You’re a damn good person. -Askel I guess that was what she needed to hear all along. My life story is incredibly similar to the woman in the film. I broke into tears when Askel said that, as this was exactly my ex-husbands words to me when I was going through the same situation. At that moment in the film I finally understood that my ex really meant what he said, I just didnt believe him at the time. Brilliant movie for the curious and open minded, not the judgemental personality.
I loved this movie. A massive amount of empathy is shown for each character, for all their vices and faults. I think at one point or another, in the daily confusion and uncertainty of our lives, we've all felt like "the worst person in the world.” Go into this movie with an open mind! It's certainly a ride and one of the year's best.
@@subhashgoragund6470 I was able to watch it at the New York Film Festival actually. I wish they’d already release it worldwide, but they’re doing the slow awards rollout for it
I personally I watched the movie then I came back to watch the trailer. I’m glad I did that because the trailer gives a false idea that the movie is about a woman who cheated on her boyfriend and that’s it. for me, this movie was about the struggle of figuring yourself out and what you want to do with life and when you want to settle down and who you want to settle down with. This movie has combined different elements of filmmaking and the cinematography was outstanding. It was breathtaking. Also, it was refreshing to have a European film that was not in English and a different culture, this movie is one of those you think about after you watch for sometime 10 out of 10!
You make the movie seem a bit more joyous than it is but maybe I am misinterpreting what you’re saying. For me I did get parts of what you’re saying obviously but I also got a lot of “toxic female” vibe and it wasn’t an easy watch. She isn’t a good person.
You are telling me Renate Reinsve did not deserve a best actress nomination in oscars, this year? I refuse to believe it. She deserved every bit of it. In the year of biopics, real, natural, intense and organic roles like this gets overlooked easily, I understand but look at her she was phenomenal in the movie. I guess some performances donot require any validation.
I’ll say this much, I would have much preferred her or Alana Haim to have gotten the nomination over Nicole Kidman in The Ricardos. That one feels kind of a nonsense pick..And she won The Globe. I mean, I like Nicole Kidman, but come on. I’d like to see Kidman get a 2nd Oscar but not for that.
It annoys me so much that all these prizes always go to roles in biopics. The praised acting is more about who lost/gained weight for the role, who can mimic the real person, who looks like the person. Putting some fake teeth and wig on - that’s considered good acting 😕 For example Olivia Colman this year, that is real acting. And same here with Renate.
As I was reading the comments, this film is pretty divisive. Well, this film is about life. And yes, life is divisive and there are so many perspectives. Personally, I liked the movie, because I felt that, it understands me. I did not enjoy. I did not fall in love with the actors, the beautiful scenes. I fell in love with it's realism.
I loved this film, I found it very true of the full female experience (it is raw and pretty audacious in places). I recognised so many of the conflicts when settling into a long term relationship with someone too, magnified as she is with someone 15 years older with a totally different life. It is hard when two people combine their lives, friends, families, I was struck by how little we see that in cinema. I am a bit surprised at people who dislike the main character, for me she was really trying to fit the older man's vision for their relationship, and losing herself along the way. Not always making brilliant decisions but understandable ones as she works out what she wants her life to look like... I'm sure we've all been there so who are we to judge! Very realistic I thought. I would 100% recommend and can't wait to see again.
@@yvonneshanson1525 is it misogynistic to point out that someone cheating on their partner is dishonest? Damn, I guess supporting cheating and looking outside of the relationship for love when you're still in one is woman positive. Playing with peoples emotions is so pro-women ❤️ go queen
Trailer is deceiving - the film is more robust than it seems, and the story doesn't progress nearly as fast and in as linear a way as the trailer would suggest.
You will cry for sure. This movie is amazing. The actress is very touching. This movie is for young People between 25/30y.o til 45/50y.o, we can understand her situation in the movie.
I'm 22 and I loved it ! The movie reminded me of Frances Ha. I totally related to her switching between careers, quitting as soon as things gets too real, her loneliness, her detachment, her not being mother-material xD and many more.
I guess that was what she needed to hear all along. My life story is incredibly similar to the woman in the film. I broke into tears when Askel said that, as this was exactly my ex-husbands words to me when I was going through the same situation. At that moment in the film I finally understood that my ex really meant what he said, I just didnt believe him at the time. Brilliant movie for the curious and open minded, not the judgemental personality.
