Discord, this is Awful
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- Опубликовано: 9 апр 2023
- Discord Parental Controls, the biggest Band-Aid fix to one of the most fundamental problems of the platform, safety.
If you didn't know, Discord is filled with the most vile stuff on the planet. From malware that will steal your credit card info to graphic content that will put you in jail. Now instead of putting every ounce of effort into trying to combat those issues, Discord makes a shiny new family center feature that is not only fundamentally flawed, but is easily bypassed through either basic tricks or just making a new discord account.
Dunno how this made it out the concept phase but I would assume it's to appease the out of touch moronic investors. YAY!
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My intentions of including the "iykyk" keyword are extremely clear, this content exists on the surface web and you should be aware of what keywords and tools creeps are using so that you can avoid them.
The unfortunate reality is that a sizable chunk of internet users will at some point in their lives be exposed to this content. Either in some sort of sick joke or falling down an internet rabbit hole due to not knowing the warning signs. Seeing this content is traumatic, it scars you for life and I hope that bringing awareness to this issue reduces the number of people that have to deal with the mental torment of being exposed to this material.
One thing that I wish I included is that you should NEVER click on a mega .nz link. So stay away from ambiguous server tags or server names and stay away from mega .nz links. While mega .nz is a normal file hosting service, the encryption element of it prevents automated CSAM hash detection software from flagging the material and putting the piece of human trash behind bars.
Discord does automatically flag content that is uploaded to Discord as noted in this article: discord.com/blog/discord-transparency-report-q4-2022#heading-5
And while I do genuinely believe that the vast majority of my audience clearly know how disgusting this content is, there is a non-zero chance that a viewer out of the 750k+ views is a creep. Thankfully if that creep uses the "iykyk" keyword to seek out this content on Discord, they are almost always going to end up in a fed trap where they get their well deserved migration to a concrete cell.
Also, PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO FIND THIS CONTENT SO YOU CAN REPORT IT. That is the duty of NCMEC (National Centre for Missing & Exploited Children). If you unfortunately stumble across or are sent this content maliciously, please file a report at report.cybertip.org/ Filing a report is REQUIRED if you see this content. It helps protect you from an investigation, you also help others from being shown this material, and ultimately you aid in the investigation to save the poor child.
I strongly believe that the benefits of teaching people how to avoid this traumatic content significantly outweigh the possibilities of a creep using this information (which just leads to them going into a trap laid by the feds. I know people will disagree with me because this is the internet but I assure you that I have thoroughly thought about whether or not this information should be kept or omitted from the video and I hope this clarification helps you understand my perspective.
Oh
thank you
I guess iykyk means if you know you know.
@@Leandera yes
@@hecker.14yrold not funny
the fact discord was from "for gamers" to "teens now need to have parental supervision online"
When can we go back to teamspeak and mumble i hate not having servers on my own extra laptops when my friends left and formed their own discord i knew it was a mistake
Says a lot about gamers tbh
if you have a service like discord and it's not a strict 18+ thing then you obviously need parental controls, but no one makes a discord account that's under 18 unless their parents made them
@Jacob that's bait
@@prussiaball1871 i don't know a single person whose parents made their account and we're all under 18
Really goes to show that discord didn't think this through when a parental control option as obvious as "disable access to NSFW channels" isn't included
If the user's age, according to the specified birth date is less than 18 years old, Discord automatically blocks access. Although, of course, there are tools to bypass this.
EDIT: while faking your age *is* an option, I am primarily referring to client modifications.
@@robertplayz9157 namely faking your age, of course
@@robertplayz9157 "tools to bypass this" you mean kids just selecting their age as over 18?
literally every single kid does that whenever they sign up or visit a site, i was making my age higher on websites even when i was literally 8-9
@@Ralsia i only did that before i was 13 after that i used my age
@@Koawa_ you do not have to verify a single thing at all to go on nsfw channels, you only need a phone number and an email so you can create a discord account and then you have full unrestricted access to discord
when you try to access a nsfw channel it just warns you "this channel is marked as age-restricted" and has a continue and cancel button, thats it
thing is, you dont even need to mark channels as nsfw, its an OPTIONAL thing, you can post whatever images or say whatever words you want and it wont be censored or anything
As someone who grew up with parental control loving over-protective parents. Parental controls do literally nothing in keeping a kid safe, or moderate their usage of stuff. Being controlling and restrictive of your kids interests just breeds distrust between you and them, and just trains them to be more sneaky in doing what they want as opposed to sucking up to you to get more screentime or whatever.
