Emotional and physical abuse growing up only to marry someone that continued that hell. Broke free of that 20yr trap. I'm now a survivor! Hugs to all who have dealt with their own nightmare. Stay strong ❤
Me too… 18 years of abuse and torment and fear in my children’s eyes…. I felt soooo weak and then I was hugged by an officer who said battered spouses syndrome is real and it’s not your fault My adult sons and I are mending and moving FORWARD…. I pray you are too
I, too, am a survivor. Stay strong, ladies, and keep moving forward! Prayers for all who watch this video or listen to this song and gather the strength to take that first step. You are worth it, and you can make it! Blessings! ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️
@@bonnieplasha4684 having lost everything…. By GOD I’ve got my son ❤️💪 living with a friend for now till I can rise above this…. And to think….. old friends of his have the audacity to say I need to make amends with the man who stabbed me… beat me and terrified our children…. But instead of being mad at him I put myself thru hell for not being strong enough to have left him sooner….😢
Yeah. They fell for two men that…well this song is prophetic. These two and their ex take the saying: “like father, like son” to a whole other level. You’d think this was done recently…but no. Wonder what they think when they see/listen to it now. Was Reba thinking “He’s going to screw you over and you’ll feel this way someday” when they filmed this-especially the last part? It would be interesting for them to do another version of it…NOW.
Sobbing. I left an abusive relationship of 30 years because of Kelly's original " Because of You." I just discovered this. Brought back so many memories. Thank you. I am madly in love with my husband of 17 years now at the age of 74.
@James Hama Well, hello! Oh James...how sweet of you to check up on me. I am doing so good. Got Covid and it was like the flu for me...so that's good. Still madly in love with my husband. Abusive past is now a distant memory that I lived through. Your comment made my day. Thank you. And You Friend?
@@liveandletdie7187 *Oh Alice I am so* *proud of you having the courage to* *leave.* 💫 *You go on and live your most* *fabulous life honey! You deserve it!*
😢 ya si la violencia nos alcanza en manos de quien dice amarnos y nos matan parte del alma las que sobrevivimos esa nunca la recuperamos lo físico se compone el daño sicologico nunca😢
@@gabbyandrade7227 *I agree Gabby...My ex would beg and cry and* *we would go back to the honeymoon stage again...and days later* *the abuse would happen again. This is the song that made me leave* *him! It gave me the courage to find my safe place and heal!* *But even though I've remarried glimpses of my past seep in.* 😢😫
A man I once dated interpreted this video in a completely different way. To him, it looked like Reba was playing an older version of Kelly. And Reba was reminiscing about the past and consoling herself that it was over, and consoling her younger self, Kelly, that things will get better. Mind blown.
katsage62 just 2 of the best females in any genre of music my mom lived it she got out when I was 8 years old but me I’m still here now with ptsd agoraphobia he is in Peidmont henry in ICU alone with him as I was at 18 when my mom lost her battle with cancer Jeanette Hardin wright at this same hospital I Love You Momma 12-26-1980 💔💔💔💯💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I know that's why i avoided this watching these video for so long. Even though in this version of Because of you that Reba telling the story but the star is still kelly. I couldn't look into Kelly's eyes in this...super sad. And i was and am still mad at that guy...sorry i know he just acting but i wanna punch him still.
I never realized the meaning of this song until I saw this video. I am a domestic abuse survivor. So it really hit my heart hard! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 Excellent job Ladies! Thank you for telling this story Beautifully!
I love the fact that Kelly let Reba be the lead in this "iconic" song. Because Of You has always been one of my favorite record from Kelly, and when she team up with Reba on this country remix version they made this song even more iconic. #ImLoveIt
@@pixiedust9342 thanks to my brother who kept pressure on the authorities he was convicted of manslaughter and spent 12 years in prison but i lost a sister for ever
I heard this song when it first came out and it gave me goosebumps. Now it's 2023 and hearing and seeing this and understanding what it's about chills go right through me. I'm amazed!
Same here, specially because I am going through so much in my life, sometimes it feels like my heart will give up soon 😢 but to all those going through hard situations Just pray God knows what he is doing and will always make things better, blessings to all
OMG this is the first time I have seen or heard this. I am blown away. Phenomenal Performances by Reba and Kelly. Absolutely STUNNING. I'm truly in AWE ladies. Reba has been my favorite singer since I was probably 6 years old, and Kelly had my heart first time she sang on American Idol. LOVE LOVE LOVE this.
“Rise. It’s time. This moment has been a long time coming. You know that you’ve been chosen. You know you can’t keep running. Stop spinning in circles and start believing in the magic, of who you are meant to be. Spread your wings, and don’t forget to take flight. You’ve been growing them stronger since the start of your life. You only get one chance at this; so honey, let’s get it right. You have the power inside you to soar. Don’t ever give up the fight. Dig down deep and find it inside; all of this power you’ve taught yourself how to hide. Call it to the surface. It’s right there, in your mind. Only you can fulfill your destiny and purpose. Brave girl, it is time to fly.“
I was in an abusive relationship for almost 2 years. Concealer was my best friend. Nobody knew, not even my closest friends. Not even my family. I was forced to act like nothing was wrong. I had to smile and laugh, and go about life as if I wasn't going to go home to face the furious fists of my drunken fiance. Nick, I am no longer your punching bag. I no longer have to keep your dirty little secret. This song is so close to my heart because the words of this song was my life fir two long, miserable years. Now, I'm finally free, and I'm engaged to a wonderful man who would never lay his hands on me. I love you, Chris.
