Well if it’s not something like poverty, war or rights being taken then nobody gives a shite. Adults should deal with their problems on their own. Either go talk to family or seek professional help. Strangers have no business with other’s bs.
I live in Asia and it baffles me to say the least just how preeminent sex is in Europe and in the United States. It seems like to them sex is all there is to life.
people should stop clowning on this guy, he's living stable and is a talented singer and honestly a chill nice guy. all of that should matter more than being a virgin or not
How are the Patriots, Cam? His moral boundaries are the only thing that are getting in the way of him having sex. Is he broke? It's as easy as that and he can get some from those who are really sexy...
But it's difficult to live when you have a burning desire to do something which every man of your age has been doing for past 30 years and you couldn't and mind you he has been trying a lot for it. (As mentioned in the video) dunno if his trying is low bar. Such people need counseling or skill development of some kind that I can't understand. But something to help them to break the cycle of failure.
@@sivaprasadwarrier3171 It can be paid for. This guy must not have any true male friends, or if he does, they might either just be as clueless as he is, or they must be choir boys and stuff like that. Otherwise, they would have brought him a girl to fuck a long time ago.
@@christofl6523 well yeah. But i think he means there are a lot more of important stuff than that, we are in the 21st century after all, human being has more goals now
@ⰋⰑⰔⰻⰒ Josip yes but height does matter but doesn't mean u have to be tall like a tree it's ok until u are a dwarf also if u are tall and ugly girls won't even look at u
I can relate, had horrible cystic acne from age 16 to 28 and it totally killed my confidence. Smile at a girl or even make eye contact and get the "ewwwww" response. Might be enough to screw someone up for life.
Same here, but don’t worry! My acne episode ended. Still got the scars on my face though. Then I went through rigorous self improvement. Now I have run marathons and work at a large tech company. And i’m still single LMFAOOOOOOO
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Lol he's rather stout, hairy but bald and has bad teeth and it's a good guy, that's a curse that befell upon him Especially living in a first world country He's gonna die without ever touching a pussy
Not sure where you got the woman one from. As for the male most people don’t think you’re a loser for not getting laid assuming all else about you holds up. They’ll just think you need to do x y and or z to make it happen
Honestly girls would empathise this guy for still being a virgin at forty but not a single one would hookup with him in real life. Mostly because of his face
Just like me it's absolutely correct. That's human nature in a nutshell. If you have zero looks on the scale (whatever that is) then you are fcked. Well nit literally but.....
You know you can have sex before marriage rigtt and there is no reason to marry someone in just a year or two dating. You can just date for 6 years and never be married and if it doesn't work out just walk away, no divorce needed
This video is making me lose confidence and I'm just 18... EDIT: I am 20 now and I'm no longer bothered By the fact I'm a virgin, thanks for all the inspiring replies though.
The more you wait the worst it gets! If you wanna get love, do something, ask help from your friends, don't be ashamed, don't be emberassed, do it because you will repent, ask help!
Yep because nice guys pretty much only get placed in the friend zone with women, I've heard some people say that nature is kind to women but not for men. They mean it's kind to women in the sex that women don't really need to put in much effort to have access to sexual relationships like men do
山田太郎 If you’re serious please don’t, whatever you are going through it’s just a test and u have to overcome and pass it and the devil is whispering in your ear to do this horrendous act. It will get better as times goes on whatever it is that you are going through. You will find love, you will be happy, you just have to keep pushing and never give up
It’s nothing to be ashamed of. However it’s annoying when people start thinking you’re gay because of it. It’s not that being gay is a bad thing, it’s just not nice being called something you are not.
I'm a 42 year old virgin. I've never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship in my entire life. I'm independent and i live life the way i want. Am i looking at shedding my virginity....the answer to that is "i don't really care as i don't wake up thinking about it and its nowhere in my list of priorities". Being a "virgin" or losing ones "virginity" is nothing more than a social construct that puts pressure on people to be a certain way.
Well said! There is more to life than sex and reproduction! I hope you do well in life and find more important things to find meaning in than whether or not you've touched someone else's private parts.
Damn, hopefully not. You have 5yrs before it starts feeling worse so if it's something you really care about, try to work on it before then and if it is taking too long, just pay for it to get it out of the way
My number one tip for 40 year old virgins: do not reveal to anyone that you are one. This guy has fixated on his issues for years and now it is a self-fulfilling prophecy. He needs to stop worrying about it and just enjoy life. Women are attracted to happy successful men. A happy successful man with an IDGAF attitude will attract women because they want what he has and will try to get it from him through the only thing a woman has in her arsenal- sex.
From a biological perspective, never having sex definitively makes you a loser. You have essentially failed the one thing that nature has designed you to do, which is to reproduce. You won't pass on your genes, and thus you lost out to everybody else that will.
Don't feel bad for him. He's just protecting his body from all those thots Edit: Guys don't reply about how I'm sexist over a joke... I'm a gamer, so I'm also racist😎😎😎
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see y'all in 28 years when I get interviewed for this Edit: firstly i'm not 12 and i only said 28 years cuz the guy said he was 45 in the vid 🤣 i'm actually 17 which isn't any better ;-;
I'm 38 and still a virgin and I can't tell a lot of people I know because they'll all just say the same cliches that everyone else tells me that I'm getting sick of hearing. However it's not easy being men with me and Clives position in life. Because we've basically got teenage hormones trapped in a middle-aged body that can be extremely frustrating which is why we stay out of the public as much as we can. I know it's tough for us out there Clive, if you're reading this I understand your pain. Good luck man.
Hey man did you have a girlfriend before? Don't lose hope man still. I am 21 now in last year of college so I am over a decade younger than you and I never had a girlfriend either. I had been using tinder, bumble and hinge for almost a month but not even a single match. I have 4 crushes on real life. 3 are from my college and are 18-20 year olds and another is 23 or 24 from another institute. I am too shy but finally managed to get the name of 2 of my crushes and follow them on Instagram and finally messaged one of them and was really happy when finally one of the crush who is 19 and in 2nd year replied to me last week on Instagram. I didn't say her yet that I have crush on her but I am in last year of college and will be graduating by August end or Sept first week so would I have any chance with her and should I try to date her? I am confused and I am kinda scared to say her about my crush on her. We do chat on Instagram every alternate days since last week Monday and it looks like she is getting more comfortable but idk whether she would like me or not but I really like her.
Especially the Soos yeah that’s what I’m like tbf, just want to do it with someone or in a situation where I won’t regret it and feel embarrassed about it haha
I just cried, I feel so alone right now, it made me realize how empty my life is, I 'm sad for him as I recognize myself in this guy, it's how I will turn, at least he have friends to support him,... :'( feeling alone and loveless is one of the worst feeling
I am 26 male, I have felt the same, so recently my friends paid for a prostitute at my birthday and I lost my virginity. I feel a bit better but still want to experience a real girl. But it did increased my confidence a bit more. I feel less scared of girls now. If you don't want to have sex than could still get an handjob, it does help a lot believe me. I am going again next Month.
@@vander1773 I'm kinda strange because I paid for a prostitute 5 years ago but the experience wasn't so great, I only had 10 min, was stressful and didn't cum, now I feel way more uncomfortable with girls than I was when I was a "real" virgin. I'm still shy, even more than before and it's like I'm still a virgin
Relax man your not alone, millions and millions of men are alone and will be alone forever, did you know only 40% of men add to the gene pool whilst 80% of women have, that means historically 60% of men never breeded, that's the majority by quite a lot, its totally normal foor men to struggle like hell to get a girl, dont worry your not alone in your lonlines if your friends with a lot of women or abusive dominant alpha males then you might well feel bad because their all oversexed, but trust me many many millions of men feel EXACTLY the same ! its supposed to be like this for men, were supposed to struggle were supposed to feel p[ain were supposed to have no love, were the expendable ones who women use to do all the dirty tasks in order to impress the women enough to add to the gene pool.
Ya, there's nothing wrong with him per se. Nothing is wrong with someone not "losing their virginity," but I think the main thing is his frustration of wanting to experience that intimacy and not being able to. I guess I know cos I'm a 38 year old virgin. I don't mind the title of "virgin" but I do wish I could experience this before I die LoL
There is something wrong with him in the sense that he wants his cherry popped and he hasn't gotten it yet. He can easily have sex if he is willing to pay for it, or someone pays some whore to have it with him...
@@Grattenj do it man, like you said for the experience and how it feels, the second time I hired a hooker was better than the first and felt more confident, relaxed and it all felt better overall, after this year with so many deaths around us I'd rather regret doing something than not doing at all.
He's not attractive enough to women, if he was, women would throw themselves at him. All he can do is be financially stable or wealthy to secure a woman, but not guaranteed for that woman to stay with him for long, probably used up from sleeping around and looking for a beta to settle with. Alpha fuks, Beta bucks. It's how things work in this world sadly, but it is what it is, no sugarcoating or virtue-signaling.
@@NikosM112you know whats sad. I can relate to this i am 29 soon to be a 30 year old virgin. I had opportunities in the past to get laid not many though but turned them down. The sad thing is a women would pick a loser like some drug addict, pot head etc as a BF before picking a genuine nice shy awkward man though that would treat them right.
I'm a 35 year old virgin and I'm not unhappy about it. People are obsessed with sex. I enjoy my career, friends, and travel. Just because our society is sex-obsessed doesn't mean we have to be.
@End Leftism But if they really want to people can stop caring about intercourse. I mean it may be hard but a lot of times, I think people just act mellow dramatic about it and I totally believe everyone could be content with self pIeasure.
