Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ruclips.net/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/видео.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ruclips.net/video/t6I5k55pnCE/видео.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Indeed. A healthy sense of optimism is needed indeed along with viewing the situation for what it is so as not to look at it with rose coloured glasses. This means you ought to have a balanced approach but cutting off contact will naturally help you with that, so try to stick to that rule for 30 days. One way to go about this is to not get too caught up with getting your ex back so you will allow for stuff to play naturally while playing your cards right , which is what my videos and/or my Ex Factor Guide is for. If you still can't help it, go ahead and sign up for my coaching program so I can guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching but really try to have that sense of independence without your ex first. You need to be able to rely on yourself before you're in a position to get an ex back. Apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html but this is the overview of what needs to happen, it helps to review it: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!
If i get back with my ex, IF. Then i will just tell everyone that "We broke up for a wrong reason, we fell in love once for the right reason and we found another good reason again"
My ex and I split beginning of 2023 for a couple months and got back together thanks a lot to some of Brads coaching. We dated for the last year and a half and I fell into some of my former needy ways again. It sucks but I think she’s gone for good. It’s time to focus on myself and my kids and become the best version on myself again and get back in line with my purpose. If she comes back great, we’ll see how I feel then, but if she doesn’t I’ll be fine too.
That's right... especially if it was particularly a volatile/toxic relationship from the start in which case the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ruclips.net/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/видео.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
I gave up on my ex and tried the dating apps there is nothing but women who want paid for “content” finding love again will be next to impossible so I’ve given up on that too I hope you guys have better luck than I did but will still watch Brads videos it helps me understand that everything ex’s do has some level of game involved ✌🏾
Hey, thanks for watching, man! Dating apps may not be for you. When you're ready or change your mind, try to enroll in something where there's common interest. Who knows you can meet someone there whom you click with! :-) Also let your mutual friends know you're single. Some folks meet through common friends.
I have always missed my ex-wife. We had so many problems, but I still love her. She has a very short temper and that keeps me away from her. Her birthday is coming up. Maybe I will call her to say happy birthday. If she doesn't want to talk, I'll leave her a message and remain distant. I will pray and see.
Yeah, you got nothing to lose. It's just a simple greeting. How long has it been since you've divorced though and are you both still single? This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ruclips.net/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/видео.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Mend the Marriage guide if you want to try to get your ex wife back in the best possible way, at www.marriageguy.com/mbuy Take care!
@@breakupbradbrowning We got divorced 15 years ago. I vanished from her world this entire time. She called me in January, but then ghosted me. I don't know if she's in a relationship. I'm still single. I thought she might be in a relationship because she completely ghosted me. Her birthday just passed, and I didn't do anything yet. I did move on with life, I just have a part of me that still loves her. Thank you for your reply. I will look at your videos.
Yes, sorry man, but you're right. The window of opportunity may have already passed. Chances are she's communicating with that other dude before the breakup. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/e3l5KWEpIpw/видео.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc It's best to move on from this.
My ex didn’t feel love or deeper feelings for Me We broke up twice , actually more like 3 times He finally admitted He wanted a more casual relationship I don’t , My feelings were much stronger I’ve stayed no contact
In this case, there's a huge dealbreaker which is a misalignment of goals. He's not what you're looking for and vice versa. There may not be enough attraction on his end for whatever reason (is he even looking for anything serious? Has he just come out of a long term relationship, etc) and this is especially true if your relationship lasted less than six months. And the best action would be to move on from this for the time being or at least keep your dating options open.
Hi Brad, thanks for sharing me your video, it does really help. My question to you: Is it a good/bad idea to send flowers/smaller gifts anonym to my ex after 3 weeks of the breakup to show some interests in her? Thanks!
Hi! You're welcome. This is something I discussed in great detail on my other (first) channel, please check out this vid: ruclips.net/video/OU0cmyhSxE0/видео.html
@@breakupbradbrowning Hi Brad! I was watching a lot of videos of you and it does really helped me, thanks for it. I am in a hopeless situation. I am a 31 year old man, who loss a 29 year old wonderful woman. We were together 8months. Interesting that the emotions and love for my side came at the end of the relationship on a special wedding event where we were together with the girl. Unfortunately I was caught up by dating with another girl (2times without any intimacy) because of low emotions, but finally the emotions came. It was too late. The girl broke up with me. I was begging, chasing, writing a letter, bringing flowers, saying sorry during the breakup. Now I am on no contact for 1month which I have broken 1 time. What should I do next if I am in love with this girl and would like to get back together. How much time for a nocontact is needed and how to reach out her? Or what are my chances in your opinion? Thanks.
