I remember when I was at a mall, I saw a guy catcalling a woman with her little kid. She kept saying she was uncomfortable and the guy was like "It was compliment" Like really dude? The kid then pulled the guy's shorts down and started screaming in his ear. It was the best thing I've ever seen. Needless to say, the guy left in embarrassment. God bless that kid.
@@Mr_can_doVRRight, except the only difference being men lean more towards acting on those desires.... Not saying all men obviously but statistically women are more at risk for violent SA.
Wait...did he legit say "get over it"? how the eff would he feel if it were him that was constantly cat called? How would he feel if it were him that was constantly harassed and verbally assaulted? Does he have a sister? A mom? How would he feel if they were in this position? I bet bottom dollar that his words and thoughts would change if it was someone he loved in this position.
For real like is women go through a lot in this world it’s like we were only here to make babies and clean hoses but we’re not we get educations and learn things we have fun but when they don’t get what they want they leave us
Girl or boy your right it it relatable because girls like us go through this stuff and it is stupid and like she says in the song they should consider trying to control there actions
Men are woman in anyway we’re not taking anything from you. I just hate how woman are just like. Oh yeah men are making us suffer even though we give you we gave you right we gave you Control of our lives and people better than us. You have way more things to trust you woman so I understand why you’re making it sound like your life is so horrible
Sadly, I've met many people who's son's are are not taught. All sorts of ages. Teens, Adults, My bfff has delt with it from elderly people aswell, I can't wear anything without it happening.
As a guy i am incredibly sorry to all the women who have to go through this horrible experience. If i could i would literally snap all the rude men out of reality 😭
At my school the boys have to follow the same dress code as the girls because our principals a girl boss and sometimes the boys would roll up there shorts to make fun of us and the teachers yelled at them💀💀 Edit: Omg my school just got voted the most distinguished school in my state💀
I really just wanna find the person who wrote "omg get over it already" and really just show them what we have to go through.. my mom and dad door dash I go with them and my mom tells me to cover up all the time just because old men are staring me down. Ir following me. Or just because my mom doesn't trust them. It's honestly so annoying and disgusting. And getting cat called is just a while other story
“Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons.” -Lala❤️ SORRY IF IT’S WRONG😭 Okay ik this isn’t much.. but this is the most liked I’ve ever had- TYSM FOR 144 LIKES!
@@deimosisbored5125you could walk around shirtless all you want. You don’t understand wearing a “perfectly normal” outfit and people saying horrible things about you and your body
@@polarstorm1424 describe perfectly normal outfits the main reason you guys are being cat called and shamed is because yall expose half of yourself (i also apologize for my english
I feel SO bad for all the ladies out there. Us guys can go out shirtless but when girls show their shoulders they’re at risk of being catcalled or worse. Stay strong ladies, you got this ❤
@aidensfnfchannel5174 why would the men have to stand up for themselves i mean woman are raped by men sexually assaulted harassed catcalled the list goes on
How do you know this person is a man? And why do yall assume all of us boys are bad and dont suffer? Do you know who gets draafted in wars? Do you know who nobody cares of they get sexually harrased? I mean, I agree, but stereotyping men doesn't help, either. I even saw a comment stating "Men don't die or feel pain." Like, honey? We all do
@@sirveer6112ikr just bc someone is a boy doesn’t mean they’re rude and are cheaters, I’m a girl and I’m giving death stares to my classmates everyday
“trying to take what’s not theirs” a list of what they take that isn’t theirs: virginity innocence happiness safety feeling comfortable wearing clothes you like edit: “they” isn’t just men. it’s also women. men get sexually assaulted, harassed, abused, and raped too.
It's ok but like just, don't say the world is horrible, there is a war and ppl don't even have food and they ALWAYS get kidnapped. Always be greatful. Or I will do this hate to u
I remember in 3rd grade we did a sitting arrangement I was sitted next to a boy and he was making me uncomfortable like sniffing me and other stuff with my other boy seatmates too my 2nd seatmate was absent at that time so I changed seats with the absent student and putted the bag in the middle which is my seat. And we were only 8 YEARS OLD.
I feel u . U must feel really annoyed and scared when this happens and u must have it hard . But men have it hard to, their friends constantly pointing out everything we do then $3xu4lizing it then making us. Feel bad,sometimes they even will be like “ she doesn’t like you bro get over it” when we are hiding while playing tag with a girl . We’re not all ruthless. But stay safe out there ❤
but yet guys can wear grey sweatpants, crop tops, booty shorts, tank tops, and probably go shirtless in gym class ._. how is tht fair? (btw i love skydxddy so much fr her songs are amazing)
No boys can’t wear that in gym class they also dress code the males that’s why they give them PE uniforms to wear same with females. At least at my high school
in 5th grade, a boy who was always considered "the bad kid". I believe he had cognitive problems but he attacked a girl in our class during gym and lifted up her shirt and some of the other boys tried to hold him back, but couldn't bc of the adrenaline. He wasn't suspended but just the teacher yelled at him and he was called to the office a lot that day. Later in the year, some people told me that twice he said I had a nice a$$ and I just pretended it was fine. Don't let anyone get away with this!! I'm in 7th grade now and have not had any other incidents, but wanted to raise awareness!
EXUSE ME?! DID THAT COMMENT SAYS GET OVER IT ALREADY?! Ok how would it feel how would ot f*** feel if girl u got cat called i am so sure u woulndt over it in days weeks or even months trust me and i appreciate u even lifted too write a useless comment thats just say get over it im suprised u even writed an emoji girl thx but nobody likes ur comment. Say thanks too the tiktoker for even standing up for us girl !
