@@bc1969214 selling cars doesn’t mean not having empathy. It’s like selling houses, clothing, or anything else. You’re there to HELP people but also to direct someone to buy your product. The stereotypes for car salespeople amazes me.
@@alymetz2020 you don’t work in sales and it shows. Also you can’t compare selling cars and properties (jobs that are LARGELY commission based) to retail. A good sales person can make over 100k/year. Nobody is touching that selling retail. And because they actually have to make a sale to get money, most car sales ppl will say anything to get their commission. Look at those ppl living in section 8 housing driving a brand new Beamer off the lot. You truly think the salesperson who sold them that car didn’t know that they wouldn’t be able to afford the repairs on it later down the line? Of course they did, they just didn’t care. The stock market crash of 2008 was partly due to to mortgage brokers (sales ppl) giving mortgages to homebuyers they knew would default on them. Why? Because mortgage brokers get a commission once a sale is closed on a house.. successful, rich sales ppl very much lack empathy.
she would be on the payroll even if she just swept the lot and same pay as before. Call off whenever you need to. I understand and thanks for everything.
Truth hurts, but her going out of her way for her boss doesn’t and shouldn’t give special treatment, as that is illegal. Seemingly firing her for no reason right after? Kinda seems intentional.
@@heroesofthestormmurky3092 In a privately owned company you are allowed to give special treatment, like making your kid a VP. In this case, the woman was recovering from saving the boss's life. To fire her for missing too many days? Take the days off in context of "I would be dead and she'd be 100% well otherwise." Keeping her in her job would not be special treatment, but what would (what should be done) is make sure her medical bills are covered, that she gets a raise, that the next opening goes to one of her kids if they need a job, and throwing $10k into her retirement fund as many years as you can afford it.
She won the lawsuit. This case had several layers to it. One layer was that the boss seems to have been an alcoholic, which is why she had kidney problems. The case gained attention, so the media started following the boss and caught he with bottles of liquor after she got her kidney. The reason being an alcoholic matters to me is because I know alcoholics and they are super hard to deal with sober, so I could just imagine what she was dealing with from a boss that was not able to drink. The first job I ever had was at Burger King years ago, and the boss was an alcoholic. For some reason she hated me. I remember one day I was on break with a bunch of other people and we were all eating our free meal, and for some reason she comes out screaming about me not being allowed to eat for free, but never said anything about the others. She docked my pay for a meal that was free. True story, I got her to quit hating me by selling her weed. One day she did not know I was outside the door and she said something about needing a joint, and from that day forward she called me everyday before work to see if I would sell her some weed. It was like she went from being super mean for no reason at all, to depending on me for weed, and she never talked rude again to me.
@@ladydara7446 You are not ineligible of getting a transplant, it is just recommended you do not drink, which I pointed out that the woman was not able to drink at the time because she was getting a kidney. Alcoholism is one of the major reason people get transplants, and you cannot ban someone from getting a transplant. The worries are more on the side of the donator, cause you do not ant someone donating a diseased organ.
I would’ve taken my kidney back with bare hands & a butter knife. Later on feed that to a dog cause they are more faithful as well as grateful than human beings.
I know especially when there are so many different ways that she could've been accommodated. She could be assigned to work from home if she needed to stay home to deal with complications from her surgery. She could be given lighter working assignments. She could also be put on reduced pay or a different pay structure but more accommodation to her other needs. Her life is already hard enough as a divorced single mother with 2 kids and now she just lost a healthy kidney.
I donated my kidney to a stranger. I did not meet recipient until day of surgery. I was 23 years old and healing was HELL. SO PAINFUL! I don't take pain meds (addiction runs in my family) and for 6 weeks you're not able to lift over 10 pounds. My doctor told me the recipient heals faster when it's successful because they get something they needed, and the donor loses something they didn't need to lose. Her boss really was wrong and so frustrating to hear this.
@@LMAOINMEMPHISthey did say that addiction runs in the family so ied guess they were worried that they may get addicted to the meds. On a personal note from someone that’s actually on pain meds and has addiction that runs in the family it’s not as big a problem as you think especially if your worried about it, but I’m also in a situation where it dosnt matter if I do get addicted as I will need pain meds for the rest of my life unless I want to be in so much pain I can’t move or if we invent a way to replace my nervous system which isn’t happening any time soon😢
Most who donate a body part to help another don't expect anything in return. However, to be fired resulting from damage to her body related to that very selfless act of a donation is beyond evil...
I agree. Even if the boss didn't say very many thanks, it seems like she didn't have such a big problem with it. But to not acknowledge a medical problem and reasonable cause for her limitations, and then firing her on top of that... ridiculous.
the employee didn't expect anything in return, but didn't expect a cold shoulder or to be booted either. the boss has no empathy and is unable to feel such normal human emotions.
"people are going to think you're getting special treatment" she kinda should be getting special treatment she cut out an organ and gave it to you. There are not a whole lot of employees out there that would do that.
Giving your boss an organ is pretty special treatment. She had no business accepting organ donations from her employees, if she was ethically opposed to special treatment. I don’t like to believe there are bad people, but this boss is really trying to prove me wrong.
@@Kmbstitches yep, people have offered me their kidneys since both of mine are at stage 3 ckd. I find it so nice but I physically could never ask anyone something that big and if someone did I’d truly be great full to them for the rest of my life especially since complications could come to both parties. I’ve heard of people getting organs and a couple years later their body rejects the organ despite things going well in the beginning 🥲 then there’s the person who’s literally putting their life on the line so yours can last longer, that’s a HUGE commitment for both parties. I’m baffled she didn’t show more gratitude, even if it’s fake. Like come on. I hope this ladies kidney rejects because she did not deserve it and I hope this kind woman found a way better job and won the law suit
It’s unethical to accept special favors from employees in the first place. You don’t get to solicit special treatment and then get on your high horse about the ethics of favoritism later.
She didn't ask for a promotion, she didn't asked for millions b4 the lawsuit. She was just recovering and carrying on but instead the boss was scared she's gonna owe her savior favors for the rest of her life. Which she should btw.
She saved her life on so many different levels. At least she should have retired her earlly if she didn’t want her around. Not like she couldn’t afford it.
She got Justice. Debbie sued for 14 million and got an undisclosed settlement in 2014. (This usually means somewhere in the millions) she got the last laugh!!
That's insane. You don't have to kiss the ground she walked on for doing the kind act, but at least show better appreciation than that. The boss is a work of art and has a special place you know where. lol
"Look people are going to think I'm giving you special treatment" Dipshit people are going to think that anyhow. Besides it's a fucking car dealership not the presidency the politics of the place aren't anywhere near that important. "Sounds like a personal problem"
NEVER EVER EVER help your bosses. They're not your friends. Edit: Unless they need toilet paper. But other people have body parts too. But I mean, if I gave my boss a kidney and they fired me because I took a day off I would say good riddance. Give me my kidney back!
@@jonathanmercado9965 I mean call it what you want I wouldn’t say it’s stupid, people being willing enough to be “stupid” is the whole reason multiple people are alive today...
Update for anyone wondering. The court found that she had been discriminated against and unjustly terminated. Seeking around 15 million $ in damages the pathetic excuses for a piece of dirt boss and the joke of a business settles for an undisclosed amount out of court, furthermore people destroyed the business reviews online. They got the smack down and lost a ton of $$$
Awesome! Just as it should be. I mean the woman helped you get a kidney! Do you know how many people in this world are waiting for one! Died because they didn't get one?! If I was her boss, I'd of rolled out the fucking red carpet!
Being nice is not about having it be reciprocated, we are nice to reflect our better selves period. How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours.
I had a similar operation to this and Only if I knew who gave me their kidney I would be at their door with kisses and hugs telling them they are my heroes.
Several years ago, my cousin received a kidney from her oldest sister. I remember the middle sister found some kind of funding for people who get kidney surgery (they have money for everything). She got the money, but didn't share it with the sister who gave her the kidney. Fast forward to now...that kidney is failing. This boss better be careful. Kidneys can fail you at any given time.
To everyone saying that they would ask for the kidney back lol she didn’t give her kidney directly to her boss. Her boss was involved in a kidney donation group where you have to give a kidney to get a kidney. This lady wasn’t a match for her boss so she couldn’t give it directly to her so this lady donated to someone else on her bosses behalf because you have to “give a kidey to get a kidney.” So this lady‘s kidney donation actually went to someone else and then her boss was able to get a kidney from another person who was a perfect match. Still, the boss is an ungrateful bitch.
That feels like even more of a sacrifice. It’s not like her kidney was a perfect match so she gave it to her, it was like “I’m gonna give up my kidney so you can get one” 😯! What a horrible human being that boss is!
Well, she didn't give her kidney to her boss. She donated it on behalf of her boss to move her up the wait list. Hopefully someone much kinder received her kidney.