best parental control is the parent teaching and raising their kid to be open, honest, and generally keeping a healthy relationship of trust and privacy. parental controls just tell the kid they aren't trusted
Was exactly the same way for me. My father constantly took away my phone but that just made me look around on the internet or whatever it was he feared even more.
i had qustodio on my tablet when i was like 11 and, already suffering from an anxiety disorder, became EXTREMELY paranoid. it reported the most innocuous shit, and i was scared to go on any website in case it got reported (i went on wattpad once and got banned from it by my mom). plus, it's not like it even stopped me from seeing inappropriate stuff!! if you go down enough of a rabbithole on google images, you can find whatever you want, and it isn't reported. parental control did nothing to keep me safe but everything to instill fear and anxiety into me until i got a new device and didn't have to use them anymore
Yeah no one time my dad tried controlling my Discord usage by seizing control of my account using sheer verbal force (screaming, lot's of screaming, it's genuinely terrifying, and you DO NOT attempt to resist or else actual bad things will happen)
He changed the password to something else, and told me that I was to ask him for the login everytime I wanted to go on Discord, and I was to log out every evening.
However I had keylogged my computer as he entered his password, so then I knew what it was, and could therefore still use Discord whenever I wanted, although to not give things away, I always made sure to ask him to sign me back in periodically
This dragged on for a few months, before I had accidently gone on way too long without asking my dad to log in, he asked me about it, and I gave him the truth, which was that I had been logged in entire time (however I didn't mention the keylogging), and it was there that he wrote down his password on a sticky note, slammed it down in front of me, and stormed off in rage. It took about 2 days for him to shake off his anger, but he never tried doing that again, thankfully
Yep, time controls only work if your kid is never unattended, or they'll figure out how to use bios to change the time.
Parental controls only block the most surface level stuff that might make your kid horny but won't get them into anything straight up illegal.
And making your kid unwilling to talk about that stuff makes them unwilling to talk to you about the guy online who they occasionally feel is a bit uncomfortable to talk to but always makes it up to them with fun games and by listening to their problems at home and giving them advice...
the stupidest part of all this is that the majority of child abuse is committed by parents, teachers, and other authority figures in the kid's life
you know, exactly the kind of people that this system gives extra surveillance tools to
EXACTLY! so many teens rant about their abusive parents on discord too, i’ve seen it personally. if those kids have these restrictions placed on them, they will have nowhere to go.
@@e-1074 good shit lmao, free population control.
just because some people have shit parents doesn't mean that the good parents shouldn't have a way to let their kid on the internet while making sure they arent being groomed.
@@alexandervowles3518 be careful not to trip and cut yourself on that edge
@@carsonj4031 it really doesn't help though. they explained that in the video?? didn't you watch it. if you can't see the contents of the messages you have no real way of knowing if your kids are being groomed
Discord in two days: family center is nitro subscribers only
top ten good things we'll actually like
Holy smokes the master plan, convince the parents to pay for Nitro.
people who pay for nitro probably need parental restrictions the most
@@Frenzyv2 LMAO
@@astar1147 *LMAAOOOO*
Adding parental controls to discord is equivalent to putting parental controls on the hub
The hub is probably a much safer space anyways in this regard since you won't find CP there as easily as on Discord.
@@gtracer1729 you know you've done something wrong when a site dedicated to NSFW things is safer than your chat site
LMAO
@@gtracer1729 I mean, now your right. In the past I'm pretty sure there was a lot
LMAO
As someone who got their phone taken away and discord messages read and screenshotted as "evidence" during their teen years. I am both glad that this wasn't a thing back then and also feel really bad for the kids that will be subjected to this BS.
bro the same thing happened to me 💀
MULTABLE TIMES
Aint no way you dated 40 yr olds and got kicked out right?
@JayFeather evidence that i was taking to "creeps" and so i couldn't deny taking to "creeps".
Spoilers, my discord friends are not "creeps" and i still am close to them and consider them my family to this day.
@@MAXIMUM-pc1ch nope, i still live with my parents to mixed results.
My parents don't know I have discord (I use the website, not the app) but ik my mom would be scrolling through all my messages, and with the amount of dark humor memes I share, I would get into a lot of trouble.
