Jordan Peterson: How to Gain Self-Respect
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Jordan B Peterson (born June 12, 1962) is a Canadian clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at the University of Toronto.
This is a public speech and discussion from 2017 on postmodernism. Full video quoted under fair use: • Censorship on Campus |...
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Fantastic speech. 54 and still learning as I go.
That's awesome to hear man.
I second what Monsoon117 posted
54 and still a serf, sad!
Brent Eamer. That's great. I'll hope to be open minded enough at that age too.
+Brent , that's how it's done mate :-)
The truth will set you free... but first it may piss you off.
!!!
Exactly. 🦅
That really true!
A trick: watch series on Flixzone. Been using them for watching a lot of movies these days.
@Ezekiel Julius yup, have been watching on flixzone} for years myself :D
I'm so grateful for Dr. Peterson. The truth is so refreshing in the contemporary desert of lies and misdirection. He is fresh spring water and a light in the darkness.
I think he's drinking fresh spring water too, but that's nome of my business.
Is this a satirical comment?
I think this is a meme
Metaphor is a little off
i gained 50XP
Haha fact
Sorry guys. What’s XP?
@@Eternitypraise experience points
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@@Eternitypraise Experience. It's gamer slang.
Taking his advice will elevate your confidence and your life. easier said than done . To actually implement these teachings is the hard part. takes a lot of backbone
baby steps.. crawl is fine as well.
That’s what he’s saying, you’ll get backbone once you start doing it:) just start with telling someone you disagree with him/her. Even if you dont have good arguments yet You’ll feel so proud of yourself.
Sure, it's hard. What matters is doing it anyway. That's the point and it's where self-respect is found.
You can do it!
Soooooo true!!!!!!
Tell the truth
own your truth
Don't be afraid of your truth
Edit: I'm still getting comments after 4 years!?! A lot can happen in 4 years!
Azraelseraphim I like mangoes.
Jacob sometimes it's worth a lot more than your job to stand up for something
most redundant comment of all time
Azraelseraphim There!
Clips on Clips As your comment?
This speech was shaking me, every word burned into my brain like a bullet of pure plausibility and thoughtfulness. I will carry this with me forever.
exactly my thoughts
Sure. quote it 8 days later.
😂😂😂😂
Well said. I've watched more than a few of his speeches at this point and this one felt next level.
the guy stops taking notes halfway through and starts paying attention,
Some people paid ultimate price for speaking truth.
Zuzana Zila and be grateful for it.
High risk, high reward, sugar.
Zuzana Zila
Boy....tell me about it.
but atleast they'll be remembered for it
If you're unwilling to speak the truth because you're afraid you may die, then fair enough. But if the threat of violence is all it takes to silence the truth then we're all fucked. I'm likely to never really be in a situation where the words I say will put me at any real risk, mostly because I don't have a wide enough reaching voice, but also because I don't really know anybody that would attack me for something I say. I couldn't tell you if I would do it or not, I don't want to die so I really don't know what I would do. I'd like to think I'd stand up for what I believe in if push came to shove. It doesn't matter though, it doesn't matter if you wont either. All I'm saying is, if nobody spoke the truth, then everybody suffers.
If you die standing up for what you believe in, trying to make the world a better place, then you're a better person than most. We're all going to die, at least you can use it.
This man is my hero.
Matt Dawson mine too
Also mine
Mine too
I know right
Hey, Add me to the List.
"It is not safe to speak!"
Incredible how Dr. Peterson can cut through all the crap and take you straight to the undeniable truth! Super thankful to the universe for his rise to fame!
People are telling me that Jordan is insane and that I shouldn’t listen to him but I keep seeing videos like this that are insanely full of wisdom.
Only simple minded people think he is actually insane. He is on a different level of intelligence that they cant understand.
Maybe they got triggered by some things he said.
i think people just don’t know how to filter what resonates and leave what doesn’t. when you hear this amount of truth wrapped up in 7 minutes of your life that you are not ready to live up to, it’s easier to label the person insane because then you can discard the whole person and your problem of you having to face the truth they just served gets discarded with it. and that is a dose of truth right there!!! me: 🤓🍿 🎥 watching people not face the truth and praying for grace and courage to face it myself 😂🙏🏽
How articulate is this man. Wow.
Go out there, do things wanna do or say. Live with the consequences rather than regret. Learning is what makes us human being.
