Kelly Clarkson - Because Of You (VIDEO)
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2009
- Kelly Clarkson's official music video for 'Because Of You'. Click to listen to Kelly Clarkson on Spotify: smarturl.it/KClarkSpot?IQid=KC...
As featured on Greatest Hits - Chapter 1. Click to buy the track or album via iTunes: smarturl.it/KClarkGHiTunes?IQi...
Google Play: smarturl.it/KClarkBecPlay?IQid...
Amazon: smarturl.it/KClarkGHAmz?IQid=K...
More from Kelly Clarkson
Since U Been Gone: • Kelly Clarkson - Since...
Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You): • Kelly Clarkson - Stron...
Breakaway: • Kelly Clarkson - Break...
More great 00s videos here: smarturl.it/Ultimate00?IQid=KC...
Follow Kelly Clarkson
Website: www.kellyclarkson.com
Facebook: / kellyclarkson
Twitter: / kelly_clarkson
Instagram: / kellyclarkson
Subscribe to Kelly Clarkson on RUclips: smarturl.it/KClarkSub?IQid=KCl...
---------
Lyrics:
I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did,
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
Playlist Best of Kelly Clarkson goo.gl/W1ZeaH
Subscribe for more goo.gl/gxka6r" 
Видеоклипы
![Kelly Clarkson - Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) [Official Video]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Xn676-fLq7I/mqdefault.jpg)
![Kelly Clarkson - Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) [Official Video]](/img/tr.png)
Every children deserves a parent, but not all parents deserves a child...
-Unknown
Your words should get repeated......children should not bear the burden....kids....just want "parents" to care........
my parents don't...wish I wasn't born
Precisely
@@ghazalysi6574 that is terribly destructive to your self esteem. Hard to reach out and seek the people who will love you after that - that is the point of the song. Do you mind me asking how old you are?
@@helenebennie3961 nobody likes me tbh...even my friends, I'm always the last priority to them which I don't blame them because when my mom can say such terrible stuff to me how can I blame strangers...the point of this song for me is to never have a child and never make someone live through this hell, I mean this world... and I'm 23 btw I just graduated from university
I grew up with a toxic mother but I'm breaking that cycle with my children her mistake will not cost the future relationship I want with my children
I wish you a good health
Same but with my father tho
More power to you girl!
Britta Balfour honestly my dad was an alcoholic and was raised with really good parents but some bad things happened to him when he was a teen and it causes a lot of problems for him in relationships he and my mom had a very volatile relationship but he was never toxic to me or my siblings always supported us as much as someone who is struggling with alcoholism can he was less toxic than my mom who had a really bad relationship with her mom but was a fully functioning member of society I’m still thankful for her providing all the things I need I just feel like my dad loves me and my siblings more I can tell how much he means that when he says he loves us as he really wants to protect us from all the bad in this world I just feel more love in the way he speaks compared to my mom who just seems a little cold
Britta Balfour I want to be a parent who’s fully there for my kids like my mom but really let them know how much I love them and believe in them like my dad did
Who's listening to this song in May 2024?
I am
I,m
🙋🏾♀️
I am. 😢
Me ❤❤
I was a ‘daddy’s girl’, growing up in the 60’s-70’s. Everytime my mom and dad had a fight, I saw my dad getting his keys, and my little 6 (to 12) year old self would run outside and climb in the car ahead of my dad. He’d get in, look at me, and say ‘as long as you’re quiet’ and allow me to ride along, where he’d get a coffee and order me a chocolate milk. I saw him simmer down, become calm, and after a bit we’d go home.
My mom, God Bless her in her pain, would snap at me, saying I was ‘taking sides’.
I was able to tell her, some years later before she passed (rather suddenly) from pancreatic cancer:
Mom. I wasn’t taking dad’s side. I just wanted to be with him to make sure HE CAME HOME.
This song encapsulates so many memories, so much pain…
😢😢
Boy! That is a beautiful story. A movie story. Just awesome!
🙏🫡 How are you now?
Jeez, that's heavy. Condolences about your mom.
you're a good boy. so sorry about your mom
Dear my future child, i promised myself will give you all my love and i will never repeat the same mistake like how my parents did.
*Please don't reply if you never experienced living in a toxic family. My dad cheated and abused my mom.
💜
💜💜💜💜💜💜
💜💜💜
Bts Maknae I hope you make it I wish you my very best and good luck to everything you do in your life
👍👍👍👍👍
2020 anyone? Nostalgia hit me like a train...
Edit:
2021 and still going!
Edit 2.0(2024):
Timeless song.
damn, time is going so fast
Martin bezuch
you are right... I'm in the 2020 and the time is going so fast... It was yesterday the I was at primary school and now, second of secondary school... I'm afraid of the time.
I was in primary school when the song came out... now I'm a college/university student...
ROMANIA❤️❤️
@@vikvik9573 I ain't from Romania, but respect for Romania from Macedonia :D
Its April 2024, let's see how many legends are listening to this incredible song🎙
❤
Up
Here
Hi yellow guy
Ojas up
Who else is Listening February 2024?🔥👇
❤
❤
❤
❤
❤
I bet she had no idea how many lives she'd impact with this song.
she ist leavingin niuce song
Around the world
Yes🥺
@@lucylanch6262
ruclips.net/video/KIslk7CFrl8/видео.html
Yes
11 years later, if you're watching this you're a legend.
Brasil presente aqui também
legends
@@Whats_Tube BRASIL PRESENTE
Because of You Glowplays and Rewerd gt
16***years later
2024 anyone???
Yes still go on
Alwayssss
yup..
Me
Yessss❤❤❤
I'm always asking God to have mercy to my son, to spare him not to repeat my story. May God heal all these children from a broken family.