This video inspired me to work for myself and never ever give my all to an ungrateful employer. Literally a formative part of my life. I'm 27 now and doing well.
Not true. My mom's old boss was one of her very best friends. When my stepdad fell ill with liver disease and she became his caretaker he insisted on continuing to pay her, even after they moved across the country. Even though his business couldn't afford it. And despite my mom's protestations. Humans are humans. Some are awful and some are amazing.
This lady was incredibly generous, in my 25 years of working I've never come across a boss that would be deserving of my kidney, not one. I would only give up a kidney for a family member or a very good friend.
Right because the donor is used to 2 kidneys and the recipient is probably used to having less than 100% days. Being they have to work with only one kidney!
True. I knew someone who donated a kidney to her brother, she passed later on from complications. Any surgery is risky, I nearly died from one in 2013, lost too much blood during surgery and had to have a transfusion and developed complications from the surgery.
Her case was settled. It was a confidential agreement between her boss. She got paid big time. Her boss was dumb. Could have gave her the raise when she needed. Make management . Whatever she wants. Now she got a big fat check and ruined the company's image
Ah! I knew something is missing. It wouldn't be a "donation" if there was an agreement and big money here. Therefore it should've been fine if the company fired her or not
There was no prior agreement between the two. David Chan is saying that the lawsuit was settled out of court, confidentially. He's right if her boss would just been a halfway decent person she would have saved herself and the company a lot of money.
Chocolate Starfish let's assume you don't play video games. Wikipedia could explain things far better than I do en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boss_(video_gaming)
@@Mary-zj9jz it’s the principle. She got her the kidney, therefore, it’s hers. That boss had no business soliciting employees for organ donations. Her total lack of gratitude and moral obligation is disgusting.
@@ventureelect 🔵 This reminds me of Alice In Wonderland. You know, when the Queen screams " Off with his (her) head!"...LOL I don't want violence but geeze that boss needs a wake up call!
@David Davidson exactly who are you talking to? I just made a statement of what might happen. People like you need to understand is that perception matters when it comes to bussiness. NEVER said what is right or wrong.
@David Davidson checked to see what was up with the caes and found this, Following legal action, the New York State Division on Human Rights has ruled that Debbie was indeed unjustly fired by the Atlantic Motor Group following her kidney donation. The Division on Human Rights further said that there was probable cause that Debbie had been fired due to discrimination. Debbie is now seeking $15 million in damages from both the Atlantic Motor Group as well as from Jackie.
@@schadenfreude5287 I think donating a fucking organ is a bit more than "brown nosing". Clearly this was a nice women who did an incredibly kind act and got screwed over.
And how do you know the only reason she donated her kidney to that lady was because she’s her boss? Maybe she donated out of the goodness of her own heart and simply wanted to help out another human being she knew in need? Not every good deed needs to be seen as being done out of special interest you know
Just trying to figure out why the reporter who open the storyline at the very beginning of this video started off with a laugh with beginning the opening of this sad story? 🤔🤔🤔
I know the feeling about not doing more for your boss. I used to work a lot of hours for my boss. Walked in a blizzard to get to work. Came to work when ever someone called off. When my mom died, my boss made me come to work. Instead of giving me bereavement pay, she used my PTO to pay me for the time that I had to take off to bury her in another state. If I was her boss, I would have gave her special treatment for life. She would have multiple vacations, better pay, a promotion, a new car...anything for saving my life. I wouldn't even care if she started slacking off on the job. I would be so grateful for her saving my life.
You mean to tell me a successful employer doesn't have family or friends that could have helped her? That alone would tell me about her true character.
LIVEFRMNYC ---- You can"t donate to someone if you're not a perfect match!!! If it was THAT easy....there would never be such a huge demand for organ donorship cuz family members would most likely always opt to help out!! It's actualy really rare for a parent/sibbling to be a match
stephanie daigle You didn't pay attention to the story. She didn't give her a kidney, she gave somebody else a kidney so her boss could get one quicker. Like a trade. Any family or friend could have done the same.
Thats crazy. If someone gave me a kidney, dang straight I would give them special treatment, especially if they became sick afterward because of it. Some people have no sense of loyalty. Sometimes you have to find that out the hard way. I hope she is still a kind hearted person and this witch didnt turn her bitter.
Dont feed trolls. When people respond to them in any way. They get something from it, I dont know what but something. Just ignore them. That person likely needs attention but dont know how to say anything intelligent to get a response.
I sent this clip to myself. It will serve as a reminder to me to not extend myself for anyone. Often times we extend ourselves and people don't appreciate it. They are the first to stab you in the bag or forget you totally when they have attained whatever their goal was. It's almost like the kind gesture embarrassed them.
That's usually how it goes. The person who receives the kidney starts to feel better almost immediately, and recovers fairly quickly. The person who gave the kidney starts off feeling awful, takes far longer to recover, and is often left with lifelong complications. It's NOT a selfish thing to say no to someone in need. "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm," kind of deal. 😔
@@janedoll3237 actually health = longevity. The healthier you are the longer you will live and vice versa. If you take a look at super centenarians they were healthier than their peers all along the way. But giving a kidney is still something that can impact your health and thus longevity. It's a personal decision and this woman doing something big as this and then getting fired, she must feel like a used toilet paper.
@@MrCoffis You're right. I can add a great-grandmother, both sets of grandparents and my parents to that list. What I note they all had in common was that none of them EVER took an antibiotic in their lives. When I was in high school and college and for ten years after that I was on 500 mg. of tetracycline a day--prescribed for acne by my dermatologist. My immune system was practically shot when I finally went off the meds.
Legal Fiction Natural Fact That's kinda s shitty reason to not donate your organs. Yeah, someone shitty could get it, but you don't need them anymore you're dead.
TheCircle000 Why? This tells me that there is a "possibility" that her boss didn't deserve a kidney from "her". But nothing in this video says why the mentally ill don't deserve life saving medical medical treatment. And it definitely doesn't say, prove, or demonstrate that her boss is a sociopath. If it makes you feel any better, you did prove one thing. You proved you don't know a sociopath is.
"you just gave your organ to me and saved my life by possibly jeopardising your own. Let me email a thank to you and then fire you because I'm a complete psycho"
Sadly this would probably be the same way my dad would be treated if something like this happened but sadly with the stupid fire you without a reason law in our state you couldn't sue the owners of the place
@@MlokLik Don't even do it then....look it up....you wind up sliced and diced on slides in a lab or the Body farm....etc....the families have a hard time getting the bodies back. No thank you!!
I'll be dead anyway. I wish to be harvested, then burned and have my ashes thrown into a vulcano or something like that. Still haven't decided yet. They could bury me in a paper box, i wouldn't mind. Stay safe.
Be warned: your boss is not your friend; get everything in writing. Unless she is a union worker, being terminated without cause is not illegal BUT her boss may have broken laws regarding medical leave. I hope she wins her lawsuit.
This is wrongful dismissal. It is 100% wrongful act by the employer. He terminated her job without cause. Even if there is a cause, she has the right to be heard aka natural justice. Labor Relation Law 101
That's the thing though...she never smiled in her face or ever acted grateful for her selfless act, only through an email was it mentioned casually. I agree...Evil, yes!
You’d be surprised at how petty people can be. I got hurt so bad at my old job that they had to call the paramedics and I ended up in the hospital. I screamed a profanity quite loud from the pain (just once as they moved me) , a coworker went to HR because I offended him. I’m not trying to compare what I went through to giving a whole organ, because it’s incomparable. But dang people can be so, so petty.
I broke my femur and I was off for like half a year till I could walk again got Togo back to my job where they said I could use a stool and run cash register when my leg started to hurt. Nope standing 8 hrs nonstop and getting bitched at when I’d go sit down for few mins when it slowed down. Ended up walking out and finding another job double pay and a lot less work.
Well this is same corporate America that says if your coworker has cancer it's your duty to give up vacation days for their treatments and recovery. It's the system
@DrumWild the boss did not feel entitled, i dont have time to rewatch the video but if i remember correctly, the employee said she would give the kidney without any coercion. she did it on her own accord. entitlement is when you expect something because of something else. maybe the employee was entitled? she felt she shouldnt be fired on the grounds of donating a kidney... thats entitlement.
18missmm she obviously didnt give a fuck about thanking her so she just emailed it like it was nothing and only called her phone when she didnt show up because it was an immediate thing
What a horrible experience. I hope she's found some justice in the court system and some healing so that she can move on. And I hope her health has recovered. It's sadly a lesson for people considering being a donor. Her ex-boss not only hurt this generous and kind woman, she hurt a lot of people who need organs and depend on this same type of kindness. Other people won't do it because of what she did.
My mom donated her kidney to me when I was 13 year old and it lasted for 19 years. The week of the surgery her co-worker went around asking other co-worker to donate money for my mom. They raise almost $5000 for her. When my mom went back to work her boss monitor her to see if she was up to doing her job. He told my mom that if she ever felt sick or not feeling good all she had to do was tell him and won't hold it against her. My mom was grateful for her co-workers and boss for understanding her situation.