You are SO strong. My sister has been in an abusive relationship for years and I just wish we could help her. We try, but love is blind and the fear is strong for her to leave. It hurts my heart to see her feel like she is trapped. She leaves then she goes right back because he makes her believe she can't survive without him and with their kids. I'm happy you made it out of your abusive relationship safe 🙏
I’m sending all my love your way and I’m so happy that you found someone better than him and who treats you right. You’re are such a strong person and I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. ❤️
Hi justin, Thank God you've got a new goid man in your life. I hold this song close to my soul, as my longtime boyfriend is experiencing karma from God, oh well !!!!!! We've got 2 wonderful 👱♂️s too!!!!! Our 1st son is a micropremie survivor!! I'd had 2 small uterine fibroids, at the time of delivery 3 softball + 20 golf ball size fibroids had our baby very crowded, a miracle he was 👍, made it!!!! A extensive amnosenthesis came back all negative, normal. If we'd been told no, the opposite would've not aborted our son 👹 no!!!!! Hence at 23.5 weeks, 14 ounces, 19+@1/2"s long with a 8+@1/2 month NICU stay!!!!!! High functioning autistic, ADHD medium, global delaument, partcial up close vision in just 1 eye, overcoming other ore diagnoses!!!! I know God has a soulmate for me!!!!! Been to 👹 n back it seems like alot in my 52++/2years here on 🌎!!!! We're had the police called on us alot, I've had to make 911 calls too, cos or child protective services at our house alot too!!!! Thank God, we get to keep our 2 👱♂️s!! Life ain't easy akwsys!!! 👹 yeah God our Creator God + 🌅 Father gives us more than we can take!!!!!!!! Just before Easter due to the cornavirus we'd lost a deputy police officer friend !!!! Ge was also gay, so what...it didn't matter to us!!!! Advocated for gay and = rights within the police force, for gay people, for special needs children and animals too!!!!! This was a Godly, good souled man!!!! Our 👱♂️a and he would run to each other!!! He'd swoop them up individually, a solid hug+a quick kiss on the top of their head !!!!! We'd getcha solid good hug, quick cheek kiss!! He'd wanted to leave a legacy, well our family 👹 yeah is still mourning him and by God,will assist his family, our 1 son's school, his fiance', etc carry on his stellar legacy!!!!! R.I.P. OUR BELOVED DEPUTY 😇🌞🌜🌅🌎🙏😘👍,YOU'RE MISSED, THOUGHT OF DAILY!!!! WE 4 WON'T LET YA ,WHAT YOU'D WANTED TO BE 4GOTTEN TOLL WE JOIN YA IN🌅 HOPEFULLY WHEN WE'RE 100 LIVED A LONG LIFE ON 🌎!!!!!! ARE YOU DRY 👀ED, OR 😭ING YET????!!!!!! HUGS AND LOVE: Melissa
Hey justin, Ditto because of you song is us survivors, my babies!!!!!! God bless you and your new man who I'm sure your kin and friends are so damn glad ya got after the 👹!!!!!! Not to get into politics, we want President Trump re elected another 4 years, God bless our service personnel, those we've lost from the cornavirus as we lost a gsy deputy friend who we all ❤ed 1 another, our early 😇in 🌅, OUR HERO AND WE'LL CARRY LUR HIS WISHWS OF CARRYING ON HIS LEGACY HE'D PAVED THE WAY FOR GAY PEOPLE, SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN, PROTECT RHOSE YA R3VERE HOLD UP HIGH, ANIMALS, HONOR OUR CREATOR, THE ALPHA PLUS OMEGA OUR GOD AMEN HELL 👹YEAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WE'RE GOING TO MY STEP BROTHER IN LAW AND HIS FAMILY IN PORT SAINT LUCIE, FLORIDA WE MEED A MINI VACATION 👹YEAH A YEAR SINCE WE'D BEEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'M ALMOST PACKED, DOING MY LAST LOAD OF LAUNDRY NOW AND WILL.DRY, PUT AWAY PACK A LIL' GET US READY BY 2PM !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I 🙏 ALL GOES WELL WE.COME BACK ON MONDAY MID DAY!!!!! I'M MAKING THE 👱♂️S EUN AROUND AFTER THEM, BRWAK UP LOL WE ALL K OW DID AS YOUNGINS SIBLING RIVALRY, OVER EXCITED 👱♂️S, FISH, DRINK A FEW WINE SPEITZERS MIS AFTERNOON RO 9PM NOT JUST 1 9F RED OR PINK WINE, FRESH FRUIT IN THE CUP, JUICE SO I'M TALKING 6!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😭YEAH AND OH SONS GO GET YOUR DADDY MAMA ❤S YA!!!!!!!!!! HE WORKS FEOM 730 OR.8AM TO 53O OR 7PM MONDAY TO FRIDAY, A HALF A SATURDAY, SOMERIMES A HOUR OR.ALL SUNDAY AM AS A AUTO MECHANIC. HE'LL TAKE RHE LIL'SON ON SUNDAY MAYBE BOTH OR.US 3 TO WOEK, THEN WE GO TO THE ICW IN OIR SWIMSUITS GET 🌞, CHILL, FISH, FAMILY TIME DURING THIS DAMN MAJOR LETHAL, SERIOUS CORNAVIRUS!!!!!!!!!! HIGA AND LOVE, MELISSA
A battered woman who is not asking for help. A best friend who cannot do anything to help. A story that happens in real life by so many victims. What a beautiful rendition and story telling video. Bravo!
Right, blame it on the friend. Many times the friend helps, but that help flips on their head and they get hurt by helping someone who doesn't want to be helped or even willingly returns to the abuser. No one can help a battered woman but herself by growing her self-worth and leaving.
I remember seeing this on tv when I was a kid and feeling so sad for Kelly’s character because I grew up with a violent father. This song hits home for me.
I love this duet because it shows the true pain and helplessness that happens during abuse. For everyone who questions Reba's character walking away, think about it. How many times have you seen or heard people fighting at Walmart or next door and didn't do anything because it "wasn't your business?" It's even harder to act when you went through or still are abused and are afraid to make it worse. This song is exactly how it feels to be so so scared.
I had that relationship wit my ex boyfriends nobody didn't know what happened to me but god show me n told me I need get out of that bad relationship I did I never look back I seen him years ago he still do same
or you try and try to help them, because you HAVE been through the same damned thing, and they aren't ready to get out of that situation, wont let you help, so you walk away, knowing they will be hurt again and there isn't a damned thing you can do about it. Cant even call the cops cause she will just deny it, wearing his bruises on her face...Ive been the abused and the one watching the abuse, and to be honest im not sure which one hurts more. Maybe im the lucky one because my abuse was as a child and I was able to get away when I met my husband.. but the woman im thinking of may live with her abuser the rest of her life. Every time I see her I try to remind her im there, and she can get out, but it just puts distance between us, not between them, unfortunately. God I hate abusive bastards like that.
Kelly said before that she wrote this song inspired by own life, when her father destroyed relatioship with family and left them. Kelly tried to speak with her father but he did not try to talk with her and family. Later he tried to talk with Kelly, she was famous then, but she refused , and wrote another great song Piece by Piece. Great duet
see i thought so. i originally thought it was about domestic violence and was so in tuned from a past relationship that had left me insecure. but i later heard it was dedicated to her dad
That piece by piece touches me deeply, her interpretation of the song makes it real, you can't help but feel the pain and the hurt even from those of us who are lucky to have spectacully present, caring and unconditionally loving fathers.
This song always makes me think of the years of abuse I went through. My brother and I went through 10 years of use of our father and then I went through 7 and 1/2 years of abuse by my husband. The song reminds me that I will never allow myself to go through that again.
The video and the song can evoke two different perspectives. When I hear the song, I think of my mother and all the verbal, mental and emotional abuse she heaped on me. This song made me realize "No MORE!" and I got her out of my life a couple of years ago. Since then I've received many compliments about how I've become more confident, more trusting and more dependable. When I watch the video, it inspires me to work on helping women become survivors, not victims of abusive relationships.
Gregory Henderson For what it's worth, I'm doing my best to rise above my past and not be like my mother. This song sometimes helps me keep my sense of perspective.
***** You need a better set of friends or find an activity that interests you and get acquainted with the people in that group. What they are doing to you is verbal and emotional abuse.
Evelyn Spirka ooh I never even thought about it that way I just saw it as a friend helping when you are struggling to be strong...I do like your interpretation though I must admit xxx
Absolutely amazing performance and if you’ve ever been in a abusive relationship you can certainly relate to the lyrics. But ladies know that you do not have to stay in bad relationships it’s ok not to be ok and even better when you walk away. 🤗💜💜💜💜
I've always loved Kelly's original version because it was so deep, but now coming across this video and duet....powerful!!! As a DV survivor, this gave me chills and my heart raced. The dynamics within an abusive relationship make it hard to explain to an outsider looking in, and also to leave. Fear and doubt keep you from running. You KNOW you will continue getting hurt, but also know it can kill you whether you stay or try leaving. Your life/well being, that of your children(if you have them), your pets and others you love are under constant threat. It takes an average of 6 to 7 times of trying to leave before succeeding. The amount of manipulation and gaslighting is insane to the point the victim is made to believe everything is their fault, not the truly sick actions of the abuser. Ladies, your voice is so much powerful than that monster makes you believe. Take your voice and power back. You may feel alone, but YOU ARE NOT!! Silence kills, but the truth kills a monster. Please reach out, speak out, make a safe escape plan and breathe again. You can be free and happy again. Sending love, prayer, support and power to all my survivor sisters and those still trapped. There's a community of survivors waiting and willing to help. Reach out!
