HOW I ENDED UP MARRYING MY HUSBAND! | Honest Chit Chat GRWM

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  • @Jessengur
    @Jessengur 3 года назад +36

    My baby!!! Always and forever.😁❤️❤️❤️😘

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +3

      My sugar boo!❤️❤️

    • @olurinoyindamola3281
      @olurinoyindamola3281 3 года назад +6

      They have brought it here oooo, wahala for who no get True love...Let me come and be going.

    • @bee-beeibk2016
      @bee-beeibk2016 3 года назад +1

      @@olurinoyindamola3281 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 serious wahala for who no get sugar boo

    • @olurinoyindamola3281
      @olurinoyindamola3281 3 года назад +1

      @@bee-beeibk2016 there is no shame for the shameless my sister...this love odikwa strongggg ooo...Chaiii, God am I not your daughter too?

    • @andreaannan3063
      @andreaannan3063 3 года назад

      Awww 🥺😍

  • @queenjames9015
    @queenjames9015 3 года назад +15

    Im from Philippines and my husband is from Nigeria (Igbo). We met in UK 2012 and the rest is history. Tradition was never an issue for us. He is Anglican and I am Catholic, before marriage we go to our respective churches and after marriage we go to both depending on which church we feel like going. He doesnt party, he doesnt drink or smoke and most especially he doesnt womanize. Lucky wife here. Thank God.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +2

      Omg! Our husbands are so alike. No womanizing or smoking here either. He drinks occasionally, not frequently at all.

  • @ucheobuekwe
    @ucheobuekwe 3 года назад +5

    Loved this! I totally agree, just do you and do what makes you happy biko.
    All this tribalism and church denomination stuff gives me headache. Glad these days people are paying less attention to such.
    They’re more important things to look out for in a partner like kindness, someone who has sense, respect etc etc..

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Sooooo true! Preach!!

  • @nwannekaokudo2377
    @nwannekaokudo2377 3 года назад +6

    I'm from Anambra, married Enugu man. My mum never wanted me to leave Anambra state, but with time she came around and accepted. My Dad wanted Anambra too but he was neutral about my choice as long as the person treats you well and you are happy that's all that matters.
    In my Dads words, ' I didn't mould an Anambra man that is waiting for you.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Awwww! Nice!! Our dads are alike!

  • @hildasampson
    @hildasampson 3 года назад +2

    A good person is a good person; it doesn't matter the tribe/denomination. Jesse is a good man. I can see it. God bless you both.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Indeed he is! Amen! Thank you so much

  • @johannaaguh4438
    @johannaaguh4438 3 года назад +2

    Very true, that list ehn, smh. I always ran away from Igbo guys thinking, at most I will marry Delta Igbo. Smh, my dear one igbo and hausa speaking Anambra hunk came and swept me off my feet 😁😁😍😍 and he is catholic and I am not. I cannot even imagine marrying any body else 😊.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      You see!!!! Glad to hear this!

  • @awowede_kemi
    @awowede_kemi 3 года назад +10

    Like you said, just do what works for you, a good person is a good person... that's it. My husband is from Delta state and I can remember how scared I was because of the tribal stuff and how both families will take it but I didn't allow my fears to hold me back. So, sometimes it's better to give it a shot and see if it will work out first, instead of loosing good people because of the society or fears. As long as you are happy, go for it. Your makeup is on point and look beautiful as always.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Well said!!!
      Thank you so much 😊

  • @OnyinPearlvlogs
    @OnyinPearlvlogs 3 года назад +7

    Looking at him you’ll know he’s really a cool guy. You made the right choice sis😊

  • @UK-sm4co
    @UK-sm4co 3 года назад +1

    Marriage is soooooo spiritual. God alone knows. Let's just pray for guidance and when your heart is at peace with that special person, please go for it. Pray for God to touch the heart of objecting parents or family. Jamaican sister in law, sounds very cool. ❤❤❤

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      You said it all.
      Lool, oh yea I love my Jamaican sis in law!

  • @pattEyaba
    @pattEyaba 3 года назад +1

    No need to date someone for long when its will not end in marriage

  • @JuliaFranks
    @JuliaFranks 3 года назад +8

    You see that long list, it can never be complete 🤣🤣.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @enemachidiebere3592
    @enemachidiebere3592 3 года назад +2

    I can relate cos my dad is igala and my mum is igbo ...tribal differences shouldn't hinder marriage...

