How to Gain SELF RESPECT

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Self respect increases your attractiveness. Here's how to get it ❤️
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    - "how can I challenge a healthy masculine man?"
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Комментарии • 165

  • @sapna8888
    @sapna8888 Год назад +837

    "The girl you broke yesterday is a woman with guts today"🤞🏻

  • @taicrds7073
    @taicrds7073 Год назад +195

    Wow…
    That part when you said “and when you are people pleaser, trust me… you are not being good for them as you think you are doing” got me and my ego

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +8

      Love your self awareness girl ❤

    • @Hamless_Kiwi
      @Hamless_Kiwi Год назад +5

      It’s so true though right? When we people please it’s not helping others grow either

  • @m0sjen
    @m0sjen Год назад +24

    “Create a voice so powerful it speaks for itself”

  • @BrinAmberlee
    @BrinAmberlee Год назад +102

    I finally had the strength to break up with my boyfriend I had an extremely unhealthy attachment to. He wasn’t respecting me, so in turn I wasn’t respecting myself staying. I finally ended it and I already feel so much more powerful 🙏🏼 I had to stop blocking my blessings 💕

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +11

      I am so proud of you, that can be so tough sometimes. It is only up from here for you ❤

    • @janetteflores2918
      @janetteflores2918 Год назад +7

      i do the same 3 weeks ago, the peace after the breakup is more value than the company of that person

    • @patobarajas7207
      @patobarajas7207 4 месяца назад

      Heyyy, I just broke up with mine. What has this year brought to you? ❤ Sending looovee

  • @Hamless_Kiwi
    @Hamless_Kiwi Год назад +19

    The point you made about how people pleasing causes resentment in the body 💯

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Год назад +14

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RUclips channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 328 subs and almost > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @DarkSugarPod
    @DarkSugarPod Год назад +13

    My people pleasing way to say no is “I’d love to but I can’t” or “I really want to but I cant”

    • @evasabet1018
      @evasabet1018 Год назад +1

      I agree, that is much softer than just saying no

  • @nohemil589
    @nohemil589 Год назад +64

    Your videos have changed my mentality and my relationship, really thankful to have found your channel ✨

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +3

      So happy to hear this love 🥺

  • @maybesonoya
    @maybesonoya Год назад +3

    the comment about increasing the value of your time to increase your self-respect ughfhhdashfh i love being apart of this community, what a gem. that was so helpful to hear

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад

      I love having you here beautiful ♥️

  • @iloveyoukaye
    @iloveyoukaye Год назад +8

    I really need this now... I just ask this to my self few minutes ago...how will I respect myself in the situation I have now.

  • @JasminWilson-xy3lx
    @JasminWilson-xy3lx Год назад +20

    This video has helped me with my healing stage of finally trying to heal from my immature ways and getting over a toxic person I was stuck on for over a YEAR. Thank you

    • @marylynncrosson273
      @marylynncrosson273 Год назад

      Proud of you. I loved him but was afraid to lose him responding back when he criticized me, picked on me and commented on other women to me all the time.

  • @NUM3R1S
    @NUM3R1S Год назад +5

    You're like a breath a magic. 🙏🏻 I wasted like 5 years holding myself back, waiting on a Major who "wasn't ready". Not ready is a no. Took me too long to realize this.

  • @falala177
    @falala177 Год назад +5

    I can really feel the positivity through your voice and gesture I want to cry!! Thank you so much for doing this ❤❤❤

  • @yarabattal7501
    @yarabattal7501 Год назад +21

    Before watching the whole video. I just wanna say that you are helping me so much. Feeling myself more confident, loved and feminine by a lot of people and most importantly even my family are starting to respect me and my boundaries. Thank you thank you thank you ❤

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Aww thank YOU for being here love. I’m happy to help 🥰

  • @maritoretto1492
    @maritoretto1492 Год назад +25

    thank you for your wisdom & all the energy you put into making these videos. greetings from Russia. i love the way you explain feminine energy, as i feel like in my country the concept is very twisted in a patriarchal way. your videos help me understand the possibility of being in your feminine while not being oppressed. all the love🌺🙌🏽