Don't know who this song was wrote about but if had the power would dedicate it to the monster who hurt me in twenty seventeen. I have lived with fear everyday since he cracked my ribs.
I've had many failed friendships growing up. One was rude, badly behaved and got away with anything, one was boring, rude, awkward, difficult, hard to pleased and unsociable, one was weird, strange, boring and had a demented and deranged family and one was spoiled, bratty, disobedient, poorly behaved and loved having everything her way.
When I was 19, I suffered the biggest and the worst blow of all. This former Secondary schoolmate of mine took the biscuit. We were friends for 6 years, but, he was honestly the worst friend I ever had and the worst friend anyone could have. He was everything I hated-Rude, pampered, spoiled, bratty, pampered, attention-seeking, controlling, greedy, irredeemable, unaccepting of other people, tight, manipulative, arrogant, ignorant, selfish, grouchy, grumpy, impulsive, impatient, unsociable, difficult, awkward, unapproachable, unlikeable, childish, immature, ungrateful, obnoxious, bossy, irresponsible, uncool, lazy, entitled, dishonest, deluded, delusional, unpopular, had no empathy, no understanding towards other people, had no humility towards other people, cocky, sarcastic, conceited, stuck-up, difficult, awkward, I would rather go as far as the edge of the solar system or the end of the world to get away from him or not socialise with him, just horrible and hateful.
All he ever did was control questions and conversations, try and change me into somebody I'm not, try to have his own way all the time, give up all the time, find the lazy or the easy way out of things, eat like a pig rather than deal with anything, use people, act shy and sensitive to gain attention and sympathy, lie, moan all the time, claim he was so much better than me or infact anyone else, make excuses "I can't do this or that because I'm busy", refuse to be honest, use families to cover up his backside or cover things up for him, refuse to own up when he did something wrong, wouldn't socialise with anyone, read text messages but not reply to them, exclude me from friends day outs, choose somebody else over me, get way with anything, have his own way all the time, kept pulling out of school, refuse to answer any question I asked him, refuse to take part in any conversation, dragged me upstairs in his house and my house to avoid making any effort talking or socialising with anyone, took after his rude, outspoken, opinionated and difficult father and he was ugly both inside and out. We fell out twice. I don't know how or why I forgave him the first time, but, it turned out to be a big mistake and he went back to his bad ways again and again and again. No matter how hard I tried, I just couldn't be the bloke he wanted me to be. I just didn't have it in me. I hated his father, but, he took the biscuit. He was the biggest mistake I ever made and the most horrible, most babyish and most conniving person I ever had the misfortune to be friends with.
I wanted to be sociable, outgoing, liked, embraced and more and more and more and more popular, but, he wanted to be in control of everything, control questions and conversations, have everything his way all the time and only please himself, nobody else. His father was just as bad as him, but, I always thought that anyone who liked, defended, accepted or befriended my arch enemy from Secondary School was a poor judge of character and had poor taste in people and friends. I hated, disliked and loathed anyone on his side.
Long since then, he's remained the biggest outcast from my Secondary School, been ditched and walked out on by my other friends and now only has 3 friends. 3 friends who are uncool, dweeby and have rubbish taste in people and friends.
Me on the other hand, I have come to my senses and socialised, befriended, mixed and been accepted by far better people-people who were cool, sociable, outgoing, popular, liked me, accepted me and embraced me as one of their own.
Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, and may your dreams come true, stay safe and have a wonderful day:)
thank you! needed that!
Thank you for this! I wish you the same✨♥️
tq frenz
Thanks wishing yo the same!💖
Thanks dude❤
“My heart can’t possibly break, if it wasn’t even whole to start with.”
Gets me every time.
same
Me too. Me too.
😭
I dont got it
Γμς τα, same.
Today I was wondering how you call the emotion when you feel sad about losing something you never had in the first place.
Some day I'll stumble upon this song again, and I won't have this anger anymore. I'd have forgiven, moved on, _be_ happy. This song would be familiar in tune, I might remember the lyrics vaguely and then mumble along, I would know with my mind that it was very painful as I related it, but I won't feel it anymore. Thank you for this song, Kelly Clarkson. To everyone going through similar pains, may we get through this as quickly as possible and come out the other side not too hurt that we've lost ourselves completely. God loves us.
Imagino eu de 38.chutando a porta
I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself 'cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way, to never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh
Every day of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side, so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die (I watched you die)
I heard you cry
Every night in your sleep
I was so young (and you're so young)
You should have known better (I was too young for you)
Than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain (you never saw me)
And now I cry
In the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you
Because of you
Both of my parents died along with my brother at age 15 I have been a orphan since that date I’m now 29 and the pain will never leave my heart 💓 because I was to young to realise they where my best friends , Mum , Dad , Matthew I’ll see you in eternity I’m heading every day towards you xx
Be strong honey 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️
I'm sorry about this but I do hope you can find solace and strength in God and know that they are up looking down at you and proud of all your little victories and accomplishments, plus the big ones. Take care
@@mazuro1293 Thank you 🙏 your kind words mean a lot to me. Have a fantastic day , much love.
♥️♥️♥️♥️
I've no words to make you feel better.
my parents dumped us me and my sister when I was 2 and she was 7... my dad got himself another family and my mom fell for drugs, she passed away in 2014...My dad is still living a normal life with his son and the other woman... My sister got affected the most, she got pregnant at 16 and ended up getting divorced from the dad of his two girls... she abandonned the girls and fell for drugs too. Fortunately my brother-in-law is a great father and he is raising my nieces all by himself.