  • @momlisticlife5866
    @momlisticlife5866 3 года назад +9

    Why is my notification late? If you watched from beginning till the end, please gather here for badge collection 😇

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      I don’t understand RUclips these days o! Lol

  • @momlisticlife5866
    @momlisticlife5866 3 года назад +1

    A lot of my friends are not married now because church denomination. They missed a lot of good men. This is a very good advice. The list is usually too trivial..
    and yes I watched again because I am here for the make up class😃

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Awww thank you!!!
      Hmmm wow!! If only they could turn back the hands of time

  • @anneokolie8368
    @anneokolie8368 3 года назад +6

    I absolutely love the quality of your videos. It shows you put in a lot of hard work into them.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @chimdinmaojo-samson3012
    @chimdinmaojo-samson3012 3 года назад +3

    This is almost my story. My husband had always been my friend for years but I refused to date him cos he wasnt ibo but at the same time the ones I came across weren't doing it for me. Funny thing is he knew, so when I conquered that prerequisite I set within me, it was just to easy and seamless funny thing my parents never even asked why I chose a non ibo cos they've always known him as my friend since.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Wow! Look at that!!

  • @ucheobuekwe
    @ucheobuekwe 3 года назад +1

    Wait what, I can’t believe this hair is one of our 10k hairs ohh, ah ah!!! It’s looking so lush here oh, like it’s the real bone straight 😍😂😂

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Mehn!! Its my bone straight o!🤣🤣

  • @barbarachinonso7564
    @barbarachinonso7564 3 года назад +2

    Hi Alma,
    Hope your weekend is going fine. This is something we need to hear more often. Growing up in the US my parents always preached the Igbo spouse thing to me. I was conflicted at first but I decided to take control of my own life. I mostly dated Americans and the one Igbo man I dated was the worst human being God created. After him I told myself that I will go wherever love leads me. The point of my story is fortunately after years I found the guy who fits and checks every boxes and surprisingly he ended up being Igbo, but even if he wasn’t I would still be with him. I just love authentic love!!

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Awwww happy you found your Mr Right!!
      Thank you for watching

  • @comfortamedu4578
    @comfortamedu4578 3 года назад +1

    I am from Kogi my hubby is is from Cross River and also first daughter, is all about love, enjoy your marriage sis

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Yass!! Love this

  • @sleekuno8647
    @sleekuno8647 3 года назад +1

    Hi Mama Mia🙋‍♀️😘. You married a good man sis👍💯.He is well trained and have a good heart🤝.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      I completely agree! Lucky me

  • @adaonyeocha
    @adaonyeocha 3 года назад +1

    Yes its good to do what works for you. In my own case i married almost 70 percent of what i wanted, church and tribe inclusive 💑

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Fantastic 🙌🏼

  • @Banigostv
    @Banigostv 3 года назад +1

    Your story is almost similar to mine like my husband wasn't even on my list.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Hahahaha! We’re alike

  • @omawumimercy2270
    @omawumimercy2270 3 года назад +4

    So true. I used to say I can never marry an Igbo person. But now, boo is Igbo from anambra and I am from nasarawa.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      You see!!!! Never say never!😁

  • @sgoodas4
    @sgoodas4 3 года назад +2

    That’s wonderful! I am Jamaican and my husband is a Nigerian man.

  • @auntyj.jenkins4171
    @auntyj.jenkins4171 3 года назад +1

    You are doing great. We are so proud of you keep the good work. From Aunty j Jenkins on RUclips.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @florenceimakan
    @florenceimakan 3 года назад +1

    These red lips back to back, I'm loving it😍😍😍

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Hehehehe! Thank you 😊 😘

  • @unekwuharuna4141
    @unekwuharuna4141 3 года назад +1

    Dressing is really key. I had the issues about marrying a Catholic too. I’m now going to same Catholic Church with him. What church will your daughter grow to go to?

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Awwww! Whichever one she chooses is fine by us

  • @princessaudu6571
    @princessaudu6571 3 года назад +2

    I like that you said 'everything was so easy', I'm noticing this as a pattern for most people who married, should I say 'the one'. Thanks for sharing this video/tips btw. Also, I love the red lippie.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Oh yes!! You’re right, everything should be easy with the right person. Thank you dear.

  • @amarahslight9291
    @amarahslight9291 3 года назад +3

    I really enjoyed this video, it’s just the confirmation I need ❤️

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      I’m so glad you enjoyed and it helped you!

