These 8 Things Will BREAK Your Cat's TRUST in You
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- Опубликовано: 3 июн 2024
- In today's video, "These 8 Things Will BREAK Your Cat's Trust in You," we're diving into the sure ways to lose your cat's trust and what you should not do with your cat. We all want our feline friends to feel comfortable and loved, but there are certain actions that can seriously damage the bond you're trying to build. Whether you're a long-time cat owner or just starting the journey of bonding with cats, understanding these pitfalls is crucial. From common mistakes in handling to overlooking their unique needs, we cover everything that could lead to your cat feeling uneasy or afraid. This guide is not only about what to avoid but also about laying a strong foundation for making cats like you, especially if you're trying to gain the trust of an adult cat or a shy one.
Moreover, we’ll delve into positive strategies on how to gain cat trust and how to befriend a cat. If you've ever wondered how to stop my cat being afraid of me or how to get a shy cat to trust you, this video is your go-to resource. We'll explore gentle and effective techniques that promote trust and understanding between you and your furry companion. Gaining a cat's trust doesn't happen overnight, but with patience and the right approach, it's definitely achievable. So, if you're committed to learning how to gain the trust of a cat and want to ensure you never do these things to a cat, this video is a must-watch. Remember, a trusting cat is a happy cat, and that's what we all strive for!
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0:00 It’s Easy to Lose Your Cat’s Trust
0:26 Number 8
1:47 Number 7
2:50 Number 6
3:57 Number 5
4:59 Number 4
5:47 Number 3
7:07 Number 2
8:14 Number 1
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I have 3 cats and I leave a big bowl of crunchy food out 24/7 ...they snack anytime throughout the day. I'm not sure how accepted this feeding practice is,,,,, but my cats live 18-21 years and they are very happy and interactive.
Question so my cats gonna be 2 and I cant eat around him. He insists on trying my food or more lol😅 hes a brat 😅. How do you show him no?
for number 6, I can confirm because my baby has no problem with me going to everyday but she does have a problem with it when she doesn't know where im going
My cat is the same way , she won't eat can food and I leave dry food in her bowl so she can eat whenever she wants , and she loves Arrowhead bottle water. , try to make sure that the food and water bowls are filled up as much as possible because it bends and hurts their whiskers , I had a veterinarian tell me that and they are a much happier cat ! 😂 ❤
One important thing that I feel is often overlooked, especially when your cat is only just a kitten - NEVER take their food from them under ANY circumstances. This is especially true when it comes to kittens that are still nursing. They WILL remember it, and it WILL damage their bond with you.
My cat adores cuddles while sleeping. If he is in deep sleep he doesn't move and I just curl up around him. If he isn't that deep in, he gives me that happy purr-meow sound and turns to show me his chin so he can get scratched! We spend hours when I have the chance just sleeping and cuddling, it's the most peaceful experience ever ^_^ ...but even the vet told my cat he's strange so maybe he's a one-off! >.
I have a ginger and yes he does like cuddling, but then usually finds his own space when he's ready to sleep.
@@rowankeltizar5961 my cat's own space to sleep is starting to be on my chest ...I think I am going to strengthen my lungs hahaha
I'm so tired of people saying cats dont understand what they did is bad. There is a reason that they will jump off the counter or couch, or run off when you get home and find a plant or jar they broke. They know when they do things they arnt supposed to.
learn in a soft way in the youth u will go far but never ever yell or be hard with them! my cats dont scratch furniture or peeing or whatever....i just learned them softly as young kittens:) best friends ever!!
I chose 5pm as dinner time for my cat and it is unbelievable how often she turns up, almost exactly at 5pm. All of a sudden, she pops up and I look at the time and it's too frequent. Better than a Rolex - if you want to know when it's 5pm!
We feed at 8pm. I believe they learned how to read our clock. Never one second late. Until daylight savings time. It’s such a hard concept to explain to cats.
Another way to avoid overstimulation is to interupt the petting before when you think the cat "had enough" and wait with petting again until they want it again, which they signal by rubbing its head against yours or hand. That means "I want to be be petted again." and that's the cue to continue.