God bless this man. He's helping me stand up to myself and the world.
Jordan Peterson for president
reiwell del dude the funny thing is he is Canadian and lives in Canada and secondly this guy has a lot more integrity than trump ARE you BOTHERED bro?
nah prime minister we need him more :P
reiwell del Trump is doing amazing, use your brain. You're a brainwashed sheep.
Haon Nesretep fuck Trump, his followers say he's doing great, his non followers say he isn't
Canada needs him more than the US does. Have you heard Trudeau speak?
I thank God for Prof. Peterson
This video got my whole life together 3 years ago. I listen to it every few months as a reminder. Thank you Jordan.
Being true to yourself by simply speaking the truth and being willing and able to doggedly defend what you say, IS how to retain self respect. To return to the same (and set it in stone internally), is how one can regain self respect once you have thrown it away.
Having Dr. Peterson as a prof has been life-changing. He rose to fame in a time in which the modern world needs people like him the most. I recently wrote a spoken word on my channel with a lot of his teachings and philosophies. I think we need to spread his message as much as we can in order to redirect our collective mindset. Thank you for all you do Dr. Peterson.
An unbelievable man, it's a pleasure to be alive to witness his rise to fame... One of the greatest minds I've ever listened to
Taking responsibility for everything we think, say, and do, and living by our core values are the keys to successful living and being happy 💖🙏
This couldn't have come at a better time. Yesterday I temporarily deactivated my Facebook account because I was soooo sick of being called a Nazi just for saying everyone should, in fact, have free speech. Name calling and straw man arguments galore.
"Blessed are you when people say all kinds of false things against you. For great is your reward in heaven. "
Lmao there is no heaven you nut. We're cells
how do y'all know that?
Tiffany Tapp forgot those worthless rats online, it is the time of feelings not
Facts and common sense.
it doesn't really sound like you're telling the whole story if you only preached free speech and people were calling you a nazi
because evidence exists that we are made of cells but there's no evidence of heaven obviously
You have no idea how reassuring this is to me right now. I've lost a friend to the idea that I have to side with my genetic background instead on myself. I give to you all the thanks I will have to give for this upload!
Cowards and or idiots believe character is defined via biology, rather than biology being defined by character, ones drive, ones desire to adapt and or mature is all that matters, otherwise why have a personality, why have "consciousness" if blood defined all that we were, are and could ever become?
Lin Yen Chin very well said
I remember in school there was a debate regarding nature vs nurture. I always believed nurture had much more influence, but for some reason a lot of people sided with nature. I guess that said a lot about them...
Nurture is an extension of nature, thus the dichotomy was false from the get go, a futile thought experiment practised by morons for many generations...
Brittany Renee, not really, could have been better but thanks little one!
I've been watching Jordan Peterson's lessons and videos for almost 5 years now and the person I was when I first started compared to who I am now are truly worlds apart. I used to have such a hard time communicating what I wanted to. I always had an Idea but I could never articulate that idea or the point behind it. Now, I still struggle, either because I'm not smart or my ideas are very complex, but I've had enough practice to be able to say what I want to and to focus on the big picture and the main point at hand. I owe a great deal to Jordan Peterson, not just for helping me break out of that shell, but in a lot of aspects in my life as well. Thank you Dr. Peterson.
Great advice for anyone of any age from Dr.Peterson. We must stand up for something or fall for ANYTHING! Everyone of us will have critics. It goes with being alive and standing up for the truth. I wish all college campuses would invite this man to speak.
"The enemy are nothing but a bunch of gnats. Speak the truth and they'll go away." True but how you speak the truth is important too.
Now I understand why I always commented and still comment so much on the internet, every day 2-5 comments with my own opinion about something. I see sometimes my old comments and I see how I developed since then. I was always afraid of writing sth stupid, but the curiosity about knowing if I'm right or wrong was to strong and now thanks to Mr. Peterson I'm happy it went this way. It could be good to use this rule also in my real life. I do it sometimes but mostly I lose because I just try to find the truth and want to think about different things for a bit longer to find a right argument. For an argument it takes mostly too long. But at least I learn something.
Your wrong on this…
@@evernew23 how?
I was here for this and actually got to meet him shortly after this. It was interesting to see him get really heated over the current state of things here in Canada and political culture.
I can’t begin to describe how inspirational this man is to me. Thank you
This man helps me appreciate and grow my self respect! I love his thinking!