I watched this film last night on a Reddit recommendation and I absolutely loved it. Not thinking it would be my kind of film being a conservative American and it’s obvious liberal and feminist undertones and what not but it hit me. Even I as a 35 year old dude felt so much commonality with Julie , the years of aimless directionless living I did, and the indecisiveness of who I wanted to be or how I wanted to live my life. I def recommend this film
@@deldia They must be US reviewers then, who can’t really categorise this film so calls it a “romantic comedy”. It’s obviously a cultural thing and not a hill to die on. Ciao.
This film is an artistic masterpiece, but stupid people will only see it a simple story of cheating. She is not cheating on her boyfriend! Go watch the film, and you'll see, it is more complex and nuanced than that!
Playing devils advocate wouldn’t every cheater believe their own reasons were nuanced and sentimental through from their perspective? There is nothing cute about this girl being indecisive about life…part of being an adult is making choices like if you have feelings for someone else you leave your partner not dance around it.
@@alidemee8161 Exactly, she expressed what a low quality female would do which is specifically cheating in the film and trying to justify bad behaviour and decisions. The movie was soleley just melodramatic at best. however, what i do love about the movie is the screenplay presented
This trailer is just not representative of the movie... And the cherry on the top for me is calling it a romantic movie. For me this was NOT a romantic movie, because it was not about finding that person for a happily ever after. It was about life being complicated, about the difficulties of telling the truth, let alone knowing your own truth... It's a movie about coming to terms with the fact, that as humans we don't fit into the cultural molds and narratives we have created for ourselves and we have to live with constantly falling short and not knowing what's going on adn waht to do next.
@@louisoliverbyrne4056 She did leave Aksel for Elvind after romanticising the relationship, so it's lowkey cheating. If you partner after breaking up with you suddenly comes into a relationship after 2 days what will it be called?
I've just finished watching this film and thought it was superb, esp the acting which was next level. The "feel" of the film reminded me of another Norwegian film I saw a few years ago called "Oslo, Norway". I've just found out that it had the same director, Joachim Trier. Now that's what is called having a signature style.
A girl cheating and throwing away something she won’t get ever again! Remember guys, you aren’t special and they will do it to you too😂😝 gotta check this film out.
@@toomuchinformation yeah. Go talk to 30+ year old girls who hit the wall who have no man, no kids, nothing. See how happy they are when they try to run back to the guy they cheated on and they find out he is wifing up a younger, hotter, better, faithful girl. Lol not sure wtf you are arguing about.
I just read an article about why they named the film this, apparently it's a popular catch phrase in Norway - they say "Ugh, I'm the worst person in the world" if they feel they've done something wrong, haha. I think Julie as a character feels flawed often & sometimes thinks of herself as this. Hope this helps. The article is from Uproxx - "named after a catchy Norwegian phrase."
Flaky movie which only seems to be trying to give the Swedes the run for their nudity money. What saves it, is a very sincere and well-acted monologue near the end of the movie.
This gets my nod for film of the year. As a man in his early 40’s who dates women in their late 20’s this film hit too close to home. All the circumstances and dialogue between the main characters in their relationship has happened between all older men who date younger modern women feminists who look at having children and starting a family as oppressive and limiting. If you are an older guy in a relationship with a younger woman don’t take her to see this film. Watch it alone. It might make things uncomfortable for you guys afterwards.
A man in his 40’s dating women in their 20’s is a HUGE red flag. Any women reading this I urge you to do the complete opposite of what OP has said and watch this movie. Share it around your friends, share it with any of your girlfriends, female family members or in online female spaces to warn younger women from dating predatory older men who wish to keep them compliant and ignorant (as the OP has suggested by not sharing said film). Men in their 40s have nothing to offer a woman in her 20’s. They seek control and manipulation only.