  • @KimberlyBlaz
    @KimberlyBlaz Год назад +11

    you’re so radiant! thank you for sharing your light with us 💛

  • @mindfulpaths101
    @mindfulpaths101 Год назад +12

    You make me feel motivated! I was having such a low depleted energy day and this picked me up! Thank you ❤

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you love! 💗

  • @ravenna7777
    @ravenna7777 Год назад +5

    Im 17 and you literally are my big sister, i learn so much from you thanks a lot❤

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +4

      Aww my sweet girl! So happy to have you here 🥰

  • @Paula-qm3mt
    @Paula-qm3mt 7 месяцев назад +1

    So helpful to hear all of these tips ❤ esspecialy the ones about setting boundaries and saying „no” - i would say, they are lifechanging because i had a therapy, i have a very wise friend, and i have never heard that the people pleasing could be manipulative. As a people pleaser, i found this point of view very unpopular but to the point!
    I am new in the channel, but i will stay for longer ;)

  • @marvimalik304
    @marvimalik304 10 месяцев назад +1

    Omg Alexis…. You are spot-on with the build up of resentment in the body. Letting go and standing in one’s power for me has become a path of trusting my body’s sacred guidance. Society has taught women to devalue their inner wisdom in hustle culture but it is actually about integrating both the masculine and feminine.

  • @aminak3955
    @aminak3955 Год назад +9

    I love your natural glow! Thank you for your amazing videos! ❤

  • @shwetap8428
    @shwetap8428 Год назад +3

    Thanks a lot for posting amazing videos. I suffered a lot in past. Now i want to recreate my life, life of my desires, my dream life.

  • @jarrettthomas4865
    @jarrettthomas4865 Год назад +17

    It’s so hard for me to say no sis 😢 I just don’t want people to be mad or disappointed in me so I always want to please them. Ugh! So this lesson of using soft nos I will definitely try! Thank you so much again for this wonderful lesson! I really needed it! 💕

    • @vikiia
      @vikiia Год назад +3

      if people are mad at you for saying no and saving your time and energy, they neeeed to go. Every open minded person with self respect would also respect your answer. Put yourself first, even if they are mad at you, thats never gonna be your problem, just theirs. Value yourself, its gonna come really helpful one day

  • @YogiLaree
    @YogiLaree Год назад +7

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us. You are such a blessing.

  • @jessicaamezquita
    @jessicaamezquita 11 месяцев назад +1

    I watch your videos every morning while taking care of my skin routine, meaning that I rarely make a comment here. Yet, this video was amazing. I like when you apply real examples. Please, keep explaining it with real situations. It helps a lot ❤❤❤

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  11 месяцев назад

      Aww hello Jessica! I am so happy to have you here. Thank you for the love 🤗♥️

  • @ncamara670
    @ncamara670 Год назад +3

    Love the point you made about nurturing your talent and creating new opportunities. I think traditional route to making money is no longer fit for anyone who really wants to be valued, we need to carve our own ways.

  • @888agatha
    @888agatha Год назад +1

    i’ve been pretty much watching your videos on feminine energy for months, i think i’ve watched half of it, and it’s changing my life tremendously but let me tell you this: this is probably my favorite video of yours about this! omg i have no words to describe the quality of the content of this video. thank you so much alexis!

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Aww my girl thank you SO much for this sweet comment. I am so proud of you for being on your inner work journey and honored to be a part of it ♥️🙏🏽

  • @Chriseanstands
    @Chriseanstands Год назад +1

    My CNA class starts tomorrow I’m gonna listen to this when I wake up in the morning 🥰

  • @vikkipink8
    @vikkipink8 Год назад +2

    Wow you’re literally amazing and so inspiring. BLESSED BY THESE MESSAGES. Thank you sweetheart!

  • @cosmojen
    @cosmojen Год назад +9

    I love your tips and information, it has helped me tremendously in my newly separated journey from my spouse. Rediscovering myself with your divine information has been so amazing ✨ I’m in Vegas too 😉 you have new local supporter 😊 keep shining beautiful !

