I accidentally left the premier comment section and it wont let me rejoin. But this song is absolutely awesome! The words, your voice, and the video 😮😮😮 YOU GOT TO DESTROY A CAR!!!! A CAR!!! I absolutely love the music video! I love how relateable it is but thats also so sad that its this relatable. I LOVE YOU SKYDXDDY!!!!!!! IM SO PROUD OF YOU! YOURE AMAZING!!!! #TRAUMACORE 🖤🖤
I'm so happy I found you sky. Cause genuinely, I don't know if I would be here still. TW SA, I want to just share my experience I had once. I was 8-9 almost right before we went online because covid, but it was so hot that day, and it was recess. I went inside cause i was getting dizzy, and the substitute teacher r@ped me and I didn't fight back or anything just kind of laid there and I don't fucking know why but I just mentally disconnected and I don't think I've ever mentally checked all the way back it. I'm zoned out more than I'm not, and my mind is always racing. I'm sorry for talking about it, but I just needed to get it off my chest cause I've been having hella flashbacks recently, and I really needed to talk about it. Sorry if what I said was triggering to you. I love you, sky! I can't remember how many times I've been so low and wanted or tried to end it all, but your music actually saved me. Even if you don't know I exist I'm so fucking happy for you and everything you've overcome and how strong you are. It's so inspiring! I love you, sky, and I hope megan is doing fabulous! You guys are by far the greatest couple in the world, and no one can change my mind 😁😁 I hope you have an amazing day!
Your daughter sounds very brave for coming out with the truth about her being SAed, I have. Never been SAed but I have been SHed and I can't even tell anybody about that I wish you and your daughter luck ❤
I don’t know how people will take this but since men have the voice I love my friends for giving me one to start with then saying NOW YOU act upon it (during my fight against a stalker) thank you my friends
"If I make her as insecure as me." I felt that. The only reason men do this to us is because they have nothing else. They're insecure, afraid, and evil. Young survivors need strong women like you to show them that it's not their fault. Thank you for all you do SkyDxddy ♥️
Same it happened when I was exiting a restaurant to get my sweater from my parents car but that’s not the worst part I had been sexually assaulted on a bus and when I told my parents they only said he liked me I definitely didn’t suffer as much as others but I do know how it feels I’m so sorry you all had to go through such disgusting attitudes
@aryannaowens8028 your parents are horrible people for telling you that. Get yourself a taser and a big knife and keep your phone ready to call 911. Stay safe.
I was told that the dude was harassing me a stalker just liked me. My friends took care of that situation for me. And all tried beating the living s out of him then gave me everything I needed to seek the help I needed
music for the ones without a voice...As a grown man, I stand with you, and everyone else.. you music is nothing short of beautiful, And thank you for having the courage and strength to make this music...
Thank you, Skydxddy. I'm only 15 and it all started at 8. I suffered every form of abuse and more. Your music has helped me cope and work through my trauma. You've saved me through my many attempts.
You would get my vote to win the package 💞 I can only imagine being as strong as you, it took me 25yrs to finally speak up. Just know that you are loved and valued, even from the other side of the world. Love from Australia 🇦🇺 I hope you continue to find your strength
I am 36 and still dealing with the trauma from my past as well we have a huge following to help us stay strong you are beautiful and strong and we are all warriors
I'm 21 and went through a lot a your age too, it's so so unfair on you young people, u should be enjoying life not be tormented by people, I'm sorry u went through so much but u are so amazing for still going, if I could tell my 15 year old suicidal self anything it would be keep going u got this and it gets so much better, u are warrior u can survive anything ❤
As a man. I want to warn you younger women. Beware of the liars. Beware of the nice guys who get angry when their advance is rejected. Watch subtle queues. There are predators and protectors. Please, be careful of the charming predators. Protect yourselves. Learn physical combat. Learn how to shoot. Do not hesitate to run.
It all started when I was little with my brother… most of that part of my life was a blur and i didn’t remember much but my whole life had nightmares etc, my brain blocked out the memories due to the trauma. Then he had the audacity to message me asking about all the “fun” “we” had and then the memories came back and I remember everything… nightmares comeback every now and again… PTSD sucks…. This song means so much and I listen to it a lot. Your music has helped me a lot
Samee my boy cousin and me used to be so close I mean friends together then one day we were playing hide and seek with my older cousin and him and I were hiding in the kitchen then he told me to kiss him I was like "what? Why?" But he forced me to and he locked the door and I have to do has he said he still flirts with me till today like when I look at him or talk he always tried to call me "baby" I'm your fucking cousin you bitch
I've never had problems like sa that I know many here may have struggled with, but this song is so strong and emotional. I felt all the words. I love it. Phenomenal song
On world book day I decided to dress up as an anime girl from mangas as I love anime and a huge fan. I wore a mini skirt knee high socks and long black sleeve everyone was staring at me (all girl school) I was on my way to maths when my friend asked me to come with her she told me that my skirt is too short and that people were staring at me ( at my butt) she told me to pull it down and I told her this is how the skirt is she just rolled her eyes and I said to her that there is nothing wrong with my skirt and I went in maths
@@BurnerBoy-mw7tx Thank you for sharing your perspective. I understand that there may be different opinions about clothing choices in a school environment. I believe in the importance of expressing ourselves while also considering the appropriate boundaries. In this case, I felt comfortable and confident in my outfit, but I respect that others may have different viewpoints. While maintaining a respectful learning environment. Let's continue to support and uplift each other. Have a great day!"