Celia Morelli Is that right, I was going to refute your statement but I'm afraid that it could get messy (because politics) so let I'll just make this statement -> "If you say so!"
@@justarandomlol--What, she endured major surgery, risked her health and her life, lost a spare vital organ for life for an extra couple of dollars an hour? If anything happens to the one remaining kidney she's screwed, but she's got $575 a week now instead of $550. Wow, a real lottery win she got there. 😖
I have been a dialysis nurse for 12 years. If you go into renal failure, there are treatment options other than transplants. Of course, for most people with kidney disease, that is the most desired outcome. But you can live a relatively normal life on dialysis for many many years. I think my patient with the longest time on dialysis was about 15 years and he died of cardiac complications, it wasn't because of his kidney failure. I have had many patients who were in their 20's - 60's, who worked 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, going to dialysis 3 evenings a week and would still go out at the weekend with their mates to the pub or clubs. Most people on dialysis don't die of kidney related issues, unless they decide to cease treatment. Most renal patients, in my experience, die of other causes.
@@JF32304 yeh we all saw that comment as well.. use your brain and come up with your own replies.. Are you sure you're allowed to use the internet? I didn't think spastics were alloowed
+Pisces She's a textbook narcissist. Perhaps you're one as well. They are so blind to the situation of others or themselves that they often can't detect their own kind. I really wouldn't be surprised if you were the garden variety.
I don't think good deeds like this should be conditional. If someone needed my help, I'd want to help them. ...but even saying that, I'd never give my kidney to someone like her *if* I knew what she was really like. That she'd fire me for being sick from the surgery I had to help save her life. Good deeds shouldn't be conditional, but every rule has an exception I guess.
Lucifronz it could be conditional because you can only donate so much and humans would rather help those closer to us. if you donate a kidney and then a kid of yours needs one there’s not much you can do. somethings you can donate unconditionally would be eggs/sperm, blood or anything your body has an endless supply of
The girl that gave up her kidney sounds so sweet and her voice is so gentle. She didn't deserve to be fired but now she knows that there are better places for her.
would you call a 47 year old person a kid? would you call a 47 year old man a boy? yeah its basically the same thing or similar, but it sounds really infantilizing and weird when people call adult women girls.
@@oghenbread3330 I mean, I would call a 47 year old man a boy too. Unless she said something I dead*ss don't see a problem. Quit being offended in the place of others. Jeez.
...and corporations wonder why there's no loyalty from lower-level employees anymore. You can literally risk your life, mutilate your body, and sacrifice your organs to them...and they still refuse to acknowledge sick days, have compassion, or treat people like human beings. Despicable.
@@thespaceproduction5505 you shouldn't "need a better job" to be treated like a human being. Also, I own my own company and would never treat my employees like this. It's disgusting.
I would not say loyalty from lower end employees....... it all comes down to how your subordinates have been treated by you........ My team and my subordinates would give their life for me.......
Do you think male bosses are better? Cause I've had many who granted me leaves when I asked for, while in comparison female bosses were way too strict. I could joke around with my male bosses, not so much with the females.
Milo Kokille - Yeah like we'd take someone's kidney and then fire them or like you'd even find me working for a car sales yard, let alone give my kidney to that fat, greedy, selfish, heartless boss. Sounds like you'd do the same thing. The world is full of pathetic sick morons.
Ted nugent first of all she gave her the kidney she didn’t have to. And i didn’t say the boss lady is right in what she did you pathetic moron! But to murder someone for that is more ignorant and unnecessary than what happened in the first place! To be morally wrong = to be murdered yeah that’s pathetic you moron
"No good deed goes unpunished." a phrase that is unfortunately alive and well, especially in todays age of social media and the increase of individualism and narcissism.
Karma doesn't even exist. What happened to all the Nazi SS officers that imprisoned and tormented Jews? They lost thier jobs, found new ones, and went to bed. Going back to their wife and kids, they lived the rest of their lives as usual.
Well maybe not go out of business as I'm sure there are others who work there and shouldn't be punished for their bosses mistake. I would say get rid of her, get someone else who can run the business and keep everyone else employed.
She basically sacrificed a piece of herself to save someone's life. What kind and type of a person would do that for someone else. The donor has a big heart she's awesome
You are an angel this is an ungrateful woman who received your kidne.You certainly deserved to be treated better than you were .wish this lady all the best.
Greatest artist Who ever lived nah i think you’re just projecting your hate lol nice try though. This women should get her fucking kidneys back the boss fucked up
Greatest artist Who ever lived lol where? Literally everyone in the comments is just ragging on the boss, I see no feminists in sight. What a strange and random comment.
If she gave me a kidney, I wouldn't care who thought she was getting special treatment, because she would be getting special treatment. I'd fire who ever had something slick to say about it.
@@nicholasmccain5818 that boss just lied to look like it's a legitimate reason. It's a wrongful termination at most. The company doesn't want to lose a (x) amount of dollars. So why not lie to make it look like it's legit? If you donated a kidney you would be going home early because your immune system is building back up from a surgery
So what if ppl think that you are giving her special treatment. The lady gave up a freaking kidney so you could live. She would of had a permanent spot if it was me.
The real kicker too is that based on her physical condition after donating she was technically classified as disabled. So accommodating her would have been morally and _legally_ correct. That's exactly why they lost the lawsuit.
@@BillyBJohnson Well being that the NY Division of Human Rights ruled that her company did engage in discriminatory practices against her, prior to her lawsuit and based on the wording in her initial complaint to said division, I can only assume that she did have a doctor sign off.
And also I'd like to correct my original statement. Her company didn't lose the lawsuit, they ended up settling out of court. She won her case with the NY Division of Human Rights, which was something she filed as an initial step before suing, then she took her to company to court but they ended up settling out of court. I don't think details of the settlement was ever disclosed.
obv she donated a kidney to the boss so the boss should at least cover medical fees and payment for days off. She already gave up her kidney and good health, why doesn't she get anything in return?
I agree her boss should have thanked her in person and also added a hand written note of thanks along with a gift card. Do something other than send an email with one sentence.
Some human deserve to be thrown to lion of Kruger national park in SA. GOD HATED her she was ungrateful,and selfish. I really wish she milk them in court. and people in the US boycott their. Business practice .
It’s so sad. I had a job in the mortgage industry at a small brokerage. We took care of each other like family. No one ever suffered in any way because we all helped each other out. When a pregnant coworker came in with bruises we hid her for a week and pitched in to do all her office work and she received her full salary. We then rented an apartment for her and her baby. When a loan officers house went up in flames we all pitched in to make sure he and his wife had everything they needed to start over again. I guess the difference is that we were all givers and this boss took a kidney and wasn’t willing to give.
"I will always be very grateful that she gave me a kidney." Yeah you're really grateful, and you showed that by firing her... Wonder what's it like if she's not grateful to you.
That would teach the boss that recalls don't just happen in the auto industry. :-) Even if they said they would hire her back, after all this I would not go back that company. I can foresee them causing her all kind of anguish and mental jabs at her simply to really get rid of her. Right now, her very best actions are via the news, the RUclips videos such as this, and word of mouth through the general public. Heck, legally park her car on the street in front of the business and place a sign on top of the car proclaiming to the world what she did and what the boss and company did to her in return. Want to see sales drop off? That would do it.
UPDATE: She sued for 15 million and got an undisclosed settlement in 2014.
Thank you
Probably got $3 million, her lawyer got half.
I would have taken my kidney back.
Thanks.
@@muckymucks still some good smackeroos, even after taxes too! 💰
The boss didn't just need a kidney, she needed a *heart* and a *soul.*
Y. R 👏👍👏
absolutely
It's too bad she couldn't sue that POS to take the kidney back.
Yeah to replace that black shriveled up piece of jerky that barely passes for a heart.
more like a brain..
“Sounds like a personal problem.” How do you say that to someone who’s not feeling well BECAUSE THEY GAVE YOU A KIDNEY?!?
you rise through the ranks at an auto dealership building that lack of empathy through customers then get to rule over employees.
@@bc1969214 selling cars doesn’t mean not having empathy. It’s like selling houses, clothing, or anything else. You’re there to HELP people but also to direct someone to buy your product. The stereotypes for car salespeople amazes me.
"Well if I hadn't given you my kidney than you'd probably be at home instead of me"
Jesus loves you all please repent of your sins God Bless you and your family
@@alymetz2020 you don’t work in sales and it shows. Also you can’t compare selling cars and properties (jobs that are LARGELY commission based) to retail. A good sales person can make over 100k/year. Nobody is touching that selling retail. And because they actually have to make a sale to get money, most car sales ppl will say anything to get their commission. Look at those ppl living in section 8 housing driving a brand new Beamer off the lot. You truly think the salesperson who sold them that car didn’t know that they wouldn’t be able to afford the repairs on it later down the line? Of course they did, they just didn’t care. The stock market crash of 2008 was partly due to to mortgage brokers (sales ppl) giving mortgages to homebuyers they knew would default on them. Why? Because mortgage brokers get a commission once a sale is closed on a house.. successful, rich sales ppl very much lack empathy.
