I would like to see a video on How to be coldhearted as a woman and how to get away with it. Perhaps an experience you had or someone who had a woman that intimidated them because of how she came off as coldhearted. It would get you a lot of views, open up your range of audience, and isn't a straightforward hot topic on RUclips so it could potentially make your channel pop off. The last video I looked up the RUclipsr just talked about relationships and that's interesting and all, but not what I was looking for.
In all honesty this is all the way misleading my guy . It's very unhealthy for anybody to follow this It's unhealthy mentally and most importantly emotionally so I hope you would put this video down if you really care about the people that are actually following this
1. Make decision and stick to it 2. Cut off contact 3. Short communication 4. Be direct 5. Don't express your thougth and fellings 6. Logic over emotion 7. Remind your success 8. Turn your anger into fuel 9. Keep yourself busy 10. Focus on your loved ones 11. Strong self care routine 12. Get help from trusted ones 13. Don't be cold hearted towards the world
Agree. I'm pleasant now but I have changed . Especially society portrays women as being nicer than men I'm sick of that 😊 now I'm cold hearted got to focus on yourself 😄 fuck people
To all of you “heartless “ people.... stay exactly the way you are! You’re way ahead and you’ll avoid so many problems, issues, and drama! I hate being nice and having a heart! I do not want to care about anyone but myself and my success!
I'm just tired of being to sensitive when someone says something to me that I don't like and I'm tired of being mean to my little brother all the time and I'm tired of repeating myself when people can't hear me and I keep my thoughts to myself and I need to stop being goofy all the time and stop holding my head down and learn how to control my emotions and stop being offended all the time and if someone looks at me a certain way I have to give them the cold look I'm only doing this because I want to be respected by others but I don't want to be cold towards my parents
@@nemplayer1776 Be good to your loved ones, I E. Parents and siblings...because they are the only ones who care about you. It's difficult having two faces, but it's necessary in this world. Being cold has helped me become more efficient at work. But as expected, coworkers have become cold with me, too. And that's great in my book. Some lady got all hurt and asked me why I haven't been talking to her. I was being kind to her because she's the mother of a good female friend of mine. But now I'm like eff that. I wasn't getting anything from her anyway. My new motto shall be, "if you haven't done anything for me lately, I won't waste my time or energy on you."
True but also I wouldn’t be friends with such people and never give them my friendship. So if you crave for meaningful relationships deep inside, you’ll miss out a lot by adopting this perspective, not to mention that it won’t make u happy to be this way
honestly, i’m tired of people telling me i’m so cold and i don’t try or care, or that i care too much. im going to stick to what i love and be cold with the people who don’t mean shit to me
Well emotions are weaknesses. Same as empathy. You have to do anything in order to stay on the top and in control. No matter what force you use and no matter how many things or lives you destroy. I learned that a long time ago. Empathy is the biggest enemy in the way to success
I have been abused my whole Life because of a lack of coldness...i was too much cool and warm hearted...then i have been spoted by many kinds of abusers and trapped in abusive situations of all kinds...
As someone who is cold hearted, it is NOT cool and shouldn’t be considered a personality trait to focus on. I used to be a very joyful person, had many friends, a girlfriend, and a great relationship with my family. I got cheated on, thrown in jail because my “friends” turned on me to save their own skin and threw me into a situation that I had no part in. I became distrustful, hateful, and emotionless. Being cold hearted isn’t something that happens overnight, it’s a long process of heart break, broken trust, being lost spiritually, being broken mentally, and having a feeling of hate every moment your awake. Do NOT chase this path. The path to this state of mind is long, dark, full of hurt, and turns you into someone no one wants to be around.
I want people whom I know to hate me as much they can idc I become a cold blooded coz it's pain inside me every fuckin day it's pain but nir now I would be kind to others but not with the ones I knew
I was a kind sweet good person to others, i did care about people. But i always get the opposite of what i give. I have always tried my best but it always turned out bad. I am done with people pleasing, saying "no" to others for yourself is good.
it is cool dude wtf u on about been like that since i was 11 got treated like shit by friends and family members feels good to be cold hearted having people not want to be around me feels nice
I'll turn cold hearted from today. I'm tired of caring for people who don't deserve it. I'm the one who's been hurt always, they seem to look happy as before. Idk why but I can't stop loving people once I get close to them. I have to get rid of this.
Does being cold hearted hurt others, I’m tired of having emotions and being hypersensitivity I just wished I never cared what people said or if they yell at me etc
Don't take no shit from anybody. Remember, if someone cusses at you or wishes you are dead just turn that into nothing. Let it come through one ear and go out through the other. Don't overreact to small things that are said against you. Why do they have the right to judge you? They don't. Only God can judge us. So just ignore it. Don't react to it and keep going.
@@thatnerd7351 so what if you're sensetive asf like me that has someone always saying sh*t to me and i always take it personally I'm also a cancer btw it's impossible for me to just "take something through one ear and out the other"
Thanks for the video. I want to be a cold hearted person for the rest of my life forever. I have always been so nice and kind to everyone in my life but I was hurt every single time badly. When I was a little kid in school I was bullied and made fun of. No one wanted to become my friend. Throughout my teenage years I was rejected by every girl even though I did nothing wrong, all I needed was a girl who will truly love me for who I am and care for me. But because all these girls rejected me so many times. It really hurt my self esteem very much. Till this day I struggle to build self confidence. But now I am going to take the right step but become completely emotionless, heartless and cold hearted. I will never ever be a friend to anyone, I will never give attention to any girl, I will also not give any time to my family members except my mom and dad. I will not even talk to anyone unless i have to and its really necessary. Just going to focus on my goals and work towards becoming rich and successful.
