HIS TRUST ISSUES, OUR ANNIVERSARY, AND RELATIONSHIP ADVICE! Q&A

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024

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  • @ellianamaselli7267
    @ellianamaselli7267 4 года назад +2209

    Apologizing isn’t always about being right or wrong. It’s about respecting the other person and being aware of when you’ve let your anger/irritation get out of hand.

  • @susanwilkerson7220
    @susanwilkerson7220 4 года назад +1307

    I married at 20, celebrating 46 years of marriage next year. Marriage is work, not easy sometimes, but you need to push through those times.

    • @chickenthotpie765
      @chickenthotpie765 4 года назад +27

      Susan wilkerson ahhhh that’s so cute!! Congrats!!

    • @dorainevalentine7403
      @dorainevalentine7403 4 года назад +13

      Omg that's awesome!!! Congrats when it comes. You are definitely an inspiration.

    • @luiscaballa3075
      @luiscaballa3075 4 года назад +23

      Wow 46 years congratulations. It's good to see people staying together this long, nowadays young couples give up on their relationship to easy sometimes imo

    • @susanwilkerson7220
      @susanwilkerson7220 4 года назад +10

      Luiz Caballa I forgot to say we have also worked together for over 39 years.

    • @feliciasatriyanto6233
      @feliciasatriyanto6233 4 года назад +14

      i just engaged yesterday at my 22. wish i could be like you! thanks for sharing❤️

  • @lisali303
    @lisali303 4 года назад +950

    Milo's so calm. he really knows how to behave when jess and gabe are talking.

  • @chris4fit405
    @chris4fit405 4 года назад +2699

    I like how every girl in the comment section asking for a gabe but forget they need to be a jess first...

    • @Outcaaast
      @Outcaaast 4 года назад +323

      and a personal relationship with Christ above all

    • @prachikanjwani
      @prachikanjwani 4 года назад +14

      aptly said

    • @diede6935
      @diede6935 4 года назад +6

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nobodytoyou9965
      @nobodytoyou9965 4 года назад +36

      I was just thinking this and then my eyes drift to jess and i realize where all the good men have gone😂😂💔

    • @kaecee3843
      @kaecee3843 4 года назад +4

      💯💯💯

  • @xtaylorswiftx23
    @xtaylorswiftx23 4 года назад +636

    Milo in this video cuddling with Jess is everything

  • @ryanhimes3449
    @ryanhimes3449 4 года назад +372

    When approaching relationships, you gotta have low expectations, and high standards for the other person. Know your worth, and know what you want from the other person, while still understanding that we are all fallible, and won't always fulfill each others expectations, in every situation. And know that you can't ever settle when it comes to the standards you hold people to. You deserve their respect, effort, unconditional love, and nothing less 💛

    • @veganvintagegeek935
      @veganvintagegeek935 4 года назад +4

      Amen Ryan!

    • @christianaw2385
      @christianaw2385 4 года назад +9

      I haven’t heard better wording for that!

    • @hedfan
      @hedfan 4 года назад

      I couldn't disagree more- there's a difference between self- worth and putting the onus on the other person to raise to your standards. If you're not compatible in terms of values and standards, then the relationship must remain superficial. When you find you life partner seeing your own fallibility and wanting to improve, while being prepared to forgive, is a much healthier recipe for a meaningful relationship.

  • @emilylisaaustin7425
    @emilylisaaustin7425 4 года назад +807

    There's a fine line between being controlling and asking for the truth. There's also a fine line between seeing signs of unfaithfullness and becoming paranoid. A lot of the times we are blinded from the truth because we assume our partner will be honest with us, just as we are with them. I spent 2 years in a relationship believing I was the crazy one, that I was being paranoid, because that's all I was told. The toxic person that is being unfaithful will do anything to hide their tracks, even if it means YOU feeling guilty questioning them. Relationships are one of the hardest things in the world, but you need to find the person that wants to try just as hard as you to make each other happy. You shouldn't be fighting over who's turn it is to do this or that, you should we working together, everyday.

    • @MeOnionz
      @MeOnionz 4 года назад +4

      so true

    • @adrianafaridz441
      @adrianafaridz441 4 года назад +44

      There's also a fine line in Harry Styles' new album. Check it out! ;)

    • @evahamernikova3334
      @evahamernikova3334 4 года назад +13

      stream fine line by harry styles

    • @NatalieWall
      @NatalieWall 4 года назад +2

      adriana faridz I was about to say that hahaha

    • @ericavelazquez7136
      @ericavelazquez7136 4 года назад +3

      Emily Lisa Austin amen!!!

  • @whitneesand2578
    @whitneesand2578 4 года назад +256

    To the people saying how they seem really off in this video:
    That’s the reality of marriage. Sometimes things are rough and don’t seem to be going how you’d like. Based on how they’ve been in the past and the kind of people they are, they’re most likely working through it on their own, whatever it is. They said it in this video, they’re in it for the long haul, no matter what. And more than that, they do a good job of keeping God at the center of their marriage, and God will use whatever they’re going through to ultimately make their relationship stronger in the end. That’s the beauty of marriage, how God intends it. Two broken people go into it with their own baggage and pain, but through years of God molding and refining, they come through it stronger, with God at the center, for life. A cord of three strands is not easily broken.