@@StrawberryRose-ot7qi you too freedom of expression is great for sure! If you felt it was appropriate then hey. As long as your intentions wasn’t bad then go for it
Dxddy, Where would I be without you?? the answer... it doesn't even matter!! Thank you for you for the hope you have given me, thank you for all those late nights, thank you for helping me thru some really rough times, thank you for the laughs and love these last 5 years, thank you for ALL your support. You have helped me in so many ways and I wouldn't be me without you. You truly do mean the world to me. So much love to you! So much!! 🖤 #thisismorethanmusic
You speak for those who think they have no voice in their own suffering. Thank you for being a beacon of truth and sharing your own life experiences. I hope to one day see you perform live. All my love, support, & positive vibes!💜
Hey SkyDxddy, I’m new to your channel but this song is very inspiring. I am a victim of being molested by my non blood related cousin who was older than me and started to suduce me at 12 years old and I was so young that I didn’t understand why this was happening to me, but this song is somewhat giving me a perspective on how men can really do so messed up things in society. But thank you for reminding me that I’m in control of my own person and having the power to punish those who try to hurt me. Btw I’m a male and the boy was a older male who was adopted.
I would just like to thank you for sharing your story without the comment of "men go through it too" with an intent to invalidate women. ❤ You are infinitely strong, and I hope you are doing well for yourself.
@@gachatana9656the fact you say that while women make songs and in the lyrics what a terrible life for a women imply that women suffer and men are the beasts and women should be treated better then everyone else
@@gachatana9656But they do. We all go through that. My older brother SAd my younger sister, younger brother, and I when I was small. No matter the gender, it's horrible, and breaks my heart.
I wish I had had someone like you and your music to get me thru the early years of transitioning from a victim to a survivor; but I'm ever so grateful you're here now, singing what we needed to hear, saving so many from their dark thoughts and despair ✨ thank you 💯
Worth the wait. I already know every word. 🖤 My SA happened from the time I was 6 till I was 14. & I wish I had your music sooner. All that matters is that your here now & forever speak your mind.
Lyrics She's sweet, lonely Just his type He pulls her in with a drink and a smile Naive, baby Don't think twice If it comes with a price Run for your life They're always tryin' to take what's not theirs Drives me insane It's not fair What a terrible life for a woman Who just wants to be left alone What a horrible world for all of the girls Getting cat called as they're walking home With keys in her hand You don't understand What she's had to do to get here What a beautiful life for a woman Who knows what she's worth And knows why she's here What a pretty distraction They told her to cover up her shoulders Cause the boys couldn't focus Maybe they should teach him To control his own actions But that's not what happens They're always tryin' to take what's not theirs Drives me insane It's not fair What a terrible life for a woman Who just wants to be left alone What a horrible world for all of the girls Getting cat called as they're walking home With keys in her hand You don't understand What she's had to do to get here What a beautiful life for a woman Who knows what she's worth And knows why she's here He says "What a pretty distraction She's just what I need" And I know she'll be mine by the end of the night If I make her as insecure as me Wooahhh What a terrible life for a woman Who just wants to be left alone What a horrible world for all of the girls Getting cat called as they're walking home With keys in her hand You don't understand What she's had to do to get here What a beautiful life for a woman Who knows what she's worth And knows why she's here
I LOVE THIS! THAT CAR SCENE WAS AWESOME!! I LOVE ALL OF THIS THE MAKEUP AND OUTFITS THE SONG IS UNBELIEVABLE ITS INCREDIBLE! LOVE THIS SOOOOO MUCH! Also this is to anyone who says that this song is pathetic it's not it's a point that was needed to be said. And her outfits have NOTHING to do with it.
Edit: I just want to say thank you for all your encouraging comments. All of you really helped me and gave me the courage to tell my mom, we had a talk and everything has been sorted out. Because of all of your nice replies, I finally was able to find comfort in my own home! You all are absolutely amazing, and I just want to say that anyone who has experienced something like this you don't need to be ashamed and tell someone because they will be able to help you!💝❤ When I was 7 I was rapped and molested by both of my older brothers. The oldest went on and got a girlfriend and they both seemed to forget about it but I never have. I have to cope and live with what they did to me and I feel like I can never tell my parents. This song has really helped me a lot thank you so much Dxddy!
Omg, I am so sorry. Personally, this has never happened to me, but one of my mum's exes (b4 she and my dad had me) tried to r@pe her. She got away safely but I'll never forget the look on her face every time she explains it to me or my sisters. I really hope you can get through this, you have a whole community of girls here to support you ❤❤
I do not even have the words to tell you what your music means to me. Just know that it's being played in my house or car daily and being loved by myself and my daughters. Thank you for doing what you do.
I'm so excited!!!! You have no idea how many people you have helped through your music. Traumacore is therapeutic. I have survived every single form of abuse throughout my life you saved me in my darkest times. 🙏💜 you're a true angel and blessing ✨
Everything you sing shows so much emotion and I'm genuinely in love with all the lyrics as they reflect the truth of the world in which we live. You are fighting for women all over the world with this one and I am so happy to follow such a great leader like you :)
I was just having a conversation about how mom's don't want to have baby girls because they don't want this life for them. This is about to be my most played song.
@@lilmuggy93 you’re right, I should have included all parents because it’s truly tragic and universal for people who love their daughters and understand the world we live in
Yeah.. me who's been raped 3 times.. I wouldn't want the same things happening to my daughter if I ever have one... this is a Terable world we do live in... But at The same time.. it's beautiful to...
