Why you’re failing at LOVE

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  • @addampeter5921
    @addampeter5921 19 дней назад +308

    She is as beautiful as she is smart and good hearted. Its hard to see influencers that are real like her... one of a kind

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm 19 дней назад +2

      How about Haley Kalil?

    • @PostMeridium
      @PostMeridium 18 дней назад +3

      @@DavidZ4-gg3dmHe say it’s hard not that she was the only one, i’m not even currently talking english and understand better than you do, what a shame 😅

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm 18 дней назад +1

      @@PostMeridium I understand very well. He says she's one of a kind. I'm saying that Haley Kalil is similiar.

    • @BhashanaLiyanage
      @BhashanaLiyanage 16 дней назад +3

      and her voice is also so sweet

    • @freakguitargod
      @freakguitargod 9 дней назад

      shes normal because she does not have an OF, means, she keeps her packages to herself. shame

  • @colegrosso4107
    @colegrosso4107 19 дней назад +357

    “i’m not a superstitious person but this ladybug gives me good luck” - victoria pfiefer

    • @addampeter5921
      @addampeter5921 19 дней назад +13

      I think you meant to say pfeifer

    • @jameschoi7501
      @jameschoi7501 19 дней назад +12

      She is the reason why I'm addicted to youtube shorts

    • @linoflores7109
      @linoflores7109 19 дней назад +8

      @@jameschoi7501she’s still in California

    • @RSAMV9611
      @RSAMV9611 19 дней назад +6

      What the age?

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm 19 дней назад +4

      @@RSAMV9611 She's 27, but looks younger.

  • @eduheloucomposer
    @eduheloucomposer 17 дней назад +56

    Ladybug is the perfect expression of love, she can land in any arm with no questions about who you are what you have, but only being. ❤

    • @eu3842
      @eu3842 16 дней назад +3

      Não faz o menor sentido isso moscas fazem a mesma coisa então

  • @ChicagoBornPilsenBred21
    @ChicagoBornPilsenBred21 19 дней назад +56

    Victoria finding/talking about Ladybugs then getting into deep thought about how you view yourself, giving relationship advice & then sitting peacefully by the ocean gives us a little perspective on how she is. Great video💯

    • @ashtonarrows1974
      @ashtonarrows1974 19 дней назад +4

      On how she pretends to be on camera so the simps keep coming.* Fixed that for ya.

    • @krisztiandomokos6713
      @krisztiandomokos6713 19 дней назад +2

      And conveniently there is a camera to record all of this introspection

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm 19 дней назад +5

      Why are she & her camera operator the only people on the beach?

    • @beuthen8562
      @beuthen8562 18 дней назад

      ​​@DavidZ4-gg3dm lol it's probably edited out and besides there are still a few people

  • @Idiocracyisnow
    @Idiocracyisnow 19 дней назад +31

    What an absolute treasure of a human being.

  • @boo5325
    @boo5325 11 дней назад +6

    I was there when you have 100k subscribers but now it's over 2 millions subscribers. You're fantastic

  • @threemad8456
    @threemad8456 19 дней назад +96

    “When you’re ᵃ ᵇⁱᵗᶜʰ to someone” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Ali-Kahla
    @Ali-Kahla 19 дней назад +12

    Everyone is filled with energy after watching this video ❤😂

  • @praxisego2991
    @praxisego2991 19 дней назад +12

    This is so true Victoria, I think we can compare it like thinking of a precious stone, how do we give value to that. Of course because it is beautiful, shiny, it sparkles and others. I think for a human being, they became valuable for the quality of what they are inside. We like them for their values... Like when they are kind, thoughtful, compassionate, merciful, with a positive attitude, and they are pure in spirit. I think that is very important.

  • @VicksV20
    @VicksV20 19 дней назад +10

    Victoria, thank you , you give me hope for the future.Thank you for this video from the bottom of my heart ☺️
    Everything you said is my life experience for the past 4 years , I am 18 now and you reminded me that , thank God , I have grown up.

