Maybe dont take kidneys from people youre not serious about... Dunno, I probably wont ask a girl I have no long term plans with to buy me a house for us to live in if I know i probably wont stay with her. Some of you are so entitled & think you can take from others with zero consideration for them. Scummy behavior.
@@sirenict7647 Let's not get bogged down with semantics. The important thing here is that it was a reasonably high number, matching most of the eyes on my face
To all of those people saying, "it's okay, he changed his mind" or "it's so 'rahpey' of the female to be upset that she's upset"... you need to recognize one simple fact~ if he was not happy, he needed to just get out and move on, not cheat on her. She was generous, literally risking her life, he was classless by repaying her with cheating.
She is the kind of woman that many GOOD loyal RP men are looking for. I hate seeing good people being screwed over when they are giving their best... especially in these times.
@@Cugastratos All that corny redpill shit is why good women like this are running away from men now. Don’t bring that podcast shit into grown folks business thats little boy shit.
May the Almighty aid you in your hour of need. May you be blessed with a good, healthy, long and prosperous life. Ameen I'm sorry your hoing through this. Surely God is with the patient. Wishing you all the best.
it's not about him leaving her for me that is wrong, is the fact he cheated on her. how disrespectful to someone who basically saved his life. I swear everyday I'm more and more ashamed of Humans...
if he had pussy getting thrown at him he was gonna fuck regardless of the kidney or not. and he was prolly doing it thruout the whole relationship. u gotta have game to get a bitch to give u her kidney after a couple months of dating. homie a scumbag tho even if he was fucking other hoes he shouldve waited longer
People do great things everyday. People do terrible things everyday. Media shows you that bad cause it's more interesting. So take everything with a grain of salt.
People are capable of everything they set their mind too from ultimate kindness to ultimate evil, the evil or bad are examples of what you shouldn’t do or dwell upon too much just try to see the positive more this world can eat you up if you allow it too
@@randomjustice9273 Damn, I sincerely hope both of you are doing ok and that everything works out. i was thinking, alot of people are saying "i wouldn't give a kidney to anyone" or "how could someone donate a kidney". Yet im glad people like that exist for people who need it. It would suck to have a mentality like that just to find yourself on a waiting list.
The people that say, he's entitled to leave, his body, his choice and alladat, You know what? you right. He does have his right to his body any type of way but as Aba said, if you have a girl WILLING and NOT forced to give you a kidney, you DON'T HAVE TO take, you probably should stay loyal to that girl. Literally a ride or die and you betray their trust after they saved your life? Aba's right. Y'all entitled.
I think many of the people saying this are just vindictive men rying to spin the "Her body her choice" thing around. If a Woman did what he did I'd have just as much hate and vitriol towards them.
i've had 3 kidney transplants myself. first one was my dad, 2nd was a 17 year old that got in a motorcycle accident, and my 3rd one was from my mom, and that ones manage to last for 24 years so far. She passed away in 2016, and taking care of it is the only way I have left to take care of my mom.
I feel like if you’re not married don’t do something this extreme. You can tell she’s extremely empathetic and really wanted to help someone she cared about. He’s a trash ass man for cheating though. Breakup before, simple solution.
@@TechTails That may be, but most people don't get into a marriage expecting it to fail. While a relationship before marriage does not have that 'agreement' from both parties.
This poor woman who has an absolute heart of gold… it’s sad that her downfall was her kindness, selflessness and generosity. Maybe she was just too naive as well but I hate when people take advantage of innocent people who are better than they will ever fucking be.
I'm kinda sad for her. I mean, only because you give your kidney to somebody he isn't obligated to stay with you forever; but cheatin' is always ... You know? Shady, not good, bad, ...
@@DaroriDerEinzige yeah you can't force someone to stay, but this man has zero respect for her. he got what he needed, then dipped and stabbed her in the back along the way. if someone gave me a kidney, and they treated me this right, i'd be a ride and die for life for them, even if we're not together romantically.
I don’t give people too much credit personally. She seems like she’s a genuinely sweet and decent person, and there are wolves out there more than willing to take advantage of that.
I feel bad for her too, but maybe girls should stop going for assholes/bad boys. Those type of men only think of themselves and don't carry about other people's feelings.
Some people are scared to look into the mirror and will put their tripods into meat curtains so they can self sabotage an opportunity because they can’t deal with the weight of owing someone everything outside of a parental figure. The psychology of this I’d imagine would be similar to winning the jackpot and losing the next hand at a casino
@@EverySingleJay Nothing , but the way he portrayed himself he seemed holy than Christ(from what she described). As a Christian after you get another opportunity of quality of life you hit “ sin city” for drinks and not even thank the person who gave you? Old habits don’t die.
Imagine him explaining it to his family. I know my family would disown me if I cheated on a man who gave me a kidney. Every girl he brings home to the family will have to measure up to the girl who saved his life...
He’s lucky AF we don’t live in the Repo Man Universe. And basically if she ever reveals his identity or people figure it out. 90% of people would consider him undatable
@@goddesshathor7313 selfish wife, u don't need both and i bet he would be a monster if he wouldn't for u most likely smh, for someone u supposedly wanna spend the rest of your life with, just don't get married
@@jahkarimirza7286 Idk dude they seem pretty reasonable, no need to make people to be evil needlessly like that. Maybe they need to imagine being with their husbands for 20+ years to maybe think "yeah I would donate a kidney to my husband".
Straight up this woman is a saint. Can't believe he gave her up. How could he let her down like that, running around in Vegas and deserting her? He made her cry, and to make matters worse the bastard never even said goodbye. You can really tell how much his lies hurt her. This man is clearly a stranger to love.
My mans took her kidney, cheated on her with one of her friends, then tried to take the high road saying "its Gods plan". She gave that dude life, at least extended it. That dude reminds me of the Future memes. Ima take your kidneys and your friends cheeks
No one should make HUGE decisions like this with someone they're not married to or just completely unattached to them. This likely took a huge toll on her mental health. And he definitely was not a good Christian. The cheating and discarding. All levels of wrong.
@@derpherp2360 it’s a paycheck to both sides if both work. And yeah if I give you half my kidneys, and you cheat and leave me, I want half your money 😂
@@LuisJRodriguezR only the most likely outcome is you gona be missing a kidney AND half ya cash cus she gona take em both. let her relatives give her a kidney instead or she can wait till a dead donor pops up.
A lot of "Christians" are narcissists though. Was married to one. He kept on using the Bible and how Jesus hates divorce that's why he wouldn't divorce me even if I already left his manipulative ass 😂
A line I genuinely Appreciate from Aba and Preach “don’t use the Bible to justify you bullshit” . I hate when people twist the Bible to justify things, like that’s not how it works people need to take responsibility for their actions. I love your channel guys , it has really helped through covid times , it has helped a lot . Y’all are fucking hilarious.
lol thats what the bible was written and used for to control ppl and justify it. do u know how cruel life was in the middle ages when if u werent christian u were stoned. america enslaved and killed natives because they said that going west was "gods plan"
The fact that she said she didn’t regret giving him her Kidney and that she did it out of love proves she’s living the life the Bible wanted us to live (of love) then the cheater did. I’m not even allowed to say this but it’s crazy he calls himself a Christian.
True. But isn't that what the bible has always been used for? To justify slavery and to justify oppression of women folk etc! I don't know the chapters and verses by heart but there's some foul shit in the bible my friend.
@@realgenjutsu8181 the Bible never “justifies” slavery or beating women. Regarding slavery the Bible dosent exactly condemn the practice of it, but it’s important to understand that slavery back then wasn’t like what it was during the antebellum south, or where it was crude excruciating and dehumanizing. (But there are instances). A lot of the slavery was debt bondage, meaning you owe someone something and you couldn’t deliver, so now you’re working your time. The Bible tells slaves to treat their masters with respect, but the Bible also tells the masters to treat kindly and care for their slaves as well. The Bible also condemns “man stealing” or kidnapping people into slavery, any illegal means of possessing a person is illegal and is forbidden.
She is by far a better person than me. Call it selfishness, trust issues, self-preservation. I am not giving anyone but my immediate family my kidney, specifically my brothers. I've heard some fucked up stories of people who were SO in love who turn around to do messed up shit to each other.
You can tell she is genuinely sweet and caring. His loss, at some point she will find a man that will cherish her. She is a rare combination in this generation. Pretty and a genuinely good woman.
Having a kidney removed makes pregnancy even harder than it already is, so she could end up having trouble conceiving even if she meets a good man. This was not a good decision for her at all.
How do you manage to put down women here? Do you think genuine and good looking men also are a rare combination? If yes, ok fine. Since it’s the man here that screwed up. Just asking.
@@notyourfrind9415 You're 100% correct, and quite possibly in later years she may regret losing that kidney due to her own health issues as she gets older.
She did one of the hardest things that is taught in the Bible. She forgave. Forgiveness isn't for the other person it's for you. You gotta go through some major healing to get to a point to forgive some things. Glad she's happy with someone else.
A Christian going to the Vegas sounds like the beginning of a joke. Never trust a person like that. They’re usually trying to fight from being the person they really are.
@@nca4794 it’s called SIN City. It’s the only state where prostitution is legal.. also gambling isn’t really christiany. Exotic dancers by the thousands. God is going to roll the tape of your Vegas trip during your judgment and ask you to explain 😂😂 also I’m not sure honestly what other things to do there except lose your money and do coke. Outside of Vegas I’m sure there’s godly things to do like see the canyons
@@zalitosway8419 name a city where sin doesn't exist. So because it's called sin city Christians shouldn't go? The whole point of Christianity is freedom in Christ, not to be bound. The Bible says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. There's no addendum that adds "as long as it's not in Vegas." If a person can't go to Vegas and maintain their walk, there's nowhere they can go lol. No matter where you are, God is bearing witness. I sure hope you're still a child because it seems like you're slurping up milk...