"People are going to think you're getting special treatment."
Uhhhh, she should!
she would be on the payroll even if she just swept the lot and same pay as before. Call off whenever you need to. I understand and thanks for everything.
Truth hurts, but her going out of her way for her boss doesn’t and shouldn’t give special treatment, as that is illegal.
Seemingly firing her for no reason right after? Kinda seems intentional.
@@heroesofthestormmurky3092
In a privately owned company you are allowed to give special treatment, like making your kid a VP.
In this case, the woman was recovering from saving the boss's life. To fire her for missing too many days? Take the days off in context of "I would be dead and she'd be 100% well otherwise."
Keeping her in her job would not be special treatment, but what would (what should be done) is make sure her medical bills are covered, that she gets a raise, that the next opening goes to one of her kids if they need a job, and throwing $10k into her retirement fund as many years as you can afford it.
Then these comments would be about how she "sold" her kidney!
@@janosk8392
To the life saved, does it matter? Yeah, a whole more than this woman lost - like maybe millions.
"I don't want to show you special treatment." *Gives her especially bad treatment instead*
Yeah, that's the point to me. She shouldn't have gotten fired for that even if she hadn't given her boss a kidney!
Boss : people will think you’re getting special treatment.
Her: Bitch did all the other employees give you a kidney?
She won the lawsuit. This case had several layers to it. One layer was that the boss seems to have been an alcoholic, which is why she had kidney problems. The case gained attention, so the media started following the boss and caught he with bottles of liquor after she got her kidney. The reason being an alcoholic matters to me is because I know alcoholics and they are super hard to deal with sober, so I could just imagine what she was dealing with from a boss that was not able to drink. The first job I ever had was at Burger King years ago, and the boss was an alcoholic. For some reason she hated me. I remember one day I was on break with a bunch of other people and we were all eating our free meal, and for some reason she comes out screaming about me not being allowed to eat for free, but never said anything about the others. She docked my pay for a meal that was free. True story, I got her to quit hating me by selling her weed. One day she did not know I was outside the door and she said something about needing a joint, and from that day forward she called me everyday before work to see if I would sell her some weed. It was like she went from being super mean for no reason at all, to depending on me for weed, and she never talked rude again to me.
@@chrisgullett4332 I always understood that alcoholics are ineligible to receive a kidney unless they've attended rehab and demonstrated sobriety.
@@ladydara7446 You are not ineligible of getting a transplant, it is just recommended you do not drink, which I pointed out that the woman was not able to drink at the time because she was getting a kidney. Alcoholism is one of the major reason people get transplants, and you cannot ban someone from getting a transplant. The worries are more on the side of the donator, cause you do not ant someone donating a diseased organ.
I would’ve taken my kidney back with bare hands & a butter knife. Later on feed that to a dog cause they are more faithful as well as grateful than human beings.
Completely agree
😂😂😂😂😂👍
Idk, I dont think I would feed a dog a kidney that was once mine 😭😭😭
*some people
Wtf?? Lol
Literally any sane person would understand her taking a day off. It’s disgusting how that woman treated this woman who possibly saved her life.
according to the complaint she also had to have permission from the boss to use the restroom.
1000th like!
I know especially when there are so many different ways that she could've been accommodated. She could be assigned to work from home if she needed to stay home to deal with complications from her surgery. She could be given lighter working assignments. She could also be put on reduced pay or a different pay structure but more accommodation to her other needs. Her life is already hard enough as a divorced single mother with 2 kids and now she just lost a healthy kidney.
Jesus loves you all please repent of your sins God Bless you and your family
@@bc1969214 Sounds like my old boss at a major supermarket chain.
I donated my kidney to a stranger. I did not meet recipient until day of surgery. I was 23 years old and healing was HELL. SO PAINFUL! I don't take pain meds (addiction runs in my family) and for 6 weeks you're not able to lift over 10 pounds. My doctor told me the recipient heals faster when it's successful because they get something they needed, and the donor loses something they didn't need to lose. Her boss really was wrong and so frustrating to hear this.
That's very kind of you, if no one did, I thank you
god bless you
Your kindness speaks volumes.
why on earth would u refuse pain med then say it was painful? weird
@@LMAOINMEMPHISthey did say that addiction runs in the family so ied guess they were worried that they may get addicted to the meds.
On a personal note from someone that’s actually on pain meds and has addiction that runs in the family it’s not as big a problem as you think especially if your worried about it, but I’m also in a situation where it dosnt matter if I do get addicted as I will need pain meds for the rest of my life unless I want to be in so much pain I can’t move or if we invent a way to replace my nervous system which isn’t happening any time soon😢
Most who donate a body part to help another don't expect anything in return. However, to be fired resulting from damage to her body related to that very selfless act of a donation is beyond evil...
When this bosses time comes I think even the devil won't want someone this evil in hell.
I agree. Even if the boss didn't say very many thanks, it seems like she didn't have such a big problem with it. But to not acknowledge a medical problem and reasonable cause for her limitations, and then firing her on top of that... ridiculous.
That boss is one evil outfit!
That is a narcissist for you. Always.
the employee didn't expect anything in return, but didn't expect a cold shoulder or to be booted either. the boss has no empathy and is unable to feel such normal human emotions.
"people are going to think you're getting special treatment" she kinda should be getting special treatment she cut out an organ and gave it to you. There are not a whole lot of employees out there that would do that.
Medical leave isn't even special treatment!
Yes! She literally shortened her life span so her boss could live.
Giving your boss an organ is pretty special treatment. She had no business accepting organ donations from her employees, if she was ethically opposed to special treatment. I don’t like to believe there are bad people, but this boss is really trying to prove me wrong.
@@Kmbstitches yep, people have offered me their kidneys since both of mine are at stage 3 ckd. I find it so nice but I physically could never ask anyone something that big and if someone did I’d truly be great full to them for the rest of my life especially since complications could come to both parties. I’ve heard of people getting organs and a couple years later their body rejects the organ despite things going well in the beginning 🥲 then there’s the person who’s literally putting their life on the line so yours can last longer, that’s a HUGE commitment for both parties. I’m baffled she didn’t show more gratitude, even if it’s fake. Like come on. I hope this ladies kidney rejects because she did not deserve it and I hope this kind woman found a way better job and won the law suit
Literally saved her life. And risked her own.
when the boss was searching for a kidney the woman shouldve just said
*SoUnDs lIke A peRsOnal PrOBlem*
That’s perfect
Yup time for a lawsuit 👎🏻😡
lol....seriously thats how they treated her after giving up her kidney
That's what I would have said
It’s unethical to accept special favors from employees in the first place. You don’t get to solicit special treatment and then get on your high horse about the ethics of favoritism later.
She didn't ask for a promotion, she didn't asked for millions b4 the lawsuit. She was just recovering and carrying on but instead the boss was scared she's gonna owe her savior favors for the rest of her life. Which she should btw.
She saved her life on so many different levels. At least she should have retired her earlly if she didn’t want her around. Not like she couldn’t afford it.
@@blkqueen6201 we're here today for the sacrifices of others. At least we can do is honor them
@@blkqueen6201 i even put my poop donor in my will
you should take her heart out, she clearly doesn't use it
That's called murder.
@@kalfrey534 r/wooooooosh
Ultimate roast
Kalfrey and a big duh for you
Kalfrey
r/whoooosh
She got Justice. Debbie sued for 14 million and got an undisclosed settlement in 2014. (This usually means somewhere in the millions) she got the last laugh!!
Thank you for the update.
Thanks for that
Thank God, I hope she has a wonderful future.
Bruh, I hope the person I give my kidney to fucks me over, this is basically an untapped industry!
That's insane. You don't have to kiss the ground she walked on for doing the kind act, but at least show better appreciation than that. The boss is a work of art and has a special place you know where. lol
If I was a boss and an employee gave me their kidney I WOULD give them special treatment at work.
Give her 10 cars
Ofcourse...
You owe her your life ..
That boss is not human...
Disgusting kind of person
"Look people are going to think I'm giving you special treatment"
Dipshit people are going to think that anyhow. Besides it's a fucking car dealership not the presidency the politics of the place aren't anywhere near that important.
"Sounds like a personal problem"
I'm on the waiting list for a kidney, this boss is the devil
Get cars for free for life ,
higher pay and would honor them because they took a piece of them and gave it to me something they didn't have to do.
The boss sounds like she fits the description of a Narcissist PERFECTLY.
Yes she sounds just like a couple of people I know
NEVER EVER EVER help your bosses. They're not your friends.