    • @kevns689
      @kevns689 11 дней назад

      you're still a kid

  • @rickymendez2178
    @rickymendez2178 19 дней назад +13

    This is your best video so far. Showed a lot of wisdom and maturity at a very young age. Thank you for all the advice and your videos are great

  • @RaidhaShorif205
    @RaidhaShorif205 19 дней назад +13

    ‘’Love is sacrifice’’ that really touch my heart ❤️‍🩹

  • @wizeyy
    @wizeyy 18 дней назад +15

    I used to get annoyed seeing her shorts on my feed and more annoyed when I watched them. But then I started listening to her talk and now I’m a fan

    • @TheAniki94
      @TheAniki94 13 дней назад

      Exactly my thoughts too 😂 those shorts are irritating, although she's very smart and genuine when you listen to her

    • @Unkniwn1
      @Unkniwn1 12 дней назад

      first time listwening to her lemme see how it goes shorts are annoying and thirst trap if shes actaly good like u say she should stop

    • @Unkniwn1
      @Unkniwn1 12 дней назад +1

      also if you wanna know sm1 that i can garuntee is very genuine andhelpful (although a little egotistic) is Hamza Ahmed

    • @ARSENAL_supremacy
      @ARSENAL_supremacy 2 дня назад

      If you are a fan I am an air conditioner

  • @shaik4333
    @shaik4333 17 дней назад +7

    Her voice 🤌🏻 her eyes 👀 & her smile 😇 her beauty 🫀🤌🏻🤌🏻

  • @grantcotton2493
    @grantcotton2493 19 дней назад +11

    Thank you so much for all this advice, Victoria! I've never been in a relationship ever, and I've often beaten myself up for not being good enough. I'm getting help with this and have been feeling better recently about myself, but I've still got some more progress I need to make. This helped me even more, and I can't appreciate you enough for that! God bless! ❤️ ✝️

  • @09abhishekk
    @09abhishekk 7 дней назад +6

    2:52 the best moment! 🤣

  • @ZeyEmir
    @ZeyEmir 19 дней назад +19

    Dang first time i saw a person who has same thinking like me. Love is from both side not from one side. Thank you

  • @LizzieMcgraw
    @LizzieMcgraw 19 дней назад +36

    Your videos are like a window into your world, love the view!

    • @DavidZ4-gg3dm
      @DavidZ4-gg3dm 19 дней назад +3

      It's surprising that there's no-one else on the beach.

    • @fahimjalal322
      @fahimjalal322 4 часа назад

      Your sunglasses are so beautiful

  • @jorgeglz.8815
    @jorgeglz.8815 15 дней назад +3

    Love that mindset, some times is hard to find people that think like that but is better to keep it simple and let getting to know that person to become real parthners in life, hope to be on that stage Some day 😌

  • @noahg-ms8ef
    @noahg-ms8ef 19 дней назад +13

    Thank you for the great advice Victoria!!! I really needed this. I know this will help me a lot when I meet someone in the future.

  • @juliagriffin2179
    @juliagriffin2179 19 дней назад +12

    This is a beautiful scenery! I love your channel so much and you make my day!❤

  • @FICUSULXD189
    @FICUSULXD189 19 дней назад +9

    Your voice is so nice and soothing!

  • @DaNerdOne
    @DaNerdOne 17 дней назад +4

    The sound of waves at the end its great, quiet and relaxed.

  • @bobevans5282
    @bobevans5282 День назад +1

    You don't know you are the Angel from the outside and on the inside both
    God gifted!!

  • @khazemierfamor6470
    @khazemierfamor6470 19 дней назад +8

    Amazing video Victoria Stay safe and hydrated.

  • @Hulk-lives
    @Hulk-lives 19 дней назад +8

    Spot on 👍🏻 awesome video! Keep up the amazing work Victoria.

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 19 дней назад +8

    Outstanding vid, you're shorts are the best on this platform however these are great too

  • @user-ss8tm4bo7e
    @user-ss8tm4bo7e 17 дней назад +5

    I watch your short video many times but I heard ur voice for the first time,,and wat u said is damn true 👍huge love from India Nagaland

  • @TylerDaSilva522
    @TylerDaSilva522 18 дней назад +4

    So much truth! Thank you for posting.