You don't know how much you had helped me. People just coming and going and my heart can't take it. That's u wanna be a cold hearted. Thank you so much for all your help
It's so easy to Kill ur feelings 1.accept that everyone is going to die including yourself 2.imagine the death of people that u love the most and accept that 3.find a goal or a reason to survive ( in order to not feel bored and commit suicide) 4.empty ur mind and only think about ur goal 5.wake up early everyday and workout as hard as u can 6.spend the rest of the day working on your goal 7.make sure to be lonely and don't meet or call anyone 8.don't take any rest days instead work without stop cuz u enjoy what are u doing 9.your anger your hate your desire for revenge your bad experience your bad memories the black days that u went through that's your fuel and that's what keeps u going forward 10.never harm or take revenge from anyone cuz you are too busy working on your goal 11.suddenly u don't get mad on people cuz u barley notice their existence 12. Now u are very successful cold hearted and empty like a black hole 13.u will die lonely but peacefully and u will feel nothing cuz u forget how to feel
If you have to watch this video you aren't cold-hearted. Having a cold heart comes from rejection, heartbreak, disappointment etc. It's the feeling when you know your in this world by yourself and you go to war by yourself. It's the feeling when you dgaf about how anyone feels because the world didn't care about yours. Until you have sufficiently felt how cruel the world is you can't be cold.
Make your own decisions Minimize the contact Short communication Be direct Don't express your thoughts or feelings Logic over emotions Remind your success Turn your anger into fuel Keep yourself busy Focus on your loved once Self care routine Get help from trusted once Don't be cold hearted person to the world.
I needed this. I haven't exactly been feeling all that great and I have been through some rough stuff. But another reason that I needed this, is because I do not wish to have a girlfriend for the simple fact that I like being single. So I would rather be cold hearted towards every girl that speaks to me, and I don't care if it hurts them
I can't believe that I needed this video... Many ppl take advantage of me as I try to be too nice to them... It's not that I want to be a complete cold-hearted person but at least I can avoid ppl taking advantage of me :)
I am tired of being ill treated by the world and society because of my disabilities and more. Seeing this video helped me a lot. I am forever grateful and I feel a lot better.
You changed my life, a girl once dumped me and ever since I have never recovered. Thanks to your incredibly easy and comprehensible steps I was able to gain a lot of authority among the females (and even the boys who used to bully me a lot for liking fortnite). I am now a huge respectable person in my school and I'm now the coolest fornite gamer, cold and heartless I advance and destroy hearts. No one can stop me, not one soul can. Women want me every single day, they are thirsty for my bodily fluids. Thanks man, I really appreciate the help you have given me. My heart is cold, my moves are bold, I rule the world.
Can't believe i am here to learn how to be cold people around me always treat me like i don't even exist and i was such sweet to everyone even their break down me but enough is enough i should stop all sweet words and sweet behaviour Let's Play along
I just want to become a Cold Hearted Person cause as I am young most of the people don't take me seriously, they just disrespect me and my opinions, I want to become a cold Hearted person for those...until they don't realise it I will remain a Cold person.. (accept for my Crush)
Me too, I'm being good to everyone and they didn't take it seriously, in my house you will smell the pure toxicity from my aunties, i really hate them try mending others businesses, they talk even I'm not talking to them, but heyy army! I will be cold to everyone except BTS
@@TLHPlays well...sorry i didn't read your Comment, Yeah, So now i don't have any interest in my Crush, And idgaf, And finally i am a Cold Person Rn, And i am Happy about that😊
I am tired of being cheerful but in one word people call me is cheap. So here I am to lose myself. To control myself and to lose how I actually wanna be.
Im extremely soft hearted. Im caring and sensitive towards others feelings and always making people smile but when someone hurts me or does something to upset me, I beat myself over it. I hate that so much that I end up crying. (I know I’m a baby) but I’m definitely trying to improve myself
1 ─ 0:43 - make your decision and stick to it 2 ─ 1:58 - cut off contact 3 ─ 2:24 - short communication 4 ─ 2:50 - be direct 5 ─ 3:34 - don't express your thoughts and feelings 6 ─ 4:28 - logic over emotions 7 ─ 5:00 - remind your success 8 ─ 6:00 - turn your anger into fuel 9 ─ 6:58 - keep yourself busy 10 ─ 7:28 - focus on your loved ones 11 ─ 7:56 - strong self care routine 12 ─ 8:48 - get help from trusted ones 13 ─ 9:27 - Dont be cold hearted towards the world
Honestly thanks, my sister treat me terrible but I was very nice to her from the very start, now my parents only believe her as they think I am just trouble! Now, I can finally stop this kindness!
It all started when my ex put me in a friend-zone and coming to find out she’s getting double pounded by a guy named pookie rayray tyrone. Shit gutted me for some time. But now I meditate, hit the gym 7- days a week even when I’m off work and when I leave from work, focus on manifesting my reality, having 2+ streams of income and reading books on the daily. Best decision I made besides going to the bar drowning my sorrows and heartaches Turn that pain into gains. Keep it movin’ keep that mothafucker rollin’ 🤘🏾
I was a nice person. I was the fun guy. The good friend. Never had trouble making contact with anyone but what was the nature of each relationship you might ask ? At first, great. After a while, disrespects settles in. Boundaries crossed happens all the time and when you get mad at people for it they tell you shit like "don't take it personally so gaslighting you in a sense while never dreaming of doing that to any other person. As a man, listen carefully. NEVER EVER EVER COMMUNICATE YOUR THOUGHTS OR FEELINGS TO ANYONE. Not girls, it will kill attraction instantly. Don't talk about yourself to people because most don't care. Reciprocate only when given love but do it wisely. Never ever beg for attention, friendship, relationship, sex. You will be used, humiliated and laughed at regardless of how you look..
