@@sheluvssmokedupeyes1What a misinformed reply. There has always been domestic violence and abusive behavior towards women due to rejection. It's just wasn't talked about as much as today. The MeToo movement just made it more socially acceptable to say such things out loud.
@sheluvssmokedupeyes1 You were honestly probably more likely to be abused in the 90's, just because of the fact that they were less likely to face repercussions- because people being so open about abuse, domestic violence, etc. Is very much a modern thing. Having a father in your life doesn't really change much, often times there's a cycle of abuse that is passed down from the parents, so really if anything you can LEARN abusive behavior from your parents. You can learn Non-Abusive behaviors from anyone, but you're more likely to get sucked into a cycle of abuse by your parents or an abusive partner.
Which I think unfortunately is fair. Due to many stories I’ve heard from my female friends. May not seem like a good idea to some people. But I get it as a guy myself since you really don’t know how it could go. Some guys may not really care but then other guys may blow up. So I could get attmempting being safe.
@ijustneedausername6742 true, and I really dated myself with my references, lol. It's just that I grew up with such a wide variety of music, from different eras and genres that it really makes me sad to see that the generations haven't seem to try to pass their music down. Thankfully the 4 oldest of my nieces and nephews were raised like me, and are raising their kids the same. Just passing along music.
@badkitty4922 I played an Evanescence song in the car once, and my Gen Z son told me he recognized it from memes. Apparently Bring Me to Life is a meme song now.
I adore sophia being on the show. She is so hilarious and vibes great with riley and sam but we need more of her with john!! Yall are great, thanks for the laughs. Going through devastating divorce and watching yall are one of the few guaranteed smiles i get these days. Thank you again for being awesome i adore john, same, Riley and all the guests that show up. Glad sophia wasnt forced to wear a hat this time! Keep up the great work, yall are talented and hilarious and are going to go far.
PSA to all people dating women, especially guys: the reason why women leave without outright telling you that they aren't vibing with you, is because we are afraid of you reacting poorly and becoming aggressive. We wish we could just be direct, but most women simply cannot take that chance. I'm not for ghosting tho. At some point there's gotta be communication about why we left.
By doing this over phone calls, the entire genre has come full circle. Like, you are this close to being late night advice radio in the 90’s, and I’m here for it. I recognize that using your voice takes away some of the anonymity, but it also lets the OP’s tone come through more than writing, and tone adds a lot of context to the story. Besides, they have so many voice filters available now.
You can leave a date at any time, especially if you feel unsafe. Never worry about hurting a strangers feelings in this type of situation. This person is a stranger. If your going to do this, set up a safety net with a friend or family member. Have them call or text. Set up a code word if you need help. Don't set yourself up by getting in a bad situation. Think a head. Good mannors are for people your trust.
As someone who works at a DQ let me explain the Frozen Hot Chocolate! It's actually pretty good, but all it is is the Soft Serve, Slushy mix and Coco Fudge blended together and some whipped topping!
20:32 also, Sophia, I love your voice, it’s very soothing and it’s making the task of cutting this wood up a lot easier and I do mean like actual pieces of wood with a saw lol The timing was perfect 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Last caller: just leave it. They are adults and the can figure it out. Or if you get to meet her, perhaps say “you know my dad’s been married 4 times?” Or in a joking laughing manner “Has my dad been love booming you???” Just little hints so you can get your point across.
Sam- "sorry you live 24 miles away.... if only it was 23 miles...., let me get you an uber...." 😂😂 I'm sure you won't live that one down anytime soon. Also next date Sophia goes on and "has a recording" she might have actually forgotten about they are going to be like.... sure you do.... lol
OK OP fan from Poland here! Just wanted to say that I love how widespread our saying about the circus and monkeys has become and that you're using it! 😄❤ another great episode, keep up the good work, you guys never fail to make me laugh 😂😊
Is it really our saying? There are sayings that are basically the same in different countries (for example they use one about not throwing the baby with the bath in brasil) so it's possible that they were invented independently... Unless you know that it comes from Poland, then great! 😅
Lol love when Sophia is on, she had me cracking up all show! Ugh so once I went to the bathroom towards the end of the date. My date left while I was in there AND HE TOOK MY UMBRELLA! AND LEFT ME THE BILL! Dick move for sure
I feel like guys get to say things like "I'm not feeling it" more readily, especially when in an uncomfortable situation. I feel like women are taught to be more cautious then men are.