Yvette, you sure have given an accurate account of what happens in this kind of relationship. Been there, done that. Never again. We are worth more than that. God be with you and all who need Him.
When I was 13 I used to play this song over and over again because I felt like I could’ve wrote it about my mother’s abuse and abandonment. I’ve somehow made it to 28 and now I cry in the middle of the night for the same damn thing💔
my birth mother had the same thing, after she was left by my birth father for falling pregnant, i remember beingt thrown down stairs at being not my step dads kid. he threw his own kid at the same time. i cannot remember what happened but after that i was taken into care and eventually adopted.
There are no words to describe the impact this has from both points of view for me. From shattered & lost, to desperate for freedom & helplessness. Please stand up for those who have yet to find their voice, & brave enough to believe you are worthy of saving!
Like are you kidding me? How could anyone dislike this? The 4.4k people who dislike this song doesn't know anything about great music when they hear it..
This is an ode to all the mothers I've known. To my biological mother, Elaine and my last foster mom, Tarsha. I hate that my heart still yearns for you.
I love Kelly's vocals but would not say she is hundred times better. I started liking country singing listening to Reba because she can really reach those notes.
This song is what keeps me going. I just left a domestic violence relationship not to long and today they found me and started to absue me I had them locked up. I feel so bad for it. But they will not learn and it been happening for 2 yrs. Thank you rebra and Kelly for this amazing song
It is perfectly normal to feel badly about locking them up. My first dv support group meeting, I BROKE because of the guilt I felt for finally doing what I had to do for my babies. But other survivors helped me to realize that HE put himself there. They broke my trauma bond. My victim part of me died and i was reborn as some stranger who i still to this day do not recognize. I pray you are still free from that hell. 7 years free and i'm STILL triggered by certain things and have absolutely no idea how to get back to who i was before him. soooo much damage. and the only treatment is pills and intense therapy (IF you can find a therapist who actually gives af)
@@xxinnamariana7507From one survivor to another...the person you were before you met the abuser, is gone. YOU, now have the choice, and opportunity, to be anybody you want to be. ANYBODY, you want to be. I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you for getting out. Blessings...🙏👆✝️💜
this makes me cry in a whole new way being someone who’s been in abusive relationships that have seriously fucked me up mentally it’s hard to trust anyone after that person and honestly this speaks to me on a whole new level being afraid to mess up even a little bit bc the fear of being abandoned or getting in trouble with said person it’s crazy how i’ve loved this song my whole life and now i see it so differently
this song is so inspirational to many abused women going back like 50yrs or more!! No woman today should be scared of this kind of abuse, but yet there are many out there who still do, and are afraid!! that's so sad and heartbreaking!
This song's about abandonment and how parent's selfishness can ruin their child's life, give them emotional scars that impacted their own relationships.
@@abishagx I am in 1 👹 of a situation just LIKE BECAUSE OF YOU. GOD BROUGHT SOME1 IVE LNOWN FOR YEARS ACROSS MY PATH ALOT RECENTLY AND I AM SO GLAD!!!!!!! MATTHEW 5"38 GOD IS.THE ALPJA AMD OMEGA!!!!!!!!!!!! MY POPPY TOLD ME.SOON MY CHILDREN AND I WILL.HAVE A GOOD LIFE AMEN CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!! DESTINY AND GOD AMEN !!!!!!
@@abishagx Ty so much!!!!! Yes God never abandons us!!!!! But,I sure felt like God had and gave me alot to overcome. My soulmate is stellar!!!!!A very Godly man,I know that it'll be a bright, calm,happy future for the four of us!!!!We have our inner circle of strong, Godly people around us too!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Reba and Kelly did an amazing duet. Anyone who listens to this song even once could hear the sad resignation that a child feels when they have to be the adult. This is also perfect for people involved in abusive relationships, especially if the abuser is older than them.
The acting in this is just incredible, especially Kelly. She is so talented. Her eyes when she's on stage looking at the cheating bastard.. so much pain behind those eyes. ❤
1st of all, REBA looks stunning nd drop dead gorgeous in that Green dress, it bought out her beautiful eyes nd red hair more! 2nd of all, only 2 powerhouses cud have pulled this song/video off as successful as they did by both acting nd singing...magical! Nd finally the collaboration is amazing. Producers couldnt have picked out the right and best two singers to pull this 1 off by not only singing nd acting, but by showing us how a major league like Reba nd the newest upcoming nd talented Kelly can blend so perfectly without status, drama nd judgement, just pure talent nd respect! 2 me this vid is very raw and deep! Altho i never experienced Domestic in my life, Kelly nd this gentleman played it off so well, that if i was Reba, he wud have gotten buried in the dress room. But i have been that girl, whereas i helped so many others who have been down that road and/or have hurt nd betrayed me big time! Nd that is why now as a mother, wife, co-worker, sister nd friend that i have this huge imaginary wall up in front of me to prevent anymore hurt nd dramas. So yes i can relate to this video internally nd deep down in my na'ao! This video nd song is simply thee best! Take a bow ladies u did an awesome collaboration on this one so much ....u made me tear cuz it had so much meaning to it! Mahalo Reba nd Kelly!
Because of you... Mother... THIS! All of this - because of you. Because your needs were more important than mine. Because I was nothing to you. Because YOU were broken. Because of you... every day, I try to rise above. If I survive this fight you created between us, I'll rise far above you. If not, I'll die trying. That's a promise.
Two incredible vocal performances here! Reba really brings it. And its amazing how Kelly can perfectly harmonize and take second stage, on her own song (after she made it a hit). That bridge with is top notch. She's such a great vocal collaborator.
This is the best version of the song. It was great when it first came out and is still awesome. I really wish that Reba would re-do other songs. I love the way she sings "If I were a boy". Awesome!!!!
This came out when I was in elementary but I was dramatic I cried even not understanding. But now, an adult, mom of 2. 2024, still brings tears. Just sooo gooooddd
I watched my father beat my mother for many years and I swore I would never let anyone ever lay a hand on me!! Well, I ended up in a 10 year narcissistic DV relationship and almost lost my life until I finally put him in jail, sold my house and moved across the country while he was in there!!!
I love these two together!...Reba is REBA!...She has to appreciate K for mimicking her...and I do not mean that in a bad way...because no one can! But I love them together!
Damn this song. I couldn’t be more emotional than ever. I feel the pain coz I can’t trust anyone coz of her even after a lot of nights and silent cry 😢
Yep....I know all too well what that's like, being married to my soon-to-be ex husband..pheew, Jesus, it was marriage hell. Thank God we're going our separate ways..