  • @carlavillegas3714
    @carlavillegas3714 4 года назад +453

    i can’t get over how cute milo is 😭 stared at him the whole time

  • @moriahgraves7633
    @moriahgraves7633 4 года назад +78

    ok everyone saying they’re off and maybe they aren’t compatible anymore, that’s not how marriage should work. these are incredible people to made a commitment to each other and things might be tough right now but they don’t need to see those comments. jess and gabe if you see this, you guys are amazing. praying for you ❤️

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon1515 4 года назад +327

    I love what Gabriel said about they will be somebody who will value your feelings, your self worth because there’s people who will take advantage and betrayed you, that’s why I alway stay true to myself and I believe the right person will treat me better

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад +1

      Melissa Calderon I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

    • @karrahguthrie6627
      @karrahguthrie6627 4 года назад

      I needed to hear this. This is so true. Thank u😭

  • @jazs5909
    @jazs5909 4 года назад +791

    Am I the only one who loves these kind of sit down and talk videos? I know that Gabe talks a lot with detail but I actually really like that cuz it gets deep. I personally also talk forever rather than get to the point. Haha anyways great video. Love long q&a videos about marriage and advice

  • @toneyamoat
    @toneyamoat 4 года назад +156

    Can we just acknowledge how Milo is so adorably cuddled up into Jess and how cute and relaxed he looks? 😍🐶

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад

      Toneya Moat I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

  • @kaitlingrace6486
    @kaitlingrace6486 4 года назад +228

    I love Gabe’s in depth answers! Doesn’t matter if you talk a lot. I will take depth over surface any day! If he feels bad about doing it he will lose that part of him and he shouldn’t!

    • @ThelauraluciaR
      @ThelauraluciaR 4 года назад +2

      Kaitlin Grace I agree!

    • @GrinseKatze29
      @GrinseKatze29 4 года назад +2

      I don't mind his depth answers. But it seems like he likes to hear himself talk way to much. Jess cannot answer without being in a hurry because he will interrupt her right away.

    • @kaitlingrace6486
      @kaitlingrace6486 4 года назад +5

      brownie. I can see more of that possibly in their older videos but I think he is just naturally more extroverted and inclined to talk where Jess (although has become much more extroverted over time) is naturally more introverted and doesn’t love giving longer explanations. It’s not that one is better than the other.
      I personally am more like Gabe and have felt guilty when people tell me when I am explaining something more in depth. I could see that same thing towards the end and I would hate for him to not be himself in front of the camera even if the video is a couple minutes longer. I love them both and have watched their videos for years now! Just food for thought...

    • @GrinseKatze29
      @GrinseKatze29 4 года назад

      @@kaitlingrace6486 I understand where you're coming from! But as an introvert myself I wouldn't say I am someone who talks less or tend to give shorter answers than an extroverted person. Honestly I love going into depth and could talk for hours when I am comfortable with someone. And I get the vibe that Jess is like that too and would love to talk more in their videos but with Gabe she can't because he is the one always talking for hours and going into depth and the videos would take way too long. (In her videos she seems way more comfortable talking) And don't get me wrong I like Gabe and his answers are interesting! But I would love to hear Jess's side too! I have someone in my family who reminds me of Gabe and it can get a little frustrating sometimes.

  • @shellylynn8874
    @shellylynn8874 4 года назад +73

    I know Jess doesn’t like when you talk really long but I think it’s good! You really dive it and take your time with the answer. Take as long as you like Gabe. Your insight on work, marriage, etc is always super helpful to me and my husband.

  • @tiffyywiffyy
    @tiffyywiffyy 4 года назад +103

    I’ve been reading through the comments about how they seem off in this video, maybe they’re going through a rough patch and people saying how they’re not compatible or Jess is too controlling. Marriage is not always a smooth road, there is going to be rough patches and disagreements and tension. Like every other thing in life, you work through it. That’s probably what they are doing now. We can’t expect them to fake it and be happy all the time. I think they are speaking from their heart in this video even if they were in a bad place here. But after their anniversary trip and their month of travelling, having tome for just them, I think they worked through whatever was going on. And I also think they’re working on any problems (Jess being more independent in America, Gabe working on his trust issues, etc). Realistically, they show themselves as a “real” married couple that doesn’t fake the happiness all the time.

  • @angelakwon3996
    @angelakwon3996 4 года назад +66

    I love Gabe's answers! They're so in depth and explained in such a detailed way where we understand where you're coming from :) so sweet

  • @preciousantonette9807
    @preciousantonette9807 4 года назад +65

    This one's really deep. I could really say that they've matured over time. Before, they just sounded like me or maybe an older bro and sis, now they sounded like parents trying to guide my path with Jesus. I love it. God bless, Jess and Gabe! God bless, Conteam.