This concerns me terribly because so many adolescents on discord vent about their incredibly abusive and manipulative parents. Discord was a safe space for them to get help and support from other teens going through the same thing. I can only imagine what terrible things their parents would do finding out about them venting about their problematic behavior.
make their life even worse to the point they think of suicide
@@mintyminxduo it's true though
As a 17 year old that has never had any control from parents (partially due to the fact they really aren't into tech stuff), I agree. I literally helped a few people remove their parental controls from Windows or negotiate with them. I reassured some people. I made them get their phones back without even asking parents for permission. I just love helping others this way as long as they are cool people, not annoying ones. And you know? In my opinion this should be really considered self-defense.
or they most definitely either
exaggerate or making this up
just saying. quit treating children as martyrs
@@MeowserLJC thanks, I just do what I feel is right. Generally if I see someone who is nice and mature (doesn't expect me to babysit them or help them with viruses they installed from really obvious scams), I help. I just refuse to help those with 0 IQ. What is sad for me though is that many give up or want to sneak instead of doing it an open way. Fear is the killer.
If someone here needs help, just tell me, I can try but I cannot guarantee anything.
Discord Changelogs!
- Added unnecessary features
- Added more possibilities for scams
Sounds like balance change
basically roblox but without the games part
No it's like Nintendo.
- Taking down Fan Games
- Taking down Super Smash Bros. Contests
- Forcing everyone to buy switch online for online featutes
Looks like Discord devs are ran by former RUclips devs
@@lvmane_da1. ultrakill players when the find out most of the dev team is gay
Maybe Discord should focus more on giving the community what it wants instead of making changes no one asked for 💀
Exactly
i think that discord is becoming more corporate
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It doesn’t matter, because they’re going to make some youtube ad while being all meta about it and people are going to eat it up and call Discord “relatable”
I don't use discord 24/7. What does the community wants?
My mom's therapist literally told her not to be super adamant about being on Discord to watch me or whatever. It turns out that communicating and being able to trust your child to not be talking to absolute creeps isn't actually that hard
Parental controls are what bad parents use to punish their children. My parents never used parental controls (granted there werent many during the early 2000s to mid 2010s) but just taught me how to keep away from that bad shit
That, my friends, is called being smart.
Yeah, with my parents it's kind of both. My dad trusts me to stay safe more than my mom does. My mom is a bit more of a helicopter parent, the one that never knocks, goes through my phone a lot etc. I never downloaded discord, I just use the website. But yeah, parents should monitor their kids online if they're younger, but they can do so without hovering over their shoulder at all times. Like just asking them what they do, maybe checking the Ipad if things are suspicious.
I'm happy my mom uses parental controls on my devices
@@ivoxiicongrats ur brainwashed
@@ivoxiiGet well soon.
Trusting discord with your kids is like trusting a pyromaniac as the chief of the fire department.
Fahrenheit 451 moment
Yes, I agree children should be banned from social media altogether
@@catnappernellie1211 Kids should be banned
yes lets juat put all kids into a cage and make them our pet :D
@@robbybest tf you mean?
I love how they do something that does nothing, and say “They can’t see the content of your messages” which is literally the ONLY way you can know if your kid is doing something bad
Or If you are doing something good
Ofc this all sucks but come on, atleast do it well. Like having options- notify if your child says (insert custom words), swears, or suggestive things.
@@am_Nein How about no 😃
if they gave access to the message contents, how many kids would get sent to conversion camps for revealing that they're in the closet?
(then again, how many kids are gonna get sent to conversion camps because they talked to someone who's got a rainbow flag in their username?)
@@am_Nein Quite literally thought policing at that point.
It’s disgusting how so many parents use technology to constantly watch and control their children, and how companies continue to pander to these people.
*edit: I should probably clarify my views on this, being that of course children shouldn't have unrestricted access to the internet, as I personally consider anyone under 10 on the internet to be on the younger side as far as internet users go. I believe that parents need to dedicate a significant and deliberate portion of time from themselves and their child to teach them good internet etiquette; how to use the internet to learn math and science, how to talk to friends and family, how to safeguard passwords in a physical location, how to avoid the dangers of the internet (but not in a way that would leave a kid scared of people and the internet early on), how to recognize and dislike trashy media and content cesspools (twitter, much of RUclips, TikTok, etc). My fear is of the growing trend of companies creating additions to their platform that invite parents to be lax in this regard. RUclips kids is a notorious example, as it lures parents into a false sense of security in letting their children use a disgusting platform, insinuating that they will take care of filtering content for their children, allowing the parent to put off their duties in teaching internet etiquette. Parents who over-monitor their children can sometimes create an Orwellian nightmare with tech in their homes, micromanaging their children's devices INSTEAD of teaching them to use technology responsibly. I have seen many children rendered dependent upon their parents, and I can only imagine either the hardship they will face in becoming an adult or the dependency they will forever have upon someone else. I believe it also ingrains in new generations a sense of complacency in having little to no privacy, and I worry about what that could do to consumer decisions in the future regarding the use of tech and democratic government. Finally, children must grow up, and my largest grievance is with parents who ignore this and have a 17 year old still being monitored constantly instead of managing themselves.