If someone in my daughter’s class would complain bout her shoulder or some shit like that I’d just say: “So you admit that you looked at my daughter inappropriately?”
It's so good to see people saying these things in the comments and speaking the truth. Girls remember we are all worth it! Oh and just a shout out to the men/boys who aren't disrespectful to us ladies we really need more men like you!
I'm a man with a daughter who loves this music. We live in rural Virginia were harassment isn't very common. I've asked her if she's experienced this, and she says she has not, but she feels something nonetheless about it because of this music. I don't know how to feel about a problem that doesn't exist to me or mine. She is so impressionable and takes things so seriously, I had to take notice. I understand the nature of this song, and it is certainly a fact for so many, but I don't want my daughter, who is struggling with her identity, to find a victim mentality where there is no source of villainy. The world is very complex. Good men will not understand. You only see what you're looking at. Terrible things happen to every type of person every moment of the day around the world. I'm torn between knowing the horrors and trying to be positive for her.
Here are the benefits of your daughter listening to this music: 1. *You don’t know how to feel about a problem that doesn’t exist to you or yours.* _But you daughter might, regardless of what she said. She might find herself in a scary situation with a bad person in the future. I absolutely pray this path doesn’t happen for her, no doubt. But she is a girl in a world where girls still can’t win at times. And maybe she herself has not experienced anything like this, but maybe her best friends have or will. You literally do not know and you cannot expect that these instances will never happen for her. Statistics from May 2023 state that 1 in 6 US women are r*pëd annually. 82% of juvenile SA victims are female. 90% of adult SA victims are female. 14-17 year olds were the mostly likely to be victims at 16.3% of the age statistics. Almost 80% of female victims were victimized prior to age 25. And less than 20% of attempts or complete SAs are reported annually. These are scary numbers to look at._ 2. *She’s already just aware of these issues as is.* _At least she is aware and self aware enough to feel something about this song. She could develop crucial skills that females should learn in the current climate to preserve their lives in case they catch the attention of a bad person._ 3. *How many cases got handled properly in Virginia?* In 2019, a news article with statistics about the clearance rate of SA crimes compared to kidnapping showed that only 19% of r*pë reported got cleared by an arrest, raise that to 22% for sex-related offenses in general. In 10% of _those cases,_ victims did end up refusing to cooperate. However, in 13% of those cases, prosecutors didn’t pursue the case. Meanwhile, kidnapping cases were 73% cleared by an arrest, 2% of victims didn’t cooperate and 2% didn’t get picked up by the prosecution. Those are skewed numbers for recognizing rapists and holding them accountable. Now, of course I don’t know your rural area better than you do. I also don’t care to ask for it for their specific statistics. It could be better there than it is over the state. Still calls to be aware of situations in surrounding areas._ 4. *Puberty* _I want to preface this with I do not care to know anything that specific to your daughter. I do not need any of that information. But if she’s not an adult and hasn’t hit puberty yet, things definitely change when your body starts changing. I was 13 when a grown man hit on me as a freshman in high school. I wore a D cup, you couldn’t really miss them. When I was in 7th grade, fresh out of middle school, I wore a C cup. I started puberty at 9, in the fifth grade. Guys looked. Guys commented. It’s still happening. My 14 year old niece started wearing more tomboy clothing a few years ago because she did not want people looking at her body like they had been. She was 11-12. These things do happen and they will happen until we teach everyone how to respect others and keep some comments to ourselves._ These horrors exist in the world around us. They’re fears of most women in the world. Be proud that your daughter doesn’t lack empathy or awareness of herself and the social world she could be growing up in if we don’t do something to help SA victims. And again, I do not say this to wish ill on your daughter or be a pessimist. This is just real. And I can link you to where I found my information as well if need be.
I don't mean to say you're unaware of things. But as somebody who lives in a rural area as well. That has nothing to do with it. I grew up in a small town. My graduating class was 42. I was wearing a tank top at school that did not violate the dress code. We were told it had to be 2 fingers width for the strap. That strap was almost 4 fingers width and I was still told that I either needed to go home and change or put on a hoodie. Yeah, that's a problem. Your daughter is going to face this as she gets older because it's "distracting", and it's not just distracting to her fellow classmates, it's gonna be distracting for the male teachers too. It doesn't matter if you live in a rural area and stuff like that just doesn't happen because it does happen unfortunately and as somebody who still lives in a rural area, I can tell you that. Yeah, it's even worse I have a twelve-year-old niece. She is, unfortunately a victim of SA. And you know, you never wanna get that phone call from your sibling. Who is hysterically crying? because of what they walked in on and saw what was happening to their child and then being told by the child psychologist that had to interview, said 10 year old at the time. That 1 in 5 girls under the age of 12 will be sexually abused. That's not a percentage that is a 100% chance. Thankfully, we got lucky and the Justice system actually came through for once, and the perpetrator got 15 years, which is more than most, pedophiles may be get a couple years to get out early and then repeat a offend. And you don't understand why your daughter resonates of this music, maybe you should ask her why she resonates with it. Because she may not know that she has actually experienced an issue because it's so normalized. Maybe ask Her to explain in detail , talk to your wife and ask her about it. Because I guarantee your wife has probably experienced something similar. Don't be hating on a song that is very much pointing out a problem in our society.
honestly last night i got cat called in a restaurant trying to eat with my GRANDPARENTS LIKE SERIOUSLY THIS HAS TO STOP WE ARE NOT OBJECTS THEY CANT JUST MESS WITH WE. ARE. PEOPLE.❤
@@zorroloaf293honestly whoever uses men for their money is disgusting because the women that do should work hard for money they can’t just use men and boys for money because it’s not fair to the men and boys that do work hard for their earnings just for another person to waste it. i’m not saying all men and boys are bad just some are same goes for women as well because i have met very terrible and nasty women and girls in my life. my sincere apologies if my original comment made you think i was talking about all men. i hope you understand.