  • @user-ci8le8qt7u
    @user-ci8le8qt7u 19 дней назад +8

    Your such the cutest and nicest female RUclipsr ever.❤❤❤❤

  • @cocomambo26
    @cocomambo26 19 дней назад +1

    More videos my love ❤🥰😍
    I love your content!! You always make my day and i always look forward to your content ❤️🥰😍

  • @kevincastle4219
    @kevincastle4219 13 дней назад +5

    I like when people talk about love, and not about seduction.

  • @Jhinjutsu
    @Jhinjutsu 16 дней назад +3

    thanks for the advice i needed this

  • @rickymendez2178
    @rickymendez2178 19 дней назад +6

    She finally posted this I just started watching but wanted to be one of the first to comment so Here I am 🙋‍♂️

  • @ChiefUSA
    @ChiefUSA 12 дней назад +3

    Great insight! Love your RUclips Shorts😂

  • @schtuke
    @schtuke 19 дней назад +3

    Victoria! How can one be so young--but so wise? You will make a wonderful wife one day. Be blessed!

  • @dblanque
    @dblanque 11 дней назад +2

    Not usually very attuned to your shorts or skits but I liked your way with words and what you had to say.
    Pretty reasonable and reflective video.
    Sometimes people overestimate the importance of romantic love though. If you have it, cherish it and take care of it, but if you don't... chill, it's not all about it.
    In the end we're all alone, so just find and do the things you love to do and be kind to, and help others.
    Cheers.
    -Dyl

  • @eurekasimplywellness
    @eurekasimplywellness 12 дней назад +2

    didnt come here for advice just here to admire the beauty

  • @yunmarky_08
    @yunmarky_08 19 дней назад +1

    I have never watched your lengthy video before, but it is excellent.

  • @bharathan1608
    @bharathan1608 7 дней назад

    you are good at this. have good understanding.

  • @knightsatin
    @knightsatin 19 дней назад

    Such wise advice here Victoria, some very good points which I hope others will consider.

  • @armoniko91
    @armoniko91 19 дней назад +6

    I said my dreams... you're also there

  • @user-sn3ed5rh6e
    @user-sn3ed5rh6e 19 дней назад +4

    You have a very good ethics. this is really good.

  • @ghonjalishningombam267
    @ghonjalishningombam267 3 дня назад

    You are the right person I need girl 🙏🥺

  • @hollywood-underdog4976
    @hollywood-underdog4976 19 дней назад +4

    Dear Miss Victoria. Yeah..thinks..theres a lot of truth in these words. thx..best luck to you..Bon Chance..

  • @TheRealMrRobles
    @TheRealMrRobles 3 дня назад

    I loved your last community post!

  • @noahg-ms8ef
    @noahg-ms8ef 19 дней назад +43

    Every time I see a lady bug I always think of my grandmother saying hi to me from Heaven

  • @Anim.eDLUFFY
    @Anim.eDLUFFY 19 дней назад +14

    If you're here on every upload !

  • @descovery1029
    @descovery1029 День назад

    Hey Victoria I have been watching your content since your subscriber was 3k and now you reach 2.million which is very impressive and I love you watching your content keep it up I wish u all the best … I’m from northeast india ❤ ☺️

  • @mackowalk2456
    @mackowalk2456 17 дней назад +1

    It's very inspiring. I'm so glad that You Victoria know it too. If You don't want to forgive, accept and love Yourself, how can You do that for someone else?❤ I seriously love that we are thinking similar. Thank You so much for Your advices.