Everyone wants to have kids, but nobody wants to be a parent, nowadays
That's what a parent is supposed to do, a child shouldn't have free reign over the internet.
@@danke1150 fr
@@danke1150 its not like children can search "18+ pictures"
@@danke1150 nah, parents like that are mostly crazy and cant trust their childs, theres people who are restricted like that even when your an adult already.
The only way to protect your kid is to educate them about how to avoid scams, and never make anything taboo. If you're super weird and cagey about dating or sex, they're way more likely to seek it out. The only long term solution is give them information and be available to talk to.
I love how they just added parental controls, even tho the platform is 13+ and no kids allowed
What are they saying 🤔
They are saying "teens" not "kids"
they’re only gonna affect queer people with conservative parents
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yes lol
This whole thing would've been an April Fools joke made by early Discord
Then they would be 10 days late
You’re right holy shit
I’m seriously hope your right. Parental controls on discord is a April fools
My dad snooped through my entire discord one day and looked specifically through my ENTIRE friend group server. At the time one of them was named "man lover" and my dad brought it to attention at a family gathering during dinner. I later explained that it was just a friend who was trying to be funny. It was super awkward for everyone at the table and I wish I could forget about it. I log out of discord every day now btw.
damn
The iykyk tag is gone! Disboard has taken action now that your shown the world. Good shit
As a kid with helicopter parents, this is my absolute nightmare. I'm just looking through the usernames I've had DMs with and...yikes. Discord is setting us up for a "What the hell did you say to them?" situation. Also, showing them what servers we are in often allows them to join all of those servers and see what we are saying and when.
Alt account.
What’s wrong with enterprise resource planning!?
Incognito tab, hope you get independent soon ❤️
this is quite honestly needed, parent's supervising their children more, ESPECIALLY on a place like discord. i've been on the app for 5 years and have seen grooming and pedo's so many times in countless servers, literal nudity in voice chat's, gore and corn being sent in servers without mods caring (while the server is 13+), blatant racism, etc. this is only scratching the surface of discord. however this does create a scenario for abusive/controlling parents to make a toxic dynamic for when their child is on discord.
Same boat with the overbearing parents. Really need people to recognize how unhelpful parental controls are. It just ends in the kid being more sneaky in doing what they want, not more moderate. And it breeds distrust in the relationship.
As someone with emotionally abusive grandparents (I am 21), this is going to end poorly for the people with abusive parents
It almost ruined my life when my mother found out that I had friends 💀
Also imagine all the bigoted parents out there who send their kids to an abusive camp the instant they see that a gay person has joined into the same Fortnite meme server their kid is in.
this isn’t gonna be good for queer teens
@@sylv512 bring back the closet 💪
@@SergeantThug youre so cool man
@@SergeantThugWhat is that supposed to mean
This is discrimination to every discord moderator and discord kittens, how do you expect to receive an "add parent request" from someone who is still searching for the milk in the grocery store
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Bruh if parents forced their kid to accept them on parental control, they could just create a fake account and accept it 💀
Like this literally solved nothing and it's so broken in so many ways
im so goddamn tired of apps adding features to give emotionally abusive parents more access to their kid's personal life
same
I'm worried about that too
for real, it's just a shit ""solution"" all the way through.
to be honest, we all are
Too bad, cry about it.
Most kids wouldn't even let their parents see their Discord
Most kids wouldn't even let their parents know about Discord.
i wouldnt. my group chat is filled with so much fucking hate speech and other shit theyd prolly lock me up in an asylum lmfao
@@Woodlock970 fr
You're talking to someone who does just that. I keep my Discord hidden from my family, and only let my personal friend see mine.
@@okipuluphow did she find it and whats her reasoning
Well tbh I find that one scenario beneficial, if someone says "add me to your family center so I can see if you're cheating" then you can immediately just dump them because it's like a red flag detector
This is gonna cause troubles with anyone with abusive parents.
Discord is becoming corporate every year. I miss when Discord actually listened to the community.
