What Your Ex Is Thinking During No Contact
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
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In today's video, you're going to learn what your ex is thinking during no contact. After a breakup, there is an imbalance that was caused by your actions- your neediness, your clinginess, your insecurities. You put them on a pedal stool because you've led them to believe that you need them to exist, but this is not your fault. Don't drive yourself crazy if you've put your ex on a pedal stool by doing all sorts of mistakes after a breakup because you were overwhelmed by your emotions, the negativity, and sense of despair that a lot of people experience when they face rejection.
Your significant other is happy during the early stages of no contact because they have their freedom and independence--and its a new beginning. They are happy because most people aren't ready to accept the breakup, so not hearing from you gives them a sense of validation. But, unfortunately, human beings tend to overvalue what they don't possess and what they've lost. So at some point, if no contact is established the right way, your ex will begin to feel like they've lost you. Watch this video to learn what your ex is thinking during no contact!
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I can’t thank you enough for this channel. I wouldn’t be able to make it through my sleepless nights without reassurance from your words.
I have a question we have 2 children and we need to have contract regarding our children. I will see my children. Is this a good thing? We try not to have other contact.
I agree with you!
Meghan you not alone going through it so painful but there is hope I embrace my lost is time to move along.
Same!
Same. :(
After 5 months of no contact she texted me trying to be friends I just blocked her immediately and didn’t even read what she said lol
Its so sad to see so many ppl broke-up in the middle of a pandemic.😞
Dear It is not sad...it is really good that we got time to see real faces else in busy life it's very difficult to find anything like this❤️
Haven't been able to see my friend for so long.really miss him.
Dude right. That's why me and my 7 year relationship ended.. We just talked about kids and marriage months ago and now she's with another man. Insane.
I got mine just before pandemic and see I'm here
That’s the perfect time to do so
No contact means you don't see no post on social media or nothing cut her off delete the contact and forget about that
This is really true. In my experience i followed the NC at first its really tough i cried. Everytime i think of time and everytime i remember he dump me bec of other women but after a few months everything change i fell great .i nver think of him ofter.im very free and i can do what i want .....then when i totally move on....he come to my place and tell me tht he really miss me. He want to come bck to me but its over ....so guys NC is very good
What a soothing and calm soul this man is.
I love the idea of using the time "to reinvent yourself". A great explanation of how this strategy works..! It must be absolute though until he reaches out - and then play it cool.
I don't want him back. Him Leaving gives me peace... Yes I do miss him but its fine...
My boyfriend dumped me we are in long distance relationship, and he posted his new gf in WhatsApp 5 hrs I cought him cheating on me. Unbelievable ! After he asked me to marry him and made a plan about our future and now he has a new gf. ! I don't think I'll get him back!
Emotions overwhelm them.....that’s me! And I’m crying😥😭
One week no contact, and she has driven by at least four times, and I'm not on her way to anywhere. Winning! PTL!
In panic mode right now😪😪
Thank you Adrian! This has been very helpful to me/us. Moving forward and reaching out after difficult break up. Blessings to you and love Advice counselors.
You are so welcome! I'm happy you found this helpful.
- Coach Adrian
You are absolutely right. I have done this it took all my might but I stuck to my plan . He texted me yesterday, he is still on read.🤨🤐
Can u pls tell me what exactly u did for him to get back with u? Its not that i need hope or something but i feel so lost it happened 3 days ago and i still cant think straight and i need support pls
She blocked me and whatsapp me 2 years of no contact. I saw it and never texted back. Now she's always been watching what i put on my status. It really works
Hello coach Adrien. I am going under this situation right now and everytime that I feel sober I just watch your video and listening to evryrhing you say until I fall asleep. Thank u
Hope you find peace ✌🙏
I listen to you every single morning
I was toxic. He left me and he will not be coming back. I haven’t had contact with him. He is probably with someone else that will treat him better
My sons mother cheated several times and had one of the wife’s not have found out I’d never know. I left and left everything behind she has begged and begged went to therapy got on medications but that flame that once burned is gone and although I tried to forgive I knew it would never be the same. 2 weeks later I find she had been talking to a new guy on a dating app and he had taken her to dinner all while she was begging me. Hold your self to a higher standard guys cus if you allow it once it will continue to happen. I’m hurt but I’m ok
Not true been separated and in no contact for 3 years. And there is no interest for her to wanna come back!!
