I Dated A Gold Digger
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- Опубликовано: 16 апр 2017
- Today I just wanted to share something personal with you guys.
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I know this video's pretty long but I just wanted to share a personal experience that happened to me a while ago. If you don't want to watch the whole thing you don't have to but you won't understand unless you do lol. Hope you're all having a great day and let me know if you want more story time videos like this! Thanks for watching ✌
TerryTV it's great you spoke about this. and sorry you had experienced it 😕
i love hearing your stories
TerryTV plus comment on mine I will be so happy
TerryTV my day always improves after watching your videos! and I'm sorry about that awful experience, you don't deserve to be treated like that!
TerryTV exosexo vines please Terry oppa ❤ 💞
That moment you realize Terry is pure boyfriend material. Im sorry you got hurt like that. But we all learn from things like that.
Shainah Amador yessssss
you're quite pretty
Ah ye
Hui Yao LOL how hard did you have to grasp at straws for that generalization
Oh my lord
It's because he's got a heart of gold.
Aladdin Alexander nice
Aladdin Alexander ;D
hahahahahahahahha
Yeah it is
that sounds like some song lyric
Sara's actually not a gold digger, she's just a freeloader. Gold diggers will get you to purchase a car before you know what happened.
hahahahahaha
Right
I guess he used it metaphorically, also in Sarah's world, She is A GOLD DIGGER or whatsoever.
Jeon Saemi nah he even said that this word isn’t exactly right but he thought it was the closest and honestly “freeloader” is perfect for this girl.
Yay im like 90
When she was exchanging smiles with her friend , that was the ultimate clue
Dude this is sad. I hope you're happier now.
Bro don't be racist. I'm sure it depends on the person. Any race can be cheap.
Ken Zeleny *calm thyself.*
Ken Zeleny wtf ??Koreans?, so basically you're badmouthing bts ??and our Terry???
potato notch why the fuck does everything have to do with BTS all the fucking time? It's Koreans. That does include bangtan, but it makes me concerned when an entire race is being degraded but all that comes to your head is BTS. The ARMYs are so annoying nowadays.
•TaeTae'sKookie• go fuck yourself , and yeah what's wrong with bts ? You racist bitch , just because someone is Asian you don't have the right to humiliate him/her
Gold diggers have no feelings.
They do have feelings for gold.
Just because Terry is a nice guy DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN MANIPULATE HIM!!!!!!!! Terry you have a heart of gold💜💜💜 you da best💜💜💜💜
So true
His not gonna notice you
Heart of *Gold*
He said "you know" 189 times
HAHAHAHA I FKN COUNTED
That's soo me
Damn you actually counted😂
46315895312356 times
Bts.... Hahahha
Your parents taught you right. 🙏🏼 gentlemen
Mary Xiong yeah absolutely
Terry would honestly be a very respectable boyfriend. That girl should have appreciated him while she had him. 😤
I NEED YOU BOY BTS and TOAST ARMY
jimin
I hope that he never finds anyone else like her again
he's is to sweet and amazing for anyone like that
jimin - He is very decent man, she wasn't decent person at all - safe to say, such two people could never be together. And from personal experience it's sometimes hard to recognize if someone is decent or not, especially when you want so much the relationship to work out. Then you overlook signs...
Yeah but it's common knowledge that girls don't want nice guys. Nice guys will make them feel bored. They wanna be treated like shit and then hear sometimes some nice words or actions so it confuses the fuck out of them and makes them fall in love. And every girl who denies this is a liar ;)
Cristiano Gimmelli as depicted on a typical korean drama lol 😂
poor terry 😢 this actually made me cry. I can relate how kind people gets abused sometimes by people who likes to tale advantage of nice people. Terry, you're so pure 😭
Terry all things apart.... i feel u liked her too much... There's a corner in your heart which is not letting her go... She was a lucky girl.. i thought boys never truly love anyone, and never change their rules for someone. How come a girl who didn't treasure u, had u...how come i need someone like this and never ever seen a person like u closely.. how ironic this life is..
Why do you think boys dont truly love?