  • @sharoncallista8438
    @sharoncallista8438 4 года назад +2852

    gabe: “mii, do you wanna say hi to everyone?”
    gabe: “ohh but he’s cuddling mommy, I’ll cuddle mommy while mommy cuddle with you.”
    WHERE. CAN. I. FIND. ANOTHER. GABRIEL.
    1:28 🥰✨

    • @jaymeestahl
      @jaymeestahl 4 года назад +6

      sharon callista i’d like to know that too.😂

    • @saffron4851
      @saffron4851 4 года назад +8

      Heaven 😂

    • @zahrahassan6937
      @zahrahassan6937 4 года назад +5

      sharon callista plz find another one for me too 😭😭

    • @gabejamie4996
      @gabejamie4996 4 года назад +1

      Well..

    • @Gordoxgrey
      @Gordoxgrey 4 года назад +10

      Probably in the friendzone XD

  • @sydneysurie1517
    @sydneysurie1517 4 года назад +13

    i once saw this quote and it relates to the arguement/disagreement section of this video. “saying sorry doesn’t mean your wrong and the other person is right, it just means you value your relationship more then your ego” i think this quote is so true

  • @cojierealista3752
    @cojierealista3752 4 года назад +33

    When Gabe said “the base of our lives is in Jesus...” ♥️

  • @gabejamie4996
    @gabejamie4996 4 года назад +203

    Communication is essential!!

  • @account10558
    @account10558 4 года назад +1713

    I miss the vlogs too like the old times u should do them more! Like less planned ones and more just days in your life.
    Edit: And the old sayings like the anyways, I am the one the one song, kerm on and sweet! lol

    • @elizabethraber4822
      @elizabethraber4822 4 года назад +9

      YES!!

    • @xynahso2345
      @xynahso2345 4 года назад +4

      TRUEEE!

    • @vaishrags
      @vaishrags 4 года назад +39

      They are legit in their anniversary month. They have a lot planned and have to travel and compensate for 2 years of traveling to Australia... They have reasons for having planned vlogs.. It will all fall into place eventually... Just take their amazing spirit in guys

    • @mahadewiwidyajayanti4804
      @mahadewiwidyajayanti4804 4 года назад +1

      exactly

    • @chickenthotpie765
      @chickenthotpie765 4 года назад +13

      Awesomeness with the “anyways” repeats, more “kerm erns” and “I AM THE ONE THE ONE YES I DONT NEED A GUN” 😂😂😂

  • @irisamaya9088
    @irisamaya9088 4 года назад +594

    When Jess also uploaded but you have to choose between this and that one.

    • @account10558
      @account10558 4 года назад +3

      😂👌🏻

    • @tana8786
      @tana8786 4 года назад +4

      The struggle is real man

    • @katevist8249
      @katevist8249 4 года назад +2

      that's why, I just watched both)))

  • @donnaa8004
    @donnaa8004 4 года назад +28

    Their energy always gives me so much love... because you can see how they adore each other and how they also gave milo so much love in this video... tbh even when i didn’t watch some videos at the exact time they uploaded it and then i rewatch them i never get bored or don’t feel good after watching them... you can tell how pure their souls are ❤️

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад

      Donna P I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

  • @FabiolaSuarez
    @FabiolaSuarez 4 года назад +85

    Who else thinks their relationship is absolutely inspiring?! It’s like they make you want to become a better person!

  • @sorine1746
    @sorine1746 4 года назад +27

    The way Jess started aggressively petting milo when Gabe was talking about his past relationship lol, I felt that

  • @jennyswagly
    @jennyswagly 4 года назад +37

    I feel like Gabe is the kind of person that has deep thoughts but putting them into words is hard. Totally understand 💭😍

  • @madilainebillings2411
    @madilainebillings2411 4 года назад +6

    Jess has so much patience with how much Gabe talks. You can tell how meaningful their relationship is.

  • @vicachekhovskiy
    @vicachekhovskiy 4 года назад +9

    I love how they appreciate each other and how much respect they have for each other. That is exactly what a Godly relationship looks like 🤍

  • @sugarcoats9861
    @sugarcoats9861 4 года назад +122

    I hate how jess is starting to get lot of hate! please be kind ur words can be really hurtful❤️

    • @sugarcoats9861
      @sugarcoats9861 4 года назад +2

      @Planet Claire Has Big Hair I know how hate can effect the person that's why I felt the need to comment something. And by saying "I HATE" I absolutely didn't mean it lol it's like as if I don't like it😊

    • @sugarcoats9861
      @sugarcoats9861 4 года назад

      @jonathan yeah maybe not that much of hate but she still got some under this video so

    • @zaiii_
      @zaiii_ 4 года назад +1

      asshepleases yeaaa it makes me so sad

    • @Japanerin_in_Oesterreich
      @Japanerin_in_Oesterreich 4 года назад

      I haven’t seen any hate on her.. she’s sooo adorable

    • @sugarcoats9861
      @sugarcoats9861 4 года назад

      @@Japanerin_in_Oesterreich hi omg I remember back then some people were hating. yes she is

  • @smelleigh001
    @smelleigh001 4 года назад +172

    Why does Jess always look so good without doing anything? Like what the heck!?
    And Gabe too the heck!?
    Find a better couple than them. I’m waiting.
    Love you both🥰
    Much love from Germany🥰

