Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back

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  • Опубликовано: 5 авг 2024
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    In today's video, you'll learn why silence makes your ex return to you after a breakup.
    After our breakup, we all want to talk to our ex and make sure we can communicate together. But when you do that, you're showing your ex that you are becoming needy. Silence is so powerful, because you can ignore your ex, and this is what human beings hate the most.
    We don't like to be ignored - even negative attention is better than no attention. Showing silence is what turns the tables around on your ex. Watch this video to learn more reasons why silence actually makes your ex come back!
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  • @MISS_SHERRY
    @MISS_SHERRY 3 года назад +144

    Silence is gold

  • @julieanncorral2180
    @julieanncorral2180 3 года назад +154

    No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.

  • @hushpuppies872
    @hushpuppies872 10 месяцев назад +22

    I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.

  • @dedelove2812
    @dedelove2812 2 года назад +26

    That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.

  • @jacquelinedeku6058
    @jacquelinedeku6058 3 года назад +68

    Silence is a very powerful tool

  • @esthermunkondya1251
    @esthermunkondya1251 Год назад +28

    This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called

  • @zerihunchekol3860
    @zerihunchekol3860 3 года назад +74

    The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.

  • @dark_paradise27
    @dark_paradise27 4 года назад +15

    Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.

  • @xx-rc1ni
    @xx-rc1ni 3 года назад +253

    The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair 👍

  • @akinyimauryn
    @akinyimauryn Год назад +19

    I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back.
    I had Enough.

  • @sweetangel4761
    @sweetangel4761 3 года назад +7

    Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?

  • @ellenamontana1352
    @ellenamontana1352 Год назад +7

    His voice is so soothing.

  • @emilycos3690
    @emilycos3690 3 года назад +39

    So true Silence good ideas.

  • @annaschadewald1576
    @annaschadewald1576 3 года назад +11

    It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized

  • @Mondivaplus265
    @Mondivaplus265 11 месяцев назад +2

    Over the years i have learnt to be silent.never fight back.blocked no more calls following up.

  • @demiakande1697
    @demiakande1697 3 года назад +13

    Thanks powerful message.

  • @user-xs5fx2yj2n
    @user-xs5fx2yj2n Год назад +2

    Tanks a lot coach we are now together coz of your advices it works for me

  • @janettearle9971
    @janettearle9971 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you Alex. It's certainly worth a try!

  • @baitakagl1603
    @baitakagl1603 Год назад

    That's right. I support this silence explanation

  • @elldantehellectronics7226
    @elldantehellectronics7226 2 года назад +6

    Thanks sir for the advice it worked and we are now together

  • @ritwikachatterjee5792
    @ritwikachatterjee5792 2 года назад +1

    Scrapped it yesterday night. Total silence now!!

  • @sorayacroton1399
    @sorayacroton1399 3 года назад +13

    You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x

  • @petevonstettina8627
    @petevonstettina8627 9 месяцев назад +2

    I don't know that I have it in me anymore. Sometimes the only winning move is NOT to play

  • @ZenaNaigwe-xj3kc
    @ZenaNaigwe-xj3kc 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wow. Silence is gold.

  • @midnightcrave4169
    @midnightcrave4169 3 года назад +9

    I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...

  • @ishabah9042
    @ishabah9042 2 года назад +13

    I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lot❤

    • @greatermpofu1448
      @greatermpofu1448 2 года назад

      I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you

  • @vikumlakshan848
    @vikumlakshan848 2 года назад +1

    Thank you man..... very helpful

  • @lubabakemal5901
    @lubabakemal5901 3 года назад +3

    I really like your explanation it doth make a lots of Suns!!

  • @pearlratchford7835
    @pearlratchford7835 3 года назад +5

    He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love 😊

  • @amyroseabdul9059
    @amyroseabdul9059 2 года назад +10

    Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of love🤣😍 Now he is mine💪🏻👌🏻🤣

  • @jocelfabella1948
    @jocelfabella1948 3 года назад +4

    Silence is Golden

  • @harunahappy2651
    @harunahappy2651 3 года назад +4

    Y haven’t I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.

  • @qariissa1
    @qariissa1 3 года назад +3

    Wow I'm so amazed with this ideas

  • @arshaddoole8758
    @arshaddoole8758 3 года назад +2

    this channel saved me

  • @bankaiknoyak6539
    @bankaiknoyak6539 3 года назад +7

    Yes I believe the power of silence .....