Wait. OP #1 is "fat" at '5,5" 100 lbs at 16? When I was 16 I was 97 lbs, '5,4" and could eat as much as a body builder. My mom had to reassure our family doctor that there was zero chance of me being anorexic, that between dance, gymnastics, ADHD and my metabolism I was eating PLENTY. It's ok, it became a bit of a joke between us and I started inviting him and his awesome wife (the other doctor of their practice) to my dance recitals and gymnastic competitions. NOW ya know why I'm skinny, Mitch!😂😂😂
If I have children and they're going on 1st dates or dates in general (hopefully they trust me enough to tell me), I'd always make sure I'm on standby to bail them out, especially my daughters because people are hella crazy out here. I need my babies to come back in 1 piece and intact.
I can totally understand caller 1's issue because a friend that i know has a dad that is/was in a relationship with a person who can be very dramatic and i saw (and heard in his voice) how exhausted he was from the relationship but never left it. Older men like them tend to not be able to stand being by themselves, they can't take being alone so they always seek at least some kind of relationship. Best of luck caller 1!
Last story: I understand why she feels somewhat obligated to tell #5. But I also agree with the not my circus thought. I guess I would make it clear to my dad that this pattern can be hurtful to others, and if something happens or it is brought up, and I will speak the truth. But stay out of it if pissible
Maybe not say anything until it seems more serious? When op is around #5 drop a couple subtle hints. Like “Dang dad you think you’ll ever REALLY settle down?” Or just straight up call her #5 😂😂 no that’s mean, but would be funny
It's okay Reilly, you're not weird for not liking chocolate. We like what we like. Besides, I don't like vanilla, at all. But I love the smell. Don't get me started on white chocolate, unless you want a rant, lol.😂😂
If they ask to meet again when they are leaving on the first date, I'm just honest. I don't like people saying: Yeah sure we will meet again! But after, they never send you a message again or backtracking on what they said.... So yeah, I like honesty!
The fifth “wife” story; Don’t tell the wife. I get the desire to warn someone, especially when you can so clearly see it. Who knows? They might be “made” for each other. But that is something they need to figure out for themselves. Besides, If someone moves super fast and has been married 4 times, I think that alone is a telltale sign. If she does not see it as a red flag, you telling her won’t either. Only thing you can do is make sure your dad told her that he hs been married that many times….
Yeah, i think I could say out loud "you forgot to put the beer out." or something like that. So je would be forced to pay or put it away without saying directly that he was trying to steal it.
Sophia keeps committing the most Ameeican sin there is: saying "in Europe this, in Europe that". There's a huge difference depending on what country you're in😂
HOW DO YALL NOT KNOW EVANESCENCE WHAT Also please recognize 120 is extremely model thin for adult women over a certain height! Just never guess weight XD
To get out of a date, have my friend call in the middle for 2 reasons: To see if I'm safe and 2: I f the date is bad, it can provide an excuse to leave.
There might be some off brand store called 9-Eleven, but 7-Eleven is called 7-Eleven all over the world, including Europe😂 and btw saying you've been to Europe says nothing. It's a continent with many very different countries 😅 besides that. Thanks for a great episode. I love the show ❤
Oooffff. Someone warned me about an X's mother a month into our relationship. He didnt give details. I wish I listened to him. But you don't know until you do. 3 years of the relationship and many more to recover. I'm finally okay. :) I wish them all the best. But it sounds manipulative.
I love Sophia on the show!! ❤ 😂 and sometimes women are scared to end the date or turn a man down. Men can be violent when being told no. It's scary to think about.