My dad gave my mom his kidney after she had complete kidney failure. It was a miracle. They did end divorcing but always stayed friends and respected each other because...I mean he saved her life.
I feel bad for your dad. It's atrocious that your mother would divorce him. It's yet another reason why as a man i will never get legally married to a woman in America. The divorce laws and courts are extremely biased against men, there is tons of risk to us men ( losing $, our kids, our property ect) and literally no upside to marriage for us that we can't get from a girlfriend. 55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of the time its the woman who initiates the divorce and she can do it for any reason or no reason at all except shes bored of you and feels like leaving and taking your $/ house/ kids and screwing a new man in your house while the government makes you pay her alimony. All these modern women want traditional husbands and a dream wedding but most of them don't want to be traditional wives. Its insane to marry a woman in America (unless as a guy you are broke and by some miracle you found a wealthier woman who wanted you- but that basically never happens because women don't date down) let alone give her your kidney. Literally every older man i know except 1 has been wrecked in a divorce at least once, and the 1 guy who hasn't was WAY out of his wife's league (she couldn't possibly hope to get better) and they got together as virgin teenagers in the 1950s.
@@LordBattleSmurf she said "they" divorced and didn't say who initiated it. They remained good friends. I'm recently divorced, and HE initiated the divorce, and got everything he wanted out of it. There was no infidelity involved either, he was abusive. But go off. This narrative you're painting doesn't follow. Non sequitor boo
The worst thing is that her kidney was compatible with the cheater's body. Like she could have saved a kidney and a scar if their tissues were not compatible. BUT THEY WERE. What are the odds y'all.
I can see her forgiving him. She already has quite bubbly and "everything is going to be okay" type of personality. And this comes with pros and cons. She was gullible enough to give him a kidney like nothing. But she also believes that saving someone's live (even if they are dick) is a good thing. And people do get awarded for having this personality, so even though bad things happen to her, there are much more good things, because people like her.
@@kayhaich Yeah I don't know if I'd call thos gullible. I don't think most people go into a relationship with a person expecting to be cheated on, especially after you literally save their life. Her boyfriend was just a piece of shit, one of those Christians that don't practice what they preach
Such a beautiful young lady. Don’t let people who misbehave change who you are. The world needs more kind and genuine people. If I knew someone I dated did that to anyone that would be a deal breaker.
I think the kidney donation doesn't necessarily hinge on being in a relationship (like people who've donated to strangers). But what he did, ESPECIALLY KNOWING WHAT SHE DID FOR HIM... I have no words. No words... Reminds of that woman who fired her kidney donor employee despite knowing the employee needed the money.
@Alexis Browqueen Yeah but maybe have some integrity, break up like an adult instead of betraying someone WHO SAVED YOUR FUCKING LIFE. Guy's a fucking selfish prick.....at best.
@@forcedge2302questioning someone’s logic does not always mean you think they are wrong it just means you want to know how they got to their conclusion
If my girl gives me a kidney, I am doing everything I can to make our relationship work. She risked her own health to give me a normal life back. The least I can do is give her happiness for as long as possible.
@Alexis Browqueen Not the "top of the list" but they give you an extra ten points on your allocation score. The kidneys still goes to those most in need first. Regardless. But the ten point jump on your score definitely helps.
Wow, he finds the one girl who "has a sense of urgency to help him" instead of just writing him off as "low value" because of his disease, and he does this. I'd say "love is dead" but I don't think it ever existed.
Great point. Most women would leave once they find out about the disease. Not only did stay she gave him a kidney! Jesus Christ! What more could you ask for ?! 🤦♂️
@@Qqxx22lol dontnput woman onto this. Stastically speaking a man would be more likely to leave if they heard there wife was ill. Not the other way around
The impact her kidney donation creates extends beyond drinking alcohol. She may have complications if/when she decides to have a baby and a host of other potential health issues. Where were her parents/family/friends to advise her when she was making this decision?!!!
Nowhere. She made an emotional decision. It’s not like her family could’ve been more informed than her about it though considering most people don’t know you have to have an exact DNA match for bone marrow transplants which means if your biracial kids ends up with leukemia you nor the father/mother wouldn’t be able to save your child and you’d have to hope someone else has the same biracial genetic mixture.
So? Is that supposed to discourage race mixing? There are mostly whites on that bone marrow registry and whites have less generic diversity (inbreeding) than other groups such as blacks and Latinos. So those minorities tend to be out of luck anyway.
Fun fact about the liver. You can donate it to someone without it killing you. It’s called a partial liver transplant. You can take a part of your liver, donate it and it will regrow into back into a full liver. The donated part will also grow into a full liver. You can only do this once btw.
True. It's only certain parts of the liver, and the younger you are the more successfully it grows back (there may be issues when regenerating), but it's entirely possible.
Damn, he Bible pumped and dumped her, she took a major L on this one. I truly despise people who use the Bible to support their trash behavior. I’m glad she’s doing better now.
That what happens when you judge or assuming someone is good or righteous for being faithful or religious. Never choose or judge anyone based on that alone. Being religious does not make anyone a good person, period.
If they cheat NEVER GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE! They simply do not deserve it. It really just causes more problems than it's worth. She completely dodged a bullet with the other dude.
I think I would only ever donate a kidney to my own child. If nobody needed me and depended on me for survival, I would consider donating to a stranger. But I don't think I could donate to anyone else I know without it forever changing the relationship. When you know someone, it is damn near impossible to give such a tremendous gift with absolute selflessness and not need or expect anything in return.
True... Or, for me personally, my kids' mother too. While we see each other as great parents, we're well aware that mother and father play very different roles. Their mother can do things for them, that I can't. Even if we were not together, I'd give her a kidney, just because of her role in my kids' lives. Whether she cheated on me, kicked me out or whatever... Despite what she could do to me, her role as a good mother for my kids are more important imo.
True. I feel like I’d rather donate to a stranger than to a friend. I wouldn’t expect anything from anyone for doing anything for them. But I don’t think the other person would feel the same way.
@@VengD sounds like your little ones are growing up with a genuinely loving father and mother. I pray you never have to make that decision, and may nothing but happiness follow you all ahead!!
If a girl I dated ever donated a kidney to save my life then I will instantly marry that person. That's basically a huge way of showing that you love someone.
While your rationale may seem honorable and noble, it gives big "Hero Syndrome" vibes. You still need to date that person long enough to properly vet them for compatibility.
@@danielayodele6139 Yes you don't. Strangers donate body parts and blood a lot and I do not need to date them at all to take whatever body part they decide to donate.
@@latecheckout11 bro if a girl is dating u and donates to save ur life then ofc she cares deeply enough that she wants to marry. The girl is donating to keep you a live to be with.
Wow. She literally changed her body and life for that guy (she might not have even survived the surgery, let alone the recovery) and he took down one of her friends. This guy really ain't shit. She's way better than me, I would have went tf off.
This is sad case of abuse of kindness. The donor can't obligate you to stay with them because of the donation, but you have the moral obligation to stay with them for it.
I wonder how common this is. Literally yesterday I heard about this crazy story where this dude gave his wife his kidney, wife cheated after the transplant, divorced, took his mansion, AND THEN he SUED her for millions for the kidney HE gave. Court ruled in the wife's favor for obvious reasons, story was wild lol.
Him: "How much do you love me?" Her: "Enough to risk my life for you!" *Donates kidney* Her: "HOW COULD YOU CHEAT ON ME?! DID YOU EVEN CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL?! EXPLAIN YOURSELF!" Him: "BIBLE OUT NOW ON ALL DIGITAL PLATFORMS BRUV"
Unfortunately almost everyone you will ever meet doesn't care about your feelings and will screw you over if they have to or for fun. Always look out for number one
When he finally matures emotionally, he’s gonna have to live with the thought that he has her kidney inside of him, and he’s the one that screwed her over.
That's inhuman.. The callous disrespect of it. Dirty bastards. A *stranger* saves my life like that and they earn my loyalty forever. My girlfriend does it? Pure, fanatical devotion. She becomes completely unfuckwithable for as long as I'm breathing.
I'm happy for her. At the end of the day she went through the shit and made peace with it and found someone who loves and respects her. That other dude will have to live with how he treated a seemingly wholesome and nice person. I wish her the best
@@LiTTLeDizZyUriNe i just want you to reflect on how idiotic it is to be happy for someone like this. there’s nothing to be happy about here other than the fact that she didn’t die on the operating table.
@@xdandychiggins they said their happy for her for making peace with it and finding someone who they feel truly appreciates them. Stop being so negative.
@@OMGitsTerasu if you don’t like my negativity, no one is forcing you to interact. i said what i said, i personally don’t see what is there to be happy about in this situation. that’s just me. we’re allowed to have differing opinions.
That’s kind of miraculous. A kidney match is hard to find. I’ve been on the organ donor list since 2011 and haven’t gotten a call. Not that the situation may not have been painful, but she would have donated her kidney to a complete stranger, possibly, to save their life. There’s no telling what they may have done in their lifetime post transplant. You saved a life. Live on, Love on.
What a kind and sweet girl. I hope she nor any of her future kids will ever need a kidney. The regret will be pretty heavy knowing she can't save her family. When ppl get a second chance at life they're supposed to do better.
Wow she’s amazing!!! The fact she’s still glad she gave him a literal part of her and isn’t bitter, wow! Can we embrace how many people aren’t like this??
Same, I'm slightly left leaning but I don't like even saying that because both the left and the right are going off the rails. I consider myself Libertarian, that's about it but even then there is a lot of crazy Libertarians.
