North Beach sandwich shop owner says he's seen teen behavior deteriorate over past 30+ years
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- Опубликовано: 19 мар 2023
- Juliette Goodrich reports on what the owner of a sandwich shop across from middle school where a student stabbed a classmate sees as far as kids behaving badly (3-20-2023)
Charge parents with contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
If you choose to have children, you are responsible for their behavior until they are 18.
So you want to make everything worse?! Great, now we can have an orphan crisis and rise in sex abuse in foster care, which we'll all be paying more taxes for.
Can people stop blaming the parents? Who do absolutely nothing at all…
You people always blame the wrong people
What if the govt is poisoning the food supply with GMOs and pesticides and it’s retarding the children’s brain development? Would it still be the parents fault? I’m just saying there’s a lot of factors. We didn’t grow up exposed to this many GMOs, glyphosate, etc. All these toxic chemicals can’t be great for a developing child.
@@LilXancheXhow aren't the parents responsible?
@@LilXancheX I blame the single blk mother's. That are responsible for almost all that has gone wrong with their community. But keep calling them "queens"🤣🤣🤣
If teen behavior has deteriorated, one factor in the mix is that public high schools across the USA have cut and even gutted extra-curricular activities--sports, debate, music, theatre, etc. And the schools that have held on to them charge families a lot of money to participate.
That's what the parents should be doing, take their kids to do activities on weekends or after work. Parenting isn't supposed to be a walk in the park.
@@Ap_twsh A bit hard to do when your community doesn't offer any.
@@maxalberts2003 my daughter wasn’t in any programs bc I was disabled and low income. She rarely got in trouble in school or at home bc I took her to the park and the beach. Those things don’t cost money. Board games, cards and puzzles don’t cost much either.
I did save some money so she could go to a horse camp in the summer. Schools do offer scholarships for low income families.
I also didn’t listen to rap music, teach her to twerk or get in fights with people.
Bull. We had ZERO programs of any sort, no sports, nothing. Gen X. We had parents. We had morals, we had rules and laws we were made to follow. That is the difference.
You think kids in 1850 had "after school programs", no, they had discipline, adult leaders and rules to obey.
OMG! I used to buy sandwiches at Freddies’ when I was going to school at Francisco. Ed is right, the problem is from home. The kids have irresponsible parents. That’s why they don’t care for life. Don’t have kids if you are not going to teach them right.
But welfare queens make a Living off of having kids out if wedlock, the givt encourages such behavior
Let's be real, it's primarily irresponsible 🏀 people.
Just say it - in which racial culture is it acceptable for grown men to not parent their children (or sometimes don't even know their children) and have multiple kids with multiple women? This is a major problem in black culture and it's not racism to point this fact out. I'm not saying men of all races don't do this but it's especially prevalent in the black community. No government program or handout or school program is going to fix this unless the black men (not all black men) who do this take personal responsibility and raise their children properly.
I don't know. I have seen good parents that have troubled and bad children. I went to school 🏫 with a guy that was a pathological liar. He lied for no reason.
He is a senior citizen today and still lying
yea get like 3 small support animals' and work your way up from there
This is parents outsourcing their parenting to tablets and phones. These kids see all sorts of awful behavior and as they are kids, they don't have proper judgement. We need laws allowing people to more easily sue parents for their garbage childs behavior.
That’s part of it but it’s also culture and having two parents, one who stays home to raise them.
I worked at a restaurant in the Bay Area and even though the Asian kids were on their tablet to play games while they waited for their food, they were the most polite and well behaved.
Then teens will see that as a weapon they can use to hurt their parents.
everyone's behavior has deteriorated over the past 30+ years -- it's a thing.
Civility still exists. The past ten to fifteen years there’s been a precipitous decline in San Francisco. 💔
Cultural decay sadly ☹️
As XiDen has said:...."...you know the thing".
These parents have no interest in their children. They expect the teachers and the school to be interested in and take care of all their children's needs. That's not how it works. Too sad!
he is exactly right. it all starts with the parents
Is this a shock to anyone? The real question is why parents are such failures today. Plus of course, we reward criminals.