Kimzee TV
Maybe because of personal experiences
Kimzee TV daddy issues
Why this life is like this
I- 😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫😫
Some guys do truly love, we are just conditioned not to show it. If you look deep enough, you will see that lots of us are good people. There are lots of guys who suck, but there are lots of us who really care too.
Who else loves the amount of detail he put into this story?
Moghster it makes me sad 😢 it must have been a very important experience if he remembered it that well
Al Muji woa dude chill with that soul digging....😩
It helps describe the setting, how he is living, how far to travel, not a lot of money and the girls background. He was looking for a girlfriend, she was looking to make herself happy off his wallet.
totally
You didn't waste your first two months in Korea you were taught a lesson that you never taught before.
Excellent!!!
You’re a total cinnamon roll ❤️ Let’s just say she had to be a real special kind of blind if she didn’t even realize what she missed out on. But hey, you totally dodged a bullet with that one!
I hear you, Terry :( #2019
You’re too kind-hearted and a cinnamon roll. You made the right choice, absolutely. If I were you I would have probably done something far worse than what you did. Haha.
yeah..... were here to sopport you !!! 👍😊 one for all . all for one .
Sky Sailor same
You never know what happened behind the camera, perhaps he did.
This is legit one of the saddest love stories I've ever heard. Almost cried. He didn't deserve to be treated like that by that woman. We love you Cherry 💖🍒💜
she knew damn well that he genuinely liked her and then she took advantage of him. 😤😥he must have been so sick of that fake love
Why are you the sweetest and most mentally/emotionally well adjusted guy I've seen on RUclips
He''s not the only one. We are a dying breed. Rare with all the other guys trying to be popular, don't care about how they look and don't care about being a good guy. Guys like Terry and I and a small handful of are a dying breed. I don't want to get a job as a English teacher. I want to get one as a doctor but I was also used by 3 Gold Diggers. I learned my lesson. I hope Terry does too. I posted my comments for him to see.
the worst thing is that those girls get to the best guys first, break them, and make them not trusting or uninterested in us normal human beings that just want to cuddle.
Kristin Kharel I agree. Very well said.
"dying breed" wth you talking about lol, there are more than enough sweet and loyal guys out there, you just have to search at the right places. Ofc you will get played if you date someone from tinder or just meet em at clubs or whatever... thats not how you bond.
when do people finally understand that..
Crys What the hell are YOU talking about. You think simply being sweet and kind makes you the right guy for a women? You got to have balls to stand up and do shit when all the women can do is sit down and complain. You got to make the hard decisions when the women wavers. Just because a guy is nice and sweet doesn’t mean he’s worth the shit he dumps in the bathroom and I know because Some of my friends are those trash guys. They hang around me because I’m a real quality man. I can’t be tamed but I’m more polite and civil and yet savage than the other urban manginas that have been my friends over the years. I can chop wood. Cook. Clean and I workout an hour a day. I rock climb once a month and I’m a certified scuba diver. I’ve dumped 18 women before my fiancé because I’m not JUST a nice sweet guy. I’m a man. I’ve got guys I look up to and guys that look up to me. I’ve got girls that like me. But I’m loyal af and when my fiancé steps out of bounds, I let her know I don’t approve. But I still keep her happy and give her no justifications to complain. I’m 22 and in school and I’m proud of who I am. I’ve got my own flaws like everyone else. I’m not perfect and I suck at dancing for example and I can be a little too honest according to some people in my social circles but I’m dependable. Sweet and kind trash are everywhere out there and doesn’t make Father material. Being a real man is a deceptively simple description of what it truly entails. Keep that in mind when you talk like sweet and nice is all a women needs from a. Guy, BECAUSE IF IT IS, than she might not be future mother material anyways or the women is too young and ignorant to know what she really wants out of a man and needs more life experience before she can agree with me. We are a dying breed. Fuck boys are replacing us and those fuck boys are in great supply and they know how to play the game. How do I know? Because my dad was one and I put him to shame and he knows it because I show him. I still love my Dad. But I show him who’s boss.
you’re such a boyfriend material 🥺🤧❤️❤️ you deserve the best. 🥰💓
Hi
Hi
Nice guy's will always finish last
@@whatshouldisayifvaskmeforc5217 why does everyone we love die
@@ericscott4225 why does everyone we love die
"She spoked perfect English" 🤣👏👏👏 for real tho great video. New sub
She’s very skilled. Don’t beat yourself up too much because she knew what she was doing, before she even approached you. You were new and vulnerable and she’s a skilled predator. It sucks that she inflicted that much damage before you freed yourself. Please accept this spiritual hug.
i do think she did the same things to a couple of guys before Terry. I`m still confused why this Sarah girl would do this, just for meals and going out? Really wierd..