2009 to 2019 I do the same thing 10 years ago.. But now I met with people who make me smile and feel safe,no depression,sadness and bitterness..because of you (God Lord)❤🙏
it amaze me only recently people discover this amazing video. It such a great video...but then again i have been avoiding this video for awhile because i couldn't look into kelly's eyes...painful for me. How the hell am i watching it again? in 2019 - i still couldn't look into her eyes and still wanna punch that guy
You have too. Its still going on. I always talk about honesty with my daughters and sons. But I knew my daughter was going threw a hard time. I was there. No one should have the power to scare anyone. If you really know your kids you will know. Protect and be honest
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Emotional and physical abuse growing up only to marry someone that continued that hell. Broke free of that 20yr trap. I'm now a survivor!
Hugs to all who have dealt with their own nightmare. Stay strong ❤
I was in a 20 yr trap too. Now...I'm a surviver
Me too… 18 years of abuse and torment and fear in my children’s eyes…. I felt soooo weak and then I was hugged by an officer who said battered spouses syndrome is real and it’s not your fault
My adult sons and I are mending and moving FORWARD…. I pray you are too
I, too, am a survivor. Stay strong, ladies, and keep moving forward! Prayers for all who watch this video or listen to this song and gather the strength to take that first step. You are worth it, and you can make it!
Blessings! ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️
@@bonnieplasha4684 having lost everything…. By GOD I’ve got my son ❤️💪 living with a friend for now till I can rise above this…. And to think….. old friends of his have the audacity to say I need to make amends with the man who stabbed me… beat me and terrified our children…. But instead of being mad at him I put myself thru hell for not being strong enough to have left him sooner….😢
@@pixiedust9342 PROUD OF YOU💪💪❤️
This song hits harder after Kelly's Divorce. To hear two Queens sing together really pulls on the heartstrings all over again. ❤
2 queens. Well said
Even harder to think that Kelly's ex is Reba's step son.
And didn’t Reba divorce him too?
Whattttt@@staceyrashkin2609
Yeah. They fell for two men that…well this song is prophetic. These two and their ex take the saying: “like father, like son” to a whole other level. You’d think this was done recently…but no. Wonder what they think when they see/listen to it now. Was Reba thinking “He’s going to screw you over and you’ll feel this way someday” when they filmed this-especially the last part? It would be interesting for them to do another version of it…NOW.
This song is amazing!!Speaks for us DV survivors!! They make this video look so real 😢
No lady should ever be disrespected!!! EVER!!!
I was!!
Sobbing.
I left an abusive relationship of 30 years because of Kelly's original " Because of You."
I just discovered this. Brought back so many memories. Thank you.
I am madly in love with my husband of 17 years now at the age of 74.
@James Hama Well, hello! Oh James...how sweet of you to check up on me.
I am doing so good. Got Covid and it was like the flu for me...so that's good.
Still madly in love with my husband. Abusive past is now a distant memory that I lived through.
Your comment made my day. Thank you. And You Friend?
Good for you glad you able to end up really happy
@@jordanlash2268 *Thank you Jordan*
*He still makes my heartbeat faster*
*when I hear his truck coming up the*
*driveway after 19 years!*
I am in the process of divorce after 35 years of torment and abuse❤
@@liveandletdie7187 *Oh Alice I am so*
*proud of you having the courage to*
*leave.* 💫
*You go on and live your most*
*fabulous life honey! You deserve it!*
"My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with"
That's the realest thing I've ever heard
Lol same
So sad, but often times so true.
Always has been true!
+Desi B and always will be true
+Dorian Day many many many times true
For everyone out there
"My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't whole to start with" This line kills me. I 💯% get what she means
This song is so me
Hello dear, How are you doing today and I Guess you're a good country MUSIC lover..?
😢 ya si la violencia nos alcanza en manos de quien dice amarnos y nos matan parte del alma las que sobrevivimos esa nunca la recuperamos lo físico se compone el daño sicologico nunca😢
@@gabbyandrade7227 *I agree Gabby...My ex would beg and cry and*
*we would go back to the honeymoon stage again...and days later*
*the abuse would happen again. This is the song that made me leave*
*him! It gave me the courage to find my safe place and heal!*
*But even though I've remarried glimpses of my past seep in.* 😢😫
That's right, a heart can not break if you don't have one to start with.
Who else is still listening to this emotional song in 2024?? ❤
me!
Me!
Me too!
me too
Moi et mon frère chien! Me with my bro Husky. He is my brother. ❤
Kelly looks beautiful but Reba’s makeup! Eyeshadow is stunning. Reba’s whole look, dress, hair. Amazing.
Kelly wrote this song when she was 16, about her own mother. #Powerful
I can understand where she’s coming from
Someone else said it's about her father.
It’s bout her father’s abandonment and how it affected her (so I’m told)
It’s about her dad
@@immapanda3448 its about her mom. Not her dad
Realize who's she speaking about and seeing that it's her mother🥺
This song speaks volumes of so many different types of pain.
I never caught that till now 😢
A man I once dated interpreted this video in a completely different way. To him, it looked like Reba was playing an older version of Kelly. And Reba was reminiscing about the past and consoling herself that it was over, and consoling her younger self, Kelly, that things will get better.
Mind blown.
jeez never thought of that 😜
wow he thinking more into it than most
+Katherine Canon you got that right lol jk dudete 😎😎😎😅😅😉😉
That's actually how I see it....
Well now that makes total sense. I could never understand why Reba doesn't interfere. Now I do.
Kelly and Reba combining their voices sound amazing
Everything that Reba does is nothing short of AMAZING; Acting, singing, personality.. she IS AMAZING!
Hello Brandy, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
Thank you so much for your likes and support towards my music, I really appreciate that God bless you and your family🙏🏼
Get on youtube right now Reba fucking replied! DUUUUUUDE
@@taylorwiseman8078 you could always reach out to me okay?
@@rebamcentire9997 Well right now I'm trying to not lose my mind REBA replied but I'll keep that in it!!!!! :)
They sing beautifully together, Reba was her mother in law 😊
I love Kelly’s original version. But dear God this one is amazing!
Kelly Clarkson and Reba McEntire both are my favorite fan of your video on RUclips channel
There are few ways to make great songs better.
But you can't go wrong by adding a vocalist like Reba.
I prefer the original, but this version is really good too
Reba really pumps it up , I think Reba an Kelly together are the bomb!
I love this heeehaw Version
IT’S 2019 AND IM JUST NOW DISCOVERING THIS VERSION
THIS IS SO INCREDIBLE!!!
lmao same. youtube recommendations lately are superb 😂
SAME! I can't believe I hadn't seen it before
Same here! I never saw until now! It's amazing!
K P ...Me too
. Someone Put me on to it the other day ...Loved it
.. ..Wow ...Powerful. 🔥🔥🔥🔥⚡
This is the only version of this song I've ever heard and I love it
You can hear Kelly’s connection with this song. She’s so beautiful. Inside and out.
katsage62 just 2 of the best females in any genre of music my mom lived it she got out when I was 8 years old but me I’m still here now with ptsd agoraphobia he is in Peidmont henry in ICU alone with him as I was at 18 when my mom lost her battle with cancer Jeanette Hardin wright at this same hospital I Love You Momma 12-26-1980 💔💔💔💯💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I know that's why i avoided this watching these video for so long. Even though in this version of Because of you that Reba telling the story but the star is still kelly. I couldn't look into Kelly's eyes in this...super sad. And i was and am still mad at that guy...sorry i know he just acting but i wanna punch him still.
