Life is short (how to spend it wisely)

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @nischa
    @nischa  Год назад +3

    👉🏽 My Free Intentional Spending Tracker - nischa.me/intentionalspendingtracker

  • @opietwoep1247
    @opietwoep1247 Год назад +593

    As a soon to be a 60 year old man, I can tell you she is correct. I’ve wasted half my life because of fear.

    • @gordonj498
      @gordonj498 Год назад +26

      I'm 52 and I am the same.

    • @Mr.Coffee576
      @Mr.Coffee576 Год назад +11

      What were you most afraid of ?

    • @craftvideos2939
      @craftvideos2939 Год назад +34

      as a 20-year-old man who’s turning 21 this fall, I can tell you both of you are correct.
      being privileged to not work any day of my life yet, that’s the very curse to my ‘stupidity’ or shall I say real-life blindness. although I am a full-time student in my senior year, i must admit that besides my university studies i completely wasted this 4 year period. everything i did was running an Ariana Grande stan account on a social medium and enjoying my careless student days, such a first world problem. and only now when it’s almost time for my graduation, I have realized I have zero assets, like nothing to offer or live off without my family’s help, because I always thought of it as I would always be 16.
      now I am working my ass off as if rent is due, and i am 100% going places because I want no other choice! in early 20s or late 60s, just never lose grip and always remind yourself of what your mission is. the sooner the better. this is a life-lesson and reflection to my future-self. good luck future me, i fucking love and believe in you.

    • @opietwoep1247
      @opietwoep1247 Год назад

      @@craftvideos2939 you have your whole life ahead of you keep away from negative people. They only want to bring you down

    • @69ingleton60
      @69ingleton60 Год назад +9

      Being in your early 20s you are so fortunate to now make the changes you want with years ahead of you… Good for you and good luck👌🏾

  • @JonnyBoy021
    @JonnyBoy021 Год назад +20

    Who else is here on a Nischa binge? We are here for the lessons school failed to trach us!

  • @jason_chan
    @jason_chan Год назад +162

    This is the video I needed to see. I’ve made so many decisions based on avoiding failure, judgement and not feeling urgency. I used to think not taking risks was the smart move, but the older I get the more I want to live without regret.

    • @br8979
      @br8979 Год назад +3

      There is a quote: regret is a lot worse than failure could ever be.

    • @duohere3981
      @duohere3981 Год назад

      You still won't change because that's just how it is, seeing a video won't change what you are in 2 weeks max you'll go back to your old self, OR NOT? Don't give up

  • @curtisporter5239
    @curtisporter5239 Год назад +8

    You have a nice balance between Tim Ferriss and Marcus Aurelius with a Nischa-lived schema. Thanks for sharing and being vulnerable. We've all grown.

  • @lazypeoplecooking
    @lazypeoplecooking Год назад +10

    I hope you live up to 80. Longer too, happy and healthy. Thank you for the video.

  • @dorotabach2556
    @dorotabach2556 3 месяца назад +1

    I believe I came across your YT channel for a reason.Thank you so much for sharing this valuable knowledge .
    We need more people like you, so they can inspire others to not let the fear take what's ours. Wishing you lots of health and prosperity 🫶🙌

  • @PeterCianci
    @PeterCianci 11 месяцев назад +2

    Knowing I will be dead....soon? Not doing God's Will for my life is my ONLY fear. I constantly seek His Will for my life. Everything else I find has been a bonus, gravy, blessings...

  • @jamesj2120
    @jamesj2120 Год назад +11

    I shared your channel with my 14 year old daughter - you're a fantastic role model for her (alongside her Mum of course). Then it struck me - you're an equally great role model for me - a man in his late 40's on the new business owner journey. Very well done to you Nischa - your content and delivery is a tonic - wishing you continued success.

  • @patrick7228
    @patrick7228 Год назад +34

    Thinking will not overcome fear but action will. - W. Clement Stone

  • @deannadolan5119
    @deannadolan5119 Год назад +13

    I have tried and failed a few times but I have no regrets. I just learned from the lessons and now I'm doing the prep work to take another risk. Giving up means I will never enjoy the freedom I want, so I won't quit until I achieve that freedom. Love this channel btw. Thanks for the interesting and valuable content.