  • @mcfashion9385
    @mcfashion9385 3 года назад +6

    Always First💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻. Let me watch. Loving the topic already❤

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      Yayyy 💃🏼💃🏼

  • @blessingiroka7632
    @blessingiroka7632 3 года назад

    Hubby met me during uni days, snubbed him for a while but later we became friends for so long...never thought we would marry because we were both nurses and age mates. Then his parents had someone for him to marry. But he rejected. We were friends for so long I can't even form the girl 9s good.
    Hubby even changed to my church. His father being a pastor in Assemblies of God almost threw a fit. They gave me hell at first but now we are besties.. see God
    I am so freaking happy 😊

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank God you didn’t give up!! See how it all turned out for good!!

  • @joydavid5428
    @joydavid5428 3 года назад +2

    I love your advice about marriage and dating some one i pray people should stop looking at tribe and others so they don't miss God sent partner, you're looking popping as always👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much

  • @Abiola_Ige
    @Abiola_Ige 3 года назад +1

    Juicy topic.... okada drop me here!!!!!

  • @kelechiezeibe4896
    @kelechiezeibe4896 3 года назад +1

    lovely video.

  • @wolaade
    @wolaade 3 года назад +1

    This look is amazing 🤩

  • @ibi-ilatebraide3989
    @ibi-ilatebraide3989 3 года назад +1

    She say na cut down your list 🤣 my sister loved this and the lashes especially. But did Jesse have to go through catechism?

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thanks so much.
      No he didn’t. Though we had to do marriage classes at my own church.

  • @vochtvofficial
    @vochtvofficial 3 года назад +1

    The way u tell ur stories tho, like you are born to do this. Nice one Alma

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Awwww thank you 🙏🏼

  • @olurinoyindamola3281
    @olurinoyindamola3281 3 года назад +1

    You see this thing called Love ehn...he go just come shock you come choke you..but in the end, Amaaaazzzzzziiiinnnnngggggg Fairytales!!

  • @ettazob324
    @ettazob324 3 года назад +1

    Alma you just got me with your story ☺️☺️☺️ I've same issues with you but am so happy I made a good choice 💓🥰

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Oh wow! Thank God you did!

  • @mummychampions5003
    @mummychampions5003 3 года назад +2

    Ya in our own time even if it is a mistake you will not marry the person now I we marry from anywhere, some people are regreting now

  • @giftpatricks3944
    @giftpatricks3944 3 года назад +1

    Its ur intonation for me...😍

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      😁😁😘😘

  • @ezinnenijoku-obi7822
    @ezinnenijoku-obi7822 3 года назад +1

    Same here if I couldn't marry you no dating. Safer and it sifted away all the chaff

  • @toyinbabalola9223
    @toyinbabalola9223 3 года назад +1

    This is a really important topic especially for single people looking for a partner ,God bless you and your family 💕💕

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Amen! Thank you so much 😊

  • @ucheokoye6744
    @ucheokoye6744 3 года назад +1

    Hey baby girlll.. Love the topic already.
    You said it all.. That part about having a long lists I agree. Love your makeup

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      🙌🏼🙌🏼
      Thank you 😊

  • @OluchiMbah
    @OluchiMbah 3 года назад +1

    My father already gave me warning...
    Been so said....
    Igbo parents can be very difficult when it comes to other tribes

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Chai! I’m so sorry dear. I wish some parents can become a lot more 2021 compliant.

  • @alheri_ebenezer
    @alheri_ebenezer 3 года назад +2

    Lovely Storytime video, I really enjoyed watching your makeup came out fine🥰
    Looking beautiful as always

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much!!

  • @OnyinPearlvlogs
    @OnyinPearlvlogs 3 года назад +1

    Yes o a good person is a good person 👌

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @chinazoucheaga4825
    @chinazoucheaga4825 3 года назад

    I can't stand makeup tutorials but I really want to learn how to do makeup. But this was amazing cause the I was distracted with the story and I got the tips I needed....makeup and relationship. Great content.

  • @OnyinPearlvlogs
    @OnyinPearlvlogs 3 года назад

    You’re really rocking this out 10k hair well o sis😍😍😍. The finished look is 🤩🤩

  • @elizabethimran5568
    @elizabethimran5568 3 года назад

    What what you married my brother oh my God I have been a follower for sometimes now I didn't even know you got married to a Benin man you are welcome to the family I love you so much

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      I married a man from Benue ooo, not Benin.
      But love you too regardless! 😘😘

  • @jizzletube20
    @jizzletube20 3 года назад +1

    Lol I used to have a long list too but thank God things worked out in the end.

  • @taylortee8474
    @taylortee8474 3 года назад +1

    You put all those other things aside, and you ended up with a great guy

  • @AdebisiAdeniran
    @AdebisiAdeniran 3 года назад +1

    Is the God fearing and Spiritual for me💯
    Interesting vlog as usual😊l!!!