It started because naturally boys have something to make them stronger so with no cops a woman alone and a man who wants a wife the man can take her but with a man next to a woman it makes it much more difficult. That’s why it started but it has gotten out of hand
i'm a thirteen year-old girl, my mom is very protective for her own reasons so the only time i'm really walking alone is to or from my bus stop, but even then i'm super afraid. i've never been catcalled or SA'd that i can remember but i feel terrible that i can't comfort people about their experiences properly. i'm grateful that i haven't experienced that yet, i just wish i knew how to properly comfort the people that have.
I’m absolutely obsessed with this song! Not only is the beat amazing, the lyrics are very informative and as a female I’ve been sexualised as well so this song is just the most relatable song!❤️
they say women needs to be perfect but when WE try they're like "your so fat eat less, Your so skinny eat more" it was never enough after saying that some of us even cry our selves to sleep and questioning our existence it was never enough for them. and being scared to go alone at night and always looking our back every minute we are enough and we are perfect the way we are every skin,body EVERYTHING IS PERFECT we all shine❤
AND U GIRLS DO THE SAME TO US BOYS BC U GIRLS JUDGE US AND IF WE DONT GOT ABS U REJECT US BC U ONLY WANNA SEE BOYS WITH ABS LIKE BRUH AND US BOYS AINT WALLETS
This song is so true to us girls are always getting hurt or insulted or abused by boys its such a horrible life that we’re living in like boys just leave us alone
So I don’t understand if a girl physically beast the living shit out of a boy at high school it’s fine but when a guy lays hands on a girl it’s sexual harassment y’all are freaking insecure
I know, I hate it when boys try to steal my shoulders too 😭😭😭 In all seriousness though, this is a great song and I'm really happy songs like this exist because its actually insane that this kind if stuff happens to women and people dont bat an eye at it. Like, its 2023, people really need to move past misogyny, sexism and any other kinds of discrimination and hate. Thank you for making this song and raising awareness 🫶
Sexism can happen to anyone no matter the gender, sure some men will do disgusting things like that, but women can do it too and everyone points the blame at just guys rather than people who do that in general.
Growing up i convinced myself this stuff wouldnt happen to me, i was chubby and the awkward kid. It was crazy when i realized that didnt matter. That it can actually make you more vulnerable and more of a target. Ive been told i look 16 and then hit on, im 23 now but its so scary to know they like that.
that just sucks. The fact that girls can be any age, can look any way, but still get harassed. like there's no running away. hope you guys get treated better 🫂
Yes queen 👑 My bloodline has been sexually assaulted for generations, my grandmother was assaulted by her math teacher from the age of none to when she Graduated high school and once she told her mom nobody believed her and she slowly went crazy (as my mom puts it) she got married had two children she got divorced, diagnosed with breast cancer, began hallucinating and died around her late forties before her grandchildren were born and my sister has been assaulted by a boy her age (they are eight) it started in second grade he was eventually expelled a few weeks ago after my parents tried to get a restraining order again him. I know it has happened in the past to other women in my family
What? Break up? If that happened then it's YOUR fault 😊, if I listed what girls do that hurt boy's feeling then it would be long, ugh just stop it there r better people than you anyways🙄🙄
I’m not a woman, but I totally agree that women should be treated better. And yet men still wonder why (some) women are so mean to them. Edit: AHHHH YALL ARE BLOWING UP MY NOTIFICATIONSSS
As a ftm(female to male) trans person, I have experienced this in both ways. When I had presented myself as a woman, I was catcalled, I was told terrible things. But that never changed when I transitioned. I am still sexually disrespected by the opposite gender. Both women and men have these struggles. The only difference is that women have it a bit worse because of the upbringing of some guys. I wish that people would just stop doing this! I believe that everyone should be respectful, and gender should NOT change that!!
I have a friend who’s ftm and he’s also gay. People don’t really cat call us but they think we’re dating because he likes to give nose and cheek kisses and forehead kisses. It’s annoying but we don’t care. I’m a non-binary lesbian btw.
And people shouldn't be forced to behave differently because of their gender. All genders should be allowed to like things that are "meant" like some people say, for other genders.
Thanks for standing up for girls! Girl power
YES
GIRL POWER
Ay men have it bad to. Just not the same way all the time. 💀💀💀💀
YESSSS
Girl power
I remember when I was at a mall, I saw a guy catcalling a woman with her little kid. She kept saying she was uncomfortable and the guy was like "It was compliment" Like really dude? The kid then pulled the guy's shorts down and started screaming in his ear. It was the best thing I've ever seen. Needless to say, the guy left in embarrassment. God bless that kid.
Omg😂😂😂
That kid is a freaking legend 🤣
Massive W for the kid 😂👑
Dang, that kid was made to be.
That kid needs to be on the news😭
It is wonderful how she always stands up for us girls
Thank you for giving this message to the world
He should be the one who has to get over it. It's how she feels
I totally agree
Me too but I love the song so much
Sorry for ruining your 555 lke😢 I kinda made it 556 likes 😢
I agree
I5s not just her wio feels it😔
SHE’S SPEAKING TRUE FACTS THO-😮💨😮💨🔥🔥
Fr
True❤
Cap
@@rfx.ftblaeWell it’s both Some do get cat called but the boys all ways get ganged Up on because one did something wrong/bad
@@rfx.ftblaeno its actually not a cap
Finally a girl stands up for all of the girls in the world that are getting bulled ❤❤ 👏 👏 👏😊
Good that's me❤*boys🖕🖕*
*girls❤✍I'm a girl💅!