    • @paromitaroy9488
      @paromitaroy9488 4 года назад +6

      Jess makeup everyday...it's okhay routine for her ...though she is naturally beautiful....and her eyelashes are extension ....and worth it it makes her pretty

    • @tish307
      @tish307 4 года назад +23

      she wears a shit ton of makeup, does her hair, and does spray tans lol its not "without doing anything"

    • @rockkkkkification
      @rockkkkkification 4 года назад +6

      @@tish307 she's drop dead gorgeous without it too . Suck it up

    • @tish307
      @tish307 4 года назад +13

      @@rockkkkkification dude i was letting her know that jess puts shit ton of work into how she looks, she doesn't wake up looking the way she does in this video, it messes with young girls who think its natural and they set unrealistic standards for themselves.

    • @rockkkkkification
      @rockkkkkification 4 года назад +3

      @@tish307 everyone knows she dresses up for the vedios . I don't know how you were trying to make sure girls don't feel insecure. You implied that jess needs to do these things do look pretty. We don't need to put a girl down to encourage another. Every girl is just as beautiful with or without makeup.

  • @meganengelbrecht1955
    @meganengelbrecht1955 4 года назад +21

    Watching this and realizing I need to stop changing myself so people would except me💔 you guys are such an inspiration for me.

    • @veganvintagegeek935
      @veganvintagegeek935 4 года назад +1

      I use to do this all the time. When I was younger, I'm 44 years old now.
      I use to get so nervous and feel like I over shared and over exposed my personality, and now that person will no longer want to hang with me.
      The older I got I found that not to be the case. I like things that I like and have hobbies that no one I know likes.
      Which means I spend a lot of time solo which is 100% okay. I use to get so sad that there was no one who wanted to come and hang with me and check out stuff I liked doing.
      I waisted most of my 20s waiting around and praying for a BFF.
      Then one day a music group I liked when I was a teenager got back together and it made me determined to actually travel and go to their events no matter what.
      Plus it made me become more mature too. I got my first ever debt card, smart phone, and lap top in my 30s. Its like a whole new world opened up for me and I could finally become a part of it.
      That was when I realized I no longer have to sit around and wait to go and do things that I want to do. And I'm so much more happier in my life.
      And if no one wants to hang with me then they are the ones missing out not me.
      When people ask me what I got up to, and when I tell them they are telling me how great it is that I am getting out there and having fun. And one lady said she liked that about me.😁
      You can check out some of the things I get up to over on my youtube channel.

  • @22ilovenathan
    @22ilovenathan 4 года назад +68

    The one thing I want before I get engaged is to have my finances in order and most of my debt paid off bc it’s not my partners debt but mine. I would never burden him with that. My goal for 2020 is to get 90 percent of my debt paid off!

    • @skylarvaldes1087
      @skylarvaldes1087 4 года назад +1

      Good luck

    • @angeleyesEY
      @angeleyesEY 4 года назад +1

      Good luck with that !

    • @hannahputnam8373
      @hannahputnam8373 4 года назад

      i hope your goal is reached !!

    • @phyllisqua-enoo9289
      @phyllisqua-enoo9289 4 года назад

      Good luck I hope you achieve this goal

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад +1

      Megan I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

  • @halfpintarchuletta17
    @halfpintarchuletta17 4 года назад +53

    Every woman deserves a Gabe. You are so lucky jess😭❤️

    • @alyssacascos8665
      @alyssacascos8665 4 года назад

      Yes Alyssa! So true!❤❤❤

    • @sovietsandvich8443
      @sovietsandvich8443 4 года назад

      She deserves Gabe because she is feminine and waited until marriage.

    • @phoeb7538
      @phoeb7538 4 года назад +1

      Soviet Plays Games Lmao what

    • @victoriaumukoro116
      @victoriaumukoro116 4 года назад

      @@sovietsandvich8443 you sure? So if I wait I will also have a man like him

    • @sovietsandvich8443
      @sovietsandvich8443 4 года назад

      Victoria Umukoro you’d have a better chance than a girl who’s been with 100 dudes.

  • @luz156
    @luz156 4 года назад +10

    The disagreements question really is something I was shocked to hear because I feel like not a lot of people think that way. Gabriel I admire your position on relationships. Totally agree!

  • @tehillahhancke5402
    @tehillahhancke5402 4 года назад +8

    If you guys are really going through a hard time then just think about how the Lord has blessed you and think about how far he has gotten you and how far he will bring you and Jess you are just so drop dead gorgeous

  • @doda-os3bp
    @doda-os3bp 4 года назад +11

    People saying they look off I don't think so, they're just not in the honeymoon stage anymore, married life is like this and now they're in it for the long haul so they gotta make it work by compromising more and that's totally normal so calm down everyone

  • @kaarimusicmakeup5287
    @kaarimusicmakeup5287 4 года назад +3

    I appreciate your raw and real thoughts on how nobody is perfect. I was married for less than 4 years, and I carry a lot of pain and regret for my choices back then. If anyone is reading this, please go into a serious relationship with your eyes and heart open to receive inspiration and guidance from God. Look for the feeling of peace among all your other feelings. The evil side opposing Jesus wants to see couples fail. So, in order to hopefully avoid a painful marriage and divorce like I had, please be as wise and cautious as you can be. Look to other couples like this as inspiration. Bless us all for being human, doing our best, and never giving up on faith.