  • @lananhpham3670
    @lananhpham3670 9 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video, Nischa! I needed to hear your wisdom on fear so much. I have wanted to start a business for more than 3 years now and I have all the excuses to not do it. Pregnancy, kid, financial stability from a high paying job. I finally got laid off and realized that I want to control my own financial freedom and be my own boss while staying at home with our baby. Thank you for the encouragement and courage for creating this youtube channel. You've inspired so many.

  • @AsfiaMalim
    @AsfiaMalim Год назад +3

    I've just come across your RUclips channel and I must say WoW! You blow my mind with every video!
    Let the Haters be...they'll realize sooner or later!
    You are inspiring so many people especially girls trying to find their way in life. God bless you. You go girl !

  • @malct6545
    @malct6545 Год назад

    Bang on. The fear of looking back realising you wasted your life must be haunting for those at that point, realising its too late.

  • @vivreavecdestraumas
    @vivreavecdestraumas 11 месяцев назад +3

    "We suffer more often in imagination than in reality" - Seneca. This whole video sounds quite from Stoïcism

  • @futuregenetics4309
    @futuregenetics4309 Год назад +6

    I've been watching a lot of your videos for quite 2 weeks, I wish I have found you sooner. Your content its amazing, you comunication skills, you peaceful talking, the amount of information and clear information you can give in your videos is amazing. Keep going Nischa :)

  • @georock18
    @georock18 Год назад +4

    I can assume for sure that subscribing on this channel, changed my perspective and my choices. Thank you so much.

  • @budikusumo8444
    @budikusumo8444 Год назад +3

    Thank you Nischa for your videos. They blessed me so much about financial literacy. I came from Indonesia & i heard that you were in Bali. Next time, if you visit Bali again, let me know, i'll put some recomended places to be visited, either beach clubs for relaxing or villas in Ubud, hang out places in Kintamani & etc

  • @sheisomarica
    @sheisomarica 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the video links.
    I watched that of Steve Jobs few years back and come back to it from time to time.
    "Don't be trapped by dogma. Don't... live someone else's life."
    Powerful words! 🔥

  • @AV-yq6gf
    @AV-yq6gf Год назад +38

    Nischa, you are such an inspiration. I am so so glad you powered through these fears and created this channel. I’m
    Always look out for your videos as they’re always so on point. Thank you!!

    • @angeldeschain0
      @angeldeschain0 Год назад +1

      Yes, thank you, you’re amazing. Thanks for sharing a piece of your life every week

  • @TheDisorderliness
    @TheDisorderliness 3 месяца назад

    Thank you very much, Nischa! I think your RUclips channel is one of the channels that transforms people's mind and their life.
    You have systemized the essential information in one place - on your channel. To open people's eyes to real life was worth quitting your job. I appreciate your work! Keep going!

  • @sameermasurkar
    @sameermasurkar Год назад +3

    Although I’m new to your channel, I already feel welcomed. It’s such a relief to finally find someone who genuinely wants to be a guiding light for others. Thank you 😊

  • @rutaambewadikar7842
    @rutaambewadikar7842 Год назад +13

    Hi Nischa, I am following you since quite sometime now and watching your videos motivate me soooo much. Especially this video is exactly what I needed today, as I am at the start of my career now and I have constant fear and anxiety of tiny things, which I know is more of my imagination than reality.
    Please keep making videos about finance and motivation.
    Lots of Love,
    Ruta:)

  • @regtalkswealth
    @regtalkswealth Год назад +1

    This couldn't be more true *fear* is one of the most destructive things any person will ever face in their lives and it plagues us internally

  • @jasrai5129
    @jasrai5129 Год назад +35

    Absolutely mind provoking message - well done for such a great vlog - this one really will have an impact on me

  • @BW-hl1xy
    @BW-hl1xy Год назад +16

    Great tips! I appreciate you @nischa putting yourself out there and listing what your greatest fears were. It's very brave of you and relatable. I see the comments below about it feeling too late. I'm 43 this month (yikes), but with potentially 22 more years of normal working life left, I don't feel like it's too late to reduce that number and start something new. I just need a good idea! lol ...and to build up my assets column!