Yay I used to get bullied cuz i couldn’t talk good
Yayy ✨
Bullied*
Yes ❤❤❤
I know right that's what we needed for a girl to stand up for she self
😂😂😂 she
this guy should live his life as a girl
I completely agree
Me to I agreed
Agreed
Agreed
Agreed.
The nerve they have to say “get over it already” when they’ve never had to deal with being sexualized for every single thing they do.
Me personally as a girl I've never been catcalled or sexualized but I'm sure it will happen soon.
@@x_anianwell, you shouldn't hope for it
Y’all we get this all the time it’s not just you women
@@Mr_can_doVRRight, except the only difference being men lean more towards acting on those desires.... Not saying all men obviously but statistically women are more at risk for violent SA.
Being girls and woman is hard there is no get over it!
Appreciate you❤
Love u too girly. ❤
Hi!
omg i love ur songs especially this one 💗💗
OMMG
thx for making this song. At least the boys can understand
She looks like a angel 😇
LETS GO QUEEN!!! That’s what I’m talking about!!!! We NEED moor people like this!!!
I know support the girls
More*
I love this
Is this focused on all men or sum? Jus curious
@@Imjayfrfrsome because most boy's/men aren't that way
“Instead of “protecting” your daughters, teach your sons”
-lala
you should've gotten more likes
AMEN
That’s wrong you can do both at the same time
True
All of lalas stuff is off of wattpad anyway
Finally someone is standing up for the girls ❤
I was standing up for a girl in my class who was getting catcalled
Btw I'm a girl
Boys think they're better than us but they're not
Your amazing
Like no one is standing up for girls.
This is so true and so nice for the girls
People who agree
👇
I agree e
What a horrible life for all of the girls
Me for sure😂❤
THANK YOU!!!!!! HAVE A GREAT DAY
Yeah..
Wait...did he legit say "get over it"? how the eff would he feel if it were him that was constantly cat called? How would he feel if it were him that was constantly harassed and verbally assaulted? Does he have a sister? A mom? How would he feel if they were in this position? I bet bottom dollar that his words and thoughts would change if it was someone he loved in this position.
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Exactly that was my reaction like literally what horrible life for us women who just want to be left alone
Bro you are so correct keep up the good work and words for women
For real like is women go through a lot in this world it’s like we were only here to make babies and clean hoses but we’re not we get educations and learn things we have fun but when they don’t get what they want they leave us
FR
Bro this song just hits different its so relatable!
Girl or boy your right it it relatable because girls like us go through this stuff and it is stupid and like she says in the song they should consider trying to control there actions
Men are woman in anyway we’re not taking anything from you. I just hate how woman are just like. Oh yeah men are making us suffer even though we give you we gave you right we gave you Control of our lives and people better than us. You have way more things to trust you woman so I understand why you’re making it sound like your life is so horrible
Fr
He be the one that wouldn’t control himself
Fr 😭😭😭
Yes
Fr tho
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"Don't teach your daughters to be afraid"
"Teach your sons to be polite."
"don't protect your daughters"
"teach your sons"
Maybe teach the daughters to have any sort of respect for boys instead of them having to do all the changes make it 50/50 yeah crazy right
" teach your sons"
"Teach your daughters"
@@rachelecklund9128 way better version 👍
Sadly, I've met many people who's son's are are not taught.
All sorts of ages.
Teens, Adults,
My bfff has delt with it from elderly people aswell,
I can't wear anything without it happening.
As a guy i am incredibly sorry to all the women who have to go through this horrible experience. If i could i would literally snap all the rude men out of reality 😭
Thank you😊
Give this guy some respect, bro ❤😭 it's rare for people like you man
Women are rude too 😒
Thanks
@@Foot903 np
At my school the boys have to follow the same dress code as the girls because our principals a girl boss and sometimes the boys would roll up there shorts to make fun of us and the teachers yelled at them💀💀
Edit: Omg my school just got voted the most distinguished school in my state💀
Good.
Love this rule! “Girl Boss” LoL.
I love that rule
As she should ❤
That principal is amazing, if you still go there, can you say thanks so much.
I really just wanna find the person who wrote "omg get over it already" and really just show them what we have to go through.. my mom and dad door dash I go with them and my mom tells me to cover up all the time just because old men are staring me down. Ir following me. Or just because my mom doesn't trust them. It's honestly so annoying and disgusting. And getting cat called is just a while other story
Same 😢
It say the user actually I think it’s Ashton Highfill’s I’ll see if I can find it
Same
I found him 😂
Do you want to be started down by old men????
You’re so good at it I think it’s your favorite song😊❤
Girl you proved how we feel! Thank you!
I’m so happy that there is people out in the world standing up for girls
Ya
Yasss girllll
@@JaneAllen-gc1dm and it’s a BOY that’s saying it do they get periods or give birth?? No they don’t
yeah
Same
🖤🖤🖤 I cant get enough of her content ❤❤❤
❤
Lovely if you had a show I would go
“Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons.” -Lala❤️
SORRY IF IT’S WRONG😭
Okay ik this isn’t much.. but this is the most liked I’ve ever had- TYSM FOR 144 LIKES!
It's not wrong that's what she said
@@bobobob3036 phew, thought I was gonna get a bunch of hate saying that’s not right ☠️ thanks for letting me know☺️
@@TheAmricanoOnHyunjinsCloth mhm it's np😁😊
This is so true!
