Both of you sound broke and frustrated. 🤡 Women weren’t created to be the financial Provider in the relationship. That’s your job which you’re failing at which is why you’re crying about no longer receiving attention you never earned. ✨
Dating does suck everywhere, but Houston has it especially bad. Houston has the worst city planning ever achieved. Its suburbs are soulless car-dependent consumerist nightmares. I live in a rural suburb & I'd have a better chance of getting a date in norilsk. This is why I'm an autistic virgin at 30.
It’s because these cities actually have celebrities and athletes. Hate to say it but attractive females can get access to these group of guys just because of their looks and since average men don’t have that type of status then they want them to pay. Meanwhile they getting smashed by all kinds of athletes since college
Kevin Samuels affectionately referred to Houston as the finesse capital of the USA. There are no genuine women in Houston on finessers. However, in the 2024 dating era, this is a USA thing not just Houston. Everyone is looking for a come up. People even say in order to be friends with them, you gotta put them on to something. FRIENDS! 🤦🏾♂️
You're absolutely correct. You have to use great judgment when picking someone. It's not impossible, but the culture in Houston is really surface level now, so getting a partner isn't that easy. Dating here used to be a lot better even ten years ago. Pretentiousness runs the city now.
Salute to Black Men. I'm in H-town. Like anything I've had both good and bad experiences. Fellas ask yourself these questions. 1. If I'm making all this money, what is my end game? Do you want a Legacy aka Kids? 2. If you want a family what is the value system I want instilled in him or her? Dating and Marrying our Black Women shouldn't be a battle or a game of who can out wit/ finesse the other. We go through that enough in our business or career. America is NOT about Traditional Values, and Gender roles. Therefore as a Man you will never be the "Man" and the woman will Never truly be in her "Feminine". It's designed that way. So your options are simple. 1. Try and find a Sista that is comfortable with you to take the lead without having to "Purchase her Femininity". or 2.) Travel the World to find your Best Option. It's up to you! Bottom Line, Don't Complain and Don't try to Change someone. You're the Man, the World is Yours! Go get it Fellas!
I've never gone on as many dates as I have in recent times where women are asking my opinions about 50/50 on a first date (which is annoying). There is so much tricking going on too. I will say as a Black man it is still better for us here when it comes to dating in comparison to Black women. Atlanta and Houston are actually bad places to date for single Black women.
I live in houston and thats true for black women who are only looking to date within their own race, culture, or community. Black women struggle with familiar dating, and rarely expand their dating options, but if black woman open up to more options, I've seen it do a 180, and become extremely easy to date in Houston.
I live in Houston, I'm from here, and one thing about dating women in Houston is very hard, if a man looking for love in Houston, good luck with that, you definitely have to pay for love
Great video bro. I think as a man having our finances together is real important especially if you want a real attractive woman and you may not be her physical or personality preference. However, a woman just dating a guy for money doesn’t mean she will be loyal to you and it clearly doesn’t mean she will sleep with a guy neither. Like you said dating nowadays is a game the biggest thing really is adapt to it and learn how to move around.
I was literally repeating what was said to me by this crazy beautiful girl I've been spending time with. She's been keeping it real about a lot of things. I also have experience with women who think just like her but I found out the hard way.
@@Canoncorey that’s wassup bro. Life experience is our greatest teacher. yea man it’s crazy me and my co worker was just talking about this topic with dating these days. Men have to do alot more. We have to contact them more take them out etc. i still stick by the premise guys who are a womens preference have to do a lot less. Price discrimination as I call it is real especially in Black America 😂
That’s true the women are dating for their own benefits…… however the men with a huge “BAG” started it. Mainly married men or bachelors who are not emotionally available would replace giving a woman a real commitment with materials. Women are taking what men are supplying. When men become more marriage minded with God at the center the dating scene will change for the collective.
Man I moved to Houston in 2016 from Alabama/Atlanta. I never had so much fun and good times with women. They were choosing as soon as I stepped off the plane. I was on a date every date and smashing if I wanted. Doctors, lawyers, bottle girls, accountants, black, hispanic etc. I was only making 50/60k a year back then. I'm married with 2 kids now but brother it might be you and the type of women u looking for. They still beat my door down.