  • @unicornss1444
    @unicornss1444 4 года назад +5

    I just went through a shitty break up with a guy who always made me feel insecure and needy. It's been so tough getting through it but I'm getting there and I just want to say seeing the love you two have for each other and that you SHOULD expect your partner to care and be there for you shows me that true love really does exist :) and I'll find it. That I shouldn't be insecure to share my thoughts, feelings and worries.

  • @angelicab9681
    @angelicab9681 4 года назад +41

    It’s so interesting to watch you both develop together as a married couple

  • @makaylahgrigg7972
    @makaylahgrigg7972 4 года назад +73

    Gab is literally the perfect example of how a man should treat a woman. And that you should never lower you standards for anyone.

    • @melissacalderon1515
      @melissacalderon1515 4 года назад +5

      Makaylah Grigg I agree, Gabriel is a gentlemen that respects women feelings, it’s hard to find men like that these days, it sucks but is not impossible especially if your waiting for God’s best 🙏🏼

  • @Jenn_E_B
    @Jenn_E_B 4 года назад +13

    I honestly love that Gabe goes so in depth about all the questions because I’m the same way!! 😊 I would love to hear Jess go more in depth too. I really enjoy hearing both of your thoughts on our questions!! 💕

  • @christyn1459
    @christyn1459 4 года назад +46

    You guys should make couple's shirts, where one says, "another day" and the other says, "another vlog".
    If I was in a relationship I would totally buy that.

  • @sophiagomez3092
    @sophiagomez3092 4 года назад +3

    Thank y'all for always being so authentic, especially about how hectic life can be now! Thank you for inviting us into your lives the way you do! I hope y'all have a wonderful Christmas and be sure to take breaks! God bless!😊💛

  • @Grace-pm6fh
    @Grace-pm6fh 4 года назад +107

    Am i the first
    Love you guys, such an inspiring Christian couple.x

  • @mohammedalkalbani364
    @mohammedalkalbani364 4 года назад +176

    I just wanna say that i used to hate the idea of getting married, but after watching you guys for almost a year I really love marriage and I think marriage is a beautiful thing. Even tho im single 😅
    Love you guys💙

    • @Sarah-og6cc
      @Sarah-og6cc 4 года назад +3

      same

    • @jesseriddlecameron6261
      @jesseriddlecameron6261 4 года назад +2

      Me too haha

    • @NekoNii11
      @NekoNii11 4 года назад +2

      Me too, my ideas on marriage changed a bit since 4 years ago, so when they were dating 💖

  • @skylerjackson7274
    @skylerjackson7274 4 года назад +9

    I also have learned that being with your partner 24-7 and doing everything together might make one partner happy but eventually the other is going to get sick and feel like they don’t have any personal space other than 1-4 times every once in awhile... I’ve been in a relationship for 9 years and I’ve found doing ALOT alone or separately with people too is very very important

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад

      Skyler Jackson I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

  • @danielaawagner
    @danielaawagner 4 года назад +2

    My #1 advise to my friends getting married since my husband and i were the first one. Make time for each other the day/night of your wedding and make memories with each other that night. After our first dance we both kinda got separated and pulled by friends because everyone is just so happy for you and wants to talk. #1 advise I give to everyone. Stay with each other throughout the night so you can have the same memories to look back on together.

  • @oliviafalasca1738
    @oliviafalasca1738 4 года назад +8

    i like gabe’s long answers! it makes it more personal!

  • @marianaescobar8709
    @marianaescobar8709 4 года назад +2

    The way y’all express how it’s okay to have different opinions but come to a mutual agreement>>
    Watching you guys and learning from you guys has helped me be able to communicate and put things into perspective. ILY sm ❤️

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад

      Mariana Escobar I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

  • @forestmoontea
    @forestmoontea 4 года назад +78

    who would cheat on Gabriel? honestly he’s such a sweet and amazing human being

    • @konanmadeleine2753
      @konanmadeleine2753 4 года назад +85

      People cheat on sweet ,amazing people all the time. I yhink cheating has more to do with the cheater themselves than anything

    • @PeytonBourree
      @PeytonBourree 4 года назад +7

      @@konanmadeleine2753 exactly. my gf of 3 years cheated on me and she knew my past of cheaters hurting me so it happens and nice people never deserve it. they are not happy within themselves.

  • @frederikkemcintee4475
    @frederikkemcintee4475 4 года назад +2

    My husband and I also got married young, and was long distance from Denmark in Europe to America. Got married after 1 year of dating/engagement. Totally the right decision.Since Being together everyday and NOT long distance anymore is the happiest i've ever been. I watched your videos alot in that period , to see that it would all be okay and that the pain if long distance would go away some time!

  • @mrs.hannahchiang
    @mrs.hannahchiang 4 года назад +10

    i love how *deep* gabriel got in this video!! so good, so much truth, so much life!!! ✨ and i also love that you don't shy away from Jesus! but boldly proclaim His name!