@@katsukiantsame.. I'm still scared for the present of my cousins. I have a 7 year old cousin who has grown quick and my older cousin is a harasser and I'm so horrified of him hurting her or my 5 year old girl cousin 😢. Or just all of my cousin because I have a lot that are under 12! And I'm the oldest. And my cousin who's a harasser has harassed me mentally and physically 8 times.. I'm so scared for all of my little cousins and any other kid who comes to my grandparents house which is where he lives... 😢
Literally got chills watching the video. This is a masterpiece. When I first heard the song, I became very interested to see how the video turned out. The song hits hard, but it gets even harder with this video. I've been through so much abuse, ever since I was a child, and when I first found you, it was during a time when I was at my lowest and all my family and friends disowned me, and you helped me through extremely tough times, including times that I felt like I didn't want to continue, your music inspired me get through those. I hope you continue this, because there are a lot of people who need things like this to help them get through.
I've lived with trauma my whole life, from the age of 3 being molested... at 16 I lost my virginity to rape. And the next year date raped. To my own father trying to mess with me. Everyone said I should have done this or that. But they weren't there. They didn't hear my pain, my screams, my tears. Your music gives a voice to those of us that were silenced and force fed that we're asking for it if we dress pretty and go out. No one asks for pain like this. I learned how to fight back the hard way. This song means so much to me... thank you. I'm so sorry you had to go through so much. I'd take your pain if I could, being an empath is a gift and curse.🌹
I was rapped at 14 from my own grandfather and im so glad that im not the only one going through this pain and sadness thank you everyone for commenting you experence and sharing what happened to you and letting other victums know that they are not the only ones going through this.❤
This music video was amazing, Sky! We are so so proud of you! Thank you for using your voice to spread such a powerful message. I know releasing this song and this music video was hard due to hate, and you were second guessing yourself but it was the best decision you could have done. You gave many women voices, you make them feel seen and know that their experiences were not their fault. We love you, Sky. Can’t wait to meet and see you in November! Now i’m to watch the music video over and over again! 😈🖤 #Traumacore
Skydxddy you’re music is truly astounding. You help through things that I’m still dealing with today and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your music. You’re truly a remarkable artist ❤
The production is AMAZING on this one. Your songs mean so much to me, they got me through it when I started trauma therapy and they made me feel understood. I hope to see many more good things from you 🖤🖤
I'm in love with your music, SkyDxddy! I suffered through SA for as long as I can remember and didn't know how to get help until I was 15. Thank you for speaking these words that many of us wish we could have! You're out here doing an angel's work and helping entire generations heal ❤❤
they do, 99% of boys aren't going to start being insanely weird when someone reveals their shoulders. all it takes is the small 1% to ruin it, good luck trying to teach them!
This is a deep song. I have been through abuse before I was 7 and older. I have been through it all. I am still healing on a journey of loving myself. I have been so torn down and beat done all my life. That I am realizing that I am somebody and deserve better. Your music has helped me a lot more then you can imagine. Thank you for speaking for those who cant. This song is fabulous. I love it. You have a beautiful voice. The video was amazing. ❤❤🙏🏻
One of the songs that hit the closest to home! I've been through too many traumatic things to write my list. Music helps me escape. As being a survivor of many things the lyrics help to ease the mind. Keep making 🔥tracks and providing the help we need.
I cannot explain how powerful this music is, it pulls out our feelings and experiences and puts it to a kick ass sound. You are healing so many and giving us the voice that has been suppressed and dismissed. We love you skydaddy, please never stop sharing your truth and ours.
Skydxddy is such a incredible artist and empowering for all woman and girl who have ever felt alone, mistreated, betrayed,and yes SA I got the chance to meet her yesterday and my whole live has changed ❤️❤️
I love your music so much. You have helped me come heal from so much and have helped me become the person I am today. Keep on going, you are so amazing and have helped thousands of people and will help millions one day. I am so grateful for you. ❤️
I was 7.... 13.... 17... 20..... I hate the violent flashbacks and despise my body some days. This makes me wish I could have protected younger me and held her so close so I could tell her she will grow and make it out to a beautiful freedom. Thank you so much, Dxddy for making something like this for yourself and all of us that need this. ❤
39/non binary/ Millennial.. if his song came out 10-15ys ago.. ppl would tell you to suck it up.. went thru sum shit back then and still do.. but back then i was told to "suck it up".. and i believed it.. NOW u r the voice for every1 that couldnt speak no matter the generation.. Thank You, :)
“With keys in her hand” That line is so ignored but it means so much I was walking home from a friends house and saw a girl holding her keys like claws, it was like freaking terrifying thinking about why she was doing that.
I was emotionally abused by friends and family from age 7. At age ten, if I was on a street all alone with men, I walked with keys in my hand. This is so beautiful and empowering, as well as sad.
I was sexually abused for 4 years started when I was 15 and I’m 18 now and I still go thru it her music helps me cope and helps me know that I’m not alone I was just sexually assaulted a few weeks ago and it still hurts brought back so much trauma but her music is a gift and I hope someday I get to show my talent as well and be brave just like her
I relate to this so much... I finally felt comfortable to be in my own skin and then this guy starts trying to ask for my number and then follow me around the store....I just wanted to feel confident and left alone...so much for being comfortable in my own skin..
At a campus tour a guy from another school had his friend ask me for my snap, and after I said no, the dude came up to me and kept asking for forms of communication. I told my grandma about this and she said that he was trying to get to know me and found me attractive. She saw no problem with it despite how uncomfortable it made me. Men not taking a no as an answer is so terrifying. I’m sending all my love to you all, stay strong and remember you don’t owe anyone anything!