Reba has terrible twists in her voice when she tries to song YOooouUuuu
Hello Katsage, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
I never realized the meaning of this song until I saw this video. I am a domestic abuse survivor. So it really hit my heart hard!
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Excellent job Ladies! Thank you for telling this story Beautifully!
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Me neither until i saw it was cus of a use to kelly in the video
I love the fact that Kelly let Reba be the lead in this "iconic" song. Because Of You has always been one of my favorite record from Kelly, and when she team up with Reba on this country remix version they made this song even more iconic. #ImLoveIt
🎯🎯
Kelly also wrote the song, no?
I think it's also bc reba has a stronger voice.
@@pkmcnett5649 Yes, Kelly wrote the song when she was only 16 about her parents' divorce.
@@boo1der393 I totally disagree. Kelly has a much stronger voice in her original. She's toning it way down in the Reba duet.
the fact you can hear both of their voices in harmony is so good and so amazing because they both are incredible talented
I absolutely love this song, because of you I learn to walk on the safe side so I don't get hurt because of you I am afraid Rich Hullet
How are you doing today over there with your family and friends😊
much of it can be mixed very very well :)
@@AndrewMonreau2:29 2:31
OMG this version of this song is so EPIC. How did I miss this after all these years?!
I Guess you're a country MUSIC lover?
My sister was in an abusive relationship and I so wish someone would have spoken up and maybe she would still be here
I am so sorry!
Prayers for your pain. 🙏❤️🙏
I am so sorry for your loss. If you don't mind me asking, did he get put in jail?
@@pixiedust9342 thanks to my brother who kept pressure on the authorities he was convicted of manslaughter and spent 12 years in prison but i lost a sister for ever
Not fair. At all. 😢
It's so amazing to see them together in 2023 on the voice together!!!
Kelly's original version of this is amazing, but adding Reba made it legendary. Two great voices that work very well together.
True🥰 try watching Reba McEntire and Dolly Parton too with the song entitled "Does he love you" both were great
Shame Reba son And Kelly divorced
@@lisablizzard5301 Brandon is not son of Reba and he cheated Kelly
@@edsonluis6290 Reba step son. Sorry left that out. I know so sad he cheated on her. She is amazing artist.
Because of you...I cried for the first time in years.
I heard this song when it first came out and it gave me goosebumps. Now it's 2023 and hearing and seeing this and understanding what it's about chills go right through me. I'm amazed!
12 years later.. and i just found that this version existed..
Ten years and this still hits me right in my heart. I cry EVERY TIME!
Hello friend, how are you doing today?
Yep same!!!
I know it hits home so well
Same here, specially because I am going through so much in my life, sometimes it feels like my heart will give up soon 😢 but to all those going through hard situations Just pray God knows what he is doing and will always make things better, blessings to all
Me too. It came out right after my 20 year marriage fell apart and I was left with two teenage boys.
Because of You (Reba & Kelly) is Platinum in US 🥂
OMG this is the first time I have seen or heard this. I am blown away. Phenomenal Performances by Reba and Kelly. Absolutely STUNNING. I'm truly in AWE ladies. Reba has been my favorite singer since I was probably 6 years old, and Kelly had my heart first time she sang on American Idol. LOVE LOVE LOVE this.
I felt the emotions that I saw in Reba’s face and this actually brought tears to my eyes
And when they're both staring daggers from the stage? Oh my god.
So pure and amazing, hi how are you doing?
Hello Jennifer, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
Or when Reba helped Kelly put on the make up to hide she's been hit by her husband...🥺
“Rise. It’s time. This moment has been a long time coming. You know that you’ve been chosen. You know you can’t keep running. Stop spinning in circles and start believing in the magic, of who you are meant to be. Spread your wings, and don’t forget to take flight. You’ve been growing them stronger since the start of your life. You only get one chance at this; so honey, let’s get it right. You have the power inside you to soar. Don’t ever give up the fight. Dig down deep and find it inside; all of this power you’ve taught yourself how to hide. Call it to the surface. It’s right there, in your mind. Only you can fulfill your destiny and purpose. Brave girl, it is time to fly.“
You've said this all so beautifully!!
I was in an abusive relationship for almost 2 years. Concealer was my best friend. Nobody knew, not even my closest friends. Not even my family. I was forced to act like nothing was wrong. I had to smile and laugh, and go about life as if I wasn't going to go home to face the furious fists of my drunken fiance. Nick, I am no longer your punching bag. I no longer have to keep your dirty little secret. This song is so close to my heart because the words of this song was my life fir two long, miserable years. Now, I'm finally free, and I'm engaged to a wonderful man who would never lay his hands on me. I love you, Chris.
You are SO strong. My sister has been in an abusive relationship for years and I just wish we could help her. We try, but love is blind and the fear is strong for her to leave. It hurts my heart to see her feel like she is trapped. She leaves then she goes right back because he makes her believe she can't survive without him and with their kids. I'm happy you made it out of your abusive relationship safe 🙏
I’m sending all my love your way and I’m so happy that you found someone better than him and who treats you right. You’re are such a strong person and I’m sorry you had to go through all of that. ❤️
Hi justin,
Thank God you've got a new goid man in your life.
I hold this song close to my soul, as my longtime boyfriend is experiencing karma from God, oh well !!!!!! We've got 2 wonderful 👱♂️s too!!!!! Our 1st son is a micropremie survivor!!
I'd had 2 small uterine fibroids, at the time of delivery 3 softball + 20 golf ball size fibroids had our baby very crowded, a miracle he was 👍, made it!!!! A extensive amnosenthesis came back all negative, normal. If we'd been told no, the opposite would've not aborted our son 👹 no!!!!!
Hence at 23.5 weeks, 14 ounces, 19+@1/2"s long with a 8+@1/2 month NICU stay!!!!!!
High functioning autistic, ADHD medium, global delaument, partcial up close vision in just 1 eye, overcoming other ore diagnoses!!!!
I know God has a soulmate for me!!!!! Been to 👹 n back it seems like alot in my 52++/2years here on 🌎!!!! We're had the police called on us alot, I've had to make 911 calls too, cos or child protective services at our house alot too!!!! Thank God, we get to keep our 2 👱♂️s!!
Life ain't easy akwsys!!! 👹 yeah God our Creator God + 🌅 Father gives us more than we can take!!!!!!!!
Just before Easter due to the cornavirus we'd lost a deputy police officer friend !!!! Ge was also gay, so what...it didn't matter to us!!!! Advocated for gay and = rights within the police force, for gay people, for special needs children and animals too!!!!! This was a Godly, good souled man!!!!
Our 👱♂️a and he would run to each other!!! He'd swoop them up individually, a solid hug+a quick kiss on the top of their head !!!!! We'd getcha solid good hug, quick cheek kiss!!