You mean 2017?
Discord never cared about the community. I’ve been on it since 2017, they’ve never stopped any important issues such as getting rid of malware and inappropriate material involved those that are underage
Roblox: first time?
@@MegaWolf5741 actually, Discord did care at one point. ive been using it since 2015, and a lot of the earliest changes (like that glorious dark theme) were based on feedback. it started to go downhill and become very corporate with the introduction of Nitro, and even moreso now since all of the goofy quirks of the platform (remember the custom loading messages?) have been entirely removed.
They completely wrecked everything a while back on certain devices and didn't listen to any of the backlash at all. You have to go through a whole weird process to make roles now, and the way everything is organized looks gross. It's only like that on my tablets and luckily not my phone or computer, but it's still super annoying
All the cool features are nitro only but all the horrible features are available for everyone! How nice of them!
nitro features are useless tbh
@Joe lmao is that really a thing
@@ducksongfans Like on one hand they lock some pretty neat customisation features behind a paywall, on the other hand, while said features are pretty neat they aren’t worth nearly as much as the price they’re being offered for. It just sucks all around
@Duck Song Fans literally just sending bigger files is 90% of the reason for nitro. 8mb limit is fucking horrible... it should be at least like 50 or something.
@@shamrooooock which is why I use telegram for filea
I knew little of how bad discord is for illicit activities. It’s crazy how safe you are if you just use discord for chatting with your friends and reputable servers
so glad to see someone finally talking about disboard, i joined discord when i was 12-13 and those types of servers lead to me getting into some unsavory situatuons. im 17 now and know better but back then it was pretty scary
Discord: "Discord is for users 13+, and we will (maybe) ban them if they are underage"
Also Discord: parental controls for users under 13
me:
i got banned for underage
@@Goovry damn
They very specifically use the word "teen" all over this thing, probably because their lawyers thought calling them "kids" would be a bad idea
@@Goovry same bro 2 year olds are not allowed on disord
@@Goovry What happened in 1989 in China? To process your response, we'll also need your full name, passport number, exact location, qq ID, and mother's name. After your response is processed, we'll adjust your social credit accordingly.
Can't parental controls be abused by predators as well? Convince a vulnerable kid with a deteriorating relationship with their parents that they're the only person they can trust and to add them as a parent so they can keep them safe. Now the predator can see what servers and friends they have and start manipulating their social circle so they can further isolate them. Only 'positive' is they can't see texts, but they still get tons of information about their victim.
Don’t you just love when discord makes their app worse by giving predators even more ways to manipulate children? I know I do
this is more likely to happen than a kid actually using this feature with their parents
roblox devs: WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN!
You are correct. This is actually common with human traffickers.
@@ybplays1629 Roblox already has parental controls but no one uses them cuz lol
As someone who has had to deal with parental controls my whole life, I can confirm bypassing ANY parental control is not in fact crazy hacker shit
same
It's also horrifying for people who are raised by narcissists :(
I'd be laughing so hard if this feature is used in RP servers
Lol why?
@@redbeansnotrice bro asked why😂😂😂
RP = Role play, using this parent function will allow more realistic role playing 💀
@@redbeansnotrice did my man actually ask why ☠️
What a great feature… let the weird online parent roleplays become roleplay helicopter parents.
@@redbeansnotriceNo he literally does he has videos of him roleplaying on minecraft
Surprisingly, even as Christian and slightly strict as they are, they say they respect my privacy and won’t invade it. Other parents need to learn from this
Same with my parents, they won’t snoop all my messages or put the fbi spying device to listen to my calls, they just tell me to be careful with what I reveal about myself and who I talk to
Honestly I understand why my parents would be concerned- a lot of the servers I ended up in have vile people I really don’t like interacting with, but my mother knows I can handle myself
@@sdani. OOC) my parents know I have common sense and the few times before where I mentioned my online friends, my mom's just like "cool you made a friend"
@@sdani. BASED
@BlackLivesMatter what why would a kid do that
Something i just realised while watching this is that the inverse is also true
Parents could see things like parental control and say "oh my child is safe then, i will let my 9 year old children have discord then" when:
A) is against TOS
and B) no, no the fuck it isnt. Just like you mentionned, discord is extremely malware heavy so that's probably the last thing you want on your phone
Honestly the most they should do with it is just to flag certain words in messages the kid or whoever they’re talking to sends. I know you can always use special symbols and stuff but it’s better than whatever they’re doing
imagine discord in 4 months creating "discord kids" 💀
hopefully not
And then half of the userbasd ends up as senior-age groomers
i hope so, but there will be problematic factors that play into it most likely. there needs to be a separate platform for kids to be safe and not experience the horrors of discord. they should be able to communicate and have fun with their friends in game and off-game without the grooming, pedos, encountering nudity and gore, blatant racism and shitty behavior of edgy young adults and actual adults, etc. theres countless spaces on discord like this with mods that dont give 2 fucks about their community so they dont moderate or monitor it, some even participate in it. the whole thing is just fucked, no one under 16 should be on discord tbh.