Their are a lot of attractive friendly women in Houston. If a guy just wants to hangout and have unattached fun, it's possible. The local girls have a thing for easterners. They follow Beyonce's roadmap. " I need a soldier "
Thank god i found my wife in florida, cuz stipper culture is real out there most girls ive seen have the strippper look, and im from nyc theres def a bid on me culture out here. Even people in nyc like to have fun but out here its ima sit in a section and do things for instagram and pay me to be with u
@@CjBlk you don’t have the gold we are digging. We know the average wage of black males ..by statistics woman (black and white) are making 6x more than you all.
Everyone should be financially elevated but in Houston a lot of women are dating for HELP. They flat out dont even want to bring anything to the table but their looks. It's easy to get caught up in that as a man because we are so physically attracted but by time you realize you chose the wrong person they've scammed hundreds if not thousands out of you.
@@CanoncoreyBecause so many men use women for their bodies, the women now have adapted to requiring getting something so if the guy ghosts, at least they got something out of it.
The problem is the men going after particular woman that’s looking for a step up There are some less attractive women who don’t want a step up but guys don’t want those girls They want good looking chicks who wants money lol Stop crying and pick different ppl to be with
As a man you HAVE to be physically attracted to the woman you are with. The minute you settle down... gorgeous women seem to just have a nack for popping up wanting you now that you're in a relationship.
@@Canoncorey ok but the women men to seem to be physically attracted to are the ones who want them to simp lol So either simp or change who you decide to holla at lol Don’t cry about it though
I’m from Chicago and I’ve been in Houston for a few years now. From young to old EVERY WOMAN that’s from Houston legit done said in a way they are looking for a come up a savior or that they were tired of Houston but at the same time weren’t doing things to leave or travel. Even the ones that had money. The women here are very beautiful but one thing I know for a fact is that you better not be looking for love out here 😂 most the women here have at least bare minimum of 2 kids if they are above 26 and up, the ones that are between the ages of 22-28 with no kids your better off hitting that first night cause if you not they will disappear. No communication skills at all. Most women from Houston view guys from another city 3 ways. Either a tourist, a savior, or a fun time just not a long time. Best have fun or focus on your purpose is my only advice
Houston got so many variety of good looking women! He talking about the party every day and night women! There are many good women in Houston! Loads of them!! All colors and races! They here!!
There is about 7 million ppl in Houston. The women that I know and myself, have our own. It’s more so partnership for us. You attract the energy you see and you have to ask yourself what am I not seeing that is attracting ppl of this caliber? But this could be possibly majority because of the gimmick they are portraying in society. But that’s how you distinguish the leaders from the followers.
idk Houston seems to be over ran with the wrong type of women. If you want to find a real relationship you're better off finding it in a completely different city.
@@Canoncorey to each their own. The way I see it, people are reflections to their own issues that they aren’t noticing. But that’s another topic most aren’t willing to have. A lot of ppl in America period are only interested in surface level relationships (material possessions, sex etc.) and that’s why so many ppl can’t find what they want or don’t know what they truly want. Whether they are looking in Houston or another city, the issue will follow them regardless.
100 percent accurate. And it's been like that since 2010. 😢 80's 90's early 2000 it was different and fun. But now the women in Houston Texas don't believe in love.
Moved to Houston for 2 years…..had to been the worst dating experience I’ve ever had in my 27 years on earth 😂😂😂 you got your pickings but the pickings ain’t in your favor
How depressing. I wanted to come to Houston for a business venture but hoped to meet a good man when there also. Sounds like the men are too damaged by the treatment they’ve had so far from women out there. Maybe I just need to look elsewhere as would like to get everything in one place- good lifestyle, business and a man that isn’t jaded.
@@Canoncorey have you thought about attending a church? You will find different women there if you seek out women who genuinely love God. They won’t be frequenting these clubs or trying to be with you for money. Every woman wants to feel she is with someone who wants to take pride in working in some form but her main priority is to see if you honour God before caring about materialism. Material things are not bad but it’s better to do everything seeking God’s will. That way you can experience His blessing on it.
They lying to you my guy, females love money but they will still treat you like a king if you handsome and super in shape. They just won’t settle down with you. Unless you got money.