Edit: Unless they need toilet paper. But other people have body parts too. But I mean, if I gave my boss a kidney and they fired me because I took a day off I would say good riddance. Give me my kidney back!
YEP.
My boss is a very nice and good woman but I'm also Canadian so I don't know if that affects anything. She's more like a sister than a boss
Very very true!.
My boss is awesome!...I'm self employed 😆
only help your boss when you are certain of the benefits.
I could not imagine being compassionate enough to give my boss a kidney and they couldn’t be compassionate enough to let me keep my job
My boss would like to inflict as much pain as possible
That's not compassion it's stupidity
Raging narcissisists that's who.
@@jonathanmercado9965 I mean call it what you want I wouldn’t say it’s stupid, people being willing enough to be “stupid” is the whole reason multiple people are alive today...
@@hellstar7814 so you prefer this result
Update for anyone wondering. The court found that she had been discriminated against and unjustly terminated. Seeking around 15 million $ in damages the pathetic excuses for a piece of dirt boss and the joke of a business settles for an undisclosed amount out of court, furthermore people destroyed the business reviews online. They got the smack down and lost a ton of $$$
S Tuck__ Thanks 4 the update. I feel better already.
GOOD thanks for the update!
S Tuck__ oof nice
Thank you 4 the update my friend.
Awesome! Just as it should be.
I mean the woman helped you get a kidney! Do you know how many people in this world are waiting for one! Died because they didn't get one?! If I was her boss, I'd of rolled out the fucking red carpet!
My son and I will forever be grateful to the stranger whose family donated his kidney🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
It's like firing your own savior
Ray Mak why u everywhere
It's like biting the hand that feeds ya
Jesus is the way people!
Sohat Bhuyan , because he’s a youtuber that’s why you see him everywhere on youtube. Duh?
Yup it was like Jesus when he was attack for saving people and making things better
This is why nice people are very rare, their generosity is rarely reciprocated.
"Kindness is weakness,
people who are dumb enough to be mistreated deserve to be mistreated."
The thinking of the sociopath.
Yea
@@porshprix4286 kindness is not always weakness
Being nice is not about having it be reciprocated, we are nice to reflect our better selves period.
How people treat you is their karma, how you react is yours.
God says not to expect reciprocation in this life, it will be given in the next / after.
"Hey, lets fire the woman because she was having complications from the surgery she had to save my life"
Levi Valenciano people are heartless. They only think about money n nothing more no compassion no gratitude nothing.
I had a similar operation to this and Only if I knew who gave me their kidney I would be at their door with kisses and hugs telling them they are my heroes.
capitalism is great isn't it?
@@aliceakosota797 what does capitalism has to do with it?
@@tumbakiran the boss wasnt heartless... if he was she would have gave him her heart not kidney
Several years ago, my cousin received a kidney from her oldest sister. I remember the middle sister found some kind of funding for people who get kidney surgery (they have money for everything). She got the money, but didn't share it with the sister who gave her the kidney. Fast forward to now...that kidney is failing. This boss better be careful. Kidneys can fail you at any given time.
which sister kept the money
Same question I'm confused
To everyone saying that they would ask for the kidney back lol she didn’t give her kidney directly to her boss. Her boss was involved in a kidney donation group where you have to give a kidney to get a kidney. This lady wasn’t a match for her boss so she couldn’t give it directly to her so this lady donated to someone else on her bosses behalf because you have to “give a kidey to get a kidney.” So this lady‘s kidney donation actually went to someone else and then her boss was able to get a kidney from another person who was a perfect match. Still, the boss is an ungrateful bitch.
Perfect way to end your comment👏🏼
Thanks for clearing that up. And, off topic but, you're a QT.
That feels like even more of a sacrifice. It’s not like her kidney was a perfect match so she gave it to her, it was like “I’m gonna give up my kidney so you can get one” 😯! What a horrible human being that boss is!
@@chefkoo 😂😂
@Dorothy Zbornak Just like women can call us dicks and assholes, it's totally fine to call women bitches if it's warranted.
My Boss: "I'm dying, I need a kidney"
Me: "So your position is opening up soon?" :)
darkspd31 Exactly.
😂😂😂😂😂
darkspd31 haha, good one
darkspd31 this is the mindset that will bring you up the chain.
😂😂😂😂true dat
Moral of the story. Don't give your kidney to your boss.
Facts
Well, she didn't give her kidney to her boss. She donated it on behalf of her boss to move her up the wait list. Hopefully someone much kinder received her kidney.
Lol!!! It's like lending someone money and they don't pay it back.
Only my children would get my body parts
Simultaneously, don't accept a kidney from an employee.
This video inspired me to work for myself and never ever give my all to an ungrateful employer. Literally a formative part of my life. I'm 27 now and doing well.
I wish I had done this earlier, but I started to work for myself at 43.
Reminder that your boss is not your friend no matter how close you become.
Not all bosses are like this psycho.
Exactly
sounds like they're really nice to you to avoid paying you
It's simply wrong to judge all bosses by the standards of one particularly ruthless one.
Not true. My mom's old boss was one of her very best friends. When my stepdad fell ill with liver disease and she became his caretaker he insisted on continuing to pay her, even after they moved across the country. Even though his business couldn't afford it. And despite my mom's protestations. Humans are humans. Some are awful and some are amazing.
The old saying proves true again, no good deed goes unpunished.
It's a pirate life for me -- take all you can and give nothing back.
@@therapy188 KAIZOKU NI ORE WA NARUUU
Pretty sad isn’t it.
not always, if that was the case no one would do any good
If this was true than people would have stopped doing good deeds
Next time boss needs a new kidney:
Employee:
“That sounds like a personal problem”
💯🤣
Right
My kidney is only for family members, mom, dad, sister, nephew. Fuck the rest.
@@ibobeko4309 .!
Bully Mcguire. I missed the part where that's my problem.
This lady was incredibly generous, in my 25 years of working I've never come across a boss that would be deserving of my kidney, not one. I would only give up a kidney for a family member or a very good friend.
Also, the recovery process is harder on the donor than the recipient.
Exactly!
Right because the donor is used to 2 kidneys and the recipient is probably used to having less than 100% days. Being they have to work with only one kidney!
Yes Ashley, Mine was very slow.
That Lady is one ungraful bitch
You are correct.
True. I knew someone who donated a kidney to her brother, she passed later on from complications. Any surgery is risky, I nearly died from one in 2013, lost too much blood during surgery and had to have a transfusion and developed complications from the surgery.
Her case was settled. It was a confidential agreement between her boss. She got paid big time. Her boss was dumb. Could have gave her the raise when she needed. Make management . Whatever she wants. Now she got a big fat check and ruined the company's image
Well good I am glad she fought back and got something for it. This was just an awful slap in the face or actually kick in the gut.
Ah! I knew something is missing. It wouldn't be a "donation" if there was an agreement and big money here. Therefore it should've been fine if the company fired her or not
There was no prior agreement between the two. David Chan is saying that the lawsuit was settled out of court, confidentially. He's right if her boss would just been a halfway decent person she would have saved herself and the company a lot of money.
They were a car dealership organization. Their reputation was already shit 😂
Zatzu Uy you don’t make sense, or you’re not understanding what OP said
People like that boss is a big reason people harden their hearts towards one another.
Explains why boss fights do exist in games.
Chocolate Starfish let's assume you don't play video games. Wikipedia could explain things far better than I do en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boss_(video_gaming)
Chocolate Starfish regardless of how good the boss is, they are meant to be defeated / dethroned. Period. They are just mere mortals after all
And the reason I’d take my organs to the grave if I died
sonictheporcipine can u blame them?
This is precisely why I no longer help people
I’d say “fine, I’m going to need that kidney back”
Lol, but refund is only for 3 months 🤭
the boss did not get her kidney it was a donation circle
Yeah get me my refund
@@Mary-zj9jz it’s the principle. She got her the kidney, therefore, it’s hers. That boss had no business soliciting employees for organ donations. Her total lack of gratitude and moral obligation is disgusting.
No wonder she's fired. You work in a dealership you should Always ask if she is willing to pay in cash or installment.
Someone needs to donate a heart to this boss. What a cruel way to treat someone that saved your life 😭
Thenjiwe Comedy she shouldn't have given her the kidney
🔵😲Plz put me on the jury! I want to award her a ton of money for the terrible treatment by her boss. The very least she deserves is job security❗
@@ventureelect 🔵 This reminds me of Alice In Wonderland. You know, when the Queen screams " Off with his (her) head!"...LOL I don't want violence but geeze that boss needs a wake up call!
While we're at it, we should search for a brain donor to help her out.
Sounds right....she needs a new heart too. SMH
The boss lady should've come to thank her, in person, and spontaneously given her 3 months' paid leave -- to recover.
Absolutely ungrateful. That car dealership just lost a lot business.