This of course is a GUIDE - every cat is different - with different backgrounds (meaning those who come from a shelter as adults). When I got my cat - he wouldn't eat unless there was two cups of his food in front of him - any less, he wouldn't eat till more is put in the bowl - then eat all of it a little at a time - he will NOT eat anything but his kibble and a specific 'treat' kibble - but he drinks with no problem (have tried many times to have him eat moist food to no avail). I have watched these videos (MANY MANY of them) and done things that 'cats love when you do this' and was reprimanded by my cat for doing so ;) Again, these are not set in stone
Cats have a hard time eating if their food in the bowl is low because it causes their whiskers to bend and is uncomfortable for them , I had a veterinarian tell me that before , so try to keep the food and water filled up as much as possible
When I pet my cat on the back, he grabs my hand with both paws and directs my hand to his head. He doesn't like being petted on his back
My cat percy doesn't like to be picked up at all.
I do punish my cat, but not the way you think. As a warning I hiss or growl at him, normally he listens, but as cats are he tests me sometimes and ignores the warning. What I do next is, I do what mother cats does, take him by the neck and put him on place he knows he can be on.
Now for those of you thinking my cat probably hates me, I watched a video of Feline Fanatics: Does your cat views you as mother? And it seems very clear, that he does sees me as a mother figure.
I´m not a furry, but when it comes to my cat I try to behave like a cat would, to communicate with him. Not through meowing, but as I mentioned for example growling and hissing, taking him by the neck like a mother cat does. I rub my face against his while cuddling as most animals do, to show affection etc. They can´t speak our language, but we understand how they communicate. And if we speak their language (body language, specific sounds cats use in specific situations) it works. My cat feels understood by me, and he understands me.
He´s only almost 10 months old. I let him go outside every morning before work, and almost everyday I come back home from work, and there he is waiting for me and purring before I even pet him. And if he´s not there waiting for me, he returns home after 20 minutes of me coming home.
And I know he loves me, because almost every evening he lays down on my belly, lays his head on my left breast to hear my heart beat, and while I softly pet him he purrs away until he falls asleep on top of me.
So you can say whatever you want, but according to his behavior I obviously did something right.
My cat thinks Im a big cat so he sometimes wants to rough play bite me. When this happens, I take a moment to tell him its inappropriate and hes crossing my boundaries. I let him know I respect his boundaries, he should respect mine. I say this in a calm and serious tone. He seems to understand. He gets annoyed and rolls his eyes but he gets it.
Also when I leave to go out, I leave the light on and play calming cat music for him. It lessens his anxiety.
The cat does not understand what your saying , its the tone , actions not words
I usually tap at his forehead lightly when he rough plays with two fingers, pretending I am a cat pawing at him. I heard somewhere it's how mama cat's teach kittens - it seems to work, he stops and looks at me questioning what's wrong and then calms down. Now he learned how much he can rough play and I haven't had the need to do it in a good while ^_^
Hi,
I do the same when I leave the house, I keep the music & TV on & it helps him with his separation anxiety
This is an excellent list of excellent advice!
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🤗😻 It really is. My wife got me a kitten this time in 2021. Since then I got two more. Everything that can be broken has been, but that's my fault ! I have lots of cat trees and even created a walkway up along my walls for them. I have never barked at any of them, if they do something I don't like, it's because I am not a cat so it doesn't bother me. I let them come to me and I never wake them up. Being a dog person I never much liked cats but since having them I feel they are a lot like me. I don't like being woken up, touched randomly 😆 I like my meals at regular times, I like a nice clean toilet and I like to potter about at my own speed 🤣 I had no idea I was a cat person. I wouldn't change my life for a dog now but wouldn't mind one if they cats didn't mind either. Lets wait and see.
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My cat is quite distant, but I'm a cuddler. I must play according to my cat's rules. I take my cue from her. She is quite elderly and she dictates how and when she approves of contact. Nb she did start to scratch my furniture so i bought a few scratch mats and each time she started to scratch, i placed her on a mat. 3 months later, it worked❤❤❤
Nop, you got to teach them who the man amd who the cat is and not be a catsimp.