DarkScarlettVixen nah she found an easy prey. There are skilled women who will initially offer to pay and actually pay for long term gains. I was a noob once too haha
"skilled" huh? She certainly should be arrested.
what are you fucking jesus
@@kyz_alpha9865 lol
You are pure Boyfriend material. No one like you should be hurt like that.
[Edit] Lmao why so many likes?
Feelipix , excuse me, 'material'??
Elif Ersan exactly, wtf is he is, a thing or something?
Elif Ersan ayk? Have you never heard of that? It would sound weird if you say „you are a Boyfriend“ like wtf. Why do people on the internet have to make everything look bad?!
Ники Николас ayk? Have you never heard of that? It would sound weird if you say „you are a Boyfriend“ like wtf. Why do people on the internet have to make everything look bad?!
Ники Николас when you say someone is “boyfriend material” it means that the have the traits to be a good boyfriend
Terry you're really good at telling stories and I was intrigued the whole time, those 28 minutes and 27 seconds minutes flew by so quick. I hope you continue to tell us these kinds of life experiences of yours. As a 16 year old teenager still in highschool I aspire to get out in the world as much as you did, you're a great inspiration. Thank you
how much Terry says "you know?" : 9999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999
, i lost count 😅 but it's cute tho
You guys seem to be fixated on that one trivial term..
1000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000th times
189 times
He blew up like "we're just friends"
If anyone hurts you I hate them
they'll catch these hands
Positive Vibes I'll be ur crime partner im getting the chains
May I join in? *grabs a bat* lol
*takes a nuke* anyone knows where She lives? I just wanna talk
Ezer 애슬 can I help you with talking, I've got some social skills.
You have a good heart, unfortunately there are many crooked people in the world who take advantage of the good faith of others.
I am also like that, nevertheless, I have never ceased to hope that there are good people in the world.
Paula Matos
You’re a good guy and didn’t deserve any of that, she used you.
When you spent so much time with someone, it's possible that even though, you saw hints that she was being weird or was using you. You wanted to ignore those behaviors because you wanted it to work out or that you could change her and give her another chance. I'm not judging you in any way. I've seen my friends go through these kinds situations and said they should stay away from those leeches and not give them several chances cuz they feed off the chances the prey gives. People who don't understand me, tend to think I'm hatful or jealous of these mostly toxic relationships cuz I'm a loner. Then therefore, I want to steal away their boy/girl for not being the straightest pencil in the bunch. Sorry for the comment being long, but I hope whatever Partner you have is a healthy for you!
Eden S. Lucf I’m the same!! And because I have more boy friends they all think I’m trying to make them breakup with their toxic gf!
You were not an idiot trying to invest in this relationship or being with her. When we love someone, we are sometimes blinded and we want the relationship to work and we keep trying and trying like you did. Mostly, she must have been really special to you since she was at the beginning the only person with who you had a strong link (since you were new and had no friends yet). I feel you.
She was clearly using you and that must have hurt. And yes, you didn't "openly said that you were a couple" but sometimes things need no words.
Well even if she didn't consider you as her boyfriend. The things you both did are things couple do. So "normally" she should have, at least, like you if she did those things but she said she didn't. So you have been used... That must have been heart breaking.
It's past now. I hope your next or current relationship will work well.
And even tough it's not the same, your fans love you 😊💕!
Love from France !
P.S. : The video isn't too long for us coz we like watching your videos :)
Célia C.
True mate.
BTW i love France.
Célia C. oh I was surprised when I saw "Love from France", your english is so good that I thought that you was english 😳 (I'm french too, yay!)