To the people watching this, don't try to be emotionless. It is a human character which we will and must experience, no matter if you like it or not. Also instead, you should appreciate life and whatever you have and strive to work hard and achieve your goals. The idea of being an emotionless or 'cold hearted' person may seem attractive. But in the long run when you grow older you will regret the the years you wasted being closed off. Part of enjoying your life is feeling, and it should not be seen as a threat, but a bonus point- think of it as seasoning to your pizza. If there is toxic people in your life dont let them affect you or turn you emotionless, instead just cut them off in all ways possible. So dont believe what you see on the internet, these are just glorified versions of loneliness and solitude. Hope you make the right decisions!😊😊
Being invisible around the girl i loved so much and couldnt do anythin about it because of all the barriers made me numb . So numb i can feel it myself and get depressed about the reason why am i so cold hearted . Therapy don’t work
Same. I've came to realize that I'm too nice to people and they think they can walk all over me and have for along time. I'm tired of it and I want respect. I hate being such an emotional person because people only care about me when they need someone to talk to but there never there when I need them. I'm tired of the shit I go through. I feel like I have no other choice then to be cold to them so I'll earn some respect.
I want to be cold hearted so the people leave me alone and dont stick to me that much. I just really dont want to make anymore bond with any of the people cause the more bond one make the more its mean to get hurted. At the last everyone will leave either hurting you or leaving the world. I just dont want to have any pain, I hate pains. I dont want to people get attached with me neither I get myself attached with anyone. It hurts. So better to be cold hearted and live with your ownself.
Ive been nice to too many people and they never showed respect for me.. Got rejected 2 times.. I am 100% sure that all my friends are fake. Time to become cold hearted and make everyone afraid of me
Thank you so much I needed this you just gotta do what you gotta do. Felt good telling my niece and sister how it is and telling them they gotta go too. Feels great I'm sick of being nice and they walk all over me.
How to be cold hearted? The answer is easy. Fall in love with someone who will break your heart,trust and spirit,and watch how they will shatter your heart because they didn't receive love from their parents.F boys are perfect for that,find a narc,cry for 2-3 years,and you'll be cold hearted guaranteed
He broke up with me after 2yrs of being together, always trying to find excuses to run away from me. I’m glad he did tho. It’s his loss. I need to focus on me now, thank you for this video, I needed it!
but my experience with liars, betrays and people telling me I am weak good for nothing and being misunderstood made me this way I never want to be a cold hearted but people around me made me this way
Thankyou for this my life was really a mess having high family expectation, toxic friend circle, attempted suicide now little by little I'm trying to change my weaker side .
I'm so tired of my happy self because they can fool me easily, hate me, leave me because they know that I always forgive them..... I'm talkative but I think it's annoying them so I'm glad I found this video 🙂
Man thank you, that last bit hit hard, I'm just upset with the world and I just have a habit of smiling all the time but it's fake AF :( I wanna be more real but really i need some self care - thanks again
I get you.. focus on your own priorities first. Looking happy on the outside seems cool and the right thing to do because you want to keep your feelings and emotions to yourself. Gowever, it's never good for yourself in the long term. You got this :) - Thank you for opening up.
Thank you I appreciate please keep making videos I came across this and took notes . I’m fed up with how much I held on to and now slowly but surely the world will see a better version of me . I know it takes time but I believe in my self now
After spending over a year in the attic, attending classes in the attic and only come down to get supplies, skipped two 4th of July, thanks giving, and new year's eve? I'd say I'm cold hearted enough. I even act like I don't hear anyone. I never blink when they wave there hands in front of me to get my attention.
make logical decisions Remind your success Keep yourself busy Strong self care Turn anger into fuel Listen to people more successful than you on your lane
I'm a cold heard woman but very warm to the person i love . People are always afraid of my words because I know how to hurt them . It's not my choice that i become like this more like my bad childhood make me. I want to give everything i have only to one person so I'm happy how i am
I typed on RUclips « how to stop being cold-hearted » and ended up watching the exact opposite of what I wanted, but I guess it made me realize that I may not be too unlucky to have a cold personality because many wants to become cold-hearted . I’m still trying to get a bit more sensitive though, so that people around me can feel more comfortable with me, can anyone help me with that?
I have became this way because I wanted to love a girl who never loved me. Despite her being authentic and honest to me my heart was shattered when she told me she never loved me. Because of this immense betrayal and pain I slit my wrists. I just had to let out all the past years of pain, shame, regret and anger. The scars on my arms still remain and I show them like a rocker does with their tattoos. I don’t give a fuck about other people’s opinions about me anymore. I am the only master of my destiny. To stop, think about myself and change. Over my 25 years I have learned that most people in your friend group are fake and selfish. It is best to rely on trusted family and most importantly yourself. Most friends tend to be out for themselves and would likely turn a blind eye if you get seriously hurt. Screw them. I stand alone and will soon become the best man I can be-through my own personal volition.
I wanna be cold hearted bcz of someone who always leaves me on seen on text and always makes fun of me (like I have no feelings whatever he says...) I will try all this steps and avoid my friend so that he can regret what he did !
Thanks man i really neede this im going through tough times and i need to learn to be cold hearted so i dont always have to say yes to everything and not stand up to myself
I just want to be cold hearted because...I want to be left alone and more importantly,I always sacrifice for people but no one does the same for me 🥺😭😭😭
Cold hearted emotions is a generic term involving too much emotional response. I believe that it is easier to coin the terms Emotionally Unavailable or Robotically Inclined.