He'd wanted to leave a legacy, well our family 👹 yeah is still mourning him and by God,will assist his family, our 1 son's school, his fiance', etc carry on his stellar legacy!!!!! R.I.P. OUR BELOVED DEPUTY 😇🌞🌜🌅🌎🙏😘👍,YOU'RE MISSED, THOUGHT OF DAILY!!!! WE 4 WON'T LET YA ,WHAT YOU'D WANTED TO BE 4GOTTEN TOLL WE JOIN YA IN🌅 HOPEFULLY WHEN WE'RE 100 LIVED A LONG LIFE ON 🌎!!!!!!
ARE YOU DRY 👀ED, OR 😭ING YET????!!!!!!
HUGS AND LOVE:
Melissa
Hey justin,
Ditto because of you song is us survivors, my babies!!!!!!
God bless you and your new man who I'm sure your kin and friends are so damn glad ya got after the 👹!!!!!!
Not to get into politics, we want President Trump re elected another 4 years, God bless our service personnel, those we've lost from the cornavirus as we lost a gsy deputy friend who we all ❤ed 1 another, our early 😇in 🌅, OUR HERO AND WE'LL CARRY LUR HIS WISHWS OF CARRYING ON HIS LEGACY HE'D PAVED THE WAY FOR GAY PEOPLE, SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN, PROTECT RHOSE YA R3VERE HOLD UP HIGH, ANIMALS, HONOR OUR CREATOR, THE ALPHA PLUS OMEGA OUR GOD AMEN HELL 👹YEAH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE'RE GOING TO MY STEP BROTHER IN LAW AND HIS FAMILY IN PORT SAINT LUCIE, FLORIDA WE MEED A MINI VACATION 👹YEAH A YEAR SINCE WE'D BEEN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'M ALMOST PACKED, DOING MY LAST LOAD OF LAUNDRY NOW AND WILL.DRY, PUT AWAY PACK A LIL' GET US READY BY 2PM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I 🙏 ALL GOES WELL WE.COME BACK ON MONDAY MID DAY!!!!!
I'M MAKING THE 👱♂️S EUN AROUND AFTER THEM, BRWAK UP LOL WE ALL K OW DID AS YOUNGINS SIBLING RIVALRY, OVER EXCITED 👱♂️S, FISH, DRINK A FEW WINE SPEITZERS MIS AFTERNOON RO 9PM NOT JUST 1 9F RED OR PINK WINE, FRESH FRUIT IN THE CUP, JUICE SO I'M TALKING 6!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😭YEAH AND OH SONS GO GET YOUR DADDY MAMA ❤S YA!!!!!!!!!!
HE WORKS FEOM 730 OR.8AM TO 53O OR 7PM MONDAY TO FRIDAY, A HALF A SATURDAY, SOMERIMES A HOUR OR.ALL SUNDAY AM AS A AUTO MECHANIC. HE'LL TAKE RHE LIL'SON ON SUNDAY MAYBE BOTH OR.US 3 TO WOEK, THEN WE GO TO THE ICW IN OIR SWIMSUITS GET 🌞, CHILL, FISH, FAMILY TIME DURING THIS DAMN MAJOR LETHAL, SERIOUS CORNAVIRUS!!!!!!!!!!
HIGA AND LOVE,
MELISSA
A battered woman who is not asking for help.
A best friend who cannot do anything to help.
A story that happens in real life by so many victims.
What a beautiful rendition and story telling video.
Bravo!
Right, blame it on the friend. Many times the friend helps, but that help flips on their head and they get hurt by helping someone who doesn't want to be helped or even willingly returns to the abuser. No one can help a battered woman but herself by growing her self-worth and leaving.
Well maybe she should learn how to make the sandwich right the first time.
"I cannot cry because I know that's weakness in your eyes"❤️🥀
Hello Rose, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
Reba does not age. Note to self, 📝 Legends never age they remain forever beautiful.
Hello beautiful lady,how are you doing and your family,how is the weather condition over there?
@@nelsonwesson9644 ciao Nelson! 🙋♀️😍💘🍀
@@anelladambrosio2513 It's a scammer. Beware.
My mother was a narcissist who abused and manipulated everyone in her sphere. This song wrecks me every time.
My dad is. And my ex mother in law too. They stole my life.
I remember seeing this on tv when I was a kid and feeling so sad for Kelly’s character because I grew up with a violent father. This song hits home for me.
Ohhh so it's the same woman... at different stages of life... wonderful duet! Because of you... and looks in the mirror
10 years later and I’ve only just discovered this!!!
Same!
Same 😍
Same
Same
I did bc of one of my friends.
She is so lucky to have Reba as a mother in law!
Are you serious?
+Pandora's Box yep Kelly married Reba's son.
Ex- mother in law
+Imma Turkey she is still married to Brandon Blackstock, Reba's step son.
+agrondinsmith85 step son
Kelly crushed this song as a single......now with Reba its on a whole new level.....love it......
I love this duet because it shows the true pain and helplessness that happens during abuse. For everyone who questions Reba's character walking away, think about it. How many times have you seen or heard people fighting at Walmart or next door and didn't do anything because it "wasn't your business?" It's even harder to act when you went through or still are abused and are afraid to make it worse. This song is exactly how it feels to be so so scared.
I had that relationship wit my ex boyfriends nobody didn't know what happened to me but god show me n told me I need get out of that bad relationship I did I never look back I seen him years ago he still do same
or you try and try to help them, because you HAVE been through the same damned thing, and they aren't ready to get out of that situation, wont let you help, so you walk away, knowing they will be hurt again and there isn't a damned thing you can do about it. Cant even call the cops cause she will just deny it, wearing his bruises on her face...Ive been the abused and the one watching the abuse, and to be honest im not sure which one hurts more. Maybe im the lucky one because my abuse was as a child and I was able to get away when I met my husband.. but the woman im thinking of may live with her abuser the rest of her life. Every time I see her I try to remind her im there, and she can get out, but it just puts distance between us, not between them, unfortunately. God I hate abusive bastards like that.
Do people expect Reba to confront an angry man twice her size?
Diamondelle84 yes because she is red sparrow.
Liz H ... #POWERFUL ... ( well expressed ) ... !!! ❤
Kelly said before that she wrote this song inspired by own life, when her father destroyed relatioship with family and left them. Kelly tried to speak with her father but he did not try to talk with her and family. Later he tried to talk with Kelly, she was famous then, but she refused , and wrote another great song Piece by Piece. Great duet
Kelly did say in an interview that even when she became famous she tried to repair their relationship but it became humiliating so she stopped trying.
see i thought so. i originally thought it was about domestic violence and was so in tuned from a past relationship that had left me insecure. but i later heard it was dedicated to her dad
@@ql688 girls and daddy issues...
That piece by piece touches me deeply, her interpretation of the song makes it real, you can't help but feel the pain and the hurt even from those of us who are lucky to have spectacully present, caring and unconditionally loving fathers.
That was her song piece by piece
This song always makes me think of the years of abuse I went through. My brother and I went through 10 years of use of our father and then I went through 7 and 1/2 years of abuse by my husband. The song reminds me that I will never allow myself to go through that again.
🙏🙏🙏😇
22 years later still relevant and iconic! This song jumped from #52 to #1 on Billboard Hot100 in 2002 1st week of Oct. Guiness world record!