I'm the one who got broken up with and got ignored. I started no contact today and I'm getting private calls and calls from strange numbers. I love it! I want to know what this man will do and I want to see how far he will go to win me back. I need to know if our love is real and worth fighting for. This is great 🤣. Oh how the tables have turned. I cried so hard yesterday. Never again.
I receive this Word Amen
Thank you! I appreciate all of you and this channel so, so, soooo much!!🙏🏼
I hope she comes back 🤞🤞🤞
This is true, I've done this and all the above happened
Yes, it is true…
When in no contact, SP will try to get attention in social media by posting his lonely feeling… it is true
I was so nice to him but when he said he wanted to end it I just said ok and stop texting him
Unfortunately for me,he lied
about our breakup,manipulated me and cheated,he is happy with the girl, I blocked them on social media and a year later I am still struggling to breathe and sleep
I hope you're doing better
Hello coach. She friend zoned me because she said she wasn’t ready to love because she doesn’t love herself (she said “I almost love you” several times and she told me no one has ever treated her this well). It took me a while to realize that I was friend zoned because initially, all she told me was that she needs space. She continued to text me though because she told me that I was one of her best friends (I told her she’s one of mine too). But after talking with her, I told her I need space from her now. Do I apply the no contact rule? She essentially broke up with me without me knowing. I even asked her if her telling me that she needs space was her way of letting me down easily and she asked me what I meant by that. Please help me coach!
My 9 years relationship left me like a stranger and blocked me from everything!!9 months since then and i think her no contact tactics are working so she must be happy without me so be it!!
I can't thank u enough coz ur advise has given me everything i needed God bless u guys.
Thank you for your kind words, Ahmed.
Coach Adrian
thank you all for what you do. i'm glad i found your channel.
Yeah right. Did the NC, she eventually texted to get my stuff and have a 2.5 hour talk where she brought up the breakup in the last half hour. While I was there she said I could keep my mothers Christmas decorations at her house. What?!!
Overall the talk went well, she agreed we needed to talk more. I took a shot, over stepped, and asked when this virus is over maybe we could have dinner. She said that would be nice.
When I left she leaned in for a hug but backed off, fine, with this virus, safe move. Texted her a couple of times since then, nothing specific, no relationship talk. That was two weeks a go. She has not texted first unless she wanted me to get my stuff.
My feelings? She gave lip service and nothing more. So I guess I dont give a poop, JUST LIKE HER.
Update
Im in the fresh setuation right now.yes its hurt he leave me for other woman and we are in defferent country.we are married and we have plans!but he betrayed me.this channel helps me a lot to be strong.i do no contact.thank you so much for this channel 🙏🙏🙏
Hi Coach Arian, could you plz do a video about toxic relationships and when to let go? I know you guys made a video some time ago but could you talk about it again?or Maybe a combo about toxic and narcisstic people in rs?
What is the court is making us have a no contact
I love my boyfriend, but is being chatting on me with is ex ,so i start this no contact thing, so please help me more i dont what to loose him but i just what him to see me like he ise to.please help
Idk my ex posted week ago a sad quote and deleted it right after I saw it. I’m over a month on no contact now
Hi. Great content in your video and gives hope and encouragement to all.🙏🏽 Does this apply to married couple that have separated? Do they experience similar feelings?
Thanks!
It’s going to be hard but hopefully I can do this, telling her I love you and her saying I know, I don’t want that, I want her to want me again
JagonPoo time will tell, get stronger for yourself and stop telling her you love her until you love yourself more.
Hi Adrian,
Thanks for the quality content. I have a very important question for you. In my case it was me who decided to break up. My girlfriend requested time apart and I decided it was better to break up. How is this case different? Any insight will be DEEPLY appreciated.
You are so right. Thanks for your help. Soraya xox
How do you apply NO CONTACT when you have kids
Thank you for reaching out. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ so that we can help you more on a personal level.
Coach Adrian
Amazing gentle soul
Thank you sir ...For such a valuable and wonderful tips and tricks based on human psychology. ..may God bless you.
Thank you so much for watching Intesar!
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
I don't want her no more.
Thanks for your honest advies!! It really worked!!
You're welcome. Thank you for watching, glad to hear your feedback!
Coach Adrian
They are all thinking glad I got rid of them, I’m so tired and annoyed of them
After 2 weeks after no contact my ex explains why she left saying she is wants me to find someone to love me better that her. Why is she doing that?