And I totally agree to what you said. Moreover, his story is so sad that I want to hug him right now ;w;
Hey! My name is Célia too! Btw I come from Quebec ;) you know we have a super ugly accent... XD Nice to see someone who speaks french too!
“Did you guys plan this?” And I cannot state this strongly enough but if you’re still not sure, the answer is “YES”
What a bunch of cheap losers. No shame.
You seemed like a sincere and nice person. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. You deserve better.
I really feel your pain on "Sarah"'s last statement.
"I could never date you again." That was one of the last things my ex-girlfriend (we were official) said to me after breaking up with me. All I asked was "why?" she was breaking up with me, and after a long spiel of things that were supposedly wrong with me, that was what she said to me, and it broke me at the time.
But things got better and now I've moved on, found someone who truly does love me, and we're engaged. So keep hope, because no one knows what the future holds.
Xbox180ISSWEET What ive learned from dating someone I thought I truly loved and would die for was ,"You may think that the person you're with rn or your ex is absolutely flawless and perfect for you but they aren't. If they dumped you then there's someone better for you and god knew you deserved better then the last person. You just haven't met the perfect person for you yet" and ,"Be careful with who you share your secrets with because you don't know what they're going to do with that information or if they'll use it against you" I'm probably really messed up from my last relationships
i'm a bit late but congratulations!! hope everything goes well for you and your partner ^o^
Her name is boiya
your voice is calming
Tae, You are such a bae true
Army
Tae, You are such a bae nice user name
Anybody watching this in 2019?
Me
Yes just found it... Interesting
I am watching this in 2016
Me
No
idk how to word this lol. but I honestly like it when guys express their feelings, show emotions when they're hurting and confront you. Some guys would just play it off, they would say that they love you and all but whenever there's a problem they'll just act tough and just let it pass. i know this is an old vlog but I do hope you're with the right girl right now or find the right girl for you. you seem like a sweet guy, you just gotta be smart as well when loving people. c:
Well she lost out on a really great guy.
Maria Aguirre Yep
Definitely, any person would be lucky to have him. He seems like he's really caring and is really funny. Sucks for her then.
Maria Aguirre you are absolutely right! Absolutely!
Aww my poor Terry...you deserve much better than "Sarah".
At first I thought about how I would expect a relationship to be and wouldn’t see anything wrong with the guy paying for everything, but with that said, the way she lied about her money and her and her friends left you with the bill really shows how she was all about the money. So sorry she took advantage of you, but I’m glad you were able to learn from the experience. You deserve a loving girl who will treat you as well as I know you will treat her, and I hope you find her at just the right time.
Hi Terry, when I was dating with my husband, for us Filipinos, the guy pays everything. Now a days splitting bills for both is common.
it should be split 50/50 when dating but most young girls in PH don't have money
@@m4rk764 it's not about the money.. I was raised as a man that takes the responsibility or just be the man in a relationship.. It was taught in our culture that the man should always pay the bills.. its not because most young girls in PH don't have money.? where did that come from.?
as for me, I never go out with a girl if I don't have money or would just joke of saying I'm broke right now, example: "sorry, medyo gipit pa kase ngaun haha" if you even know what I'm saying.. If she insisted and said it's fine that she'll handle the bill or that she's willing then you know you're getting something right with that girl.. but most dates nowadays here in PH are 50/50 split, I still insist on handling the bills on my dates but if they insist back then I would respect it..
Yeah I don't know the situation now, but when I was dating, the guys paid and it's the norm. I think some people are still doing things that way. He shouldn't be terming her a "gold digger" when there were actually no gold. Hahah
This story was even more upsetting with the background music
That's the point of the music :)
Me: Listens to Terry's story
28 minutes later
Me: Hold my weave
Mariam Alasadi 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mariam Alasadi I'll hold it don't worry
Mariam Alasadi should I hold your earrings too? 😉
count_the_jams there's never enough *hands weave, earrings, baby, house, car* alright, I'm ready.
Mariam Alasadi hell yeah sista! 💪💪😂
It’s very refreshing to listen to a man’s perspective on relationships.. I’m sorry you had to go through that shitty situation.. there are A LOT of awful females out there.. I hate the stereotype of men only being the jerks, but women can be just as bad or even worse.. I hope the next female you’re with treats you nice.. you seem like a really good catch.. best of luck to you.