I've moved from a house to a flat, where my boy is now house bound 😢 I also work a shift pattern, he has started to bite me for no reason! 😿
one of our 4 cats has unfortunately been diagnosed with a terminal case of FOMO. Fear of missing out. he cannot be away from me for more than a few hours. he needs cuddles and belly rubs all the time, then after dinner he will go outside for a few hours, only to meet me back in bed. He loves petting when sleeping, he starts purring like mad if it wakes him up, and will paw my hands to his belly. Our granny cat who sleeps next to my face also is happy to have me rest a hand on her or gently pet her when she is snoring away. insta purr, licks etc.
overstimulation is a thing in some cats, but not others. One of ours will do laps ontop of us when my GF and i are in bed. shel spend like a minute getting mad chin scratches, behind the ears, cheeks, full face massage, then the needs to back off, n be back for more 30 seconds later. On the flip side, our big boy demands belly rubs all the time, and even if its been 5 mins and u stop, hel swipe at u with his paw to pull ur hand back, sometimes with claws...
Bottom line, dont take this at gospel, know ur cat
I don't have any feeding times. I thnk that is nuts. I keep dry food in their bowls so they eat when they want to. They will not touch can food so i quit buying it. Their dry foods are all natural, no colors no artificial flavors. They also get the Eldorado Springs water. NO tap water as i know they put chemicals in that. I love my rescue cats and they return that love.
There’s nothing natural about dry food.
My cats are the same, they decide when they are hungry and want food. Typically they have a small meal for breakfast before being let outside, then an hour later they come inside one at a time demanding to be fed a proper meal since they worked up an appetite. Many times they will skip lunch and just sleep from 11am to 6pm. Then after playing outside they come in at around 7 or 8pm wanting dinner. Every cat is different some want 3 square meals a day others just want to have more smaller meals throughout the day. Then there are the cats who are bottomless pits when it comes to food lol
That’s good mail mate 👊
Worst thing you’ve done for your cats is teaching them to “love” dry food. What makes you think that highly processed dehydrated food is healthy for them? It’s like putting yourself on a full time fast food diet. What you feed sends their blood sugar levels through the roof. Cats that eat exclusively dry food overtime become insulin-resistant and eventually diabetic. Same goes for people who consume excessive amounts of fast food.
My Midnight lived 21.5 years on Purina dry cat food! So I don’t want to hear your bologna ‼️‼️
2nd, all my boys bowl s are always filled for when ever they want a bite to eat‼️ if I can get something to eat anytime around the clock, so should my pets‼️
Thanks again for sharing
Dogs have owners. Cats have staff.
Thanks 3 cats different personalities this helps.
love number 5. he's a block cat now , all love him . feeding pokes in head oi feed me
Watching from Ireland
The thing about being away for too long sometimes can't be helped. What if I got injured real badly and had to be admitted into the hospital for weeks?
love it as a cat owner since 15
30 seconds in and I’m like “oh no please don’t say going to work”
My cat likes when I cuddle up to him in his sleep
Our newly rescued senior cat scratches the furniture even though we have many scratching posts and toys. He does not let us pick him up or pet him much. How do we get to him to stop?
My wife brought home a kitty cat 6 months old. She's about a year old and I think she's the spawn of Satan.
I laugh and laugh at night she bites my wife's toes and chews on her hair and I love it.
She is so sweet
It sucks when your job requires you to work whatever hours they dictate. We can't do anything about that but we can spend time with them when we can.
Don't interrupt a cat's sleep. Lol. See, Fluffy, it isn't so much fun to get woken up is it?
right🙄
Bllshit they interrupt my sleep
@@user-yo2lp4do5y that is actually my point.
I adopted my cat in Oct 2021, he is FIV+ and blind about 7 yo. he is a total love bug, he always wants to be near or next to me. the second I sit on couch, he senses it and jumps on couch, lays his head on my leg and goes to sleep with me lightly stroking him for a minute or two. then I don't/cannot get up to do what I want. I wait for him to move. no he isn't in charge, no he doesn't rule here, no I don't plan my non-work day around him. nope, not at all. yeah who am I kidding. I don't mind, he is such a good kitty
Regarding number 2, my cat is afraid of people she doesnt know. I do try to introduce her at first, but just briefly, because she does get scared, so if she is still very scared after the brief initial introduction, I just let her go hide. No point in keeping her around any longer.
Very interesting - the comments as well. All cat-people should read all. -----
I am very sorry not to have completely understood (I am not an English native speaker) - subtitles or very slow speaking would have helped.
My sis have a maincoon and often leaves it by us. So I have question: what does that mean when Jeta looks at me and shows me to go with her so she can eat and drink?