@@MmmMulholland You sound bitter. Did you watch the movie? It was him who got screwed over by the younger modern feminist woman. So wanting kids is controlling? Men in their 40’s offer nothing to women in their 20’s? How about stability, maturity, dependability. All the things needed to raise a family. But if you want to be a “career woman” and travel and have “experiences” (hooking up with random guys) and have dried up eggs in your late 30’s when it’s too late, don’t complain it’s men’s fault for not stepping up. You had your chance in your 20’s. Have fun choosing an ignorant beta male you despise to knock you up in your 30’s because you realized feminism lied to you about having it all and your biological clock is very finite. I work with plenty of these miserable career women in their late 30’s who are still childless and can’t lock down a man they respect.
@@MmmMulholland I'm not sure why you would assume the age difference is a red flag but I wouldn't generalize that way. Like any relationship, it's about communicating intentions early on, regardless of what age you are. As for the movie, none of us have to fit into the mold of any movie characters. If watching this movie interrupts an otherwise successful relationship, then it really wasn't meant to be in the first place.
@@MmmMulholland nice, blame successful and accomplished men for young women wanting to avoid hard work so they can wake up at 10am to go to the coffee shop before yoga with their fur baby. You do realize there are many young women who seek older and rich men so they can eventually live off alimony?
@@homersimpson5964 Women who want to do that can’t access the men unless those men allow it. No younger woman wants an older man other than to exploit him for money (while sleeping with and spending it with younger same-aged men behind his back) or if she has serious attachment issues/“daddy issues”. Both are gonna be a rough ride for the older man. However, most older men are NOT successful and come with a heap of ugly baggage. They’re broke and problematic and still expect young 🐱. Society should be putting the kabosh on this. This problem is being strongly highlighted in female spaces and younger women are becoming more educated on the pitfalls of dating older men. This is long overdue.
cinematography & acting were excellent. the plot was terrible. this movie tries really hard to portray toxic femininity in a way that feels relatable. the entire film is manipulation and circles that ultimately lead to a dead end.
"I love you but I also don't"= "I have successfully become the submissive female I was conditioned to be but this creates psychological tension because I am also an autonomous human being with my own thoughts and feelings"
She reminds me of Dakota Johnson. Idk why
She has resemblance but woth due respect, Renate is a much better actress than Dakota.
Because all the trendy actresses look the same
Because of her forehead and hairstyle
And that's why she'll probably star in the US remake - because a silly American is bound to remake it
she bangs that's why
This movie really did a number on me - caused a mini existential crisis. Though I still am a bit shook, I highly recommend it.
Where can i watch itt??
How so?
You’re a damn good person.
-Askel
I guess that was what she needed to hear all along. My life story is incredibly similar to the woman in the film. I broke into tears when Askel said that, as this was exactly my ex-husbands words to me when I was going through the same situation. At that moment in the film I finally understood that my ex really meant what he said, I just didnt believe him at the time. Brilliant movie for the curious and open minded, not the judgemental personality.
Hey i'm still confused with the language is it norwegian or swedish? I wish to learn swedish and someone recommended me this film
@@akshit._2937 it's Norwegian.
She's not a good person.
I’ll take things that didn’t happen for 500
She's not a person. She's a badly written character in a film
I loved this movie. A massive amount of empathy is shown for each character, for all their vices and faults. I think at one point or another, in the daily confusion and uncertainty of our lives, we've all felt like "the worst person in the world.” Go into this movie with an open mind! It's certainly a ride and one of the year's best.
Where did you watch it? Where is it available
@@subhashgoragund6470 I was able to watch it at the New York Film Festival actually. I wish they’d already release it worldwide, but they’re doing the slow awards rollout for it
I thought it was really going to be the worst person in the world
Where can i watch it??
I hate this film.
I personally I watched the movie then I came back to watch the trailer. I’m glad I did that because the trailer gives a false idea that the movie is about a woman who cheated on her boyfriend and that’s it. for me, this movie was about the struggle of figuring yourself out and what you want to do with life and when you want to settle down and who you want to settle down with. This movie has combined different elements of filmmaking and the cinematography was outstanding. It was breathtaking. Also, it was refreshing to have a European film that was not in English and a different culture, this movie is one of those you think about after you watch for sometime 10 out of 10!
I agree with you about the film, but I didn't get the part about a European film not being in English; most of them aren't.
You make the movie seem a bit more joyous than it is but maybe I am misinterpreting what you’re saying. For me I did get parts of what you’re saying obviously but I also got a lot of “toxic female” vibe and it wasn’t an easy watch. She isn’t a good person.