@End Leftism sex nowadays isn't even focused on having kids wtf are you talking about? why would sites like pornhub and xvideos, etc exist if sex was only to have kids? that's the stupidest comment i have ever seen
I know people who became parents as teenagers. That was extremely difficult for them, and most of them got divorced eventually. But they are forced to see their ex frequently since they have children together. Personally I never want to see my ex again. I would think being a virgin isn't horrible. I'm sure there are advantages and disadvantages to both.
@@911ragdoll in the social media age people are becoming more reclusive and shutting themselves in in order to avoid real social interactions unfortunately I'm one of those 21 years old and still a virgin and it's not like I'm even ugly at all
What makes me laugh is the fact that everyone is talking about discrimination nowadays. Everyone is so sensitive and so offended about the smallest gesture of racism or sexism or whatever. Well, no one knows discrimination and being put aside more than a lonely man. The older he gets, the more the discrimination factor increases. They actually mock you for being lonely, depressed and constantly tormented by overwhelming desire. No one invites you anywhere, you are alienated by your colleagues at work, people with children treat you like a pervert, etc.
Let's be real, nowadays it's not even worth to have a relationship... The guy if he wanted can pay for it and be done, but he didn't do that, so at least he has some self-respect, and now that he is that old, he doesn't even care about it that much for sure. When you start the game, you realize after some years and a lot of failed trys it's not worth it.
This guy debunks the typical "just get hobbies get confidence,just make yourself interesting bro". This man has about everything done, he sings, has many friends, always a social person, great hobbies but for some reason he cant a get loyal women. Why?. Its simple, its looks. Wonder what pity excuses people will make make, wonder what gaslight theyll come up about him.
Let's be honest he doesn't perform with that keyboard he probably only plays it in his house with no audience. Plus "has many friends"? I only saw one and it looked like she was his friend out of pity not because she actually liked him. Trust me I commiserate with guys not getting much action but he's not exactly debonair.
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No no bro sochipaths have no problem geting girl sochipaths are girl magnet becouse have very sharp social skills butt they lack empaty they are very manipultive and cold and empty inside
@Tashawn Sheffield Not everyone who fucks a girl gets her pregnant Seems like you're just making up reasons Like look, sex isn't all there is to life, but there's a reason why people love it so much and, there's nothing wrong if you wanna have sex Just know the risks and prepare for them if the time ever comes. Don't let anyone pressure you and just be yourself
Y'all be going around with some shady people complaining about STDs all the time all over the internet. I am not a virgin and I haven't caught an STD in my whole life. Granted I don't have sex with randos every day of the week but neither should any normal person.
Me either. I'm 25 fucked a girl at 22 once Wich I did not expect and she was a really good friend . But other than that man I really hope I find someone to love cause the girl I had sex with once .. didn't wanna be with me....
30 year old virgin here. By this point I already made peace with the fact that I'm dying alone and unloved. I have no delusions about myself. I know I'm far from a catch, and I can't imagine myself taking care of a person, while I barely can take care of myself. So, ladies, feel free to keep ignoring me. I'll survive.
@@danielhackett5545 Prostitution and strip clubs.... These type of women don't even care about the guys who they're flirting with. They're just doing their job and want to get paid. Bad idea, lol.
@@adu1991 I understand. but I was an old man virgin once. 22. that was 2 years ago. my friend took me to the strip club and it blew the sex stigma I had with women out the window. for me personally it acted as a kind of emotional boot camp that trained me how to be express myself in the real world, I'd frequent the strip clubs and I learned that the strippers are just regular women, and in the real world, regular women are just strippers. (I'm not trying to be mysogonistic I dunno) it was good for me, that's all I'm saying.
This is exactly me right now at 29. At the end when he describes how hard it is to talk to women and how his body just tenses up and stops him from going I knew EXACTLY how he felt because it's what I feel whenever I have thoughts of chatting up a woman I get attracted to. I have no doubt I'll end up a 40-year-old virgin. I'm starting to believe I'm just one of those guys that will just never meet anyone because I don't meet anyone's expectations.
Grubenwolf You’re probably afraid of being rejected but that will pass. The more you get rejected the easier it gets...Which is why the first couple (dozen) ones are the hardest. I mean I wrote this about being tense and stuff. Also why not hookers? Intimacy is a good feeling and I bet 100% this guy and maybe you need some intimacy and not penis in vagina...I mean thats good and all but humans need touching and a woman touching you is one of the best (not necessarily even really sexual) feelings in the world. Just try it, just say you wanna hug for an hour or something, escorts wont think you’re weird cuz lots of people do that, and a loooot weirder shit and escorts wont bat an eye
@@novakattila exactly my point I myself was awkward around women and didn't know how to behave. Then one day I decided I'm going to meet an escort. She really helped me out and from then on I got a little bit more relaxed and I calm down a bit. Yes you're going to get rejected by a lot of women that's a given but there is a small percentage that's going to say yes. So I hope is not lost you just got to be willing to take rejection.
When I was 29, I asked my friends : do you think I'll be married in 5 years? They said yeah. I said : engagement is also ok... Now I'm 34, 3 months to 35. I still haven't hold a girl's hand for 5 seconds. 3 seconds... I shook hands though. When I say I never kissed a girl, women ask me are you a virgin... well yeah, I haven't kissed, that means I'm virgin too.
@@leihejun844 I used to be like you in my early twenties. I don't get me wrong I had a girlfriend in high school for like 3 months but right after graduation I was also desperate. Then I learned it's all about the vibes and setting the mood. You got to be the person girls want to talk to. Nothing wrong with being funny but not too funny to wear they think you're immature. Funny enough I guess witty is what I'm looking for. Women love it when you can quench your own thirst. What I mean by that is any woman you see that you might like just go for it. You're going to get a lot of No's but you will get a yes eventually.
@@MrAnythingForSelenas I never date my countrymates, so it makes dating 100 times harder. I often get friendzoned because I only like foreign girls. I left my country 16 years ago. Once my Russian friend said : I'm sure your girlfriend will really love you when you find one. I think I'm good, it's just international marriage is not widely accepted.
Am 30 virgin also never even kissed a girl in my life but at this point i just accepted it i will live my life alone with my pets and focus on building myself and carier
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I'm also a 39 year old virgin. I'm active duty us military. The last time Ive tried approaching a female l liked (she was a fellow soldier ) about two weeks ago and she gave clear signs she was not interested in me. The previous time was another female soldier a few months ago and not only was she not interested but she threatened sharp (sexual harassment) on me. I've come to terms with the idea that since it hasn't happened by now then it probably never will happen.
@@User-718_ thanks but like I said if I never get a chance to lose it, I'll come to terms and just live my life. I already plan on leaving my belongings to one of my nieces when I die if I never have any children.
deku midoriya OMG, please don’t talk like that. You have so much to live for, everybody has value in their life. I beg you to never go through with that. Find a hobby that you like and Pursue it.
@@dinodudes7682 Oh, come on. Knowing that others are being lucky on having sex its just disturbing. It break any reason to live. So, the suicide is the best way to escape from this nightmare. The longer he lives, the worse will be for him. Suffering for years while others are happy by having sex. A good dead. Maybe there's an afterlife for him and will be better. Not sure. But will be better than living without acces to love and sex.
Not so much gay vibe. More like a castrated vibe. Also, there's a slight chicken/egg problem. Banging more women in your lifetime can help increase your masculine energy. You get more grounded and comfortable around women after banging a bunch.
Plenty repulsive men who are total assholes but can't see how ugly they are in every sense of the word, and are not single. Not commenting on this man's appearance or calling him repulsive but if a total c*** can find someone maybe it's because he's a nice fellow.
I was a longtime virgin, but then changed my tune around 29 and then lost my virginity at 31. At first I blamed women, society, etc but then looked inward and realized I was very insecure about myself, overweight, and never actually put myself in situations or dating sites to meet women. I also saw women and sex as some metric to measure a man, my reasoning behind it was warped. You can't get anything if you don't at least try. I've found many friends in similar scenarios, they never actually asked women out they just expected women to flock to them even when inside their house all day. Focus on yourself. Confidence comes from goals you set for yourself and achieve, personal (fitness), or career (money, promotions, accomplishments, etc). Don't put women on a pedestal. Once you hit your stride you will naturally just talk to women, go out more, etc. I went to a company party and ended up hooking up that same night, wasn't even trying to pursue sex that night, just was finally loose and myself around women. You also don't have to be in perfect shape or make well over 6 figures. Be yourself, set and meet some goals for yourself and your confidence and social abilities will skyrocket. I don't feel any different after sex. Its just a fun thing to do. Don't overthink it.
@@toomeowstream3253 Sorry to hear that. Not all women are like that. Perhaps the type you are into aren't the best types of people. Or maybe your behavior led to that situation. Try to objectively look back and determine what the issue was and try again (if it's something you want to pursue, don't have to!). Either way good luck.
I hate being around people. I tried therapy, it didn't work. My mind is completly fucked, i suffer from extreme social phobia. I will order some drugs from the dark net
yeah but I dont have these issues, well im insecure but then anyone would be after 40 years of rejections from all women, sadly im autistic and no matter how much I lose myself and be confident I ALWAYS get rejected, theres been times ive been getting on really well with a woman and they ALWAYS reject me, im very very handsome and im an ex model too, but what do you do even when your confident you always get rejected, I can see why nervous men get rejected and I am nervous sometimes, but a lot of the time especially if its in work im not at all, not putting women on a pedestal is also somewhat hard when you have to ask them and their in the position of total power and you have zero power, how are you not supposed to put them on a pedestal, I mean by the very fact I have to ask them out and they will NEVER ask a man out that means frankly they ARE on a pedestal, and if they reject me they have several hundred thosand other options and I have zero ! I am in perfect shape and ive got savings yet it doesn't help, nothing helps, being confident doesn't help, its hard not to overthink it if you've been rejected by all women even ones that liked you a lot for over 30 years of trying and becoming middle aged with nothing but decades of rejections from all women !