  • @dzingainceco9603
    @dzingainceco9603 2 года назад +3

    You are totally right

  • @youngmotivation698
    @youngmotivation698 3 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for advice sir. Long live love you from Pakistan♥️♥️

  • @dellaknocke4669
    @dellaknocke4669 3 года назад +1

    We're on a break right now. Have known each other for 6 yrs. We are both in our 70's so I don't have alot time to wait. I hope he calls.

  • @danicamonares5026
    @danicamonares5026 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this idea
    Might help

  • @crissyandersson4888
    @crissyandersson4888 5 месяцев назад +4

    Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 месяцев назад +2

      It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.

  • @maryanntacalan6288
    @maryanntacalan6288 3 года назад +1

    Thank you new subscriber from phil

  • @jelo1326
    @jelo1326 3 года назад +6

    U look handsome day by day couch.. Thank you for ur advice 😘

  • @nisyasundari5343
    @nisyasundari5343 3 года назад +4

    sure...I'll follow your tips😉thank you

  • @pradipvohra9612
    @pradipvohra9612 3 года назад +2

    Thank You Friend 🙏🙏🤝❤

  • @shawingmarvin3394
    @shawingmarvin3394 3 года назад +8

    Thank you i really needed such advice

  • @sudhirdebbarma8634
    @sudhirdebbarma8634 3 года назад

    Thnk u bro for the good advice

  • @pepahbeckford1243
    @pepahbeckford1243 3 года назад +1

    Love ur speech

  • @ayssharoshan6799
    @ayssharoshan6799 3 года назад +4

    Excellent brother thanks for sharing 👍👍👍👍👍💐💐💐

  • @vincentt753
    @vincentt753 3 года назад +13

    Men just want to keep her from sleeping w someone else. Once u accept it's gonna happen u can let go easier .

  • @shirozie
    @shirozie 3 года назад +10

    What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle

  • @johnmelton3676
    @johnmelton3676 2 года назад +2

    You take her, she has known where I've been for 22 years,

  • @nibodada3661
    @nibodada3661 3 года назад +14

    Thankyou so much for motivating and helping for me..

  • @15jemuel
    @15jemuel 3 года назад +5

    Thank you so much Coach😊😍

  • @rahmaperis6336
    @rahmaperis6336 3 года назад +6

    4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.😊

  • @leela8207
    @leela8207 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Much love

  • @NochetJr
    @NochetJr 11 месяцев назад

    Best coach ever

  • @kittyflier8338
    @kittyflier8338 9 месяцев назад +6

    Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.😅

    • @coucousalut4899
      @coucousalut4899 7 месяцев назад +1

      Indortunately, you are one of the exceptions…but Life is not finished yet…

    • @katemadalina
      @katemadalina 7 месяцев назад

      😂

  • @cozyhomequeen
    @cozyhomequeen 3 года назад +1

    This is soooo true.

  • @kamleshmru7052
    @kamleshmru7052 2 года назад +1

    Thanks you sir 🙏

  • @emmanueldonato8049
    @emmanueldonato8049 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks Alex 🙏❤

  • @changewemu
    @changewemu 3 года назад +1

    I believe at least I found my self from this

  • @miamormanalo3581
    @miamormanalo3581 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Sir!♥️

  • @saimashapi3819
    @saimashapi3819 3 года назад +20

    Lol I love ur accent..no contact rule 4days in ...so done. God has a plan for all of us & if dey walk away..let them go. Thank u for this video..needed to remember doing the right thing.

  • @indervirsidhu8549
    @indervirsidhu8549 3 года назад

    Absolutely right.

  • @gregmoverley7525
    @gregmoverley7525 2 года назад +16

    Thank You for Your Invaluable Advice ! Much Appreciated !

  • @jackielou9949
    @jackielou9949 3 года назад +2

    Sir Alex thank you for sharing

  • @balungilesylvia4406
    @balungilesylvia4406 3 года назад +3

    Thank u for the encouragement I'm tired of begging him

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 года назад

      Thank you for watching. Please take a look at this video to understand why begging is the last thing you want to do.
      www.withmyexagain.com/blog/begging-an-ex/
      Coach Alex

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- 3 года назад +3

    Not only exs can be anyone

  • @aysnbashir1654
    @aysnbashir1654 2 года назад +1

    Keep going brother i love your videos amazing 👏

  • @harrisonayodi1529
    @harrisonayodi1529 2 года назад +1

    Very true.

  • @mariopereira9928
    @mariopereira9928 2 года назад +3

    Silence can be very noise.