Isn't it mysterious the person u love the most becomes the worst person in the world, when everything falls apart
Don't make me cry🥺
Sadly and hurt fully Yes
You are telling me Renate Reinsve did not deserve a best actress nomination in oscars, this year? I refuse to believe it. She deserved every bit of it. In the year of biopics, real, natural, intense and organic roles like this gets overlooked easily, I understand but look at her she was phenomenal in the movie. I guess some performances donot require any validation.
And Nicole Kidman got nominated....what a joke Hollywood
Oscars are all about sponsors and money, the nominations are steered and planned. They mean nothing nowadays
I’ll say this much, I would have much preferred her or Alana Haim to have gotten the nomination over Nicole Kidman in The Ricardos. That one feels kind of a nonsense pick..And she won The Globe. I mean, I like Nicole Kidman, but come on. I’d like to see Kidman get a 2nd Oscar but not for that.
@@smartzsusu7895 Exactly!! Nothing against Kidman, but come on.
It annoys me so much that all these prizes always go to roles in biopics. The praised acting is more about who lost/gained weight for the role, who can mimic the real person, who looks like the person. Putting some fake teeth and wig on - that’s considered good acting 😕 For example Olivia Colman this year, that is real acting. And same here with Renate.
As I was reading the comments, this film is pretty divisive. Well, this film is about life. And yes, life is divisive and there are so many perspectives. Personally, I liked the movie, because I felt that, it understands me. I did not enjoy. I did not fall in love with the actors, the beautiful scenes. I fell in love with it's realism.
You’re making it sound like nobody in the comments liked it … I see nothing but praise
@@johnkaiser709 fortunately!
@@johnkaiser709There are plenty of critical comments.
I loved this film, I found it very true of the full female experience (it is raw and pretty audacious in places). I recognised so many of the conflicts when settling into a long term relationship with someone too, magnified as she is with someone 15 years older with a totally different life. It is hard when two people combine their lives, friends, families, I was struck by how little we see that in cinema.
I am a bit surprised at people who dislike the main character, for me she was really trying to fit the older man's vision for their relationship, and losing herself along the way. Not always making brilliant decisions but understandable ones as she works out what she wants her life to look like... I'm sure we've all been there so who are we to judge! Very realistic I thought.
I would 100% recommend and can't wait to see again.
umm she was totally dishonest with him lmaoo
@@SuperParkerBrothers misogynist trolls always on full alert here on yt
@@yvonneshanson1525 is it misogynistic to point out that someone cheating on their partner is dishonest? Damn, I guess supporting cheating and looking outside of the relationship for love when you're still in one is woman positive. Playing with peoples emotions is so pro-women ❤️ go queen
@@yvonneshanson1525how is pointing out that she was dishonest 'misogynist'? White-woman feminism is so weird.
Trailer is deceiving - the film is more robust than it seems, and the story doesn't progress nearly as fast and in as linear a way as the trailer would suggest.
yeah the trailer is only 2 minutes long and the movie is 2 hours
Nice storytelling, visually stunning and neat, witty script!!
You will cry for sure. This movie is amazing. The actress is very touching. This movie is for young People between 25/30y.o til 45/50y.o, we can understand her situation in the movie.
I did cry . out of boredom 😴
I bet you thought she was a good role model.
I'm 22 and I loved it ! The movie reminded me of Frances Ha. I totally related to her switching between careers, quitting as soon as things gets too real, her loneliness, her detachment, her not being mother-material xD and many more.
If y'all know movies similar to this one or Frances Ha, I'm open to recommendations !
@@narjester Bad Lieutenant
SALLY ROONEY massive vibes
You’re a damn good person.
-Askel
I almost cried when he said that
I guess that was what she needed to hear all along. My life story is incredibly similar to the woman in the film. I broke into tears when Askel said that, as this was exactly my ex-husbands words to me when I was going through the same situation. At that moment in the film I finally understood that my ex really meant what he said, I just didnt believe him at the time. Brilliant movie for the curious and open minded, not the judgemental personality.
@@daianepiucco2441 Nobody cares
@@daianepiucco2441 Was that after you cuckolded him?