I'm so sorry that you had to go through this , she left a scar on you and probably now your afraid to date because of her. It's always like that people with pure heart , they always get hurt and used. I feel like in this world you can't be nice anymore because people dont deserve the kindness of your heart .
Terry is such a gentleman.
I admire that you're sharing your stories with toast army, we love you
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! I don't blame you bro at all, Keep your head up high! 👍
I was almost in tears after hearing this story because of how sad it was. I hope you're better now though. You go meet another girl, and be happy.
I dated and got engaged to my husband when he wasn't working for 6 years. I paid for our first date and temporary engagement ring too. We've been happily together and married for over 5 years and nows he's a heavy duty mechanic. I had problems at work and became unemployed for over a year but he supported me through everything. We take care of each other through ups and downs. I'm sorry to hear what happened to you but now you gained knowledge of the real world and how to judge people. So it wasn't all for nothing. There are a lot of terrible people in the world. But now you shared your story and others can learn from you. That special someone will come or maybe has already come and you will know.
what a wonderful couple, hopefully there aren't Alot of Shitbags like Terry's 'friend' in this world
It really irritates me that people comments about "why didn't you have sex with her?". Like what?! Maybe they did but he doesn't need to bring so much information.... the point of this was him explaining how he felt about it.... I swear some people don't even have feelings making fun of somebody who was open to share his story, and this is why people can't be open nowadays
It's the OCD working. The people commenting like that want it balanced - the same way people call for tit for tat retaliations in other situations. Rather than sexist, it's just that people can't stand the unfairness of it all and this brings out the dark thoughts in all of us. Honestly, once people cool down or face such a situation in real life, they will advice people not to stoop to "their" level.
It's the internet - won't be embarrassed about what you talk
I like your username
WHEN I THINK ABOUT THE LORD wait what the fuck
I know I'm bad but tbh I hope that he did because then at least he got something from the relationship...
Subscribed man you’re a great story teller and strong man for being able to share you’re experience thank you
i love your personal stories about your experience in Korea. always explained well and keeps me interested like i was in there myself. thank you!
Who else SCREAMED when he said sara said they weren't dating?
PeechieMeechie11 I was like "oh no she didn't" 😂
PeechieMeechie11 me and i did some weird arm movement
me too. Brings memories of my similar situation when i dating with a guy, but after few months, one day i have to know that we are not a couple and never been...
are you THAT over fucking dramatic????
little cloud xo yes
at the beginning, I was just going to say that it's cultural because in korean culture the guy is expected to take care of the girl meaning he pays for a lot and gifts her expensive things but once the friends part came in... Nope. you just met a trashy girl. she probably targets vulnerable men to keep up her lifestyle
tomoyopop something similar in México
Yeah, agreed. I can understand tradition in certain cultures regarding relationships, but once she stated they were only friends, she has acknowledged at that point that it isn't a relationship, so that whole tradition idea just does out the window, and she's exposed herself as a user of people. From personal experience, I will never invest into any relationship with a female again if the girl isn't mature enough to respect and understand that you should be fair to one another especially in the financial aspect of things, and if I ever get a hint of being used for money or material things I would break it off in an instant. There are definitely plenty of women out there that are just vultures looking for vulnerable men to prey upon, and I would say this was the case with you. She probably instantly recognized you as a "tourist" since you didn't speak the native language too well, and after you told her you were there temporarily as a teacher, she probably saw you as an easy mark.
tomoyopop + And what exactly does she bring into the relationship besides bills from the guy and using him.
I’m truly sad that this has happened to you but I’m glad that you’ve left that in the past and we are here for you no matter what even if we are just behind a screen we will always support you terry so please know that your not alone, much love from everyone of your supporters here.
The major problem of we having manipulative people everywhere is that after meeting them we may tend to doubt everyone else's intentions and that's not healthy for any relationship as a strong relationship must be based on trust. The key is to discretely observe them and slowly draw them away from our lives.
She sounds superficial and highly narcissistic. I hope you are in relationship with or find a wonderful, kind sweetheart.