😂
@@amajeee why do you want a discord kids « safe » from pedos, groomers, etc. It’s impossible to keep it safe from them, these pedos and groomers will always be able to log into this discord kids app.
thank you discord for not fixing the issues on the platform, adding features literally no one asked for, and making me think more about switching to an alternative
revolt is a good one
@@real_ZYPH3R i know, that's the one i am considering.
The thing is, you are losing more than them by switching
@@hoover1150 the only thing you lose by quitting discord is the chance of finding discords infamous cp rabbit holes
@@hoover1150 i don't care how much a corporation makes, if i personally quit giving them money it's a W in my book. corporations will be corporations
We don't need parental controls. We just need parents to educate their kids.
"Guys we have a problem with grooming and CP distribution on our platform"
"Maybe we should crack down on it and send all accessible information regarding the culprits and predators to their respective to local authorities"
"Naw that's stupid lets add parental controls"
Often times the servers are kept up by the authorities themselves to get as much proof and as many culprits as possible tho
I love how they are "trying" to make their platform more friendly when the very definition of the word "Discord" is a disagreement between people.
ceo spotted
They are making it easier to dox someone though
If you get a NTTS video, it's either you fucked up big time - or you did something good.
This right here is a fuck up. Good job, Discord.
its almost always a fuck up, lets be honest.
What’s that
@@stanleybochenek1862 NTTS is the channel acronym
A better way is for the parents to simply walk over to their kid's device and check on discord. Not everything has to be automated over a device nowadays.
i miss when discord was just for gamers.
oh my god i didnt even think of the relationship trauma this will cause. The discord moderators have a whole new tool to keep an eye on their kitten. yikes
dude for some reason that didn't even cross my fucking mind either. my ex who showed me homemade self harm would totally ask to set this up on my account
@@bosselotiscanon omg
@@popsmaellard725 well she's single now if anyone wants her, i'd consider it ill advised though
@@bosselotiscanonIs this the one time a "Who asked" is called for? I don't think any of us care if she's single fam.
Imagine being the employee at discord designated to watching ntts videos and summing them up for the next meeting
The biggest flaw about not being able to see the messages but being able to see what servers we are in is that the parents can join the server and search for the messages sent by the kid account
Knowing that discord has to watch your videos about you clowning on their decisions make this so much better to watch
wait what
@@tygical It's in the employee handbook. If you don't watch every new NTTS video, you get fired.
I'm 18 now, but 2 years ago my mom actually freaked out because I got a friend request from someone named "sadist".
I am extremely concerned for all the teens that have privacy invading Karens as their mothers because I was one of them, and the major reason as to why I am still alive today is that I had some sort of contact with my "internet friends" that kept me from going insane.
He just misspeled sadest
this is gonna be very bad for queer teens with ben shapiro parents, honestly
i hate evangelicals
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I just keep my Discord secret from them. I'm 19 though and I still have to do this. (If I buy nitro myself, they will start noticing)
invasive parents create smart kids who know how to evade their parents snooping
idk what other videos you do but i enjoyed this so imma sub
Letting your child on Discord is like letting your baby eat the batteries under the filing cabinet.
it's quite funny knowing the fact that "your teen" would be safer online more than 90% of the time than the parent hovering over them.
my parents : forces me to connect my account
me : completly abandones connected account, and moves to my alt , then creates another alt that will work as an new alt to replace the god forgotten account
Yeah, they did not think that feature trough, altough that's good for us
it seems like Disboard removed the IYKYK tag as of now, so thank god they finally did finding out about that was easily the most disgusting thing I've heard in a while
The login QR code scanner is plastered with “this is only for logging in” yet people still fall for it so I can’t see this going well
In an alternate universe, every big tech giant has made no error and actually cares about their community. And I just wish I was in that alternate universe.
just use foss stuff they already have that
Update: your video actually makes Disboard removed all of the "iykyk" server search results. it's not longer there after 1 hour, great work honestly, i didn't think they would bother to watch your video and take actions lol.
why did u check? 🤨
That’s probably just one of my any keywords, and they probably only removed the ones that were already there and have no plans on removing future ones
@@ningen To report?