  • @Bonfimkarinec
    @Bonfimkarinec 4 года назад +3

    I don’t know if this happened to anyone else but as I was watching this, especially towards the end, I could just feel the love between you guys and it made me really happy. It made me want to tell the person I love that I love him so thank you for that ❤️

  • @SamIsWatchingU
    @SamIsWatchingU 4 года назад +137

    Okurr something's off. They're going through it

    • @vanferraren
      @vanferraren 4 года назад

      Samihah Ebrahim going through what?

    • @SamIsWatchingU
      @SamIsWatchingU 4 года назад +1

      @@vanferraren how should I know 😮

    • @t1m513
      @t1m513 4 года назад +1

      vanette means like a rough time within their marriage

    • @t1m513
      @t1m513 4 года назад

      Samihah Ebrahim was asking what u meant lok

    • @SamIsWatchingU
      @SamIsWatchingU 4 года назад +1

      @@t1m513 oh my bad. They just don't seem so good. Either one of them are going through some personal issues, or they're having marital problems. But let's hope not😌

  • @miissJoceLyn
    @miissJoceLyn 4 года назад +3

    I love those huge and detailed answers from Gabe. That's how we really learn ! Thanks , don't change it !!

  • @rosheenkamal156
    @rosheenkamal156 4 года назад +32

    10:39 when Jess says "it is the best" she looks so dowwn ahhh :(

  • @jennelyrodrigues8389
    @jennelyrodrigues8389 4 года назад +3

    Seeing their relationship grow has been so sweet and it’s been 3 years already 🙌🏽

  • @keziatamariska5879
    @keziatamariska5879 4 года назад +17

    Gabe's honestly husband goals

  • @tiffanyblu156
    @tiffanyblu156 3 года назад +1

    “Have low expectations” but also have boundaries and don’t take disrespect!

  • @anajuarez7942
    @anajuarez7942 4 года назад +8

    I just got done watching Jess’s video and hopped right over to continue watching you guys!!
    I love you guys so much!! ❤️❤️❤️
    You guys should do a video with the Merrell Twins

  • @BaileyxFilmz16
    @BaileyxFilmz16 4 года назад +2

    I love this so much! I love how Gabe and Jess go into to deep details and they are real genuine answers. Jess and Gabe should do a Ted Talk! I would 100% watch an hour long episode of just them giving advice and just talking.

  • @shanzeraza4399
    @shanzeraza4399 4 года назад +3

    I usually tend to skip RUclips videos because they kind of get boring. But you guys are so perfect and cute that I literally watch the entire video without distracting myself! I love you guys!❤️

  • @cheasly6
    @cheasly6 4 года назад +46

    Lads, yall need to chill in the comments section here. There’s nothing off 😂 they’re all good, probably just tired. People don’t need to be 100% electrifyed and energetic all the time

    • @rozernaroha3169
      @rozernaroha3169 4 года назад +3

      People are more paranoid than them . Lmfao

  • @djspoonsonthemic9662
    @djspoonsonthemic9662 4 года назад +26

    When you were saying about having lower expectations, it hit me . I'm going through my first relationship and I feel like there are some issues and it didn't hit me that my expectations were insane . Thank you and congratulations on the anniversary

    • @GrinseKatze29
      @GrinseKatze29 4 года назад +3

      Me too! My expectiations are too high sometimes, because I am someone that puts everything in a relationship so I am expecting the same. But I know that this isn't good, because I am the one getting disappointed. I am trying to lower my expectations and maybe not trying so hard everytime.

    • @djspoonsonthemic9662
      @djspoonsonthemic9662 4 года назад +1

      @@GrinseKatze29 It's a progress, I hope everything turns out right man . Just don't sweat it .

    • @aunekambonde1393
      @aunekambonde1393 4 года назад +1

      I'm one person with high expectations too and sometimes it's hard to lower them because of what i want in relation to what I'm getting.

    • @djspoonsonthemic9662
      @djspoonsonthemic9662 4 года назад

      @@aunekambonde1393 Yeah I felt that way for a while, It managed to get better on my side when I started to focus more on myself. Try new things that'll keep your mind off of things

    • @aunekambonde1393
      @aunekambonde1393 4 года назад +1

      @DJ spoons on the mic will do so cause it's something that eats me up inside and instead of me focusing on my partner and what he's offering me I'm then focusing on what I want when it's not really what I want, i focus on the fantasy side instead if reality. thank you 😊

  • @daniellefaucher3347
    @daniellefaucher3347 4 года назад +1

    I stumbled upon their wedding video shortly after they got married and the first vlog I watched after it was the one where is “she’s officially moved in!” And I remember them going to target and checking the P.O. box and I instantly knew I loved these guys. Their hearts for the Lord are the reason they’re my favorite 😊💛

  • @americandreamglow
    @americandreamglow 4 года назад +3

    I was so angry before watching this video. Almost hateful, not proud of that. And after watching you guys I feel sooooo much better and lighter if that makes sense. The anger is gone. You’re soothing in so many ways