I promise they couldn't care less about how you look. I was shocked. I know of a few BADDIES that told me straight up they don't care how a man looks as long as he has "the bag".
Hey-You should make a series detailing not only people's experiences but also tips. I see that you created an additional video on activity based singles meetups (bowling). You should go more into detail on a woman's perspective. Maybe you can get a trusted friend or an associate who can highlight her opinion on dating as a woman in Houston.
@@Canoncorey I read this so wrong at first Lmaoo 😭 I thought you meant you gotta sugar daddy lmao but I see you meant you also know from experience lol 😂
I seen the most corniest dudes going on dates with attractive looking women. I can tell she was going to leadn all of his secrets to become wealthy😂 dudes are desperate and lonely these days
its fine women the H but its also baby mama baggage capital I say Charlotte or somewhere in the Carolinas but cover ya bones or get ate by the john roger pope
This isn't a Houston thing, it is most women these days in the US.
Most woman don’t wanna be hookers or escorts
Big Facts today's ladies be trying to level up
That’s why you have to date genuine Godly women.
I wish it was that easy, but even godly women have issues.
@@CanoncoreyYes! They are heauxs!
The biggest 304’s are in church.
@@tupactargaryen And hospitals! I'm a male RN...do NOT MARRY ONE!
Men got to make 500k-1 million per year to date a broke women 😂. Pass rather trick with my money than settle down
No fr 💯💯💯💯💯
Both of you sound broke and frustrated. 🤡 Women weren’t created to be the financial Provider in the relationship. That’s your job which you’re failing at which is why you’re crying about no longer receiving attention you never earned. ✨
Dating does suck everywhere, but Houston has it especially bad.
Houston has the worst city planning ever achieved. Its suburbs are soulless car-dependent consumerist nightmares.
I live in a rural suburb & I'd have a better chance of getting a date in norilsk.
This is why I'm an autistic virgin at 30.
Facts lol the only thing to do in the summer is drink
Well Baltimore is worst then Houston. I'll tell you that
Facts
Wht does city planning have to do with dating?If you realized how uneducated you sound then you probably would’ve just kept tht comment to yourself!!!
The best dating video telling the truth about Houston I've seen so far! If you want a marriage and family. Do not waste your youth in Houston!
As a Houston native this is definitely true and has been for a while
Not really. If you got bread ok. If not at least give the opposite the knowledge to get the bread. Then you both win @
Feels like you gotta be some type of celebrity type of dude to attract a woman in a big cities like Houston/Atl/Miami for that matter
Or pretend to be one which is what 70% of the population is doing, but in reality a lot of millennials in Houston are struggling financially.
@@Canoncoreyfacts, they are in houston getting evicted all over
It’s because these cities actually have celebrities and athletes. Hate to say it but attractive females can get access to these group of guys just because of their looks and since average men don’t have that type of status then they want them to pay. Meanwhile they getting smashed by all kinds of athletes since college
Dating in Houston or anywhere is no one size fits all 😂.. depends on several factors
Kevin Samuels affectionately referred to Houston as the finesse capital of the USA. There are no genuine women in Houston on finessers. However, in the 2024 dating era, this is a USA thing not just Houston. Everyone is looking for a come up. People even say in order to be friends with them, you gotta put them on to something. FRIENDS! 🤦🏾♂️
This is all completely true
Facts
You're absolutely correct. You have to use great judgment when picking someone. It's not impossible, but the culture in Houston is really surface level now, so getting a partner isn't that easy. Dating here used to be a lot better even ten years ago. Pretentiousness runs the city now.
Dating used to be easier for sure. People are moving here and with that comes the dynamic changing. Even the prices of everything is increasing now.
Salute to Black Men. I'm in H-town. Like anything I've had both good and bad experiences. Fellas ask yourself these questions.
1. If I'm making all this money, what is my end game? Do you want a Legacy aka Kids?
2. If you want a family what is the value system I want instilled in him or her?
Dating and Marrying our Black Women shouldn't be a battle or a game of who can out wit/ finesse the other. We go through that enough in our business or career. America is NOT about Traditional Values, and Gender roles. Therefore as a Man you will never be the "Man" and the woman will Never truly be in her "Feminine". It's designed that way. So your options are simple. 1. Try and find a Sista that is comfortable with you to take the lead without having to "Purchase her Femininity". or 2.) Travel the World to find your Best Option. It's up to you!