The video and the song can evoke two different perspectives. When I hear the song, I think of my mother and all the verbal, mental and emotional abuse she heaped on me. This song made me realize "No MORE!" and I got her out of my life a couple of years ago. Since then I've received many compliments about how I've become more confident, more trusting and more dependable. When I watch the video, it inspires me to work on helping women become survivors, not victims of abusive relationships.
I think of my mother and all she's put me through when I hear this song..
Gregory Henderson For what it's worth, I'm doing my best to rise above my past and not be like my mother. This song sometimes helps me keep my sense of perspective.
***** You need a better set of friends or find an activity that interests you and get acquainted with the people in that group. What they are doing to you is verbal and emotional abuse.
***** Yes. There are five ways to abuse someone: Physical, Verbal, Emotional, Mental and Sexual.
***** No. This link explains it: www.wisegeek.org/what-is-verbal-abuse.htm
reba has always been and will always be a QUEEN.
That moment when you realize that Kelly is trying to cover a black eye and Reba helps her as if she already knows how to...
Evelyn Spirka ooh I never even thought about it that way I just saw it as a friend helping when you are struggling to be strong...I do like your interpretation though I must admit xxx
Thank you!!
She's probably been through abuse too.
@@kimberlycaseman3457 you think in real life or in this video?
Well really I think you’d go with concealer or color corrector first not powder...
Reba is absolutely stunning in this video. And her vocals are incredible. This duet with Kelly is better than Kelly doing it solo. Great job, ladies.
Absolutely amazing performance and if you’ve ever been in a abusive relationship you can certainly relate to the lyrics. But ladies know that you do not have to stay in bad relationships it’s ok not to be ok and even better when you walk away. 🤗💜💜💜💜
Hello friend, how are you doing?
So pure beautiful and amazing, hi how are you doing
Hi Patricia hope you’re okay?
Exactly the fact men see no wrong in what they do if that man don't respect his Mom leave him alone it not our place to repair broken men.....
Im crying....💜 i dont know how
12 yrs later and these women are just as beautiful as ever. It's a beautiful song. Emotional and heartfelt. 😑
I've always loved Kelly's original version because it was so deep, but now coming across this video and duet....powerful!!! As a DV survivor, this gave me chills and my heart raced. The dynamics within an abusive relationship make it hard to explain to an outsider looking in, and also to leave. Fear and doubt keep you from running. You KNOW you will continue getting hurt, but also know it can kill you whether you stay or try leaving. Your life/well being, that of your children(if you have them), your pets and others you love are under constant threat. It takes an average of 6 to 7 times of trying to leave before succeeding. The amount of manipulation and gaslighting is insane to the point the victim is made to believe everything is their fault, not the truly sick actions of the abuser. Ladies, your voice is so much powerful than that monster makes you believe. Take your voice and power back. You may feel alone, but YOU ARE NOT!! Silence kills, but the truth kills a monster. Please reach out, speak out, make a safe escape plan and breathe again. You can be free and happy again. Sending love, prayer, support and power to all my survivor sisters and those still trapped. There's a community of survivors waiting and willing to help. Reach out!
Yvette, you sure have given an accurate account of what happens in this kind of relationship. Been there, done that. Never again. We are worth more than that. God be with you and all who need Him.
@@erinbailey7278 Thank you, and likewise.
When I was 13 I used to play this song over and over again because I felt like I could’ve wrote it about my mother’s abuse and abandonment. I’ve somehow made it to 28 and now I cry in the middle of the night for the same damn thing💔
my birth mother had the same thing, after she was left by my birth father for falling pregnant, i remember beingt thrown down stairs at being not my step dads kid. he threw his own kid at the same time. i cannot remember what happened but after that i was taken into care and eventually adopted.
There are no words to describe the impact this has from both points of view for me. From shattered & lost, to desperate for freedom & helplessness. Please stand up for those who have yet to find their voice, & brave enough to believe you are worthy of saving!
We are All worth saving.
Pray for me pls my names jesse. Using my dads old email so my other half dont see this...
Who does one go to for help when you're usually the one everyone else goes to for help
@@vernhunt3934 me. I will help u
@@vernhunt3934I'll do what I can to help.
Like are you kidding me? How could anyone dislike this? The 4.4k people who dislike this song doesn't know anything about great music when they hear it..
Agree 💯💯💯
I love how Reba sings, "And now I cry in the middle of the night for that same damn thing!". The song is beautiful.
This is an ode to all the mothers I've known. To my biological mother, Elaine and my last foster mom, Tarsha. I hate that my heart still yearns for you.
what an honor to sing with Reba . Kelly Clarkson is fantastic
Ronnie Sanders it’s her mother in law lol
Ronnie Sanders More like what an honor to sing with Kelly Clarkson
And what an amazing song writer Kelly Clarkson is.
no offense to Reba but Kelly's vocals are a hundred times better... technically, expressively, and are far more flexible.
I love Kelly's vocals but would not say she is hundred times better. I started liking country singing listening to Reba because she can really reach those notes.
Reba McEntire has one of the best voices in the business
It's like watching a mother and a daughter. So beautiful 💜
They literally were lol.
Who else was today years old when they discovered this version of this song exists 🙋🏾♀️
It's 10x better
I can't even listen to the original after hearing this version, tbh
everyone: No one will sing with Kelly bc of those pipes shes got.
Reba: hold my beer
Hahahahaha hahahaha GREAT jajajajajajaja you just Made my day hahahs
I completely agree. I also see it the other way around as well
That is what I say to people when they say I cant do something.
😂 agreed
Rebe be like what this sh*t
This song is what keeps me going. I just left a domestic violence relationship not to long and today they found me and started to absue me I had them locked up. I feel so bad for it. But they will not learn and it been happening for 2 yrs. Thank you rebra and Kelly for this amazing song
Praying for your safety and healing ❤️🩹
It is perfectly normal to feel badly about locking them up. My first dv support group meeting, I BROKE because of the guilt I felt for finally doing what I had to do for my babies. But other survivors helped me to realize that HE put himself there. They broke my trauma bond. My victim part of me died and i was reborn as some stranger who i still to this day do not recognize. I pray you are still free from that hell. 7 years free and i'm STILL triggered by certain things and have absolutely no idea how to get back to who i was before him. soooo much damage. and the only treatment is pills and intense therapy (IF you can find a therapist who actually gives af)
@@xxinnamariana7507From one survivor to another...the person you were before you met the abuser, is gone. YOU, now have the choice, and opportunity, to be anybody you want to be. ANYBODY, you want to be. I don't know you, but I'm so proud of you for getting out.
Blessings...🙏👆✝️💜
BAWLING AT THIS…. I AM A SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 😞😭😭
So am I sweetheart. You're not alone. I'm here if you ever need me. 🙏👆✝️💜
this makes me cry in a whole new way being someone who’s been in abusive relationships that have seriously fucked me up mentally it’s hard to trust anyone after that person and honestly this speaks to me on a whole new level being afraid to mess up even a little bit bc the fear of being abandoned or getting in trouble with said person it’s crazy how i’ve loved this song my whole life and now i see it so differently
This Always gives me Goosebumps
Reba and Kelly need to make more music together!
this song is so inspirational to many abused women going back like 50yrs or more!! No woman today should be scared of this kind of abuse, but yet there are many out there who still do, and are afraid!! that's so sad and heartbreaking!