Yeah
My anxiety watching her calmly standing on a frikin railway track : 📈📈📈📈📈
Edit: I found she was not standing on it I'm sorry-
well she was standing inbetween so anxiety:📈📈📈📈
I was more concerned about the fire 🔥😯
Yassssss
She was in between 2 train tracks
She definitely slayed❤❤❤❤
I understand you🙏
Hey, what's the song name?
@@User-io3nxpretty distraction
Sing it!! Take your power back! I love it!
I love this song, the beats and the way everything is put together just sounds amazing
song name please please
Sorry I’m not sure of the name😢
@@KATELYN244 pretty distraction
@@Flowers4Tuktukypretty distraction
Samee
my anxiety went from 0 to 1000 when i saw the train tracks
Same 💀
Sameee
I love all the songs you do it is ridiculous us girls have to cover up but boys can wear whatever 😡
Boys can't wear what they want. Goofy
nah we cant exactly be naked half the time too
we wear what we want cuz we wear like 3 things for 5 years before changing it
we are simple creatures
@@deimosisbored5125simple creatures that like to touch women
@@deimosisbored5125you could walk around shirtless all you want. You don’t understand wearing a “perfectly normal” outfit and people saying horrible things about you and your body
@@polarstorm1424 describe perfectly normal outfits
the main reason you guys are being cat called and shamed is because yall expose half of yourself
(i also apologize for my english
😢😢😢😢😢😢 finally someone to stand up for it looked like she was the original singer
@GigaChadShrek oooh ok
finally you have someone standing up for the girls this song is so true
I feel SO bad for all the ladies out there. Us guys can go out shirtless but when girls show their shoulders they’re at risk of being catcalled or worse. Stay strong ladies, you got this ❤
Thank you❤
Thank you a man who understand ❤
Thanks that means a lot ❤
Thank u so much❤❤❤
Thank you a lot
I’m glad you made this song so all the women can stand up for themselves by singing this❤
I think she didn’t make this song
The person in the video did
@aidensfnfchannel5174 why would the men have to stand up for themselves i mean woman are raped by men sexually assaulted harassed catcalled the list goes on
This person didn't make it 😂 the person in the title did. And the original has 39 likes while this has 138k 💀💀
You know what the girls should do they should stand up for there self
She's so beautiful
Poepple who supports her
Thank you for making this song people need to know about this and people do need to teach their sons to control his actions ❤😊
wow i can’t believe that man said “get over it” he should live a day in our shoes.
How do you know this person is a man? And why do yall assume all of us boys are bad and dont suffer? Do you know who gets draafted in wars? Do you know who nobody cares of they get sexually harrased? I mean, I agree, but stereotyping men doesn't help, either. I even saw a comment stating "Men don't die or feel pain." Like, honey? We all do
@@sirveer6112FR
@@sirveer6112maybe bc their profile is a boy and their name is a boys name
@@sirveer6112yes I understand that boys also have a hard time
@@sirveer6112ikr just bc someone is a boy doesn’t mean they’re rude and are cheaters, I’m a girl and I’m giving death stares to my classmates everyday
“trying to take what’s not theirs”
a list of what they take that isn’t theirs:
virginity
innocence
happiness
safety
feeling comfortable
wearing clothes you like
edit: “they” isn’t just men. it’s also women. men get sexually assaulted, harassed, abused, and raped too.
You forgot ✨LIFE✨ 😡🤬
I don't know why but boys should stop cat calling it is dum
@@cynthiarobb2481 fr like everyone who catcalls needs to shut their yapper
The ONLY way virginity is theirs is if the woman they're taking it from GIVES it to them. In other words CONSENT
These days all boy children trouble us girl
Some men don't know how hard it is to be a girl but a world of people standing up FOR us girls ❤
I love the message of the video, the filming, the emotion, and your style!
Thx for standing up for me, you, and other girls.
👆🏻
Team her
😢😢😢
This girl must be good
I feel the same way 😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thx
Agreed
It's ok but like just, don't say the world is horrible, there is a war and ppl don't even have food and they ALWAYS get kidnapped. Always be greatful. Or I will do this hate to u
I have this song on repeat every time I turn on my music! I love this song SO MUCH!!!!❤❤❤
OMG UR SO PRETTY
thank you to all of the men in the comment section being supportive. you did not disappoint ❤❤❤❤
i second this
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@@btsgirl2430 is that a thumbs down or a hit the like?
I third this (your a real one ❤)
She gets so much hate for no reason
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As a male I totally understand the whole situation and have never liked how some treat females.
ikr its honestly really bad
I found out one of my friends was sexist yesterday so I blocked him
I remember in 3rd grade we did a sitting arrangement I was sitted next to a boy and he was making me uncomfortable like sniffing me and other stuff with my other boy seatmates too my 2nd seatmate was absent at that time so I changed seats with the absent student and putted the bag in the middle which is my seat. And we were only 8 YEARS OLD.
@@MICAH_YAYZZ did you tell the teacher
@@AudweyPaintnutyes he also smacked me on the head I told the teacher he also slapped me I told hat to the teach too
I wish they would stop staring at us girls thanks so much for standing up for women GIRL POWER
Yes period 😝❤️
@@UrlocalbigbackkPeriod? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Tbh you actually just roasted him so badly SLAY
She roasted who and what is on that a roast
@@Bennet8233the coment
This world is full of pussies and retards. Idk why but I’m commenting this.
How is playing a song roasting 💀
@@freebot10 because the person was being rude
Can't wait for this to finally drop
It dropped!!!❤❤❤
@@MakeupNerd53 ik! I'm obsessed with it!