I completely agree with this guy who says that teenagers behavior has gone completely downhill over the past 30 years. Society in America is just crashing. The best days of America are definitely behind her because we are literally ripping ourselves apart at the seams and young people don’t care about anybody but themselves.
A culture of stupidity and entitlement
But more money for wars across the world.
One difference between America and most other countries is that we baby our children far too much and when they act out, they are punished as babies, not their appropriate age group.
These criminal children are not even being babied. They're just there, without any parental energy spent on them.
@@mikepond4865 Parents are too busy working to give kids the time they need
@@tenossos that's bullshit!!! Keep them busy then if you work too much!!! Giving them Internet and a phone is no substitute AT ALL and def no excuse! 3rd world children don't have this problem, if they are able they would kill to be on our schools!!!
Kids nowadays have no creative outlet anymore. They waste their time online following and liking other people. When I was a kid in the 90's.. our parents worked all day and night and we were alone most of the day. So we would try and do creative things to keep us busy so we wouldn't be at home bored staring at the TV.
U probably also had consequences for bad behavior
@@middleguy1776 True.. we were scared of our parents back then.
Bring back the ass whooping. Parents are too soft nowadays. This coming from a new parent
@@stevenk4920 yep
@@stevenk4920 True.. a good ass whooppin is needed in homes
He's 100% correct. Many kids these days do not respect each other or their parents. They have so many things and so many options. It's easy for them to just do whatever they want and think they can get away with it.
Two days ago, waiting at a light in LA, teens got out of school, walking, a pack of them started flipping off drivers waiting at the light, standing in front of their car and "flinch threatening" like they were gonna throw a punch (which make some of us waiting laugh, I mean... what, are you gonna punch the car?). They waited for the light to turn green, slowly turned, slowly walked on, blocking us for several seconds. No one honked, no one got out. Why? We'd be on video getting jumped by eight teens. I don't care how tough you are, if eight teens get the jump on you, you could be UFC and you're still probably gonna get hospitalized. That's what each one of us were thinking. These kids, who didn't know us, were MAD at us. No idea why. They had zero fear, they knew they were untouchable. We're "not allowed" to correct kids' behavior now.
Majority of these kids started very young just being on there tablets no parenting
KINDNESS IS WHAT THIS SHOP OWNER IS ALL ABOUT AND KIDS REACT TO THIS. THE ENVIRONMENT AT HOME HAS A LOT TO DO WITH THIS BEHAVIOR AND SHOULD BE ADDRESSED. NOTHING IS WORSE THAN BAD PARENTS
If only you heard my brothers new neighbor, yells at their kid and the kid yells back. First time i heard that ever.
I bet he ends up getting shot and robbed by one of those kids.
How you do that..
He has a bottom line.
The kiddies know he's NOT playing!
I'm 54 and I've said this is VERY obvious, and I've been told more than once it's BS. It's not BS. Frequently seen behavior of teens today, are things that were utterly unthinkable to us as teens in the 80's, and we thought of ourselves as being "kind of bad kids". Cruelty, cowardice, rudeness, crudeness, over and over, off the charts compared to what was normal in the 80's.
Yes it starts at home and even if the parents don't know what to do they can ask for professional help like therapists and doctor so they have the team to help their kid.
thats the problem they dont need a therapist they need to get their ass kicked
or they can Google it
The parents that have bad kids are usually lazy unproductive.
No help is required; a good community assisted flogging will do.
1:44
"If you aren't behaving good, you aren't coming to my shop"
This guy is a boss
He knows how to deal with idiots, let just hope he is armed, because the bay is full of violent gangs and thugs
🚨 The entire world is full of violent gangs and thugs…some of them wear suits and ties, robes, crowns, overalls, lab coats and scrubs.
No accountability or punishment. They know they can get away with just about anything they want 🤷♂️
just like their parents.
THE TROUBLE IS NO DISCIPLINE, NONE AT HOME, NONE AT SCHOOL, NONE IN GOVERNMENT ! DISCIPLINE GROWS RESPECT, RESPECT BREEDS RESPECT !