  • @psthill1
    @psthill1 3 года назад +3

    That applies if you don’t have any kids with them 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @snjezanaspahija249
    @snjezanaspahija249 11 месяцев назад

    Very good❤❤❤

  • @nakisomadzivire6915
    @nakisomadzivire6915 3 года назад

    Coach Abbey, Coach Adrian and myself

  • @1406Pictures
    @1406Pictures 3 года назад +5

    Love the accent dude.

  • @vickykendi7972
    @vickykendi7972 3 года назад

    Thanks for the advice

  • @yogithasathish8908
    @yogithasathish8908 2 года назад

    Good suggestion

  • @ginamendez6995
    @ginamendez6995 3 года назад +36

    It’s so true go no contact it’s been a month I’m not calling or texting being silent with him

  • @beatricechin2748
    @beatricechin2748 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for everything.. Please is it advisable to block him during the no contact ?

  • @lilianmutio9150
    @lilianmutio9150 2 года назад

    good advice

  • @shuwisaimudzimbabwe6962
    @shuwisaimudzimbabwe6962 3 года назад +10

    true silence really works

  • @alvarosoria8787
    @alvarosoria8787 2 года назад +94

    No body with a self value wants the same again

    • @julioortega3340
      @julioortega3340 11 месяцев назад +9

      Depends on the situation

    • @user-xn4lm6xt1n
      @user-xn4lm6xt1n 11 месяцев назад +1

      If you ever loved at all? You must be a taster...

    • @user-xn4lm6xt1n
      @user-xn4lm6xt1n 11 месяцев назад

      Again and again, marrying ...a new wife each time something goes wrong?

    • @raidi306
      @raidi306 9 месяцев назад

      Garbage comment.

    • @notcare4882
      @notcare4882 9 месяцев назад

      Not the same, evolve, an evolve version of you

  • @cassandramanye7373
    @cassandramanye7373 3 года назад +6

    My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didn’t tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasn’t called again and I haven’t called back either.
    I want him back but I don’t know what to do

  • @kaylingomis8013
    @kaylingomis8013 4 года назад +7

    My ex and I have broken up for more than a year now he still follows me on Facebook and he still has me on WhatsApp he doesn't communicate at all and I'm also doing the same when he sees me he pretends to not know me and avoids eye contact but then stares at me from a distance

  • @simplebuhaysekyu1145
    @simplebuhaysekyu1145 3 года назад +2

    I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,

  • @earth777life4
    @earth777life4 3 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @rosenelima8618
    @rosenelima8618 3 года назад

    Thanks a lot for the advise

  • @devi511
    @devi511 3 года назад +4

    My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.

  • @amsarahadil6864
    @amsarahadil6864 4 года назад +5

    I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now 😔

  • @vinodkumaryogirala6683
    @vinodkumaryogirala6683 3 года назад +2

    Thank you very much sir fr your useful suggestion👍👍👍

  • @terencehennegan1439
    @terencehennegan1439 2 года назад

    Great video 👍

  • @hamzadawal2979
    @hamzadawal2979 4 года назад +10

    So my Ex broke off couple of weeks back but still said that she has feelings for me and misses me but suddenly she said she wants to live for her own and wants to figure out her life. So I started the No contact as she had started to ignore me and wasn’t saying truth. It’s been a week since I started the no contact she texts me on Snapchat everyday about me ignoring her or to say sorry and she made the decision of leaving social media as she is loosing people close to her
    Would it be correct if I approach her and just ask her about what is she sorry for ?

  • @pratibhawalvekar6698
    @pratibhawalvekar6698 2 года назад

    Thanks 😊

  • @johnpeter212
    @johnpeter212 3 года назад

    Beautiful video

  • @lalneih1871
    @lalneih1871 2 года назад +2

    New sub 👍

  • @servantservantofallah1860
    @servantservantofallah1860 4 года назад +53

    Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away...
    The best way is to move on
    Which is difficult...
    But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......

    • @berthaleonardbihondo1141
      @berthaleonardbihondo1141 3 года назад

      Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant

  • @ketee1199
    @ketee1199 3 года назад +1

    Thanks Alex.. Let me do as u hv said 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shashatime4878
    @shashatime4878 3 года назад

    Thanks for this.. .😊

  • @meghanmcdonnell196
    @meghanmcdonnell196 3 года назад +6

    My ex fiancé and I are on month 3 of being broken up. I made so many mistakes of begging and telling him I love him and crying to him that I can’t move on. Is it possible to go into no contact after all of that and for him to ever reach out? We last spoke the other day oh good terms catching up about life but I feel as I need to let him come to me.
    He’s told me within this break up that he will always love me and have a place in his heart for me and that if it’s meant to be it will be. “We don’t know the future”. He continuously says he wants to be friends so I’m just confused and think we need space.