I've been an outcast my whole life fam! Always trying to fit in with the wrong crowds just for them to USE you and LAUGH in your face. Stay on guard, but explore all your avenues. It's much harder nowadays to find a genuine friend group, but I'm sure in time it will come. Have faith 💪🏼💯
Same, man. I'm Somali though and i tried connecting with fellow Somalis. They could tell im not like them i guess. Not as confident, outgoing, etc. I struggled finding my group my whole life. I've accepted im gonna have social anxiety for life and its not gonna get better. Social anxiety is absolutely brutal and so underestimated on just how much it affects your life.
Something I've learned is that there's no point in trying to fit in. Be unapologetically you and the people you want around you will gravitate towards ya! I think you're cool, the comments seem to think so, there are people on earth that resonate with you and want to know you for you. Keep your head up king, we all gonna make it :)
I felt like I needed to rely on a group of people or friends per say to enjoy life and do things I wanted... I quit a lot of my hobbies and things I liked to do because they stopped doing them or became disinterested or maybe found new friends towards the stuff they like... id say gang you have to teach yourself how to love and have fun with yourself alone because as life goes on you will make more connections and relationships.. but to save yourself from expectation and become stronger as a person you have to be homies w yourself.. anything past being your own bro is just a bonus... always remember that. Thanks for talking to us brodie :)
I can really relate to a lot of your feelings man. I'm 39 and still struggling to find my community and my place. But I have also been working on myself a lot and learning to love myself more.
You’re a good looking dude bro. That’s enough to get your foot in the door with a lot of people. I have mild anxiety now but it used to be much worse. Idk if you’ve ever meditated but I did that for 3 years and it actually helped me in anxious situations a lot. Idk what your job is either but I think you should try waiting tables. You get reps talking to strangers AND girls. That will definitely help you break out of your shell. Now with the connection thing, connection with people comes naturally, it’s either there or it’s not. Maybe take on the lead role rather than tagging along. Ask people you like to do something - like grab a drink or go to a concert or some s***, something that you want to do. If people don’t want to hang with you, no big deal, you’re good on your own. You can tell when people actually want to spend time with you. Don’t come across as needy or pushy, that’ll certainly turn people off. But I don’t even know you man, I’m just blabbing trying to give you advice. You either get better or you don’t - the choice is yours. And I can tell you’re trying. Good luck bro
I think ohnomyles has said it well. We can’t give up. We have to keep trying. It’s amazing how most of us survive, because we are resilient. Some are not so lucky. Beautiful walk way, Lizard!👍❤️
If you have a chance to travel the world I would highly advise it my friend. Sometimes our environment makes us feel outcasted but this world is huge man. I had to learn that a lot of people come and go in our lives. Gratitude will help you feel better about your situation if you can’t necessarily change it. Be grateful for your struggles and try to be open to all people even if it’s only on a superficial level. Also every day you wake up try to learn something new! When other people can teach us something it makes us feel more connected.
Keep ur head up man. We're primal beings and usually stick with our own so it's hard to be accepted by other groups of people. Just have confidence and grow. Sometimes u gotta be a lone wolf alil.
Your a nice guy theres nothing wrong with being shy and introverted. The people in your life may change through the years but u will always remain. Knowing yourself and being comfortable in your own skin will hopefully attract the right people at some point, until then learn the lessons the wrong ones teach you. Keep your head up
You’re super young brother, as you go to college etc… you start to get exposed to a wider group of people and you’ll improve the quiet / shy side and will meet more people that you connect with. I’ve seen this happen with many of my friends. Try looking for people with the same hobbies as you. Try travelling to a different country or city to get out of your comfort zone. Go to places like Hostels where people tend to be extra nice and sociable even to people that are quiet. Anyways brother you just remind me of a lot of my friends at 17-19 but it all ends up good✌️
I feel you. When I was in college, it felt like I couldn't fit in my group of friends. They talk about sex, finding love & having fun. Mostly I had fun with them before I dated. Still a virgin though. I try my best to keep up with the group but usually it wears out. They stop finding me interesting once I never caught up on old movies, tv shows, music & missing out on things. I have done a few meetups before years ago outside of school. Going to bowling, Disneyland & talking about art at restaurants. Hopefully I find better people to hang around in better meetups once I get back. It will definitely not be in my hometown for sure. There's really nothing for me there but work & friends that I don't feel like catching up with. If I can't fit in their group, oh well. Some people I've socialized with because I did it at a slow pace but my own way. I pushed one person away & shut him out because he told me I missed out on fun activities & dating. Something he wanted me to do because he was bored. That I need to have fun because I'm always busy at work. Told me I'm missing out on his girl co-worker wanting to be a prostitute. I can be fun & boring. I just don't care anymore. I did burn that bridge with him so it was bad on my end though.
