How Much Will He Think About You IF HE IS THE ONE Who Pulled Away?
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
- Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
Ever wondered why men pull away and what goes on in their minds post-breakup? In "The REAL Reason Men Pull Away & Reflect," dating coach Elliot Scott demystifies the male psyche for you. Let's jump right into it and unravel the complexities of what a man truly thinks when he's the one stepping back.
With over a decade of experience guiding clients through the rollercoaster of dating and relationships, I am going to teach you:
- The timeline of a man's thought process after a breakup
- Why a man's ego and pride influence his decision to pull away
- How and when he might start reflecting and possibly regretting his choices
You will want to watch this video because I show you how to understand the signs, read between the lines, and interpret what's really happening when silence speaks louder than words. Here's what you'll find:
1. Insight into a man's initial reaction after ending things
2. The stages of reflection and the chance of him reaching out again
3. The balance of assets vs. liabilities in his internal debate
I'm no licensed professional, but my experience, knowledge, and the success stories from my clients speak volumes. Whether you're trying to "get a guy to like you," seeking "signs a guy likes you," figuring out "how to get your ex back," or simply craving authentic "relationship advice," this video is a goldmine.
The link to my Regret Playlist, which is helping many just like you, is down below-so get it at the end of this video. Love you all, take care, and peace.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Guy's Thoughts When Pulling Away
1:00 - Analyzing His Silence
3:50 - Emotional Distance Reflections
7:40 - Understanding Male Withdrawal
He pulled away so i got the hint and i finally left. I was very loving caring and overall nice to him ❤ im now with another guy thats treating me nice and giving me the time of the day. Los Angeles CA
Did he come back??
@@jadaturner3972 hi. Yes he's been texting constantly but I'm ignoring him. After me going on no contact I've realized I deserve better. I was all over him during the 2 year relationship but I felt I was just getting crumbs. No contact does work just have to be patient.
@@jadaturner3972 yes he did. I went on no contact radio silence and he has been texting me constantly wanting to check in on me in all. I have been ignoring all text messages and he still trying I know he misses me it's obvious. After going on no contact I've realized I deserve better and I don't want him no more. I'm working on myself and have peace.
I'm done with love. Done. Done. Done.
Mofo keeps stalking me on a daily basis inspite of being with another girl.
I wonder why they still do that smh
He's trying to see if his ghosting has effected you and wants to see if he has an opening to come back later on when he's done with the other one
@@nikkichainz lol he unfollowed me after being silent but he didn’t remove me as his follower 😂 so I did him a favour and unfollowed him back!! I’m not his fan
I was the one that had to walk away. I wasn't healed from my divorce and I didn't realize it until I was giving giving giving. Honestly I think I was too vulnerable and I didn't think I'd have feelings for someone. Wasn't ready for it.
Amazing video! Makes total sense. Thanks so much!
Great video as always Elliot 👏 please post more often 🌹
This was a great video. Its everything I needed to hear today, thank you
I just met with a jerk who just used me and broke off in the most insensitive rude and nasty way. Ghosted me. I was like I mean how is that even possible? How can someone be so downright rude?
You met an asshole girl move on
Yeah, things seemed good and I got ghosted after 8 mos. Never heard from him again either.
6 mos@@stefanieleavitt5224
@stefanieleavitt5224 You will. They always come back. Of course, don't wait around for the wrong guy
Guys are scared of comittment.
Amazing advice
I fken love these-and yeah your my favorite coach...
Elliot, I can tell how much you talk to women effectively by how you qualify and repeat concepts respectfully. Haha, we are very emotionally intelligent and see between the lines very clearly. Thank you, for joining us 😂❤
(Thanks for being so relatable) ✨
I pulled away from him and eventually rejected him. I know he says otherwise. I’m good. I started as soon as I friendzoned him after he avoided me and ghosted me. Plus he talked about his ex wife, and was going through a divorce. I wish him luck and rejected him. Yet he friended me and then i unfriended him. He was a manipulator and also emotionally unavailable. I walked away
Thanks for the great advice. Oml Elliot u are looking mighty fine 😍
Can you do a video on (dating apps) what to expect from a guy you havent met yet??? Like should he call you on the phone? Should he only text how often ??? and when you should finally meet in person?? how do you know if u should meet??? Thank youuu ❤
This!!
Lol, I'm gone u too much, but good video. Happy holidays, keep up the good work
Does this also pertain to a DA?
Any videos on what to do if you go down his fone & find msgs to other women ? Entertaining 3rd parties - he says he didn’t cheat ?! Like realy ?! 😅
Im about to hit 3 months of no contact. 😔What you said at 7:16…do men really think to themselves, “Im emotionally unavailable?” If so why don’t they just fix it?
Because… they… don’t wanna fix it?
Because they don't want to put in the effort and work to fix it.
@@greybun5273 Guys are scared of comittment. I'm so glad I'm staying single. I don't have to worry about stuff then. It's easier.
It’s not something that you can fix by command, you let time do the work.
Why men come back after years ????
Familiarity. He thinks since you liked him once he could probably easily get you back again.. back in bed. It’s usually nothing more than that, nothing less.
What if you weren’t in a relationship and were just friends with benefits? Does this still apply? I had been talking/hooking up with a guy for 4 months that I really liked, and then just recently out of nowhere he tells me he’s still having a hard time getting over his last break up, needs to work on getting his life together and doesn’t wanna lead me on. I’ve been so upset and I guess stupid on my part because even though I now know he was just using me as a booty call, I still want him to reach out to me again 😢
My boyfriend ghost me a week ago, only because I stop helping him, so I pull away I think that's what he wanted he haven't rech out to me , I believe his waiting for me to contact him but I don't think I will so we can go back to the same his emotional he had always blame me for our argument he always gaslight the relationship and always blame me for it. I did alot for him and he leaf only because I stop helping him. 😢
U pulled away cos u rhink he wanted it so ur doing it for him not urself u need to do it for urself if he's gaslighting u thikk urself lucky he's not reaching out uv had a lucky escape
You should be happy he left because he showed you he was with you because of what he was getting from you....just taking and not giving back ....use this opportunity to shower yourself with love ,hobbies stay with people who can't breakup with you like family ....its a pattern and life rollercoaster
Elliot! 🤦🏽♀️😂
I dont think if he is just jump talking to other women,he cant be in his worst position...cz he cant feel void...any thought girls??
What are you talking about
The best gift one can give a man is space to talk with other women because egotistical people attract narcisists folks. I am the one not calling back he does not deserve me I hope he meet someone as selffish as he is.
What?
I think they try to pretend they're fine, enjoying their decision....and then it hits them. Especially if the girls they talk to don't compare to u
And that's why they call to check in/test a month or so later lol
Daddy
Keep wearing black my dating coach❤. Are couple who have both been thru hell and divorced every love and trust again? I know you know Elliot 😮😮. Love from Julie in California