Bottom Line, Don't Complain and Don't try to Change someone. You're the Man, the World is Yours! Go get it Fellas!
I've never gone on as many dates as I have in recent times where women are asking my opinions about 50/50 on a first date (which is annoying). There is so much tricking going on too. I will say as a Black man it is still better for us here when it comes to dating in comparison to Black women. Atlanta and Houston are actually bad places to date for single Black women.
NY & California as well. Any big city is difficult
It's horrible for single autistic white men.
I live in a rural suburb in the south of the city btw.
I live in houston and thats true for black women who are only looking to date within their own race, culture, or community. Black women struggle with familiar dating, and rarely expand their dating options, but if black woman open up to more options, I've seen it do a 180, and become extremely easy to date in Houston.
I just read a survey that rated Houston as the most uptight city in Texas. I've been living here for 8 years, and I'm not too surprised at all.
I live in Houston, I'm from here, and one thing about dating women in Houston is very hard, if a man looking for love in Houston, good luck with that, you definitely have to pay for love
That's why I stayed away from the "baddies" here in Houston. Found a solid 6 with her own career, and live under the radar.
Smart man 😅 I tried something like that and couldn’t do it
@@Canoncorey😂😂😂😂
Great video bro. I think as a man having our finances together is real important especially if you want a real attractive woman and you may not be her physical or personality preference. However, a woman just dating a guy for money doesn’t mean she will be loyal to you and it clearly doesn’t mean she will sleep with a guy neither. Like you said dating nowadays is a game the biggest thing really is adapt to it and learn how to move around.
I was literally repeating what was said to me by this crazy beautiful girl I've been spending time with. She's been keeping it real about a lot of things. I also have experience with women who think just like her but I found out the hard way.
@@Canoncorey that’s wassup bro. Life experience is our greatest teacher. yea man it’s crazy me and my co worker was just talking about this topic with dating these days. Men have to do alot more. We have to contact them more take them out etc. i still stick by the premise guys who are a womens preference have to do a lot less. Price discrimination as I call it is real especially in Black America 😂
Trickin in Htown is at an all Time HIGH
Especially since Covid brought everyone to the city
This is the real truth he couldn't say in the vid; hoes flock from all over the states just to find a rich houston trick by any means.
Everybody in Houston was on some player shit until Drake's so far gone came out.
Houston been like this ..stop it
@@kalipooh3388 this is a lie. When Too Short was in his prime back in the 90s, everybody wanted to be pimps and players. Now Houston done went soft
That’s true the women are dating for their own benefits…… however the men with a huge “BAG” started it. Mainly married men or bachelors who are not emotionally available would replace giving a woman a real commitment with materials. Women are taking what men are supplying. When men become more marriage minded with God at the center the dating scene will change for the collective.
Hold women accountable it’s not the men fault
Man I moved to Houston in 2016 from Alabama/Atlanta. I never had so much fun and good times with women. They were choosing as soon as I stepped off the plane. I was on a date every date and smashing if I wanted. Doctors, lawyers, bottle girls, accountants, black, hispanic etc. I was only making 50/60k a year back then. I'm married with 2 kids now but brother it might be you and the type of women u looking for. They still beat my door down.
Right. I feel you
Same!! I don’t know what he talking about!! 😂😂
Real Talk
For real , you can’t settle
Down in texas . Dallas or Houston . Your the problem .
Ima be honest with you bro, just fake it till they naked lol…. Shit worked so much for me back in the days ( few years ago ) , but found my lucky gem
If you're a man with bread 🍞 resources, you better not go broke or she's gone.
Unfortunately this is facts
Their are a lot of attractive friendly women in Houston. If a guy just wants to hangout and have unattached fun, it's possible. The local girls have a thing for easterners. They follow Beyonce's roadmap. " I need a soldier "
Thank god i found my wife in florida, cuz stipper culture is real out there most girls ive seen have the strippper look, and im from nyc theres def a bid on me culture out here. Even people in nyc like to have fun but out here its ima sit in a section and do things for instagram and pay me to be with u
This is standard.
You shouldn’t even want a relationship without being financially elevated…. Unless you are extremely young.