@@ningen to report it and get it removed?
What does ykykyk
The best parental control is education; talking with your child about potential dangers and while respecting their privacy, assuring them that they can come to you with anything to talk about things without punishment. Awareness is the best protection.
I feel bad for the poor souls that have to deal with the Family Center. Good luck y’all…
most people (like myself), use discord to shit on their parents. kids who feel like they have shit to hide from their guardians, dont want them invading their safe spaces. this has to be one of the dumbest features ive ever seen, aside from super reactions lmao.
it seems like such a lazy move too, as you said its a bandaid solution. because they aren't fixing the actual issue at hand, creeps are going to find loopholes.
i aint gonna be surprised when i see people finding discord alternatives, at this point its bound to happen. i love discord for what they do have, but holy fuck they're lacking in departments regarding safety.
some people use matrix I think, I don't know if its good
queer kids are gonna have a not-good time with this feature
@@sylv512 thats why we'll name them train server instead of trans server we'll be unstoppable AH HA HA
@@sylv512 yup, I can see it happening. betting you big bucks it'll end up in the news on some shitty online newspaper site at some point
@@is888c “oh no, my kid is in a liberal brainwashing server! i’m going to send them to a conversion (concentration*) camp!”
I served in the British Army with a guy who’s father jumped off one of the highest parts on the rig and survived, rescuers were amazed how he survived the jump, I’d take my chance jumping against being burnt to death any day, another colleague was from the Shetlands and he told me that he saw a fire rescue boat come into harbour, when he was a teenager, a day or so after the disaster, the paint had blistered and cracked along the hull, such was the heat. RIP to all those who lost their lives that awful night.
5:15
Bruh that should be a red flag to run lmfao
this feature COULD be used in a moderate, safe manner, but most parents who would use this feature like normal, responsible people usually already trust their teens enough to be smart online. what this will be used for is isolating the kids and teens on discord who live in toxic households, who now can no longer safely exist in support groups where they can get help or at the very least someone to talk to when their parents treat them like shit. i fear especially for lgbtq+ youth in homophobic and transphobic households, who no longer can rely on discord as a safe space, because their parents will then find out about that friend of theirs has a pride flag in their profile picture, or that theyre in a lgbtq+ related server, and then get screamed at, hit, or even killed for "associating with the wrong crowd".
Couldn’t they just get an alt?
kinda based tbh
@@marioplumber3378no it's fucking not?
@Fidel Catto no u
>killed
Where do you people come up with this stuff lmao
I can already see the scams and abuse scenarios potentially cropping up from this.
Also if they wanted to protect kids, they'd actually moderate the site. Not even keeping contacts restricted can stop you from dealing with bots sometimes.
welp. now i know to put a halt to that interview process. thanks dude.
im high as hell and i just found you. i was not ready for that ending bro you got a sub
1:55 that’s devious 💀
Finally somebody calling out disboard(other people probarbly did already) but u are the first discord content creator i actually watch, cause he has informative stuff to share. And who calls out that platform for allowing that shit 5 days smh...
whats wrong with disboard
@@valverios Tet is sometimes annoying.
@@lememz no i have an attention span of 5
@@lememz pretty sure it got taken down. if you search for "methods" or "iykyk" it gives you a 404 page
@@Akri254 ikyk.
they have finally removed iykyk, i've heard about it all over discord and im finnaly glad someone with an audience came to talk about it, i've contacted people to atleast shed light on this situation and most likely due to it being cp, they wouldnt talk about it unfortunately. thank you so much, keep up the content.
OML THE OUTRO, best channel so far
Wait a minute
I just realized my dad uses discord
He is an absolute anti-tech and all he will see is "hey you can spy on your child now"
Hes an absolute controle freak, meaning he will definitly use this
Cant wait for the "accept the request or youre grounded"
if that does happen, abandon the connected account and make a new one, or if you still have time - make a new one and connect the new one, leaving your main intact
Or use a Alt for the family
make a alt and say its your main and never let em know about your alt
Rip
MAKE. A. NEW. ACCOUNT. WHILE. YOU. STILL. CAN.
Immediately when you showed what the feature will be able to do I was like "Just make a new account and send them that". Glad you mentioned it!