I love this song so much, as a girl I get told to cover up my shoulders and not show “too much” skin because of boys. A lot of people (not all) tell females to cover up because men can’t control themself 😕. It sucks
Thank you so much for all your art! Your music got me through an abusive relationship and the recovery work since. Being queer, so many people invalidated me when they found out my abuser was a girl. Your songs resonate so deeply and I can't imagine where I'd be in my trauma recovery without you. Can't wait to see you when you come to SF in December. 💕
I have this teacher in our school. He's new btw and he was leaning on the lockers next to the library and I was wandering my way back to class after break. He rubed my shoulders and rubbed my back I looked at him with disapproval and stormed of. I thought I was just over thinking but he does that to every girl in the school. Even the teacher's I told one of my closest friends and they said that he puts hus hand on her shoulders when she's walking by herself down the corridor and follows her to wherever she's going. And if you think that's not creepy enough he came in when all the girls where changing when he's supposed to take the other exit it make me sick because not only did he come in he was staring at us. Some of my friends only had crop tops and pants on. I'm in year 6 and we found out he only does this to the year 6 girls wich us us(the oldest girls in the school) and he picks on us all the time.
@@SkyDxddy omg... I wasn't expecting for you to reply. I feel like I'm not alone. Most creators don't reply within seconds or even reply. Me and my friends are going to tell are parents thanks for the support
I’m in the same class and school of the person who wrote this and he is horrible and rly weird he touches our TA (teaching assistant) on the shoulder rly weirdly sometimes
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This one means everything to me. especially the ending
I accidentally left the premier comment section and it wont let me rejoin. But this song is absolutely awesome! The words, your voice, and the video 😮😮😮 YOU GOT TO DESTROY A CAR!!!! A CAR!!! I absolutely love the music video! I love how relateable it is but thats also so sad that its this relatable. I LOVE YOU SKYDXDDY!!!!!!! IM SO PROUD OF YOU! YOURE AMAZING!!!! #TRAUMACORE 🖤🖤
Flawlessly done dxddy. Your words are so powerful. U have saved me and let me know I'm not alone. #traumacore @skydxddy
I'm so happy I found you sky. Cause genuinely, I don't know if I would be here still. TW SA, I want to just share my experience I had once. I was 8-9 almost right before we went online because covid, but it was so hot that day, and it was recess. I went inside cause i was getting dizzy, and the substitute teacher r@ped me and I didn't fight back or anything just kind of laid there and I don't fucking know why but I just mentally disconnected and I don't think I've ever mentally checked all the way back it. I'm zoned out more than I'm not, and my mind is always racing. I'm sorry for talking about it, but I just needed to get it off my chest cause I've been having hella flashbacks recently, and I really needed to talk about it. Sorry if what I said was triggering to you. I love you, sky! I can't remember how many times I've been so low and wanted or tried to end it all, but your music actually saved me. Even if you don't know I exist I'm so fucking happy for you and everything you've overcome and how strong you are. It's so inspiring! I love you, sky, and I hope megan is doing fabulous! You guys are by far the greatest couple in the world, and no one can change my mind 😁😁 I hope you have an amazing day!
This is so much better than I expected. We’re so proud of you ✨💪🏻🖤
I love this song so much! I've been having trouble accessing your music without having to go to google to search it, which is really upsetting
My daughter is 17 and a SA survivor. You have helped her through so much of her trauma. We would love to see you in concert!
how would you know that?
@@oldchannel262dude cause its there parents duhhh she probs told them
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Your daughter sounds very brave for coming out with the truth about her being SAed, I have. Never been SAed but I have been SHed and I can't even tell anybody about that I wish you and your daughter luck ❤
@@oldchannel262are you dumb? 💀
Your words speak for so many voiceless people. Your impact is phenomenal
I don’t know how people will take this but since men have the voice I love my friends for giving me one to start with then saying NOW YOU act upon it (during my fight against a stalker) thank you my friends
This is true
This is true
"If I make her as insecure as me." I felt that. The only reason men do this to us is because they have nothing else. They're insecure, afraid, and evil. Young survivors need strong women like you to show them that it's not their fault. Thank you for all you do SkyDxddy ♥️
Forgot to mention that I'm an SA survivor and you've helped me through trauma and PTSD and shown me that I'm not the only one! Thank you!!
@@foxxface907 are you okay?
@@i.luvhusker. Yeah, why?
Men get raped to
That is a very fucking dirty comment to make. You’re calling men in general insecure and evil?
I've been catcalled and told by another woman that I should take it as a compliment. This is the song we all needed for so long. Thank you.
Same
Same it happened when I was exiting a restaurant to get my sweater from my parents car but that’s not the worst part I had been sexually assaulted on a bus and when I told my parents they only said he liked me I definitely didn’t suffer as much as others but I do know how it feels I’m so sorry you all had to go through such disgusting attitudes
@aryannaowens8028 your parents are horrible people for telling you that. Get yourself a taser and a big knife and keep your phone ready to call 911. Stay safe.
@@aryannaowens8028 I am sorry this happened to you. Your parents should have stood up for you.
I was told that the dude was harassing me a stalker just liked me. My friends took care of that situation for me. And all tried beating the living s out of him then gave me everything I needed to seek the help I needed
music for the ones without a voice...As a grown man, I stand with you, and everyone else.. you music is nothing short of beautiful, And thank you for having the courage and strength to make this music...
ur not a grown man, i saw ur vids. knda creepy bro.
"music for the ones without a voice" hits hard
Men who believe we ALL deserve love and greatness go on to do amazing things my friend
Thank u for the support of women
Yeah right
Thank you, Skydxddy. I'm only 15 and it all started at 8. I suffered every form of abuse and more. Your music has helped me cope and work through my trauma. You've saved me through my many attempts.