Parents too busy working
Parents are too quick to abdicate responsibility these days. Much easier to just let them have a phone, pc with unlimited access to social media, etc., where they can end up creating fantasy lives for themselves etc. Researchers have done studies that the constant use of these technologies on undeveloped brains destroys neuropathways so they find it difficult to create new ones, etc. Some very interesting info out there. I'm also fed up with seeing parents sticking phones/tablets in the hands of little ones to shut them up, so they can carry on scrolling through their own phones. Parents need to start giving their kids more personal attention, and restricting technology access. In the 70s/80s at 10pm, a message would come on the tv "It's 10pm, do you know where your children are?" Don't think some parents can say that nowadays either!
Lol I remember that it's 10 o'clock do you know where your children's are? This was the best comment thank you
Using computers doesn't "destroy nueral pathways" that is bogus. The only ways you destroy nueral pathways is with drugs or hitting your head. lol... Everything else you wrote is ok. a "nueral pathway" is the idea that when you learn to do something it creates a "pathway" in your brain. This is not a specific scientific thing. We don't actually know how brains work fully, at all... They believe "pathways" are involved in memory and in developing skill, meaning when you do something like drive your car, a specific chain of nuerons in the brain become more active and they are assumed to be basicaly nuerons dedicated to driving a car. The pathway strengthens as you get better at driving. The act of driving requires less effort from you mentally and physically, the more you do it and spend more time doing it. The thing is that they can't really prove this is happening or isolate a "pathway" in the brain. It's just an idea that makes sense, until you start trying to say crazy stuff with it.
@@karina-zq6zs91kskll Thanks so much!!
Parents? Your country has a "Proud Single Mom" culture. It's obviously not working. Good luck over there 👍
When you have anti-heroes played by actors and actresses who are popular it sends the message that being mean and violent is cool. In reality these movies speak to the broken kid from the broken home that he/she can act out and justify it by playing the victim.
There aren’t enough collegiate teams or after school programs or church programs that kids can feel connected to. When the elders : parents, politicians, religious figures or actors act like fools and get away with it - kids learn they can too.
Then why doesn’t this happen on the regular in other countries? They watch the same shit we do 🤷🏼♂️
It's the soft on crime policies that encourage bad behavior. They need to be arrested and put into prison for juvenile gangsters. Instead they are being let out to roam on streets and hurt others even more.
Upon apprehension, youthful slugs should be sold into slavery to some village in China.
Teens and children learn violence at home.
This is getting out of control. Parents please talk to your children. Even good kids- I warn mine about all of this so they can also be vigilant and aware
Absolutely right ! Kids are not raised inside the home for the most part. It is so sad !
He's right all about respect. We can't expect school to raise your kids. That's the parents job.😊
Charge the parents. They had the little jackals they need to take care of it.
People act like there's some big mystery...if you have robust and interesting after school programs, and if parents didn't have to work two and three jobs to make ends meet, then the problem would not get out of hand. People with good jobs are struggling. The issues are fixable if you have the "will" to fix them...but everybody wants to make money off of each other and don't nurture, guide, and invest in the next generations.
Maybe if taxes weren’t so high in Commiefornia, then they wouldn’t have to work two or three jobs. It’s the programs where most of the money goes to the politicians and bureaucrats and never solves the issues that is the problem.
And maybe if we stop teaching teens to sleep around and instead teach them to be responsible, save money and wait to have kids when they’re ready, married and can afford to, than they wouldn’t be struggling.
Voting for liberal policies have consequences
This is it right here!!!!!
It's no dads, or thug dads. What you are saying is completely not backed up by stats, sorry. Parents "working too hard" is not coming up at all as a reason behind societal ills. If you want to live in Cuba in a so-called paradise, just move there, don't invent weird crap on the internet.
Most parents are working until they drop. In the past, one parent stayed home to work the home and watch the children. Now a days, that’s just about impossible. The system is set up for failure. Stop blaming the parents. This system needs to change.
the parents are garbage
Gen X were latchkey kids and we didn’t stab each other. We went over to each other’s houses and watched tv, played a board game or Nintendo and ate snacks until our parents came home. In the summer we’d go swimming, make up silly dance routines and ride our bikes.