As a person who is always self critical about myself and afraid to speak my my mind this video has made me realize to give zero fucks about how people may react to what I say and just have an opinion so thanks!
This was the most powerful rant I may have ever seen on RUclips. Holy. Fucking. Shit. It's like Bill Hicks without the dick jokes.
I therapied myself and i hit a wall on "why dont i respect myself"? So when i found this video i realized i was a pathological liar hence no one respects me. I tried a full day without lying and that was a very hard day to get through. Now, not lying is really changing in my life. When u dont lie you dont make fake promises. If u do make promises u follow it to the end. That's what truth does!
I really admire his strength to be speak his truths. He is being 100% authentic. I am striving to be 100% authentic.
Jordan Peterson stated, "...sharpen yourself up. The enemy is like a cloud - they're a cloud of gnats; they are only courageous in groups. They're only courageous in mobs. If you stand your ground and don't apologize and articulate things properly, they'll disperse around you like they're not even there. So, most of it's illusion, so don't be... be afraid, but be afraid of the right thing. And the right thing you should be afraid of is not saying what you say cause that's the same as not being. And here you are, suffering away. You might as well BE at the same time because at least there is something to you, so...".
Thank you for your authenticity, Jordan Peterson. Your words help to give me the strength to strive to be 100% authentic!!!
The fact that I get to hear this man speak and hear his lectures for free from thousands of miles away is astounding
Lose the losers and negative people in your life. Surround yourself with good, solid ppl who want your happiness...
'The enemy is like a cloud of gnats'
Wow.😊
Jordan passionately tells us to express truth. The most powerful way to do this is to show how we live right.
Hearing this as an agreeable introvert, I'm really determined now to be braver and stand up for my truths and beliefs. I'm going to expect criticism of my speech, but I'll keep an open mind, accommodate, and adjust. I urge everyone else like me to do the same, this I believe is the nature of wisdom and really the only way of becoming a wise and meaningful individual.
Did you make any changes? How did it work out for you?
He probably didn't make any changes.
😂
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This is maybe the best 6 minutes and 52 seconds there is to see on RUclips. Thank you for sharing this.
This man is one of the very few popular intellectuals that I know of who has some balls. I for one can respect that.
The way he end his epics speeches in a shy: "So..." and a headnod always cracks me up a bit. Love him!
I like how he was really passionate about this topic and I can sense his sigh of relief at the end with the drink of watet
im 38 now,for past 6months ive been listening to this guy and ive been applying all his advices,and ive grown&still growing&transforming very amazing.i wish i knew and watched his videos 10years ago,,,,amazing guy
Omg i just had this talk with my daughter about speaking truth regardless and taking responsibility for yourself
Whenever Prof. Jordan Peterson speaks, my life levels up a few notches. I hope yours as well.
This brought tears. So much truth in what he says.
It's amazing when you look back to the times you told the truth and how you felt, you'll find the outcome is good or at least acceptable, it's the fact that a lot of us find it very hard to say the truth so the way we say it is usually the problem, when you go through some experiences you learn to tell the truth easily without holding a lot and it will show you a lot about your own little world you live in, that time you feel something uncomfortable or missing from your life it's most probably something about the truthful part of your life.
of course the first step is to be truthful to yourself
Most of the time when I tell the truth it leads to an arguement
We are all alone, born alone, die alone, and - in spite of True Romance magazines - we shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do not say lonely - at least, not all the time - but essentially, and finally, alone. This is what makes your self-respect so important, and I don't see how you can respect yourself if you must look in the hearts and minds of others for your happiness.
Nihilism has never made me lazy or depressed. I do agree that life is always about picking your poison and choosing the lesser evil.
The world needs more people like JB.It is unbelievable how this man gets his point across in a highly intellectual way, yet as simple to understand as 1, 2, 3. Thanks for a great video.