@@mcpartridgeboy I can't imagine what that is like happening for so long, sorry you went through that. Just know though that women and sex aren't everything and getting them wont do anything special for your life. You may potentially miss out on that in life, but I guarantee you have other things that many people probably wish for. I hope either things get better for you or you stop linking getting women to your happiness.
Bro's received a blessing in disguise. He might not know it yet, but he's a lucky man who will live a long, happy, and peaceful life without any strife.
You know, I think that our society is kinda responsible for the creation of incels. Cause for some reason, people are lead to believe that a good chunk of your worth as a person is based on how many sexual encounters/relationships you've had when that's not the case. This is what happens in a world that not only glamorizes hookup culture, but also looks down on those who choose not to (or can't) participate in it. There is nothing about constantly sleeping around that deserves praise and makes you a "stud", nor is there something about not having sexual experience at ANY age that warrants ridicule and being called a "loser".
For a man that is true. For women on the other hand there is a greater then infinite supply of desperate thirsty men who are trying to get with them on social media. Just one square manometer of earths surface area contains more desperate thirsty men then the number of hydrogen atoms that exist within both the observable and non observable universe.
@@darthorion2002 Sex has nothing to do with love. They are two completely different things. You don't have the right to judge my way of living. Just because I like one night stands doesn't mean I can't fall in love with someone.
He is friend zone material. She probably calls him to narrate how guys have fucked her over after fucking her and he wants to fuck her and she knows it, but she will never let him fuck her looking like he is and having that dorky attitude.
@General GTA yeah, as much as the next person. Currently watching some old shit like Lupin III and Cutie Honey and Berserk. Although I'm more into rpg's now. Recently got into the Shin Megami Tensei series. 😁
@General GTA rpg stands for ROLE PLAYING GAME! they're not animes lmao! i've watched uzaki-chan and it was actually better than i expected. i heard things about rent a girlfriend but im not sure if i should get into it yet haha. i've seen a bit of love is war because of my friends, and i've started reading inuyashiki during quarantine, but i havent seen pet girl of sakurasou or bunny girl senpai :(
I Am virgin at 23 (almost 24). The crazy part its that i have the hottest gf and we talk about sex all the time but i can't see her due the pandemic lol People and society need to chill with the sex itself, most promiscuous people that i know don't end so well (so many problematic mentalities, babies at young age and thats no even the cherry on the cake)
A good personality, has the ability to easily keep up convos, has hobbies and a good job. Has friends that are foids which shows he doesn't have social anxiety that makes him weird around foids. He is just short and bald, and is unattractive. Jfl, shatters all normie advice about dating.
@Le Violurgeur Vendeur de Mini-Giraffes It's not disturbing as long as they do it within their age group. Edit: It's not something that should be done, but if it's with people of the same maturity level, it's at least normal and there's no manipulation based on maturity.
so many of these people are retarded about stats. its disturbing because it infers that there is a significant portion of the population loosing their virginity a lot younger than 16. And that is disturbing.
I’m 32 I’m a virgin I have aspergers and I doubt it’s gonna change. I’ve started going to the gym and dropped 100 pounds but I still have no confidence. I refuse to approach a women in public because of how cruelly I’ve been rejected in the past.
Keep working. Put on muscle. Get ya drip right. Make sure u gotta clean cut. Smell good hygiene on point. Learn as much game as u can. Then jus f it n put it to test. Sometimes u just gotta grab ya balls and go for it. Every shot u don't shoot u miss.
@@woocarti335game is bs, all you need is good looks and decent social skills. There are no magic words that can change a woman’s mind into finding you attractive. It’s always attractive or semi attractive dudes who swear that them having game is why they get women
I'll bet you it's more than you think. I mean, of course no one's gonna admit it... but have you never noticed how hard it is to shag a girl even when every single guy is desperate to do it?
Clive's biggest problem is his self-perception. As they say, "you are what you think". The less you believe in yourself, the less others will believe in you. You have to embrace your imperfections just like everyone else, go out there and take some risks without being so hard on yourself for failing. Trying and failing is always better than never trying at all because you have so little confidence or faith in yourself.
That's not how life works. And presumed rejection hurts MUCH less than actual rejection. Sometimes rejection makes you learn much less and be actually a step back than thinking before you act. Also, we live in a world where a single mistake can destroy your life if someone shares with the entire world.
@@zakazany1945 The fact that you're trying to contradict my statement by unknowingly proving it is hilarious. If rejection somehow makes you learn less than not taking any action at all, then that is a testament to my point about self perception. It's because you perceive you are somehow inferior because someone rejected you, or that you're worthless and should give up. So thank you for that. Presumed rejection does not always hurt much less than actual rejection. I have personally been able to brush off real rejection, while feeling like I missed out when I did not approach someone. So your statement about 'how life works' is highly presumptuous and generalized. Tell me, if overcoming fear of rejection is 'not how life works', then how do people meet others, start relationships and families? Different people have different experiences. My opinions are derived from my experiences. Your experiences might be different from mine. I respect that, and you need to do the same. Rather than lambasting someone for having a different viewpoint.
Losing your virginity early and then changing your partner actually devalues you and leads to psychological issues and inability to pair bond. Besides, virginity can be granted to one worthy person once in your life, and once it's lost there is no more gift and there will be the eternal regret that the person you're in love with granted their first time to somebody else, and where is that somebody else? Exactly. So it's never about the age when you lose it, it's about how long you've kept it and whom did you share it with. If you lost it when you were 13 to some other 13 year old and that's how your personal life starter, no one will respect such lack of self-control, but if you preserved yourself for someone special, shared it with him and then you created a strong and stable family, that's all that matters.
This is some of most archaic, naive, ridiculous nonsense I've ever heard. I can picture this guy dragging a woman around on the ground by her hair (as she suffers through a controlled life of no orgasms)
@@sbeni2 you should probably watch less horror movies and gore videos, since you are able to voluntarily picture any kind of horrific scenario out of nowhere
This recomendations from youtube are getting a little personal.
Yesterday I was recommended "Being Ugly: My Experience" and now I get this shit. RUclips tryna tell me something.
@@mynameisbenLLOL XD
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This is based on your searches...don't get this personal..
Everybody is concerned if you're a virgin, but nobody is concerned if you're actually happy.
@@bufosregularis3663 That's not boomer energy mate. That's a fact.
The guy should be happy with himself whether he's a virgin or not.
Fr tho. People act like having sex is the biggest achievement someone could get.
Indeed
Well if it’s not something like poverty, war or rights being taken then nobody gives a shite.
Adults should deal with their problems on their own. Either go talk to family or seek professional help. Strangers have no business with other’s bs.
Imagine being a 40 year old virgin and youtube shows it to the whole world
Imagine telling a bunch of virgins that some random 40 year old is also a virgin
Fried Lemons u didnt get it
Your profile makes it better
@Jocko Mofo No, they don't
@Jocko Mofo Some men can surely do it but experienced women? No fucking way.
Is "sexual intercourse" a high tier qualification these days ? So disappointed that we live in such a deprecating society.
Yes sadly
Ya ya uncle
I live in Asia and it baffles me to say the least just how preeminent sex is in Europe and in the United States. It seems like to them sex is all there is to life.
@@rainierwilliam3919 YoU Do UndeRsTand THat thEsE Whole ComMents aRe PRacTicaly JoKes ?
@@Arthurdbsxx Well that is true, but I do think there is actual psychological and societal pressure against virgin individuals in the west
"There's more fish in the sea"
Well, here's the problem: I don't know how to fish
U r really confusing me.Should I cry or laugh rn.
Ivailo Pankov
Yes
Honestly most fish are infected and finding the right kind of fish is a challenge if you lack social skills
There's more fish in the sea and they all want Chad, not ugly balding manlet incel in the video
Damm xd
I’m never gonna lose my virginity, because I never lose.
haha best comment
I like that thought process.
Very clever
😂😂😂😂
oh god. I had a good laugh thanks lmao
people should stop clowning on this guy, he's living stable and is a talented singer and honestly a chill nice guy. all of that should matter more than being a virgin or not
How are the Patriots, Cam?
His moral boundaries are the only thing that are getting in the way of him having sex. Is he broke? It's as easy as that and he can get some from those who are really sexy...
But it's difficult to live when you have a burning desire to do something which every man of your age has been doing for past 30 years and you couldn't and mind you he has been trying a lot for it. (As mentioned in the video) dunno if his trying is low bar.
Such people need counseling or skill development of some kind that I can't understand. But something to help them to break the cycle of failure.
@@sivaprasadwarrier3171
It can be paid for. This guy must not have any true male friends, or if he does, they might either just be as clueless as he is, or they must be choir boys and stuff like that. Otherwise, they would have brought him a girl to fuck a long time ago.
Uhh first of all this guy literally agreed on filming this and make a documentary about his virgin life for the whole world
Cope harder fuck booiiiiiiii
The saddest thing is this guy is more stable than most of the men, has a good job, has some skills etc...
doenst matter whatsoever. only looks will get you genuine love and care from women, its over for him.
The comedy music at the begining doesn't really help matters, seems to be making a joke of he whole thing.
0:38 Why don’t he go on the voice?
It’s all about looks my g
@@taketheblackpillneo3940 looks not what keeps em tho gang… u gotta be that nigga to crack sum
25- there's still time
30- start working on it
35- itll happen eventually
40- look for a serious relationship
45- just buy a hooker.