#1 selfishness works on a spectrum and being at the middle is healthy #2 unconditional love is nonsense, there is always a condition #3 she seems like a classic naive, kind hearted, decent girl (Without the kidney story) Kidney tale makes her sound like "they don't make 'em like that today" type -real trooper, gives me shivers man
Cheating is foul as is. But cheating at the person who literally saved your life by risking theirs and giving you an organ? What kind of foul disgusting human being is this guy?
this is why its better to stay single than to end up like these situations, being loyal to your man is bad nowadays, there's no guarantee happiness once you enter a relationship, focus on yourself 💯
I feel so bad for her... she has such a good heart. God bless. She did everything any partner could have done. She let him go out with his boys, she gave him a kidney and even tried to forgive him. Such a narcisistic asshole.
Shhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt! I wouldn't say any "partner" would of done that. If he's not my husband, I'm not doing a damn thing. I'd support from the waiting room.......waiting on someone else's kidney to come through lol.
This man missed out on a good thing. She's beautiful, she's driving out to see you, she gives you a kidney which actually potentially weakens her now as the other kidney does all the work. And you just fucked it up. That's a woman for life.
@@thezu9250 you're right, but that's bc of men. Unfortunately, men are attracted when women act (somewhat) disinterested, independent & aloof- the opposite of this lady. To be fair, humans evolved this way, & I guess it's bc it subconsciously communicates superior genes or something. Or men like to feel that the woman will be ok without him. But we often have to stop ourselves from being too open, agreeable & giving. Otherwise it creates resentment on our end & makes the guy get bored & take us for granted. Every relationship needs balance, so if u want a sweet lady like this, be super sweet in return & reward her behavior
@@scarletsletter4466here's the problem with both your opinions. You've put all men into 1 locker as the same and you're altering your behaviour accordingly assuming such things which is a terrible idea. I am a good looking man, partnered for 18 years with a good looking woman, 3 small children and I can tell you now I wouldn't skip a beat in marrying a woman that clearly goes beyond the norm for her man. Not all men are alike, some are dumber than others or not matured enough. Same with women, so always be yourself, improve yourself but don't craft yourself based on such a simple idea that all men are the same and you need to be a certain something to get one and then keep them. Your character and value is far more important than being in a fake relationship.
@Avee Briana Wrong Briana. Kidneys are super important to the function of the body, more than you clearly know that's why you have two of them. They regulate and operate at multiple different levels.
Agreed. It's the Sunken Costs Syndrome that makes people go into such deep denial that they stay in bad relationships in efforts to yield a return on their investment, which deep down they already know they'll never get.
That is the best advice ever If I would’ve read this when I was engaged I walked away so much happier that I dodged a major bullet Meanwhile, he’s trying to get me back Not worth it
@@g.pearson4726 I was yoked to a vulnerable narcissist for two years. No matter how bad things got, I could never leave him, because he was always going through SOMETHING that I couldn't abandon him during, and I had a bit of a saviour complex, thinking I could fix him and that he wanted to be fixed (he SAID he did). We had marriage plans (or at least I did) before he left, and I used to feel like him discarding me the way he did was a waste because of all the effort I put into a relationship but now I'm glad I learned the hard way in my early 20s as opposed to marrying him, and being completely ensnared after we'd already had four children and a joint bank account. TL;DR: dumping me was the nicest thing my ex ever did for me.
He doesn’t have to stay with her- he could, ya know RESPECTFULLY break up with her. She seems reasonable. She wasn’t forcing him to be with her, she just didn’t want to be cheated on 🙃
If any woman my age range I was dating ever donated a kidney to me out of kindness, I would instantly propose to her or at the very least make her a close friend. Fr, no joke. Saving a life is priceless. Now why tf does this man have the audacity to do the EXACT OPPOSITE? Edit: Any one of ya'll trying to argue on why it was okay for the man to leave, do you have ZERO consideration for the person who gives you life? Giving someone the ability to live again is PRICELESS, and should be met with gratitude. That gratitude might be in the form of marriage, who knows. But ya'll should show some fuckin gratidude. I swear, this is why the world isn't a good place right now, and it's because we sometimes perpetuate the idea that we don't have to repay an act of kindness. Repaying an act of kindness shows the person giving the kindness that they should DO MORE OF IT. Its basic positive reinforcement. The woman in the video seemed nice as hell too, so miss me with that "wHaT iF sHe's iNcOmpATiBlE???" shit. I would want to wife her any day if she did that to me or AT THE VERY LEAST, make her a very close friend. This is why we can't have nice things. As a christian, the fact that the boyfriend used the Bible as an excuse to DEFEND his actions makes him even more foul. The Bible is a book of morality, not a book to weaponize morality. There's two things I hate, and its evangelicals and people who use religion to justify shitty actions like cheating on someone who gave you life again. EDIT NUMBER TWO, CAUSE YA’LL MFS CAN’T TELL THE DEFINITION OF COMPATIBILITY: Compatibility doesn’t necessarily mean having the same interests, or looks, or whatever is considered as a bonus to a relationship, because looks, interests, personality, etc. are all bonuses. What actually holds a relationship is values, morality, kindness, being generally sweet to them, doing acts of unconditional love for them, etc. You can be polar opposites from a person, but you can still hold a relationship. In fact, being polar opposites in your interests might even be more fun, because you both can introduce each other to new perspectives. Case closed.
This is what I think. Because people think differently than you. Choices exist and people change their minds.Some choices are good, some bad, some evil, and some are not bad nor good, and some are necessary. We won't always agree with one way of thinking. That's why.
I dont usually comment but after watching this I really feel that I have to. That woman is absolutely amazing, she deserves so much more than this. That man is 100% worthless and he shouldn't have harmed her like that. I feel really sorry for that girl and I hope she manages to find someone special.
He had faith when he thought his life was limited, the moment he got a second chance at life, he started living with sin... he could always repent later
@@ingloriousMachina I know that's an easy pov, bc what he did was so scummy but it really only works to make a villain out of the guy... this is not an excuse but I can see how a guy battling a condition for 10 years that's slowly killing him would rely on faith. I can also understand how that guy would want to make up for 10 years lost, most of his 20s at that, and in a moment of weakness doing something he regrets.
@@HasanPikerIsADouche yeah nah he went behind her back, fucked her FRIEND, and then had the nerve to put doctrine into HER as if she was the bad person. You want to relive lost years? Breakup and tell them why. Women do it all the time “I want to explore myself” “I need to experience life” and all that other bullshit.
@@HasanPikerIsADouche even though you have a valid point, the guy still got mad at her and blocked her. For him to show regret it will take more than just straight up his path (or not, only god is the one who decides how much is enough for forgiveness). And lets not forget that there are a lot of people that use god’s name in vain to get something.
I respect her, she gave her kidney to keep him in the world long enough to find out he's a piece of shit. And she's not upset or regretful about the kidney, just the disrespect and she got over it too. If she is a Christian, she's the only one I that practices forgiveness.
She has such a good heart. Unfortunately, she’s too good for the wrong person. However, someone kind and generous like her will be blessed with more important things and a person that will love her unconditionally. Let karma take care of those who hurt you. I wish you all the best in life.
I feel like she knows she basically saved the guy's life, and yes, at the time she did it because she was in love, but on the other hand even now when she looks back she is still a person that saved someone's life. I would actually value myself a lot because of it and in theory if you never do anything of use in your entire life and everything goes to shit, at least you saved someone's life. And that gives meaning t your life. Even if it was too early it is a proof of what kind of person she is, since she must have been aware that the risk of them existed, but she did it anyway, and I think it actually makes her life a meaningful life.
That and getting toxic about it like Aba said will only hurt yourself and not let you get closure. She did the right thing with the bad situation she was dealt. Self preservation also means to not harm yourself further after things are done. She took her losses and left.
Hey. She got played, but she is a wonderful human being. She accepted what happended and moved on. If that was me you bet I was taking that kidney back one way or another.
Wow, this was a terrible story... I can't believe how selfless she is and what an ingrate he is. People like him give religion a really bad name. He was all "Christ-like" and decent in a frail body, when she gave him "a chance to live a normal life" he showed who he really is. She is amazing, to be heartbroken and then move on without being bitter or resentful and having no regrets...
@@Waterbug1591 We can't know, but we can assume with some certainty that she isn't lying. She got another boyfriend and from watching how she presented herself, it doesn't seem like she's lying but we can't be 100% sure.
How is she christian in a pre marital relationship? Why is her boyfriend a "christian" going to las veags to party with his friends without his girlfriend??
He's who he always was. Just because she gave him a kidney doesn't mean she gets to have him forever. Relationships are gambles like pretty much everything in life. The only thing you're guaranteed in life is death and if you have good parents that aren't out to make your life miserable and always have your back and never ask for anything in return than you can make sacrifices of great magnitude for them. But someone who's not blood, that's a step too far as you'll always expect something of equal magnitude in return.
@@JT-bt6jy She didnt say that they "sinned" before marriage, for all we know they both could have been virgins. Chistians can go to Vegas too and not "sin" and christians just like everyone else dont need to take their SO everywhere with them. We dont know who his friends are or what they are like, they may all have been religious or he may have been the only christian in his friend group. They went to Vegas for a batchelor party, that is quite a common and trendy thing to do, doesnt matter if they are christians. Christians are allowed to have fun and party too, and just by being christian doesnt mean he cant go to Vegas.
In modern society, a lot of men complain about women having scummy behaviour, but there's men out there that equally have scummy behaviour; it can go both ways --- in this case, it's unfortunate that this girl got done dirty like this. No, he isn't obligated to stay with the girl, but why put her through all that and take her kidney if you're going to cheat on her, especially after she tried to save his life? 🤷🏾 cold world.