  • @teendawn
    @teendawn 19 дней назад +4

    Here we go again ❤❤❤❤🎉 my Victoria

  • @user-pn9zy6dm1f
    @user-pn9zy6dm1f 19 дней назад +6

    your body personality talking style so perfect🙂that's not fair🥲

  • @VickyVik55
    @VickyVik55 19 дней назад +2

    You are in my heart ❤️

  • @user-hu9rd7jk8v
    @user-hu9rd7jk8v 19 дней назад +5

    You are so sweet, very pleasant to listen to and watch

  • @SamSam-tj2tf
    @SamSam-tj2tf 14 дней назад

    So positive thanks 😊

  • @byronkennhernandez2690
    @byronkennhernandez2690 19 дней назад +2

    tnx for the awesome video, my next trip will be visiting the nearest ocean ^^

  • @advlgs2421
    @advlgs2421 17 дней назад

    Your voice is super sweet 😅in love with it 😩💝

  • @musicmoon3205
    @musicmoon3205 19 дней назад

    I love you keep making long videos u look amazing

  • @LafigueraE
    @LafigueraE 15 дней назад

    Thank you of advice Victoria

  • @user-bp1nf5oz1g
    @user-bp1nf5oz1g 18 дней назад

    She gave me great advice 👏

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 19 дней назад +15

    0:02 - 4:48 - 6:35 - 10:10 Victoria is gorgeous af ❤️🔥❤️🔥

    • @hahamanin
      @hahamanin 19 дней назад

      Yeah no sh*t sherlock😂

  • @JoeJ-8282
    @JoeJ-8282 18 дней назад +6

    I'm already 50 and I still haven't ever figured out my real "purpose" in this life... I honestly don't even think I have one, I think I'm just existing here as I am, (i.e. still single AND a total virgin), to "live" in eternal solitude as a kind of "punishment" for something (terrible?) that I must've done in a past life, or something like that. I can't think of any other reason that even after over 5 decades now, I STILL cannot see or even have ANY idea of WHY I exist in this life and at this time in our history as a society and race. (Of humans)
    I'm a good natured person with endless Love and positivity for all, including myself, but literally NO-ONE that I'm EVER potentially interested in can see or even notice my inner beauty, Spirit, and character because they can't seem to ever be able to see past my (apparently "creepy, disgusting"), exterior looks, especially in my face, so whatever...
    At this point in my life, I've already pretty much totally given up on ever having an intimate relationship with anyone. Now I just totally focus my time and energy on my own nerdy hobbies and other interests, in order to keep my mind occupied and my Spirit happy.

    • @greatxerox
      @greatxerox 14 дней назад

      hi dude, you are in this Earth in order to be with JESUS, you have to contact him, that's the ONLY reason you are living here. i assure you it's the truth because if you make effort to contact him using all your living force and will and with sincerity, you'll understand. the Saint Spirit will reach you and you'll be a god's child. please trust me. And God knows you too, more than yourself, he'll put a kind, beautiful & good woman on your road. trust the Bible. it's really the truth because you'll get a lot of proofs when Saint Spirit will be with your soul.

    • @khanabdal1089
      @khanabdal1089 12 дней назад

      Read the Holy Book Quran which has already defined the purpose of life. You will be able to figure out why u are here.

  • @Myolie.
    @Myolie. 19 дней назад +5

    i love your vids

  • @user-zd1ze9ue4l
    @user-zd1ze9ue4l 18 дней назад +6

    Victoria, all respect and appreciation to your parents for their good upbringing of you. All the video while you maintain your seat in a respectful and reverent position.

  • @asjadshah430
    @asjadshah430 16 дней назад

    You’re so cute. God Bless you❤

  • @zanyryan6417
    @zanyryan6417 8 дней назад +2

    11:13 That doesn’t matter. You said there’s no people at that beach, so why trust your intuition when it’s warning you of something that’s physically impossible? This is the reason trust issues exist; the reason they trust their feelings over the facts.

  • @flaminggasolineinthedarkne4
    @flaminggasolineinthedarkne4 17 дней назад +1

    I just like the sound of the ocean.