I used to be so cold hearted, the past year I wanted to be more friendly this was one vulnerable year but now I’m having a tough time being cold hearted and it sucks
I’m tired of caring. It’s only made me suffer. For 13 years I’ve felt so much pain and anger that I don’t know what being happy feels like anymore. Recently i was happy for a few months because of a girl. She made me happy. But what I’ve learned in life is that whenever happiness is destroyed it’s always followed by the surge of anger and resentment. I gave her everything I had and she left me. Now it’s time to leave humanity behind and honestly I’m sick of humans. I’m going to get revenge on this world and this is the only way to do it . I don’t need anyone anymore. I don’t want anyone anymore.I’m 13 for Gods sake If I want something I’ll get it myself and I won’t lift a finger for ANYONE even if they’re dying right in front of me. This is who I am now.
🤔 It’s odd that people actually want to be “cold hearted” 😳 ..I think the better way to rephrase this mentality would be “how to not give people your energy that don’t deserve it” or “how to not bothered” lol
Kind hearted person here, looking to convert to being cold hearted. I can be cold hearted sometimes, I'm just so tired of people, I have no hope left for them.
Lol I searched "how to stop being cold to others " , as a cold person to all people trying to be cold just be yourself and don't get affect of what others are saying and don't give a shit to them , you know yourself better than anyone else they don't need to tell you how are YOU , that's enough y'all don't need become cold person it looks easy you might look cool or think that if you're cold person than you won't be hurt but it's wrong it hurts me when I hurt my loved ones because of my cold behaviour , Ignore them , no one likes to be with me and I ain't complaining because it's obvious I never show or express my feelings and emotions to anyone ,so it always eats me from inside it's really difficult when people whom you care for tell you , you're mean or rude it's true I don't care or feel offended because as I don't give a shit but still it hurts when your loved ones say this . We all are living things at last we all have feelings and we all get hurt it's just some people shows and express it and some don't . Cold people are just used to these comments and people that they don't get offended . I was also Normal person before but I just became cold growing up .
Thank you Bro this helped me so much... My brothers just hurt me earlier so that's why I came here. Well done Good Job please continue making these kind of contents
I just want to get my shit together and reach my goals. Can't do that if i'm constantly pleasing others and think of others. I have to do the best thing for myself and at this moment it's to freeze my heart. Maybe in a few years i'll allow myself to defrost but not now.
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I would like to see a video on How to be coldhearted as a woman and how to get away with it. Perhaps an experience you had or someone who had a woman that intimidated them because of how she came off as coldhearted. It would get you a lot of views, open up your range of audience, and isn't a straightforward hot topic on RUclips so it could potentially make your channel pop off. The last video I looked up the RUclipsr just talked about relationships and that's interesting and all, but not what I was looking for.
In all honesty this is all the way misleading my guy . It's very unhealthy for anybody to follow this It's unhealthy mentally and most importantly emotionally so I hope you would put this video down if you really care about the people that are actually following this
9,
1. Make decision and stick to it
2. Cut off contact
3. Short communication
4. Be direct
5. Don't express your thougth and fellings
6. Logic over emotion
7. Remind your success
8. Turn your anger into fuel
9. Keep yourself busy
10. Focus on your loved ones
11. Strong self care routine
12. Get help from trusted ones
13. Don't be cold hearted towards the world
well done! :)
Meninfluencer well done brother :))
Thanks bruh you saved my time
Did you just copy the life guide tips video on how to be cold hearted cause it's really pretty same actually
ruclips.net/video/qklL_UxzzWE/видео.html
have to freeze this heart now, glad I came here
🥶 💙
Same here
Same
@@Leahwalsh25 hi army💜
I just wanna be cold hearted so that people could leave me tf alone because I'm tired of their bullshit and their toxicity.
Agree. I'm pleasant now but I have changed . Especially society portrays women as being nicer than men I'm sick of that 😊 now I'm cold hearted got to focus on yourself 😄 fuck people
Same here ✋ But- hey blink :D
Agree. Most people are draining vampires. I really can't deal with anybody lol except I love positive and funny people. 😉 ruthless it is
@Danjotir Najatar shut up
@Danjotir Najatar you are reposting the same comment that nobody cares about and you're doing it for attention
To all of you “heartless “ people.... stay exactly the way you are! You’re way ahead and you’ll avoid so many problems, issues, and drama! I hate being nice and having a heart! I do not want to care about anyone but myself and my success!
Jesus can't throw me in hell for being heartless these days!!
I'm just tired of being to sensitive when someone says something to me that I don't like and I'm tired of being mean to my little brother all the time and I'm tired of repeating myself when people can't hear me and I keep my thoughts to myself and I need to stop being goofy all the time and stop holding my head down and learn how to control my emotions and stop being offended all the time and if someone looks at me a certain way I have to give them the cold look I'm only doing this because I want to be respected by others but I don't want to be cold towards my parents
Fuck no. I'm cold hearted and I struggle to find a reason to keep going. What am I even living for if I can't care for anyone?
@@nemplayer1776 Be good to your loved ones, I E. Parents and siblings...because they are the only ones who care about you. It's difficult having two faces, but it's necessary in this world. Being cold has helped me become more efficient at work. But as expected, coworkers have become cold with me, too. And that's great in my book. Some lady got all hurt and asked me why I haven't been talking to her. I was being kind to her because she's the mother of a good female friend of mine. But now I'm like eff that. I wasn't getting anything from her anyway. My new motto shall be, "if you haven't done anything for me lately, I won't waste my time or energy on you."
True but also I wouldn’t be friends with such people and never give them my friendship. So if you crave for meaningful relationships deep inside, you’ll miss out a lot by adopting this perspective, not to mention that it won’t make u happy to be this way
It’s time to shut my heart off. Been hurt to many times. Great advice, thank you 🙏🏻
best of luck! Glad I can help you :)
Same here don't want to get hurt anymore I am just tired of getting hurt and rejected
@@Aavash_Purple same bruhh
same, can't deal with it anymore
Same dude I’m done w dees hoes
For ya’ll watching this video to get through your past i wish you a happy future ahead and forever as did i a long time ago...