Stories like these and the pump n dump trend that is religiously followed by the modern men these days puts girls like me into deep fear of being used and discarded. I mean so many rp ytbers say that a woman beyond 25 is damaged. It's makes me paranoid thinking that the man I'm might be married to in the future will cheat on me once I have a child cause I would not look that great after all that and there's plenty of younger narcissist girls around here to take my place.
@@zamo1087 Probably because of the divorce rates in the west lmao. I’d give my spouse my kidney though; especially if we have children together, both parents should be in their lives.
@@zamo1087 I was trying to see if anyone would caught that🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. But for real, I would give my husband a kidney because I don’t want my kids to grow up with their daddy due to sickness.
He was in Vegas reading the old testament like "hmm, all these men had multiple women so this is fine" then got to new testament on his way back and was like "fuck, well too late now, I'll stick with the old"
The trick that most people somehow don't understand that for some reason is all those dudes that had multiple women were examples of being bad. Even if God's chosen people are doing something, very often He had to proceed to smacking them around for not acting right.
That dude is a piece of shit , but honestly I respect this girl , I would never do this , and honestly she is a good person , I am not encouraging to give people their kidney, please don't unless you feel its worth it , but yeah hope she gets everything she wants in life , she deserves it
An elder at my church suffered kidney failure. The doctors discovered that his wife was a match and she donated. They were married for over seventy years.
That guy is a prime example as to why both love and faithfulness cannot be earned, even through sacrifice. If someone has it in their heart and mind to cheat, then they're going to do it regardless of the work you put into the relationship. This is why you really should get to know a person for a good while first before you get into anything serious, you might just find something out about them that tells you they're not the one for you, and you can avoid the potential heartbreak later.
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So because she gave him a kidney, he's supposed to stay with her even if he doesn't want to... That's kinda rahpey...its his body, his choice too
Maybe dont take kidneys from people youre not serious about... Dunno, I probably wont ask a girl I have no long term plans with to buy me a house for us to live in if I know i probably wont stay with her.
Some of you are so entitled & think you can take from others with zero consideration for them. Scummy behavior.
@@AbaNPreach Damn that was quick
He should give her kidney back then.
Shame. Shame. Shame.
Pin of Shame
This "Christian" boyfriend who took the kidney is racking up mortal sins like they're pokemon cards.
Legit, when she said he went it Vegas with his Christian friends, I had many eyebrows raised
@@cameronwallace7554 how many eyebrows you got??
@@sirenict7647 Let's not get bogged down with semantics. The important thing here is that it was a reasonably high number, matching most of the eyes on my face
@@cameronwallace7554 😂😂😂😂
Im pretty sure the "christian" guy thinks he is okay because he do some shit like donating money to Israel so God now loves him.
To all of those people saying, "it's okay, he changed his mind" or "it's so 'rahpey' of the female to be upset that she's upset"... you need to recognize one simple fact~ if he was not happy, he needed to just get out and move on, not cheat on her. She was generous, literally risking her life, he was classless by repaying her with cheating.
Facts I 💯 agree
She is the kind of woman that many GOOD loyal RP men are looking for. I hate seeing good people being screwed over when they are giving their best... especially in these times.
@@Cugastratos All that corny redpill shit is why good women like this are running away from men now. Don’t bring that podcast shit into grown folks business thats little boy shit.
@@Cugastratos 100%
Well said
She showed how much she cared by giving up a kidney. That's more commitment than marriage. Literally saved bruh's life.
He saw her as an easy mark..knew she wouldn't get revenge..or ruin his reputation and future.
More than marriage meehn. More than marriage.
she was a simp for him
Everything you said is true. But I really wish you hadn't used "bruh"...Unless it was used as an insult/sarcasm?
@@THETRIVIALTHINGS what’s wrong with him saying bruh?
I'm a person in need of a kidney transplant. She gave him the gift of life. What he did was atrocious.
May the Almighty aid you in your hour of need. May you be blessed with a good, healthy, long and prosperous life. Ameen
I'm sorry your hoing through this. Surely God is with the patient. Wishing you all the best.
Do you still need a kidney?
Do you still need a kidney?
Praying for you🙏🏽🫶🏾
I'm here hoping you are well at this time... love and thoughts ❤
it's not about him leaving her for me that is wrong, is the fact he cheated on her. how disrespectful to someone who basically saved his life. I swear everyday I'm more and more ashamed of Humans...
if he had pussy getting thrown at him he was gonna fuck regardless of the kidney or not. and he was prolly doing it thruout the whole relationship. u gotta have game to get a bitch to give u her kidney after a couple months of dating. homie a scumbag tho even if he was fucking other hoes he shouldve waited longer
People do great things everyday. People do terrible things everyday.
Media shows you that bad cause it's more interesting. So take everything with a grain of salt.
Anyone who be cheating showed their true colors. They a worthless, irredeemable piece of shit. And that’s without kidneys involved.
People are capable of everything they set their mind too from ultimate kindness to ultimate evil, the evil or bad are examples of what you shouldn’t do or dwell upon too much just try to see the positive more this world can eat you up if you allow it too
Embrace Misanthropy, the One True Religion.
I can’t imagine the level of betrayal she must have felt. She seems really sweet.
Some man will never appreciate a good woman,no matter what she does.
@@amonsianzovu7498 vise versa.
@@anaiskadji290 not the point.
@@getachew. Point goes both ways
@@Reports. exactly.
As a kidney recipient. That's beyond foul what dude did. She literally saved his life
I'm on dyalisis too bud. thanks for saying what you did.
@@randomjustice9273 Damn, I sincerely hope both of you are doing ok and that everything works out. i was thinking, alot of people are saying "i wouldn't give a kidney to anyone" or "how could someone donate a kidney". Yet im glad people like that exist for people who need it. It would suck to have a mentality like that just to find yourself on a waiting list.
bruh honestly that is so messed up . no wonder half the people in this comment section have trust issues. i guess loyalty is overrated nowadays
He is def foul … and what about the “friends” from the bachelorette party that knew her? Women treat men badly… but they treat EACH OTHER even worse.
@@rmelo2382 you mean "underrated"?
This is honestly so tragic 😭 she's a gem. Even telling this story, she doesn't sound vengeful or malicious. She's just telling her tale.
The people that say, he's entitled to leave, his body, his choice and alladat, You know what? you right. He does have his right to his body any type of way but as Aba said, if you have a girl WILLING and NOT forced to give you a kidney, you DON'T HAVE TO take, you probably should stay loyal to that girl. Literally a ride or die and you betray their trust after they saved your life?
Aba's right. Y'all entitled.
It’s scary the way people think now.
I think many of the people saying this are just vindictive men rying to spin the "Her body her choice" thing around. If a
Woman did what he did I'd have just as much hate and vitriol towards them.
hell yes
Well since he's carrying her kidney, at least part of him literally is not his body 🤣
Also why'd he have to cheat?
The fact that he cheated with one of her CLOSE friends too just puts salt on the wounds… that shit is brutal and totally evil 👹
Yeah, I don't get these people! Why would you want to hirt someone who was great to you. What the fuck is in their head? I will never get that.
Some close friend I hope she cuts ties with that close friend
Narcissist, he was a narcissist. That kidney will fail watch, God don't like ugly
I think she said it was someone she knew, not a close friend
Need to rack up as much damage as possible
i've had 3 kidney transplants myself. first one was my dad, 2nd was a 17 year old that got in a motorcycle accident, and my 3rd one was from my mom, and that ones manage to last for 24 years so far. She passed away in 2016, and taking care of it is the only way I have left to take care of my mom.
Wait what
Just kidneys? Not a liver or something?
WTF!?! THREE!?! Stop doing stupid stuff with your body!!! Ungrateful f^ck!!!
how the fuck you have 4 kidneies?? Or are you living on no kidneys?? what the fuck did i just read
How do you keep being and getting new kidneys? 3?! 1 makes sense but the other 2? Yooo! Also, the motorcyclist is an eye opener
I wouldn't give my kidney to anyone other than my child. That woman is a gift. She loved him like a mother. I hope everything works out for her.
I feel like if you’re not married don’t do something this extreme. You can tell she’s extremely empathetic and really wanted to help someone she cared about. He’s a trash ass man for cheating though. Breakup before, simple solution.
George Lopez' wife gave him a kidney and they got divorced. Marriage isn't a guarantee
Absolute garbáge from the dude
WARNING I am the unprettiest human YTer worldwide. Take the hint, dear julia
Marriage can be divorced quite easily.
@@TechTails That may be, but most people don't get into a marriage expecting it to fail. While a relationship before marriage does not have that 'agreement' from both parties.
This poor woman who has an absolute heart of gold… it’s sad that her downfall was her kindness, selflessness and generosity. Maybe she was just too naive as well but I hate when people take advantage of innocent people who are better than they will ever fucking be.
This.!
I'm kinda sad for her. I mean, only because you give your kidney to somebody he isn't obligated to stay with you forever; but cheatin' is always ...
You know? Shady, not good, bad, ...
Yes
Do y’all think her parents should have intervened and warn her about a situation like this???
@@DaroriDerEinzige yeah you can't force someone to stay, but this man has zero respect for her. he got what he needed, then dipped and stabbed her in the back along the way. if someone gave me a kidney, and they treated me this right, i'd be a ride and die for life for them, even if we're not together romantically.
I don’t give people too much credit personally. She seems like she’s a genuinely sweet and decent person, and there are wolves out there more than willing to take advantage of that.
welcome to the real world. its a jungle out there.
she wanted to lock him down cuz he was good looking.
I feel bad for her too, but maybe girls should stop going for assholes/bad boys. Those type of men only think of themselves and don't carry about other people's feelings.
i agree but at the same coin I have some disgust for people that sheltered
she still open herself twice for this wolf, and still decline a "good guy"
My heart hurts for her. That whole situation is why a lot of people refuse to totally open up in any type of relationship.