I watched this film last night on a Reddit recommendation and I absolutely loved it. Not thinking it would be my kind of film being a conservative American and it’s obvious liberal and feminist undertones and what not but it hit me. Even I as a 35 year old dude felt so much commonality with Julie , the years of aimless directionless living I did, and the indecisiveness of who I wanted to be or how I wanted to live my life. I def recommend this film
No feminism in this film. The main character is a male fantasy
feminism is when female protagonist
Ehh just finished it very underwhelming
Saw it in the theaters today! what an amazing movie.
Uhh are there two guys that look the same or one guy?
Go watch this movie if you can, It's a beautiful and raw experience, definitely worth it.
Hands down my favourite film of 2021
she looks like dakota johnson
You have to know it’s a romantic film before you dive in. I was thoroughly captivated by it and recommended it to all my friends with that caveat.
But it's not a romantic film though.
@@toomuchinformation romantic comedy then
@@deldia It's not that either. Nothing in it says: "romantic comedy". It's not about that.
@@toomuchinformation ok, well IMDB lists it as romance and comedy as do the reviews I read. Sorry bro
@@deldia They must be US reviewers then, who can’t really categorise this film so calls it a “romantic comedy”. It’s obviously a cultural thing and not a hill to die on. Ciao.
This film is an artistic masterpiece, but stupid people will only see it a simple story of cheating. She is not cheating on her boyfriend! Go watch the film, and you'll see, it is more complex and nuanced than that!
Story wasn’t just about cheating but mainly her indecisiveness for everything around her
Why would someone be interested to know if this person cheated or not?
Playing devils advocate wouldn’t every cheater believe their own reasons were nuanced and sentimental through from their perspective? There is nothing cute about this girl being indecisive about life…part of being an adult is making choices like if you have feelings for someone else you leave your partner not dance around it.
@@olafslartibartfast5248 Because they advertised it like that.
@@alidemee8161 Exactly, she expressed what a low quality female would do which is specifically cheating in the film and trying to justify bad behaviour and decisions. The movie was soleley just melodramatic at best. however, what i do love about the movie is the screenplay presented
This trailer is just not representative of the movie... And the cherry on the top for me is calling it a romantic movie. For me this was NOT a romantic movie, because it was not about finding that person for a happily ever after. It was about life being complicated, about the difficulties of telling the truth, let alone knowing your own truth... It's a movie about coming to terms with the fact, that as humans we don't fit into the cultural molds and narratives we have created for ourselves and we have to live with constantly falling short and not knowing what's going on adn waht to do next.
Hmm, reminds me a little bit of The Age of Innocence. Stories like this are important for people to learn from.
That’s so interesting- in what way??
@@gemmamoynihan9830 Learn that they can be sh"tty
I'm not sure I can handle this movie.
I’m looking forward to seeing this but I wish the trailer was less montage, montage…
If you are not happy with the person you are with break up with them don't cheat on them.
NOW you tell me!
Lool she doesn't cheat that's the whole point of the scene
She didn't cheat! It isn't a film about cheating!
@@louisoliverbyrne4056 She did leave Aksel for Elvind after romanticising the relationship, so it's lowkey cheating.
If you partner after breaking up with you suddenly comes into a relationship after 2 days what will it be called?
Yeah.. THE worst person... The person who tramples on sand art... Before the tied carries it away. (Woah. This just became the song "Ironic". Oops)
makes me want to vomit
Haha, wow! How come? I'm interested. At parts of the film, I felt the same way.
Just saw it in cinema. Loved it
The new Frances Ha we've all been waiting for !
Rəfindən gələnlərə salam olsun 😅
When is the theatrical release in the US?
February 4th 2022
This movie is just incredible
No it isn't
Really interesting film. Almost neo-Bergman, though certainly more optimistic than most of his work.
EU SÓ QUERO O LINK DESSE FILME PELO AMOR DE DEUS TEM GENTE CHORANDO
Did you watch it yet?
Aladeen aladeen... Deer Park ghapa ghap song
This trailer is better than most Bollywood movies 😂😂😂
Cringe Opinion 🤡
I've just finished watching this film and thought it was superb, esp the acting which was next level.
The "feel" of the film reminded me of another Norwegian film I saw a few years ago called "Oslo, Norway".
I've just found out that it had the same director, Joachim Trier. Now that's what is called having a signature style.