Amazing message 🔥✨
This video helped me, cause I’ve been nice for so long and I want to be taken seriously and people can be afraid of me.
LEVI KINGS You got this!!
Just don't take shit when people test u, done. Fucking simple
Same people keep hurting me and I'm too nice Imma put my priorities first
Levi, are u a aot fan
I feel u man...people take advantage over me because im too kind...I always make a decision but I never stick to it...
turns out i'm already cold hearted
I needed this. This girl been wasting my time and I’ve had enough
same bro
Same here
hope y'all doing good now
Same
same
honestly, i’m tired of people telling me i’m so cold and i don’t try or care, or that i care too much. im going to stick to what i love and be cold with the people who don’t mean shit to me
Well emotions are weaknesses. Same as empathy. You have to do anything in order to stay on the top and in control. No matter what force you use and no matter how many things or lives you destroy.
I learned that a long time ago. Empathy is the biggest enemy in the way to success
Being cold hearted is my nature, glad to know I'm not alone
Lucky you
I don't wanna be heartless i just want to use my heart less.....this really help me thnx for this video👍
Great comment
I have been abused my whole Life because of a lack of coldness...i was too much cool and warm hearted...then i have been spoted by many kinds of abusers and trapped in abusive situations of all kinds...
Man i needed this. I haven’t been feeling good lately and been through some stuff. Thank you
Everything will get better soon trust me... best wishes ♥️🙏🏻
Meninfluencer Thank you so much❤️
I hope you're better now
@@klodinotfound not really man but thank you
How are you now?
As someone who is cold hearted, it is NOT cool and shouldn’t be considered a personality trait to focus on. I used to be a very joyful person, had many friends, a girlfriend, and a great relationship with my family. I got cheated on, thrown in jail because my “friends” turned on me to save their own skin and threw me into a situation that I had no part in. I became distrustful, hateful, and emotionless. Being cold hearted isn’t something that happens overnight, it’s a long process of heart break, broken trust, being lost spiritually, being broken mentally, and having a feeling of hate every moment your awake. Do NOT chase this path. The path to this state of mind is long, dark, full of hurt, and turns you into someone no one wants to be around.
So what is your solution for good people who always get hurt by others because of their good heart?
I want people whom I know to hate me as much they can idc I become a cold blooded coz it's pain inside me every fuckin day it's pain but nir now I would be kind to others but not with the ones I knew
I was a kind sweet good person to others, i did care about people. But i always get the opposite of what i give. I have always tried my best but it always turned out bad. I am done with people pleasing, saying "no" to others for yourself is good.
@@dice7743 You have a good heart… don’t lose it. Walk away from nasty ppl. You don’t need revenge. They will get their due through Life and Khama.
it is cool dude wtf u on about been like that since i was 11 got treated like shit by friends and family members feels good to be cold hearted having people not want to be around me feels nice
I'll turn cold hearted from today.
I'm tired of caring for people who don't deserve it. I'm the one who's been hurt always, they seem to look happy as before. Idk why but I can't stop loving people once I get close to them. I have to get rid of this.
Best of luck Anusha ♥️🙏🏻
@@Meninfluencer
thankyou :)
@Anusha k Me too. I'm so emotional and I'm tired. I want a heart of stone
Hey Anusha,any update on your cold hearted journey cause I need some experience before starting mine
Does being cold hearted hurt others, I’m tired of having emotions and being hypersensitivity I just wished I never cared what people said or if they yell at me etc
Just be yourself and don't take shit from people. Dat's a stupid question
Don't take no shit from anybody. Remember, if someone cusses at you or wishes you are dead just turn that into nothing. Let it come through one ear and go out through the other. Don't overreact to small things that are said against you. Why do they have the right to judge you? They don't. Only God can judge us. So just ignore it. Don't react to it and keep going.
@@ThatTurboProbe i agree with you overthinking is not always the solution
@@thatnerd7351 so what if you're sensetive asf like me that has someone always saying sh*t to me and i always take it personally I'm also a cancer btw it's impossible for me to just "take something through one ear and out the other"
@@cosmic1845 im a cancer too but astrology don't define who you are, if you stop caring about what others think of you you'll be happier trust me
i need to toughen up a bit im too kind w/ people and i get played like a fool. this is too much
You got this 💪🏻
Just start being more serious and stop taking life like its a joke
Thanks for the video. I want to be a cold hearted person for the rest of my life forever. I have always been so nice and kind to everyone in my life but I was hurt every single time badly. When I was a little kid in school I was bullied and made fun of. No one wanted to become my friend. Throughout my teenage years I was rejected by every girl even though I did nothing wrong, all I needed was a girl who will truly love me for who I am and care for me. But because all these girls rejected me so many times. It really hurt my self esteem very much. Till this day I struggle to build self confidence. But now I am going to take the right step but become completely emotionless, heartless and cold hearted. I will never ever be a friend to anyone, I will never give attention to any girl, I will also not give any time to my family members except my mom and dad. I will not even talk to anyone unless i have to and its really necessary. Just going to focus on my goals and work towards becoming rich and successful.
I agree with u
You don't know how much you had helped me.
People just coming and going and my heart can't take it. That's u wanna be a cold hearted.
Thank you so much for all your help
I am sorry to hear that! I am sure you will do well from now on, don’t get distracted and focus on protecting yourself :)
@@Meninfluencer thanks brother I feel so good
Thank you! You actually explain it in a good way, not how others see it as "rude" or "evil".
