If I was Op and her husband, I would go full on LC/NC with the family even after apologies. They are not loyal to Op and too easily led by a stranger. Now Op knows where she stands. Who knows what lie her sister will tell next. She could accused her BIL os SA next. Op needs to tread very carefully.
No, because I would let him have her. Let Trent have all of them. I'm sorry, but she WILLINGLY WENT ALONG with what he wanted. If I were Dan, I wouldn't treat her the same ever again. Hard time or no, she took an active role in damaging Dan's reputation.
Op's mom is a piece of work. She also thought it was a joke but turned coated out and blamed op. How can a parent just listen to one child without listening to the other.
OP is way too forgiving cause ain't no way in həll would i ever in life forgive all those people for what they did. So quick to believe the worst about a person without even asking anything. People like that are undeserving of being a part of their lives...
OP's better than me... I'm petty. I would've never forgiven and permanently cut ties. They were all SO QUICK to believe such blatant lies. The way the extended family jumped on the bandwagon just shows what kind of people they truly are. The mother is equally, if not more disgusting.
i would stay away from sister and her husband, even mom and dad. i would go nc w/sister and her husband, lc w/mom and dad - i would not trust them at all
There are definite events that can make abusers feel comfortable taking off the mask of decency: moving into together, engagement, wedding, or the birth of a child. When they feel their victim is locked in and will have difficulty leaving either because of money or societal pressure.
I thought the sister was pulling a "prank" like told everyone Op divorced or something and that's why everyone was looking at him oddly. Then everyone would she her marriage as better. Wish that was true rather than this mess.
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The way the whole extended family jumped on the bandwagon is very telling. OP needs to watch her back with all of them
If I was Op and her husband, I would go full on LC/NC with the family even after apologies. They are not loyal to Op and too easily led by a stranger. Now Op knows where she stands. Who knows what lie her sister will tell next. She could accused her BIL os SA next. Op needs to tread very carefully.
No, because I would let him have her. Let Trent have all of them. I'm sorry, but she WILLINGLY WENT ALONG with what he wanted. If I were Dan, I wouldn't treat her the same ever again. Hard time or no, she took an active role in damaging Dan's reputation.
Op's mom is a piece of work. She also thought it was a joke but turned coated out and blamed op. How can a parent just listen to one child without listening to the other.
Girl send your sister to your parents, she should not be in your home, why don’t you realize that. So sad for Dan, prioritized him NOT your sister.
She definitely isn't respectful of her husband to have her sister there after those allegations regardless of who convinced who!!!
OP didn’t take control of the issue early enough
OP is way too forgiving cause ain't no way in həll would i ever in life forgive all those people for what they did. So quick to believe the worst about a person without even asking anything. People like that are undeserving of being a part of their lives...
OP's better than me... I'm petty.
I would've never forgiven and permanently cut ties. They were all SO QUICK to believe such blatant lies. The way the extended family jumped on the bandwagon just shows what kind of people they truly are. The mother is equally, if not more disgusting.
OPs family are sheep.
OPs sister doesn't love her at all
i would stay away from sister and her husband, even mom and dad. i would go nc w/sister and her husband, lc w/mom and dad - i would not trust them at all
Classic narcissist abuse. So much yikes that it happened after thousands of dollars were spent but it’s better late than never🤦🏾
There are definite events that can make abusers feel comfortable taking off the mask of decency: moving into together, engagement, wedding, or the birth of a child. When they feel their victim is locked in and will have difficulty leaving either because of money or societal pressure.
@@linseypollack2309 Guess the abuser moved too quick telling the sis to quit her job
F this story wtf i would never forgive them ever
I thought the sister was pulling a "prank" like told everyone Op divorced or something and that's why everyone was looking at him oddly. Then everyone would she her marriage as better.
Wish that was true rather than this mess.
Despite everything she is my sister. Lol
I find it disturbing just how many stories there are like this, kinda makes me wonder how families have ever been able to keep it together
Dan deserves a better wife
Another doormat story
How are you a homewrecker?
Thank you!!!
I don't understand it either!
My thoughts are that the family believes that OP tried to come between the sister and the fiance, or maybe that's what they told the family.
Just have to walk away and wash your hands of these garbage people
I think he needs to call in the loan then go NC