You would get my vote to win the package 💞 I can only imagine being as strong as you, it took me 25yrs to finally speak up. Just know that you are loved and valued, even from the other side of the world. Love from Australia 🇦🇺 I hope you continue to find your strength
I’m so sorry you went through all that abuse, stay strong ❤❤
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I am 36 and still dealing with the trauma from my past as well we have a huge following to help us stay strong you are beautiful and strong and we are all warriors
I'm 21 and went through a lot a your age too, it's so so unfair on you young people, u should be enjoying life not be tormented by people, I'm sorry u went through so much but u are so amazing for still going, if I could tell my 15 year old suicidal self anything it would be keep going u got this and it gets so much better, u are warrior u can survive anything ❤
This means so much to me! It’s so the truth! I was drugged and rapped about 8 months ago I got pregnant and lost the baby! Thank you for this song!
I am so so so sorry this happened to you !!! Please accept help, sending lots of love❤❤❤
I'm sorry u went through that
Are you ok ?🥺
I'm so sorry you went through that 😢 I hope you're okay now
I’m so sorry hope your doing ok now
As a man. I want to warn you younger women. Beware of the liars. Beware of the nice guys who get angry when their advance is rejected. Watch subtle queues. There are predators and protectors. Please, be careful of the charming predators. Protect yourselves. Learn physical combat. Learn how to shoot. Do not hesitate to run.
Thanks for the advice
Ty for the advice I'll remember this
Thank you. That will help ❤
Would you be mad if someone ignored your advice(ps I am I guy but I'm just curious)
@@daxtonfrazier6975 I think we are all following it tho
It all started when I was little with my brother… most of that part of my life was a blur and i didn’t remember much but my whole life had nightmares etc, my brain blocked out the memories due to the trauma. Then he had the audacity to message me asking about all the “fun” “we” had and then the memories came back and I remember everything… nightmares comeback every now and again… PTSD sucks…. This song means so much and I listen to it a lot. Your music has helped me a lot
I have PTSD to I understand how it feels all the flashbacks and nightmares are horrible
Samee my boy cousin and me used to be so close I mean friends together then one day we were playing hide and seek with my older cousin and him and I were hiding in the kitchen then he told me to kiss him I was like "what? Why?" But he forced me to and he locked the door and I have to do has he said he still flirts with me till today like when I look at him or talk he always tried to call me "baby" I'm your fucking cousin you bitch
I dont know if it's appropriate to ask and if u dont want to answer sure but what exactly happened? Im a little bit confused
@@Rip-Tyroshe is talking about SA (s3xual Ass@ult) or if you prefer r@pe...
You are not alone.
I've never had problems like sa that I know many here may have struggled with, but this song is so strong and emotional. I felt all the words. I love it. Phenomenal song
On world book day I decided to dress up as an anime girl from mangas as I love anime and a huge fan. I wore a mini skirt knee high socks and long black sleeve everyone was staring at me (all girl school) I was on my way to maths when my friend asked me to come with her she told me that my skirt is too short and that people were staring at me ( at my butt) she told me to pull it down and I told her this is how the skirt is she just rolled her eyes and I said to her that there is nothing wrong with my skirt and I went in maths
@@StrawberryRose-ot7qirespect my friend
@@StrawberryRose-ot7qidon’t dress damn near naked and get confused when everyone stares in a learning environment. Your in school not a model show
@@BurnerBoy-mw7tx Thank you for sharing your perspective. I understand that there may be different opinions about clothing choices in a school environment. I believe in the importance of expressing ourselves while also considering the appropriate boundaries. In this case, I felt comfortable and confident in my outfit, but I respect that others may have different viewpoints. While maintaining a respectful learning environment. Let's continue to support and uplift each other. Have a great day!"
@@StrawberryRose-ot7qi you too freedom of expression is great for sure! If you felt it was appropriate then hey. As long as your intentions wasn’t bad then go for it
Dxddy, Where would I be without you?? the answer... it doesn't even matter!! Thank you for you for the hope you have given me, thank you for all those late nights, thank you for helping me thru some really rough times, thank you for the laughs and love these last 5 years, thank you for ALL your support. You have helped me in so many ways and I wouldn't be me without you. You truly do mean the world to me. So much love to you! So much!! 🖤
#thisismorethanmusic
SkyDxddy, where would you be without this amazing artist. It does matter! 💝
You speak for those who think they have no voice in their own suffering. Thank you for being a beacon of truth and sharing your own life experiences. I hope to one day see you perform live.
All my love, support, & positive vibes!💜
I was SA almost my entire childhood and all of your music really hits me deep. I'm so hoping to be able to attend your Portland concert in December.
Hey SkyDxddy, I’m new to your channel but this song is very inspiring. I am a victim of being molested by my non blood related cousin who was older than me and started to suduce me at 12 years old and I was so young that I didn’t understand why this was happening to me, but this song is somewhat giving me a perspective on how men can really do so messed up things in society. But thank you for reminding me that I’m in control of my own person and having the power to punish those who try to hurt me.
Btw I’m a male and the boy was a older male who was adopted.
This just shows its nots only women this happens to. Thank you so much❤
I would just like to thank you for sharing your story without the comment of "men go through it too" with an intent to invalidate women. ❤
You are infinitely strong, and I hope you are doing well for yourself.
Thank you so much 🫶❤️🫶
@@gachatana9656the fact you say that while women make songs and in the lyrics what a terrible life for a women imply that women suffer and men are the beasts and women should be treated better then everyone else
@@gachatana9656But they do. We all go through that. My older brother SAd my younger sister, younger brother, and I when I was small. No matter the gender, it's horrible, and breaks my heart.