So she gave this man her kidney, he cheats on her, and THEN gets mad when she's upset at the entire ordeal? NOPE. Send him to the gulag.
Some people are scared to look into the mirror and will put their tripods into meat curtains so they can self sabotage an opportunity because they can’t deal with the weight of owing someone everything outside of a parental figure. The psychology of this I’d imagine would be similar to winning the jackpot and losing the next hand at a casino
forget the gulag, send the repo man
@@namekman01 💯 Uh yea, let's go with your plan. 🧊🫀🧊
@@namekman01 Repo man first, gulag second
😂😂😂😂
Damn. I feel bad for this woman. She definitely has a heart of gold. Dude also had the audacity to say she wasn't forgiving him fast enough?! What?!
This dude is NOT a christian.. aint no way in hell a christian man going to las vegas for a party.
@@JT-bt6jy What about being a Christian restricts a them from going to Vegas?
@@EverySingleJay Nothing , but the way he portrayed himself he seemed holy than Christ(from what she described). As a Christian after you get another opportunity of quality of life you hit “ sin city” for drinks and not even thank the person who gave you? Old habits don’t die.
Her ex also had a homie threaten her for telling her story online even though no identity was released. Shows what kind of asshole he is for sure
@@user-nd6bz9un1b if she only dates Christians then km Christian
Imagine him explaining it to his family. I know my family would disown me if I cheated on a man who gave me a kidney. Every girl he brings home to the family will have to measure up to the girl who saved his life...
Men don't really get disowned for shit like that. Male privilege.
@@RB8Gem9 As if this is exclusive to men🙄
@@RB8Gem9 tell that to Asians
I'll probably change the story, making the girl the bad one
@@JPrince-rl2bf lol crazy
He’s lucky AF we don’t live in the Repo Man Universe. And basically if she ever reveals his identity or people figure it out. 90% of people would consider him undatable
Facts
Word
I bet people in his area know so he probably doesn’t date much in his town
He did her dirty. Feelings change and temptation is real but he did her bad. I'm amazed how she's managed to tell this story. She's strong.
He should have broken it off.
I could never donate a kidney to a boyfriend. Husband sure, child sure, parents sure. Boyfriend? Never.
I wouldn't donate anything a kidney to my husband either.. If he family doesn't match, oh well. My children yes .
@@goddesshathor7313 You are heartless, but that is expected.
@@jahkarimirza7286 why is it expected if you don’t mind me asking 😩
@@goddesshathor7313 selfish wife, u don't need both and i bet he would be a monster if he wouldn't for u most likely smh, for someone u supposedly wanna spend the rest of your life with, just don't get married
@@jahkarimirza7286 Idk dude they seem pretty reasonable, no need to make people to be evil needlessly like that. Maybe they need to imagine being with their husbands for 20+ years to maybe think "yeah I would donate a kidney to my husband".
Took one of her kidneys and broke her heart. Mans is an asshole.
He belongs to the streets
Probably an understatement.
Why, because he acted like a typical female? How much shit do women take before doing the same? STFU
Massive kidney on this man. Wow just wow. The kidneys on this dude.
@@houseofhas9355 stop 😂😂😂
Straight up this woman is a saint. Can't believe he gave her up. How could he let her down like that, running around in Vegas and deserting her? He made her cry, and to make matters worse the bastard never even said goodbye. You can really tell how much his lies hurt her.
This man is clearly a stranger to love.
My mans took her kidney, cheated on her with one of her friends, then tried to take the high road saying "its Gods plan". She gave that dude life, at least extended it. That dude reminds me of the Future memes. Ima take your kidneys and your friends cheeks
💀💀💀
Pour some condeine on it, imma never tell her sorry.
That's some hoodville shit 😂🤣
He got some tips from selena gomez
You just know bro was drinking HEAVY in Vegas too 😂 he's a piece of poo
No one should make HUGE decisions like this with someone they're not married to or just completely unattached to them. This likely took a huge toll on her mental health. And he definitely was not a good Christian. The cheating and discarding. All levels of wrong.
marriage dont promise shit but a paycheck to one half of the divorced. keep yo self in yo self until ya dead.
@@derpherp2360 it’s a paycheck to both sides if both work.
And yeah if I give you half my kidneys, and you cheat and leave me, I want half your money 😂
@@LuisJRodriguezR only the most likely outcome is you gona be missing a kidney AND half ya cash cus she gona take em both. let her relatives give her a kidney instead or she can wait till a dead donor pops up.
A lot of "Christians" are narcissists though. Was married to one. He kept on using the Bible and how Jesus hates divorce that's why he wouldn't divorce me even if I already left his manipulative ass 😂
But married people cheat the most? I mean what does being married have to do with any of it.
"Don't use the Bible to justify your bs"
Exactly this. Like if you didn't want to go to Vegas, don't go. God didn't make you cheat.
He sure didn’t pull out that Bible out when he was doing that act smh 🤦🏾♂️
This is the saddest case of "he's just not that into you" that I've ever heard.
A line I genuinely Appreciate from Aba and Preach “don’t use the Bible to justify you bullshit” . I hate when people twist the Bible to justify things, like that’s not how it works people need to take responsibility for their actions. I love your channel guys , it has really helped through covid times , it has helped a lot . Y’all are fucking hilarious.
Its one of the very first commandments. Thou shalt not use gods name in vain. "Give me your house in the name of god" lol
lol thats what the bible was written and used for to control ppl and justify it. do u know how cruel life was in the middle ages when if u werent christian u were stoned. america enslaved and killed natives because they said that going west was "gods plan"
The fact that she said she didn’t regret giving him her Kidney and that she did it out of love proves she’s living the life the Bible wanted us to live (of love) then the cheater did. I’m not even allowed to say this but it’s crazy he calls himself a Christian.
True. But isn't that what the bible has always been used for? To justify slavery and to justify oppression of women folk etc! I don't know the chapters and verses by heart but there's some foul shit in the bible my friend.
@@realgenjutsu8181 the Bible never “justifies” slavery or beating women. Regarding slavery the Bible dosent exactly condemn the practice of it, but it’s important to understand that slavery back then wasn’t like what it was during the antebellum south, or where it was crude excruciating and dehumanizing. (But there are instances). A lot of the slavery was debt bondage, meaning you owe someone something and you couldn’t deliver, so now you’re working your time. The Bible tells slaves to treat their masters with respect, but the Bible also tells the masters to treat kindly and care for their slaves as well. The Bible also condemns “man stealing” or kidnapping people into slavery, any illegal means of possessing a person is illegal and is forbidden.
She is by far a better person than me. Call it selfishness, trust issues, self-preservation. I am not giving anyone but my immediate family my kidney, specifically my brothers. I've heard some fucked up stories of people who were SO in love who turn around to do messed up shit to each other.
Stay single
@@OMAR-vk9pi cope
@@OMAR-vk9pi it's not an everyday thing to giveaway an organ.
FACTS
I wouldn't call it "trust issues"; I'd call it common sense
You can tell she is genuinely sweet and caring. His loss, at some point she will find a man that will cherish her. She is a rare combination in this generation. Pretty and a genuinely good woman.
Having a kidney removed makes pregnancy even harder than it already is, so she could end up having trouble conceiving even if she meets a good man. This was not a good decision for her at all.
@@notyourfrind9415 oh
How do you manage to put down women here? Do you think genuine and good looking men also are a rare combination? If yes, ok fine. Since it’s the man here that screwed up. Just asking.
@@notyourfrind9415 so what do you suggest she should live alone whole life?
Maybe not everyone do not think like you.
@@notyourfrind9415 You're 100% correct, and quite possibly in later years she may regret losing that kidney due to her own health issues as she gets older.
I'd rather donate my kidney to someone I don't know than to a romantic interest. That way I can avoid the EMOTIONAL DAMAGE
Despite what happened, at least as a human, she did something good for another human being. Bless her for that.
True, shame she didn't do it for someone more deserving
She did one of the hardest things that is taught in the Bible. She forgave. Forgiveness isn't for the other person it's for you. You gotta go through some major healing to get to a point to forgive some things. Glad she's happy with someone else.
This one million percent.
The fact that the guy is christian is mind boggling.
Yes this. He doesn’t deserve her to have one minute of sadness or anger over him. Forgive and live well!
🙏🙏🙏
Right i wish I'd be like that man i still be holding grudges from kindergarten 😭😭
A Christian going to the Vegas sounds like the beginning of a joke. Never trust a person like that. They’re usually trying to fight from being the person they really are.
Yall making me feel like i cant go to Vegas for the shows??😭😭
Huh? What's wrong with Vegas? You realize there's a lot more than alcohol and prostitution there, right?! 😂
@@nca4794 it’s called SIN City. It’s the only state where prostitution is legal.. also gambling isn’t really christiany. Exotic dancers by the thousands. God is going to roll the tape of your Vegas trip during your judgment and ask you to explain 😂😂 also I’m not sure honestly what other things to do there except lose your money and do coke. Outside of Vegas I’m sure there’s godly things to do like see the canyons
@@zalitosway8419 name a city where sin doesn't exist. So because it's called sin city Christians shouldn't go? The whole point of Christianity is freedom in Christ, not to be bound. The Bible says I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. There's no addendum that adds "as long as it's not in Vegas." If a person can't go to Vegas and maintain their walk, there's nowhere they can go lol. No matter where you are, God is bearing witness. I sure hope you're still a child because it seems like you're slurping up milk...
@@zalitosway8419 Amen! Gambling is not of God
Preach's face when Aba asked about kidney 😂😂😂
My dad gave my mom his kidney after she had complete kidney failure. It was a miracle. They did end divorcing but always stayed friends and respected each other because...I mean he saved her life.