What is my boyfriend is living with sameone , and with the no contact is going to push him more to her
All was good in the beginning,then he started taking longer to message me, was like a partial ghosting, i called him out on it,he said he still cares,blah blah blah but continued to gives me breadcrumbs so i messaged him and ended it ..he did not respond...its been 6 weeks...im loving my freedom,working on my fitness and business...yes i miss him that is why im watching these videos but there is no obsession...and i know if he does not reach out...i will not...
I hope she's thinking she's sorry for cheatimy on me...she lost a good hearted , faithful , educated and gainfully employed man.
Really good video, I loved when you said they will crumble
Thank you so much for watching Tom!
Thank you so much for this content✨🌙
This is soooo true my brother!!
thank you for your wisdom
I have always loved every advise from Love advice Tv thanx guys.
I hav a question, What is right n effective way to do No contact?
Cut off everything. Stay busy and work on you. They will come back once you do that. Funny thing is you might not want them back at that point. That's my experience. God bless
My ex told me that she love me but she dosnt want to get back she want only friend...its all my mistake thats why we broke up...what will i do?now im doing no contact...i miss her so much...
we broke up for a 2nd time around he initiate the break up and he said our relation is like a ship that has a no route and we dont have a brilliant future because im older than him 9 years gap and he belongs to a very traditional family he is turkish guy and im a filipino there is a possibilty that i get back him 3 weeks now i applied no contact rule
Mine. Reached out when I had an accident. Because she is on the title. Yet, the majority of the conversation was not about the accident
What if it wasn't your fault, and you walked away because of disrespect and you just didn't put up with such behavior.
Best “advice” I’ve heard!
Thanks 🙏
Thank you!
Coach Adrian
Now this is actually a good video. Great job.
What if I was begging and being needy when they first left but then I started no contact and it’s been going now for 21 days.. did I ruin the chances of fixing things if I begged at first?
No, you may have made the no contact proccess a bit longer but you have not ruined it. Stay in no contact and let him reach out to you
After one day of no contact my ex started posting comments on posts with women's of my name. I'm in no contact second time around bc of his fault. He wanted my to be jealous but I log out of fb so he won't see my actions .
But what if she told me when iwas trying to reach her out , its over , and blocked me instagram, messenger.. but we chT still on. And shes coming back to homeland in a 3 months , we broke up in a distance..
Dear Coaches
Truelly last Sunday we had an Amazing day with each other going out and laughing (after the first moment that day that hé was saying leave me alone and shut his door) but Yesterday Monday he was kindly and we are talking and laughing but at the end he hurt me a lot with words before i went to my place
Hé was saying there is no we and i think you are living a movie, which movie to you live?
That was Hurting me a lot, now he unblocked me in whatsapp but there is DISTANCE
So far my situation
( we are coming from 2 divorces where i decided to break, but I regret and want him back)
My boy friend he is come to see me and want hang out with me but I’m push him away after that he keep silent , even I’m text him say sorry , I didn’t mean to hurt him at all. I’m love him a lot. But he not respond??
Hi coach Adrian is it ok to remove,unfriend and unfollow an ex on social media after the break-up?? to prevent myself to contact him.
What if you're doing the no contact but she's found someone she's been talking to on tinder? She's going to be moving on way easier without talking
I've done it. The best thing I've done!!!!! ✔
Happy to hear that. Thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
What exactly is "no contact" period? If you could please explain.....
Please do a video on narcissist ex
Thank you for watching. We will work on that in our upcoming videos.
Coach Adrian
Wow you are right. Thank you for this
Thank you so much for watching!
Good information as well as advice😘😘
So I watch RUclips on a pretty regular basis and I haven’t gotten suggested videos related to exes until just a couple days ago and now I am being flooded with a bunch of RUclips recommendation videos on exes coming back or was wanting you and I am trying to move forward with my life. Why am I being suggested these videos when I don’t give two craps about my ex?
Thanks.for the wonderful advise.
You are so welcome!
What if she's unblocked me I don't know how many times now does that mean the same thing
What if you go distant and he go with somebody else?
I did no contact and then we spoke again and I’m now 7 weeks into no contact again. I reached out after 4 weeks and heard nothing. I really want to tell him how I feel :(.
I guess even if you will contact him it will not be for any benefit. First try to show him you are happy. And you are more better in your life through social media. He will search you and look at you. Just make him little jealous. He will contact you and then the game starts.
I am a 55 year old woman separated from my husband who is 65 years old after 30 years of marriage. I have no future security or any income and living under the mercy of my family which I dislike. What I should do now because I have not heard or seen him since 18 months. Please guide accordingly. Thanks
My sons mom left me almost 3 months ago she actually left to another state and i am not sure if she is ever coming back we have been in contact but I have slowly have a kept it to a minimum.