As a sa/dv/and child abuse survivor your music is so good and we need more strong women like you thank you👸🏼💞 🙏🏻 🫶🏻🫶🏻
I’m proud of you ❤
I… have no words
Me too
I love this song because same here
Your very strong ❤❤
I wish I had had someone like you and your music to get me thru the early years of transitioning from a victim to a survivor; but I'm ever so grateful you're here now, singing what we needed to hear, saving so many from their dark thoughts and despair ✨ thank you 💯
Worth the wait. I already know every word. 🖤 My SA happened from the time I was 6 till I was 14. & I wish I had your music sooner. All that matters is that your here now & forever speak your mind.
Lyrics
She's sweet, lonely
Just his type
He pulls her in with a drink and a smile
Naive, baby
Don't think twice
If it comes with a price
Run for your life
They're always tryin' to take what's not theirs
Drives me insane
It's not fair
What a terrible life for a woman
Who just wants to be left alone
What a horrible world for all of the girls
Getting cat called as they're walking home
With keys in her hand
You don't understand
What she's had to do to get here
What a beautiful life for a woman
Who knows what she's worth
And knows why she's here
What a pretty distraction
They told her to cover up her shoulders
Cause the boys couldn't focus
Maybe they should teach him
To control his own actions
But that's not what happens
They're always tryin' to take what's not theirs
Drives me insane
It's not fair
What a terrible life for a woman
Who just wants to be left alone
What a horrible world for all of the girls
Getting cat called as they're walking home
With keys in her hand
You don't understand
What she's had to do to get here
What a beautiful life for a woman
Who knows what she's worth
And knows why she's here
He says "What a pretty distraction
She's just what I need"
And I know she'll be mine by the end of the night
If I make her as insecure as me
Wooahhh
What a terrible life for a woman
Who just wants to be left alone
What a horrible world for all of the girls
Getting cat called as they're walking home
With keys in her hand
You don't understand
What she's had to do to get here
What a beautiful life for a woman
Who knows what she's worth
And knows why she's here
Thank you so much
𝓣𝓷𝔁
I just realized the lyrics are in the description
True
Idk bout everyone else but, every once in a while I’m only in the mood for meaningful songs, like this 😭🤚🏻
fr tho
This song is sexist
@@EasyChild123Maybe that's why nobody likes you to begin with, and hopefully nobody goes to your channel after everyone sees this comment 😑
Sky ty again for being our voice. You speak for us all when you sing it like it is! 💚💛❤️
I LOVE THIS! THAT CAR SCENE WAS AWESOME!! I LOVE ALL OF THIS THE MAKEUP AND OUTFITS THE SONG IS UNBELIEVABLE ITS INCREDIBLE! LOVE THIS SOOOOO MUCH! Also this is to anyone who says that this song is pathetic it's not it's a point that was needed to be said. And her outfits have NOTHING to do with it.
who came to the premier?❤
MEEE
OMG IM SO EXCITED ILYSMM ❤
Meee
Dope!
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What time is the premier
Wonderful ✨😍 🎵
Edit: I just want to say thank you for all your encouraging comments. All of you really helped me and gave me the courage to tell my mom, we had a talk and everything has been sorted out. Because of all of your nice replies, I finally was able to find comfort in my own home! You all are absolutely amazing, and I just want to say that anyone who has experienced something like this you don't need to be ashamed and tell someone because they will be able to help you!💝❤
When I was 7 I was rapped and molested by both of my older brothers. The oldest went on and got a girlfriend and they both seemed to forget about it but I never have. I have to cope and live with what they did to me and I feel like I can never tell my parents. This song has really helped me a lot thank you so much Dxddy!
Omg, I am so sorry. Personally, this has never happened to me, but one of my mum's exes (b4 she and my dad had me) tried to r@pe her. She got away safely but I'll never forget the look on her face every time she explains it to me or my sisters.
I really hope you can get through this, you have a whole community of girls here to support you ❤❤
Something similiar happened to me, I know how this feels
Omg I hope you’re ok that is horrible and generally gross, I’m so sorry this happened to you
This kind of thing didn't happen to me so I don't know your situation but they have to be punished please tell your parents
I'm so sorry for that I couldn't even imagine if my brother did that to me tell your parents
I do not even have the words to tell you what your music means to me. Just know that it's being played in my house or car daily and being loved by myself and my daughters. Thank you for doing what you do.
I'm so excited!!!! You have no idea how many people you have helped through your music. Traumacore is therapeutic. I have survived every single form of abuse throughout my life you saved me in my darkest times. 🙏💜 you're a true angel and blessing ✨
I’m so excited and so proud of everything you have done. Thank you for all you have done and letting me feel like I’m not alone.
Fire!! 🔥🔥🔥 Powerful lyrics and imagery!! You did an amazing job!! Keep going!!
Everything you sing shows so much emotion and I'm genuinely in love with all the lyrics as they reflect the truth of the world in which we live. You are fighting for women all over the world with this one and I am so happy to follow such a great leader like you :)
I was just having a conversation about how mom's don't want to have baby girls because they don't want this life for them. This is about to be my most played song.
Not just mom's but Dad's too,Im scared for my 14yr old daughter
@@lilmuggy93 you’re right, I should have included all parents because it’s truly tragic and universal for people who love their daughters and understand the world we live in
@@zeytacross 💯🙏
Yeah.. me who's been raped 3 times.. I wouldn't want the same things happening to my daughter if I ever have one... this is a Terable world we do live in... But at The same time.. it's beautiful to...