I dated a Korean girl. It was my first semester in university. She was my first ever girlfriend. It was really fun dating her. But it didn't last long. Now she's dating another American. :(
fatalshot009 *AMERICANS!!!*
My last GF in college was Korean. However she was adopted and had been raised by a white family and was super rich. She had no interest in Asian/Korean culture whatsoever. She also had a lot of substance abuse problems.
She apparently just didn't like what she saw in me. The last time I asked why she dumped me, she replied, "We don't match". There's more into the story that's hard to explain.
There was a large international community at the school I went to when I was study. Students from China, Japan, and South Korea. While I was there I started hanging out with a cute S.Korean girl. We ate lunch and dinner a lot and I was about to ask her out on a date to move it forward. However she started hanging out with other girls from S. Korea. After that she stopped talking to me. I later learned form some of my other friends that the reason she stopped talking to me was that I wasn't "rich and stylish" for her and her new friends. S.Korean girls are notoriously materialistic and if you don't measure up to their expectations they ditch you fast.
Korean girls are shallow. Usually.
This made me cry I'm sorry I'm -quite- *_really_* sensitive😭
I'm sorry you went through this Terry.
I know I'm really late so I'm sorry again
And at least you have your fans
Same here
@@fatudaniel7301 oof it's ok. Dw💜
Monkey D luffy he sounded really hurt by what happened and it’s like he hasn’t moved on. 😢😭 oh well, I guess he was reliving that moment that’s why it was depressing to watch and listen to..! ☹️ but I’m glad he’s passed that phase 👌🏼
@@fatudaniel7301 yeh😭
not as late as me
You are such an awesome story teller, great video. I wish you all the best!
I never understood how people can let others pay for them especially that girls friends they shouldn't have let you pay for it all 😑 you're so sweet you deserve better than that
Cage the peanut I get so embarrassed when ppl pay for Me. Even my friends I never want them to pay for my stuff. It feels like a burden like I owe them all the time lmao
Cage the peanut dude I feel bad just when someone gets me a water bottle. I could neverrrr.
Sometimes it can be a cultural thing. I’ve had friends from other cultures who will pay for the tab when hanging out if they invited me, or even not take gas money if we happened to drive together, and would get extremely offended if I insisted on paying. I’ve even lost a few friends by doing so.
Well, in Korea, if u are a Korean man, u are supposed to pay and many ladies expect u to bring them to at least a decent place for a meal...
Cage the peanut I was thinking that too. I'd have NEVER let someone else pay for me like that. However, when I'm out with friends, I make DAMN sure to say "They'll need a separate check". I don't play.
Wait. What.
I just saw a title
Potato Rufus :з potatoes rule.
You're famous now cx
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hi
He’s literally one the best looking RUclipsrs ever like wow
I really like the way you shared your experience and know that many people can relate - I felt your disappointment and pain! Just glad that you grew stronger and into an even better person. Love your channel -
Wow. I get guilty and feel super bad if someone spends even a dollar on me😭
Ay sha Yaz yes. fortunately i know few good women like that.
in fact me and my closest friend are jn competition to pay first. if i miss a little bit she would end up paying. we even pay each other's groceries.
she is amazing.
Ay sha Yaz you shouldn't! A woman should be taken care if be a man. Don't sell yourself short. My ex would never let me pay. I offered sometimes, but he wouldn't allow it. Nothing wrong with that.
Andrea Banks uh.. a woman should be able to take care of herself, not depend on someone else. That's how everyone should be for that matter, regardless of gender. It should be 50/50 in a relationship. You can't expect a guy to cater to you because you're in for a surprise when he finds someone who can actually take care of themselves and not depend on someone else. Of course if a guy wants to pay for you out of chivalry, then cool. But it's no ones duty to take care of anyone lmao. That's what parents are for! And even then, when you get old enough you should try your best to pay it forward to them.
+Andrea Banks the reason is in word 'ex' here she was not his gf. In fact she insisted this fact.
I pay for everywomen as per my habit(had good salary). But this friend of mine observed it and did not feel right this is why she would pay whenever she could and not let me pay. And we were not bf gf just friends.
Ay sha Yaz me too.