I tend to fall fairly easy unfortunately. But love bombing freaks me out. Let me explain, if I like a guy I try to get to know him, I try to spend time outside (going to the store, for a bike ride, for a walk) but the second he starts saying, "I would like to live together, I. can see myself married to you, I would love to have a family with you" every single alarm starts going off in my head. I love to see the way a guy treats me, and the level of respect he shows sooner than later makes me fall, however I hold back as far as I can (past experiences taught me better) to let out the three magic little words.
Peeps, if you are creeped out by a man and he is insisting you go to his apartment, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and call someone to come get you. Do NOT go back to his place and *especially* do NOT go inside! She's lucky things didn't go worse. (Altho I haven't heard the whole story yet, so maybe I shouldn't assume)
First Story: If you get to the point where you ask your friend to “crash” a date and STILL agree for your date to tag along, then you have a serious people pleasing problem. I am not saying this to be mean, but that is not healthy. In a way I can not really fault the guy for not getting the hint if there really is none. Some guys will literally push until they are clearly rejected. Personally, she should have just said goodbye after the bar. This way she had a “safe” out and still gave the guy a chance. Being Nice is not always kind. Not to them, not to you.
cant tell you how many dates ive said 'HEY NO THANKS" even 15 minutes in. Don't waste your time ladies, don't be afraid to leave a situation that makes you uncomfortable. wasting a day and potentially putting yourself in a dangerous siuation?? to be nice?? no.
*I’VE NEVER* waited 6 months to tell a girl I love her. If you gotta be with someone for 6 months to figure out your feelings, you shouldn’t be wasting your own time tbh.
For the woman at the end with the serial monogamist father, if girlfriend #5 has a child that is a minor in addition to her adult sons, I would say find a way to inform her. If not, just stay out of it.
Last story: no, don't reach out to the girlfriend. Im sure she's aware that your dad was married 4 times already and she's able to draw her own concern from that information. Unless you believe that your dad is a lier and didn't tell her that
9:18 As an early 20s, short Asian American female, I didn’t have to hear anything else, I knew EXACTLY what was aboutta go down EDIT: As this story progresses, I relate very hard to it and I KNOW it just gets worse
In today’s dating situation: It depends on how you approach “fat” comments and under what circumstances. If you lied about your weight, photoshopped your pics, and if your date doesn’t prefer heavy people, he/she has grounds. ANY TIME YOU’RE NOT FEELING A DATE, just say you want to leave and go. But always split the check on the first date so that you don’t feel you owe anyone a thing.
I want to be the type of parent my child feels safe to call if they’re on a bad date or in a questionable situation. I’ll come out to get you. Edit: You don’t need to waste 12 hours of your life on a bad date! I got you.
I would sit down and talk to gf #5. Get to know her and just tell her that you don't want to see her or her children be hurt. That this is my dad's pattern and I just want her to be informed. And if they stay together awesome, if not it's fine. I did the same thing with my brothers wife. They stayed together, have children and got married. It worked out and she knew what she was getting herself into. I'm glad to say she's helped him grow into a better human being.
I think she should maybe mention it to her kids, like meet the kids and just mention stuff he's done before without making it an actual convos about her dad. Like baby bird the info into convos, and then wife 5s kids will have the info and be able to pass it on and op can relax because it was a direct "hey my dad sucks"
A year? No. Way. If we are in a committed relationship, and you don't tell me you love me before a year, we got issues. My boyfriend and I lived together before we even dated a year lmao.