@@katsukiantsame.. I'm still scared for the present of my cousins. I have a 7 year old cousin who has grown quick and my older cousin is a harasser and I'm so horrified of him hurting her or my 5 year old girl cousin 😢. Or just all of my cousin because I have a lot that are under 12! And I'm the oldest. And my cousin who's a harasser has harassed me mentally and physically 8 times.. I'm so scared for all of my little cousins and any other kid who comes to my grandparents house which is where he lives... 😢
Literally got chills watching the video. This is a masterpiece. When I first heard the song, I became very interested to see how the video turned out. The song hits hard, but it gets even harder with this video. I've been through so much abuse, ever since I was a child, and when I first found you, it was during a time when I was at my lowest and all my family and friends disowned me, and you helped me through extremely tough times, including times that I felt like I didn't want to continue, your music inspired me get through those. I hope you continue this, because there are a lot of people who need things like this to help them get through.
I've lived with trauma my whole life, from the age of 3 being molested... at 16 I lost my virginity to rape. And the next year date raped. To my own father trying to mess with me. Everyone said I should have done this or that. But they weren't there. They didn't hear my pain, my screams, my tears. Your music gives a voice to those of us that were silenced and force fed that we're asking for it if we dress pretty and go out. No one asks for pain like this. I learned how to fight back the hard way. This song means so much to me... thank you. I'm so sorry you had to go through so much. I'd take your pain if I could, being an empath is a gift and curse.🌹
"Being an empath is a blessing and a curse" As an empath, this is way too fucking true. I sort of wish I was never an empath..
When I had sa happen I was told oh since it was not recorded we can only talk to her. OH FOR GODS SAKE
I'm so sorry 😩
@ParkerZehner-yo9bhOh I'm sorry for you I hope you can handle the situation with your bf and the baby cones out safely good luck tho!
You are not alone. I know what you've been through. I've been raped too as a woman.
I was rapped at 14 from my own grandfather and im so glad that im not the only one going through this pain and sadness thank you everyone for commenting you experence and sharing what happened to you and letting other victums know that they are not the only ones going through this.❤
May God bless you
Oh thank god
God bless you 😢
Tysm for all the support❤❤❤
Swear on ur mama I'll trust u if u swear on ur mama
This music video was amazing, Sky! We are so so proud of you! Thank you for using your voice to spread such a powerful message. I know releasing this song and this music video was hard due to hate, and you were second guessing yourself but it was the best decision you could have done. You gave many women voices, you make them feel seen and know that their experiences were not their fault. We love you, Sky. Can’t wait to meet and see you in November! Now i’m to watch the music video over and over again! 😈🖤 #Traumacore
You’ve helped so many people with your music and your honesty. Thank you so much!!
Bravery is not the absence of fear, it is being afraid and still going forward.
Wow. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this comment. THANK YOU💖💪🍀
Wonderful!! Woohoo boom awesome I love it!
This is my favorite song
Skydxddy you’re music is truly astounding. You help through things that I’m still dealing with today and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your music. You’re truly a remarkable artist ❤
The production is AMAZING on this one. Your songs mean so much to me, they got me through it when I started trauma therapy and they made me feel understood. I hope to see many more good things from you 🖤🖤
I'm in love with your music, SkyDxddy! I suffered through SA for as long as I can remember and didn't know how to get help until I was 15. Thank you for speaking these words that many of us wish we could have! You're out here doing an angel's work and helping entire generations heal ❤❤
Instead of " protecting your daughter" "teach your sons "
they do, 99% of boys aren't going to start being insanely weird when someone reveals their shoulders. all it takes is the small 1% to ruin it, good luck trying to teach them!
4 billion men in the world, 1% of 4 billion is 40 million
Protect and teach both
So proud of you ❤
Thank you being our voice and for continuing to speak about all you do. 💜🔥🔥🔥
This is a deep song. I have been through abuse before I was 7 and older. I have been through it all. I am still healing on a journey of loving myself. I have been so torn down and beat done all my life. That I am realizing that I am somebody and deserve better. Your music has helped me a lot more then you can imagine. Thank you for speaking for those who cant. This song is fabulous. I love it. You have a beautiful voice. The video was amazing. ❤❤🙏🏻
One of the songs that hit the closest to home! I've been through too many traumatic things to write my list. Music helps me escape. As being a survivor of many things the lyrics help to ease the mind. Keep making 🔥tracks and providing the help we need.
I cannot explain how powerful this music is, it pulls out our feelings and experiences and puts it to a kick ass sound. You are healing so many and giving us the voice that has been suppressed and dismissed. We love you skydaddy, please never stop sharing your truth and ours.
YOUR VOICE WAS SLAY AND THE FULL ACTION OF THE MUSIC VIDE WAS SO WONDERFUL
Skydxddy is such a incredible artist and empowering for all woman and girl who have ever felt alone, mistreated, betrayed,and yes SA I got the chance to meet her yesterday and my whole live has changed ❤️❤️
I know how this feels I had to go through this in 1st grade and now days I understand what happened
Also can't stop listening to this amazing master piece of a song
The way i relate to your lyrics and the way they healed me is UNREAL
I would absolutely love to see SkyDxddy in concert here in Philly ❤❤
This means a lot. I keep keeping this song on repeat.
This video tells so many stories of what women go through on the daily. Thank you so much for everything
Both men and women have it tough but when it comes to this stuff I feel like women have it worse. Thank you for inspiring me and other girls.
Exactly!
Amazing ❤
I love your music so much. You have helped me come heal from so much and have helped me become the person I am today. Keep on going, you are so amazing and have helped thousands of people and will help millions one day. I am so grateful for you. ❤️
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Your voice is beautiful, you should keep up the hard work :)
I was 7.... 13.... 17... 20..... I hate the violent flashbacks and despise my body some days. This makes me wish I could have protected younger me and held her so close so I could tell her she will grow and make it out to a beautiful freedom. Thank you so much, Dxddy for making something like this for yourself and all of us that need this. ❤
Killed that. Healing, Love to you
I LUV U ✨✨
The beat beats harder than everything
39/non binary/ Millennial.. if his song came out 10-15ys ago.. ppl would tell you to suck it up.. went thru sum shit back then and still do.. but back then i was told to "suck it up".. and i believed it.. NOW u r the voice for every1 that couldnt speak no matter the generation.. Thank You, :)
Thanks for being my great fan!