Somebody should one day post about how to rule a cat without breaking his trust.
my mom and dad always scream at my cat when he’s on the counter,they also push him off, so hopefully this video will make them stop
My brat bit me bc I asked her to move ! She came back to me to apologize but I don't trust her yet!
My cats are definitely not comfortable w cuddling 😂😢
One of my cats gently taps my face with his claws in the morning to let me know he wants to be fed. The other one chews my elbow.
Now I'm going to get up literally every 10 minutes just to stare at my cat while he does literally nothing, like he wants me to. Thank you.
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This is a very harsh pod. Generally right ideas, but with a real guilt prod. Best I think is to have 2 cats who grow up together and get on. Cats learn us more than we ever learn them.
There are ways to give advice without making people feel guilty if they have a cat or scared to have cats in case they mess up.
If you have messed up, but in ignorance, I believe your cat knows this and forgives you.
You don't need harsh instructions to do right. If your cat is unhappy you will know. The atmosphere is unbearable. Otherwise they seem to absorb human negativity and turn it into love. It's too unbearable to eg punish them for normal behaviour. They force you to forgive them.
We are the ones being trained. Ultimately there's nothing more comforting than being owned by a cat who loves you.
@@raysapaw I like this.
@@thehubbleton The pod or my comment?
@@raysapaw Your comment. 😸
My cat adores cuddles while sleeping sometimes she comes up on my bed and cuddles with me but she got pregnant then the baby boy died after four months i was so sad for her and the baby boy
Cats with abdominal pain are aggressive and do not want to be petted. They associate pain with the presence of the owner. They do not want to be touched during the day, but during the night, when they digest their food, their stomach stops hurting, they may want to be petted in the morning. Cats that are depressed or bored eat a lot of fur, which may be the reason for daily pain. Domestic cats often catch parasites from owners who enter the house from outside with dirt on their shoes
Everytime i watch one of these videos, it reminds me how out of touch people have become.
The points mentioned in this video SHOULD be obvious, I learned all these things when I was just a child, with nothing more than intuition.
I sincerely believe the people who do not already know these things, are the people who say things like "animals have no souls" or "they don't have feelings", insecure people who see cats (among other animals") as "lesser beings", and this thinking translates to their behavior toward said animals.
Which is why they are not naturally inclined to extend the usual courtesy we offer others.
It simply does not cross their mind...
If I need to EXPLAIN TO YOU that cats have emotional complexity that rivals our own, and that they can be offended/loose faith/feel despair/betrayal and so on... then in my opinion, you are a lost soul, detached from the Gaia (I use the term "Gaia" loosely).
It is NOT rocket science!
You either approach ALL LIFE FORMS with respect... or you don't.
It speaks WORLDS about who YOU ARE, the absence of one thing can signal the presence of another.
I love the poetic "justice" of it all, for those who put in the work, are rewarded with the secret inner workings of the cosmos, while those who ignore and think it "beneath them", end up depriving THEMSELVES of practices that open one's ability to communicate, perceive, intuit and so much more.
We REALLY ARE OUR OWN WORST ENEMIES...
All praise the Great kitty Overlords!
Ever hear of Toxoplasma Gondii also called Toxoplasmosis?
The Masters (feline Overlords) command you to look it up!
I'm sure you will appreciate...
Bye meow!
Who wants to live with an animal that's supposed to just be allowed to wreck whatever it wants?
You really don’t understand cats
U rlly don’t understand cats
We need to learn how to respect animals
EXACTLY TY
What’s the best way to handle number 6? Is there a way to let them know you’ll be back in a set amount of time? A way for them to adjust to our routine? If I’m working 8 hours a day I want him to know I’ll be back in 8 hours and that he doesn’t have to worry about me or stress. If anyone knows a good way to handle this please lmk cause it stresses me out thinking about this 😭
May sound strange but I always use the same words when I leave so he is used to the sounds of those words and seems to work. The phrase can be anything but Shld be consistently the same. Mine is simply “I’ll be back”. And when I come home the first thing I say is “I’m back”.
Cats aren’t humans. Really… they’ll never adjust to your schedule. Just give it up. or stop watching videos about what you’re doing right or wrong with your cat just get over there and hug them and enjoy them.