One of my first dates in college, when the guy came to pick me up he ended up locking his keys in his car, which was an old police car and impossible to break into. Very awkward, had to wait for his dad to come and by the time he did I had to go to work. Feeling bad I allowed a second try, he took me to steak and shake. Things went kinda terrible, he was boring, and went on a long rant making fun of his sisters interests thinking I would laugh. Turns out those were also all my interests! Then when we were leaving to go to a movie he looked queasy and proceeded to projectile vomit in the parking lot, a lot of it getting on my shoes. He took me home and there was no third try, I think out of his own embarrassment he just started avoiding me in our classes
I have had text code with friends that when a date was going sideways I text the code word "potatoes" in any form( my friends know I don't like potatoes.) So if i texted a friend and said "should I have mashed potatoes or a baked potato?" They wait 2 minutes and someone calls me with an emergency and I apologize and leave due to the emergency. This also worked during a double date if i said the code word minutes later my friend n i went to the bathroom and then set up an exit strategy. They wait 2 minutes and someone calls me with an emergency and I apologize and leave due to the emergency. I always met dates in a public location and they never knew where I lived.
The girl im the last story should tell the older siblings. If not they will be her step siblings and that little boy could get attached to him. But as a duaghter you will be more believable then one of the ex wives.
Most women are not comfortable telling a man that it is not working out because we don't know how he will react.
This date was probably in the 90s when men were raised by fathers, and they knew how to react
@@sheluvssmokedupeyes1What a misinformed reply. There has always been domestic violence and abusive behavior towards women due to rejection. It's just wasn't talked about as much as today. The MeToo movement just made it more socially acceptable to say such things out loud.
@sheluvssmokedupeyes1 You were honestly probably more likely to be abused in the 90's, just because of the fact that they were less likely to face repercussions- because people being so open about abuse, domestic violence, etc. Is very much a modern thing.
Having a father in your life doesn't really change much, often times there's a cycle of abuse that is passed down from the parents, so really if anything you can LEARN abusive behavior from your parents.
You can learn Non-Abusive behaviors from anyone, but you're more likely to get sucked into a cycle of abuse by your parents or an abusive partner.
Which I think unfortunately is fair. Due to many stories I’ve heard from my female friends. May not seem like a good idea to some people. But I get it as a guy myself since you really don’t know how it could go. Some guys may not really care but then other guys may blow up. So I could get attmempting being safe.
@@sheluvssmokedupeyes1yeah no, that take is just wrong lmao
I just felt myself age 10,000 years when y’all didn’t know those bands lol. I immediately know this story was in like 2007 😂
Ikr?! At LEAST Evanescence, come on! 😂😂😂
It's not like I was telling the story and mentioned Journey or Duran Duran, lol!😂😂😂
@@badkitty4922 I mean it’s been almost 20 years since they blew up 💀 I don’t expect gen z to know my cringe emo music from high school lol
@ijustneedausername6742 true, and I really dated myself with my references, lol.
It's just that I grew up with such a wide variety of music, from different eras and genres that it really makes me sad to see that the generations haven't seem to try to pass their music down.
Thankfully the 4 oldest of my nieces and nephews were raised like me, and are raising their kids the same.
Just passing along music.
@badkitty4922 I played an Evanescence song in the car once, and my Gen Z son told me he recognized it from memes. Apparently Bring Me to Life is a meme song now.
@Karamarika that's been a meme forever, since 2014 to be exact.
I adore sophia being on the show. She is so hilarious and vibes great with riley and sam but we need more of her with john!! Yall are great, thanks for the laughs. Going through devastating divorce and watching yall are one of the few guaranteed smiles i get these days. Thank you again for being awesome i adore john, same, Riley and all the guests that show up. Glad sophia wasnt forced to wear a hat this time! Keep up the great work, yall are talented and hilarious and are going to go far.
Hoping for the best during this time for you and glad we can bring you a smile 😊
We need Sophia, Sam, John, & Riley all together on the show
Pretty than may rarely happen if it does because they all have to have days off so it's basically scheduled like any other job lol
PSA to all people dating women, especially guys: the reason why women leave without outright telling you that they aren't vibing with you, is because we are afraid of you reacting poorly and becoming aggressive. We wish we could just be direct, but most women simply cannot take that chance. I'm not for ghosting tho. At some point there's gotta be communication about why we left.
There’s taser pins for that
@@sheluvssmokedupeyes1Which are illegal and unobtainable in some states....