Thank you for another amazing song, all of your songs have helped me cope with my trauma
This is so real
❤
“With keys in her hand”
That line is so ignored but it means so much
I was walking home from a friends house and saw a girl holding her keys like claws, it was like freaking terrifying thinking about why she was doing that.
I was emotionally abused by friends and family from age 7. At age ten, if I was on a street all alone with men, I walked with keys in my hand. This is so beautiful and empowering, as well as sad.
Then they are not your friends
I don’t think emotional abuse from seven year olds really counts
First time hearing this. Great job Sky. As a father to a SA survivor, you give hope for a brighter future. Many happy returns young lady.
This song really took my heart❤its one of my favorite songs now!
Strawberry short cake vibes!
My new favorite song
Same
same
I was sexually abused for 4 years started when I was 15 and I’m 18 now and I still go thru it her music helps me cope and helps me know that I’m not alone I was just sexually assaulted a few weeks ago and it still hurts brought back so much trauma but her music is a gift and I hope someday I get to show my talent as well and be brave just like her
sending u good vibes, wish u the best recovery
@@freckledsunshine thank you so much
It's not easy but I hope u recover 🙏
L
@@Random00018 thank you
Honestly at this point… the teachers get more distracted than the boys💀
bro fr though💀
🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥Jit is on point today
my heart is geting lovely for your song❤
We needed this 🖤🖤🖤
This makes me feel so much better as being a girl is hard I love as well thanks for helping me through
As a woman who has been SA-ed before, this song means everything to me♡
Petition to educate boys more in self control ✋✋
it goes both ways they say…
Petition for you to stop assuming
You aren't making youre case better you're basically sexist by assuming all boys & men are like this
Sorry for my whole fucking gender tf are u think do u have a dad or something
Yes girl!! People need to hear this SO BADLY
Every bit of this is beautiful
I relate to this so much... I finally felt comfortable to be in my own skin and then this guy starts trying to ask for my number and then follow me around the store....I just wanted to feel confident and left alone...so much for being comfortable in my own skin..
1:05 thanks
At a campus tour a guy from another school had his friend ask me for my snap, and after I said no, the dude came up to me and kept asking for forms of communication. I told my grandma about this and she said that he was trying to get to know me and found me attractive. She saw no problem with it despite how uncomfortable it made me. Men not taking a no as an answer is so terrifying. I’m sending all my love to you all, stay strong and remember you don’t owe anyone anything!
Amazing material.. thank you for making the drop.. ❤
I love it! Ready to here a finished "Real Men Cry"
166k views 167k subs? bro this song on tiktok surely has tens of millions of views and
i feel like some of them should count here too like-
I love this song so much, as a girl I get told to cover up my shoulders and not show “too much” skin because of boys. A lot of people (not all) tell females to cover up because men can’t control themself 😕. It sucks
The worst part is that no matter what you wear, they still stare. 😔
I wish men would control themselves it is very annoying
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤
@@odwambiko2038 what so funny?
I feel like this sometimes love it 😍 ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I cannot wait to see you in concert this weekend!!!
The boys I asked at my school say they’re a little embarrassed and offended that the school board thinks they’ll lose it if they see a girl’s shoulder
yes, most boys think that. all it takes is a few to ruin it
I got suspended and not excepted into my dream collage cause I broke the dress code for not covering up my shoulders so this song means alot
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Boys just don't understand how it feels to be a girl or a woman thx for making this song it means so much to us womens and girls
So good!!!
New favorite ❤this explains school and life
when it's your father you're terrified of and you tell your mom at 6(when it first started) and she says: "I don't see any cuts or bruises"...*sigh*😢🥺
I'm sorry I was hit and abused by my dad
@@emileemeade124 I'm sorry you were abused as well 😥
Thank you so much for all your art! Your music got me through an abusive relationship and the recovery work since. Being queer, so many people invalidated me when they found out my abuser was a girl. Your songs resonate so deeply and I can't imagine where I'd be in my trauma recovery without you. Can't wait to see you when you come to SF in December. 💕
I have this teacher in our school. He's new btw and he was leaning on the lockers next to the library and I was wandering my way back to class after break. He rubed my shoulders and rubbed my back I looked at him with disapproval and stormed of. I thought I was just over thinking but he does that to every girl in the school. Even the teacher's I told one of my closest friends and they said that he puts hus hand on her shoulders when she's walking by herself down the corridor and follows her to wherever she's going. And if you think that's not creepy enough he came in when all the girls where changing when he's supposed to take the other exit it make me sick because not only did he come in he was staring at us. Some of my friends only had crop tops and pants on. I'm in year 6 and we found out he only does this to the year 6 girls wich us us(the oldest girls in the school) and he picks on us all the time.
TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT IT UNNACEPTABLE
@@SkyDxddy omg... I wasn't expecting for you to reply. I feel like I'm not alone. Most creators don't reply within seconds or even reply. Me and my friends are going to tell are parents thanks for the support
I’m in the same class and school of the person who wrote this and he is horrible and rly weird he touches our TA (teaching assistant) on the shoulder rly weirdly sometimes
@@Ur_swiftie.13 Ikr. I just want him to disappear
@@SkyDxddythe spelling- but yeah definitely tell yo parents
I'm absolutely obsessed😊❤
Wow what a tune
Truly amazing ❤