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Aww hello love! Maybe we will run into eachother some day! So grateful you’re here on this channel ❤

    • @cosmojen
      @cosmojen Год назад

      @@awwlexis most definitely ✨🤗

  • @ainearasvalley2413
    @ainearasvalley2413 Год назад +2

    Finding your channel has been literally a gift for me! I've been making great progress in self confidence, trust and love after years of being in the deepest darkness. Listening to your talks is a beautiful boost. You're energy is a gift. I love you ❤️

  • @Nikky_Wachira
    @Nikky_Wachira Год назад +2

    Full of so much wisdom, thank you for sharing!

  • @melissamorales5063
    @melissamorales5063 Год назад +1

    Exactly! Feel confortable saying no. I will pratice without my head!

  • @MiiiyoK
    @MiiiyoK 7 месяцев назад

    You are such an angel sis, I feel blessed for coming across your channel. May God bless you in all areas of your life sis🦋🤍

  • @Amyglowsup
    @Amyglowsup Год назад +3

    WOW, jam packed with GOLD

  • @user-lisau
    @user-lisau Год назад +1

    Can you do a video about … being depressed and anxious all the time while still trying to build and be feminine.
    Also about social media presence as a feminine women. Is it okay to be ratchet or dance crazy or act drunk in your stories ? And show friends and others that side of you

  • @lovely_bean
    @lovely_bean Год назад +1

    Girl, 100k is coming up! We have to celebrate when it comes 🥳

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Aww my sweet girl! Absolutely 🥰

  • @LuvArsha4eva
    @LuvArsha4eva Год назад +3

    Love the way you speak! ❤️

  • @Jessica-tz5cl
    @Jessica-tz5cl Год назад +1

    I'm so mad and sad. I wish I had your advice as a young adult!! I need to hear all this growing up.. thank you for this

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад

      It is never too late love! We are drawn to certain advice at the time that is perfect for us. There is a reason you are now discovering this. So happy to have you here ♥️

  • @linneaolsson405
    @linneaolsson405 11 месяцев назад +1

    You're amazing! Love you!! You look like and have the essence of goddess Isis!! And she is my favorite energy of all ❤

  • @saracarlson-kringle
    @saracarlson-kringle Год назад +1

    I had a guy at work that wasn't going to take no for an answer, and was starting to make it about him, so I used a line from the movie The Wind and the Lion with Sean Connery who played a Berber Chieftain that didn't 'get into it' with people who weren't his caliber: 'It pleases me not to.' I tell you, that ended that conversation! LOL!

  • @tam_to_evolve
    @tam_to_evolve Год назад +2

    You’re so awesome!! And congratulations on your growth with your channel! I love your beautiful vibrant energy!! 💖💖

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Thank you love! ❤

  • @shaidapg03
    @shaidapg03 Год назад +1

    Thank u for this video Alexis, I really have a hard time saying no , but I will try to stay confident and start setting boundaries

  • @urbbylin
    @urbbylin Год назад +1

    Can we please get an in depth video about how being in your feminene energy can attract money? In the past years I overworked myself and I was only in my masculane energy that not only drained me out but also didn't work (in terms of making money). I am rebuilding my feminene energy and I am satisfied in every aspect of my life exept for money even though I do everything "correct"

  • @law11school11girly
    @law11school11girly 10 месяцев назад

    Love you Alexis you’ve changed my life for the better … I’ve really appreciated your advice during law school ❤❤❤

  • @lanasb4166
    @lanasb4166 Год назад +2

    I needed to hear this today ❤ So empowering.

  • @angelicac92
    @angelicac92 Год назад +4

    I absolutely appreciate you for these tips, they have been life changing ❤

  • @emmssi8714
    @emmssi8714 Год назад +2

    LOVE you’re videos !! I always learn something new and love the energy you radiate :)

  • @halzeyna
    @halzeyna Год назад +5

    Thank you so much 💕

  • @verycherry4459
    @verycherry4459 Год назад +1

    I normally don't have an issue with saying no so much now that I'm older, but now I have a friend who has asked me to be a bridesmaid and we know how emotional women get about that. Yikes. She did not take "no" for an answer the first time she asked me.