We never got a normal family growing up and it hurts me seeing the damage this cycle is causing to my sister and nieces, what it caused to my mom to the point of destructing herself to death... I'm afraid for my future, I want a normal family, I don't want to ruin my children's life.
Your life story is really hard, but remember you're precious and this world is filled with small happiness too and it’s always around you, the flower that blooms in adversity is the most beautiful😗
Miss Camila you seem like a strong person. You can break the cycle! So sorry this happened to you but i get it!
heyy... i hope you are happy .... and doing well in your lifee.. god is with you... take care sis....
The fact that you're worried about what kind of life you can give to your own children tells me already you'll make a good mom someday. I also didn't have much of a good childhood, but I won't let it affect my future life, as you shouldn't too. If anything, I believe going through these struggles either breaks you, or makes you stronger than most people. Hope everything goes well for you ❤️
@@leonardocardoso1627 oh so true what you said and very kind of you to take the time to say that to her. God Bless
2024 who is here? ❤❤❤❤
Even now, in 2024, I'm still crying while listening to this song. I'm listening to this beautiful and sad song.
“I cannot cry because I know it’s weakness in your eyes” wow. It just hits harder now that we’re older.
Or it's because we are finally feel comfortable to cry now. It's sad. God bless you nia I hope it gets better for you.
Or because we get attacked when we cry, because we cry
Maybe we cry because we've held the pain in too long. Because we've had to be strong too long. Crying isn't weakness. God bless y'all ❤
@@misfitbrit1989 , how would we get rid of our psychological pain without tears?
@@happyface4711 Exactly how I feel. thank you so much and god bless.
To everyone who survived narcissistic or abusive parents I'm glad you're here today and I hope you never give up trying to be happy. It can be so much harder than some people will ever understand but you are strong and you have been through things nobody deserves to deal with. My heart goes out to you. 💜
I hope you can break the cycle. And that having a bad childhood doesn't have to define your whole life because you can be happy. You've already come so far. And if you're not ok... that's ok. 💜
im still stuck here trying to make it through this hell.... this song describes me...
im a 16 yr old girl stuck with an emotionally physically and mentally abusive mother and brother and this is completly domestic violene her and i need mmoney an online job to leave to get to an online friend i want to meet that ive known for 1 yr and a half and im honestly about to have another breakdown i have depression fears anxieties...
@@Littlekey1212 I hope you get out of your toxic situation and into a better place asap. You are strong to be going through this. I'm sending love. Nobody deserves abuse. I hope you can find safety and heal. I'm sorry I can't help more. I wish I could help you escape. I hope you can get an online job and save some money.
@@echastee thnks that means alot to me
Being with a narcissistic is a very difficult situation, But when you find the right person to get you out you appreciate life more & you thank the person who got you out!
I'm Not looking back, I was lucky.
Thank you ❤
To all the parents who suffered from the world , could never stand up to themselves and made their kids their emotional punching bag and taught their child never to trust the world , to never trust anyone , to never feel any emotion . To treat them like theyre weak for having emotional needs. To never even feel human.
To all the emotionally Stunted children who cant even process basic feelings without fully having a mental and emotional breakdown . Who can never trust anyone ever fully . Who can never maintain relations in their life , without being Paranoid, bitter and ultimately losing it.
This Song is for you.
😢☝️
14 years if you're still watching this... You're Legend ❤
hey, broken homies. it's still our Anthem
Definitely!
Yes :)
Yep
@F. Santos
Yeah
Número de brasileiros escutando esse clássico 👇🇧🇷
oioiKK
@TheWinxMusa v z in cd 25 u zruší
U7l9l
Oiiii
Eu.
What an absolute queen, giving us a song about breaking generational curses 20 years before it became a popular subject ❤
I've had a toxic father, so thank you Kelly ♥️✨
How are you Maam,hope that you are okay
She wrote this when she was 16. Very powerful song to be written at any age, let alone as a teenager. I think sometimes we forget just how good a writer Kelly is. Sometimes her songwriting gets over shadowed by her unbelievably beautiful voice. We all have our own opinions about music, but for me Kelly is the best singer I've ever heard.
In response to the comment from Breanna Jones that this song was written by Reba McEntire: The songwriting credits are given to Kelly Clarkson, David Hodges and Ben Moody. Hodges and Moody produced the song. Kelly has said that the song would not have gotten recorded without their help, so she gave them a songwriting credit. But Kelly wrote it at 16. It was about her parents divorce. Reba did record her own version of this with Kelly. Kelly released it on her Breakaway album in 2005. Reba's version came out on her album Duets in 2007. So while Reba did sing a version of it, she had nothing to do with the writing of it. I hope that clears things up.
I just heard an older interview with Jewel speaking about how insanely gifted artistic Kelly Clarkson is.
I love Kelly, her voice is great! But The Voice is, Whitney Elizabeth Houston... nothing against Kelly, she is fabulous! But Whitney is Whitney…love y'all!🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@virginialudovicasofiabarbe1197 That's what's great about music. There is something for everyone to enjoy. For me it's Kelly, for you it's Whitney. Everybody's happy. With all the hate in this world, music can bring people together.
@@frankingenito oh yes! I'm totally agree with you! Everyone has his preference, his liking... Music unites! Music makes life more enjoyable ! Music is love, music is against the hate! Wishing you all the best! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍🤍 And sorry for my English I'm Italian...😊
It took me 30 years of suppressed trauma and 2 years of therapy to realize that I've been singing along to this song since middle school without knowing what it really, deeply meant to me. I forgive you, mom.
You never deserved so much of trauma and suffering. You're so brave to forgive your mom...
I wish you have a beautiful life ahead. I'm sure you'll become stronger and stronger with every moment passing by.
God loves you.