  • @nancyreyes7446
    @nancyreyes7446 4 года назад +2

    I’m rewatching this video about 3-4 times already. Last night and today. my relationship started around the same time they got together. Jess & Gabe you guys must get this like a BILLION times but thank you for making my eyes open and realizing what’s right and wrong. You guys have such a soft way of putting things and I truly love that about you both! i hope I can get through this ruff patch or move on.. hopefully I get to meet you two next year with 2020 vision of life. (haha pun intended) 💛

  • @kelizabeth7156
    @kelizabeth7156 4 года назад +6

    Would love to see more videos about your faith and how you bring that in your daily life as a married couple. Even some videos on your dating life as Christians and what you both looked for in a significant other. Love your videos! Gives me hope in finding a great Christian man who puts God above all else ❤️❤️

    • @oluwaseunmabinuori98
      @oluwaseunmabinuori98 4 года назад

      Kimberly Elizabeth I feel absolute trust is overrated in a relationship, smartness is also very important. There’s a popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. My greatest disappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cellphone and i was able to read all her messages and uncover my wife’s infidelity without having to touch her phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Thanks to Cyberhackingsage, now i have enough evidence for my divorce. You can contact them ( cyberhackingsage@gmail )Or Text/Call them on +14242362391. Thank me later.

    • @AliceRoche-ii2ke
      @AliceRoche-ii2ke 4 года назад +1

      That's not a good thing, it's crazy.

  • @katie4036
    @katie4036 4 года назад

    Wow. I just turned 21 today and my husband will turn 20 soon and we have recently gotten married. I needed to hear this. Please please keep posting Christian focused marriage advice. The world needs it!

  • @nikilitha8465
    @nikilitha8465 4 года назад +3

    Can we take a moment to see how far they’ve come,and how much more confident Jess is!!🥺❤️

  • @Joh316BeBlessed
    @Joh316BeBlessed 4 года назад +1

    Woahh 3 yrs already?!!??! Congrats!!
    Your video hit my heart with no mercy this time 😭😭❤️❤️ Thanks a lot!

  • @jendn3655
    @jendn3655 4 года назад +47

    Lol I know everyone saids Gab explains allot when he answers a question but like I actually like him explaining and going deeper into it. I personally value those type of answers lol just a thought 💁🏻‍♀️💕love you guys

  • @owlsgrace
    @owlsgrace 3 года назад

    “Next year’s gonna be great. Next year’s gonna be nuts” yepppp. So much to be grateful for.

  • @alexandras7362
    @alexandras7362 4 года назад +6

    So hard to concentrate when Milo is being so cute cuddling Jess 😍🐶

  • @dhruviashar9805
    @dhruviashar9805 4 года назад +2

    This Q&A is so beautiful like I love your relationship but the way you’ll answered questions in this video was really amazing, especially Gabe’s answer for how you’ll deal with disagreements

  • @anikam1019
    @anikam1019 4 года назад +14

    guys how do u feel about this. a guy i am in love with broke up w me after 3 1/2 yrs together. it was perfect and it didn’t end badly i still love him and respect him so much. after being depressed due to family problems, he said he slowly felt like he wanted us to be apart and learn how to be happy without each other. he said he doesn’t know what he wants and has gotten used to being by himself. we still check up on each other and stuff. i am still truly crushed and heartbroken, i wonder every day about why this happened to us and know whatever happens is the way it’s supposed to be. i am just having a lot of trouble accepting it

    • @awatson5195
      @awatson5195 4 года назад +7

      Anika M That sounds really tough. I'm sorry you're having to go through it. I've never been in a relationship so I can't help much, but I think the best advice is to pray. God knows what you're going through and He has a reason for it. We can't always see it, but He has everything under control. Trust Him. Lean on Him. He loves you!!

    • @anikam1019
      @anikam1019 4 года назад +1

      A Watson thank you so much. 🖤

    • @22ilovenathan
      @22ilovenathan 4 года назад +8

      Well me and my bf broke up 4 months ago after 6 years of dating. He said he just needed time apart to think and work on himself because I guess he felt scared to take the next step of getting engaged. 3 months later he comes to see me and tells me he hasn’t given up on us. He just needed time to regroup. It’s hard though bc I’m happy that he still loves me but I never doubted us. I always knew i loved him more than anything. I would tell you maybe he just needs to work on himself. I think it’s more him than you. You should work on yourself and being happy without him. I know that’s so hard because I’m having to do that too! I hope things get better. Breakups are the worst!

    • @anikam1019
      @anikam1019 4 года назад +1

      Megan breakups really are the worst. thank you so much (: im so happy that worked out for you!!! ill keep working on myself, i appreciate it!

    • @izabellaivanova2828
      @izabellaivanova2828 4 года назад +1

      Im really sorry to hear that maybe he needs to figure out what he wants at least he didn't string u along or cheat on u hope everything works out for u

  • @SaraDaBeara
    @SaraDaBeara 4 года назад +2

    I love how Milo rests his head on Jess like a little baby 😭❤️❤️

  • @SamIsWatchingU
    @SamIsWatchingU 4 года назад +16

    Jess let Gabe talk we don't mind 🥺

  • @limarimaldonado9896
    @limarimaldonado9896 4 года назад +2

    Hey Jess and Gabe! I've been thinking so much about you guys yesterday and today since I found out about the fires in Australia! I pray that your family and friends are well and safe. I'll have you all in my prayers. Find strength in the Lord! He is always there with you! (Joshua 1:9, my favorite Bible verse, and Rom. 8:28) Love you guys!