It's so easy to
Kill ur feelings
1.accept that everyone is going to die including yourself
2.imagine the death of people that u love the most and accept that
3.find a goal or a reason to survive ( in order to not feel bored and commit suicide)
4.empty ur mind and only think about ur goal
5.wake up early everyday and workout as hard as u can
6.spend the rest of the day working on your goal
7.make sure to be lonely and don't meet or call anyone
8.don't take any rest days instead work without stop cuz u enjoy what are u doing
9.your anger your hate your desire for revenge your bad experience your bad memories the black days that u went through that's your fuel and that's what keeps u going forward
10.never harm or take revenge from anyone cuz you are too busy working on your goal
11.suddenly u don't get mad on people cuz u barley notice their existence
12. Now u are very successful cold hearted and empty like a black hole
13.u will die lonely but peacefully and u will feel nothing cuz u forget how to feel
i just want to be friendless and die alone in my coffin...
i’m so warm hearted to people bc i thought to be a good and kind person no matter the circumstances
If you have to watch this video you aren't cold-hearted. Having a cold heart comes from rejection, heartbreak, disappointment etc. It's the feeling when you know your in this world by yourself and you go to war by yourself. It's the feeling when you dgaf about how anyone feels because the world didn't care about yours. Until you have sufficiently felt how cruel the world is you can't be cold.
Make your own decisions
Minimize the contact
Short communication
Be direct
Don't express your thoughts or feelings
Logic over emotions
Remind your success
Turn your anger into fuel
Keep yourself busy
Focus on your loved once
Self care routine
Get help from trusted once
Don't be cold hearted person to the world.
I needed this. I haven't exactly been feeling all that great and I have been through some rough stuff.
But another reason that I needed this, is because I do not wish to have a girlfriend for the simple fact that I like being single. So I would rather be cold hearted towards every girl that speaks to me, and I don't care if it hurts them
I understand... you don’t have to force anything! Glad I could help Garath ♥️
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I can't believe that I needed this video... Many ppl take advantage of me as I try to be too nice to them... It's not that I want to be a complete cold-hearted person but at least I can avoid ppl taking advantage of me :)
I was nice but everyone starts to play my feelings ....thank God man you upload this video 🤝
Bless you! Protect yourself and allow yourself to heal the pain :)
@@Meninfluencer thanks a lot for uploading it
This helps me alot
Same here
Yes brotha
I am tired of being ill treated by the world and society because of my disabilities and more. Seeing this video helped me a lot. I am forever grateful and I feel a lot better.
You changed my life, a girl once dumped me and ever since I have never recovered. Thanks to your incredibly easy and comprehensible steps I was able to gain a lot of authority among the females (and even the boys who used to bully me a lot for liking fortnite). I am now a huge respectable person in my school and I'm now the coolest fornite gamer, cold and heartless I advance and destroy hearts. No one can stop me, not one soul can. Women want me every single day, they are thirsty for my bodily fluids. Thanks man, I really appreciate the help you have given me. My heart is cold, my moves are bold, I rule the world.
You're so cool!111!!!!1
This feels like a shit post
@@jabezjoshua710 yes tbh
@@jabezjoshua710 tbh
How can you apply in your life?
In which situations?
Can you please help me to become cold hearted man .
Can't believe i am here to learn how to be cold people around me always treat me like i don't even exist and i was such sweet to everyone even their break down me but enough is enough i should stop all sweet words and sweet behaviour
Let's Play along
I just want to become a Cold Hearted Person cause as I am young most of the people don't take me seriously, they just disrespect me and my opinions, I want to become a cold Hearted person for those...until they don't realise it I will remain a Cold person.. (accept for my Crush)
what happened to you and your crush for the last 2 months?
Me too, I'm being good to everyone and they didn't take it seriously, in my house you will smell the pure toxicity from my aunties, i really hate them try mending others businesses, they talk even I'm not talking to them, but heyy army! I will be cold to everyone except BTS
@@TLHPlays well...sorry i didn't read your Comment, Yeah, So now i don't have any interest in my Crush, And idgaf, And finally i am a Cold Person Rn, And i am Happy about that😊
@@kvspeach_ ohh Yeah, ARMY!!!!😃 I PURPLE YOU! 💜 Its alright! Stay positive and lets keep loving BTS, i can Understand
It's been a tough few days, Thanks for this.
I understand.. life’s been hard this year! Keep your head up and allow yourself to prosper :)
Thank you so much man!!! Helped me to get rid of people from my life... Never forget you🙇♀️
Going to follow through all of this and I will never let another soul damage or break my heart.
I am tired of being cheerful but in one word people call me is cheap.
So here I am to lose myself. To control myself and to lose how I actually wanna be.
Watch "classroom of Elite"
When you just decided to be a cold hearted then get hurt over and over again
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Im extremely soft hearted. Im caring and sensitive towards others feelings and always making people smile but when someone hurts me or does something to upset me, I beat myself over it. I hate that so much that I end up crying. (I know I’m a baby) but I’m definitely trying to improve myself
I'm glad I found this.
I also like how you put this together.
No fancy animations or visuals, no bright colors.
Just eye contact and delivery.
Bravo.
1 ─ 0:43 - make your decision and stick to it
2 ─ 1:58 - cut off contact
3 ─ 2:24 - short communication
4 ─ 2:50 - be direct
5 ─ 3:34 - don't express your thoughts and feelings
6 ─ 4:28 - logic over emotions
7 ─ 5:00 - remind your success
8 ─ 6:00 - turn your anger into fuel
9 ─ 6:58 - keep yourself busy
10 ─ 7:28 - focus on your loved ones
11 ─ 7:56 - strong self care routine
12 ─ 8:48 - get help from trusted ones
13 ─ 9:27 - Dont be cold hearted towards the world
So basically you’re telling me that being cold hearted is going to get me laid ????
Women are more attracted to men with psychopathic traits. So the answer is yes.
@@suipissosu Who would like somebody like that? A quiet cold hearted man < Funny giggly man
Yea actually
Yea remember Jotaro?
@@Ali-cq5ve cold hearted are successful . Would you chose clown for your life ?
gotta freeze my heart now, that was the last straw
Based from the flawless introduction. This is exactly what I was looking for. Greatest video on the topic for RUclips 👑
Awesome, thank you!