Their sales plummeted down. What is done cannot be undone. It's either the boss give her back the kidney or the boss give her the company.
@David Davidson exactly who are you talking to? I just made a statement of what might happen. People like you need to understand is that perception matters when it comes to bussiness. NEVER said what is right or wrong.
@David Davidson checked to see what was up with the caes and found this, Following legal action, the New York State Division on Human Rights has ruled that Debbie was indeed unjustly fired by the Atlantic Motor Group following her kidney donation. The Division on Human Rights further said that there was probable cause that Debbie had been fired due to discrimination. Debbie is now seeking $15 million in damages from both the Atlantic Motor Group as well as from Jackie.
@David Davidson Why are you copying and pasting the same response on multiple threads, dick head? Who do you work for? My take - Atlantic Motor Group.
Paul Lopez this is in my town
Not everyone at your workplace is your friend, Do your job, get paid and go Home.....
Bsmm Bsmm so you are against the woman who donated her kidney or not? This has nothing to do with this video.
Sounds like something a “boss who had a kidney donated to them and fired the donor” would say.
Nobody is your friend at work
Couldnt agree more, do youre work dont bring your personal life into the work place and go home
@spirals 73 lmao ok RUclips troll..
You got a Brown spot on your nose
Never do anything for your boss that you're not paid to do. It's not a personal relationship.
Yup... that's what she gets for brown nosing
She was trying to be nice jfc
@@schadenfreude5287 I think donating a fucking organ is a bit more than "brown nosing". Clearly this was a nice women who did an incredibly kind act and got screwed over.
And how do you know the only reason she donated her kidney to that lady was because she’s her boss? Maybe she donated out of the goodness of her own heart and simply wanted to help out another human being she knew in need? Not every good deed needs to be seen as being done out of special interest you know
Just trying to figure out why the reporter who open the storyline at the very beginning of this video started off with a laugh with beginning the opening of this sad story? 🤔🤔🤔
I know the feeling about not doing more for your boss. I used to work a lot of hours for my boss. Walked in a blizzard to get to work. Came to work when ever someone called off. When my mom died, my boss made me come to work. Instead of giving me bereavement pay, she used my PTO to pay me for the time that I had to take off to bury her in another state. If I was her boss, I would have gave her special treatment for life. She would have multiple vacations, better pay, a promotion, a new car...anything for saving my life. I wouldn't even care if she started slacking off on the job. I would be so grateful for her saving my life.
You mean to tell me a successful employer doesn't have family or friends that could have helped her? That alone would tell me about her true character.
LIVEFRMNYC ---- You can"t donate to someone if you're not a perfect match!!! If it was THAT easy....there would never be such a huge demand for organ donorship cuz family members would most likely always opt to help out!! It's actualy really rare for a parent/sibbling to be a match
stephanie daigle
You didn't pay attention to the story. She didn't give her a kidney, she gave somebody else a kidney so her boss could get one quicker. Like a trade. Any family or friend could have done the same.
LIVEFRMNYC
The persons point still stands. The family member more than likely was not a direct match.
bighands69 then that family member could have done the same as the worker and gave it to a third person, duh! His point still stands!
They knew what kind of woman she was... Her family did not even wanted to help her.
Thats crazy. If someone gave me a kidney, dang straight I would give them special treatment, especially if they became sick afterward because of it. Some people have no sense of loyalty. Sometimes you have to find that out the hard way. I hope she is still a kind hearted person and this witch didnt turn her bitter.
Donald Welborn cant expect much loyalty from white race and female gender. The boss just happens to be both.
bob bobbgarte wtf are you talking about? The doner was white and female. She seemed genuine to me. Idiot.
Dont feed trolls. When people respond to them in any way. They get something from it, I dont know what but something. Just ignore them. That person likely needs attention but dont know how to say anything intelligent to get a response.
bob bobbgarte okay, racist/sexist, calm down
No. I hate that crap, it leads to more censorship over time. Just ignore it, pretend you never saw it.
Ever wonder why people dont Always help others...
Yep, I see it when I help people. They thank for a favor with awfulness. No empathy. No wonder few people are vegan.
Turd Ferguson 😂😂😂😂
Like your English teacher who never explained that you don't capitalize random words in the middle of sentences?
I'm that guy, IV offered to 2 different friends, but I'd still do the same! It's truly sad in these circumstances!!
@@The_Endless_Summer Because everyone's native language is English here. Good job being a jerk though. I bet you didn't need teaching on that one.
I sent this clip to myself. It will serve as a reminder to me to not extend myself for anyone. Often times we extend ourselves and people don't appreciate it. They are the first to stab you in the bag or forget you totally when they have attained whatever their goal was. It's almost like the kind gesture embarrassed them.
Ask for your kidney back!
Nope. Collect it back with a box cutter
Doesn't matter. She donated and the company fired her for medical reasons. I would not think of doing business with them!
He’d be in dialysis.
I thought the same thing.
Cue the Justin Timberlake: l want my Kidney Back. You M-effers don't know how to act. . . . take it to the chorus. .
I’m a kidney donor. It hurt. Like really hurt. I was out of commission longer than the person I donated to (my mom). What a horrible boss.
The older I get the more I think health>longevity. I’m not sure I’d donate a kidney to family anymore or even accept one from a living donor. 🤷♀️
That's usually how it goes. The person who receives the kidney starts to feel better almost immediately, and recovers fairly quickly. The person who gave the kidney starts off feeling awful, takes far longer to recover, and is often left with lifelong complications.
It's NOT a selfish thing to say no to someone in need. "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm," kind of deal. 😔
@@janedoll3237 actually health = longevity.
The healthier you are the longer you will live and vice versa. If you take a look at super centenarians they were healthier than their peers all along the way.
But giving a kidney is still something that can impact your health and thus longevity. It's a personal decision and this woman doing something big as this and then getting fired, she must feel like a used toilet paper.
I hate to say it, but I'm a 2 kidney kind of person. But I have a child with just 1.They're kind of important.
@@MrCoffis You're right. I can add a great-grandmother, both sets of grandparents and my parents to that list. What I note they all had in common was that none of them EVER took an antibiotic in their lives. When I was in high school and college and for ten years after that I was on 500 mg. of tetracycline a day--prescribed for acne by my dermatologist. My immune system was practically shot when I finally went off the meds.
This is why sociopaths don't deserve organ transplants.
Legal Fiction Natural Fact That's kinda s shitty reason to not donate your organs. Yeah, someone shitty could get it, but you don't need them anymore you're dead.
CC1732 .
Her boss is like fucking Hitler, I swear. She's a total sociopath.
TheCircle000 Agreed. Just let them all die off, slowly and in severe pain.😒
TheCircle000 Why? This tells me that there is a "possibility" that her boss didn't deserve a kidney from "her". But nothing in this video says why the mentally ill don't deserve life saving medical medical treatment. And it definitely doesn't say, prove, or demonstrate that her boss is a sociopath.
If it makes you feel any better, you did prove one thing. You proved you don't know a sociopath is.
i needed to watch this so I don't make the same mistake in being generous to others. I wish that woman the best she seemed like a nice person.
"you just gave your organ to me and saved my life by possibly jeopardising your own. Let me email a thank to you and then fire you because I'm a complete psycho"
Sadly this would probably be the same way my dad would be treated if something like this happened but sadly with the stupid fire you without a reason law in our state you couldn't sue the owners of the place
That is why i'll only ever donate my organs if i'm dead.
Never give up a body part to any damned body but your own children or loved family member that deserves it.
@@MlokLik Don't even do it then....look it up....you wind up sliced and diced on slides in a lab or the Body farm....etc....the families have a hard time getting the bodies back. No thank you!!
I'll be dead anyway. I wish to be harvested, then burned and have my ashes thrown into a vulcano or something like that. Still haven't decided yet.
They could bury me in a paper box, i wouldn't mind.
Stay safe.
She donated her kidney to her boss? Most people would kidnap their boss and take their kidneys lol.
John Smith LÖL
I'm sorry, but she has door-mat written all over her face.
Lol 😂
What kind of people are you associating with? Your experience is not universal, I think "most" is hardly correct
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I sincerely hope that Debbie Stevens won a huge settlement, she deserves nothing but praise.
She did
I think the boss faked it so she can take her kidney
she got 15 mil
@@nikrey6919 she got 500k
@@joots4342 oh sorry thought I read an article saying she got 15mil
Wow! This is the greatest form of ingratitude I've ever seen.
who would fire someone for saving their life?
Richard Rabinowitz Donald Trump
Richard Rabinowitz I agree that person didn't appreciate your employee
Richard Rabinowitz it's regarded as a gift/bribe.
Ip Freeley only if she had been under discipline.
Richard Rabinowitz a self serving rich bitch who is better than the lower class. Lower class are just animals for them to use and profit off.
Be warned: your boss is not your friend; get everything in writing. Unless she is a union worker, being terminated without cause is not illegal BUT her boss may have broken laws regarding medical leave. I hope she wins her lawsuit.
