Coming to Terms with Autogynephilia: Debbie Hayton
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- English author Debbie Hayton discusses her experience as an autogynephile, who is sexually aroused by the thought of themselves as a female. She talks about coming to terms with her inward sexual attraction and how it helped her understand her urge to present as a woman. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the intertwined nature of sexuality and gender identity, and how this understanding led her to reject the concept of gender identity. Hayton also shares her concerns about the impact on children in the context of transgender surgeries and the need for gatekeeping in the transgender community. She reflects on her transition and expresses that it helped her discover her true self as a self-attracted male person who prefers to be perceived as a woman.
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Thank you DH for agreeing to do this. Thank you Mr. Kay for asking the direct questions which need to be asked, and aired, about autogynophelia.
Why are you using she/her pronouns when he is a man? You call him a middle-aged male (at 32:00). And he repeatedly admits he's not a woman (e.g., 39:29).
Yeah nah its not a sexual orientation. And David was not born in the wrong body
It’s a fetish arising from extreme narcissism.
@user-qz7vs8cx8o Yeah, nah, it's just garden variety perversion
@user-qz7vs8cx8o , no it’s not.
Anything people are aroused to is their ‘sexual orientation’… think about what the word means
Started to listen but just his voice alone grates. Please stop men like him a platform.
He's actually doing society a great service because he's piercing the sacred veil of gender identity that most other people would be cancelled for criticizing
@@mljh11 Talking about it gives him an erection.
Trans widows, that is women who left these marriages and followed our instincts to save our mental health, are profiled on the channel named in the handle here. Of 60 we now have data on, 1/3 were hurt physically by the suddenly crossdressing husband. The "therapists" are leading the medical journey to surgeries.
Where can we hear more about it? I would be interested in their perspective
Men like David Hayton who are AGP give me the creeps
Quillette, my dear, this is the end for us.
Very good!
How about peeping Tom’s and flashers
Support for sex change by the authorities in Europe is a purely political matter and because the policy of authority is always a matter of hegemony, we must think about how the authority that supports the transformation of boys into females or vice versa serves hegemony at a time when it appears to be support for freedom.. And because it appears to be support for freedom, the left that supports feminism found itself supporting sex change because the division between masculinity and femininity is a (cultural) issue and not a (natural) one, while the right considers that the nature of Islam is (Violence) A Muslim cannot be a transgender and convert to (peace) because Islamic violence is (natural) and not (cultural) and the right accuses the left of being anti-Israel and pro-Palestinian, but Israel supports homosexuality and transgenderism like the left and not like the right, and the right supports Israelis and so on.
There is an old joke in the trans community:
“What’s the difference between a cross dresser and a transgender?”
4 years!
There is a prevailing consensus amongst many therapists and psychologists that cross dressing is an early phase of pre transition. Sort of a self medicating for the intense feelings of body/ gender dysphoria. For some, to transition means losing your job, your family, your home, your money. This is something everyone seems to miss. That feeling like you’re stuck in a cage can make you feel and act a little crazy, but to put in some fetishized sexual Philia is ignorant and cruel.
Also, Autogynephilia and Ray Blanchard (and his partner in crime, Zucker)was discredited and debunked over a decade ago. It was never deemed science. It has never been researched and published in any peer review journal. There are only the same 6 or 7 people regurgitating each other’s work. Work that was written some as much as 1993, or 1989, or 1979.
the body is a product of past karma
Proof?🕳️
People need better hobbies
You only ever get one body. You did nothing to become male or female. You just are. Hence why it is absurd and impossible for a female soul or mind to be in a male body.
What now?😂
Jonathan Kay is the worst.
At least DH is open and upfront about their ...well...sexuallity I guess. DH wife went through a fair bit as transwives do....seem to be ok now, but DH had to eat more than humble pie.