@@MakeupNerd53what’s it called
@@3fl_Tw1nkit’s called pretty distraction ❤
@@3fl_Tw1nkpretty distraction
She slays so well yall who watched the premiere to the song ❤️
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I feel u . U must feel really annoyed and scared when this happens and u must have it hard . But men have it hard to, their friends constantly pointing out everything we do then $3xu4lizing it then making us. Feel bad,sometimes they even will be like “ she doesn’t like you bro get over it” when we are hiding while playing tag with a girl . We’re not all ruthless.
But stay safe out there ❤
Girl u deserve better also i love the song ❤
but yet guys can wear grey sweatpants, crop tops, booty shorts, tank tops, and probably go shirtless in gym class ._. how is tht fair? (btw i love skydxddy so much fr her songs are amazing)
No boys can’t wear that in gym class they also dress code the males that’s why they give them PE uniforms to wear same with females. At least at my high school
@@littleralsei07 it’s different for each school like but fr
Its annoying for guys too theu make us look like perverts and weirdos
Fr tho
Ikr- wait, know skydxddy too? 😃
A friend of mine showed me this song only yesterday, now I find it here! Love it!❤
What’s the name?
@@torsmccors9360It's called Pretty Distraction😄
Boys have to start respecting girls
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No we don’t have to
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You do u less the girls are being rude
@@noahsaltzman5876 why?
@@Yukiiiiii_110bc guys will cry when the get complemented and girls will cry when they dont
Everyone needs to start respecting everyone!
in 5th grade, a boy who was always considered "the bad kid". I believe he had cognitive problems but he attacked a girl in our class during gym and lifted up her shirt and some of the other boys tried to hold him back, but couldn't bc of the adrenaline. He wasn't suspended but just the teacher yelled at him and he was called to the office a lot that day. Later in the year, some people told me that twice he said I had a nice a$$ and I just pretended it was fine. Don't let anyone get away with this!! I'm in 7th grade now and have not had any other incidents, but wanted to raise awareness!
5th grade? he must have great parents 💀
jesus christ 7th grade?? im so sorry
omg thats so horrible😕
EXUSE ME?! DID THAT COMMENT SAYS GET OVER IT ALREADY?! Ok how would it feel how would ot f*** feel if girl u got cat called i am so sure u woulndt over it in days weeks or even months trust me and i appreciate u even lifted too write a useless comment thats just say get over it im suprised u even writed an emoji girl thx but nobody likes ur comment. Say thanks too the tiktoker for even standing up for us girl !
If someone in my daughter’s class would complain bout her shoulder or some shit like that I’d just say: “So you admit that you looked at my daughter inappropriately?”
It's so good to see people saying these things in the comments and speaking the truth. Girls remember we are all worth it! Oh and just a shout out to the men/boys who aren't disrespectful to us ladies we really need more men like you!
Thank you for acknowledging the guys that don’t this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for being the only person to take notice that its not all of is boys that are freaks like that.
This video should be the most viral video! Love ya for making this amazing video and reminding us that we also need to live and we also have emotions.
Omg is so good like girl the edit
,music acting are so good!!
I'm a man with a daughter who loves this music. We live in rural Virginia were harassment isn't very common. I've asked her if she's experienced this, and she says she has not, but she feels something nonetheless about it because of this music. I don't know how to feel about a problem that doesn't exist to me or mine. She is so impressionable and takes things so seriously, I had to take notice. I understand the nature of this song, and it is certainly a fact for so many, but I don't want my daughter, who is struggling with her identity, to find a victim mentality where there is no source of villainy. The world is very complex. Good men will not understand. You only see what you're looking at. Terrible things happen to every type of person every moment of the day around the world. I'm torn between knowing the horrors and trying to be positive for her.
Here are the benefits of your daughter listening to this music:
1. *You don’t know how to feel about a problem that doesn’t exist to you or yours.*
_But you daughter might, regardless of what she said. She might find herself in a scary situation with a bad person in the future. I absolutely pray this path doesn’t happen for her, no doubt. But she is a girl in a world where girls still can’t win at times. And maybe she herself has not experienced anything like this, but maybe her best friends have or will. You literally do not know and you cannot expect that these instances will never happen for her. Statistics from May 2023 state that 1 in 6 US women are r*pëd annually. 82% of juvenile SA victims are female. 90% of adult SA victims are female. 14-17 year olds were the mostly likely to be victims at 16.3% of the age statistics. Almost 80% of female victims were victimized prior to age 25. And less than 20% of attempts or complete SAs are reported annually. These are scary numbers to look at._
2. *She’s already just aware of these issues as is.*
_At least she is aware and self aware enough to feel something about this song. She could develop crucial skills that females should learn in the current climate to preserve their lives in case they catch the attention of a bad person._
3. *How many cases got handled properly in Virginia?*
In 2019, a news article with statistics about the clearance rate of SA crimes compared to kidnapping showed that only 19% of r*pë reported got cleared by an arrest, raise that to 22% for sex-related offenses in general. In 10% of _those cases,_ victims did end up refusing to cooperate. However, in 13% of those cases, prosecutors didn’t pursue the case. Meanwhile, kidnapping cases were 73% cleared by an arrest, 2% of victims didn’t cooperate and 2% didn’t get picked up by the prosecution. Those are skewed numbers for recognizing rapists and holding them accountable. Now, of course I don’t know your rural area better than you do. I also don’t care to ask for it for their specific statistics. It could be better there than it is over the state. Still calls to be aware of situations in surrounding areas._
4. *Puberty*
_I want to preface this with I do not care to know anything that specific to your daughter. I do not need any of that information. But if she’s not an adult and hasn’t hit puberty yet, things definitely change when your body starts changing. I was 13 when a grown man hit on me as a freshman in high school. I wore a D cup, you couldn’t really miss them. When I was in 7th grade, fresh out of middle school, I wore a C cup. I started puberty at 9, in the fifth grade. Guys looked. Guys commented. It’s still happening. My 14 year old niece started wearing more tomboy clothing a few years ago because she did not want people looking at her body like they had been. She was 11-12. These things do happen and they will happen until we teach everyone how to respect others and keep some comments to ourselves._
These horrors exist in the world around us. They’re fears of most women in the world. Be proud that your daughter doesn’t lack empathy or awareness of herself and the social world she could be growing up in if we don’t do something to help SA victims.