Good
Maybe just slip something into his drink?.🙄@@sheluvssmokedupeyes1
By doing this over phone calls, the entire genre has come full circle. Like, you are this close to being late night advice radio in the 90’s, and I’m here for it. I recognize that using your voice takes away some of the anonymity, but it also lets the OP’s tone come through more than writing, and tone adds a lot of context to the story. Besides, they have so many voice filters available now.
These two together are so funny. I love when Sophia comes by
Love it when you guys call fans
Sophia episodes are already the best but the sibling episodes are even better. Love yalls dynamic it makes the stories even more entertaining
Kissing someone's hand at the height of the pandemic is INSANE! When you stop to think about the time period, his whole demeanor was a red flag!
You can leave a date at any time, especially if you feel unsafe. Never worry about hurting a strangers feelings in this type of situation. This person is a stranger. If your going to do this, set up a safety net with a friend or family member. Have them call or text. Set up a code word if you need help. Don't set yourself up by getting in a bad situation. Think a head. Good mannors are for people your trust.
As someone who works at a DQ let me explain the Frozen Hot Chocolate! It's actually pretty good, but all it is is the Soft Serve, Slushy mix and Coco Fudge blended together and some whipped topping!
20:32 also, Sophia, I love your voice, it’s very soothing and it’s making the task of cutting this wood up a lot easier and I do mean like actual pieces of wood with a saw lol
The timing was perfect 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Hey, Sophia's on again! She's so funny. Super honest Sam, just unsolicitedly psychoanalysing peeps and making girls cry 😅
I thought this was gonna be an oyster girl story all over again but it took an immediate left turn when he said she was fat
Last caller: just leave it. They are adults and the can figure it out. Or if you get to meet her, perhaps say “you know my dad’s been married 4 times?” Or in a joking laughing manner “Has my dad been love booming you???” Just little hints so you can get your point across.
Sam- "sorry you live 24 miles away.... if only it was 23 miles...., let me get you an uber...." 😂😂
I'm sure you won't live that one down anytime soon.
Also next date Sophia goes on and "has a recording" she might have actually forgotten about they are going to be like.... sure you do.... lol
OKOP tea cups/Mugs? Get on it those would be dope
Sippy mugs in case somebody SPILLS THAT TEA
@@triciad4100 yesss!
OK OP fan from Poland here! Just wanted to say that I love how widespread our saying about the circus and monkeys has become and that you're using it! 😄❤ another great episode, keep up the good work, you guys never fail to make me laugh 😂😊
Is it really our saying? There are sayings that are basically the same in different countries (for example they use one about not throwing the baby with the bath in brasil) so it's possible that they were invented independently... Unless you know that it comes from Poland, then great! 😅
@@Ola_Stawinska it really is, and it's great. Xxx
Lol love when Sophia is on, she had me cracking up all show!
Ugh so once I went to the bathroom towards the end of the date. My date left while I was in there AND HE TOOK MY UMBRELLA! AND LEFT ME THE BILL! Dick move for sure
THATS INSANE
😮 omg the nerve
Someone who DOESN'T KNOW Evanescence 🤯 I just realised I am really aged. 🙈
Yea when she said like I was like damn am I old?!
I feel like guys get to say things like "I'm not feeling it" more readily, especially when in an uncomfortable situation. I feel like women are taught to be more cautious then men are.
Wait. OP #1 is "fat" at '5,5" 100 lbs at 16?
When I was 16 I was 97 lbs, '5,4" and could eat as much as a body builder.
My mom had to reassure our family doctor that there was zero chance of me being anorexic, that between dance, gymnastics, ADHD and my metabolism I was eating PLENTY.
It's ok, it became a bit of a joke between us and I started inviting him and his awesome wife (the other doctor of their practice) to my dance recitals and gymnastic competitions.
NOW ya know why I'm skinny, Mitch!😂😂😂
How do you not know what Evanescence is?! Damn, Sam, slap me right in the age why don't you !🤣💀
Exactly the comment I was looking for
He is older than me! But I know that band.