This is wrongful dismissal. It is 100% wrongful act by the employer. He terminated her job without cause. Even if there is a cause, she has the right to be heard aka natural justice. Labor Relation Law 101
Management isn't on our side. Never fucking help the management; they aren't people.
Pinhead Larry *she
Boss was a chick
Conchobhar ó Scannlain what?
AmusedChild I the boss croaks
My god how evil can you be the fact her boss probably was smiling in her face and all pretending to be grateful and then she shows her true colors.
I was reading your comment and looking at the pic like wow she's pretty 😂💕
That's the thing though...she never smiled in her face or ever acted grateful for her selfless act, only through an email was it mentioned casually. I agree...Evil, yes!
Demons walk the earth 🌎.
@@rochelleolivia tell me about it. It's like her she was made by God herself.
Lesson learned: never give your body part to a narcissist.
I don't think anyone at work would complain about special treatment after giving a body part to the boss. I know I wouldn't.
You’d be surprised at how petty people can be. I got hurt so bad at my old job that they had to call the paramedics and I ended up in the hospital. I screamed a profanity quite loud from the pain (just once as they moved me) , a coworker went to HR because I offended him. I’m not trying to compare what I went through to giving a whole organ, because it’s incomparable. But dang people can be so, so petty.
If my boss didn't give special treatment to someone who gave them an organ I would think they were a piece of shit
@@prlegal411 oh my God I am so sorry for that. What a piece of sh*t.
@@prlegal411 maybe they already had an ax to grind or he considered you a professional threat. Still what a loser.
I broke my femur and I was off for like half a year till I could walk again got Togo back to my job where they said I could use a stool and run cash register when my leg started to hurt. Nope standing 8 hrs nonstop and getting bitched at when I’d go sit down for few mins when it slowed down. Ended up walking out and finding another job double pay and a lot less work.
This has to be the ultimate Karen. This can’t be topped. I’m shocked at the entitlement and disrespect from the manager
Entitlement?
Well this is same corporate America that says if your coworker has cancer it's your duty to give up vacation days for their treatments and recovery. It's the system
@DrumWild the boss did not feel entitled, i dont have time to rewatch the video but if i remember correctly, the employee said she would give the kidney without any coercion. she did it on her own accord. entitlement is when you expect something because of something else. maybe the employee was entitled? she felt she shouldnt be fired on the grounds of donating a kidney... thats entitlement.
@@thisisjustanillusion6486 Can we at least agree that she should not have donated her kidney in the first place? Offer that much at least...
@@janetmcarthur5257 lol definitely.
So she emails a thank u, but found her number to call her n berate her about missing work? 😒
18missmm she obviously didnt give a fuck about thanking her so she just emailed it like it was nothing and only called her phone when she didnt show up because it was an immediate thing
@@fredrogers7858 Right. I just wished she had the same urgency to thank her after her life-saving surgery. Some ppl are really strange pieces of work!
@@18missmm or just plain evil to the core.
The kidney did not go to the boss but someone else ............................so she DID NOT GIVE HER BOSS A KIDNEY !
I hope you are messing around....because if not......you are one to be fixed...mentally
What a horrible experience. I hope she's found some justice in the court system and some healing so that she can move on. And I hope her health has recovered. It's sadly a lesson for people considering being a donor. Her ex-boss not only hurt this generous and kind woman, she hurt a lot of people who need organs and depend on this same type of kindness. Other people won't do it because of what she did.
It's people like this boss that just make me bitter. It's hard not to hate humans with these kinds of people alive.
We are kindred spirits!
Henlo.....it's u again 😂
Yeah people like that makes me lose faith in humanity, unbelievable :(
@@clairmoon06 Wth!!!???😂😂😂
@@princessbanana4625 loll _when you're slowly evolving into ray mak_
@@clairmoon06 are u my assigned fbi agent?🤔
My mom donated her kidney to me when I was 13 year old and it lasted for 19 years. The week of the surgery her co-worker went around asking other co-worker to donate money for my mom. They raise almost $5000 for her. When my mom went back to work her boss monitor her to see if she was up to doing her job. He told my mom that if she ever felt sick or not feeling good all she had to do was tell him and won't hold it against her. My mom was grateful for her co-workers and boss for understanding her situation.
Virginia Watson huh? what does being a christian have to do with any of that?
Chris AngFlo I think she means kind, caring, generous people. Often Christians are those people.
Celia Morelli Is that right, I was going to refute your statement but I'm afraid that it could get messy (because politics) so let I'll just make this statement -> "If you say so!"
Devin Kenoras sadly, most likely not true christ ...ians..
Celia Morelli no they not
She has a good heart but I would never donate to a non-relative for this reason.
Ava Miller Heck, and you can’t trust them to always do right by you either.
maybe she should have donated her heart so the boss wouldn't fire her
@@justarandomlol--What, she endured major surgery, risked her health and her life, lost a spare vital organ for life for an extra couple of dollars an hour? If anything happens to the one remaining kidney she's screwed, but she's got $575 a week now instead of $550. Wow, a real lottery win she got there. 😖
don't delude yourself ryan
I have been a dialysis nurse for 12 years. If you go into renal failure, there are treatment options other than transplants. Of course, for most people with kidney disease, that is the most desired outcome. But you can live a relatively normal life on dialysis for many many years. I think my patient with the longest time on dialysis was about 15 years and he died of cardiac complications, it wasn't because of his kidney failure. I have had many patients who were in their 20's - 60's, who worked 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, going to dialysis 3 evenings a week and would still go out at the weekend with their mates to the pub or clubs. Most people on dialysis don't die of kidney related issues, unless they decide to cease treatment. Most renal patients, in my experience, die of other causes.
That boss is one of the most soulless, morally absent hollowed husk’s to ever walk the Earth.
By sending an email and saying thanks for the kidney is a slap in the face
Yes, it's bizarre
More than a slap in the face. I would take my kidney back with the use of a butter knife.
@@JF32304 yeh we all saw that comment as well.. use your brain and come up with your own replies.. Are you sure you're allowed to use the internet? I didn't think spastics were alloowed
@@Jordan-uc3rk dude are you on meds? Very serious question.
>Donates kidney to boss
> *Later gets fired for medical reasons*
Narcissists always miss the point. I am not sure if it is deliberate or if they are really that dumb. This boss is dispicable.
Noelia Noliz boss doesn't strike me as a narcissist. More like ungrateful and insecure
Donating a kidney to a boss? A strange and unusual thing to do and NOT to be advised!
Noelia Noliz, her boss is a car saleswomen. That's all we need to know about her personality.
Noelia Noliz she is definitely a narcissist. They don't give two damns about anyone other than themselves.
+Pisces She's a textbook narcissist. Perhaps you're one as well. They are so blind to the situation of others or themselves that they often can't detect their own kind. I really wouldn't be surprised if you were the garden variety.
What a waste of a perfectly good kidney!
I would only donate my kidney to people I am invested in, like my kid. I feel for her. Shame on the boss!
The boss doesn't feel shame, she's a psychopath.
My kids or my ex husband.
I don't think good deeds like this should be conditional. If someone needed my help, I'd want to help them.
...but even saying that, I'd never give my kidney to someone like her *if* I knew what she was really like. That she'd fire me for being sick from the surgery I had to help save her life. Good deeds shouldn't be conditional, but every rule has an exception I guess.
Exactly
Lucifronz it could be conditional because you can only donate so much and humans would rather help those closer to us. if you donate a kidney and then a kid of yours needs one there’s not much you can do. somethings you can donate unconditionally would be eggs/sperm, blood or anything your body has an endless supply of
The girl that gave up her kidney sounds so sweet and her voice is so gentle. She didn't deserve to be fired but now she knows that there are better places for her.
Woman**
@@devdollazz Literally the same thing, I wasn't calling her a LITTLE girl, just a girl. Jfc. .-.
would you call a 47 year old person a kid? would you call a 47 year old man a boy?
yeah its basically the same thing or similar, but it sounds really infantilizing and weird when people call adult women girls.
@@oghenbread3330 I mean, I would call a 47 year old man a boy too. Unless she said something I dead*ss don't see a problem. Quit being offended in the place of others. Jeez.
@@devdollazz shit and I thought people were crazy fighting over pronouns.
Call me greedy but I'm keeping my organs.
I'd give to a very close family member if they were in dire need.
Kerensa Birch exactly!!!
I live with just one working kidney. I would gladly give in up for my sons or husband.
I call u smart .
@J Idowu it don't that's why I'm keeping them
No good deed goes unpunished . Always found this true in my own life .
...and corporations wonder why there's no loyalty from lower-level employees anymore. You can literally risk your life, mutilate your body, and sacrifice your organs to them...and they still refuse to acknowledge sick days, have compassion, or treat people like human beings.
Despicable.