Have two older brothers who both lost their virginity when they got married in their 30s. Not a big deal if you find the right person.
Let me fix it for you.
25 - Just buy a hooker. Here, fixed.
Presence nah, but after 25 like the Indian guy said in the 40 year old virgin, holy shit man you gotta get on that.
yes
I’m just gonna jump right to the last one my guy
Jesus Christ, how is someone's virginity the entire world's business?
IKR?!
When money are involved
FOR REAL
He agreed to this interview.
It's my business to take it
They reduced this talented man to his inability to put his meat stick into a meat socket.
To be honest, he did it himself, had you been in his situation, would you have agreed to make this interview?
That is the whole biological purpose of man.
@@christofl6523 well yeah. But i think he means there are a lot more of important stuff than that, we are in the 21st century after all, human being has more goals now
No, no. They presented all aspects of him, but focused on that one thing because it's interesting to watch.
@@mrknarf4438 And he agreed to do the interview.
"He doesn't wish to be horny anymore, he just wants to be happy "
Exactly life is an adventure
@@bennettthundercock5132 a freaking hard adventure
It's so sad that Kentaro passed away recently.
@@fightermma how
But our system thinks people with special needs shouldn't have the right to intimacy and don't care that lack of oxytocin is extremely unhealthy
That's me 20 years ahead
Hi5 😂😂
Same here my dude
Damn😭
Shit I wish I was still a virgin
Same
This man has balls of steel for appearing on national television
He reaches a point where he does not care anymore.
I would be ashamed and embarrassed at my age of 58 and never had sex at my age. Women just don't want short little men at 5' tall.
@@patricksaxon3983 really man I'm 5ft9 and I'm single my friend is 5ft5 and he's got 2 girlfriends it's all the skill to impress girls
@ⰋⰑⰔⰻⰒ Josip no he doesn't impress them online he impresses them face to face
@ⰋⰑⰔⰻⰒ Josip yes but height does matter but doesn't mean u have to be tall like a tree it's ok until u are a dwarf also if u are tall and ugly girls won't even look at u
I may reach 50 yo being a virgin but I would never humiliate myself by making an interview about it.
I'm gonna beat that record!!!!
Walk up to women at bars, look them dead in the eye, and ask them if they wanna bang. You’d be surprised at the results.
@@clublulu399 yeah you would get in jail
Nope. Instead you post about it in the comment section. Like me! Hehe jk...
@@clublulu399 gonna try this soon
I can relate, had horrible cystic acne from age 16 to 28 and it totally killed my confidence. Smile at a girl or even make eye contact and get the "ewwwww" response. Might be enough to screw someone up for life.
Im so sorry, hope your self esteem has gotten better by now.
Have you tryed roaccutane?
Same here, but don’t worry! My acne episode ended. Still got the scars on my face though. Then I went through rigorous self improvement. Now I have run marathons and work at a large tech company.
And i’m still single LMFAOOOOOOO
Dw it did lmfao
It’s frustrating
Real Life 40 year old virgin
RUclips: *RECOMMENDED FOR YOU*
@Destiny's Fangs yo why you sneak dissing me say that shit to my face
Yeah ryt why tf youtube has to show me this. 😑 So it knows I'm a virgin is it?
@Destiny's Fangs I'm kidding
Hahaha
Should i worry about that?
They did my man dirty with the cartoony soundtrack.
I said the SAME thing that he's a GROWN man talking about something that truly troubles him in his life and then boom, the circus smh
@@123abc4u they really out here tryna clown on him.
@@leftylizard9085 exactly, I ain't like that at all
Exactly. There’s nothing amusing about this. It’s kind of sad, actually.
I'm just wondering why they made a video about this. I'm sure he can get on a dating sight and find a decent girl there
My RUclips recommendations lately:
- being ugly, my experience
- 31 years old virgin man
- 21 years old no friends
- 40 years old virgin
why youtube, what do you mean?
So you don’t feel so alone
That you suck
Same,lol!
Omg same recommendations
I got the "21 old no friends" too, 😁😁😁😁😁😁
He's perfectly fine, my man is STD, STI and child support free.
Exactly, ever look at the surface of the ocean and wonder "What wonders must lurk down there?"
cope
Homie is bitch free aswell fuk all dat I love rawdog
Cope
You can be all those things without being a 40 year old virgin
I feel so sorry for him, he honestly looks like a cool guy
U would fuck him?
turbo 032 asking the real questions
his a sorry dude
He is just a normal guy. Virgin or not.
Lol he's rather stout, hairy but bald and has bad teeth and it's a good guy, that's a curse that befell upon him Especially living in a first world country
He's gonna die without ever touching a pussy
Plot twist: He isn't. He just doing this to avoid a case.
Lol
😹😹😹😹
@@bosubengos fuck yeah wtf its 10K lmao
@@GMODMV 10k $ lmao u cant read or u blind lul ... $ USD
😂😂😂 how can u beat the case if u haven’t even beat
women being single - strong and independent.
men being single - loser and must be gay.
Not sure where you got the woman one from. As for the male most people don’t think you’re a loser for not getting laid assuming all else about you holds up. They’ll just think you need to do x y and or z to make it happen
spinster or a lesbian
If leftists claim to support the lgbt community then why will they shame him for being gay. Wouldn’t that be homophobic according to their own book.
@@grizzlybear2702 believe me, i've saw a lot of leftists using gay as a insult many times, even recently. They just evade doing it in public.
I don't think women can be single as long as guy. They always got picked up. The only type of single women is single mom. (If you don't count nuns)
Honestly girls would empathise this guy for still being a virgin at forty but not a single one would hookup with him in real life. Mostly because of his face
Also because he has nothing to give them either. He is a virgin not because his face but because of the manchild he is.
@@Morra5472 Cope. It is all about his face.
The same guy, if he was attractive btches would be scking him off left and right. Hobbies don't matter.
@@Morra5472Jist be honest he’s NOT attractive. There are some guys who are a “manchild” still manage to get a girl in the bed with him.
Just like me it's absolutely correct. That's human nature in a nutshell. If you have zero looks on the scale (whatever that is) then you are fcked. Well nit literally but.....
Facts
I'd rather be a 40 year old virgin, than caught up in drama and divorce paperwork.
Yeah, because they're the only two options
🤦♂️
@@Severin69 You must be referring to the fake honeymoon phase that comes before the drama and divorce paperwork...
Not for me chief
I wouldn't wtf
You know you can have sex before marriage rigtt and there is no reason to marry someone in just a year or two dating. You can just date for 6 years and never be married and if it doesn't work out just walk away, no divorce needed
Little does everyone know, he’s a well respected professor at Hogwarts.
Always
I bet he is a physician
I got that reference!!
I don’t get it
Always had been.
This video is making me lose confidence and I'm just 18...
EDIT: I am 20 now and I'm no longer bothered By the fact I'm a virgin, thanks for all the inspiring replies though.
The more you wait the worst it gets! If you wanna get love, do something, ask help from your friends, don't be ashamed, don't be emberassed, do it because you will repent, ask help!
Send it bro. Lost my v card last year. Just get it done.
@@Hardrive2677 and how old r u?
@@Pope301 19
@@Hardrive2677 so I guess I'm safe, for now
"Feels unfair because im a loving thoughtful person" thats your first mistake my friend
You nailed it.
Are you Saying that he is a narcissist?
@@JD-hx7yd He's saying he's a nice guy
Yep because nice guys pretty much only get placed in the friend zone with women, I've heard some people say that nature is kind to women but not for men. They mean it's kind to women in the sex that women don't really need to put in much effort to have access to sexual relationships like men do
@@ileryon4019 he already said he had bad acne and wasn't confident enough not that he was nice which made him a virgin
I'm 19 and have never kissed(currently 21 and still)
Josué Alvarado Berrocal dude I’m 17 and I have never kissed lmao
@@E2015_ I kisses but never madeout
Lmaoo
山田太郎 r u serious?
山田太郎 If you’re serious please don’t, whatever you are going through it’s just a test and u have to overcome and pass it and the devil is whispering in your ear to do this horrendous act. It will get better as times goes on whatever it is that you are going through. You will find love, you will be happy, you just have to keep pushing and never give up
It’s nothing to be ashamed of. However it’s annoying when people start thinking you’re gay because of it. It’s not that being gay is a bad thing, it’s just not nice being called something you are not.
Lol u gay
@@jaykutts9664 Lol, ur an insecure 13 year old stuck in 1995.
Yep, been there
@@MrAlepedroza wait why 1995 ?
lol these guys are gays
I'm a 42 year old virgin. I've never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship in my entire life. I'm independent and i live life the way i want. Am i looking at shedding my virginity....the answer to that is "i don't really care as i don't wake up thinking about it and its nowhere in my list of priorities". Being a "virgin" or losing ones "virginity" is nothing more than a social construct that puts pressure on people to be a certain way.
Well said! There is more to life than sex and reproduction! I hope you do well in life and find more important things to find meaning in than whether or not you've touched someone else's private parts.
Fuck that shit atleast pay for pussy at a brothel or something I’d kill myself if I was a virgin by that age
K-Ron Megnar Thanks.
TexasLegacy817z LOL. I can, if i were obsessed over the fact that i'm a virgin but it doesn't bother me one bit. I'm happy being me.
Nitin Thayi ok weirdo
RUclips: "check this out, this is you in 20 years"
Damn, hopefully not. You have 5yrs before it starts feeling worse so if it's something you really care about, try to work on it before then and if it is taking too long, just pay for it to get it out of the way
This type of reality can break a mans integrity .
