How do I distance myself from toxic parents while living in the same house with them?.....And they're Asian so I don't have personal room and no door can be locked..... It is near to impossible to distance myself from them..... I don't know how to do this... Any advices..?
How to be a heartless person: 1. No small talks 2. Distance yourself from toxic people 3. No attachments 4. Focus on yourself 5. Accept the consequences 6. Suppress your emotions 7. Practice for perfection 8. No means No
you know what, yes, this actualy happened to me too, my all friends only come when they need any help . they never ever take my decisions, all of them are like mean to me. and this vedio now make me heartless and i will show them who am i really.
Being nice is good but sometimes they take advantage of you, you should be heartless because u learn that being nice wont always make u a good person Sometimes its better to be heartless or cold hearted so they will not take advantage of you because being nice all the time leads to them always thinking ur nice to them they will know your weakness and use your own weakness against you.
To anyone telling us we shouldn't make this decision, I am here to tell you we do not give one fuck. We have things to do, and our emotions are in the way.
I’m really kind, I help people and I always have to agree. But people always use me and walk over me. I wanna be this strong person who doesn’t give a dang bout anyone or what they say and being able to say no. I love these videos thank you men influencer❤️
ive been called heartless plenty of times, the key thing to remember is always ask "will this benefit me" if not dont do it or dont care, the key to not caring is just telling yourself only u matter and just do it, stop caring, it can really be that easy. I think most people on here are overthinkers just stop overthinking everything and every opinion
I agree with you. I get attached with people easily especially to the toxic ones no matter how much i try they are still on my mind it's frustrates me. Well, please make more videos related to this ❤️
This is just a warning... That is actually a sign of a mental health issue. It isn't normal for emotions to distract you from your daily life. What if those are not emotions but those are symptoms?
1. Don't indulge in small talks 2 Don't trust anybody 3. Don't talk too much 4 react less 5 distant yourself and stay away isolated from negative and toxic people 6 focus on what matters to you 7 Don't care abt anyone and anything 8 stay unbothered 9 no attachments 10 Don't open up and show your emotions 11 focus on yourself not others
I needed this, bro. I’m rly rly tired of living that life opening up on people and being friendly and shit. I’ve been friendly all my life and people didn’t like the way I am and the next thing you know they begin to bully me, make fun of me and treating me like an fucking animal. But I wanted to change myself and now I made it happen. This video REALLY helped me out a lot, bro. Keep posting videos like this!! 😈
Same things happened to me too... I almost 😒became cold hearted .. But that bad habits of mine of caring about what other people might feel caz of me... That feeling just not leaving me alone... And I got really close to my someone who wants me to revive my old self that nice and kind useless self...I don't want to be... I feel like I'm losing again I'm losing to that person 😞... I don't know how to suppress all this feeling... And I just hate it.. 😣
I'm a woman but I love these videos. People who are too empathetic are targets for abusers and users in life and we have to learn that the hard way, unfortunately.
You just explained my life but small change I am hurting people and cheating without any emotions I am happy without emotions now they are waiting waiting waiting for me which reminds my past. but I am heartless now I become toxic I am not even showing mercy at all this is my life I live my life according to my rules.
I WATCHED YOUR VIDEO TODAY MARKED ALL YOUR WORDS . ILL BE BACK AFTER 10 DAYS AND ILL LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH THESE POINTS MADE ME HEARTLESS OR I CONTROLLED MYSELF ,, ITS HIGH TIME NOW LETS THINK ABOUT MYSELF NOW... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SUCH VIDEO
I’m nice to a fault and get constantly passed over. Like I’m invisible. People have no problem making me their last choice. I’m tired of it, and I’m fucking angry. Thank you for being my first step to being a real Man.
This is great. Finally a series of videos in which the author is actually to the point and is not saying something to the tune of "there's no need to become this because blah blah blah". Great.
i love your videos about cold hearted iam naturally a cold guy but then turned nice for people but they hurted and betrayed me a lot now once again iam becaming cold again thats what make me suit thanks for your videos i watch your videos everytime.
There has to be a balance. Life is better when ppl care more. I believe in a higher power. Also it works both ways. One has to be prepared for ppl to be like that back so what’s best? I believe - do the right good thing and you will be rewarded in the end.:)
Most of these are great advice but the "suppress your emotions" is toxic af Meninfluencer said that you should suppress the emotions so it doesn't hinder your dreams. But if you suppress your emotions, you will have high stress levels and worse thinking patterns which litterally means you will have bad mental health. So if you suppress your emotions, your bad mental health will hinder your dreams. The right thing to do is to validate those emotions, have good coping mechanisms, have good habits and boundaries, and use logic. It's also good to find an environment or community that is good for you.