I feel bad for your dad. It's atrocious that your mother would divorce him. It's yet another reason why as a man i will never get legally married to a woman in America. The divorce laws and courts are extremely biased against men, there is tons of risk to us men ( losing $, our kids, our property ect) and literally no upside to marriage for us that we can't get from a girlfriend. 55% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of the time its the woman who initiates the divorce and she can do it for any reason or no reason at all except shes bored of you and feels like leaving and taking your $/ house/ kids and screwing a new man in your house while the government makes you pay her alimony. All these modern women want traditional husbands and a dream wedding but most of them don't want to be traditional wives. Its insane to marry a woman in America (unless as a guy you are broke and by some miracle you found a wealthier woman who wanted you- but that basically never happens because women don't date down) let alone give her your kidney. Literally every older man i know except 1 has been wrecked in a divorce at least once, and the 1 guy who hasn't was WAY out of his wife's league (she couldn't possibly hope to get better) and they got together as virgin teenagers in the 1950s.
At least your mom didn’t cheat on your dad
@@LordBattleSmurf she said "they" divorced and didn't say who initiated it. They remained good friends. I'm recently divorced, and HE initiated the divorce, and got everything he wanted out of it. There was no infidelity involved either, he was abusive. But go off. This narrative you're painting doesn't follow. Non sequitor boo
@@carolnicolas5792 you could tell Lord Battle Smurf is a big fan of the Fresh and Fit podcast lmao 🤣
@@dawit9496 the most avid listener 😂
The worst thing is that her kidney was compatible with the cheater's body. Like she could have saved a kidney and a scar if their tissues were not compatible. BUT THEY WERE. What are the odds y'all.
What if he only dated her because she was compatible?
@@sarahr.8021 And how would he know...
Bc we are actually in hell
It's indeed a little suspicious he managed to date one of the few people in the world he was compatible with.
@@katokushika7756 magic 😂
I can see her forgiving him. She already has quite bubbly and "everything is going to be okay" type of personality. And this comes with pros and cons. She was gullible enough to give him a kidney like nothing. But she also believes that saving someone's live (even if they are dick) is a good thing. And people do get awarded for having this personality, so even though bad things happen to her, there are much more good things, because people like her.
He's a dick he's not a serial killer, saving his life IS a good thing
Honestly let's not bring up her being gullible...she was being a damn angel okay
@@kayhaich Yeah I don't know if I'd call thos gullible. I don't think most people go into a relationship with a person expecting to be cheated on, especially after you literally save their life. Her boyfriend was just a piece of shit, one of those Christians that don't practice what they preach
@@kayhaich call it how it is
Hm.
Such a beautiful young lady. Don’t let people who misbehave change who you are. The world needs more kind and genuine people. If I knew someone I dated did that to anyone that would be a deal breaker.
I think the kidney donation doesn't necessarily hinge on being in a relationship (like people who've donated to strangers). But what he did, ESPECIALLY KNOWING WHAT SHE DID FOR HIM... I have no words. No words... Reminds of that woman who fired her kidney donor employee despite knowing the employee needed the money.
Yeah completely agree
You don’t accept a kidney donation from someone you have no plans to be serious with. It takes two to exchange a kidney.
@@SarcasticPixie If you dont acept the kidney you die
@Alexis Browqueen Yeah but maybe have some integrity, break up like an adult instead of betraying someone WHO SAVED YOUR FUCKING LIFE.
Guy's a fucking selfish prick.....at best.
Seriously is there an article about this scenario?
That's very generous of her.
I'm instantly proposing to a chick that would do something like that for me. That's literally life saving.
It's also literally Hero Syndrome.
@@melaninmoxiellc963 how do you know that??
@@forcedge2302 nobody said he was wrong. The person asked how he knows that. That's a neutral question.
@@melaninmoxiellc963 damn didn’t know doing nice things for people you care about is hero syndrome
@@forcedge2302questioning someone’s logic does not always mean you think they are wrong it just means you want to know how they got to their conclusion
If my girl gives me a kidney, I am doing everything I can to make our relationship work. She risked her own health to give me a normal life back. The least I can do is give her happiness for as long as possible.
She's still risking her life. If something happened with her health with only one kidney she's meesed up
And she seems like a nice girl. Naive, but nice
@@Jgkluui or if a surgery complication had happen. Easy table death.
she is now emotionally scarred and won't be the same when it comes to trusting someone
I hope she's happy now. She deserves the world man.
I don't mean to be the party pooper... but that'll hurt her for years ...I hope she heals the scars emotionally over time...
All I can say is, someone out there will be willing to get theirs back.
Right!
🤷🏽♀️ aye
.... fr tho 👀😂
Id be buying that mf a ticket to vacation in Xinjiang
😂😂 man. Hand it over mf
As they should.
I hope she finds someone who loves her completely.
And is a match if she ever has problems with her one remaining kidney.
@Alexis Browqueen Not the "top of the list" but they give you an extra ten points on your allocation score. The kidneys still goes to those most in need first. Regardless. But the ten point jump on your score definitely helps.
Wow, he finds the one girl who "has a sense of urgency to help him" instead of just writing him off as "low value" because of his disease, and he does this. I'd say "love is dead" but I don't think it ever existed.
Great point.
Most women would leave once they find out about the disease. Not only did stay she gave him a kidney!
Jesus Christ! What more could you ask for ?! 🤦♂️
Obviously it does if she was willing to do that and still have no regrets about giving him her kidney
@@Qqxx22lol dontnput woman onto this. Stastically speaking a man would be more likely to leave if they heard there wife was ill. Not the other way around
@absolutelyfookinnobody2843 right? If anything, this is an example of how deep love can run despite some not deserving it.
The impact her kidney donation creates extends beyond drinking alcohol. She may have complications if/when she decides to have a baby and a host of other potential health issues. Where were her parents/family/friends to advise her when she was making this decision?!!!
Nowhere. She made an emotional decision. It’s not like her family could’ve been more informed than her about it though considering most people don’t know you have to have an exact DNA match for bone marrow transplants which means if your biracial kids ends up with leukemia you nor the father/mother wouldn’t be able to save your child and you’d have to hope someone else has the same biracial genetic mixture.
So? Is that supposed to discourage race mixing? There are mostly whites on that bone marrow registry and whites have less generic diversity (inbreeding) than other groups such as blacks and Latinos. So those minorities tend to be out of luck anyway.
*genetic diversity
She is a grown woman, she is supposed to make her own decisions
Thats what I was wondering. I wouldve told her dont do something like that for a boyfriend.
Fun fact about the liver. You can donate it to someone without it killing you. It’s called a partial liver transplant. You can take a part of your liver, donate it and it will regrow into back into a full liver. The donated part will also grow into a full liver. You can only do this once btw.
True. It's only certain parts of the liver, and the younger you are the more successfully it grows back (there may be issues when regenerating), but it's entirely possible.
Learn something new everyday
it regrows? bodies are amazing aren't they? and its sustainable for cannibals 😂😂
If livers can regrow, than perhaps it's possible to legally/ethically start organ harvesting |;^)
and i thought I was scary 😂
Damn, he Bible pumped and dumped her, she took a major L on this one. I truly despise people who use the Bible to support their trash behavior. I’m glad she’s doing better now.
That's THE B I G G E S T L I ever witnessed with my own eyes damn I'd like to hug her, that's too fucking painful
He’s a massive hypocrite
That what happens when you judge or assuming someone is good or righteous for being faithful or religious. Never choose or judge anyone based on that alone. Being religious does not make anyone a good person, period.
@@Scrubermensch it is, so sad and she’s clearly a sweetheart.
I always enjoy seeing your comments on videos like these, you seem like a very fair individual.
If they cheat NEVER GIVE THEM A SECOND CHANCE! They simply do not deserve it. It really just causes more problems than it's worth. She completely dodged a bullet with the other dude.
I think I would only ever donate a kidney to my own child. If nobody needed me and depended on me for survival, I would consider donating to a stranger. But I don't think I could donate to anyone else I know without it forever changing the relationship. When you know someone, it is damn near impossible to give such a tremendous gift with absolute selflessness and not need or expect anything in return.
Yes watch ppl die in front of you without helping
True... Or, for me personally, my kids' mother too.
While we see each other as great parents, we're well aware that mother and father play very different roles. Their mother can do things for them, that I can't.
Even if we were not together, I'd give her a kidney, just because of her role in my kids' lives. Whether she cheated on me, kicked me out or whatever... Despite what she could do to me, her role as a good mother for my kids are more important imo.
True. I feel like I’d rather donate to a stranger than to a friend. I wouldn’t expect anything from anyone for doing anything for them. But I don’t think the other person would feel the same way.
@@VengD sounds like your little ones are growing up with a genuinely loving father and mother. I pray you never have to make that decision, and may nothing but happiness follow you all ahead!!
Your child is the only actual responsible choice. Other than that, only organs after death should be harvested
If a girl I dated ever donated a kidney to save my life then I will instantly marry that person. That's basically a huge way of showing that you love someone.
what happens if she doesn't want to marry you ?
While your rationale may seem honorable and noble, it gives big "Hero Syndrome" vibes. You still need to date that person long enough to properly vet them for compatibility.
@@melaninmoxiellc963 but you don't need to date someone long enough to take a body organ from them? Really? 😂😂😂 Lmaaaooo
@@danielayodele6139 Yes you don't. Strangers donate body parts and blood a lot and I do not need to date them at all to take whatever body part they decide to donate.
@@latecheckout11 bro if a girl is dating u and donates to save ur life then ofc she cares deeply enough that she wants to marry. The girl is donating to keep you a live to be with.
Wow. She literally changed her body and life for that guy (she might not have even survived the surgery, let alone the recovery) and he took down one of her friends. This guy really ain't shit. She's way better than me, I would have went tf off.