Key point right at the start: I was teaching a church class of 16 yr. old boys last year, and I asked them if they were free to do anything they wanted. Of course they were not free to do hardly anything, according to their responses. I countered that everything they do is a product of freedom. Their concept of freedom was bound up with the consequences of their actions, and they had difficulty separating the free act from the consequences of the act. For them, freedom meant being able to make decisions without consequences. How vapid! Would you honestly want to make decisions/do things that were most rewarding to you when nothing resulted? Wow; I would feel as if I had disappeared, or as if I was a spirit floating around in the world without ever touching the world. I asked them what kept them from walking out the door of the classroom and never again seeing their families. The consequences of the action were what kept them from walking out. Yet they had no idea what the consequences of the action would be, or could be. I told them about my grandfather and my father-in-law. My grandfather left a stable home at age 14, became a cabin boy on a triple-masted schooner, joined the British army in South Africa during the Boer War, worked in oil fields in California and Texas, and owned his own muffler factory in East Texas. My father-in-law left a stable home at 14, worked on the King Ranch in Texas, as well as on a shrimp boat, and joined the Army around 1932. He was a Master Sergeant when his Company landed on Omaha Beach on D-Day, and he was in charge of that Company before they got to the beach, after a shell hit the landing craft, killing both of the officers aboard. He waded ashore and was one of 3 of those 72 who was still around at the end of the war, as part of Patton's infantry. He fought again in Korea, and retired from the Army. Those were consequential lives. Throughout all of history, every single person has been free to do whatever he willed to do; the only thing that prevents enacting that free will is the fear of the unknowable consequences.
Truth can be relative... Or not. Pain and suffering on the other hand is many people frozen,standing, walking,or running from or to "truth" depending what side of "truth" You relate to that day. Thank God for the Good Samaritan.
Being Quiet Is The Most Self Respect You Can Ever Have I Hate Talking And Talkers
Peterson and Sam Harris both strongly believe that the way to self-respect is through the truth. IE - Don't lie or deceive people and you'll have self-respect.
Jim Beam well it's pretty obvious, how can you respect someone who can't own up to himself, especially if that person is you.
I remember Sam Harris being totally wrong about Islam. I don't understand why someone tries to teach the world about something they just took a shallow look
Beiskraft Whar do you mean “totally wrong”?
Beiskraft I’m interested to know what you mean about Sam Harris and Islam. He spent a very long time working with Maajid Newaz writing their book. Newaz has a thorough a deep lifetimes knowledge of Islam, for better & worse. I’m not sure why you believe Harris’s knowledge is shallow. May I ask, are you a Muslim? What don’t you agree with? Maybe it’s your knowledge of what Harris truly has to say that’s shallow...
Beiskraft Happy New Year! I know that Islam doesn’t believe the crucifixion (like many) but I’d never heard Sam say that about the virgin birth. Don’t you accept that the specific details of the Abrahamic religions (particularly as an atheist) aren’t all that relevant to his overall opinions on Islam & it’s effects upon the West in the current political atmosphere? Having said that I don’t know why he would even state the specifics...
Jordan is one of my new favorite people !
My momma told me when I was a boy "Speak the truth and speak it ever cause it what it will because those who hide the wrong they've done does the wrong thing still"
Basically don't lie and don't get into a position where you have to lie
Every second of this video I have spent with an hour worth of attention.
The words he had spoken are so full of meaning. Truthful, insightful.
So…412 hours of attention? That’s 17 days.
Love the reaction of guy to the left at 2:28. Shocked by the raw truth! Jordan lives as he preaches.
“It is not safe to speak and it never will be. But it’s even less safe to not speak”
The internet is scary. His first few sentences are concepts I’ve just come to understand in the last few days after about 4 years of existential confusion, word for word, about how the nihilistic idea that nothing matters is paradoxically the thing that grants you freedom, and the absurdity of life. Been writing these things in my notes. Now I get this recommended to me, such a complex concept that’s taken me years of turmoil, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts and dread to realize and accept, yet out of the infinite content of RUclips alone, it appears first in my feed. I know you’re watching.
Thinking is a dangerous thing in itself, but not thinking is way more dangerous - Hannah Arendt
I’m going to do this at work. I’m going to tell people what I think and feel directly. If awkwardness pursues, let it come! I’m tired of being a slave to myself. I want to be in the here and now.
I would probably be a nobody without having learned from Jordan Peterson. I see no one else like him, nothing even close.
No wonder all of his videos go viral. Nothing is more popular than a genuine person
Self respect comes from making correct decisions in life, rather than succumbing to our base desires... Well, not succumbing very often.
LucVNO exactly why I can't respect myself
Cause you do nothing to respect yourself
Use the power of your base desires and transform that power into something else.
Easy example, if you love women, paint one.
Yes, but do you always know what is the correct decision?
"Don't be thinkin' yer alown."
Accent really came through with that one and it was cute.