I hurt her and became heartless after years she's divorced with 2 kids and we fell for each other again but I ran away and hurt her because I'm scared of emotions and she got so hurt. Then I spoke to her again and explained and opened up and now she wants times to think... if she accepts me ill open up for life... if she leaves ill lose my self forever and close up forever. That I promise
New subscriber! In my opinion you don’t have to focus on being heartless. Just be very direct and being self conscious and practice self care! Right there, people will say you’re self centered! But fuck them!
ThankU!👍I subscribed, you are interesting. These tools are good. I am old, always suffered being oversensitive. I like being old, feelings are less dominant. But life is already so bleak, i don't want to kill my heart. I try to have a backup plan in case betrayal happens. Reading the comments WOW there's a lot of hurt people. We need to protect our heart
its easier to do this when you have someone in your life who loves you and wants the best for you... that way you dont seek to fill this emotional need with the wrong people.
I was friendly nice to others but over time they bully me they step over me And when i turned heartless or cold hearted my classmates said they miss the old me but i said i will not bring back the old me this is me now u guys bullied me in the past and now u miss my old self they miss my old me now but in the past they didnt care about me being nice or anything about ny self tbh now i showed them who i truly am.
Hey buddy.. i wanna say something... M tooo nice... I mean too nice.. some people say i have no self respect, but the thing is i always help everyone, talk with everyone, even ny parents wont take me as their child... They always try to control me like they know that i will always agree with them. M tired, i literally cry every day... But i dont want to more... I want to be strong 🙂
The thing only matters for me is my friends and my pet dog one outsider tried to become my friend and I become very attached to her but then she shows her true colors it hurts so much and now I wanted to become emotionless fellow who only cared for her true fee friends no one except them but now I will behave cold in front of them too
I came here since Ive been hearing that If I be nice for all my life I wont get in life so and Im just a nice guy but I keep experiencing thoughts that I should be more mean but I really cant so I came to here to atleast get a knowing on how to do it.
Im rlly tired i tried all the things to keep our relationship,I help people with depression but i just knew they pranked me, I help people more than my self, and Even tho im tired my friends force me to stay in my relationship i have 0 ass freedom
I used to be like this before. Unfortunately, I met a girl and become my girl friend for 3 years and then I realized I started to feel pain. I become emotionally weak and easily get distracted. I wish i could go back to the days where I don't care to anyone and I don't feel pain especially in terms of commitment.
I can understand it's really hard when people devalue you , don't worry you aren't useless they are just senseless to call a 12 year old useless. You are valuable just never believe and accept what they are calling you. Because when I was small my parents used to devalue me and I accepted that and believed what they used to call me later in 17-18 years I started to understand none of them where true my parents were just trying ruin my study and my reputation by telling my teacher and my friends that I was mentally ill. I got to know through a psychiatrist that I was normal also got to know that the problem was with my parents they were narcissists.
Don't give up....Your very important! You deserve to be treated like nothing less than a queen! I would NEVER say your useless, I wouldn't even think it. I wish I personally knew you!
im so sick and tired of people in todays society.This is so fucked up,these people bro destroyed my 5 month relationship with my gf.At this point i just wanna be a heartless person
Its so hard to be heartless when u decide not to get attached and the other person gets attached to u. You get attached too because of ur vibe and then they fuck it up and leave u one day because they are not nice just stupid idiots wanting attention
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How do I distance myself from toxic parents while living in the same house with them?.....And they're Asian so I don't have personal room and no door can be locked..... It is near to impossible to distance myself from them..... I don't know how to do this... Any advices..?
How to be a heartless person:
1. No small talks
2. Distance yourself from toxic people
3. No attachments
4. Focus on yourself
5. Accept the consequences
6. Suppress your emotions
7. Practice for perfection
8. No means No
I’m too nice to people and people in school don’t take me seriously. I’m tired of that life and your helping me to become someone better. Thankyou.
Yeah if your nice people just dont look at you seriously that sucks
same
Yes, I agree. I have been used and manipulated so many times and I'm just so done
Omg we have the same story people at my school that me like a little kid because I'm to kind
you know what, yes, this actualy happened to me too, my all friends only come when they need any help . they never ever take my decisions, all of them are like mean to me. and this vedio now make me heartless and i will show them who am i really.