@@justbreathing8003 God bless. Your kind words have lifted up a soul today 🙏
God bless you and everyone under this comment 🥺
@@mutias.noviani785 My heart goes out to you Mutia. You are strong--just one foot in front of the other. That's all we need to focus on.
I completely understand the pain I’m gonna through separation at the moment and I forgot who I am num to the world and no one can understand I don’t want to live but I have to we don’t get choices we are trapped in the scars they left us
American Idol 2024 brought me here!
The comments on this video prove Kelly deserves all the flowers 💐💖 thank you for putting this feeling into a beautiful song
I will not make the same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break the way you did
You fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you (oh)
Because of you (mm, oh)
영어공부
Because these lyrics are beautiful and powerful to the bone marrow love her and this gem of a tune stay strong and courageous😂😂.
@@andrewjwheelerjr275 it reminds me of the song "Breakthrough" by TWICE, powerful but not as sad as Kelly's lyrics
Scrolled through the comments to find that one guy who copypastes the lyrics under a music video. Thanks mate
❤
The fact that Kelly Clarkson wrote this masterpiece when she was just 16.😭
Now I am more than double of her age that day and I just lying here to listen to her... That's legend!
True Stuff Hannah?
Not a masterpiece simp
Wait. SHE WROTE it???!?! Omg.... Omg wow. Omg... Seriously?!?! Omg omg omg. Wow
@@Anonymous-in4ed please go back to sleep anonymous...........
Anyone else in 2024?
🙋♀️ me 🇮🇪
me🇯🇵
Dear future child. I will never do the same mistakes my parents did. I will always be there for you and love you with all my heart. You will never be alone. You will always be loved.
h a
LYRICS :
I will not make
The same mistakes that you did
I will not let myself
Cause my heart so much misery
I will not break
The way you did, you fell so hard
I've learned the hard way
To never let it get that far
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I lose my way
And it's not too long before you point it out
I cannot cry
Because I know that's weakness in your eyes
I'm forced to fake
A smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My heart can't possibly break
When it wasn't even whole to start with
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I find it hard to trust not only me, but everyone around me
Because of you
I am afraid
I watched you die
I heard you cry every night in your sleep
I was so young
You should have known
Better than to lean on me
You never thought of anyone else
You just saw your pain
And now I cry in the middle of the night
For the same damn thing
Because of you
I never stray too far from the sidewalk
Because of you
I learned to play on the safe side so I don't get hurt
Because of you
I try my hardest just to forget everything
Because of you
I don't know how to let anyone else in
Because of you
I'm ashamed of my life
Because it's empty
Because of you
I am afraid
Because of you
Because of you
thank you
Exo God is watching you...
Denise Bouwer XD !!! :*
thx...
yesim XP
Kelly, thanks for sharing this beautiful song. It is needed now in so many families because the family unit is being destroyed. God bless you!
Its June 2024, let's see how mant legends are listening to this incredible song ❤
This kind of Music was so much better than the Crap nowadays!
IKR
oooh~ nobody gives a shit
+unbekannt namenlos (anonym)
I'm sorry,but how is sad music better?
I´m not talking about if it´s sad or not, I mean the style of music.
Oh,okay then.
:)
"I was so young you should have known better than to lean on me."
That one lyric summarizes my entire childhood in a way I thought no one else understood.
Sarah Peterson it must have been so hard for you. Many children are placed in that position by broken hurting parents. I retreated into drugs and alcohol, unfortunately my children lived through it with me. Now they have both had their struggles, very hard. My father abandoned my young mother and her four children when I was four. The cycle goes on and on.
That one lyric make me cry...
When my mom was depressed she would use me as a therapist. Just dumped all her problems on me. I was in high school and felt like I was the adult at home. Didn't tell her about the stuff I was going through because I didn't want to add to her problems. Which is why they found out about my suicidal thoughts from my psychiatrist about 1.5 years after it started.
@@ajsoltani I'm sorry to hear you went through that. You were likely right to hide it from your mom. Mine would lecture me about how I had to grow up and be more grateful whenever I mentioned my depression to her.
Same.
I believe that somewhere in the world, there are people who feel the same emotions that I feel when I listen to masterpieces like this song.
Who’s still listening in 2024?
Eu ouço sempre ❤❤❤
If I could meet Kelly I'd tell her how her song help me deal with the pain of my father's abuse.. thank you Kelly I love you God bless you!!
He was teaching you to be strong x
@@monsieur9743 yeah, teaching her to be strong in a worse possible way
@@monsieur9743 abuse isnt teaching
ruclips.net/video/YtQGJ1pS6Fs/видео.html
Stay strong!🤗☺️
Broken home isn't choice,, but people's that lives with this kind of pain is stronger than anything..
sorry? lie about trust. I can deceive people who believe in my goodness. which in fact I have a lot of sins and mistakes. but I don't want anyone else. fall with my mistakes and sins. avoid it. it was devastating and never came back. especially losing loved ones. not changing other people's wishes to follow mine. but what is the real truth. you will be disappointed if you see me but believe me if it's the truth it is for you not for me. but thank the true God. if you are disappointed make a superman version come down from the sky and help you. You know . you don't lie inside. it will never exist and happen. is this like an endless word? up for debate. I don't feel like my age is getting old and don't want to keep admitting mistakes. remember the death of the corona virus has been in thousands in each region. even the farthest areas. many people are sad and desperate for those who experience it. money and lives are falling inappropriately. faith began to shake violently. an atsmofer of sadness and despair . which one do you want to follow?