  • @thienlc
    @thienlc 4 года назад +27

    jess uploading, then the main channel uploading... *Christmas is already here*

  • @GranDeLite
    @GranDeLite 4 года назад +1

    how i wish there are more ppl like these two where drama doesnt always occur or happen in social medias between them but instead they talk it out like how matured couples should do.

  • @quinnlaya331
    @quinnlaya331 4 года назад +3

    Gabriel's previous love experience and mine are so similar, it really hits home. Thank you Gabriel!

  • @addieprince2776
    @addieprince2776 4 года назад +2

    I love how serious you guys are and then dun dun dun instant replay and then it goes back to seriousness but it kind of broke the tension it helped lol

  • @smellycat4413
    @smellycat4413 4 года назад +13

    I just cant imagine jess fighting😂she is so nice

  • @kariscummings4342
    @kariscummings4342 4 года назад +2

    YASSSSS!!!! I WAS WAITING!!! Happy Anniversary❤❤❤❤❤❤ thank you for being such an inspiration❤ your relationship with God and with each other is so pure and precious❤ thank you for sharing that with us

  • @karlabennie3905
    @karlabennie3905 4 года назад +216

    I love them but did anyone notice a weird vibe, as if they weren't getting along. They seemed to have really different views on things but didn't want to talk about it because it would start a fight. I could be completely wrong.

    • @karrahguthrie6627
      @karrahguthrie6627 4 года назад +10

      I didn’t notice anything

    • @misssmariss
      @misssmariss 4 года назад +49

      I get weird vibes as well. Maybe finally seeing each other’s true colors or realize they aren’t so compatible after all?

    • @moooahhh6711
      @moooahhh6711 4 года назад +4

      Right same!

    • @neidacamacho8546
      @neidacamacho8546 4 года назад +10

      Like from this video alone? I haven’t been keeping up with them much lately :/

    • @pripri8814
      @pripri8814 4 года назад +13

      Yes i feel specially from jess. She's like nodding yes to watever gab says but deep inside like she totally disagrees or forcefully keeping mum

  • @cutesiepie7365
    @cutesiepie7365 4 года назад +1

    I love Gab taking lead in this so cute. Jess does a great job but this feels more vulnerable .. love the doggio snuggles! Love it!

  • @kacypolk7497
    @kacypolk7497 4 года назад +5

    This whole time I’m watching this vid, I’m watching Milo cuddling with Jess! It’s so precious and sweet 🥰

  • @marinaablett7144
    @marinaablett7144 4 года назад +1

    Would you guys ever consider making a video series giving relationship advice from a Christian standpoint? Just like how you answered some of the questions in the video, like having God and your faith as the foundation of your relationship? I would love to watch those videos! Love you both;)

  • @hadassahfrew8931
    @hadassahfrew8931 4 года назад +49

    When u have Christ in the center of ur life everything follows

  • @itsmejanii
    @itsmejanii 4 года назад +1

    Wow i love the harmony and the atmosphere between you guys! 😍 I admire you and your openness for christianity on social media ✨

  • @Noah-vk6kg
    @Noah-vk6kg 4 года назад +7

    I love how you guys incorporate Jesus into everything ya'll talk about.

  • @paigemiller4782
    @paigemiller4782 4 года назад +1

    Jess’s eyes and smile just make my day. You can tell she is being genuine and compassionate!!

  • @CockneyRebel1979
    @CockneyRebel1979 4 года назад +48

    Gabe: "Just have really low expectations for the other person...."
    Jess:

    • @veganvintagegeek935
      @veganvintagegeek935 4 года назад +2

      True, only still have high standards for the person you end up with. And never lower them. And make sure they are practical standards too. That way they can be reached.
      The number one standard is they have to have a deep walk with Jesus.

    • @CockneyRebel1979
      @CockneyRebel1979 4 года назад +1

      @@veganvintagegeek935 The look he got off her when he said that though! Watch again, man! If looks could kill.... 😂😂😂😂

  • @callekitty3042
    @callekitty3042 4 года назад

    She started talking about the whole experience of getting to go to Australia again and I started tearing up because watching that made me so happy and that whole journey was so crazy.

  • @user-pf1km3ef6y
    @user-pf1km3ef6y 4 года назад +15

    I thought you guys weren't gonna post today and I got so so sad but then I remembered that you both are in aussie for the holidays which just made me feel better but then getting this notification made me so so happy you have no idea 🖤💕😁

  • @L00VELYY
    @L00VELYY 4 года назад +4

    Milo was living his best life in jess's arms 😩😁💕💕💕

  • @gabriellaperrotta4063
    @gabriellaperrotta4063 4 года назад +3

    You’re intro is my fav it’s so simple yet so complex