  • @VAL2008_
    @VAL2008_ Год назад

    You are so beautiful omg The energy that you radiate is awe-inspiring ✨

  • @KiarA-LA
    @KiarA-LA Месяц назад

    You speak so well!

  • @sikhanyisiwemabhena2996
    @sikhanyisiwemabhena2996 Год назад +1

    I was just compelled to subscribe ❤

  • @jellypush1234
    @jellypush1234 Год назад +2

    Please do a video on victim mindset! Feels like it shows up unconsciously for me a lot

  • @sophiajamula2222
    @sophiajamula2222 Год назад +2

    ❤oof this is a tough one for me! But this is a great lesson! Didn't even realize I have trouble saying no without an explanation...I tried saying it out loud like I was replying to a friend and it felt so unnatural for me. Helped me to realize I have some stuff to work on 😳

    • @ramonaneyrinck2292
      @ramonaneyrinck2292 Год назад

      I collage I learned that No is a complete sentence. This helps me go say no without explanation.

  • @acamist5592
    @acamist5592 Год назад

    Hi awwlexis, I just found your channel. You send very strong positive energies or your feminine, and I am so happy to support you looking at all your wide and white smiles from your good heart. Thank you very much pretty girl.

  • @dynalpb
    @dynalpb Год назад +2

    im 14 learning all the secretzzzzz🤣🤣

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад +1

      Ahh I am SO happy to have you here love. You must have so much self awareness for your age! ♥️

  • @meltherecafe2394
    @meltherecafe2394 3 месяца назад

    Meanwhile me a full grown man carefully taking notes!

  • @amandagarcia9022
    @amandagarcia9022 Год назад +1

    This was such a great breakdown

  • @NimeetaA
    @NimeetaA Год назад +1

    please please please do a video on manifesting money with fem energy.

  • @ketega
    @ketega Год назад

    Your contend, your presentation…just wow!
    New subscribers!

  • @alanikeiser
    @alanikeiser 5 месяцев назад

    19:25 we need more honesty. But we all need to feel more comfortable with honest people

  • @aminata5554
    @aminata5554 Год назад +4

    Your are my favourite 💕 youtube and I love ❤ you
    I love all your videos Thanks 😊 💕

  • @shakoorah1
    @shakoorah1 Год назад +1

    Recently saw you channel and finding your videos helpful.Thank you for this ❤

  • @lilymae1015
    @lilymae1015 Год назад

    I was honest with a long time friend and she just stopped talking to me 🤷🏽‍♀️. I would never tell a friend it is okay to stay in an abusive marriage that will have her and her kids in danger. Oh well. I’ve been free and happy ever since.

  • @cmac6992
    @cmac6992 Год назад

    You do such a grear job. Always a "nugget" or two to take away after listening to you. Will we see you walk the USA stage again at some point?! You would be an amazing Miss representative and title holder.✨️

  • @KiarA-LA
    @KiarA-LA Месяц назад

    You are so gorgeous and i love this color on you! Amazing video

  • @alexusrichardson318
    @alexusrichardson318 Год назад +3

    😂😂😂people don't care about you as much as you think..TOOOO FUNNY! That is soooo true though. People gives 2$HITS about you

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад

      Right. Once I realized this, I stopped caring as much 😂💯

  • @martina4240
    @martina4240 Год назад

    Thank you Liz, for every video, you make me cuestion and realice a lot of things ❤❤

  • @msbored
    @msbored Год назад +1

    Your vid’s are one of my favvvvv

  • @justbelit
    @justbelit Год назад

    yes, you definitely touch on monetary value a lot. However, there are women all over the world who don't have access to the same resources as Americans (where I am, jobs are hard especially for women-working online is a farce to most even if they make little crafts etc to get by) and these women should not feel limited to develop their femenity

  • @Jessicawhite604
    @Jessicawhite604 Год назад

    You are amazing !!! Thank you for the video

  • @Judith.Lifestyle.
    @Judith.Lifestyle. Год назад

    Thank you💕 love your content and your energy

  • @NilgunYetis
    @NilgunYetis Год назад

    THat's really very helpful, eye and soul opening.... you are beautiful creature. bella..