edible fruit and not? God forbid it? and can't even eat it? talk about cause and effect? does God allow all these problems? with this belief? if we look at this world and its interests. anyone studying the true path and religion? why be so far away from the goal? when there is an incident or crime, it is natural and must???? ....? should I be that person? we must be vigilant? do we learn the truth? not as perpetrators of crime and making crime look positive and must be done. crime is crime. there is nothing good in it. even harm others and destroy your career. If you want money? not wrong? remember but the way? Stay with God? but we have to have a job, from what? that can make money right and not breaking. let alone insist on being right. clearly in God is the opposite? so use life and what we have wisely and well. before we know it. sorry for always coming late. try and think for real. not always use analogies to change paradigms and perspectives. keep fighting reality and repeating the same mistakes. become a science that contradicts the basic foundations of cause and effect and real logical thinking. what is real and reality. before we realize and it's too late. fill this day with kindness and enthusiasm. Don't forget to take good care of this corona virus. because the future of vaccines and the amount and level of economic income of a country are determined. only true vaccines. which can treat body cells that are attacked. heart and brain cells are cells that can only grow after decades. even have to be willing to spend energy that should not be wasted from this body on purpose.
Stay strong miss lady
cause and effect of disease and additives. bullying behavior of society or groups. epidemics and death. cause sub-controversial problems in the future. inner wounds and save a lot of controversial stories and conspiracies. not based on data or facts. but allegations and accusations or vents. mental health and mental health problems. if financial problems between friends. debts and receivables. must be paid. I don't want death. but my money back. my only business problem turned into enmity and evil. if money ..then money back. not death. or reply .. because friendship is not just built . even years for a trust as a friend. if the competition is not fraudulent behavior and a crime against the opponent. but improve your skills and good grades and develop your skills. if not dirty business. revert to additives if chemical and toxic elements are possible . addition.... on contagion... so the effect is many times lethal. on combustion smoke. goods and so on. with commonly found poisons. if it contains an element of intent. inhaled. as suspected at the start of the pandemic. toxins and germs. sabotage. in China it is no secret that since ancient times the kingdom. There are two roles in the palace queen and cook. who can rule within. the cook can give medicine and healthy food. but it can also poison and make you weak. slow or rapid death. I didn't mention this... in advance sorry? I don't mean to make rumors or conjectures. beware. beware of evil and double-tonguedness. bullying behavior for satisfaction, racism, irritation, fad, habitual nature, business, self-esteem, lack of competitiveness. no wonder found in children and the current situation. because of the downturn in the economy and circumstances. vigilance and caution. because this behavior is carried over into adulthood and without end. without any evidence and clarity of punishment. many are now conspiracies or fake news. either intentional or unintentional? even the reality of the evidence yet. can corroborate a truth that happened and the many tricks of hidden crimes with no visible basis. which requires an in-depth investigation. you may experience this situation. develop your abilities with positive values. stay away from those people. love your family and loved ones. not baseless suspicion. Corona doesn't just damage the lungs. brain. weakness of the body. emotion. profession social and others. but this situation is faced all over the world down to the lowest strata. not impossible could not happen. apologize and pray to the true God. whatever your religion. the good will still be there. kindness will lead you to the truth.
deal with s.....attacks .with 90% . alert . maintain a distance. home and work masks. don't wear a mask talk a lot. replace a new one. hot shower. eat hot spicy soup. boiled eggs min 2 .vaccine. turmeric ginger. cooked and boiled garlic. pickled cucumber. normal. initial attack. Hot water apple cider vinegar max 2x a day no more than 3 days. stomach blood pressure and heart. coca cola salt. Chew betel leaf a quarter max 2x a day. daunt min 3x a day min. pineapple. fruits. red wine. guava guava juice. celery. pawpaw. papaya seeds. papaya leaf. warm lemons. eat well and optimal body heat. The d virus even survives with the doctor's drugs and vaccines weakened. hot room temperature in the car. sauna. min 20 minutes. with good rules and conditions and not dehydrated. medicine and consultation. Drink ginger at least 3 times a day. fit condition. vegetable and meat ginger pepper soup. sit and sleep in a slightly upright position. oxygen saturation. changing food variety. Avoid foods that cause excess stomach acid. without an empty stomach or tiredness. the help of friends and relatives. mandatory before ...and after recovering.... hot steam therapy. two spoons of salt min 15 minutes and min 3x a day. clean the ears and nose. eye drops. because the corona increases secretions in many parts of the body.
Who knew 14 years later kelly clarkson would be a successful talk show host.
She is such an inspiration 💗
Masterful song and video. Excellent depiction of how children assume the blame for parents abuses of each other and the kids, and I love how Kelly portrays the "inner child" aspect of healing. Very well done.
who else’s childhood was like this? and looking back you’re just amazed that you pulled through all the hurt even when you thought you wouldn’t.
+ArmaniCoat me
I was these parents and I stopped myself because of this song. Granted I was only 15 when I had my daughter . But still this song opened my eyes . I didn't want to be like my mom.
15 years long when I first heard this song
and it still make me cry
I think only who had grown in the broken family can really feel the lyrics
When I first heard this song I thought about growing up, a mother who instilled fear when I very young! I am stronger for it now, I won!
Hallo ich steh voll euer lied ich bin Sina Berghahn!!!
This song never gets old. For the ones of us who understand the lyrics. You deserve better than you may allow yourself. Life is too short to be stuck with misery!
True 💞💞
it is a very sad song really
yes im in misry
Oh, and war is a bad thing, too! You could have added that. And cancer! I mean, what's with cancer?!! ;-)
@@suds2808 🙏
Maret 2024 here
Me 🙋♀️🇮🇪
Listening to this song explains the amount of heartache I’ve had since my father left us. Growing up without him I didn’t think much of it. But now, as an adult and a wife and mother, it hurts to the core. Explains why I am the way I am today. Never afraid to be alone bc the one man that should have never broke my heart, broke it at such a young age. Being alone doesn’t scare me.