I am not heartless but I learned to use my heart less..I miss those moments when I was nice!
I understand… 😔
Why? Being mean is super cute!
@@perryh.5306 Being heartless doesn't mean being mean.
@@perryh.5306 for masochists lmao
Being nice is good but sometimes they take advantage of you, you should be heartless because u learn that being nice wont always make u a good person
Sometimes its better to be heartless or cold hearted so they will not take advantage of you because being nice all the time leads to them always thinking ur nice to them they will know your weakness and use your own weakness against you.
I just want to stop caring, that everyone will leave me alone.
Same
@@prettyshirabu6450 same
same me 2
Same..
same...
Man, this guy's been hurt so bad, I empathize, I feel his pain cause its exactly what I'm living right now!
It's a demonstration gosh!
To anyone telling us we shouldn't make this decision, I am here to tell you we do not give one fuck. We have things to do, and our emotions are in the way.
There are not only brothers but sisters too who are here to become a heartless... The heart that cares none
Heartless Sisters are the best!
Why the hell was I still nice to people who literally want to destroy my life!!!
Well said. Do not get too attached and you should be fine!
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How not to be get too attached?
@@randomdailyclipsz just accept the fact! Whoever comes, goes one day...be the most selfish responsibly
Stop being the nice guy, stop being to nice to people. It's much more better to be a heartless and cold because no one likes the nice guy anymore
Yea your right
I’m really kind, I help people and I always have to agree. But people always use me and walk over me. I wanna be this strong person who doesn’t give a dang bout anyone or what they say and being able to say no. I love these videos thank you men influencer❤️
You have to be kind only to selected people who treat you with respect 🧐 and not to care about the rest
dude thats fk your fk but i guess thats how it goes sometimes
real
ive been called heartless plenty of times, the key thing to remember is always ask "will this benefit me" if not dont do it or dont care, the key to not caring is just telling yourself only u matter and just do it, stop caring, it can really be that easy. I think most people on here are overthinkers just stop overthinking everything and every opinion
I agree! If I was with you...ONLY you would matter and everything I do...would benefit you either in some way or entirely!
Watching this while crying alone
Same
I’m watching this while my tears wont stop falling.Thank you so much for making me feel better
I am not surprised by some heartless people sometimes thats why the world we living in is not peace
I agree with you. I get attached with people easily especially to the toxic ones no matter how much i try they are still on my mind it's frustrates me. Well, please make more videos related to this ❤️
I will! Subscribe for instant access to new content :)
On point. Frankly I hate having emotions. Good or bad, they both tend to distract and mess you up eventually
This is just a warning...
That is actually a sign of a mental health issue.
It isn't normal for emotions to distract you from your daily life.
What if those are not emotions but those are symptoms?
1. Don't indulge in small talks
2 Don't trust anybody
3. Don't talk too much
4 react less
5 distant yourself and stay away isolated from negative and toxic people
6 focus on what matters to you
7 Don't care abt anyone and anything
8 stay unbothered
9 no attachments
10 Don't open up and show your emotions
11 focus on yourself not others
The fact that i searched for this video💔
I needed this, bro. I’m rly rly tired of living that life opening up on people and being friendly and shit. I’ve been friendly all my life and people didn’t like the way I am and the next thing you know they begin to bully me, make fun of me and treating me like an fucking animal. But I wanted to change myself and now I made it happen. This video REALLY helped me out a lot, bro. Keep posting videos like this!! 😈
🔺☑️☑️💓
Same things happened to me too... I almost 😒became cold hearted .. But that bad habits of mine of caring about what other people might feel caz of me... That feeling just not leaving me alone...
And I got really close to my someone who wants me to revive my old self that nice and kind useless self...I don't want to be... I feel like I'm losing again I'm losing to that person 😞... I don't know how to suppress all this feeling... And I just hate it.. 😣
I'm a woman but I love these videos. People who are too empathetic are targets for abusers and users in life and we have to learn that the hard way, unfortunately.
You just explained my life but small change I am hurting people and cheating without any emotions I am happy without emotions now they are waiting waiting waiting for me which reminds my past. but I am heartless now I become toxic I am not even showing mercy at all this is my life I live my life according to my rules.