Hi Brad. I am listening to your videos ever since i had a break up. I have loved my partner for over 4 years. But now she has broken up. (Previously i had also broken up with her and got back with her). And back then my decision was poor. (We have not cheated on each other ever.) And again for the most simplest yet important reasons , this time my partner decides to leave me. I love her. And after watching many of your videos i understand that i deeply wish to get her back. After our break up , i also ended up begging and running after her as i had no idea that's the wrong thing until i came accross your videos. Please help as to how i should win her back. Its been arounf 8-10 days of NO CONTACT (a week b4 was the begging week and b4 that was the break up). Would love your help in this process to get her back!
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule - let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi Sir. It worked. she returned. But she wud never accept the pain she caused me and showed me no remorse. She won't take any responsibility for all the insecurities she caused me. She wud not ans anything about where she went or anything and would casually run into parties with other guys. The No contact worked. She returned. But at what cost? And it's heartbreaking to share. But she came. Gave me hopes. Destroyed me. And she left me again. Pls guide me. How shud i structure myself next. Am completely falling off
I'm in the same situationeel buddy! After almost 29 yrs and 2 kids she broke up with me for the second time leaving me and my kids heartbroken. We broke up last February and since the beginning of april she has a new relationship with a former friend of the family....This dude is almost 10 yrs younger than me and comes from a wealthier family than mine is. He has two bussinesses and earns a lot more than me. My ex is nothing less of a golddigger....but i love her man....sad situation
Hi there! Sorry to hear that. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/YVViZmY2x0I and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
Are snaps primarily your means of contact before? Your ex could be trying to get back in your good graces or he could be doing it out of habit. It's really too soon to tell so be sure to continue to play your cards right, yeah? It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. Just whatever you do, make sure to heed the tips from this vid at all times: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenarios and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
7 months I've wanted to go back with my ex after the breadcrumbs I don't care anymore if she decides to work on herself and change and wants to give it another go cool if not cool I'm busy working on myself and becoming the best person I can be im done settling it's all about my happiness and moving forward can't do that looking back at the what if's
Helpful, put well together, clearly communicated.
many thanks, Brad!
Hi! Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already. Take care!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach one?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ruclips.net/video/7PcfGeJqUYo/видео.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ruclips.net/video/t6I5k55pnCE/видео.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
Another reason why you should get back with your ex is because you and your ex have so much chemistry and can't shake each other off one another.
Yes, until life gets in the way. No relationship is without its troubles. All relationships go through a rough patch sooner or later.
Self belief is important to getting your ex back.
Indeed. A healthy sense of optimism is needed indeed along with viewing the situation for what it is so as not to look at it with rose coloured glasses. This means you ought to have a balanced approach but cutting off contact will naturally help you with that, so try to stick to that rule for 30 days. One way to go about this is to not get too caught up with getting your ex back so you will allow for stuff to play naturally while playing your cards right , which is what my videos and/or my Ex Factor Guide is for. If you still can't help it, go ahead and sign up for my coaching program so I can guide you accordingly at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching but really try to have that sense of independence without your ex first. You need to be able to rely on yourself before you're in a position to get an ex back. Apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html but this is the overview of what needs to happen, it helps to review it: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw Good luck!
If i get back with my ex, IF. Then i will just tell everyone that "We broke up for a wrong reason, we fell in love once for the right reason and we found another good reason again"
True!
My ex and I split beginning of 2023 for a couple months and got back together thanks a lot to some of Brads coaching. We dated for the last year and a half and I fell into some of my former needy ways again. It sucks but I think she’s gone for good. It’s time to focus on myself and my kids and become the best version on myself again and get back in line with my purpose. If she comes back great, we’ll see how I feel then, but if she doesn’t I’ll be fine too.
That's good to hear. Looks like a happy ending for you either way. Thanks for dropping by, man. Take care!
Please make a video on when no contact is mutually decided for a particular period of time.
I did. :-) Check out this vid from my other channel: ruclips.net/video/QPJprJuf-iU/видео.html
When they micro cheat or cheat, or cops involved, there's no going back!
That's right... especially if it was particularly a volatile/toxic relationship from the start in which case the breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ruclips.net/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/видео.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
I gave up on my ex and tried the dating apps there is nothing but women who want paid for “content” finding love again will be next to impossible so I’ve given up on that too I hope you guys have better luck than I did but will still watch Brads videos it helps me understand that everything ex’s do has some level of game involved ✌🏾
Hey, thanks for watching, man! Dating apps may not be for you. When you're ready or change your mind, try to enroll in something where there's common interest. Who knows you can meet someone there whom you click with! :-) Also let your mutual friends know you're single. Some folks meet through common friends.
I have always missed my ex-wife. We had so many problems, but I still love her. She has a very short temper and that keeps me away from her. Her birthday is coming up. Maybe I will call her to say happy birthday. If she doesn't want to talk, I'll leave her a message and remain distant. I will pray and see.