I highly recommend it
What's the name of the song??
Where I can watch this movie?
Trailer was a perfect rendition of modern day women.
Solopsistic
@@winstonwolf5706 the corner requires your presence
I liked what this movie was saying, although it wasn't sth groundbreaking for me, but it was the most boring movie I've ever seen...
Yess .can't wait
Hmm nah..
A girl cheating and throwing away something she won’t get ever again! Remember guys, you aren’t special and they will do it to you too😂😝 gotta check this film out.
She was never yours, it was just your turn.
She didn't regret it.
@@toomuchinformation lmao its a movie but hypothetically in the real world she will regret it. as do many. keep dreaming tho
@@nikooooo7661 You're the dreamer mate.
@@toomuchinformation yeah. Go talk to 30+ year old girls who hit the wall who have no man, no kids, nothing. See how happy they are when they try to run back to the guy they cheated on and they find out he is wifing up a younger, hotter, better, faithful girl. Lol not sure wtf you are arguing about.
She should have won best actress at the Oscar 2022
Yeah worst is the perfect word 🔥🌈🤓😁🤥🙊
Trailer: The Worst Person in the World.
Me: Dan Vs.? You're the Worst? It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia???
Who was the cinematographer for this film
1080p my ass
Waiting for them to speak to find out if its foreign
i hated this moovie so much!!! is so overated!!
'The Roughest draft' vibes
看這部挪威電影覺得怎麼語言那麼熟悉 原來我還可以躲到更北邊吞新鮮魚油過活
American adaptation starring Dakota Johnson
Oh neat. A movie about my exes.
Great film, 3rd act left a little to be desired but the final shots of this film made everything work.
I can't believe you'd monetise an ad!
Background song anyone can guess
Are they speaking in german? Or another language?
It's Norwegian
Does anyone know where I can see this movie online? Thanks!
Telegram
@@SauravKumar-vb4dg you must be from India?😂🙌🏻
@@_apoorva_07 😄😄
@@_apoorva_07 INDIA wale telegram k piche hi pade rehte hai😂😂
@@sahilchoudhary2.021 ikr. That's why I asked😂
Really reductive trailer, the film is a slice if life, not exclusively a romantic movie
Trailer + music are awesomeee
Janine brought me here
Dónde la veo en Español 😘
Is this really a candidate for best film of the year? I am into this film producing type stuff
Has anyone seen “That Darn Cat?”
Was also the best movie...
Bendiciones para todos 🙏
La verdad ella insoportable pero bueno me gustó por lo real. Me dio lastima aksel y el final me dejó ¿?
Dentro de todo me gustó.
Rubbish rundie movie hulia kaka master
Where can you find this film to watch??
Title could be improved
I just read an article about why they named the film this, apparently it's a popular catch phrase in Norway - they say "Ugh, I'm the worst person in the world" if they feel they've done something wrong, haha. I think Julie as a character feels flawed often & sometimes thinks of herself as this. Hope this helps. The article is from Uproxx - "named after a catchy Norwegian phrase."
Super film 🎞
this movie is available in english or not?
Why?
It's available with English subtitles.
so good 🥰
Foid - The Movie
Why is the name the worst person?
Because she is
@@winstonwolf5706No she isn't.
This movie glamorizes and glorifies “unable to commit”. Imagine if the protagonist were a male! Ouch!
He would be crucified. Joker already got h@te from many women.
It was a very boring movie, but had nothing to do with what you bloviate..
The worst trailer in the world
What is the name of the song!
I Said Goodbye to Me - Harry Nilsson
Na nanana nananaaaa
Muy emotiva. Vale la pena verla
💙💙✨
From Kerala
The worst movie name in the world.
My favorite film❤
That says a lot about you.
I could only make it 40 seconds into this trailer til I fell asleep.
Back 2 years later. Made it 50 seconds in. Lots of long walking. Maybe I'll make it to 1:30 in 2026!
I am kind of over Fucked up women and what they fucking want movies. Good luck thanks for the trailer i now know this is not something i will watch.
You’ll be missed
@@MmmMulholland Biffany pigfuck thinkshesoppressed.
I was annoyed by the female main character (Julie) and didn't find the other players lovable either. Actually a very boring and depressing movie.