I WATCHED YOUR VIDEO TODAY MARKED ALL YOUR WORDS . ILL BE BACK AFTER 10 DAYS AND ILL LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH THESE POINTS MADE ME HEARTLESS OR I CONTROLLED MYSELF ,, ITS HIGH TIME NOW LETS THINK ABOUT MYSELF NOW... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SUCH VIDEO
You are welcome! Keep me updated :)
I’m nice to a fault and get constantly passed over. Like I’m invisible. People have no problem making me their last choice. I’m tired of it, and I’m fucking angry. Thank you for being my first step to being a real Man.
Being emotionless,cold and heartless is a defence mechanism so you wont get hurt anymore from toxic people.
I m a woman n this helps me a lot . In ur intro adress sisters also besides brothers
haha welcome sister!
Bro, your eyes shine like a star! Hugs from Brazil! God bless you!
This is great. Finally a series of videos in which the author is actually to the point and is not saying something to the tune of "there's no need to become this because blah blah blah". Great.
Thank you. I like to be straightforward and actually help :)
i love your videos about cold hearted iam naturally a cold guy but then turned nice for people but they hurted and betrayed me a lot now once again iam becaming cold again thats what make me suit thanks for your videos i watch your videos everytime.
There has to be a balance. Life is better when ppl care more. I believe in a higher power. Also it works both ways. One has to be prepared for ppl to be like that back so what’s best? I believe - do the right good thing and you will be rewarded in the end.:)
wow theres alot of hurt and anger in your eyes. Bless you
i like how you talk and how you present the idea in really clear way, thx it was useful to me
Most of these are great advice but the "suppress your emotions" is toxic af
Meninfluencer said that you should suppress the emotions so it doesn't hinder your dreams.
But if you suppress your emotions, you will have high stress levels and worse thinking patterns which litterally means you will have bad mental health.
So if you suppress your emotions, your bad mental health will hinder your dreams.
The right thing to do is to validate those emotions, have good coping mechanisms, have good habits and boundaries, and use logic.
It's also good to find an environment or community that is good for you.
I hurt her and became heartless after years she's divorced with 2 kids and we fell for each other again but I ran away and hurt her because I'm scared of emotions and she got so hurt. Then I spoke to her again and explained and opened up and now she wants times to think... if she accepts me ill open up for life... if she leaves ill lose my self forever and close up forever. That I promise
You're weird and wild
i love it 😈😈😈😈😈
People say I’m too nice and they never take me serious when i tell then I’m not okay (mad or sad) and I get laughed at because I’m “too funny” 😞
New subscriber! In my opinion you don’t have to focus on being heartless. Just be very direct and being self conscious and practice self care! Right there, people will say you’re self centered! But fuck them!
Smiling will make your guard down even if it's only little
-Ayanokoji
I was really hurt today, after I listened to his wisdom, I felt so much better ..thank you.
ThankU!👍I subscribed, you are interesting. These tools are good. I am old, always suffered being oversensitive. I like being old, feelings are less dominant. But life is already so bleak, i don't want to kill my heart. I try to have a backup plan in case betrayal happens. Reading the comments WOW there's a lot of hurt people. We need to protect our heart
bigest drawback of heartless is you will become selfish and lonely no social life so it can work on short term not long term
True working on this now.
nice 💪🏻
its easier to do this when you have someone in your life who loves you and wants the best for you... that way you dont seek to fill this emotional need with the wrong people.
The people in the comments showing gratitude have a heart
I was friendly nice to others but over time they bully me they step over me
And when i turned heartless or cold hearted my classmates said they miss the old me but i said i will not bring back the old me this is me now u guys bullied me in the past and now u miss my old self they miss my old me now but in the past they didnt care about me being nice or anything about ny self tbh now i showed them who i truly am.
Hey buddy.. i wanna say something... M tooo nice... I mean too nice.. some people say i have no self respect, but the thing is i always help everyone, talk with everyone, even ny parents wont take me as their child... They always try to control me like they know that i will always agree with them. M tired, i literally cry every day... But i dont want to more... I want to be strong 🙂
When i see someone died i just don't want feel hurt inside
Really good one bro, your video is really direct and to the point
Hopefully you could make more videos about mentality
Awesomeee 🔥
Good video bro
I really need this type of video
More videos coming. Stay tuned ;)
The thing only matters for me is my friends and my pet dog one outsider tried to become my friend and I become very attached to her but then she shows her true colors it hurts so much and now I wanted to become emotionless fellow who only cared for her true fee friends no one except them but now I will behave cold in front of them too
Thank you for your work! Great advice 🙏
No I wanna just lose the human attraction or just the attraction like I hate how easy it is to fall in love I just lose that ability
I’m tryna figure this out too
Thanks bro this was helpful
Who else feels like a loner?