The first heartbreak is that of a parent
Yes u got it !!!
My biological father
so true
Took me until 37 to realize this. Life long problems because of it.
Yeah also songs about heartbreak where not about a boy I liked it was about my dad
If you’ve grown up in an abusive childhood this song hits you on so many levels
I know
Yes so much that it hurts.
Yeah. I feel like this song will always hit me in a painful way.
yes everytime i heard this song it makes me cry coz i grew up physically and emotionally abuse
KIT KAT I luckily only had emotional abuse.
Alguém ouvindo essa música em pleno 2024?
Man I'm 62 and this song makes me cry about my Dad. PLEASE take care of your children... They don't get over it.
This tells the story of millions. But children should never have to be a part of this...
Yes, I understand. But, the parents need to understand that. My ex-wife left me - I could never do that to my daughter - to bring her up into a broken home - but, my ex is selfish and stubborn and only thought about herself - I could NEVER take her back, it would never be the same. She left, and I will ghost her for the rest of my living life.
Because my parents abuse me when i was a kid. Now, im 25 yo and having suicidal thought. Abd think about it everyday. 😭
Yes..... the damage is real and hard to fix. Im forced to live with an anxiety disorder, panic disorder, agorophobia and ocd. Too much traumatic events happen when growing up and now its hard to handle all the mental damage done by my parents. And still they like to point out the problems I have due to this mental disorders do they even know they caused these mental problems??? harsh ..
Radha Chatterjee
That’s just how life is. I’m a child and I’ve just gone through so much in my life. Nothing dangerous, just a lot of mental abuse and being screamed at every day and being told terrible things. And I have a lot of family problems. It’s not better, but the past few days have been good so I guess that’s good.
Peggy Schuyler I disagree with the "or divorce" part heavily. My parents are divorced, but were mature about. I never heard them argue to my memory, I never saw violence, even to this day they can hold civilized conversation when discussing something about me as far as I'm aware, and I see both almost equally. There is no reason for two people to be in a toxic or miserable relationship for the child's sake, and that is what leads to the violence and cheating that will likely give the child trust issues and anxiety.
When this song first came out, my mom was driving me to school and this was on the radio. She was going through a messy divorce with my dad and yadayada, it was a rough time. She told me she feels like this is my song for her, this song still makes me tear up because of that.
+mollsGreen may god bless both of you
Relax
my mom would always listen to evanescence on CD for the exact same reason when I was in 3rd grade.
***** My mom did too because of "My Immortal", but she gave me the CD because she wasn't into the rest of the music, but that started my obsession with Evanescence in high school :)
+mollsGreen yeah haha. tbh, I'd probably hate it if it weren't for her lol:)
Anyone in 2024..?
Great voice, great song, sung with every emotion possible - truly earth shattering🙏❤️
To everyone who has been through childhood trauma,
You are amazing. You're so strong and I'm so proud of you for managing everything so well. I know you feel confused and helpless but please never give up on yourself. It wasn't your fault,you were just a child trying to discover the world...
God has a gift for everyone who has been so strong to deal with a traumatic childhood,he has for you too and that's why he has given you so much strength. I believe in your power and I know you'll be able to get through this difficult journey and come out stronger with every moment passing by. Just because,nobody knows about your pain doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Your trauma is real and matters.
Stay strong.
Thank you very much
Thank you so much 💕 I needed that
Yes it is...I'm trying to find a homeless shelter to escape the emotional abuse 😢
I'm crying read this
Have been through childhood trauma - this reminds me of plants that are fed with poison instead of water. Have to survive this and it's a miracle to grow up psychologically strong or healthy after childhood trauma
“I’m forced to fake a smile a laugh every day of my life” honestly hit me
yu
What r u going through?
Ye same with me
Me too..😔
💔We're not alone and there is Hope and Help 🌈
I hope every family just passed all the pain and have peace and happiness in their way to live
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Because of you
I find it hard to TRUST!! not Only Me, but everyone around Me.
elle est belle moi j'ai confiance an moi
You know what hurts the most is when you can relate to this song with your own father, the only thing is he didn't even leave.
I feel the same
I'm sorry to hear that. but I can tell you that you're strong. and I'm proud that you've been this strong
+Aislynn Wilken yea
same. he didn't leave. so i had to leave.
same here...he did not leave..but he was not a good father..he was an alcoholic and treated my mom very bad when he was drunk..and i was.also only a child when i saw all this stuff..i must admit he changed a lot in the last couple of years..but i just can't forget and forgive all the things that i witness and felt in my childhood..i think i can't have a serious relationship because of him..i really do not trust men because of him..i always think that they will hurt me in one way or another..so i always end it before it gets to serious
“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” 😭
My favorite lyrics. Watching this video reminds of my parents disfacial marriage. People always tell me and "your nice but heartless at the same time, who broke your heart" NO ONE has ever broken my heart, being rises by 2 broken people there for "my heart can't possibly break because it was never hole to start with."
Yeah, thanks dad. RIP. I hope you found peace.
I’m 19 years old, it’s so hard to be a Christian teenager and many teenagers don’t believe in Jesus but i want them to believe in Jesus I’ll pray for them everyday and I’ll keep my faith forever 💗💗🙌🙌
14 anos já, eu ainda sofro com essa música me traz tantas lembranças boas que não consigo segurar as lágrimas 😭❤
To everyone who have family issues, who never feel loved, who have traumatic experiences and etc,just wanting to let you know that you are loved. You are worth it and the scars you have doesn't define you. You are you. You are loved by many. Please stay strong for a bit, stay strong for that new music you've been anticipating, stay strong for wanting to eat the meal you've always wanted, stay strong for your friends who loves you even if they don't show it right away.