  • @m.t.horton
    @m.t.horton Год назад

    your positive outlook, and your excitement and optimism is so refreshing

  • @martindance5542
    @martindance5542 Год назад +2

    I've just bookmarked you, I promise to watch this vlog every morning as soon as I get out of bed.

  • @laurafrancois4825
    @laurafrancois4825 Год назад

    What helps me is the thought "life is JUST life", it´s nothing more than that. So enjoyit.

  • @melissakathleenfransky2233
    @melissakathleenfransky2233 Год назад +2

    Thank you for being brave and starting this RUclips channel. You are so inspiring. It is clear this is what you are meant to do in your living in full authenticity. You are inspiring me to face my fears ❤

  • @realbobbyaxel
    @realbobbyaxel Год назад +1

    After watching some of her videos. Now one thing is very clear to me and that is.. This woman is the kind of woman, I would like to marry.
    Especially after hearing her recite steve jobs quote verbatim. This gave me jolts.

  • @Martin-kn6vc
    @Martin-kn6vc Год назад +8

    Your channel has been such a help to get me to be more financially literate. I'm glad you overcame your fears and made this RUclips channel, because it adds so much value to people's lives! I've recently been thinking about how I can create the life I want, instead of continuing to waste away in a job that doesn't pay me properly.

  • @jollyjames30
    @jollyjames30 Год назад +19

    In hindsight, it's very easy to have regrets later in life about things we should've done earlier in life. Quite likely, even if we had done those things early in life, there's no real guarantee we'd have been satisfied later. There's always going to be something we're regretful of. Nobody is ever really happy at the end of the day. You even see it with these multimillionaire celebrities. To the average bloke, they're super successful and we envy their lifestyle. Behind close doors, those celebrities are barely keeping it together and dealing with all sorts of personal issues despite having hundreds of millions of dollars and multiple properties around the world. It's a strange thing.

    • @True38
      @True38 Год назад +1

      Rather be rich and miserable than poor and happy. And who the hell is really poor and happy? They're most likely even more miserable.

  • @sameermasurkar
    @sameermasurkar Год назад

    This video and specifically fear setting set me free from the worst case scenario and my anxiety

  • @gabelogan8302
    @gabelogan8302 3 месяца назад

    I really appreciate your videos. Thank you for doing this work. It makes the journey much less lonely.

  • @BlackConsensus
    @BlackConsensus Год назад +1

    I’m a 22 and I will never let fear control my life , it’s why started a RUclips channel

  • @rahulyadav0045
    @rahulyadav0045 10 месяцев назад

    Following you since, there were around 6k subs. I have seen massive growth on your channel in this year. Took so many notes and lessons from you. Meanwhile I kept the thought of starting a RUclips channel on backseat. Finally starting it and hopefully everything goes well in 2024.

  • @LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau
    @LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau Год назад +1

    I know that fear and try to set goals for my future to be brave and not stay at the same place my whole life. One step at a time.

  • @DJMarielle
    @DJMarielle Год назад +4

    Hi Nischa! I’m an avid fan of yours. I always look forward to your weekly uploads. Thank you so much for inspiring me to be better.
    You’re doing a great job with your channel! Congratulations and Kudos to you Nischa!

  • @NorthCountyRealEstateTeam
    @NorthCountyRealEstateTeam Год назад +1

    Your channel is great I'm certain many people will be thankful that you didn't give into your fears and you kept at it!

  • @bandhandey2594
    @bandhandey2594 Год назад

    This is the video needed now! Strategy 2 seems like a good plan, I will surely apply that. Thank you so much for sharing this!

  • @amaan-aaa-786
    @amaan-aaa-786 Год назад +19

    Awesome video and the Tim Ferriss exercise looks very actionable.
    When you talked about the importance of death in focusing on what’s important in life, it reminded me of the Stoic saying of ‘Momento Mori’ (remember, you must die).
    Keep up the good work, been subscribed for a while and enjoy the bite size format of content you put out

  • @centralonenetwork
    @centralonenetwork Год назад +1

    2:28-3:09 what she said is from Steve Jobs motivation video love it.
    Don't be trapped by dogma, the result of other peoples thinking drowning out your own inner voice.
    Stay hungry stay foolish.