Gold digger is appropriate here- she's a user. I'm so sorry you got hurt :( However, everything is a learning curve. At least now you know some warning signs for a secretly toxic person.
Thanks for sharing your stories Terry! Super late watching this but this is truly heartbreaking :'( However, it made you the person you are today! Really appreciate your perspective and experiences, support you 100% fam!
Love your channel!!
Dude, I listened to all of that. No skips
Insane Fanta same
Same here i can totally feel his pain
Insane Fanta same
same, i was suprised
InsaneFanta same here
You are a very good story teller!
really? he says "dude" and "you know" so many times - it's distracting!
lettersNnumbersonlyy True that, but he's good at constructing a story flow that keeps people interested to listen. And his pace and tone in telling the story is comfortable to follow.
Kpop Fan it literally has nothing to do with opinion. It's just feedback, its not personal.
donkeyenvious Terry told it well. You could feel the emotion and it kept myself and I'm sure a lot of the people who have watched this interested in the video.
Yes indeed you're a good story teller and I think this gold digger story was absolutely not a waste of time for you. Just like your first job, treat it like a great learning experience, be it culturally or relationship wise. The guy paying bit, in my view is absolutely normal. If you don't wanna spend too much, then entertain both of you by doing cheaper activities and/or eating in cheaper restaurants. But I'm sure you've learned more about Corean culture since then. Never mind my "reasoning" style, I'm old enough to be your halmoni. I love Corea so much and its people and I've been there 3 times (6 months the 1st time) and I now watch Corean dramas, movies, youtube, daily. And I'm just trying to learn the language w/o going to school, which I did for 3 months (studying Corean), just don't like the teacher, classroom experience at all, just like when I was a child.
I think you could be material to become a Corean actor or movie director, you have ma y great qualities.
Keep up the good work.
It's always the best people who gets hurt the most. I'm so sorry, but don't let this take you down. You learned (in a hard way), and that's okay sometimes. Thank you for sharing!
now i see why you have so many subscribers man....youre so relatable nothing wrong iwith these supposed mistakes. people learn from these situations and grow wiser. you deserve better cheers!!
Your mom is gonna be so sad when she watches this :(
PetiteCake True
Yes😶
Me: *listening to terry while cooking*
Terry: "let's just call her Sarah.."
Me: *looks around* did someone just call my name ?😱
worldfan4ever 😂😂😂
worldfan4ever Lol
RIP ... poor Sarah
worldfan4ever saaammee
worldfan4ever omg lol
Terry this is really deep. I really feel you, im so sorry even though im 2 years late.
Just watched this again. Still so sorry for you, Terry.
Terry! I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I had friends who just used me to get help in studies. I was really good at college like various competitions, studies and drawing skills. She used me so she could learn those things from me. But I had no idea. I thought I finally made a close friend ( I didn't have any before). But that so false Terry. I always thought that if female friends could be like this, then having a boyfriend would be even more heart breaking, as they can use me even more. After watching this video I think there's still some good in this world. But things like these make you a stronger person so.. good luck bro!
whoever gets terry as a man, MUST RESPECT HIM!
thank you~
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R u actually from the Bts
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Damn. Lowkey makes me glad that I'm single
soneforever11 same feels
I’m so sorry what you went through in that relationship. She’s not the one. You will meet a better one..
Dude u got a good heart don't let fake people bring u down
I don't understand why you were so reluctant to call "Sarah" a "gold digger". She sounds like a total "gold digger" to me.
And I wouldn't have cut ties with her until she AND her friends pay you back. After all, if you guys were NEVER really a couple, then she should definitely pay back any loans she receives from her friends.
AHHHHH i agree with u terry u don`t have to trest everybady all the peaple are not kind as you be careful ;)
MrHappyface O
MrHappyface it is best to cut your ties. She wouldn't have paid him and go onto the next opportunity. Some people are morally bankrupted.
MrHappyface very true
Lol u think that bitch would pay back the money? Think again.
18:37 - 18:41 This part ..
I was in almost the exact same situation (back in 2015 in Korea) I looked out the window while trying the best not to cry and just pretended to be a dumb foreigner even though I understood everything he said
Aww :(
*pats*
Bina
Oh sorry 😢
What was the circumstance in which you did that?
did you agree to be girlfriend and then he denied you..?