Yeah dude I'm already planning to cross cosplay ryuji yamazaki and orochi iori mentally and physically xD
True sad
If that's true, our society would be composed of broken men
Totally agree. This lacks respect and makes us men really aggressive, I hate this kind of thing.
@@wolfsmith7285 HHhahahhaha
I think Lindsay needs to help a brotha out
GamerNerd FTW true 😂
😂
L.O.L.
@@crazymercenary87 L.O.L.
"s.s. =sympathy-sex!!"??
Being a virgin is not being a failure in life. He's not a loser. The video makes it seem like he is one.
WANTING SEX and still virgin at 40 = Loser
My number one tip for 40 year old virgins: do not reveal to anyone that you are one. This guy has fixated on his issues for years and now it is a self-fulfilling prophecy. He needs to stop worrying about it and just enjoy life. Women are attracted to happy successful men. A happy successful man with an IDGAF attitude will attract women because they want what he has and will try to get it from him through the only thing a woman has in her arsenal- sex.
From a biological perspective, never having sex definitively makes you a loser. You have essentially failed the one thing that nature has designed you to do, which is to reproduce. You won't pass on your genes, and thus you lost out to everybody else that will.
@po-tat-0 po-tat-0 Ok ubermensch
@@provostic8421 fuck reproducing just to have more spoiled brats in this world
He is not alone there are millions of men like him
I am. I'm a real life 40 year old virgin too.
In some cultures perhaps, but not very common in general.
@@dollysinncommon in europe
@dollysinn It's increasingly becoming common and if you think this won't have consequences you are delusional.
@@dollysinnIt's super common here in Canada.
Don't feel bad for him. He's just protecting his body from all those thots
Edit: Guys don't reply about how I'm sexist over a joke... I'm a gamer, so I'm also racist😎😎😎
*holds bible in passionate way*
YUP GIRLS ARE SO EMPTY AND CHEAP IN THESE DAYS OF SOCIAL MEDIA BULLSHIT LEAVE IT ALONE ITS FUFU
@@curtcodein6486 not so much tho.
But also from women,😂
yes
He is a wizard. He knows more than we can imagine.
Fairy Tail!
I heard if u make it to 40 and still haven’t had sex u can float
I'm 33 I'm a virgin
@@jeffersonmartin3221 Hello! I am a television Casting Director and would love to speak with you about a show we are producing for a major network. If you are open to talking, please email me and we can set up a time to chat! I would be happy to tell you more about what we are working on and answer any questions you may have. I hope to hear from you!
Best,
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*** If you are chosen to appear in the series, you will be compensated***
Sure Melissa that sounds great
see y'all in 28 years when I get interviewed for this
Edit: firstly i'm not 12 and i only said 28 years cuz the guy said he was 45 in the vid 🤣 i'm actually 17 which isn't any better ;-;
Keep that v card
Stay PURE!!!
You’re 12?
Smh this is what porn does to ppl🤦🏾♂️, hold it down for God till marriage n many blessings will come ur way
Bro if you really 12 you gotta slow down some G 💀
I'm 38 and still a virgin and I can't tell a lot of people I know because they'll all just say the same cliches that everyone else tells me that I'm getting sick of hearing.
However it's not easy being men with me and Clives position in life. Because we've basically got teenage hormones trapped in a middle-aged body that can be extremely frustrating which is why we stay out of the public as much as we can.
I know it's tough for us out there Clive, if you're reading this I understand your pain. Good luck man.
Hey man did you have a girlfriend before? Don't lose hope man still. I am 21 now in last year of college so I am over a decade younger than you and I never had a girlfriend either. I had been using tinder, bumble and hinge for almost a month but not even a single match. I have 4 crushes on real life. 3 are from my college and are 18-20 year olds and another is 23 or 24 from another institute. I am too shy but finally managed to get the name of 2 of my crushes and follow them on Instagram and finally messaged one of them and was really happy when finally one of the crush who is 19 and in 2nd year replied to me last week on Instagram. I didn't say her yet that I have crush on her but I am in last year of college and will be graduating by August end or Sept first week so would I have any chance with her and should I try to date her? I am confused and I am kinda scared to say her about my crush on her. We do chat on Instagram every alternate days since last week Monday and it looks like she is getting more comfortable but idk whether she would like me or not but I really like her.
I am 38-year-old virgin too.
So am I.
Have you ever considered buying a hooker or would you prefer your forst time being with someone special
It's easier to find a men who is a virgin than a woman.
much easier yes
I think more men/boys now want to lose their virginity with the woman/girl they love, rather than doing it with a random girl at a party
Especially the Soos True.
Especially the Soos yeah that’s what I’m like tbf, just want to do it with someone or in a situation where I won’t regret it and feel embarrassed about it haha
No shit. I use online apps and even the fattest, ugliest women tell me they have 100 messages some days where I have none and I have a six pack.
People can be such assholes for mocking someones life inexpirience.
Ye its sad
Exactly people can be virgin for a number of reasons.
@Bobs Slong Indeed. That’s a great quote
As atsuim person i argee
As heartless as it sounds, he should try to hire a pro.
I just cried, I feel so alone right now, it made me realize how empty my life is, I 'm sad for him as I recognize myself in this guy, it's how I will turn, at least he have friends to support him,... :'( feeling alone and loveless is one of the worst feeling
I am 26 male, I have felt the same, so recently my friends paid for a prostitute at my birthday and I lost my virginity. I feel a bit better but still want to experience a real girl. But it did increased my confidence a bit more. I feel less scared of girls now. If you don't want to have sex than could still get an handjob, it does help a lot believe me. I am going again next Month.
@@vander1773 I'm kinda strange because I paid for a prostitute 5 years ago but the experience wasn't so great, I only had 10 min, was stressful and didn't cum, now I feel way more uncomfortable with girls than I was when I was a "real" virgin. I'm still shy, even more than before and it's like I'm still a virgin
Vander finally someone making progress you have good friends
Hiring prostitutes is wrong cause it destroys ur self esteem even more. Everyone wants to be loved
Relax man your not alone, millions and millions of men are alone and will be alone forever, did you know only 40% of men add to the gene pool whilst 80% of women have, that means historically 60% of men never breeded, that's the majority by quite a lot, its totally normal foor men to struggle like hell to get a girl, dont worry your not alone in your lonlines if your friends with a lot of women or abusive dominant alpha males then you might well feel bad because their all oversexed, but trust me many many millions of men feel EXACTLY the same ! its supposed to be like this for men, were supposed to struggle were supposed to feel p[ain were supposed to have no love, were the expendable ones who women use to do all the dirty tasks in order to impress the women enough to add to the gene pool.
Hey ,I am a 40 year old Virgin ,too .Hi ,Clive!
In these Modern times, it is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.
But why? Do you have some problems like social anxiety or something like that?
@@AA-co5ek it’s none of your business
Message me I'm interested in taking virginities I'm a virgin too
@@AA-co5ek that dont mean squat
@@AA-co5ekI do, social anxiety + social isolation, unable to create opportunities + not knowing what to say in conversations, bad self esteem overall
I'm a 49 year-old virgin and don't even have female friends. He should count himself lucky!
Jude Lion ouch
Its all good dude get the girl you want and wait if you want to never force yourself to do that cuz soceity wants you too
5 years and he’ll join ur team pal , hell I’ll be in after couple decades
J I’m w/ you bro 😔
Damn
Bro he’s find how he is, there is nothing wrong with this guy. Nothing is going to happened if you never have sex. I finally have hope.
Ya, there's nothing wrong with him per se. Nothing is wrong with someone not "losing their virginity," but I think the main thing is his frustration of wanting to experience that intimacy and not being able to. I guess I know cos I'm a 38 year old virgin. I don't mind the title of "virgin" but I do wish I could experience this before I die LoL
There is something wrong with him in the sense that he wants his cherry popped and he hasn't gotten it yet.
He can easily have sex if he is willing to pay for it, or someone pays some whore to have it with him...
@@Grattenj do it man, like you said for the experience and how it feels, the second time I hired a hooker was better than the first and felt more confident, relaxed and it all felt better overall, after this year with so many deaths around us I'd rather regret doing something than not doing at all.
Musa Fawundu two things wrong with that. Prostitution is illegal and there’s nothing wrong with him if he hasn’t had sex yet.
He's not attractive enough to women, if he was, women would throw themselves at him. All he can do is be financially stable or wealthy to secure a woman, but not guaranteed for that woman to stay with him for long, probably used up from sleeping around and looking for a beta to settle with. Alpha fuks, Beta bucks. It's how things work in this world sadly, but it is what it is, no sugarcoating or virtue-signaling.
Im almost 28 still virgin., and never kissed a girl.. 😉
Update , im almost 29 and still never kissed a girl and virgin
I like your profile name hahaha
@@strongpartizan2698 haha so you understand french 😉 merci
Plenty of drink and lower your standards and you’ll get the job done my friend;).
@@craig291086 i dont like drink alcohol, and i dont socialize much
@@alepazzo1559 that sucks bud. You have any hobbies or group activities you do? Could meet a girl who has similar interests as you that way?
When he sang I couldn't help but cry he is such a pure soul yet no woman wants him, this world is so cruel.
Women want Chad. They don't care about men like him.
Poor guy
@@NikosM112you know whats sad. I can relate to this i am 29 soon to be a 30 year old virgin. I had opportunities in the past to get laid not many though but turned them down. The sad thing is a women would pick a loser like some drug addict, pot head etc as a BF before picking a genuine nice shy awkward man though that would treat them right.