So true love doesn't exist?
@@Waterbug1591 never did.
@@Waterbug1591 love exist...true love...idk
@@Waterbug1591people like her believe in true love. Look how it ends
This is sad case of abuse of kindness. The donor can't obligate you to stay with them because of the donation, but you have the moral obligation to stay with them for it.
I wonder how common this is. Literally yesterday I heard about this crazy story where this dude gave his wife his kidney, wife cheated after the transplant, divorced, took his mansion, AND THEN he SUED her for millions for the kidney HE gave. Court ruled in the wife's favor for obvious reasons, story was wild lol.
It's much much more common with things like debt. Except then they are saddled with having to pay it
bro WHAT
Fucking wow… people are so messed up. And it’s upsetting but not surprising they would be on the woman’s side.
well what did he expect he's a man living in America... of course a court isn't gonna side with him on anything marital related
Unless you are my Child, I ain't giving one of my kidney to nobody...
I’d take my kidney back and keep it in a freezer.
*SIR* 🤣💀🤣
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Same - I won’t even give it in the first place
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Him: "How much do you love me?"
Her: "Enough to risk my life for you!" *Donates kidney*
Her: "HOW COULD YOU CHEAT ON ME?! DID YOU EVEN CARE ABOUT ME AT ALL?! EXPLAIN YOURSELF!"
Him: "BIBLE OUT NOW ON ALL DIGITAL PLATFORMS BRUV"
Unfortunately almost everyone you will ever meet doesn't care about your feelings and will screw you over if they have to or for fun. Always look out for number one
Aba is like Stewie Griffin, builds time capsule but can't count beyond three
Daaaamn that’s a genius level analogy. 🏆
bruh
😅🤣😂
Damn! That's good one.
I was watching family guy and saw this video 😅😅😅 that was hilarious
When he finally matures emotionally, he’s gonna have to live with the thought that he has her kidney inside of him, and he’s the one that screwed her over.
Exactly
That’s what I said. She will always be the girl that got away. And trust his family will be right there to remind him 🥴
That’s wishful thinking at best, I doubt anyone, who’s willing to screw someone over in this fashion is capable of maturing.
@@Topazvexen 💯
I know your female from this comment lol. He's a dude he's not gonna feel anything about it at all we don't base our lives on feelings
@@frogger2011ifyexactly why you go around ruining lives with no regrets, it's the lack of emotions, feelings and empathy
Whatever aba smoking in canada is what i need
Leon, we do have some good stuff up here in Canada.
Can confirm 😎
Soo true he is up in the ⛅️ 🌥 🌦 ☁️
My first thought is Aba is lit in this video lol
You KNOW that good good up there…they are the masters of the HYDRO up there!
That's inhuman.. The callous disrespect of it. Dirty bastards.
A *stranger* saves my life like that and they earn my loyalty forever. My girlfriend does it? Pure, fanatical devotion. She becomes completely unfuckwithable for as long as I'm breathing.
I'm happy for her. At the end of the day she went through the shit and made peace with it and found someone who loves and respects her. That other dude will have to live with how he treated a seemingly wholesome and nice person. I wish her the best
you’re happy for her because she’s one kidney down and has put herself at increased risk for a multitude of medical issues in the future…..
@@xdandychiggins ok what you want me to do about that?
@@LiTTLeDizZyUriNe i just want you to reflect on how idiotic it is to be happy for someone like this. there’s nothing to be happy about here other than the fact that she didn’t die on the operating table.
@@xdandychiggins they said their happy for her for making peace with it and finding someone who they feel truly appreciates them.
Stop being so negative.
@@OMGitsTerasu if you don’t like my negativity, no one is forcing you to interact. i said what i said, i personally don’t see what is there to be happy about in this situation. that’s just me. we’re allowed to have differing opinions.
Had she watched Full Metal Alchemist: Brotherhood, she would have known that was not an equivalent exchange
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She better grind his ahh into a philosopher stone and rock that as a ring
Ayo that’s some real shit.
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That’s kind of miraculous. A kidney match is hard to find. I’ve been on the organ donor list since 2011 and haven’t gotten a call.
Not that the situation may not have been painful, but she would have donated her kidney to a complete stranger, possibly, to save their life. There’s no telling what they may have done in their lifetime post transplant.
You saved a life. Live on, Love on.
What a kind and sweet girl. I hope she nor any of her future kids will ever need a kidney. The regret will be pretty heavy knowing she can't save her family. When ppl get a second chance at life they're supposed to do better.
Wow she’s amazing!!! The fact she’s still glad she gave him a literal part of her and isn’t bitter, wow! Can we embrace how many people aren’t like this??
She's a pure soul ! She's earned her humanity !
Don't talk about the other filth , he doesnt even deserve a tombstone .
😂😂😂😂"tombstone"💀👀😂😂😂
Facts
I'm politically homeless but when I'm watching Aba and Preach I don't feel so alone.
Al Gore-ithm.... hmmmm
Dope name tag
I'm just homeless lol
Same, I'm slightly left leaning but I don't like even saying that because both the left and the right are going off the rails. I consider myself Libertarian, that's about it but even then there is a lot of crazy Libertarians.
You're human how can you be alone? Theres 7 billion of us!
@@BrandonS101 You know there is a Libertarian party. Just vote for them.
#1 selfishness works on a spectrum and being at the middle is healthy
#2 unconditional love is nonsense, there is always a condition
#3 she seems like a classic naive, kind hearted, decent girl
(Without the kidney story) Kidney tale makes her sound like "they don't make 'em like that today" type
-real trooper, gives me shivers man
Cheating is foul as is. But cheating at the person who literally saved your life by risking theirs and giving you an organ? What kind of foul disgusting human being is this guy?
Exactly
this is why its better to stay single than to end up like these situations, being loyal to your man is bad nowadays, there's no guarantee happiness once you enter a relationship, focus on yourself 💯
I feel so bad for her... she has such a good heart. God bless. She did everything any partner could have done. She let him go out with his boys, she gave him a kidney and even tried to forgive him. Such a narcisistic asshole.
I truly feel bad for her, good hearted people always seem to get fucked over :/
Good heart, 1 kidney
Shhhhhhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt! I wouldn't say any "partner" would of done that. If he's not my husband, I'm not doing a damn thing. I'd support from the waiting room.......waiting on someone else's kidney to come through lol.
@@chrysanthemums4963 Exactly what I was about to say. Saying “any” partner would do that undermines the rare act she did.
They both used religion to control the relationship
This man missed out on a good thing. She's beautiful, she's driving out to see you, she gives you a kidney which actually potentially weakens her now as the other kidney does all the work. And you just fucked it up. That's a woman for life.
Those are ALWAYS the kind of women that lose
@@thezu9250 you're right, but that's bc of men. Unfortunately, men are attracted when women act (somewhat) disinterested, independent & aloof- the opposite of this lady. To be fair, humans evolved this way, & I guess it's bc it subconsciously communicates superior genes or something. Or men like to feel that the woman will be ok without him. But we often have to stop ourselves from being too open, agreeable & giving. Otherwise it creates resentment on our end & makes the guy get bored & take us for granted. Every relationship needs balance, so if u want a sweet lady like this, be super sweet in return & reward her behavior
@@scarletsletter4466here's the problem with both your opinions. You've put all men into 1 locker as the same and you're altering your behaviour accordingly assuming such things which is a terrible idea.
I am a good looking man, partnered for 18 years with a good looking woman, 3 small children and I can tell you now I wouldn't skip a beat in marrying a woman that clearly goes beyond the norm for her man. Not all men are alike, some are dumber than others or not matured enough. Same with women, so always be yourself, improve yourself but don't craft yourself based on such a simple idea that all men are the same and you need to be a certain something to get one and then keep them. Your character and value is far more important than being in a fake relationship.
@Avee Briana Wrong Briana. Kidneys are super important to the function of the body, more than you clearly know that's why you have two of them. They regulate and operate at multiple different levels.
@@scarletsletter4466 what a load of BS.
She saved a life. He might not be a good person but it doesn't change the fact that she saved a life. She should feel proud of that.
Not all relationships are worth fighting for no matter how much you already put into it.
Gotta know when to fold 'em.
And know when to not kidney around. John 8:13
Agreed. It's the Sunken Costs Syndrome that makes people go into such deep denial that they stay in bad relationships in efforts to yield a return on their investment, which deep down they already know they'll never get.
Definitely agree, shit a Fu*king Kidney, damn 🙆🏾♀️😔, that's f**ked up. What a savage that guy is,shit.
That is the best advice ever
If I would’ve read this when I was engaged
I walked away so much happier that I dodged a major bullet
Meanwhile, he’s trying to get me back
Not worth it
@@g.pearson4726
I was yoked to a vulnerable narcissist for two years. No matter how bad things got, I could never leave him, because he was always going through SOMETHING that I couldn't abandon him during, and I had a bit of a saviour complex, thinking I could fix him and that he wanted to be fixed (he SAID he did). We had marriage plans (or at least I did) before he left, and I used to feel like him discarding me the way he did was a waste because of all the effort I put into a relationship but now I'm glad I learned the hard way in my early 20s as opposed to marrying him, and being completely ensnared after we'd already had four children and a joint bank account.
TL;DR: dumping me was the nicest thing my ex ever did for me.
He doesn’t have to stay with her- he could, ya know RESPECTFULLY break up with her. She seems reasonable. She wasn’t forcing him to be with her, she just didn’t want to be cheated on 🙃
If any woman my age range I was dating ever donated a kidney to me out of kindness, I would instantly propose to her or at the very least make her a close friend. Fr, no joke. Saving a life is priceless.
Now why tf does this man have the audacity to do the EXACT OPPOSITE?