Gold diggers say that all the time
@@CjBlk you don’t have the gold we are digging.
We know the average wage of black males ..by statistics woman (black and white) are making 6x more than you all.
Everyone should be financially elevated but in Houston a lot of women are dating for HELP. They flat out dont even want to bring anything to the table but their looks. It's easy to get caught up in that as a man because we are so physically attracted but by time you realize you chose the wrong person they've scammed hundreds if not thousands out of you.
@@CanoncoreyBecause so many men use women for their bodies, the women now have adapted to requiring getting something so if the guy ghosts, at least they got something out of it.
@@sparklesp9304You sound like a prostitute
Depends where in Houston you're looking. Are you going to church? Colleges? Or are you looking in clubs
Definitely not looking in church, and it doesn’t matter where you look. The very act of “searching” will turn you in to a target.
He’s not looking in church
I live here in Houston almost every girl you meet here is a pretty much a sugar baby. But this city is full of finessers.
Finesse capital of the world
The women that offered love was women I wasn't attracted to.
Which is the dilemma it’s like we all end up facing
The problem is the men going after particular woman that’s looking for a step up
There are some less attractive women who don’t want a step up but guys don’t want those girls
They want good looking chicks who wants money lol
Stop crying and pick different ppl to be with
As a man you HAVE to be physically attracted to the woman you are with. The minute you settle down... gorgeous women seem to just have a nack for popping up wanting you now that you're in a relationship.
@@Canoncorey ok but the women men to seem to be physically attracted to are the ones who want them to simp lol
So either simp or change who you decide to holla at lol
Don’t cry about it though
I’m from Chicago and I’ve been in Houston for a few years now. From young to old EVERY WOMAN that’s from Houston legit done said in a way they are looking for a come up a savior or that they were tired of Houston but at the same time weren’t doing things to leave or travel. Even the ones that had money. The women here are very beautiful but one thing I know for a fact is that you better not be looking for love out here 😂 most the women here have at least bare minimum of 2 kids if they are above 26 and up, the ones that are between the ages of 22-28 with no kids your better off hitting that first night cause if you not they will disappear. No communication skills at all. Most women from Houston view guys from another city 3 ways. Either a tourist, a savior, or a fun time just not a long time. Best have fun or focus on your purpose is my only advice
Houston got so many variety of good looking women! He talking about the party every day and night women! There are many good women in Houston! Loads of them!! All colors and races! They here!!
Make a video and show us then
@@Canoncoreyit’s been 2 weeks
@@Canoncorey Dude to say there are no good women Houston is ridiculous.Stop imposing your weak ass game on others.
There are decent women but they don't go out, lol. You have to connect with them through their network...family, friends, and church.
🧢
There is about 7 million ppl in Houston. The women that I know and myself, have our own. It’s more so partnership for us. You attract the energy you see and you have to ask yourself what am I not seeing that is attracting ppl of this caliber?
But this could be possibly majority because of the gimmick they are portraying in society. But that’s how you distinguish the leaders from the followers.
idk Houston seems to be over ran with the wrong type of women. If you want to find a real relationship you're better off finding it in a completely different city.
@@Canoncorey to each their own. The way I see it, people are reflections to their own issues that they aren’t noticing. But that’s another topic most aren’t willing to have. A lot of ppl in America period are only interested in surface level relationships (material possessions, sex etc.) and that’s why so many ppl can’t find what they want or don’t know what they truly want. Whether they are looking in Houston or another city, the issue will follow them regardless.
@@NaLege I moved to DC
@@Canoncorey may you find what you’re searching for both within yourself and a significant other. ☺️
100 percent accurate. And it's been like that since 2010. 😢 80's 90's early 2000 it was different and fun. But now the women in Houston Texas don't believe in love.
“Syphilis increased 128% among women in Houston. Run a search on it. “Ima just leave this here.
It’s always been crazy in Houston. Ever since high school I knew people catching it 😳
Houston is the Life realization the World needs...ok 🤘🏾
Moved to Houston for 2 years…..had to been the worst dating experience I’ve ever had in my 27 years on earth 😂😂😂 you got your pickings but the pickings ain’t in your favor
ain't lying about Htown my sister tried to tell me she been around Houston women they all about finessing what they can get out of ya
It’s crazy. It’s like they turned the city into a strip club.