I just so happened to stumble on your post and figured I would watch while studying. Although I don't know you personally. I'm sorry you had this negative experience (which I have experienced a similar one as well) but it's awesome that you stood up for yourself and I pray you find someone who can acknowledge your genuineness and love you for you. Best of luck from a new subscriber.
6:31 "first times" I thought he meant something else
Same 😂
Lmao
I married a Korean gold digger from a millionaire family. The divorce cost me half a year's salary, not to mention the fact that I supported her for ten years. SO that relationship cost me about $150,000.
John Alot dude sorry to hear that,I hope your future goes well
Damn that's a lot of money
I think these rich gold diggers been taken cared of their whole life by their rich family so when they meet someone they expect to be taken care for financially the same way they grew up
Good pussy though huh?
Man... Im sorry to hear that. Glad she's not in ur life now tho
wow i didn't even get bored watching a YT vid nonstop for half an hour
misscubic true
misscubic me too
"after everything " 😂😂 love listening this.. Thanks terry for not letting me sleep at work 😂
Its okey,this is how we learn from our mistakes!Next tym you be carefully
TERRY, YOU DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER **WEARS A NAME TAG THAT SAYS SOMEONE BETTER**
m i c drop hey you. Your funny
Lol
I need that on a shirt! B-)
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You're* sorry i had to do it
when i saw it's a 28 minute video, i made a cup of coffee and i brought some snacks right away, dis gon be gud !
IKR!!!!! XD
Nagato same !😂 I was cooking trough the whole video! ....weirdest thing...my name is actually Sarah...😂😱
dik
You are too young for coffee!!!
Nagato I thought so tooooo
😢 As women we go through this too. You cannot assume with relationships that the other person feels the same way you do.
Heyy I love your videos keep going ! 😄💖 Also i agree with you on the part that we don't need to say it. It's like when you are friends with someone you are friends with them because you like them and enjoy spending time with them, you don't need to ask "can we officially be friends ?" It's just obvious.
Terry, you deserve so much better than her. She's so fake. Those kinds of people make me sick. 🙄
nah bro, i dont think you were in the wrong, she took advantage of a custom to back up her smart ass shady practices. it was a learning experience and now you are better in some way because of it. :)
Now I truly believe that having animations along stories makes things much enjoyable.
You deserve so much better. It really upset me about whatever happened to you. I’m so sorry you had to experience all this. I hope you’re happy now and I hope you have all the great experiences now..❤️
No but on a serious note,
Thanks so much Terry for sharing something very personal with us.
I feel like these videos give us viewers a deeper insight into what kind of person you really are,
and I'm 1000 percent sure you are a very nice person.
It's not always easy sharing things like this on the internet for everyone to see, but it just shows how much you
trust your viewers and I think we should all be very grateful for that.
This channel is one of the realest and most meaningful channels I've come across, and will always have a special place
in my youtube heart.
I have been in one of these relationships. It's called a one sided relationship. It sucks.
I just got out of a 1 sided relationship bro it's so sad man
Wintrrz Son i feel you man it really sucks
I feel u fam
@Gamer_AwesomeJR30, not sure if it’s late but I myself was in a similar or even same situation last year too. You feel like people are just using you or all that “niceness” and energy was all wasted. But you will realise that what’s important is YOU, direct all that energy and niceness to yourself. Don’t feel low by it, allow it to bring you higher than before and you’ll be happy. Don’t let this one experience affect you with other relationships, it did for me but I’ve gotten over it now and feel much better. Don’t think acting nice gets you nowhere, keep to who you are because it is who you are and you should be proud of that. If people exploit your kindness then let it slide, they deserve anymore kindness, ignore them, learn and move on. I hope this helps you or someone else.
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man, i'm watching this on the 31st of december of 2018, and you're making me cry
Dude no worries...
My teacher is a *gold digger* too!!
He used me to collect the homework from my classmates.
Im an idiot.. I discovered this a week later, though he did it only once. Who knows?!?😂😂😂
How???
Lol😂😂😂
That’s horrible!!😂
Omg
Hahahaa yaaa this is crazy too funny