Honestly thanks, my sister treat me terrible but I was very nice to her from the very start, now my parents only believe her as they think I am just trouble! Now, I can finally stop this kindness!
It all started when my ex put me in a friend-zone and coming to find out she’s getting double pounded by a guy named pookie rayray tyrone. Shit gutted me for some time. But now I meditate, hit the gym 7- days a week even when I’m off work and when I leave from work, focus on manifesting my reality, having 2+ streams of income and reading books on the daily. Best decision I made besides going to the bar drowning my sorrows and heartaches
Turn that pain into gains. Keep it movin’ keep that mothafucker rollin’ 🤘🏾
I was a nice person. I was the fun guy. The good friend. Never had trouble making contact with anyone but what was the nature of each relationship you might ask ?
At first, great.
After a while, disrespects settles in. Boundaries crossed happens all the time and when you get mad at people for it they tell you shit like "don't take it personally so gaslighting you in a sense while never dreaming of doing that to any other person.
As a man, listen carefully. NEVER EVER EVER COMMUNICATE YOUR THOUGHTS OR FEELINGS TO ANYONE. Not girls, it will kill attraction instantly. Don't talk about yourself to people because most don't care.
Reciprocate only when given love but do it wisely.
Never ever beg for attention, friendship, relationship, sex. You will be used, humiliated and laughed at regardless of how you look..
you can be cold hearted and at the same time be a good person helping other people see life in a different way, so they can change their reality
I just wanna be heartless so i can't have my heartbroken. I'm sick of pain i just wanna be free
To the people watching this, don't try to be emotionless. It is a human character which we will and must experience, no matter if you like it or not.
Also instead, you should appreciate life and whatever you have and strive to work hard and achieve your goals.
The idea of being an emotionless or 'cold hearted' person may seem attractive. But in the long run when you grow older you will regret the the years you wasted being closed off. Part of enjoying your life is feeling, and it should not be seen as a threat, but a bonus point- think of it as seasoning to your pizza.
If there is toxic people in your life dont let them affect you or turn you emotionless, instead just cut them off in all ways possible.
So dont believe what you see on the internet, these are just glorified versions of loneliness and solitude.
Hope you make the right decisions!😊😊
TIME TO PUT THAT HEART 💙 IN THE FREEZER ❄️❄️🥶🥶
Greatttt I'm going to try EVERYTHING to be cold hearted
You have saved me man!..... It was really hard for me to get over heartbreaks...❤
I love comments like this! Keep it up 👍🏻
Remember, we all go through it, most people just don’t talk about it..
This is so true im a cold harted guy and its good
Being invisible around the girl i loved so much and couldnt do anythin about it because of all the barriers made me numb . So numb i can feel it myself and get depressed about the reason why am i so cold hearted . Therapy don’t work
I know where you are coming from... don’t worry I am working behind the scenes to help my brothers out! :)
I'm tired of being me, I keep reminding to myself that don't talk to someone
But I'm doing it again:/.
I am 15 ,u can imagine my situations led me to this video
Thank you I needed this I been getting hurt by people for a very very long time and I'm sick of it.
Same. I've came to realize that I'm too nice to people and they think they can walk all over me and have for along time. I'm tired of it and I want respect. I hate being such an emotional person because people only care about me when they need someone to talk to but there never there when I need them. I'm tired of the shit I go through. I feel like I have no other choice then to be cold to them so I'll earn some respect.
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I want to be cold hearted so the people leave me alone and dont stick to me that much. I just really dont want to make anymore bond with any of the people cause the more bond one make the more its mean to get hurted. At the last everyone will leave either hurting you or leaving the world. I just dont want to have any pain, I hate pains. I dont want to people get attached with me neither I get myself attached with anyone. It hurts. So better to be cold hearted and live with your ownself.
Ive been nice to too many people and they never showed respect for me.. Got rejected 2 times.. I am 100% sure that all my friends are fake. Time to become cold hearted and make everyone afraid of me
NUMBER 1 BE COLD HEARTED
Time to shut my emotion
Thank you so much I needed this you just gotta do what you gotta do. Felt good telling my niece and sister how it is and telling them they gotta go too. Feels great I'm sick of being nice and they walk all over me.
How to be cold hearted?
The answer is easy.
Fall in love with someone who will break your heart,trust and spirit,and watch how they will shatter your heart because they didn't receive love from their parents.F boys are perfect for that,find a narc,cry for 2-3 years,and you'll be cold hearted guaranteed
You have a way with words brother.
Appreciation, It is really helpful!!
I am planning to go more in-depth on social skills in the future 👊🏻
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thanks for this video…it helps me..i am a highly emotional person and it could be overwhelming
He broke up with me after 2yrs of being together, always trying to find excuses to run away from me. I’m glad he did tho. It’s his loss. I need to focus on me now, thank you for this video, I needed it!
You are very important! You’ve got this :)
but my experience with liars, betrays and people telling me I am weak good for nothing and being misunderstood made me this way I never want to be a cold hearted but people around me made me this way
Thankyou for this my life was really a mess having high family expectation, toxic friend circle, attempted suicide now little by little I'm trying to change my weaker side .
You are super strong. Super proud of you. Keep going. You are awesome!! 🥹🔥
I'm so tired of my happy self because they can fool me easily, hate me, leave me because they know that I always forgive them..... I'm talkative but I think it's annoying them so I'm glad I found this video 🙂
You’re sweet.. best of luck!
@@Meninfluencer can't do it 😐
I'm doing this to my parents
Man thank you, that last bit hit hard, I'm just upset with the world and I just have a habit of smiling all the time but it's fake AF :( I wanna be more real but really i need some self care - thanks again
I get you.. focus on your own priorities first. Looking happy on the outside seems cool and the right thing to do because you want to keep your feelings and emotions to yourself. Gowever, it's never good for yourself in the long term. You got this :) - Thank you for opening up.