  • @ashokdeb8365
    @ashokdeb8365 Год назад +1

    Fear gets indoctrinated into you whilst you're young, as you can easily absorb it. Later on though, you're scared to venture out. You have to unlearn a lot of things you were told back then. I realised by not giving to much emphasis on what I was told (basically by not giving a damn), things have started to open up for me. Always best to 'write' your goals, using pen and paper.

  • @Shelly.
    @Shelly. Год назад

    There is so much value in your content, and this video is not the exception. Thank you!

  • @anthonydotson8652
    @anthonydotson8652 Год назад

    This Is The Most Important Video I've Seen In Atleast TWO YEARS!
    For Me, Its Simple As A Great Meditation Master ( From Karnataka) said: " Where Fear is, Divine Spirit is Not)! A Siddha Truth. Same is found in Bible. Fear is a Result Of Some Impurity in Perception.

  • @stephenjohnson4682
    @stephenjohnson4682 Год назад

    Thank you Natasha, superb content, clear, short, powerful and put forward in such a nice manner. Said many times by many people, but it’s all about connection, right! Someone said you are amazing, I agree, congratulations and thank you.

  • @katherine.d.m
    @katherine.d.m Год назад +1

    This is by far my favorite video that you’ve done! And you’ve done some great videos.

  • @lifebranchesmc2984
    @lifebranchesmc2984 Год назад +4

    This video was indeed one of my favourite video Nischa! I don't usually tend to subscribe to many RUclips channels but I find your content very educational & motivates me to do better everyday so I've just subscribed😀So true that fear can stop you to advance in life, believe in yourself and most of everything be your true self and do what you love. I've recently been thinking to start a new yoga/ballet RUclips channel and I created the banner bust still have not had the motivation to film as I'm afraid of one particular person stocking me 😞Silly isn't it? I hope I will soon overcome this fear..have a lovely day Nischa. Looking forward to you next video 📹😊💚

  • @ilonaanna9350
    @ilonaanna9350 Год назад +16

    I love your advices. Thank you for being there. Have a lovely day Nischa ❤

  • @johnnycomelately6341
    @johnnycomelately6341 Год назад +4

    Only so many summers Nischa.
    This is one of your better talks , thank you

  • @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel
    @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel Год назад +3

    Brilliant advice Nischa, I totally agree with everything you have said. In my opinion the worst thing we can do is hold ourselves back in life. We are only limited by our beliefs which are often put in our heads by others, when we know deep down we are capable of much more. Happy Sunday.

  • @p.s.phouse6415
    @p.s.phouse6415 Год назад

    I work a 12 step program and what your saying is so true ...To get what you want you have to renew the mind❤

  • @MrAkshayidr
    @MrAkshayidr Год назад

    Hi Nischa, your video was so precise and crisp, I really got the clarity on how to take better decisions both personally and professionally..!!❤
    Thanks a lot !

  • @Mr.Coffee576
    @Mr.Coffee576 Год назад +4

    Fear dominated my life the most. It still dominates. But I'm working on it. Sometimes I think my worst enemy is myself.

  • @tntfyah
    @tntfyah Год назад +2

    Excellent video, currently doing a change of jobs, new city. Plus taking your course so I can success at my new endeavors.

  • @techblogs-eu5df
    @techblogs-eu5df Год назад

    Thank you so much.. it's a best video . First time I realised that we can have a method to eradicate the fear.

  • @joshmcbride7854
    @joshmcbride7854 Год назад +3

    Love this outlook! I really need to implement this into my daily life but it is easier said than done with all of life's obstacles.

    • @martynbeaumont1100
      @martynbeaumont1100 Год назад

      I do it first thing in the morning. Before all the distractions. Same as the 'pay yourself first" principle. Help yourself first. Good luck !

  • @hamishhogg9198
    @hamishhogg9198 Год назад +2

    This is one of the best videos you have done. It resonated with me so much about the fears I hold.

  • @Grace-it5vi
    @Grace-it5vi Год назад

    Love your videos, so helpful but they're also even somewhat soothing to watch!