It’s cause he isn’t really masculine enough.. plus he’s probably in the wrong country too
@@tmccloneyou turned them down so thats your fault
“There’s more fish in the sea”
Well do u know what else is in the sea?
-TRASH-
This is underrated
Damn
@Communist Detective Naruto Uzumaki uhm ok?
There's more fish in the sea and they are all contaminated with mercury and other toxins.
That'5 why we need to clean it^
Can't wait for my interview in 22 more years
HAhahahahaha
Get along with konan my man!
@@raged2259 Konan is fodder😤
Me too 🤣
This is me in 22 years, 100% guaranteed 🤣🤣
Well at least Jesus and Isaac Newton died as virgins.
Jesus Virgin? Hahahahahahahahhaa thats a nice joke bro
@@spartacusssparta5212 Looky looky, I found a disrespectful person.
@@TheOne-Aslan disrespectful? Maybe u are that stupid to think jesus had no sex in his life.
One started a cult other established classical physics. That makes up for their virginity. What did you do ?
Aditya Dev I started a cult on anime jiggle physics.
Imagine that in society your influence, wealth and or charisma doesn't matter more than how many sexual partners you've had.
This is why humanity needs to go extinct. #NoLivesMatter
#NLM
#monkegang
I'm a 35 year old virgin and I'm not unhappy about it. People are obsessed with sex. I enjoy my career, friends, and travel. Just because our society is sex-obsessed doesn't mean we have to be.
NOT TRUE.
Society is NOT sex obsessed,
otherwise there wouldn't be such a thing a virgins at 40.
@End Leftism
But if they really want to people can stop caring about intercourse. I mean it may be hard but a lot of times, I think people just act mellow dramatic about it and I totally believe everyone could be content with self pIeasure.
@End Leftism sex nowadays isn't even focused on having kids wtf are you talking about? why would sites like pornhub and xvideos, etc exist if sex was only to have kids? that's the stupidest comment i have ever seen
I know people who became parents as teenagers. That was extremely difficult for them, and most of them got divorced eventually. But they are forced to see their ex frequently since they have children together. Personally I never want to see my ex again. I would think being a virgin isn't horrible. I'm sure there are advantages and disadvantages to both.
@Niko Bellic Why on God's green earth would you have sex at 12? Like bruh.
This will become more common as time goes on. Mark my words.
I just thought same thing
True. With the rise in mgtow there's are more single women now than ever
Doubt it. It’s so easy to get clam these days. Almost every girls is a sloot now.
@@911ragdoll in the social media age people are becoming more reclusive and shutting themselves in in order to avoid real social interactions unfortunately I'm one of those 21 years old and still a virgin and it's not like I'm even ugly at all
@@GoldenBoyDims that’s weird. However the only social media I use is RUclips so I’m not sure about that stuff. I’m 27 by the way.
What makes me laugh is the fact that everyone is talking about discrimination nowadays. Everyone is so sensitive and so offended about the smallest gesture of racism or sexism or whatever. Well, no one knows discrimination and being put aside more than a lonely man. The older he gets, the more the discrimination factor increases. They actually mock you for being lonely, depressed and constantly tormented by overwhelming desire. No one invites you anywhere, you are alienated by your colleagues at work, people with children treat you like a pervert, etc.
true that
Let's be real, nowadays it's not even worth to have a relationship... The guy if he wanted can pay for it and be done, but he didn't do that, so at least he has some self-respect, and now that he is that old, he doesn't even care about it that much for sure. When you start the game, you realize after some years and a lot of failed trys it's not worth it.
yeah that's pretty spot on humans kinda loose that social instinct
Well depend, being happy and giving of positive vibe will make you likeable
@@abhishekbhaskar6268 yeah that's true also.
This guy debunks the typical "just get hobbies get confidence,just make yourself interesting bro". This man has about everything done, he sings, has many friends, always a social person, great hobbies but for some reason he cant a get loyal women. Why?. Its simple, its looks. Wonder what pity excuses people will make make, wonder what gaslight theyll come up about him.
They will list everything else as cause like fairies, ghost except his baldness and glasses.
@@ThatisnotHairdude they'll rather believe the earth is flat than admit that looks matter.
Let's be honest he doesn't perform with that keyboard he probably only plays it in his house with no audience. Plus "has many friends"? I only saw one and it looked like she was his friend out of pity not because she actually liked him. Trust me I commiserate with guys not getting much action but he's not exactly debonair.
Exactly
@@gatoloco3949 Yep I know from personal experience that's the case people will act like lookks don't matter constantly even when you point it out.
Since this video he’s lost his virginity 100 times over and is now In sexual addiction rehab.. poor fellow.
Pokémon Snob wait wtf for real?
TF Is this real?
Is this real?
lmao guys it’s ironic like cmon can’t you get a simple joke
The fuck you mean it's not real?
I'm a real life 51-year-old virgin.
Velhokapteeni
@@Jb991-q9xhe has money because he doesn't have a girl
I wish I was a virgin
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I'm 32 virgin
He can go to Thailand as a white man he will be king
Ah Thailand, the only place in the world that can compete with Africa for AIDS.
michael Jacobs
He might get a sti lmao
lovely ladies to fuck for dollars
Agreed. Thailand definitely the place for casual sex.
IpudI why is there so much horny Asian girls in Thailand?
You know what I guarantee his bank account is pretty damn full though, probably got hell of a retirement funds waiting for him and no kids too.
He can buy high end escorts if he wants
Ever notice the bed in debt?
@@Jojo_D_Northstar I started doing that and now I realize dating was a waste of time.
was expecting a full blown sociopath - but nah - he seems like a nice guy who's just got some self image issues
No no bro sochipaths have no problem geting girl sochipaths are girl magnet becouse have very sharp social skills butt they lack empaty they are very manipultive and cold and empty inside
He should look at the bright side: He doesn't have to worry about getting an STD that would be hard, if not impossible, to get rid of
Unless he kissed a girl and got herpes. But that's doubtful.
Doesn't have to worry about being someone's baby daddy
@Tashawn Sheffield Not everyone who fucks a girl gets her pregnant
Seems like you're just making up reasons
Like look, sex isn't all there is to life, but there's a reason why people love it so much and, there's nothing wrong if you wanna have sex
Just know the risks and prepare for them if the time ever comes. Don't let anyone pressure you and just be yourself
Y'all be going around with some shady people complaining about STDs all the time all over the internet. I am not a virgin and I haven't caught an STD in my whole life. Granted I don't have sex with randos every day of the week but neither should any normal person.
It’s 2020 most ppl who have or came across std’s have gotten rid of them and are just to chicken to speak out about it. Look up DR.Sebi
I'm 23 and I never had a girlfriend. RUclips recommended this to me for a reason
Me either. I'm 25 fucked a girl at 22 once Wich I did not expect and she was a really good friend . But other than that man I really hope I find someone to love cause the girl I had sex with once .. didn't wanna be with me....
I'm 34 and I lost my virginity to my daughter.
@@Pllayer064 noice
@@Pllayer064 fuck this was funny 😂😂💀
@@Pllayer064 well that makes sense since she's adopted, so no blood relation, but then the age difference...wait a minute...wait a damn minute...
6 years to go. I remember feeling already lost when I was 20. People told me I got time, it will happen. But I knew deeply that I was already screwed.
its over for many dudes blud
30 year old virgin here. By this point I already made peace with the fact that I'm dying alone and unloved. I have no delusions about myself. I know I'm far from a catch, and I can't imagine myself taking care of a person, while I barely can take care of myself. So, ladies, feel free to keep ignoring me. I'll survive.
In ur contry is prostitution legal? U can loss it the easy way.
that shouldn't stop you from going to the strip club.
@@danielhackett5545 Prostitution and strip clubs....
These type of women don't even care about the guys who they're flirting with. They're just doing their job and want to get paid.
Bad idea, lol.
Oh come on! Don't say "unloved" just single.
@@adu1991 I understand. but I was an old man virgin once. 22. that was 2 years ago. my friend took me to the strip club and it blew the sex stigma I had with women out the window. for me personally it acted as a kind of emotional boot camp that trained me how to be express myself in the real world, I'd frequent the strip clubs and I learned that the strippers are just regular women, and in the real world, regular women are just strippers. (I'm not trying to be mysogonistic I dunno) it was good for me, that's all I'm saying.
Rule number 55 of not getting friendzoned by girls : don't have tea parties with them
Lmao
Right like seriously might as well be wearing her clothes smh 😒
Who the hell goes to tea parties with girls they wanna hook up with?
😂
Lol
That's my 20 year future self 😌
Same but I'm okay with it I'm confident make good coin and do what I want and enjoy life
@@billbill7894 make good coin wtf are you a game character fk me proper virgin ain't ya
@Lazar fml uggggggh
This guy actually beat my record of 29, i am not the world champion anymore :(
Always someone worse than you. 38 here
"But despite being a key performer, he's never managed to strike the right chord with the ladies" 😂😂😂😂😂
Feel bad at how ruthless they were when producing this. Lmao.
They played him good lol
**keen
@@willsmith9626 you sir are correct
It makes sense because he is playing sad chords.
This is exactly me right now at 29. At the end when he describes how hard it is to talk to women and how his body just tenses up and stops him from going I knew EXACTLY how he felt because it's what I feel whenever I have thoughts of chatting up a woman I get attracted to. I have no doubt I'll end up a 40-year-old virgin. I'm starting to believe I'm just one of those guys that will just never meet anyone because I don't meet anyone's expectations.