No one killed or robbed anyone else even though we weren’t supervised all day.
Stern and respectful good man
the quality of old guys have blemished as well.
Speak the truth, Ed
It's Lord of the Flies, without rules, people reveal their true natures.
Hard working immigrants, like this gentleman, have the best perspective.
All of society's problems begin at the home. Society cannot fix a broken home, and the kids are the first sign of a broken home. Also, modern kids don't respect authority. Whether it's parents, teachers, or police officers. And what you get is a Lord of the Flies society.
If they start arresting and convicting parents along with these violent kids after a while parents will start paying attention to their kids. Then and only then will this change.
Need to round them up and deport them back to there country
"Teen Behavior"
This will not stop until you are brave enough to recognize the real problem and have the courage to refuse to use euthanisms.
Euthanisms LOL
Now more with carry to full term unwanted pregnancies mandates; creating irresponsible parents, no progress, sad.
The internet. Social media. Violent video games. Plus parents that have to work too many hours to actually oversee and raise their children. All are equally to blame.
It's the internet. The parent are on the phones too much.
Immature parents having undisciplined kids who go on to become immature parents themselves.
The cycle will just continue.
It all starts at home. Just like he says.
S.F. D.A. Brooke Jenkins says she’ll consider murder charges for fentanyl dealers
Kids grow up and
the cycle continues.
The 13% club never disappoints they are a menace.
It's the culture and parenting that's the issue
He does have a point, even at home we do not know the story of what is going on in someone's home.
“Teenagers”
Our school system is failing our youth
“ No Soup for You “
They respect this guy because he’s a real man. Old school, masculine, and kind all at the same time.
Because they don't have a father figure at home. Its proven that kids with no father figure at home or that have an unhealthy family dynamic [aka abusive parent(s)] are much more likely to become criminals or addicts.
@@CarShopping101 And whose fault is that? Men, stay with your kids. Women, STOP HAVING KIDS.
@@terryl.cooper without kids you wouldn’t be here 🤡
@@CarShopping101 mother figure is more important then father.
Because children are more influenced by their peers than parents, and more interested in impressing their peers than their families. And violent tantrums is normalizing. All Because of social media.
I notice the same thing, but notice over the last 20 years?
Parent to Siri - 'how to discipline a child.'
Siri - 'try the library & a shoe combo.'
Parents are too soft on their kids, there's no deciplin
There’s clearly no spelling in your household too
@Karim Abraham 😆 😂 🤣 good one!
Politicians are to blame. If they hadn't destroyed the country then parents would be spending time with their kids instead of working 60 hours a week. Kids are raising themselves because cost of living is so high. This guy doesn't have a clue he didn't even bring up politicians.
Blame the world bankers! Den of thieves! Robber Barron times! Avg American, is woefully uneducated! Nothing new to see here! Humanity
That’s part of it along with culture and morals declining.
@@savsmiles3042 Mafia brought drugs to our culture!
Crappy parents raise crappy kids in a constant cycle of crap. Start with the crappy parents - If they're under 18 and commit a crime, haul their parents in and find out why they can't raise their kids properly. It almost looks as if some parents actively encourage their kids to break the law. Then sue the police for shooting their kid because they resist arrest. Put the spotlight on the problem - bad parents.
Well, he's got a great biz near the school. I wish he was near me.
Society is in an entropic spiral down the drain. Parents aren't giving their children the proper rearing and they turn out wild and without regard for others. Soon, the wild young people of today will be the parents of tomorrow. What kind of parents do you suppose they'll be?
They will be even more neglectful of their children, glued to their screen device while their young toddler is glued to his and her screen device as a pacifier. Social skills are replaced with social media.
Back in the 90s, then-Atty. General Janet Reno said that more and more violent crimes will be committed by younger people. She was certainly right 30 years ago. It isn't likely to get any better.