If you ever need a talk I’m a good listener I also could use a good listener
feels good embrace it
I came here since Ive been hearing that If I be nice for all my life I wont get in life so and Im just a nice guy but I keep experiencing thoughts that I should be more mean but I really cant so I came to here to atleast get a knowing on how to do it.
I searched how to become heartless in fight (best video) 😀😀
I am done bu all peaple 😭😭and now I've decided to be heartless and be a better version of myself so I've decided to join the heartless way. 😀🥺🥺
Im rlly tired i tried all the things to keep our relationship,I help people with depression but i just knew they pranked me, I help people more than my self, and Even tho im tired my friends force me to stay in my relationship i have 0 ass freedom
Tysm for the vid ~ keep making💖
Satisfied so Subscribed 👍🏽
These are definitely your best videos
thank you for this video, very useful advice
Thanks bro it's was very very helpful
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Thanks alot it was much needed❤
Thank you for watching!
I already hate pretty much everything in this life...
I am to nice and rule following that I feel bad and hate myself when I misses a chance to help someone😢
I used to be like this before. Unfortunately, I met a girl and become my girl friend for 3 years and then I realized I started to feel pain. I become emotionally weak and easily get distracted. I wish i could go back to the days where I don't care to anyone and I don't feel pain especially in terms of commitment.
my mom called me useless all the time i'm just 12 i want to give up
Don't give up pray to god! It'll be okay!
I can understand it's really hard when people devalue you , don't worry you aren't useless they are just senseless to call a 12 year old useless. You are valuable just never believe and accept what they are calling you. Because when I was small my parents used to devalue me and I accepted that and believed what they used to call me later in 17-18 years I started to understand none of them where true my parents were just trying ruin my study and my reputation by telling my teacher and my friends that I was mentally ill. I got to know through a psychiatrist that I was normal also got to know that the problem was with my parents they were narcissists.
Don't give up....Your very important! You deserve to be treated like nothing less than a queen! I would NEVER say your useless, I wouldn't even think it. I wish I personally knew you!
I Love Small talk
Thanks a lot sir. You are helping me a lot. Really love you.God Bless You
Thank you! Really appreciate it :)
Just ignore people 🙂
🙈
I just wont to heartless because next year is my collage n I don't want to be bullied I am a very talkative person
You could talk to me all day, I'd eagerly listen!
Remember: You can’t block out unhappiness without blocking out happiness
I just want to stop getting my heartbroken left and right
Ngl I love bros eyes I wish I could have that cold look in eye
I'll be using all of ur video things..
Pls more video like this
1:14
I’m way too nice to people and I never receive the same energy I just want to be heartless
You should! Being heartless is cute and attractive!
Just accept that or fake imagine that u've liver,kidney, lungs but not heart .....wow
thank u so much
This viedo helped me ❤
Thank you for watching!
When I be nice person all people around doesn’t care how u fucking feel. They kind when they need u only. So don’t trust them
Yah I want to do this and I’m trying but my friends say brooo stop it and laugh
Stop hanging out with them
@@fovo4715 yah true
I need to look at myself in the mirror every day, so I can be cold and heartless.
think about death situations u will be come heartless
Plz do more video about these
sure what topic would you like me to cover next!
Please do more about cold heart emotionless heartless videos
Thanks a lot❤️ bless you
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Useful video
Do you think it’s a good idea to be heartless to certain people and some people you can pretend to be happy
If it is beneficial for you, then yes
@@Meninfluencer when your heartless you have no emotion right
bro said do small talks to become cold and now he said don't do small talks to become heartless like dayumn man 💀
Legit truth
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Yes love it
im so sick and tired of people in todays society.This is so fucked up,these people bro destroyed my 5 month relationship with my gf.At this point i just wanna be a heartless person
How to become heartless:
1. Go to surgeon
2. Ask them to remove your heart
Hah, nice
Go to a doctor and ask them to remove the abusers heart soul and spirit
I wish Queen Regina from OUAT existed. I'll gladly let her rip my heart out.
If you want to be heartless ignoring that and shut up and let them talk
No 2 by that I should be alone I guess
Its so hard to be heartless when u decide not to get attached and the other person gets attached to u. You get attached too because of ur vibe and then they fuck it up and leave u one day because they are not nice just stupid idiots wanting attention
New subscriber 😁
Family members are the worst 🤬
No kidding
@@yazidellen7269 shut up
I'm just tired as being seen as "yeah that's just me"