Edit: Any one of ya'll trying to argue on why it was okay for the man to leave, do you have ZERO consideration for the person who gives you life? Giving someone the ability to live again is PRICELESS, and should be met with gratitude. That gratitude might be in the form of marriage, who knows. But ya'll should show some fuckin gratidude. I swear, this is why the world isn't a good place right now, and it's because we sometimes perpetuate the idea that we don't have to repay an act of kindness. Repaying an act of kindness shows the person giving the kindness that they should DO MORE OF IT. Its basic positive reinforcement. The woman in the video seemed nice as hell too, so miss me with that "wHaT iF sHe's iNcOmpATiBlE???" shit. I would want to wife her any day if she did that to me or AT THE VERY LEAST, make her a very close friend. This is why we can't have nice things. As a christian, the fact that the boyfriend used the Bible as an excuse to DEFEND his actions makes him even more foul. The Bible is a book of morality, not a book to weaponize morality. There's two things I hate, and its evangelicals and people who use religion to justify shitty actions like cheating on someone who gave you life again.
EDIT NUMBER TWO, CAUSE YA’LL MFS CAN’T TELL THE DEFINITION OF COMPATIBILITY:
Compatibility doesn’t necessarily mean having the same interests, or looks, or whatever is considered as a bonus to a relationship, because looks, interests, personality, etc. are all bonuses. What actually holds a relationship is values, morality, kindness, being generally sweet to them, doing acts of unconditional love for them, etc. You can be polar opposites from a person, but you can still hold a relationship. In fact, being polar opposites in your interests might even be more fun, because you both can introduce each other to new perspectives. Case closed.
Cuz he a fuckboi who needed a simp donator
Exactly, even if the relationship doesn't work out, there should be a close friendship and a LOT of gratitude.
What if the woman makes a terrible partner, or you're completely incompatible? Is the price of saving a life, ruining both of yours?
He's not you, so...
This is what I think. Because people think differently than you. Choices exist and people change their minds.Some choices are good, some bad, some evil, and some are not bad nor good, and some are necessary. We won't always agree with one way of thinking. That's why.
I dont usually comment but after watching this I really feel that I have to.
That woman is absolutely amazing, she deserves so much more than this. That man is 100% worthless and he shouldn't have harmed her like that. I feel really sorry for that girl and I hope she manages to find someone special.
He had faith when he thought his life was limited, the moment he got a second chance at life, he started living with sin... he could always repent later
It makes me sad how much we take for granted for the Lord's mercy
He didn't have faith. He had a facade he used to manipulate her
@@ingloriousMachina I know that's an easy pov, bc what he did was so scummy but it really only works to make a villain out of the guy... this is not an excuse but I can see how a guy battling a condition for 10 years that's slowly killing him would rely on faith. I can also understand how that guy would want to make up for 10 years lost, most of his 20s at that, and in a moment of weakness doing something he regrets.
@@HasanPikerIsADouche yeah nah he went behind her back, fucked her FRIEND, and then had the nerve to put doctrine into HER as if she was the bad person. You want to relive lost years? Breakup and tell them why. Women do it all the time “I want to explore myself” “I need to experience life” and all that other bullshit.
@@HasanPikerIsADouche even though you have a valid point, the guy still got mad at her and blocked her. For him to show regret it will take more than just straight up his path (or not, only god is the one who decides how much is enough for forgiveness). And lets not forget that there are a lot of people that use god’s name in vain to get something.
I respect her, she gave her kidney to keep him in the world long enough to find out he's a piece of shit. And she's not upset or regretful about the kidney, just the disrespect and she got over it too. If she is a Christian, she's the only one I that practices forgiveness.
Kidneys are worth around 262 000$. Next time, learn to value yourself, girl
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Just... Damn!
Bruh
Literally 🤣🤣🤣
For real? Hmmm...
The best revenge would be staying friends with his family so every girl he's with will know what he did.
It's really up to the person. This woman is wonderful and whoever ends up with her is a lucky person.
She has such a good heart. Unfortunately, she’s too good for the wrong person. However, someone kind and generous like her will be blessed with more important things and a person that will love her unconditionally. Let karma take care of those who hurt you. I wish you all the best in life.
Facts. And may you have a happy life with little worries.
Karma is bs. Nothing's gonna happen. If she is lucky, she will find some one. Life is not like a movie script.
@@ad8447 Agreed. Leaving it up to karma to deal out justice is as bad as having the lotto for a retirement plan.
I feel like she knows she basically saved the guy's life, and yes, at the time she did it because she was in love, but on the other hand even now when she looks back she is still a person that saved someone's life. I would actually value myself a lot because of it and in theory if you never do anything of use in your entire life and everything goes to shit, at least you saved someone's life. And that gives meaning t your life. Even if it was too early it is a proof of what kind of person she is, since she must have been aware that the risk of them existed, but she did it anyway, and I think it actually makes her life a meaningful life.
That username though
That and getting toxic about it like Aba said will only hurt yourself and not let you get closure. She did the right thing with the bad situation she was dealt. Self preservation also means to not harm yourself further after things are done. She took her losses and left.
he then goes on to murder several people.................
But then again, saving life of this POS is a huge disservice to humanity. He should be walking around hooked up to his dialysis machine.
Probably woulda picked a different person to get it had she known.
She seems really sweet. A real keeper and a gem. Hope she is still and will always be happy and upbeat like she is right now. 👍🏼
Hey. She got played, but she is a wonderful human being. She accepted what happended and moved on. If that was me you bet I was taking that kidney back one way or another.
Right? I'd be saying hi to him at his door with a scalpel.🤬🔪
Idk. The cakeface & her choice of friends & partner gave me doubting how "great" she is.
@@bbbbbbb51 True!
Wow, this was a terrible story... I can't believe how selfless she is and what an ingrate he is.
People like him give religion a really bad name. He was all "Christ-like" and decent in a frail body, when she gave him "a chance to live a normal life" he showed who he really is.
She is amazing, to be heartbroken and then move on without being bitter or resentful and having no regrets...
She could be lying, how do you even fact-check this story? lol
@@Waterbug1591 We can't know, but we can assume with some certainty that she isn't lying. She got another boyfriend and from watching how she presented herself, it doesn't seem like she's lying but we can't be 100% sure.
How is she christian in a pre marital relationship? Why is her boyfriend a "christian" going to las veags to party with his friends without his girlfriend??
He's who he always was. Just because she gave him a kidney doesn't mean she gets to have him forever. Relationships are gambles like pretty much everything in life. The only thing you're guaranteed in life is death and if you have good parents that aren't out to make your life miserable and always have your back and never ask for anything in return than you can make sacrifices of great magnitude for them. But someone who's not blood, that's a step too far as you'll always expect something of equal magnitude in return.
@@JT-bt6jy She didnt say that they "sinned" before marriage, for all we know they both could have been virgins. Chistians can go to Vegas too and not "sin" and christians just like everyone else dont need to take their SO everywhere with them. We dont know who his friends are or what they are like, they may all have been religious or he may have been the only christian in his friend group. They went to Vegas for a batchelor party, that is quite a common and trendy thing to do, doesnt matter if they are christians. Christians are allowed to have fun and party too, and just by being christian doesnt mean he cant go to Vegas.
In modern society, a lot of men complain about women having scummy behaviour, but there's men out there that equally have scummy behaviour; it can go both ways --- in this case, it's unfortunate that this girl got done dirty like this.
No, he isn't obligated to stay with the girl, but why put her through all that and take her kidney if you're going to cheat on her, especially after she tried to save his life? 🤷🏾 cold world.
Stories like these and the pump n dump trend that is religiously followed by the modern men these days puts girls like me into deep fear of being used and discarded. I mean so many rp ytbers say that a woman beyond 25 is damaged. It's makes me paranoid thinking that the man I'm might be married to in the future will cheat on me once I have a child cause I would not look that great after all that and there's plenty of younger narcissist girls around here to take my place.
People are scummy
“Or 1 of 3 🙄” with the tone got me dead 😂😂😂😂😂
Child, YES!!!!
Husband, yes.
Boyfriend, HELL NAW!!!!!!
Ayo why the hubby has question marks? lmaooo
Even with siblings it is a yes! Especially if they are great siblings that have done what they could do for your life.
@@zamo1087 Probably because of the divorce rates in the west lmao. I’d give my spouse my kidney though; especially if we have children together, both parents should be in their lives.
@@zamo1087 I was trying to see if anyone would caught that🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. But for real, I would give my husband a kidney because I don’t want my kids to grow up with their daddy due to sickness.
Child: Yes
Husband: No
Bf: What kidney??
Gosh...he took one of her kidneys and her heart with no regrets.
He was in Vegas reading the old testament like "hmm, all these men had multiple women so this is fine" then got to new testament on his way back and was like "fuck, well too late now, I'll stick with the old"
The trick that most people somehow don't understand that for some reason is all those dudes that had multiple women were examples of being bad. Even if God's chosen people are doing something, very often He had to proceed to smacking them around for not acting right.
“Be the change you want to see in the world” “ 5:47 got me sooo hype 💯☝️💙😤
That dude is a piece of shit , but honestly I respect this girl , I would never do this , and honestly she is a good person , I am not encouraging to give people their kidney, please don't unless you feel its worth it , but yeah hope she gets everything she wants in life , she deserves it
Wtf! She is too stupid to live! Darwin always wins
An elder at my church suffered kidney failure. The doctors discovered that his wife was a match and she donated. They were married for over seventy years.
That guy is a prime example as to why both love and faithfulness cannot be earned, even through sacrifice. If someone has it in their heart and mind to cheat, then they're going to do it regardless of the work you put into the relationship. This is why you really should get to know a person for a good while first before you get into anything serious, you might just find something out about them that tells you they're not the one for you, and you can avoid the potential heartbreak later.