If I have children and they're going on 1st dates or dates in general (hopefully they trust me enough to tell me), I'd always make sure I'm on standby to bail them out, especially my daughters because people are hella crazy out here. I need my babies to come back in 1 piece and intact.
Sam struggling through Evanescence nearly broke me! 😭😭😭😭
I pulled the classic, have someone call me needing me (I was a nanny) because it was SO AWKWARD. I don't feel bad because I did what was best for me
I can totally understand caller 1's issue because a friend that i know has a dad that is/was in a relationship with a person who can be very dramatic and i saw (and heard in his voice) how exhausted he was from the relationship but never left it. Older men like them tend to not be able to stand being by themselves, they can't take being alone so they always seek at least some kind of relationship. Best of luck caller 1!
I told him that my cousin had a flat tire and I had to go save her
Last story: I understand why she feels somewhat obligated to tell #5. But I also agree with the not my circus thought. I guess I would make it clear to my dad that this pattern can be hurtful to others, and if something happens or it is brought up, and I will speak the truth. But stay out of it if pissible
Maybe not say anything until it seems more serious? When op is around #5 drop a couple subtle hints. Like “Dang dad you think you’ll ever REALLY settle down?” Or just straight up call her #5 😂😂 no that’s mean, but would be funny
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I knew where this was going when Evanescence and Rise Against were "rocked" out to 😂
It's okay Reilly, you're not weird for not liking chocolate.
We like what we like.
Besides, I don't like vanilla, at all. But I love the smell.
Don't get me started on white chocolate, unless you want a rant, lol.😂😂
I love Sophia and I love that you turned the calls into a transcript that you read out loud!! ❤
If they ask to meet again when they are leaving on the first date, I'm just honest. I don't like people saying: Yeah sure we will meet again! But after, they never send you a message again or backtracking on what they said.... So yeah, I like honesty!
I feel sooo old now hearing "you know any of those? I don't" :D :D
Second story: With guys like that, it is important to be very clear that you are not interested.
I thought I was going crazy the first two times the bleeps were happening 😂 it’s so cute and funny though
LOVE SOPHIA ❤ Our girlie is hilarious 😄😄😄
The fifth “wife” story;
Don’t tell the wife. I get the desire to warn someone, especially when you can so clearly see it.
Who knows? They might be “made” for each other. But that is something they need to figure out for themselves.
Besides, If someone moves super fast and has been married 4 times, I think that alone is a telltale sign. If she does not see it as a red flag, you telling her won’t either.
Only thing you can do is make sure your dad told her that he hs been married that many times….
The guy had so many red flags, but I would never leave the store knowing someone I was with stole.
Yeah, i think I could say out loud "you forgot to put the beer out." or something like that. So je would be forced to pay or put it away without saying directly that he was trying to steal it.
Sophia keeps committing the most Ameeican sin there is: saying "in Europe this, in Europe that". There's a huge difference depending on what country you're in😂
Evanescence ❤️❤️ if you’ve heard bring me to life you’ve heard of evanescence lol . They’re my fave, got engaged at their concert in 2022 ❤️
I absolutely love Sophia!! She is so cute and funny.
Don't ask someone their weight, man. C'mon. Ugh. 😂.
Sophia is such a sweetheart. You are so heartfull and connected siblings. I hope that my two sons could be the same as they grow up.
Omg you guys don’t know who any of those bands are???? 😂😂😂 omg!!!
HOW DO YALL NOT KNOW EVANESCENCE WHAT
Also please recognize 120 is extremely model thin for adult women over a certain height! Just never guess weight XD
Was looking for this exact comment, show them Bring me to life and they'll recognize it immediately
I’m dying because they didn’t recognize any of the bands. Made me feel so old lmao. Love you guys
To get out of a date, have my friend call in the middle for 2 reasons: To see if I'm safe and 2: I f the date is bad, it can provide an excuse to leave.
Well my age is showing since I too have rocked out to Evanesence. You need to check them out Sam.
