Nothing wrong with her changing her mind about kids. It's more about the serious lack of communication with OP, and undertones of manipulation to try and get him to change his mind. If she actually deserves shit for anything, it's the fact that she valued a nonexistant future baby over Archie, and she couldn't be honest with him when he asked about kids prior.
Story 1: Carly made situation that if brought up in court would've been laughed out onto the steps so just made HS drama of the friend group cuz she couldn't guilt OP into a free cake.. Ugh Story 2: STOP getting with people who don't want kids on the hope that they'll "change their minds"... This man was a victim and now raising the living proof of his SA. And while he doesn't see him as that, doesn't change the fact of how his existence came to be and her own father wasn't in his corner to support or the kid he was so gunho for with his abuser after she dipped (and he should've persued later for abandonment n child support) and made clear he didn't want anymore kids. That's a non-negotiable and should've either left or brought it up to him if her mind changed later, and again, left if his mind didn't change.
the title is wrong because that’s not at all what happened in the story
because there was two story idiot
I wonder if people will attack her like they attack men when they "change their minds"
Nothing wrong with her changing her mind about kids. It's more about the serious lack of communication with OP, and undertones of manipulation to try and get him to change his mind.
If she actually deserves shit for anything, it's the fact that she valued a nonexistant future baby over Archie, and she couldn't be honest with him when he asked about kids prior.
Story 1: Carly made situation that if brought up in court would've been laughed out onto the steps so just made HS drama of the friend group cuz she couldn't guilt OP into a free cake.. Ugh
Story 2: STOP getting with people who don't want kids on the hope that they'll "change their minds"... This man was a victim and now raising the living proof of his SA. And while he doesn't see him as that, doesn't change the fact of how his existence came to be and her own father wasn't in his corner to support or the kid he was so gunho for with his abuser after she dipped (and he should've persued later for abandonment n child support) and made clear he didn't want anymore kids. That's a non-negotiable and should've either left or brought it up to him if her mind changed later, and again, left if his mind didn't change.