Exactly! 🗽🇺🇸🌰🚽🪠😓🙏
*NO SHIT SHERLOCK*
What's being done about it is there real question
They learn it at home.
Scary stuff but teach the children some respect. I can’t blame these kids too much because the world these days is hard. It’s at home like our guy said there, good segment.
U are the problem. Ur alleviating responsibility because of feelings. That's why we have these issues
@@middleguy1776 you’re mentally I’ll go rag on someone else and get in shape.
@@middleguy1776 I actually understand why we have this problem. Because people that accomplished nothing in life go on the internet and consider themselves important but can’t show themselves.
@@Oakdogg show me the correlation please?
The world was harder 100 years ago.
$38 dollar size sandwiches?! How big ARE those things?!
can’t discipline the kids anymore.
Both parents too busy working to do a good job raising kids
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Parents and cellphones are to blame.
We all know what teens is code for. Free clue they like to play basketball .
In the attack, Rainchyk suffered severe burns of the face, head and shoulder after being doused with hot oil and an injured lung from being stabbed twice.
San Francisco District Attorney Brooke Jenkins announced the jury's verdict on Monday.
Paul Vansyckel was found guilty of attempted murder, assault with a deadly weapon and aggravated mayhem in the April 2, 2015 attack on 28-year-old Aliaksandr Rainchyk in the Treasure Island apartment the men shared.
Q : Cold Blooded but had to ask :
Are these young [reckless] teens
our future homeless population?
🤔
UBI will be in full affect
It's always been like this so welcome to the reality without being surprised.
Had high hopes for this generation to save the future of this country. Instead they are destroying it at an alarming rate! ☹️
Right horse, wrong breed.
Price of everything going up that what it does
"Two San Francisco police officers shot and killed a male who was allegedly stabbing another male, ASSAULT WITH DEADLY WEAPON, just like on Muni bus number 8, just like at Francisco Middle School Library, just like at Stonestown Shopping Center, Target on Winston, and Food Court including Whole Foods on Winston..." police Chief Bill Scott said. “This incident affects all of us in law enforcement, and it underscores the importance of the San Francisco Police Department's work on policy and training revisions, reducing disparities in stops, arrests, and uses of force, and reducing non-lethal and lethal force to fulfill the promise of bias-free and equitable policing that stands for safety with respect for all. Their diligence affirms our department’s commitment to accountability and the principle that no one - including a police officer - is above the law.”
San Francisco Police Chief William Scott’s criticism against “lenient” prosecutors took another turn on Wednesday. "We want to make sure people feel safe, we want to make sure people are comfortable with reporting. We are aggressively in the process of doing recruitment with the police department. We are doing everything we can as the department has a number of people who are absent because of COVID to fill those officers with overtime so that we can make sure these communities are protected as we promised."
"In fact, one perpetrator investigated and arrested by our Taraval Neighborhood Team was charged with 31 hate crime enhancements alone - more than half of last year's cases. Hate crimes represent one of SFPD's highest clearance rates for any crime category, and we hope that sends a forceful message to would-be hate criminals considering any kind of bias-motivated ATTACK in our City - San Francisco will hold you accountable."
Scott noted the department has expanded the number of languages that can be used by people to contact the department and urged citizens to report any suspicious activity to police, even if it involves a non-emergency issue that does not amount to a crime.
"The reason being, it may help a future case if the individual who's committing those types of acts later commits a hate crime," said Scott. "That may help the case. So we still need you to call."
Scott urged those attending gatherings, shopping, on lunch breaks, in the city to always be aware of their surroundings and of strangers asking for money or distracting in groups to SHOPLIFT and of those who are looking to take advantage of people who may be carrying gifts, shopping bags, Target Drive Up bags, grocery pick up bags, or cash.
Penal Code 12022.7 PC is a sentencing enhancement, which means if you caused a great bodily injury in the commission of a felony, then you are facing a consecutive 3 to 6 years in a California state prison. The key term is “additional,” as it adds to your sentencing for the underlying felony conviction.