Yeah, you got nothing to lose. It's just a simple greeting. How long has it been since you've divorced though and are you both still single? This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: ruclips.net/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/видео.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Mend the Marriage guide if you want to try to get your ex wife back in the best possible way, at www.marriageguy.com/mbuy Take care!
@@breakupbradbrowning We got divorced 15 years ago. I vanished from her world this entire time. She called me in January, but then ghosted me. I don't know if she's in a relationship. I'm still single. I thought she might be in a relationship because she completely ghosted me. Her birthday just passed, and I didn't do anything yet. I did move on with life, I just have a part of me that still loves her. Thank you for your reply. I will look at your videos.
Well brad considering she left me for a rebound very shortly after a breakup and are engaged not even a year in the relationship, no I'm good brotha.
Yes, sorry man, but you're right. The window of opportunity may have already passed. Chances are she's communicating with that other dude before the breakup. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/e3l5KWEpIpw/видео.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc It's best to move on from this.
My ex didn’t feel love or deeper feelings for Me
We broke up twice , actually more like 3 times
He finally admitted He wanted a more casual relationship
I don’t , My feelings were much stronger
I’ve stayed no contact
In this case, there's a huge dealbreaker which is a misalignment of goals. He's not what you're looking for and vice versa. There may not be enough attraction on his end for whatever reason (is he even looking for anything serious? Has he just come out of a long term relationship, etc) and this is especially true if your relationship lasted less than six months. And the best action would be to move on from this for the time being or at least keep your dating options open.
Hi Brad, thanks for sharing me your video, it does really help. My question to you: Is it a good/bad idea to send flowers/smaller gifts anonym to my ex after 3 weeks of the breakup to show some interests in her? Thanks!
Hi! You're welcome. This is something I discussed in great detail on my other (first) channel, please check out this vid: ruclips.net/video/OU0cmyhSxE0/видео.html
@@breakupbradbrowning
Hi Brad! I was watching a lot of videos of you and it does really helped me, thanks for it. I am in a hopeless situation. I am a 31 year old man, who loss a 29 year old wonderful woman. We were together 8months. Interesting that the emotions and love for my side came at the end of the relationship on a special wedding event where we were together with the girl. Unfortunately I was caught up by dating with another girl (2times without any intimacy) because of low emotions, but finally the emotions came. It was too late. The girl broke up with me. I was begging, chasing, writing a letter, bringing flowers, saying sorry during the breakup. Now I am on no contact for 1month which I have broken 1 time. What should I do next if I am in love with this girl and would like to get back together. How much time for a nocontact is needed and how to reach out her? Or what are my chances in your opinion? Thanks.
Hi Brad. I am listening to your videos ever since i had a break up. I have loved my partner for over 4 years. But now she has broken up. (Previously i had also broken up with her and got back with her). And back then my decision was poor.
(We have not cheated on each other ever.) And again for the most simplest yet important reasons , this time my partner decides to leave me. I love her. And after watching many of your videos i understand that i deeply wish to get her back. After our break up , i also ended up begging and running after her as i had no idea that's the wrong thing until i came accross your videos. Please help as to how i should win her back. Its been arounf 8-10 days of NO CONTACT (a week b4 was the begging week and b4 that was the break up). Would love your help in this process to get her back!
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule - let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi Sir. It worked. she returned. But she wud never accept the pain she caused me and showed me no remorse. She won't take any responsibility for all the insecurities she caused me. She wud not ans anything about where she went or anything and would casually run into parties with other guys.
The No contact worked. She returned. But at what cost? And it's heartbreaking to share. But she came. Gave me hopes. Destroyed me. And she left me again.
Pls guide me. How shud i structure myself next. Am completely falling off
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Hey, thanks for dropping by!
What if my ex is seeing someone new?
I'm in the same situationeel buddy! After almost 29 yrs and 2 kids she broke up with me for the second time leaving me and my kids heartbroken. We broke up last February and since the beginning of april she has a new relationship with a former friend of the family....This dude is almost 10 yrs younger than me and comes from a wealthier family than mine is. He has two bussinesses and earns a lot more than me. My ex is nothing less of a golddigger....but i love her man....sad situation
Hi there! Sorry to hear that. Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/YVViZmY2x0I and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB
Hey brad, my ex bf broke up with me but it was a friendly breakup and now after 20 days of no contact he is sending me snaps. Why?
Are snaps primarily your means of contact before? Your ex could be trying to get back in your good graces or he could be doing it out of habit. It's really too soon to tell so be sure to continue to play your cards right, yeah? It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. Just whatever you do, make sure to heed the tips from this vid at all times: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenarios and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
7 months I've wanted to go back with my ex after the breadcrumbs I don't care anymore if she decides to work on herself and change and wants to give it another go cool if not cool I'm busy working on myself and becoming the best person I can be im done settling it's all about my happiness and moving forward can't do that looking back at the what if's
Nice! :-)