Flaky movie which only seems to be trying to give the Swedes the run for their nudity money. What saves it, is a very sincere and well-acted monologue near the end of the movie.
is this available online anywhere?
Yes actually. Watching it now.
Just pirate it
@@megamoviez where, buddy? I wanna see it
Is it dubbed?
Yes
dubbed?
You're more likely to fall asleep than cry.
This is a very accurate reflection of today's modern female.
God help us.
Bollocks.
This gets my nod for film of the year. As a man in his early 40’s who dates women in their late 20’s this film hit too close to home.
All the circumstances and dialogue between the main characters in their relationship has happened between all older men who date younger modern women feminists who look at having children and starting a family as oppressive and limiting.
If you are an older guy in a relationship with a younger woman don’t take her to see this film. Watch it alone. It might make things uncomfortable for you guys afterwards.
A man in his 40’s dating women in their 20’s is a HUGE red flag. Any women reading this I urge you to do the complete opposite of what OP has said and watch this movie. Share it around your friends, share it with any of your girlfriends, female family members or in online female spaces to warn younger women from dating predatory older men who wish to keep them compliant and ignorant (as the OP has suggested by not sharing said film).
Men in their 40s have nothing to offer a woman in her 20’s. They seek control and manipulation only.
@@MmmMulholland
You sound bitter. Did you watch the movie? It was him who got screwed over by the younger modern feminist woman. So wanting kids is controlling? Men in their 40’s offer nothing to women in their 20’s? How about stability, maturity, dependability. All the things needed to raise a family.
But if you want to be a “career woman” and travel and have “experiences” (hooking up with random guys) and have dried up eggs in your late 30’s when it’s too late, don’t complain it’s men’s fault for not stepping up. You had your chance in your 20’s. Have fun choosing an ignorant beta male you despise to knock you up in your 30’s because you realized feminism lied to you about having it all and your biological clock is very finite.
I work with plenty of these miserable career women in their late 30’s who are still childless and can’t lock down a man they respect.
@@MmmMulholland I'm not sure why you would assume the age difference is a red flag but I wouldn't generalize that way.
Like any relationship, it's about communicating intentions early on, regardless of what age you are.
As for the movie, none of us have to fit into the mold of any movie characters. If watching this movie interrupts an otherwise successful relationship, then it really wasn't meant to be in the first place.
@@MmmMulholland nice, blame successful and accomplished men for young women wanting to avoid hard work so they can wake up at 10am to go to the coffee shop before yoga with their fur baby. You do realize there are many young women who seek older and rich men so they can eventually live off alimony?
@@homersimpson5964 Women who want to do that can’t access the men unless those men allow it. No younger woman wants an older man other than to exploit him for money (while sleeping with and spending it with younger same-aged men behind his back) or if she has serious attachment issues/“daddy issues”. Both are gonna be a rough ride for the older man.
However, most older men are NOT successful and come with a heap of ugly baggage. They’re broke and problematic and still expect young 🐱. Society should be putting the kabosh on this. This problem is being strongly highlighted in female spaces and younger women are becoming more educated on the pitfalls of dating older men. This is long overdue.
cinematography & acting were excellent. the plot was terrible. this movie tries really hard to portray toxic femininity in a way that feels relatable. the entire film is manipulation and circles that ultimately lead to a dead end.
That is the first time I have seen the phrase 'toxic femininity' used and in context too. Thank you. I mean that sincerely.
There's no toxic femininity
“I love you, but I also don’t.” = “I love the financial security you provide, but I refuse to offer any loyalty or personal responsibility in return.”
"I love you but I also don't"= "I have successfully become the submissive female I was conditioned to be but this creates psychological tension because I am also an autonomous human being with my own thoughts and feelings"
I refer you to JP Mc Cartney, the British writer, who said "money can't buy me love"
yeah she'd have to be financially reliant on him for this to be even remotely true lmaoooo this isn't the 1800's women can have jobs now
I love you but I also don't = I love only some part of your personality OR I'm afraid of intimacy OR i love to be loved, but I don't like you
@@schrire39 oof, well said!
Synopsis: woman won't take accountability for her own actions. Somehow woman is still admirable and wonderful.
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Bingo.