  • @Ali-Kahla
    @Ali-Kahla 19 дней назад

    A lot of love from syria 🇸🇾 .. the Syrian coast ❤

  • @gelios451
    @gelios451 14 дней назад

    Thank you for the cool and interesting video, I’ll be waiting for new episodes! Have a wonderful day and good mood everyone!)😉😊

  • @reiseva247
    @reiseva247 19 дней назад +2

    stay safe ma'am.. 😊

  • @gioaxe4538
    @gioaxe4538 5 дней назад +1

    Man who win ur heart is lucky ❤ blees u

  • @gerlanmanzano8162
    @gerlanmanzano8162 9 дней назад

    You are perfect ❤

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 18 дней назад

    An amazing and wonderful girl. Have a nice day ❤

  • @LolLol-nq4hg
    @LolLol-nq4hg 11 дней назад +2

    I can only say that this is all true, you gave a great advice. Even though I've overlooked some advices given in this video

    • @Mikayla-nq8sr
      @Mikayla-nq8sr 11 дней назад

      Like?

    • @v0jt48
      @v0jt48 22 часа назад

      "advice" is an uncountable noun, so she gave "great advice" or "some pieces of advice"

  • @neguy1088
    @neguy1088 19 дней назад +1

    You are just wow ❤

  • @Bazsigood
    @Bazsigood 19 дней назад +6

    Usually girls in your age don't know anything about relationships, not to mention to give advices about it, but your video is smart and useful to your generations so worth a thumbs up! good work! ;)

  • @doctorusman9056
    @doctorusman9056 2 дня назад

    Thanks Victoria

  • @jrdecastro7726
    @jrdecastro7726 4 дня назад +3

    I.m a pilipino.my home town..philippines...province batangas city..
    But work..vienna austria👍

  • @AkshatKumar-ko7bj
    @AkshatKumar-ko7bj 19 дней назад

    I just love your voice

  • @historyandpoliticsexplaine4876
    @historyandpoliticsexplaine4876 18 дней назад

    Well said

  • @edgarserrano4203
    @edgarserrano4203 19 дней назад +2

    Excellent video

  • @jander4727thelilacfairy
    @jander4727thelilacfairy 19 дней назад +3

    Amazing

  • @MrRaj_21
    @MrRaj_21 16 дней назад +2

    9:38 Yes always Put God first and God will show you the right path and the right Person to be in your Life! 💯

  • @DylanosaurEdits
    @DylanosaurEdits 19 дней назад

    I love your content gurl

  • @Anonymousxyz98
    @Anonymousxyz98 14 дней назад +9

    Her parents raised her right ❤
    America must be proud of her

  • @ramimekkawy7619
    @ramimekkawy7619 7 дней назад +2

    Wow her voice isn't what I imagined at all

  • @aus919
    @aus919 17 дней назад

    In my heart ❤

  • @user-zd1ze9ue4l
    @user-zd1ze9ue4l 15 дней назад

    We often make mistakes in choosing who we love, and this results in a lot of avoidance of making the same mistake

  • @ecosho2012
    @ecosho2012 3 дня назад

    ❤❤❤ Good luck is coming.❤❤❤

  • @neezaaziz
    @neezaaziz 19 дней назад +5

    Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰 l love your videos sister 😍😍😍 you really entertain me ❤️❤️❤️ you are amazing 😍😍😍 I love your hair 😍😍

  • @KyleLeeuw
    @KyleLeeuw 19 дней назад

    Love you Victoria ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @justsomeone378
    @justsomeone378 18 дней назад

    2:06 I don’t know how is it possible to be such beautiful, I adore you so much 💘💔

  • @ghosts4419
    @ghosts4419 19 дней назад +4

    Amongst love but not in love.

  • @kotoamatsukami26
    @kotoamatsukami26 16 дней назад

    You are so beautiful! 🥰❤️

  • @addampeter5921
    @addampeter5921 19 дней назад

    She is still my favorite on RUclips 😂❤😂

  • @IshwarMakwana
    @IshwarMakwana 19 дней назад

    Love you Victoria ❤😊❤

  • @fernandoalvareztorres716
    @fernandoalvareztorres716 19 дней назад +3

    Hermosa ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @erikdurling3402
    @erikdurling3402 19 дней назад +2

    I will love you forever and ever amen

  • @user-co3vi7dw4p
    @user-co3vi7dw4p 17 дней назад

    Coisa. Linda! Vc é uma. Ótima. Pessoa!

  • @debjitmndal4363
    @debjitmndal4363 15 дней назад

    She's beautiful ❤