Get a better job
@@thespaceproduction5505 you shouldn't "need a better job" to be treated like a human being.
Also, I own my own company and would never treat my employees like this. It's disgusting.
I would not say loyalty from lower end employees....... it all comes down to how your subordinates have been treated by you........
My team and my subordinates would give their life for me.......
Do you think male bosses are better? Cause I've had many who granted me leaves when I asked for, while in comparison female bosses were way too strict.
I could joke around with my male bosses, not so much with the females.
@@User-du7kf Female bosses feel they have to be stricter to get respect I think. This is a common thing.
She also needs a heart transplant apparently 😤💔
L.A.213MusIc🎶isMe . . .best comment EVER. well done my friend well done.
Ooo! Sick burn!
Black People Created Everything and Shit ? Lolgood idea
Oh man, that was an awesome comment
Nurse Bennie I'm not a Dr but she needs a new diagnose for a bad case of heartless
If you give an organ to someone, and they betray you like this, murder should be legal.
Maybe too far, just be able to cut the organ back out yourself
Being an indian giver is never the best, but in this case, someone should get back her kidney and leave what is left behind for the dogs.
Wow ya‘ll sound morally way better than this female boss! Y’all hypocrites!
Milo Kokille - Yeah like we'd take someone's kidney and then fire them or like you'd even find me working for a car sales yard, let alone give my kidney to that fat, greedy, selfish, heartless boss. Sounds like you'd do the same thing. The world is full of pathetic sick morons.
Ted nugent first of all she gave her the kidney she didn’t have to. And i didn’t say the boss lady is right in what she did you pathetic moron! But to murder someone for that is more ignorant and unnecessary than what happened in the first place! To be morally wrong = to be murdered yeah that’s pathetic you moron
"No good deed goes unpunished." a phrase that is unfortunately alive and well, especially in todays age of social media and the increase of individualism and narcissism.
Karma is a biatch and always comes back around... she will get hers in the end
It already is coming around to hit America the hardest.
Her face is plastered everywhere... karma not necessary.
Karma doesn't even exist. What happened to all the Nazi SS officers that imprisoned and tormented Jews? They lost thier jobs, found new ones, and went to bed. Going back to their wife and kids, they lived the rest of their lives as usual.
@Daddy Feli oh, I'm nonreligious.
@Daddy Feli that's not a belief?
Not only should the boss lose everything, this company should go out of business.
Well maybe not go out of business as I'm sure there are others who work there and shouldn't be punished for their bosses mistake. I would say get rid of her, get someone else who can run the business and keep everyone else employed.
What kind of stupid logic is that
No everyone above her in the chain of hierarchy should be fired, and new people take over the business.
The boss is a stupid idiot
Running for sanity it wasn't the companies fault it was the bosses
She basically sacrificed a piece of herself to save someone's life. What kind and type of a person would do that for someone else. The donor has a big heart she's awesome
You are an angel this is an ungrateful woman who received your kidne.You certainly deserved to be treated better than you were .wish this lady all the best.
Wow....just wow...
fukkk u boss lesson don't work hard on your job
Greatest artist Who ever lived nah i think you’re just projecting your hate lol nice try though. This women should get her fucking kidneys back the boss fucked up
1000th like
Greatest artist Who ever lived lol where? Literally everyone in the comments is just ragging on the boss, I see no feminists in sight. What a strange and random comment.
You took the words out of my mouth . Wow .
But , didn't she know that her boss was such a WITCH and steer clear ? Doesn't all add up ....
She's a sweetheart. Blessings will come her way for the rest of her life
I hope so.
Poor lady... she gave almost her life and she’s treated so unfairly
By another so-called 'lady'.
You do realize she actually donate HER kidney... 🤔
This is a sign of societal collapse.
If she gave me a kidney, I wouldn't care who thought she was getting special treatment, because she would be getting special treatment. I'd fire who ever had something slick to say about it.
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Okay, after 8 years, RUclips is finding it as the most appropriate time to put this into everyone's recommendation.
It's scarcingly getting smarter. IT ACTUALLY can change people's mood without people even knowing haha.
The computers, they have allll the control
@@hariranormal5584 lol
Really
@Kunal Mazumdar🤣🤣🤣
Ikr
Wait let me get this straight...she got fired for doing a good deed? What the hell is wrong with corporate America?
Corporate America ? It's run by demoncrats.
She got fired for poor job performance.
@@nicholasmccain5818 wow your that one person to hate. Shows everyone's there's always someone to hate about something
@@brandondowdy4220 Ok then smart guy. Why was she fired?
@@nicholasmccain5818 that boss just lied to look like it's a legitimate reason. It's a wrongful termination at most. The company doesn't want to lose a (x) amount of dollars. So why not lie to make it look like it's legit? If you donated a kidney you would be going home early because your immune system is building back up from a surgery
She should have sued and got her kidney back.
So what if ppl think that you are giving her special treatment. The lady gave up a freaking kidney so you could live. She would of had a permanent spot if it was me.
The real kicker too is that based on her physical condition after donating she was technically classified as disabled. So accommodating her would have been morally and _legally_ correct. That's exactly why they lost the lawsuit.
Ray M. She wasn’t legally disabled unless her doctor signed off on documents making her legally disabled
@@BillyBJohnson Well being that the NY Division of Human Rights ruled that her company did engage in discriminatory practices against her, prior to her lawsuit and based on the wording in her initial complaint to said division, I can only assume that she did have a doctor sign off.
And also I'd like to correct my original statement. Her company didn't lose the lawsuit, they ended up settling out of court.
She won her case with the NY Division of Human Rights, which was something she filed as an initial step before suing, then she took her to company to court but they ended up settling out of court. I don't think details of the settlement was ever disclosed.
@@raym.778 Thanks i wanted to know if she won. Now i am going to see how much.
She didn't meet their standards? If I was walking the earth because of someone elses compassion I'd pay her every week whether she showed up or not.
So if she was still sick because of the surgery and needed a day or two to recover you would be ok with that?
obv she donated a kidney to the boss so the boss should at least cover medical fees and payment for days off. She already gave up her kidney and good health, why doesn't she get anything in return?
Squre downvoted for not having sympathy and not reading to kill a mockingbird
Couldn't agree more.
I'm still shocked abt her boss thanking her through email wtf.. If someone saved my life THE LEAST I COULD DO IS THANK HER IN PERSON
And bring her flowers etc... and rude that she says it’s a personal problem... if her boss needed kidney then that’s her personal problem
I agree her boss should have thanked her in person and also added a hand written note of thanks along with a gift card. Do something other than send an email with one sentence.
Wtf is wrong with people?? I hate this world.
Some human deserve to be thrown to lion of Kruger national park in SA.
GOD HATED her she was ungrateful,and selfish.
I really wish she milk them in court.
and people in the US boycott their. Business practice .
And you know not fire her?
“Oh you gonna bring up the whole kidney thing again” That’s rich.
Never involved business with personal issues! The boss sounds so narcissistic!
😢 Right!
It’s so sad. I had a job in the mortgage industry at a small brokerage. We took care of each other like family. No one ever suffered in any way because we all helped each other out. When a pregnant coworker came in with bruises we hid her for a week and pitched in to do all her office work and she received her full salary. We then rented an apartment for her and her baby. When a loan officers house went up in flames we all pitched in to make sure he and his wife had everything they needed to start over again. I guess the difference is that we were all givers and this boss took a kidney and wasn’t willing to give.
@@unapologeticallyamy9031 That is AMAZING!!! Hard to find nowadays. Thanks for sharing, really warmed my heart 💙
She has it on her face
@@ivia_ol8356 I said the exact same thing about how she even looks like one, wow!
"I will always be very grateful that she gave me a kidney."
Yeah you're really grateful, and you showed that by firing her... Wonder what's it like if she's not grateful to you.
Holyflame a pos is a pos even when they get a kidney they needed
The company was sued so hard their pants fell off.
Update to this story is the car dealership went out of business good shit internet
Can you link me a source please I can't find it
@@aeris2001 yeah i wanna know too!.
Yeah bro how did you find out?, and think you can send me and us the link to the official story?.
Stubby I agree with you
Send a link or source, if true
I hope she got a substantial amount of money in that settlement. Her boss sounds like a sociopath there's a lot of those in the corporate world.
The boss needs to give the kidney back.
That would teach the boss that recalls don't just happen in the auto industry. :-) Even if they said they would hire her back, after all this I would not go back that company. I can foresee them causing her all kind of anguish and mental jabs at her simply to really get rid of her. Right now, her very best actions are via the news, the RUclips videos such as this, and word of mouth through the general public. Heck, legally park her car on the street in front of the business and place a sign on top of the car proclaiming to the world what she did and what the boss and company did to her in return. Want to see sales drop off? That would do it.
Yeah right.
princessaz79 this happened 6 years ago
Summer Rose Sutton thanks for the laugh.
Chanel Marley I wonder what happened