Thank you
Thanks :)
Lol
Thank you, friend 👍
@@courtneypopich3117 is there something funny?
"i was so young, you should have known better than to lean on me" gets me everytime.
Kelly is clearly talking to her mom in that lyric. I feel the same way as you.
Me 2
I get what she's saying and I sympathize... I just don't know that I can blame my mother for looking for comfort or support, even though, I was young and I had no idea what to do. There were so many times I held a knife at the door or paced around with a baseball bat just bc I wanted to kill the guy that hurt her and I just couldn't do it.
@@rachelluviano7514 this whole song is about her mom🥺 whats sad is people dismiss it as a break up song because they don't listen to the lyrics well enough but this song is so much more meaningful and powerful than a break up song. Anyone can get over a breakup, but a damaged relationship with your own parents? Now thats just something you don't recover from💔
This line hits so hard "because of you, I'm ashamed of my life because it's empty" 😭😭😭
So many memories, so much pain, life goes on and we try to stop the cycle...
"My heart can't possibly break, when it wasn't even whole to start with" This makes me cry
+ thank you for the likes 😊
Me too😭
it is possible for a solar explosion some time or month in the future. in this year. some regions in Asia have experienced temperature increases earlier than usual and will continue to decline. unusual heat. heat stroke alert. flooding in the next month and hot like drought. Australia will have more impact on global warming with California. losses could be more in the coming year. takes a long time to recover. the effects of widespread warming and rainfall. cannot be taken lightly. that there is a lot of damage and fire in the world has destroyed forests in parts of the world. and Latin America is facing in the future. the earthquake alert will increase by 4 months in areas affected by the earthquake good wishes and prayers and security and peace.
So very true! Also, I was so young you should’ve known better than to lean on me... I hear pieces of myself so often in this song, a few are not “bad” but made me stronger n more aware of choices before I made them....I hope this is coming right to where nobody takes this the wrong way.... that’s not my intention.
Another song that touches my heart is “Where is the Love”
@@notjokeyaya4468 k
@@notjokeyaya4468 oj
I wasn't physically abused as a child, but I did experience emotional abuse and neglect. I keep coming back to this song because it articulates the experience so vividly and real.
Same here. CPTSD is a nightmare especially when you didn’t have the bruises to show. I hope you’re okay.
I pray you'll get better soon guys 🥺
Same.
***True love = the love of God!*** God himself went to the cross for you out of love for you as a human being Philippians 2:5-8
Same! 🥺
Love her songs she's the best I'm 48 yrs old I remember when she won American idol 😊❤❤❤❤
I will never forget the day my foster daughter came to me and played this song for me. She said it was a song about her and her mom. To this day this song makes me cry. I still see my foster daughter and we have stayed in contact all of these years. She still calls me mom.
What's really terrible is that this song was aimed more towards her mother. If you listen closely you can hear throughout the whole song that she is ashamed her mother put up with her father for that long and was so vulnerable to him. In the bridge of the song ("I watched you die, I heard you cry every night in your sleep, I was so young you should have known better than to lean on me, you never thought of anyone else you just saw your pain") she's telling you that her mother lost her way and never took the others into consideration. Now Kelly is afraid that she'll make her mother's mistakes by being with the wrong man and letting her family get to the point of where her family was when she was younger. It's truly sad.
oversleep hero, take advantage?
Dawn of Fire Attack? Unexpected?
green trees, cool weather, watery?
How did it happen?!
drought, deciduous leaves, excessive heat, wind, direction, dry areas, forests and plantations,
see extraordinary scale?
wind and fire speed reaches 146kph?
smoke height.
in one day thousands of hectares burned?
keep in mind the fire burns with spread and the direction of the wind and that can be burned quickly.
leaves. branch. chemicals such as paint, plastic and others?
the scale of large complex homes accelerates the spread of fire.
do you need to know which trees or plants are green and fresh or are they raining?
with the current weather after earlier ...
then ....... the day after because of the hot weather ... right now?
then you will be surprised? if you understand?! trees or plants?! will it look very very dry ?! like never been showered with water?
one you can imagine?
can this happen in any region or country?
if you live? wherever you are?
especially hot and tropical climates?
alert?
don't anyone take ......?!
I'm so sad ?!
the fire spreads in the direction of the wind?
and distribution of fire?
with a scale of miles ..... then the heat of smoke is the same as being called?
half enough to one hour
will the tree dry?
extraordinary impact?
200km / hour spread radius ........
1hour .......... but if it spreads circular ........ what ...... wind ...
fire like this can be able to cross the area without being crossed by fire ... ..... up to 1km.
warm area. hot. become a grill like a stone road. sand. smoke. If this is only exposed to smoke within hundreds of meters, it will melt. dry and burn by itself?
prepare yourself? from the worst possible? prepare everything good. calm down asked the clerk?
Tell your friends and family?
commemorate? especially when sleeping?
this is not a toy and in a few hours or tomorrow? can't ... it can happen even though it's far away?
the worst possibility happened .....
Are you sure? ("I watched you die, I heard you cry every night in your sleep, I was so young, you should've known better than to lean on me, you never thought of anyone else you just saw your pain") Her dad left in the video, and didn't care he was leaving, and the mom shut her out of her life, so they both did the same thing, I think it's aimed at both of them.
It's about her father actually, she was about to walk out the door in the beginning of the video, just like her father did, and she says she will not make the same mistake that he did. It also says on Wikipedia that she made this about her dad, and she still keeps in contact with her mom, but not her dad
SOMEONE FINALLY SAID THAT!!!!