@@gailremp8389 that’s not true. They can absolutely understand a schedule. They can have stress and feelings and yes contentment when you pet them. They are not human but denigrating the species as not having any sort of cognizant abilities makes them just stuffed toys. And may I also point out that you must have clicked on the video as well and then read the comments AND decided to respond while insulting others.
I show my cats my car keys and give them a little pet and say " mum is going out and look after the house for me and I will be back soon." I was late once and one of my cats was so pleased to see me.. head butting for a pet and hugging my legs... so adorable. ❤🐈🐈⬛
My cats are fine when I was away for 8 hours I fed and played with them and slept with them
Cute
My cat sleeps on me and I can't move for like 3 hours how can I get her to stop being overly cuddly
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I don't care what anyone says, I punish my cats and they are the best behaved cats I ever had. You have to conform them to your ways not the other way around. When you punish them for biting or something bad like that you act right away. Nice firm scolding and pop on butt. Than you explain to them why and you make them chill with you. Even when they leave go get them and keep them with you. They soon learn you are safe even if a little weird. But it works! Try it. I promise you will only have to discipline them in very beginning. They are quick learners and pretty smart. I have 3 adults and one almost not a kitty anymore that is the sweetest and was literally feral!
Yup cats are very good with conditioning
So my cat i had since a baby loves me i teach him alot he sleeps my chest and trust me fully . My question is how do you make them stop trying to eat your food?😂 Hes crazy and dont care
For 6, just get them a litter mate.
So have a pet who has a stronger heart and does not broke for such silly things
What about them sleeping
u hurt my cat , I hurt you
Yes ❤
Why is the guy on the left at 07:44 coked out of his brain?
Please please don't use your hands as play time cos it may seem cute know but when your cat gets older you shall regret it
It's harmless.
True
What are you talking about?
The bite marks and scratches have healed, so my boy will be a fury of teeth and claws very soon.
My cat is 16 and I don't regret it!
Pet peve of mine. Negative reinforcement is still reinforcement. Negative reinforcement is reinforcing a behavior by removal of a noxious or aversive stimulus.
Negative reinforcement and positive reinforcement are both reinforcement. Negative punishment and positive punishment are both punishment.
Wut
Cats left alone. Hoomans have jobs. We have to leave. Just leave food,coziness,and lots of toys. Stop trying to make us feel guilty. Not working.
I'm sorry, but this is a ridiculous list. Most of it boils down to "don't do anything or your cat wont trust you". Then what's the point of sharing a space with them?
So I shouldn't punish my cat when he urinates on my stuff? Instead I should reward him when he doesn't urinate on my stuff? That doesn't make sense to me and seems completely impractical.
number 8 is absolute bullshit. and i know this for a fact!
Don't bet on it. Cats like all animals are very intelligent. They know exactly what they are doing for attention. And telling them to stop does work ! Otherwise they become like spoiled children if they are allowed to repeat doing whatever is not acceptable. Some of what you say is credible but most of the assumptions about the behaviour of cats are just that - assumptions and quite frankly -nonsense!
Please don't rub your cats belly you think it's cute but then they get mad
So basically touch me when I want but anything else you do is gonna make me hate you 😂 no this list is bs my cat is the most affectionate kitty and he gets in trouble when he is naughty small offense is raised voice with spray bottle medium is a butt smack and he usually ends up whining about it all the way to his bed and his crate is for big nono like getting to big headed and biting or hissing at me or mom but he hasn't had anything above small in a month so saying that they can't understand why they are being punished is bs because they most definitely can
About the yelling and scolding, I have to disagree on that, I yelled at my cat and it doesn't eat the food I leave on the table and patiently waits for me to come before it begs with meows. P.S: That is not the same with the rest of the family. It's dominance on my part
feline n feminile is no the same thing?
Feminile isn’t a word
@@EmoYelHalansu it iz from now
I used to like cats, but after watching this video, F Them, they are so entitled " Seeing you unreliable" they are not pets they are annoying needy animals at this point
Pardon? I feed them, clean their toilet, give them paté for breakfast and insure them, Im more than entitled to force interactions, it's their job. They go in and out as much as they want, if it was that bad...
Folding your fingers in and holding the top of your hand towsrd any animal is defensive. If your not an animal person run not walk away from any animal. You are not an animal person. Its not the animal.
This is bullshit! The cat knows if he bites you hard snd gets a yelling what he did wrong. Stop being catsimps!