And again, I do not say this to wish ill on your daughter or be a pessimist. This is just real. And I can link you to where I found my information as well if need be.
I don't mean to say you're unaware of things. But as somebody who lives in a rural area as well. That has nothing to do with it. I grew up in a small town. My graduating class was 42. I was wearing a tank top at school that did not violate the dress code. We were told it had to be 2 fingers width for the strap. That strap was almost 4 fingers width and I was still told that I either needed to go home and change or put on a hoodie. Yeah, that's a problem. Your daughter is going to face this as she gets older because it's "distracting", and it's not just distracting to her fellow classmates, it's gonna be distracting for the male teachers too. It doesn't matter if you live in a rural area and stuff like that just doesn't happen because it does happen unfortunately and as somebody who still lives in a rural area, I can tell you that. Yeah, it's even worse I have a twelve-year-old niece. She is, unfortunately a victim of SA. And you know, you never wanna get that phone call from your sibling. Who is hysterically crying? because of what they walked in on and saw what was happening to their child and then being told by the child psychologist that had to interview, said 10 year old at the time. That 1 in 5 girls under the age of 12 will be sexually abused. That's not a percentage that is a 100% chance. Thankfully, we got lucky and the Justice system actually came through for once, and the perpetrator got 15 years, which is more than most, pedophiles may be get a couple years to get out early and then repeat a offend. And you don't understand why your daughter resonates of this music, maybe you should ask her why she resonates with it. Because she may not know that she has actually experienced an issue because it's so normalized. Maybe ask Her to explain in detail , talk to your wife and ask her about it. Because I guarantee your wife has probably experienced something similar. Don't be hating on a song that is very much pointing out a problem in our society.
Good job teaching her dad wo to with these songs she will know she has a choice to her body noone I mean no one has a right to touch her
My kiddo is 4 songs these songs with her whole chest out lol. I'm rasing her differently then I was
honestly last night i got cat called in a restaurant trying to eat with my GRANDPARENTS LIKE SERIOUSLY THIS HAS TO STOP WE ARE NOT OBJECTS THEY CANT JUST MESS WITH WE. ARE. PEOPLE.❤
I know right we are not just used to be looked at 🩷
Apparently some women are objects, some girls at my school like the idea of not being human and like being objectified.
And boys such as me aren't wallets
@@zorroloaf293honestly whoever uses men for their money is disgusting because the women that do should work hard for money they can’t just use men and boys for money because it’s not fair to the men and boys that do work hard for their earnings just for another person to waste it. i’m not saying all men and boys are bad just some are same goes for women as well because i have met very terrible and nasty women and girls in my life. my sincere apologies if my original comment made you think i was talking about all men. i hope you understand.
Girl you ✨SLAYED THAT✨
*+SLAYED THAT+*
Slayyyyyy
This song just helps me feel the reasons women and men should have equal rights
It started because naturally boys have something to make them stronger so with no cops a woman alone and a man who wants a wife the man can take her but with a man next to a woman it makes it much more difficult.
That’s why it started but it has gotten out of hand
i'm a thirteen year-old girl, my mom is very protective for her own reasons so the only time i'm really walking alone is to or from my bus stop, but even then i'm super afraid. i've never been catcalled or SA'd that i can remember but i feel terrible that i can't comfort people about their experiences properly. i'm grateful that i haven't experienced that yet, i just wish i knew how to properly comfort the people that have.
Honestly the boys at school don’t get distracted the teachers do
😂😭 fr tho
but girls do get catcalled by boys and boys always are trying to get a girls attention
Fr some1 needs to teach them
Fr!!
YES OMG THE FRENCH TEACHER SAID “ don’t wear crop tops it distracts me “
This is an amazing song! Thank you!
Girls who got mad af that he said omg get over it
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Me like he should get over it 😡
Yaassssssss
ME😡😡
Me😡
Don't use them being upset for likes and yes I did get extremely mad
us girls need to stick together cause we get the most of this song its so relaitable
I agree we get miss treaded by boys too often 😢
I’m absolutely obsessed with this song! Not only is the beat amazing, the lyrics are very informative and as a female I’ve been sexualised as well so this song is just the most relatable song!❤️
Love it so much ❤
they say women needs to be perfect but when WE try they're like "your so fat eat less, Your so skinny eat more" it was never enough after saying that some of us even cry our selves to sleep and questioning our existence it was never enough for them. and being scared to go alone at night and always looking our back every minute we are enough and we are perfect the way we are every skin,body EVERYTHING IS PERFECT we all shine❤
UR SO RIGHT WE DO CRY OURSELVES TO SLEEP
do y’all not think men go through the same thing like we have feelings too stop acting like you matter that much just because your a woman
We know you men go through a lot but no one said you don't......
AND U GIRLS DO THE SAME TO US BOYS BC U GIRLS JUDGE US AND IF WE DONT GOT ABS U REJECT US BC U ONLY WANNA SEE BOYS WITH ABS LIKE BRUH AND US BOYS AINT WALLETS
@@therain344ya but people just don’t care and if your a guys showing feelings your known as weak so no one shows it
I feel like some men will not agree with this but I do I think it’s awesome you made this song and your voice is also awesome
I'm male and agree but I feel like this song is projecting on all men
See all boys don't do it and one time I got raped by a 30 old man but I'm not a hater
@@VoidVenom-112same.