I just got an ad telling me to not pay my taxes wtf
But money laundering and tax fraud is extremely profitable!!! I do it a lot.
@@idocookingstuff2302 your username checks out
@@Fr0sh1tz do you have any ideas of what vids I should make
every video of yours i watch gets funnier and funnier, the ending is what killed me
ah yes parental control on the gaming messaging app "BRO HOW DID U NOT SEE HIM COMING HE WAS RIGHT THERE"
He shot me from my bac-
he totally railed-
he came from my rear-
@@helper_bot He is fucking me up the ass
These two comments have made me realize the sheer amount of innuendos we’ve turning into anti-innuendos by using them as a synonym for getting shot at
@@wieldylattice3015 “We literally got so f###ed in the a## so hard last round istg”
Our school blocked discord because someone had it open and there was a bad word 💀
I had discord for a day on the weekend the next day blocked 💀
If my parents saw the stuff I say/do on discord, im pretty confident they would disown me as a child, making the controls useless anyways
The beep on push to talk has had like a full second of delay for years now and they still haven't fixed it but hey at least we have this
Someone tell me when parental controls has ever made anything better.
switch's code thing
I want to know too, cause to me seems like never
Like... I don't know... Never?
roblox so you dont spend everything out of your moms credit card ig????
Right, it's just helicopter parenting. It will eventually not get you anywhere, it won't help anyone, and it will irreversibly affect how your child perceives you. Having a trusting relationship and a strong bond is the only way to go. You can't sell that though, so discord family center is the second best option I guess
I had no idea about those code words to find servers- that is disgusting.
Omg, you are right.. this update isnt gonna be good for toxic relationships.. yikes
Never had any idea they existed myself, it's crazy that this shit is so accessible. Here I thought I've seen the worst you can find on Disboard.
Honestly, now I see why most of my friends use snapchat. Not only does it delete shit you don't want seen, but it doesn't enable parents to see everything you're doing.
Plus, the location share has actually kept me safe on several occasions, as my bullies live in the same neighborhood as me and aren't against violence, so I'd say that feature is helpful if it isn't abused.
Imean to be frank, kids shouldn't be monitored like this to begin with, even by their parents. Instead they should be educated by their parents about the risks involved and reminders to be cautious. But that's asking parents to do their jobs and allow their kids to learn instead of blindly following orders, or asking parents to participate in their kids activities to get their own understanding of how it works without being invasive.. so we know that'll never happen.
Definitely interesting to see what Di$cord is working on instead of fixing their embeds which are broken for like 2 months now.
I can't wait to make my very own Discord cult using this feature.
when is this cult being made and when can i join it
@@apple5293 same
@@apple5293 frl
lmfao
Plus, their Trust & Safety Team doesn’t do their job properly
Reading through the comments and seeing how shady kids are and thinking about how many will live to regret the choices of deception.
This feels like the thing that happened with Mojang to create the Minecraft chat filter: some company or online safety organization may be pushing Discord into implementing this
Who could do it? Discord is fully independent.
@@KristinaMoment investors mans literally said it in the video
that would be the end of discord, the entire point is freely being able to speak
Discord took their TOS too seriously 💀
The biggest issue I see with this is.. what teen is gonna tell their parent "oh mom they added a new option to discord and I know you care about my safety so here!"
And I feel like if there's a parent that's already on Discord, they'd know the cesspit that Discord is and just.. not let their kid have it. Or accept the consequences that follow.
"Son, do you know, once you enter there's no going back?"
The fact that Discord isnt just an 18+ system already is kinda shocking. Its used mostly for games and porn, neither of which wants kids present. The third use is scamming but take away the children and you only get porn addicts falling for that shit. If the platform just required some form of age verification, a lot of worries could be wiped away easily. That and since you have to now verify in some way, specific information can be tied to you such that creating another account to bypass bans is far harder.
I say it for many things I do/use: Gatekeeping and requiring verification is one of the best ways to keep places clean
A romantic partner using the parental controls sounds like something one of my exes would’ve done-
Good thing they're an ex
@Rød sol When you get into a relationship like that it's hard to escape it and they don't show the red flags until after the relationship starts. Plus I was terrified they would cause more harm to me or worse, my family over the breakup
this sounds like it's gonna be an absolute mess 😭
my first time on this channel. i was not expecting “bye-bye, i love you” and a bunch of kisses but i loved it :D
That outro was everything I didn't need
If you're using Discord already you usually don't have these kind of settings. I love unnecessary features!