The truth will truly set you free. Tell the truth, but do it diplomatically without disrespecting others. At the end of the day, its good to flow with the society, while staying true to yourself. Find the balance. Yin-yang ☯️
Silence means death.
I recognized this myself about a few months ago and I've leveled up on simple terms I spoke what I believed is truth and I was wrong alot but now I'm smarter better and more experienced I've grown as a person and a young man Jordan is a God among men and knows everything for whatever reason but it's amazing
Just imagine how slander can destroy someone. Or how praise can elevate and create opportunities
I do agree with Dr.peterson, I feel like everywhere I go what I find is fake, and I also feel like hating myself since I cannot say what I think is the truth and keep on bcm the fool. And this is open my eyes.
Thanks doc
A courageous man of integrity.
I saw this speech at the start of 2019. Unfortunately I didn`t remember the full context, but tried to reminisce what he was teaching and preaching. The pathalogical side of me was present in my life more woefully at that time, and what I remembered him talking about was that "nothing you do matters" "you are a speck of dust" and "what difference does it have what I say and do?". As spoked, it sounded terrifically convenient and easy-going. A global, full pictured truth about being another flawed individual. A kind of escape land from day-to-day stupdidity and hardship. So, for a long time I have been on a nihilistic, half-brained path, not doing my thinking right. Now I have learned the darkness of that fram of mind. I became the more ugly and weak version of my self, even if I were weaker before, nevertheless I chose to weaken my stronger sense of self. So yes, I have not lived up to my usual high moral standard, because I wanted a free ticket to the pleasent in life. Living with meaning is not something to be ambivalent about. The shame and guilt caused by poor judgment may eventually harm every aspect of your life with how you present yourself and behave. Plus the embarrement and consequence of being less than what you already are and have been. I think I took myself and my own initial goodness for granted beforehand, and therefore saw the new persepctive as somewhat vaulable of the other perspectives it presented me. As in; as if I was looking for reasoning to continue or not continue. The final conclusion of my odd teenage angst is; Either you do what you know is for the better and good of humankind and the future, or you become self-obsessed and righteous about your pathology and nihilsm.
Prof Jordan Peterson is an influential and powerful speaker, I am looking forward to his talk with Robert Greene that shall be amazing!
I have to listen to this everyday
Good I stood up for myself at my job thought I was losing it but it sounds like I did the right thing it felt like I did the right thing respect yourself first no matter what the consequences my be✌🏾
This man is a genius and every word is a lesson we all need to fight are demons
I can listen to this man all day.
I had this EXACT insight finally break through my barriers a few months ago after stuffing it down ever since childhood
This is exactly what’s needed in today’s society
This is very real to me. The workplace is where 'surfs' risk getting knocked around if they do not speak their truth.
Me after watching this video
On RUclips search bar:
"who the heck is Jordan Peterson"
Bravo 🙌🙌🙌 6 minutes of listening to him and I'm fucking pumped!!! Thank you sir for your honesty and your Perseverance
so much admiration for this man
I'm going to watch this every morning until I no longer hesitate to speak the truth whatsoever.
I knew this old man maybe 2 weeks ago and I really like the things he talks, I really like the passion he puts in his speechs, even I'm learning english with his videos. :D!
"Choose your authentic suffering!" M.Scott Peck
Such a great guy! Speaks with such passion. I can relate to so many of his points - I’ve just not always been consciously aware of them.
You’re on another level when the rest of the panel taking notes on you.
Why does it look like Peterson is lecturing his therapists while he's taking notes 😂
I wonder if this is why he enjoys talking to comedians so much. Because a comedian's job in some sense is to tell the truth as they understand it, no matter what. Reminds me of Dave Chappelle's Mark Twain award "we just want to be understood"
That men is a onemen-army, unbelievable, he is changing the world, almost on his own.
You need to embrace the truth no matter how much it hurts you.
Felt like he was speaking directly to me. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
" Nothing brings a better world into being than the stated Truth. Best part starts at 2:00 minutes and continues to 2:18. Just listen to that and everything else is self evident.
Powerfully brillant and crystal clear. Thank you.
Peterson is like the Bible. Every time I listen to him speak I learn something new and have new revelations, even though I've heard him say the same thing.
Respect is such an important thing to have
Hard choices , easy life. Easy choices, hard life. I’m new to Peterson but there’s some rocking to the core going on that I don’t get with Hitch, Harris, et al.