  • @Trulymo
    @Trulymo Год назад

    Good to know woman like this are out there…not all hope is lost

  • @carolinamorales8159
    @carolinamorales8159 Год назад

    Loooooved this video!!! thank you

  • @orianagelsey552
    @orianagelsey552 Год назад

    1/1 related to what she is talking about on her channel, I highly recommend this book - Why man love bitches- sherry argov

  • @zizicario
    @zizicario Год назад

    Amazing content ❤️ love you girl 💖

  • @softrainandroses
    @softrainandroses 3 месяца назад

    Why would it be a good thing to say no without any explanation? I think everyone should explain themselves to a reasonable extent, always. That is how we can understand each other.

  • @rockerchild4
    @rockerchild4 Год назад +1

    What if you become an anxious and overwhelmed person after being married ?

  • @marciapestana3260
    @marciapestana3260 20 дней назад

    I love you girl ❤

  • @lolaxo3925
    @lolaxo3925 Год назад

    I love your videos awwlexis. will you please share your thoughts on 50/50 relationships and how a high value feminine woman should be contributing financially during dating vs relationships

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад

      Thank you love. I discuss this in my next video coming this Sunday during the Q&A ♥️

  • @JoyIsrael-gc1lf
    @JoyIsrael-gc1lf 5 дней назад

    What if a guy approached you and you don't want to feel bad by saying no, how will you say it

  • @channelofhannahhere
    @channelofhannahhere Год назад

    Thank you girl

  • @whoami3021
    @whoami3021 Год назад

    Thank you so much for your words . I would like to know if i am settling for less and how to prevent that.

  • @sy6851
    @sy6851 Год назад +4

    u are magnatic to people

  • @PrettyFemBoss
    @PrettyFemBoss Год назад +1

    Here from Australia

  • @LiileeChriistina
    @LiileeChriistina Год назад

    Great video! How do you get a man to chase you (in his masculine) when you’ve been together over 11 years?

  • @sunnydugar1535
    @sunnydugar1535 Год назад +1

    Who are low quality people?

    • @Desrayyy_
      @Desrayyy_ Год назад +1

      People that drain your energy, always put you down, never believe in you and don’t help you go further in life.

  • @rcz2023
    @rcz2023 Год назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @ray-hj1do
    @ray-hj1do Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @mirheyy
    @mirheyy Год назад +1

    Thanks

  • @lisapearson463
    @lisapearson463 Год назад

    Love all your videos!! Is that a money tree in the back? I have one that someone gifted me but it isn’t near as beautiful. Anything special you do with it to make it thrive?

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад

      Thank you love! No it is not a money tree but that sounds so cool! It’s very low maintenance I water it once a week and give it lots of open windows and sunlight ♥️

  • @Sweeber15
    @Sweeber15 Год назад +1

    How should I handle the situation if someone I love throws a small fit to make me feel guilty for saying no?

    • @Miriamblake
      @Miriamblake Год назад +3

      I wouldn't acknowledge it, he or she just wants a response and is willing to manipulate it out of you if you fold. So respect yourself and them and don't enable that behavior it will get better/ easier over time

  • @user-sp4os2ri3p
    @user-sp4os2ri3p Год назад

    What if you live with your mother-in-law and you can’t really get away from her ?

  • @aaloftsdesign
    @aaloftsdesign Год назад

    And for that, you get a new subscriber 👏🏽❤

  • @nyaaa2344
    @nyaaa2344 Год назад

    you should make a podcast

  • @daniellexoxoxo
    @daniellexoxoxo 11 месяцев назад

    What is actually increasing value of our time??

  • @NehaSingh-br6cc
    @NehaSingh-br6cc Год назад +1

    @awwlexis where can i find the pdf of list of books you have read . Do reply. I am so glad i came across your channel.

    • @awwlexis
      @awwlexis  Год назад

      Hello love! This list of books I am describing in the video is inside my “Master Your Feminine Energy” program found here: www.thefeminineglow.com/courses ♥️

  • @arnsb
    @arnsb Год назад

    Hi, any book recommendations on internal boundaries and ways to set it :)?