A: If you violate California's knife carrying laws, you can face misdemeanor or felony charges. If convicted, it can result in 1-3 years in a county jail or state prison. If you are convicted of using a knife as a weapon, you can be sentenced to additional jail time for illegally carrying a knife.
California Penal Code [CPC] §242 - Simple Battery - California Penal Code Section 242 makes it illegal to use willful and unlawful force on another person. Conviction under CPC §242 permits up to six months in a county jail and/or a fine of up to $2,000.
The crime of “assault with a deadly weapon,” commonly known as “ADW”, is defined under California Penal Code Section 245. In basic terms, ADW occurs when you assault another person with a deadly weapon or using force that is likely to produce a great bodily injury.
Under Penal Code § 664/187(a) PC, attempted murder in California is when the perpetrator intends to kill the victim and takes a direct step towards killing the person, but the victim does not die. Attempted first-degree murder is punished by life in state prison.
California Penal Code [CPC] §422.6(a) - Hate Crimes - California Penal Code §422.6(a) makes it illegal to interfere with another's rights because that person possesses any actual (or perceived) characteristic protected by the law. Hate Crimes are punishable by a year in a county jail and/or a fine of up to $5,000.
Penal Code 417 PC makes it a crime to brandish a firearm or deadly weapon. Brandishing means to draw or exhibit the weapon in a threatening manner, or to use it in a fight, other than in lawful self-defense. fines of up to $1000.00.
All these talks about parents how about social media and the influencers that become the role of the parents? Parents can only do so much kids get bombarded with bad influence everywhere and anywhere they go.
Blame the government for passing the no hitting lol once in a while kids do need a butt whooping
Bay area is scary place. i carry a register gun, too much drugs and sex going on
Ppl think it is random it is not.
Emf warfare, firing emf rf waves to confused or cause agitation and aggression, it is a real study that I dont think many people look into probably because the matter is classified.
No parents no human raising being raised by screens acting like screens that would be video games... Connect the dots.
Which means PARENTS NEED TO BE CHARGED!!!! You can have a 3 strike systems for kids, on the third incident, especially if it's violent.....put the children in detention and the parents in prison. When the parent gets out, I bet ALL their free time goes into parenting. If we start doing that bad parenting will not be as bad. 🤣😂🤣😂
@@Angel-vk3no everyone makes one mistake and everyone should be able to be stupid/hardheaded.....the 3rd time shows the parents aren't doing their jobs and should be mailed for that. If the kids is that bad, they should STAY at juevee until 18. After that ALL incidents should be considered even juevee and build bigger nails, we're gonna need it
Ten dollars for an egg salad sandwich...no wonder people are angry and violent 🥪 🥪
Remember: when you see them, do not give them the benefit of the doubt. Always expect the worst, because these violent animals are the worst.
Listen, and understand! These joggers are out there! They can't be bargained with. They can't be reasoned with. They don't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And they absolutely will not stop... ever, until you are dead!
12% ers.
Great story. Money well spent.
Tiktok and RUclips to blame as well.
good man good piece
Ja Morant is their role model
"Teens"
I blame the parent. Yes! I’m gonna assume they only have one parent at home.
He's right..Bottom line!!
Anti-police/anti-prosecution/anti-prison. You get what you vote for. The threat of “Punishment” is a known deterrent. It doesn’t stop all criminals, but it does reduce crime. California has removed the “threat”, thereby encouraging criminal behavior by people who know that they won’t face consequences.
Correct.
Unwed baby mothers and no daddy figure at the household
"teens" denial. deceit. delusion.
Delinquent as well
Ed hit the nail on the head! It starts at home.
fire the mayor
Everything in America has deteriorated over the last 30 years. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's because they're not the same kids we've been replaced
Use to live not too far from there. Never had any issues myself walking through the neighborhood. Stabbings, so much one can do. Security and of course the parents if they are doing their job with the kids?
This is news? Shop owner has opinion? The 90's had tons of gang violence. It sucks that things like that happen, but even he had to admit most kids are not like that. A 'trend" smh
They are connected by Social behavior by young people now days...
the blue pill teen behaviors are outta hand 😂😂😂😂😂😂