Grubenwolf You’re probably afraid of being rejected but that will pass. The more you get rejected the easier it gets...Which is why the first couple (dozen) ones are the hardest. I mean I wrote this about being tense and stuff. Also why not hookers? Intimacy is a good feeling and I bet 100% this guy and maybe you need some intimacy and not penis in vagina...I mean thats good and all but humans need touching and a woman touching you is one of the best (not necessarily even really sexual) feelings in the world. Just try it, just say you wanna hug for an hour or something, escorts wont think you’re weird cuz lots of people do that, and a loooot weirder shit and escorts wont bat an eye
@@novakattila exactly my point I myself was awkward around women and didn't know how to behave. Then one day I decided I'm going to meet an escort. She really helped me out and from then on I got a little bit more relaxed and I calm down a bit. Yes you're going to get rejected by a lot of women that's a given but there is a small percentage that's going to say yes. So I hope is not lost you just got to be willing to take rejection.
When I was 29, I asked my friends : do you think I'll be married in 5 years? They said yeah. I said : engagement is also ok...
Now I'm 34, 3 months to 35. I still haven't hold a girl's hand for 5 seconds. 3 seconds... I shook hands though.
When I say I never kissed a girl, women ask me are you a virgin... well yeah, I haven't kissed, that means I'm virgin too.
@@leihejun844 I used to be like you in my early twenties. I don't get me wrong I had a girlfriend in high school for like 3 months but right after graduation I was also desperate. Then I learned it's all about the vibes and setting the mood. You got to be the person girls want to talk to. Nothing wrong with being funny but not too funny to wear they think you're immature. Funny enough I guess witty is what I'm looking for. Women love it when you can quench your own thirst. What I mean by that is any woman you see that you might like just go for it. You're going to get a lot of No's but you will get a yes eventually.
@@MrAnythingForSelenas I never date my countrymates, so it makes dating 100 times harder. I often get friendzoned because I only like foreign girls. I left my country 16 years ago.
Once my Russian friend said : I'm sure your girlfriend will really love you when you find one.
I think I'm good, it's just international marriage is not widely accepted.
To those virgin old guys, you are not alone, soon we will replace you - virgin 22 yr old guy
Nah bro just get a fucking call girl no need to suffer
Am 30 virgin also never even kissed a girl in my life but at this point i just accepted it i will live my life alone with my pets and focus on building myself and carier
David, Are you gay?' 'Yes, you are David.' Both me, that's not me in bed with another bloke called David
Just hire a prostitute
Why? You got plenty of time left to find a good woman.
@@TheAlfa1Omegabetter to stay single
RUclips: being ugly, my experience
RUclips: i am 21 and i have no friends
RUclips: 31 year old forever alone virgin
RUclips: real life of 40 year old virgin
Something's wrong around me.
I saw the first and last one
@@ayubosman3105 me too
These are the suggestions youtube gives you when you've watched mgtow, bachelor, or pickup artist videos.
Lmao u got that being ugly my experience too? 😁
I’m 21. Wanna be friends?
Lindsay needs to take one for the team and help her bro out...
Right 😂
Nah
@@chelseashamim9148 she ain’t a real one then lol
No way! She would have a lifelong stalker.
@@christofl6523 thats true
Still a virgin at the age of 38 now, never had a relationship for 20 years and never married (2 decades in a row, which makes me a loner type).
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@@missi525 I'm a non-virgin but please contact me cos I just want to be famous
he isnt alone im a 39 year old virgin. and i still still live with my mum and never left.
I'm also a 39 year old virgin. I'm active duty us military. The last time Ive tried approaching a female l liked (she was a fellow soldier ) about two weeks ago and she gave clear signs she was not interested in me. The previous time was another female soldier a few months ago and not only was she not interested but she threatened sharp (sexual harassment) on me. I've come to terms with the idea that since it hasn't happened by now then it probably never will happen.
@@kennylanqua6512 don’t be harsh on yourself buddy
@@User-718_ thanks but like I said if I never get a chance to lose it, I'll come to terms and just live my life. I already plan on leaving my belongings to one of my nieces when I die if I never have any children.
@@kennylanqua6512 How about moving to a different country?
@@User-718_ as stated,.I'm active duty us military and can't just pick up and move to another country just like that.
Anyone else for really sad for this guy
No.
Yes and my life will be same in 20 year in future so I planned to end my life in future at some point
deku midoriya OMG, please don’t talk like that. You have so much to live for, everybody has value in their life. I beg you to never go through with that. Find a hobby that you like and Pursue it.
@@dinodudes7682 Oh, come on. Knowing that others are being lucky on having sex its just disturbing. It break any reason to live.
So, the suicide is the best way to escape from this nightmare. The longer he lives, the worse will be for him. Suffering for years while others are happy by having sex.
A good dead. Maybe there's an afterlife for him and will be better. Not sure. But will be better than living without acces to love and sex.
He doesn’t give off a very masculine energy. And living with his parents until 29 didn’t help either
Exactly what I was thinking, I get a little bit of a gay vibe
Not so much gay vibe. More like a castrated vibe.
Also, there's a slight chicken/egg problem.
Banging more women in your lifetime can help increase your masculine energy. You get more grounded and comfortable around women after banging a bunch.
Most people would lose their masculine energy if they would stay virgin for that long.
ok manly man
alright big man
Man hasn't lost virginity yet: society assumes he's gay
Woman hasn't lost virginity yet: society says she's just waiting for the right person.
It be like that
Life is rigged in favor of women on every level. If you're a SUB-8 Male in 2021 it is OVER for you. R.I.P
@@nonexistenceisbliss9528 brootal
Because he is physically unattractive. That is the only reason. Anyone who argues otherwise is a liar
Fax. Its over for him.
This is true you can just look at him men and women can tell its about looks money status
True. Anyone who tells him otherwise is just gaslighting him.
I've seen uglier people who are married today.
Plenty repulsive men who are total assholes but can't see how ugly they are in every sense of the word, and are not single. Not commenting on this man's appearance or calling him repulsive but if a total c*** can find someone maybe it's because he's a nice fellow.
I was a longtime virgin, but then changed my tune around 29 and then lost my virginity at 31. At first I blamed women, society, etc but then looked inward and realized I was very insecure about myself, overweight, and never actually put myself in situations or dating sites to meet women. I also saw women and sex as some metric to measure a man, my reasoning behind it was warped. You can't get anything if you don't at least try. I've found many friends in similar scenarios, they never actually asked women out they just expected women to flock to them even when inside their house all day.
Focus on yourself. Confidence comes from goals you set for yourself and achieve, personal (fitness), or career (money, promotions, accomplishments, etc). Don't put women on a pedestal. Once you hit your stride you will naturally just talk to women, go out more, etc. I went to a company party and ended up hooking up that same night, wasn't even trying to pursue sex that night, just was finally loose and myself around women.
You also don't have to be in perfect shape or make well over 6 figures. Be yourself, set and meet some goals for yourself and your confidence and social abilities will skyrocket. I don't feel any different after sex. Its just a fun thing to do. Don't overthink it.
Im on the same boat finally living itup.
@@toomeowstream3253 Sorry to hear that. Not all women are like that. Perhaps the type you are into aren't the best types of people. Or maybe your behavior led to that situation. Try to objectively look back and determine what the issue was and try again (if it's something you want to pursue, don't have to!). Either way good luck.
I hate being around people. I tried therapy, it didn't work. My mind is completly fucked, i suffer from extreme social phobia. I will order some drugs from the dark net
yeah but I dont have these issues, well im insecure but then anyone would be after 40 years of rejections from all women, sadly im autistic and no matter how much I lose myself and be confident I ALWAYS get rejected, theres been times ive been getting on really well with a woman and they ALWAYS reject me, im very very handsome and im an ex model too, but what do you do even when your confident you always get rejected, I can see why nervous men get rejected and I am nervous sometimes, but a lot of the time especially if its in work im not at all, not putting women on a pedestal is also somewhat hard when you have to ask them and their in the position of total power and you have zero power, how are you not supposed to put them on a pedestal, I mean by the very fact I have to ask them out and they will NEVER ask a man out that means frankly they ARE on a pedestal, and if they reject me they have several hundred thosand other options and I have zero ! I am in perfect shape and ive got savings yet it doesn't help, nothing helps, being confident doesn't help, its hard not to overthink it if you've been rejected by all women even ones that liked you a lot for over 30 years of trying and becoming middle aged with nothing but decades of rejections from all women !
@@mcpartridgeboy I can't imagine what that is like happening for so long, sorry you went through that. Just know though that women and sex aren't everything and getting them wont do anything special for your life. You may potentially miss out on that in life, but I guarantee you have other things that many people probably wish for. I hope either things get better for you or you stop linking getting women to your happiness.
he said it himself, "I do t give off that vibe of being a sexual being." there is your problem bud.
@@iworkforwendys you got a point
When Hitch says something you listen.
He may need some testosterone booster.
@@joshua50101 how can one acquire testosterone boosters
@@eliefosso7215 Through your doctor if they say that you don’t have enough of it
This is literally me and I'm only 22 years old lol. Honestly if he's happy then that's all that really matters.
I don't think he's happy.
@@louisp_g3670 if not he better find a way to be happy. Sex won't change that
@@Conviction454 big facts
Yes me too
@@louisp_g3670 he’s obsessed with not having a gf. If he just enjoyed his life doing what he likes then there would be no problem
Bro's received a blessing in disguise. He might not know it yet, but he's a lucky man who will live a long, happy, and peaceful life without any strife.
You know, I think that our society is kinda responsible for the creation of incels. Cause for some reason, people are lead to believe that a good chunk of your worth as a person is based on how many sexual encounters/relationships you've had when that's not the case.