  • @preshengovender7956
    @preshengovender7956 Год назад

    Great Channel ,came accross your work recently .Tim Ferriss is a legend he got me into bio hacking and lifestyle by design.

  • @chazychaz7581
    @chazychaz7581 Год назад +1

    I needed to hear this today 🙏 thank you. My favourite of your videos so far ❤️ been living with anxiety most of my life, and its a struggle for sure.. hugs from Denmark

  • @dotpenji
    @dotpenji Год назад +1

    I've learned from your video is the power of embracing discomfort to distinguish genuine fear from mere discomfort. How do you recommend others build the resilience to face discomfort and move beyond it?

  • @bavskijt
    @bavskijt Год назад +5

    Ahh a perfect Sunday afternoon upload!! Thank you Nischa!!!

  • @alienaliens146
    @alienaliens146 Год назад

    The way you say we'll all face death is true and enough to stop you enjoying anything good in this life , and stop dreaming and finally planning ur success. Death is the only thing that stops me from letting good things in this life make sense. These stories of living ur life to the full is all rather for deceiving ourselves and distracting ourselves from the sad story of life. We have another eternal life after this life, and that's what actually matters which we hafta plan for through spiritual means . That's it! we have another life AFTER DEATH!

  • @tagbon
    @tagbon Год назад +9

    I thought the 2nd strategy was a great practical exercise. A very clear idea that anyone can do - even me! I will watch both linked videos, to understand the two ideas better. Thanks for this. 😊

    • @nischa
      @nischa  Год назад +6

      Simple but so impactful!

  • @rpkeskar
    @rpkeskar Год назад +1

    I totally needed motivation to continue my YT channel that I've put aside for two months.

  • @ilovemycountry9926
    @ilovemycountry9926 Год назад

    Dear Nischa
    Your videos are awesome,keep going. I would like to add one point which i always practiced in my successful life.prepare for the worst even 1%success also makes me happy. If i aim for 100% even 99% success wouldn't satisfy me.whishing you all the success

  • @nolancramer1198
    @nolancramer1198 Год назад

    You do a fantastic job on your channel. Plus your voice, looks and advice happen to all be incredible. I also love your crewneck

  • @jugg205
    @jugg205 Год назад +2

    Great video to start my week off. Much needed and much appreciated

  • @irisdanagher
    @irisdanagher Год назад

    Received the book feel the fear and do it anyway as a young 18 year old and it was the best book to be given as a young adult.

  • @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970
    @jeffandsherriefranzwa8970 Год назад

    Great job, Nischa. I hope lots of young people see this. Blessings on your journey.

  • @WishYouDidntKnow
    @WishYouDidntKnow Год назад +5

    I found your RUclips channel today, and wow it's amazing. So far I have watched 6 videos (with my favourite ones being the investment Banking ones)

  • @tracytaylor2321
    @tracytaylor2321 Год назад

    So glad you started this RUclips channel! You have very wise ideas and advice! Thank you!

  • @yergosly
    @yergosly Год назад

    Sooo humble Sooo grounded - Thank you

  • @Winterstick549
    @Winterstick549 Год назад

    And dont let others put their fears into you, such as parents, friends, etc

  • @susanwaterworth5622
    @susanwaterworth5622 Год назад

    This was exactly what I needed right now! Thank you. It is great watching your channel grow and I so appreciate and benefit from your content. Hope you're enjoying your life!

  • @karolinasur2417
    @karolinasur2417 Год назад +4

    love waking up and watching your videos its became my sunday tradition

  • @JennaCollinsFitness
    @JennaCollinsFitness Год назад

    I love this video and all the content you create. Thank you so much, it’s extremely valuable💗.

  • @bgvlogger2023
    @bgvlogger2023 10 месяцев назад

    None of these advice can do a wonder - It cam just make you aware of what others think is right.
    Only Action and Discipline can do.

  • @x25__
    @x25__ Год назад +1

    Fear of SUCCESS is also very real.

  • @SaltPepperWisdom
    @SaltPepperWisdom Год назад

    Hey Nischa, your video was fantastic! It was enlightening to hear your perspective and knowledge on how fear can constrain all of us from many personal and professional goals. It's like being a kite tied to the ground; fear acts as the string, keeping us from soaring to new heights. Your insights will truly lift many young and old!