Yeah bro it’s tough when others talk about things you’ve never experienced and all you can do is nod your head. Also yeah cutting out toxic people is something that you gotta do in order to save yourself from a lot of heartache and pain, unfortunately it was something that took me years to understand. Hope you’re doing well bro.
What was the temperature like out there? Looks nice. Social structures can be complicated. I think it's about picking and choosing what interests you and moving on
@@quinnnnnnnn Maybe you just havent been willing to listen. I once thought the same thing until I finally opened up my heart to him. Matthew 7:7 Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. Knock on the door brother. You will get an answer.
Just found your channel and subbed already, I like your narration! And don’t worry man, time heals and you’ll find people to connect with eventually! There is hope. God became a human as Jesus and died to take the penalty for everything wrong you’ve ever done, then rose again. Sin is disobedience to how God tells us to live (mainly in the New Testament). If you want to be with him for eternity and be saved from hell, believe in him and what he did (John 3:16), and turn away from habits of sin (Luke 13:3). Your actions are evidence for whether your faith is real (James 2:17), but you’re not saved by your actions directly, only by God’s mercy (Ephesians 2:8-9). We all mess up and sin, so when you do, just confess your sin to God (1 John 1:9) and continue on fighting. It won’t make life easy, but God can give you hope. By the way, I hope you have a great day!
I can relate bro !!! U have a spiritual awakening you don’t wanna be around sheeple no more !!!
I've been an outcast my whole life fam! Always trying to fit in with the wrong crowds just for them to USE you and LAUGH in your face. Stay on guard, but explore all your avenues. It's much harder nowadays to find a genuine friend group, but I'm sure in time it will come. Have faith 💪🏼💯
Same, man. I'm Somali though and i tried connecting with fellow Somalis. They could tell im not like them i guess. Not as confident, outgoing, etc. I struggled finding my group my whole life. I've accepted im gonna have social anxiety for life and its not gonna get better. Social anxiety is absolutely brutal and so underestimated on just how much it affects your life.
Something I've learned is that there's no point in trying to fit in. Be unapologetically you and the people you want around you will gravitate towards ya! I think you're cool, the comments seem to think so, there are people on earth that resonate with you and want to know you for you. Keep your head up king, we all gonna make it :)
I felt like I needed to rely on a group of people or friends per say to enjoy life and do things I wanted... I quit a lot of my hobbies and things I liked to do because they stopped doing them or became disinterested or maybe found new friends towards the stuff they like... id say gang you have to teach yourself how to love and have fun with yourself alone because as life goes on you will make more connections and relationships.. but to save yourself from expectation and become stronger as a person you have to be homies w yourself.. anything past being your own bro is just a bonus... always remember that. Thanks for talking to us brodie :)
I can really relate to a lot of your feelings man. I'm 39 and still struggling to find my community and my place. But I have also been working on myself a lot and learning to love myself more.
Thanks man, yeah it’s hard to find people out here. Best of luck brother.
I feel you my guy. you're not alone. you have deep thoughts . im the same.
I know exactly how you feel bro , people make you the outcast and then blame you , eventually you will find people who treat you right .
You are a black woman! You don't need to be in blackpill spaces. You just spying and being nosey
@@Xrobotking66Bro any body is welcome to watch my videos.
You’re a good looking dude bro. That’s enough to get your foot in the door with a lot of people.
I have mild anxiety now but it used to be much worse. Idk if you’ve ever meditated but I did that for 3 years and it actually helped me in anxious situations a lot. Idk what your job is either but I think you should try waiting tables. You get reps talking to strangers AND girls. That will definitely help you break out of your shell.
Now with the connection thing, connection with people comes naturally, it’s either there or it’s not. Maybe take on the lead role rather than tagging along. Ask people you like to do something - like grab a drink or go to a concert or some s***, something that you want to do. If people don’t want to hang with you, no big deal, you’re good on your own. You can tell when people actually want to spend time with you. Don’t come across as needy or pushy, that’ll certainly turn people off.
But I don’t even know you man, I’m just blabbing trying to give you advice.