There might be some off brand store called 9-Eleven, but 7-Eleven is called 7-Eleven all over the world, including Europe😂 and btw saying you've been to Europe says nothing. It's a continent with many very different countries 😅 besides that. Thanks for a great episode. I love the show ❤
The ghosting one sounds like he love bombed her in the beginning and often those end in ghosting.
The moment they said they don't know Evanescence...😳😳😳💀💀💀... I am apparently and officially too old for this s podcast!😭😭
Oooffff. Someone warned me about an X's mother a month into our relationship. He didnt give details. I wish I listened to him. But you don't know until you do. 3 years of the relationship and many more to recover. I'm finally okay. :)
I wish them all the best. But it sounds manipulative.
I love Sophia on the show!! ❤ 😂 and sometimes women are scared to end the date or turn a man down. Men can be violent when being told no. It's scary to think about.
See, my response to "can you pay?" At the 7/11 would be only if you pay for the beer in your bag 😂
I tend to fall fairly easy unfortunately. But love bombing freaks me out. Let me explain, if I like a guy I try to get to know him, I try to spend time outside (going to the store, for a bike ride, for a walk) but the second he starts saying, "I would like to live together, I. can see myself married to you, I would love to have a family with you" every single alarm starts going off in my head.
I love to see the way a guy treats me, and the level of respect he shows sooner than later makes me fall, however I hold back as far as I can (past experiences taught me better) to let out the three magic little words.
*HOOOOW CAN YOU SEE INTO MY EYES…. LIKE OPEN DOORS*
That’s Evanescence guys 😆😂 you have to know that song
Peeps, if you are creeped out by a man and he is insisting you go to his apartment, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom and call someone to come get you. Do NOT go back to his place and *especially* do NOT go inside! She's lucky things didn't go worse. (Altho I haven't heard the whole story yet, so maybe I shouldn't assume)
Frozen hot chocolates are like their smoothies but made with cocoa sauce, and have whipped cream on top. they're actually pretty good.
First Story: If you get to the point where you ask your friend to “crash” a date and STILL agree for your date to tag along, then you have a serious people pleasing problem. I am not saying this to be mean, but that is not healthy. In a way I can not really fault the guy for not getting the hint if there really is none. Some guys will literally push until they are clearly rejected.
Personally, she should have just said goodbye after the bar. This way she had a “safe” out and still gave the guy a chance.
Being Nice is not always kind. Not to them, not to you.
Sam roasted someone so hard she went lesbian 😆😂
I would definately let the person know I'm not feeling it and I would leave. I would have left at the end of the bar or even after dinner
4:08 THANK YOU SOPHIA. I work out a lot and gain so much mai le mass I’m now so heavy
cant tell you how many dates ive said 'HEY NO THANKS" even 15 minutes in. Don't waste your time ladies, don't be afraid to leave a situation that makes you uncomfortable. wasting a day and potentially putting yourself in a dangerous siuation?? to be nice?? no.
OP from the second story should’ve asked for an Angel Shot back at the bar!!! So creepy!
great bands
*I’VE NEVER* waited 6 months to tell a girl I love her. If you gotta be with someone for 6 months to figure out your feelings, you shouldn’t be wasting your own time tbh.
Omg frozen hot chocolate from DQ is the best, would recommend
Zach would rather be lonely than broke
2:02 I know they all and they are awesome!!
Or they fluffy cake brownies or dense fudgy brownies?
For the woman at the end with the serial monogamist father, if girlfriend #5 has a child that is a minor in addition to her adult sons, I would say find a way to inform her. If not, just stay out of it.
Last story: no, don't reach out to the girlfriend. Im sure she's aware that your dad was married 4 times already and she's able to draw her own concern from that information. Unless you believe that your dad is a lier and didn't tell her that
I used to be insecure about my "big" arms, but now I realized I was subconsciously bulky to get big strong arms 💪🏼
19:30 👁️ 👄 👁️ well, Sam, I would probably die on the inside a little but I’d survive 🤣🤷🏾♀️ gotta rip off that band aid 😅
If someone has had 4 marriages that is a huge red flag.