This is what my mom is doing to me
@kellyclarkson thank you from someone else who has been through this cycle, for giving us a song to vent to, and hopefully heal from
I'm forced to fake a smile, a laugh everyday of my life
My aunt was the one who introduced me to This song which was 4 years ago, 2010. She was probably the only family member I ever had that Cared for me. My parents are just a pair of Messed ups. A few years later, she passed on from having cancer and the only thing I have left is this song to remind me of her...And I break down everytime I hear this song. Thank you Aunty, Because of you, I actually felt loved for that once... :') God bless anyone who listens to this song and get feels .
Oi boa noite, gostei de sua Historia e muito bonita, e ao mesmo tempo muito triste. Tchau gostaria de ser seu amigo. RuiBradok
I really and exactly know how u feel
This gets me and explains what I feel and have been feeling for years
And I'm glad that someone else knows my pain as well
My parents were all fucked up and it felt like no one in the world cared about me
Oi eu me importo. muito com você...você não disse se aceita ser minha amiga. escreva-me, adoraria saber mais sobre você...e sua Historia. Tchau RuiBradok
Olá, sinto muito você ter passado por isto. Sei que não é fácil, mas tente ser forte! Um dia isto tudo terá fim e você será muito Feliz..
I don't know you, but surround yourself with people who love you :) Hope all is well!
I well not let my family go through hell like i did when i was a child.
Angela w If you're still married to him you need to divorce him . I know it must be hard but you MUST leave him!!
Atleast for your kids' sake
Same fam, same
U had Nintendo 64 and psx it Wasnt a hell dude.
2024 still love this song🎉🎉🎉
This song is a masterpiece
Who is still listening to this 11 years later ❤❤ this song hits home 😔😔
I am here😂😉
I am here to
@@caitlinbc1636 thx I appreciate that
This then "Stronger" right after 💪♥️💪♥️💪
It always will! Forever ❤
March 2024!!! 🔥
🙋♀️🇮🇪
Who's Listening to this song in June 2024?
“My heart can’t possibly break when it wasn’t even whole to start with” so profound !
Ikr
N
H
That line kills me. Every time.
This song resonates with everyone who went through rough childhood experience which maybe just little less intense to say traumatic because there are people who have been through worse, but doesn’t mean it affects you less. Some traumatic childhood experiences are hard to explain because you had food on your plate and a roof over your head. Your parents worked hard for you, and didn’t abandon you but emotionally they were not there, and you never received that emotional security to grow into a full happy adult. All those arguments, bitterness, chaos and fear left a huge hole inside your heart, who would you hold accountable for? My heart breaks every time I come to this song because I see myself in that little girl
Coming back to this comment after a year and a half as so many great souls are telling me how it resonates with them. I was so wrong about comparing trauma in terms of some people having it worse. I didn’t know at that time. Emotional neglect and abandonment in your childhood IS A TRAUMA…period!
I know it now because finally after being emotionally broken for so many years, I am able to recognise how it has shaped me and my relationship with people around me.
The silver lining is I am learning that the trauma can be healed and I am finally beginning to work on it with my therapist and also with self education and researching. Dr. Gabor Mate is the specialist in childhood trauma and is very helpful, anyone with childhood trauma should listen to him. You are all loved ❤
Felt every word, hers and yours. I still cry when I see the video, and I repeat to myself "I will not make the same mistakes that you did". I am a mother now.
kkk
kkk
kkk
kkk
A perfect music video for a broken family💔
2024 we love this song ❤❤
Anyone with divorced parents knows how this feels and how true is this song, and the feelings of fear to fail just like your parents did
or parents who are divorcing. This song explain exactly the feeling...So modern in a sense
My parents have been married for 30 years, and trust me. I prayed everyday to them get divorced. Otherwise I woudnt be here crying on Christmas day.
Ikr😞
Sometimes a divorce is better than a sick and toxic marriage. Since I am 12 years old I say too my mum she should make a divorce,
yeah divorced? my parents had me and left each other i feel like i failed so bad
Please if you are parents, don't do this to your kids
2024? 👀🇧🇷
06-02-2024 ❤
Why is it always the sad songs that get the most love?
The answer: because if there’s one thing we can all relate to, it’s pain. Be kind to others everyone. And stay safe.
stay home, coronavirus is painful
So true
@@bobblesV4.0 you too
Cause we all depressed
Because of you I hurt myself.
Story of every broken hearts 💔
:*
But it's also true :/
BitterVoid ... are you a robot? for not having a feeling that broken hearts is just too dangerous? it can kill themselves
Henz Carl Tupas I'm already dead inside :(
Not being a hater or anything but by self harming you are letting that person win. You are making yourself the victim. I suggest that you find something to raise you're self esteem and stop hurting yourself.
Brings tears to my eyes every time
The song makes a lot of sense. I can relate. Your past doesn't define you instead it makes you better cause I am not better!
Raised by single mom since I was five, I didn't realise how parent could affect their kids until I became grown man, there's something lacking inside of me but I thought I'm fine which is not. For many years I thought I've been doing right choices turns out I'm just escaping. Escaping from home, escaping my true feeling to anyone.
Stay strong, you will learn to deal with it and feel better i’m sure.
:(
I hope, your able to come it and live the life your meant too live.... From personal experience, I realized it ok to grow up without father.... Was it painful yes, but in the end it wasn't him I was searching for.... I don't know your circumstances, but i know what you needed is already inside you.... I praying you realize this before it too late....
Same feeling 😔
@Ma2yves You mean it can be difficult...
2024 let’s go
19/05/2024 i love you ....trust music