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Wait wdym support
Slayyyyyyyh
slay Fr tho like boy I’m not ur toy
Cringe like beggar 💀💀💀
We can’t even walk out at night in cities because of man it’s finally someone stood up for us women
Girl, I have this song on my playlist and I played every single day I freaking love you
This song is so true to us girls are always getting hurt or insulted or abused by boys its such a horrible life that we’re living in like boys just leave us alone
Yeah girls get all the attention most of the time and girls is the one that mostly cheat
Like boys have worse lives
Very true…
So I don’t understand if a girl physically beast the living shit out of a boy at high school it’s fine but when a guy lays hands on a girl it’s sexual harassment y’all are freaking insecure
Very true
your songs r amazing don't let them shut you down fuck them keep miss 👍
Just let us girls do what we want
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Let the men do what they want like going of a sinking Ship First it was prob the men that Built the Ship💀
I agree
I always get call by e all the boys in school
@@mr.man.2910you are mean
@georgedewet1919 bruh it’s not our fault that girls have to be so annoying to me
You slay girly❤❤ I love your song btw ❤❤
I know, I hate it when boys try to steal my shoulders too 😭😭😭
In all seriousness though, this is a great song and I'm really happy songs like this exist because its actually insane that this kind if stuff happens to women and people dont bat an eye at it. Like, its 2023, people really need to move past misogyny, sexism and any other kinds of discrimination and hate. Thank you for making this song and raising awareness 🫶
u a gre
u hate when they do that🥺🥺😭😭
Sexism can happen to anyone no matter the gender, sure some men will do disgusting things like that, but women can do it too and everyone points the blame at just guys rather than people who do that in general.
@@nighttimeflames Yes, but it’s often seen as men going it more. Both genders can do it, it women often experience it more.
@@Real_ThatOnePerson Ok thank you for correcting me
She risked her life on those train tracks. She deserves happiness
How, she was in the middle bro it’s kinda common sense it’s probably a green screen aswell 😂😂😂
Girl i know what ur going through im still going through that like the boys gotta just mind there own business, Actions
Growing up i convinced myself this stuff wouldnt happen to me, i was chubby and the awkward kid. It was crazy when i realized that didnt matter. That it can actually make you more vulnerable and more of a target. Ive been told i look 16 and then hit on, im 23 now but its so scary to know they like that.
that just sucks. The fact that girls can be any age, can look any way, but still get harassed. like there's no running away. hope you guys get treated better 🫂
Yes queen 👑
My bloodline has been sexually assaulted for generations, my grandmother was assaulted by her math teacher from the age of none to when she Graduated high school and once she told her mom nobody believed her and she slowly went crazy (as my mom puts it) she got married had two children she got divorced, diagnosed with breast cancer, began hallucinating and died around her late forties before her grandchildren were born and my sister has been assaulted by a boy her age (they are eight) it started in second grade he was eventually expelled a few weeks ago after my parents tried to get a restraining order again him. I know it has happened in the past to other women in my family
Oh wow... I hope you and your family is okay that sounds terrible.
Relatable song 100% PLUS I am obsessed with this song and I can't stopt listening to it
Same
Btw ppl who support her😊
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I suppport her because some boy's won't stop but we can't control them.
I dont
@@Mpspace67 shut up no one asked for a haters opinion now go back to second grade little boy
@@Mpspace67 Good for you.
Don’t
you don’t know how much I love that song❤❤
So many people feel heard now ❤
Thank you for standing for me your the real hero just ignore the boys they just deserve the bad minded
Not all the boys have the bad mind because some of the boys that commented they were also standing up for girls
What? Break up? If that happened then it's YOUR fault 😊, if I listed what girls do that hurt boy's feeling then it would be long, ugh just stop it there r better people than you anyways🙄🙄
@@Negativity0_0i think u commented I n the wrong comment
Tf r u on about? 💀💀@@Negativity0_0
@@Negativity0_0 ummm dude what you be talking about????
YOUR SO PRETTY I WISH I WAS YOU!!!!!!
I’m not a woman, but I totally agree that women should be treated better. And yet men still wonder why (some) women are so mean to them.
Edit: AHHHH YALL ARE BLOWING UP MY NOTIFICATIONSSS
Nothing really even happens to women...
@@lissieehr8440Are you slow or sum? Did you not listen to the song?
@@TheOfficialMr.E I listened. The song is wrong tho
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@@TheOfficialMr.E Pretty sure it's rage bait.
Frrrrrrr❤❤❤ this song speaks facts ❤❤❤
As a ftm(female to male) trans person, I have experienced this in both ways. When I had presented myself as a woman, I was catcalled, I was told terrible things. But that never changed when I transitioned. I am still sexually disrespected by the opposite gender. Both women and men have these struggles. The only difference is that women have it a bit worse because of the upbringing of some guys. I wish that people would just stop doing this! I believe that everyone should be respectful, and gender should NOT change that!!
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I have a friend who’s ftm and he’s also gay. People don’t really cat call us but they think we’re dating because he likes to give nose and cheek kisses and forehead kisses. It’s annoying but we don’t care. I’m a non-binary lesbian btw.
It's not that woman have it a bit worse no no no They,We have it bad
And people shouldn't be forced to behave differently because of their gender. All genders should be allowed to like things that are "meant" like some people say, for other genders.
Thanks for standing up for the girls 😊 Slayyyyyyy