How depressing. I wanted to come to Houston for a business venture but hoped to meet a good man when there also. Sounds like the men are too damaged by the treatment they’ve had so far from women out there. Maybe I just need to look elsewhere as would like to get everything in one place- good lifestyle, business and a man that isn’t jaded.
Honestly it’s almost like the strip club culture has taken over the city. That’s really the best way to explain it.
@@Canoncorey have you thought about attending a church? You will find different women there if you seek out women who genuinely love God. They won’t be frequenting these clubs or trying to be with you for money. Every woman wants to feel she is with someone who wants to take pride in working in some form but her main priority is to see if you honour God before caring about materialism. Material things are not bad but it’s better to do everything seeking God’s will. That way you can experience His blessing on it.
I mean still try it out. You never know
They lying to you my guy, females love money but they will still treat you like a king if you handsome and super in shape. They just won’t settle down with you. Unless you got money.
I promise they couldn't care less about how you look. I was shocked. I know of a few BADDIES that told me straight up they don't care how a man looks as long as he has "the bag".
@@Canoncorey What is considered "the bag" what amount? How much?
@@murphyman814 whatever amount that you feel you need to take care of you and the other person at the same time. There isn't a specific amount.
He’s actually right. This is part of the reason so many women go missing or end up dead because they take chances with strangers they don’t know
Bruh Never listen to what a woman Says, watch what she Does….pookie beating that box up
Hey-You should make a series detailing not only people's experiences but also tips. I see that you created an additional video on activity based singles meetups (bowling). You should go more into detail on a woman's perspective. Maybe you can get a trusted friend or an associate who can highlight her opinion on dating as a woman in Houston.
If you got bread ok. If no bread than at least give the opposite the knowledge on how you failed and how to get it. Then you both win 💯
A lot of women in Houston don’t want to stick around while you’re building. They’ll say things like “It’s not my job to build a man”
Sounds like Houston is simp city.
joshuaafcutler7348 Why it has to be a simp city.
I been here alll my life and it IS
It’s more of a Trick City!
I blame Drake's music for turning the city of Houston into a bunch of tricks and simps.
Which is hilarious because their baby daddy didnt upgrade THEIR lives, yet its beholden upon the new guy to be atlas and lift up her world
Your dating on the world . It’s all superficial. Get in with God and find a community .. meet your wife
I married someone in the church when I was younger. Worst decision of my life.
Remember guys, it’s only your turn
It aint no different over here in Austin, bro.
I rather be single than a simp.
BETTER GET TESTED 👍
A lot a of gross generalizations which seem reflect your own personal challenges wiyh women.
Half the women you meet in the H that are between 25-35 have sugar daddies. And I know this from experience
Unfortunately so do I
@@Canoncorey I read this so wrong at first Lmaoo 😭 I thought you meant you gotta sugar daddy lmao but I see you meant you also know from experience lol 😂
@@percyhawkins5825 😅 the last 2 women I dated when I was out there had Sugar daddies before I met them.
I seen the most corniest dudes going on dates with attractive looking women. I can tell she was going to leadn all of his secrets to become wealthy😂 dudes are desperate and lonely these days
In DC is 10 times worse trust DMV is my father worst place to date or in a relationship
I don’t see that my women in my area.
There are tons of women in Houston. Try brunch spots on the weekends.
Invest in condoms if your gonna date in Houston!
Should be using condoms in any city
Or anywhere else
Sounds horrible
It's very horrible if your goal is to settle down
It’s horrible and I get a lot of women - but every one of them are not to be trusted nor taken seriously
Things haven't changed. 😅
I doubt they will anytime soon
So you’ve talked to every woman
Go to a small town and pick up women you’re welcome
It spread everywhere
😂 They all the same. You would have to go to a non feminist, non westernized nation to find good women.
Hes right but mainly BLACK WOMEN just sad
I should’ve tried dating another race while I was there
its fine women the H
but its also baby mama baggage capital
I say Charlotte or somewhere in the Carolinas but cover ya bones or get ate by the john roger pope
Baby mama baggage is everywhere. I don’t think there’s a city with a significant amount more.
There's a lot of HIV in Houston.
Numbers definitely sky rocketed after the pandemic,