’ve Never Experienced Anything Other Than Kindness, Professionalism, Great Service & Loving Friendships. “GO WHERE YOU’RE TREATED BEST” Is My Philosophy & I’m Very Happy, Fulfilled & Thriving Here In Portugal. This Is MY Story.🌹
Excellent video, Stephanie. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on this important subject. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
That one was over way to soon...working from home and educating myself with your channel today...Looking into Costa Rica
This was so informative (and also timely for me)! The way you present information is clear and engaging. Thank you so much! New subscriber!🙌🏽
Welcome! 💗
Thankful for this video Stephanie. Great considerations. Costa Rica is has definitely risen on my list.
I'm glad to hear it Alfreda! 💗 🇨🇷
Appreciate this video. We always have to keep this on mind as single females. Love your ranking system. Easy to apply.
This was one of your best....I also had been thinking of Turkey.
Watched replay and thank you for this great points to consider for my career break.
Thanks for this video Stephanie! Very important things to consider when choosing a place to call home.
This is fantastic...because there are a lot of under-surface (what escapes the tourist eyes) things to take into account prior to moving abroad. Thank you.
Thank you Stephanie. Most of the things you talked about, I hadn't even considered.
thank you for bringing up these topics
Great video. You have a series of videos in the making. Very interesting, informative, serious thoughts provoking. Sister Goddess, thanks very much.
Thank you for this...I am looking to leave the US and have just begun my research so this is very helpful information
Greetings from China! I am a tico, and there are lots of black people here
1) No military. 2) economic stability 3) secular
I must say this was an outstanding vlog....important information. Thank ya sis.