Lise Reid or man, men can be abused too🙄🙄🙄
Lise Reid the song is actually about her parents’ divorce (I thought it was about abuse too originally)
This song's about abandonment and how parent's selfishness can ruin their child's life, give them emotional scars that impacted their own relationships.
@@abishagx I am in 1 👹 of a situation just LIKE BECAUSE OF YOU.
GOD BROUGHT SOME1 IVE LNOWN FOR YEARS ACROSS MY PATH ALOT RECENTLY AND I AM SO GLAD!!!!!!!
MATTHEW 5"38 GOD IS.THE ALPJA AMD OMEGA!!!!!!!!!!!!
MY POPPY TOLD ME.SOON MY CHILDREN AND I WILL.HAVE A GOOD LIFE AMEN CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!! DESTINY AND GOD AMEN !!!!!!
@@abishagx Ty so much!!!!! Yes God never abandons us!!!!! But,I sure felt like God had and gave me alot to overcome. My soulmate is stellar!!!!!A very Godly man,I know that it'll be a bright, calm,happy future for the four of us!!!!We have our inner circle of strong, Godly people around us too!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kelly Clarkson, an artist who remembers who came before her! And Reba, at the time, recognising new talent. Absolutely stunning ❤
2:12 The second voice 😍
Reba and Kelly together are so awesome. I love this song, it's my go to song when I feel broken and sad.❤❤❤
Reba and Kelly did an amazing duet. Anyone who listens to this song even once could hear the sad resignation that a child feels when they have to be the adult. This is also perfect for people involved in abusive relationships, especially if the abuser is older than them.
Hello friend, how are you doing
So pure beautiful and amazing, hi how are you doing
Hello Rebecca, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
Hi dear, I was on my scrolling mode when I saw your comment and was moved to send a text to you hope you don't find it pestering..?
The acting in this is just incredible, especially Kelly. She is so talented. Her eyes when she's on stage looking at the cheating bastard.. so much pain behind those eyes. ❤
I had the honor of meeting Reba, she was so friendly and sweet and tiny! She is so little in person, and absolutely beautiful inside and out!
So pure and amazing, hi how are you doing?!?
Hello Michele, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
Anything that has Reba in it is like 10x better.
Only reason I watch Tremors, honestly.
So pure beautiful and amazing, hi how are you doing!
Hello Jessica, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
1st of all, REBA looks stunning nd drop dead gorgeous in that Green dress, it bought out her beautiful eyes nd red hair more!
2nd of all, only 2 powerhouses cud have pulled this song/video off as successful as they did by both acting nd singing...magical!
Nd finally the collaboration is amazing. Producers couldnt have picked out the right and best two singers to pull this 1 off by not only singing nd acting, but by showing us how a major league like Reba nd the newest upcoming nd talented Kelly can blend so perfectly without status, drama nd judgement, just pure talent nd respect!
2 me this vid is very raw and deep! Altho i never experienced Domestic in my life, Kelly nd this gentleman played it off so well, that if i was Reba, he wud have gotten buried in the dress room. But i have been that girl, whereas i helped so many others who have been down that road and/or have hurt nd betrayed me big time! Nd that is why now as a mother, wife, co-worker, sister nd friend that i have this huge imaginary wall up in front of me to prevent anymore hurt nd dramas. So yes i can relate to this video internally nd deep down in my na'ao! This video nd song is simply thee best! Take a bow ladies u did an awesome collaboration on this one so much ....u made me tear cuz it had so much meaning to it! Mahalo Reba nd Kelly!
Hello friend, how are you doing?
So pure and amazing, hi how are you doing?
Hello Grace, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
The harmonies are immaculate, but I have to say that Reba is equally as immaculate in that green dress.
I just love this duet. I will never get tired of listening to this song!
that's the same with me
Because of you... Mother... THIS! All of this - because of you. Because your needs were more important than mine. Because I was nothing to you. Because YOU were broken. Because of you... every day, I try to rise above. If I survive this fight you created between us, I'll rise far above you. If not, I'll die trying. That's a promise.
You're not alone sweetheart. 🙏👆✝️💜
Because of you I learned to stay on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Two incredible vocal performances here! Reba really brings it. And its amazing how Kelly can perfectly harmonize and take second stage, on her own song (after she made it a hit). That bridge with is top notch. She's such a great vocal collaborator.
Reba McEntire is a legend. She like the "Patti Labelle" of country music. I love this women!!!
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And she gets better with age she is so beautiful in every way her soul is beautiful her voice is beautiful she's beautiful looking
@@cody2497 but Dolly Parton can part her
No reba is like reba cause reba is a legend herself
This is the best version of the song. It was great when it first came out and is still awesome. I really wish that Reba would re-do other songs. I love the way she sings "If I were a boy". Awesome!!!!
In 2024 this is still a great song,
Who else can relate to the line, "my heart can't possibly break, when it's never been whole to start with" 😔
Me
This came out when I was in elementary but I was dramatic I cried even not understanding. But now, an adult, mom of 2. 2024, still brings tears. Just sooo gooooddd
I watched my father beat my mother for many years and I swore I would never let anyone ever lay a hand on me!! Well, I ended up in a 10 year narcissistic DV relationship and almost lost my life until I finally put him in jail, sold my house and moved across the country while he was in there!!!
I love these two together!...Reba is REBA!...She has to appreciate K for mimicking her...and I do not mean that in a bad way...because no one can! But I love them together!
I Guess you're a country MUSIC lover?
As a mostly metal fan I have to say that everything about Reba is absolutely beautiful.
Damn this song. I couldn’t be more emotional than ever.
I feel the pain coz I can’t trust anyone coz of her even after a lot of nights and silent cry 😢
Anyone still listening in October 2024????
Yes
November 2024 🇵🇹
November!!! 🎉
Yes. Good music never dies
When she says shes "forced to fake a smile a laugh everyday of my life" 😢
Yep....I know all too well what that's like, being married to my soon-to-be ex husband..pheew, Jesus, it was marriage hell. Thank God we're going our separate ways..
It was Reba’s solo voice crack at the sidewalk lyric (@2:50) for me she’s all but crying 😭😭😭😭
Stop asking if we are still watching it in 2020 we never stopped watching
Wow this is a faboulous song excelent performance of Reba and Kelly ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉⚘️🌷🌹🌷🎉🌟🌟👏👏🌹😘😘💖💖💖🎶🎵💖😘🌹💖💖
This version of the song is simply beautiful!! It made me cry
Hello Rebecca, how're you doing, I hope you are doing fine. I'm Hendrych from Houston, Texas. Where are you from? Seems like a real Country girl 😊
2009 to 2019
I do the same thing 10 years ago..
But now I met with people who make me smile and feel safe,no depression,sadness and bitterness..because of you (God Lord)❤🙏
Jesus Lover ... Amen ...🛐
it amaze me only recently people discover this amazing video. It such a great video...but then again i have been avoiding this video for awhile because i couldn't look into kelly's eyes...painful for me. How the hell am i watching it again? in 2019 - i still couldn't look into her eyes and still wanna punch that guy
"...i will not let myself cause my heart so much misery..."
😭😭😭
You have too. Its still going on. I always talk about honesty with my daughters and sons. But I knew my daughter was going threw a hard time. I was there. No one should have the power to scare anyone. If you really know your kids you will know. Protect and be honest