Thank you I appreciate please keep making videos I came across this and took notes . I’m fed up with how much I held on to and now slowly but surely the world will see a better version of me . I know it takes time but I believe in my self now
After spending over a year in the attic, attending classes in the attic and only come down to get supplies, skipped two 4th of July, thanks giving, and new year's eve? I'd say I'm cold hearted enough. I even act like I don't hear anyone. I never blink when they wave there hands in front of me to get my attention.
Thank you man I come back to this comment one year later and note my improvements since.
make logical decisions
Remind your success
Keep yourself busy
Strong self care
Turn anger into fuel
Listen to people more successful than you on your lane
I'm just so sick of being too kind, they always take advantage of me.
I'm a cold heard woman but very warm to the person i love .
People are always afraid of my words because I know how to hurt them .
It's not my choice that i become like this more like my bad childhood make me.
I want to give everything i have only to one person so I'm happy how i am
Yea try making me a cold-hearted person! I just cried because my charger is not working lol
I typed on RUclips « how to stop being cold-hearted » and ended up watching the exact opposite of what I wanted, but I guess it made me realize that I may not be too unlucky to have a cold personality because many wants to become cold-hearted . I’m still trying to get a bit more sensitive though, so that people around me can feel more comfortable with me, can anyone help me with that?
Believe Me The worlds isnt fair You have to create everthing for yourself Being cold hearted makes you strong
I have became this way because I wanted to love a girl who never loved me. Despite her being authentic and honest to me my heart was shattered when she told me she never loved me. Because of this immense betrayal and pain I slit my wrists. I just had to let out all the past years of pain, shame, regret and anger. The scars on my arms still remain and I show them like a rocker does with their tattoos. I don’t give a fuck about other people’s opinions about me anymore. I am the only master of my destiny. To stop, think about myself and change. Over my 25 years I have learned that most people in your friend group are fake and selfish. It is best to rely on trusted family and most importantly yourself. Most friends tend to be out for themselves and would likely turn a blind eye if you get seriously hurt. Screw them. I stand alone and will soon become the best man I can be-through my own personal volition.
I wanna be cold hearted bcz of someone who always leaves me on seen on text and always makes fun of me (like I have no feelings whatever he says...) I will try all this steps and avoid my friend so that he can regret what he did !
Thanks sir I'm grateful
Thanks man i really neede this im going through tough times and i need to learn to be cold hearted so i dont always have to say yes to everything and not stand up to myself
I just want to be cold hearted because...I want to be left alone and more importantly,I always sacrifice for people but no one does the same for me 🥺😭😭😭
Cold hearted emotions is a generic term involving too much emotional response. I believe that it is easier to coin the terms Emotionally Unavailable or Robotically Inclined.
I don't care you call me savage,cold and emotionless!
You sound awesome! Would love to be with someone like you!
I used to be so cold hearted, the past year I wanted to be more friendly this was one vulnerable year but now I’m having a tough time being cold hearted and it sucks
I’m tired of caring. It’s only made me suffer. For 13 years I’ve felt so much pain and anger that I don’t know what being happy feels like anymore. Recently i was happy for a few months because of a girl. She made me happy. But what I’ve learned in life is that whenever happiness is destroyed it’s always followed by the surge of anger and resentment. I gave her everything I had and she left me. Now it’s time to leave humanity behind and honestly I’m sick of humans. I’m going to get revenge on this world and this is the only way to do it . I don’t need anyone anymore. I don’t want anyone anymore.I’m 13 for Gods sake If I want something I’ll get it myself and I won’t lift a finger for ANYONE even if they’re dying right in front of me. This is who I am now.
👏👏👏👏👏👏 Lone Wolf Properties all throughout this video! Keep doing your thing Brotha✊✊
Appreciate it 🤩⚡️
A best effort as well being a cold hearted person towards old friends.
This is what I need. Being a sunshine doesn't pay off.
🤔 It’s odd that people actually want to be “cold hearted” 😳 ..I think the better way to rephrase this mentality would be “how to not give people your energy that don’t deserve it” or “how to not bothered” lol
I wanna do through school without having to rely to someone to carry me to the finish line.
I'll end what I started
@@Potato-fw1hj That was like a line from a movie really good
Actually that's also what I thinking.
Kind hearted person here, looking to convert to being cold hearted. I can be cold hearted sometimes, I'm just so tired of people, I have no hope left for them.
Lol I searched "how to stop being cold to others " , as a cold person to all people trying to be cold just be yourself and don't get affect of what others are saying and don't give a shit to them , you know yourself better than anyone else they don't need to tell you how are YOU , that's enough y'all don't need become cold person it looks easy you might look cool or think that if you're cold person than you won't be hurt but it's wrong it hurts me when I hurt my loved ones because of my cold behaviour , Ignore them , no one likes to be with me and I ain't complaining because it's obvious I never show or express my feelings and emotions to anyone ,so it always eats me from inside it's really difficult when people whom you care for tell you , you're mean or rude it's true I don't care or feel offended because as I don't give a shit but still it hurts when your loved ones say this . We all are living things at last we all have feelings and we all get hurt it's just some people shows and express it and some don't . Cold people are just used to these comments and people that they don't get offended . I was also Normal person before but I just became cold growing up .
Thank you Bro this helped me so much... My brothers just hurt me earlier so that's why I came here. Well done Good Job please continue making these kind of contents
I just want to get my shit together and reach my goals. Can't do that if i'm constantly pleasing others and think of others. I have to do the best thing for myself and at this moment it's to freeze my heart. Maybe in a few years i'll allow myself to defrost but not now.