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @ezinneokereke4660
    @ezinneokereke4660 3 года назад +2

    Well said my lovely Alma.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      😁😁😘😘

  • @eniolla.
    @eniolla. 3 года назад +2

    This is definitely an important and interesting topic. Love your take on this topic 👏🏻👏🏻. Your makeup was on point as usual 💓💓

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much

  • @MrsAsamoah
    @MrsAsamoah 3 года назад +1

    Why us this saying that I’m NOT Subscribed?!? 👀 HOW? Something is WRONG!! I’ve been subscribed for well over a year!

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Wow! RUclips be moving mad these days ooo

  • @mcfashion9385
    @mcfashion9385 3 года назад +1

    Alma you are damn cute and Yes the lipstick and our 10k hair are so so cute💋💋

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Awwww thank you so much 😊

  • @patchouli85
    @patchouli85 3 года назад +1

    Many Jamaicans are of Igbo descent, your brother’s fiancé might be!

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Oh really?? Didn’t know that

    • @patchouli85
      @patchouli85 3 года назад

      @@AlmaNgur Yes! I’m Liberian, my family left the southern United States and Barbados in the 1800’s for Liberia, West Africa. I recently took 23 and Me and found out my Igbo ancestry, confirming my dreams and revelations from God.

  • @Stephanie_551
    @Stephanie_551 3 года назад +1

    The make-up ehh, you look Soo beautiful as always. The lashes are so good. Love love love this video

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 😊❤️❤️❤️

  • @larryberry2019
    @larryberry2019 3 года назад +2

    First one here today😋😊

  • @OnyinPearlvlogs
    @OnyinPearlvlogs 3 года назад +1

    Awww sis am currently in your state 😁... am loving asaba already. Went to oko market yesterday and even vloged it 😊

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Oh really?? That’s lovely!

  • @oghenesivweoru4496
    @oghenesivweoru4496 3 года назад +1

    Tell them oh mama Mia,good advice and nice content

  • @fzeebahTV
    @fzeebahTV 3 года назад +1

    I always love your GRWM videos, the chit chat is super interesting 🤣🤣🤣

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @winifredemenaka641
    @winifredemenaka641 3 года назад +1

    Looking beautiful

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c357 3 года назад

    Why am I seeing only this now? This notification fails me sometimes

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Oh wow! RUclips be moving mad 🤣

  • @NdatseNdomo
    @NdatseNdomo 3 года назад +1

    Here for the tea biko. You're from hubs state

  • @uzo435
    @uzo435 3 года назад +1

    The makeup is 🔥

  • @peacechiamakablessed1328
    @peacechiamakablessed1328 3 года назад +1

    You are really beautiful Alma😍😍😍

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Thank you so much!!

  • @rumeokodili5063
    @rumeokodili5063 3 года назад

    What tribe has done to most of us girls ehn and bn married I kind of understand a bit why our parents bothered but Faith is very necessary. Thank God you didn't miss Jessie

  • @janicedsickey535
    @janicedsickey535 3 года назад +2

    Great topic

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      Thank you 😊

  • @SheunAdesina
    @SheunAdesina 3 года назад +1

    Enjoyed watching 🥰this makeup looks 🔥🔥

  • @Bee_Vibes
    @Bee_Vibes 3 года назад +1

    In my country we have about 11 tribes, people here don't really care about inter tribal marriages.

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад +1

      Oh right!! Nigeria has a whole lot of tribes so I guess that’s why there’s a difference

  • @LydiaTifuh
    @LydiaTifuh 3 года назад +1

    Juicy topic lemme settle

  • @OluchiMbah
    @OluchiMbah 3 года назад +1

    Love the look

  • @ellarhdee3193
    @ellarhdee3193 3 года назад +2

    Firstttt😊

  • @janesvarietyfood
    @janesvarietyfood 3 года назад +1

    Hi pretty Alma ❤️🥰

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      Hi!!! 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @chayomaa
    @chayomaa 3 года назад

    Awww❤️. Which church does Jesse attend?

  • @kiffydiaries5652
    @kiffydiaries5652 3 года назад +1

    Mama Mia☺️☺️☺️☺️

  • @BrendaKimbi
    @BrendaKimbi 3 года назад +1

    Can I have my badge already

    • @AlmaNgur
      @AlmaNgur  3 года назад

      🏅 take it ooo

  • @shakiyagotdreams8563
    @shakiyagotdreams8563 3 года назад +1

    💖💖

  • @Absadaseries
    @Absadaseries 3 года назад +1

  • @kelechiezeibe4896
    @kelechiezeibe4896 3 года назад +1

    lovely video.