Its been a m0nth since he left us, I feel w0rthless and desperate, I tried n0 c0ntct rule but I made a mistake last week I c0nfrnt him bout 0ur kids and status. but he t0ld me his happy n0w he will n0t c0mbck😭 n0w still hurting and restless😭😭😭.
I know its been 1 year according to your video. Do you still give advice? Let me know, because I know if I do not get some sort of answer...even a quarter of an answer to my question, I will soon have a heart attack! I am so confused and distraught!
how can you do no contact if there are kids to visit and share time with?
I have a question i had a relationship but we never see each other we only chatted trough social medias Facebook,Instagram,Viber also sending pictures of us planning what we going to do etc all was fun great worth chatting 24/7 fast responds but in that 2 years suddenly all of that go in wrong direction in december 24th 2020 she called me via messenger we talked about the things she said about things that i not expected to hear and yes after that she friendzoned me she said lets be friends i was mad a lot and i said ok i accept and then i end the audio call and decided to start the Rule "No Contact" and she blocked me immediately and i was ok let it be that way i just waited read books,playing video games i have Gaming PC i was in most good vibe that i not think about it and how the days goes on weeks months from 1st day during no contact she unblocked me on facebook on the 20th day during no contact but she not messaged me when i turn on active green dot status that i am active she comes active to i not reach to her she followed that i was active 24/7 to see is she going to imitate me and she was i was like omg and then after 2 days she blocked me again i post 2/3 new photos on facebook with smile music also good for vibing and again second time she unblocked me on the 28th day during no contact and again she used to follow me stalk on me when im online most of the day etc she saw the photos maybe she saved it idk but guys give me some advice tips what i need to do with her i not brake the no contact rule but what exactly means if she block/unblock me but not messaging me i need some good advices from mature people here that looking for help or in same situation as mine
😢😢😢😢I feel weak I just did that last night but now I blocked him on everything
Thank you for reaching out. Please watch this video, I believe it will be helpful for you. ruclips.net/video/hL1az3RwupQ/видео.html
Coach Adrian
What to do if I broke no contact several times after 1 month of breakup?
Amlan Roy Chowdhury try to hold off for way longer maybe until they reach out to you now. Stay strong. Work on yourself and maybe find new passion in something
You're not the only one
My ex is happy with her fiancee and am in no contact for the past 3 months.
Its been only 2 weeks now sonce my breakup with my partner of 4&a half yrs. Im devastated it happened so quick for me in 2 days. When I said I was leaving he agreed& the next day he has packed the leftover of my belongings& didnt leave anything at his place that belongs to me. A couple of nights ago he contacted me at night but I didnt answer I wonder what he rang for. Im still devastated that he agreed that I go
What if u want to do the no contact but u have kid's with each other?
Wise man 🙏🏻
Appreciate your kind words! Thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
I was on no contact for 3 months after 3 month I got to know he plans for marriage and when I called him he said it already late very late ,if you are feeling low talk to you family and friends talking to me will not help you..😐
Why did this happen ???
Hi is there any way u can msg me i need some help and im am sooooo lost and dint want to self harm
Thank you for reaching out, David. Please visit www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ to book a 1:1 session.
Coach Adrian
Can you apply no contact if you are living together? The situation was bad and I moved out of our room... but unfortunately my kids and I don’t have another place to go... and he won’t leave but it’s been a week of no talking, no texts nothing... can it work if we are in the same house?
How can you know?
Even narcs don't know how to react to anything.
We broke up after i left him and the country we both lived in for a better work opportunity but i didnt want to end the relationship. I made mistakes of pushing him to stay together while he saw this distance as an end. Now after month of back and fourth he decided to end the relationship and said he will always love me but we cannot be in a relationship, hes very attached to my son and wish to keep seeing him despite moving on. I then saw him and realized he seemed to have lost feelings for me or was acting like it very well. Im confused i want to do the no contact but feel like it will build a bridge between us specially for my son whos attached to him. I know we were everything to him and suspect hes only trying to convince himself this cannot work.
Here's a video that might help you : ruclips.net/video/astmGM0OJfk/видео.html
If it were me and I wanted to take someone back, I don't care who cares about my decision because it's mine, not theirs. That's me and MY life. They don't like it and want to talk mess or ghost then they weren't worth it.
What if we work together. Its been hard on me. Trying to fake it but I been leaving work early or dont go at all...