  • @FloydC-kn6no
    @FloydC-kn6no Год назад

    Thank you for making this video on fear.

  • @anamicagauchan2236
    @anamicagauchan2236 Год назад

    How come your videos pop in just at the right time Nischa? Thank you for your contents!

  • @felixjune
    @felixjune Год назад

    Nischa you’re freakin amazing.

  • @lakesnlawns222
    @lakesnlawns222 Год назад +1

    Fear is most dangerous when it is part of “the culture”. It took me years to even know I had fears, more years to break off them - and still in therapy to deal with those, while I did move on. Culture to me now is only the music and the food 😊 as it turns out fear is everywhere for exactly the same human reasons - that I discovered after I lived and worked in different culture, counties and continents. Great video, dear Nischa, and much love 💕 from Canada 🍁

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 10 месяцев назад

    My husband is crippled with this problem. I have been trying to help him face his fears but because of his past, he has gotten stuck in a rut because he doesn’t want to fail anymore and when he does, he goes berzerk. It goes without saying that my husband has anger, self-control, abuse (both towards himself and others), gaslighting, frustration, etc issues but I’ve realized that I can only lead him to water, but I can’t make him drink if he constantly refuses to stop chasing his tail and face his fears of failure again. I’m going to face failure head on, even if there is no success. I know my time on earth is limited and that I can die any day. I don’t want to die homeless under the roof of my controlling and abusive parents house, and want to have my own home again - even if it’s a modest apartment. I want the ability to cook healthily my own meals, to bathe regularly again, to be able to sing freely again, etc. Maybe that sounds frivolous to some but I want that much again, before I die. Plus, given that I have liver disease, I’d like to have my own home so in case if I die, my husband also won’t be homeless again either.

  • @tashilhamo6381
    @tashilhamo6381 Год назад

    Thank you very very much for this wonderful video....i have been thinking of taking a leap of faith and changing some situations in my life.....this video just came as a answer to my prayers and thoughts........I have been grappling with fear and always imagining the consequences, but i guess if its not today then i wont be able to do it any other time....ur words and perspectives will help me overcome......Thank you indeed very much!!!

  • @tancreddehauteville764
    @tancreddehauteville764 Год назад +1

    The thing is that it's all very well for a (very) attractive young middle class woman to live without fear, but as man who was born in hardship through an accident of birth, I have always had to struggle, and eventually achieved well paid job, despite having every possible disadvantage. I've lived with fear all my life. Not having a job for me meant the difference between having a roof over my head and sleeping in a cardboard box - until recently I was never more than a few months of pay away from being on the street.

  • @ManojAgadi
    @ManojAgadi Год назад

    Outstanding Information On "Life" Nischa.

  • @GOINFINITI
    @GOINFINITI Год назад

    Very good and insightful video - I am emailing this to my teenage daughter and we will do the exercise together to help her overcome a few things.

  • @michaelortega5185
    @michaelortega5185 Год назад +1

    @Nischa Thank you for your insight, knowledge and wisdom.

  • @nkosinathimbikwana3941
    @nkosinathimbikwana3941 Год назад +3

    Thank you for this video❤

  • @Samoloh
    @Samoloh Год назад

    Nisha always providing that much needed wisdom, keep up up.

  • @MsEri20
    @MsEri20 Год назад

    FEAR has and is running my life. FEAR of getting the job I want, the money I want, the relationship I want.....

  • @richard99cookify
    @richard99cookify Год назад

    Lighting in this video is absolutely nailed on 👌

  • @maverickmegastar
    @maverickmegastar Год назад

    High quality content, to the point and full of charm. Awesome channel!

  • @NavinBagga
    @NavinBagga Год назад

    I like the quote referenced. I’ll make my Q4 plans with this quote and observe the results. Maybe print it and put it on my wall. Thanks for sharing. 🙌🏽

  • @makeitcount8164
    @makeitcount8164 Год назад +1

    Beautiful perspective and advise thank you so much

  • @elisa.f
    @elisa.f Год назад

    Thank you Nischa. So inspirational and practical!