This is what happens in a world that not only glamorizes hookup culture, but also looks down on those who choose not to (or can't) participate in it.
There is nothing about constantly sleeping around that deserves praise and makes you a "stud", nor is there something about not having sexual experience at ANY age that warrants ridicule and being called a "loser".
I bet you he doesn't want a woman with experience either.
Incel? That word is overused.
There’s the reason I personally don’t care about society. They’re the same people who make fun of men when they get abused
@@2kmichaeljordan438 exactly
@@ST-yc7uj it's all about standards. if you have no standards ..in theory you should be able to find anyone.
Social anxiety and virginity goes hand in hand.
No. you are wrong
Ugliness and virginity go hand in hand.
@@slaythedevils5102 Yeah, and ugliness plays a big part in developing mental disorders such as social anxiety.
@@germantruthseeker Even if you are confident ugly, you will still find no partner.
For a man that is true. For women on the other hand there is a greater then infinite supply of desperate thirsty men who are trying to get with them on social media. Just one square manometer of earths surface area contains more desperate thirsty men then the number of hydrogen atoms that exist within both the observable and non observable universe.
Im 30 and virgin.. i have no problem with that..
Im glad you do sex isn't the only thing there is to life there's so much else to enjoy in life
@@darthorion2002 Having sex with strangers is fun for me, but someone needs a loving connection for that. Everyone is different.
@@darthorion2002 Sex has nothing to do with love. They are two completely different things. You don't have the right to judge my way of living. Just because I like one night stands doesn't mean I can't fall in love with someone.
@@rolandbertalan3656 u also have no right to judge other people's living yet u do anyway for them being a virgin. Good job hypocrite.
@@bobbyhill1110 lol when did I judge anyone?
His woman friend could help him if she wants him to enjoy life , but she never will, looks is everything, no matter what bullshit anyone say.
Lol his woman friend is too pretty he needs to go after more average looking women.
When his female friend started talking, I cringed so hard with embarassment that I actually rolled around in my bed
He is friend zone material. She probably calls him to narrate how guys have fucked her over after fucking her and he wants to fuck her and she knows it, but she will never let him fuck her looking like he is and having that dorky attitude.
@@musafawundu6718 LMAO I'M DEAD
@@musafawundu6718 true
Pure truth lmao
@@musafawundu6718 How about she help a brotha out, huh?
well, Speedwagon was virgin and look at what he achieved,had a big company, helping the joestars even being dead, so what's the matter of being virgin
Yessir. Virgin pride ✊
i know, but is just an example, not everything is lost
@General GTA pretty sure it's the raising fist emoji lol
@General GTA yeah, as much as the next person. Currently watching some old shit like Lupin III and Cutie Honey and Berserk. Although I'm more into rpg's now. Recently got into the Shin Megami Tensei series. 😁
@General GTA rpg stands for ROLE PLAYING GAME! they're not animes lmao! i've watched uzaki-chan and it was actually better than i expected. i heard things about rent a girlfriend but im not sure if i should get into it yet haha. i've seen a bit of love is war because of my friends, and i've started reading inuyashiki during quarantine, but i havent seen pet girl of sakurasou or bunny girl senpai :(
Me virgin at 21 years old.
This guy: 41 years old
My time will come
@@nathan2942 Wel-...
You're not wrong and if you take care of yourself or at least your hair it not gonna matter if you wrinkled
I Am virgin at 23 (almost 24). The crazy part its that i have the hottest gf and we talk about sex all the time but i can't see her due the pandemic lol
People and society need to chill with the sex itself, most promiscuous people that i know don't end so well (so many problematic mentalities, babies at young age and thats no even the cherry on the cake)
@@akamarux75 I'm a 22 yo virgin. Corona virus has halted any hope for me
Well... 30.
I just turned 20 👀
A good personality, has the ability to easily keep up convos, has hobbies and a good job.
Has friends that are foids which shows he doesn't have social anxiety that makes him weird around foids.
He is just short and bald, and is unattractive. Jfl, shatters all normie advice about dating.
Found the incel. I would totally date him, it just so happens that I'm married to the 5'1 balding indian janitor with an amazing personality teehee.
@@luaiderar6600right whe I thought this was real.😢😢😢
As a Indian N9n janitor it's so ovER
@@luaiderar6600"As women" sorry but whatever you say doesn't matter, what matters is your actions. Go virtue signal somewhere else toilet.
My heart breaks for this man. I'm not a virgin but I'm pretty close and I know what he's feeling.
You obviously kept your sexual relationship in the family ;)
The average age is 16. People from the UK .......average... meaning adding up and dividing by. That's kind of disturbing.
@Le Violurgeur Vendeur de Mini-Giraffes It's not disturbing as long as they do it within their age group. Edit: It's not something that should be done, but if it's with people of the same maturity level, it's at least normal and there's no manipulation based on maturity.
Definitely disturbing. I was still a child at that age, and when I think back on when I was even younger...No one should be having sex that young
@@jflsdknf I mean at that age you are an adolescent, while it still shouldn't be, it's somewhat okay if done with someone your own age.
Violurgeur vendeur d'héroïne et fier having sex at the age of 10-12 rather odd to say that least
so many of these people are retarded about stats. its disturbing because it infers that there is a significant portion of the population loosing their virginity a lot younger than 16. And that is disturbing.
the sad truth is, there's nothing holding him back but himself.
That's my thoughts on him as well.
Wonderful comment welll said
I think all boils down to positive/negative feedback. If you have a long enough stride of the second one you get stuck in a bottomless pit
And what? This is another form of "Fuck him and his life"? Lol!
I'm curious if you'll react the same to suicide.
So he should rape someone to lose his virginity? Cuz your simplistic comment could totally be interpreted that way.
I’m 32 I’m a virgin I have aspergers and I doubt it’s gonna change. I’ve started going to the gym and dropped 100 pounds but I still have no confidence.
I refuse to approach a women in public because of how cruelly I’ve been rejected in the past.
I'm 28 and virgin, i also have autism. Absolutely no experience, not even a single kiss or date.
Keep working. Put on muscle. Get ya drip right. Make sure u gotta clean cut. Smell good hygiene on point. Learn as much game as u can. Then jus f it n put it to test. Sometimes u just gotta grab ya balls and go for it. Every shot u don't shoot u miss.
@@woocarti335 ~ 6'6 born Chad.
@@j.d.s.1837 Lol
@@woocarti335game is bs, all you need is good looks and decent social skills. There are no magic words that can change a woman’s mind into finding you attractive. It’s always attractive or semi attractive dudes who swear that them having game is why they get women
They exist....
Your everywhere dude
Stop it Ray
Get some help!
I'll bet you it's more than you think. I mean, of course no one's gonna admit it... but have you never noticed how hard it is to shag a girl even when every single guy is desperate to do it?
Hi Ray ! 🙋♂️
@@DrsJacksonn It's not that hard though. You gotta change your game.
To be fair he seems like a nice normal bloke he's just insecure I think
He is ugly that’s why he is virgin lol insecurity ahaha
Giampiero Ventura stfu
@@riccardoventurato5321 I'm ugly AF but I've been in a relationship for 8 years mate looks arent everything
@@preparetoholdyourcolour7080 so.....THERE IS HOPE FOR ME??????Dont give me hope man.You were lucky,good luck,have a nice life
@Communist Detective Naruto Uzumaki uhm ok?
Clive's biggest problem is his self-perception. As they say, "you are what you think". The less you believe in yourself, the less others will believe in you. You have to embrace your imperfections just like everyone else, go out there and take some risks without being so hard on yourself for failing. Trying and failing is always better than never trying at all because you have so little confidence or faith in yourself.
Damn that's actually well said man, props to you my guy.
@Detective Naruto Uzumaki No the other guy, sorry man, I should have @ his name in it.
That's not how life works. And presumed rejection hurts MUCH less than actual rejection. Sometimes rejection makes you learn much less and be actually a step back than thinking before you act. Also, we live in a world where a single mistake can destroy your life if someone shares with the entire world.
@@zakazany1945 The fact that you're trying to contradict my statement by unknowingly proving it is hilarious. If rejection somehow makes you learn less than not taking any action at all, then that is a testament to my point about self perception. It's because you perceive you are somehow inferior because someone rejected you, or that you're worthless and should give up. So thank you for that.
Presumed rejection does not always hurt much less than actual rejection. I have personally been able to brush off real rejection, while feeling like I missed out when I did not approach someone. So your statement about 'how life works' is highly presumptuous and generalized. Tell me, if overcoming fear of rejection is 'not how life works', then how do people meet others, start relationships and families? Different people have different experiences. My opinions are derived from my experiences. Your experiences might be different from mine. I respect that, and you need to do the same. Rather than lambasting someone for having a different viewpoint.
Wowww xDDDD
Losing your virginity early and then changing your partner actually devalues you and leads to psychological issues and inability to pair bond. Besides, virginity can be granted to one worthy person once in your life, and once it's lost there is no more gift and there will be the eternal regret that the person you're in love with granted their first time to somebody else, and where is that somebody else? Exactly. So it's never about the age when you lose it, it's about how long you've kept it and whom did you share it with. If you lost it when you were 13 to some other 13 year old and that's how your personal life starter, no one will respect such lack of self-control, but if you preserved yourself for someone special, shared it with him and then you created a strong and stable family, that's all that matters.
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This is some of most archaic, naive, ridiculous nonsense I've ever heard. I can picture this guy dragging a woman around on the ground by her hair (as she suffers through a controlled life of no orgasms)
@@sbeni2 you should probably watch less horror movies and gore videos, since you are able to voluntarily picture any kind of horrific scenario out of nowhere