You either get better or you don’t - the choice is yours. And I can tell you’re trying. Good luck bro
I think ohnomyles has said it well. We can’t give up. We have to keep trying. It’s amazing how most of us survive, because we are resilient. Some are not so lucky. Beautiful walk way, Lizard!👍❤️
It's always better to be alone then in bad company. I hope your travels in life are joyful. I could tell your a good kid always stay positive 💯👍
If you have a chance to travel the world I would highly advise it my friend. Sometimes our environment makes us feel outcasted but this world is huge man. I had to learn that a lot of people come and go in our lives. Gratitude will help you feel better about your situation if you can’t necessarily change it. Be grateful for your struggles and try to be open to all people even if it’s only on a superficial level. Also every day you wake up try to learn something new! When other people can teach us something it makes us feel more connected.
Keep ur head up man. We're primal beings and usually stick with our own so it's hard to be accepted by other groups of people. Just have confidence and grow. Sometimes u gotta be a lone wolf alil.
Your a nice guy theres nothing wrong with being shy and introverted. The people in your life may change through the years but u will always remain. Knowing yourself and being comfortable in your own skin will hopefully attract the right people at some point, until then learn the lessons the wrong ones teach you. Keep your head up
You’re super young brother, as you go to college etc… you start to get exposed to a wider group of people and you’ll improve the quiet / shy side and will meet more people that you connect with. I’ve seen this happen with many of my friends. Try looking for people with the same hobbies as you. Try travelling to a different country or city to get out of your comfort zone. Go to places like Hostels where people tend to be extra nice and sociable even to people that are quiet. Anyways brother you just remind me of a lot of my friends at 17-19 but it all ends up good✌️
Life is a state of mind
@@mrchase7191 You a troll
I feel you. When I was in college, it felt like I couldn't fit in my group of friends. They talk about sex, finding love & having fun. Mostly I had fun with them before I dated. Still a virgin though. I try my best to keep up with the group but usually it wears out. They stop finding me interesting once I never caught up on old movies, tv shows, music & missing out on things. I have done a few meetups before years ago outside of school. Going to bowling, Disneyland & talking about art at restaurants. Hopefully I find better people to hang around in better meetups once I get back. It will definitely not be in my hometown for sure. There's really nothing for me there but work & friends that I don't feel like catching up with. If I can't fit in their group, oh well. Some people I've socialized with because I did it at a slow pace but my own way.
I pushed one person away & shut him out because he told me I missed out on fun activities & dating. Something he wanted me to do because he was bored. That I need to have fun because I'm always busy at work. Told me I'm missing out on his girl co-worker wanting to be a prostitute. I can be fun & boring. I just don't care anymore. I did burn that bridge with him so it was bad on my end though.
Yeah bro it’s tough when others talk about things you’ve never experienced and all you can do is nod your head. Also yeah cutting out toxic people is something that you gotta do in order to save yourself from a lot of heartache and pain, unfortunately it was something that took me years to understand. Hope you’re doing well bro.
@@YoungLizzyYCG 🌟👍 Thank you man. Hope you’re doing well too.
What was the temperature like out there? Looks nice.
Social structures can be complicated. I think it's about picking and choosing what interests you and moving on
Thanks, yeah it was like 26 degrees Celsius or I think that’s like 80 Fahrenheit.
im ur biggest fan 🔥
Thanks bro appreciate the support.
We all have a best friend in Christ, brother. Take his hand and it’ll change your life.
he aint never said shit to me
@@quinnnnnnnn Maybe you just havent been willing to listen. I once thought the same thing until I finally opened up my heart to him.
Matthew 7:7 Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
Knock on the door brother. You will get an answer.
Just found your channel and subbed already, I like your narration! And don’t worry man, time heals and you’ll find people to connect with eventually! There is hope. God became a human as Jesus and died to take the penalty for everything wrong you’ve ever done, then rose again. Sin is disobedience to how God tells us to live (mainly in the New Testament). If you want to be with him for eternity and be saved from hell, believe in him and what he did (John 3:16), and turn away from habits of sin (Luke 13:3). Your actions are evidence for whether your faith is real (James 2:17), but you’re not saved by your actions directly, only by God’s mercy (Ephesians 2:8-9). We all mess up and sin, so when you do, just confess your sin to God (1 John 1:9) and continue on fighting. It won’t make life easy, but God can give you hope. By the way, I hope you have a great day!
nah bro
Thanks for the support bro.
Here's a game for you. Take a shot for every time he says, "you know". 😂
Hey bro can you speak Arabic?
Nah man just English.
everyone has anxiety bruh such a weak excuse.
Clearly you’ve never experienced it.
Grow a beard. I know I got told that a thousand times but it does help
I can’t grow one.
@@YoungLizzyYCG any facial hair at all helps. Just stay with it and let it grow out as much as possible. Minoxidil helps alot (Rogaine)
What am i supposed to know?
????????
@@YoungLizzyYCG I was told "you know" about a hundred times but i still dont really know ???