My hubby & I said I love you pretty quickly but it was mutual feelings, you could feel it from each other. One side pushing it is creepy.
Sophia = Queen Energy 👸
9:18 As an early 20s, short Asian American female, I didn’t have to hear anything else, I knew EXACTLY what was aboutta go down
EDIT: As this story progresses, I relate very hard to it and I KNOW it just gets worse
Give poor Reily some days off!
22:57 I mean 6/10 is still technically above average so he may have been trying to compliment you but perhaps he wasn’t sure how too. Haha
Im sorry but the random "I see you." From Sophia while making aggressive eye contact with Riley or the camera, sent me into a fit.
Bailey, I don't like chocolate either, neither does my mum
I love Sophia bruh 💜💜💜
In today’s dating situation: It depends on how you approach “fat” comments and under what circumstances. If you lied about your weight, photoshopped your pics, and if your date doesn’t prefer heavy people, he/she has grounds.
ANY TIME YOU’RE NOT FEELING A DATE, just say you want to leave and go. But always split the check on the first date so that you don’t feel you owe anyone a thing.
I think that daughter needs to mind her own business if she a adult and not that close with the dad
I want to be the type of parent my child feels safe to call if they’re on a bad date or in a questionable situation. I’ll come out to get you.
Edit: You don’t need to waste 12 hours of your life on a bad date! I got you.
I would sit down and talk to gf #5. Get to know her and just tell her that you don't want to see her or her children be hurt. That this is my dad's pattern and I just want her to be informed. And if they stay together awesome, if not it's fine. I did the same thing with my brothers wife. They stayed together, have children and got married. It worked out and she knew what she was getting herself into. I'm glad to say she's helped him grow into a better human being.
I think she should maybe mention it to her kids, like meet the kids and just mention stuff he's done before without making it an actual convos about her dad. Like baby bird the info into convos, and then wife 5s kids will have the info and be able to pass it on and op can relax because it was a direct "hey my dad sucks"
Its okay RY i dont do much chocolate either. Some choc milk here or there and a reeces cup every year or so but im not a fan. 🤷♀️
A year? No. Way. If we are in a committed relationship, and you don't tell me you love me before a year, we got issues. My boyfriend and I lived together before we even dated a year lmao.
One of my first dates in college, when the guy came to pick me up he ended up locking his keys in his car, which was an old police car and impossible to break into. Very awkward, had to wait for his dad to come and by the time he did I had to go to work. Feeling bad I allowed a second try, he took me to steak and shake. Things went kinda terrible, he was boring, and went on a long rant making fun of his sisters interests thinking I would laugh. Turns out those were also all my interests! Then when we were leaving to go to a movie he looked queasy and proceeded to projectile vomit in the parking lot, a lot of it getting on my shoes. He took me home and there was no third try, I think out of his own embarrassment he just started avoiding me in our classes
28:15 so sketch that the number is disconnected. *tin hat on* she changed her number because shit got crazy with the guy! Hope OP is ok
I have had text code with friends that when a date was going sideways I text the code word "potatoes" in any form( my friends know I don't like potatoes.) So if i texted a friend and said "should I have mashed potatoes or a baked potato?" They wait 2 minutes and someone calls me with an emergency and I apologize and leave due to the emergency. This also worked during a double date if i said the code word minutes later my friend n i went to the bathroom and then set up an exit strategy. They wait 2 minutes and someone calls me with an emergency and I apologize and leave due to the emergency. I always met dates in a public location and they never knew where I lived.
She needs to leave it alone. It's not worth it
This Line Has Been Placed Out Of Service* 🤔 Doesn't that mean they disabled their number on purpose did they change it right afterwards?
The one time I was straightforward the man got aggressive and then continued to stalk me for half a year so idk about being straightforward.
The girl im the last story should tell the older siblings. If not they will be her step siblings and that little boy could get attached to him. But as a duaghter you will be more believable then one of the ex wives.