@roser8911 their inflated and false sense of ego thought you would be a blindly loyal doormat forever. Have to humble them who the prize is and take your power back.
@@basicinfo2022I was crazy in love with him and after sex… he dumped me and blocked me and disappeared and he came back after 6 months and I lost interest in him.
Mine hasn't yet but I know he will eventually. He ghosted me and probably just doesn't know yet that I'm in a committed relationship with someone else. My new guy saw me as the best option within a month of us dating. I'm so much happier now
From day one with bf (13 months) I made sure we had an amazing life, things he hadn’t done with his exes, in my head thinking ‘this could all be over today’. And not just with the pre-existing hobbies we shared, but with new adventures, city breaks with unusual activities that other ppl in their 50s (we’re in our 50s) might not do, silly games around everyday activities others might not play. I was so determined to have an amazing time because when we split up (odds are it will happen to most couples) I want to feel like I had an amazing year, and remember the incredible things I did rather than remembering only the cuddles, cooking together and intimate moments which will cause so much heartache. A woman in her 60s told me her biggest regret was not dating and having fun doing stuff with a man in her forties. I think that affected my mindset.
Don't worry about the nose touches, your advice is solid and it makes me laugh at times. I am a Muslim so I don't sleep with people I date, but the time investment and emotional investment is often farrr more than what its worth! I still end up feeling used! Wish there was a shorter way to cut to the chase? 😅 Anyway, Thanks Elliot x
You are so cool to me and l would like to say thank you for helping me understand how men think. Things are going much better for me and I appreciate your humble opinion and jokes. You made me a BOSS.
Let him go if he wants to leave or is being half hearted, and cultivate confidence and leadership traits and only give your attention to things and people that bring value to your life. Look up leadership topic and the perspectives of those who are fearlessly living life at the top. Nothing more attractive than a leader whether man or woman. You are no longer needy and desperate like you are talking to people just because you have an agenda for them to fulfill. You know you have limitless options and if someone doesn’t meet the criteria you don’t try to change them or hold them like a prisoner or take their shit and make yourself their prisoner. You let them go peacefully in service of the goals you are dedicated to (such as having a fulfilling relationship etc.). Never put anyone on a godlike pedestal, they are merely human. Life is hard and full of challenges in love, family, friends or work, knowing how to navigate through those challenges will make or break you. It’s not easy but you have to try every single day.
Nose touching is hilarious😂. I laughed harder as the counter appeared again and again, I couldn't concentrate on what you said. If you didn't highlight this, we probably wouldn't even notice. But anyway very funny.
My formula is, I'm too busy. I see the truth, say nope, and block. I don't delete, because when he gets back in touch somehow, I can look at the stupid text messages he sent which caused me to block him. Oh, that one. He better make my life better than it is now or forget it.
I broke up with him after dating for like 3 months because he didn't even want a relationship. I really want him to commit. I hope he changes his mind, I hope he even cares. But 3 months isn't forever so blah...sad times for me
Why would you want a man back who utters the words "I don't want a relationship"? You gave him his chance..he had 90 days. And his performance was not satisfactory during his probationary period"not wanting a relationship, not making effort, not choosing you". On to the next candidate. Any guy who tells you he don't want a relationship...should be on your shit list. Good luck to you.
@@jorydwilliams-negron59 you're right, he reached out to me and then kinda ghosted me or hes on vacation. nut, he didnt communicate anything to me. f him, im done
What do you think about deleting a man on Instagram after he said he is not motivated to get in a relationship…. But said to everyone I am amazing beautiful Ect … seriously I don’t understand men
there are two type of men you date in this world . their behavour towards dating life is like this , 1] they love girls that treat them like shit ,option and ignore their asses ,behaving rude to them ,not respecting them at all ,making everything about themselves . 2] they like girls that give them a fan behavour ,because they ain't searching for a partner ,they searching for a fan . choose wisely girls . your communicating pattern will tell you with what type of a man you are dealing with .
Who cares what he thinks...keep focused on you!
I agree for sure!
when he finds out you are seriously dating another man, thats when they realize... when its too late.
So sad. Why they do this
@roser8911 their inflated and false sense of ego thought you would be a blindly loyal doormat forever. Have to humble them who the prize is and take your power back.
@@basicinfo2022I was crazy in love with him and after sex… he dumped me and blocked me and disappeared and he came back after 6 months and I lost interest in him.
Well said and so true.
Mine hasn't yet but I know he will eventually. He ghosted me and probably just doesn't know yet that I'm in a committed relationship with someone else. My new guy saw me as the best option within a month of us dating. I'm so much happier now
If he notices that the grass was not that greener on the other side....then he will return, but it is too late
Always??? If he already relationship just after breakup..
OMG! I'm hollering at the thumbnail 🤣😂🤣😂
whaddup girl haha
Exactly there’s a difference between being the best option & someone believing your the best option
From day one with bf (13 months) I made sure we had an amazing life, things he hadn’t done with his exes, in my head thinking ‘this could all be over today’. And not just with the pre-existing hobbies we shared, but with new adventures, city breaks with unusual activities that other ppl in their 50s (we’re in our 50s) might not do, silly games around everyday activities others might not play.
I was so determined to have an amazing time because when we split up (odds are it will happen to most couples) I want to feel like I had an amazing year, and remember the incredible things I did rather than remembering only the cuddles, cooking together and intimate moments which will cause so much heartache.
A woman in her 60s told me her biggest regret was not dating and having fun doing stuff with a man in her forties.
I think that affected my mindset.
Don't worry about the nose touches, your advice is solid and it makes me laugh at times. I am a Muslim so I don't sleep with people I date, but the time investment and emotional investment is often farrr more than what its worth! I still end up feeling used! Wish there was a shorter way to cut to the chase? 😅 Anyway, Thanks Elliot x
Its actually the emotional energy spent that is so taxing.
You are so cool to me and l would like to say thank you for helping me understand how men think. Things are going much better for me and I appreciate your humble opinion and jokes. You made me a BOSS.
Let him go if he wants to leave or is being half hearted, and cultivate confidence and leadership traits and only give your attention to things and people that bring value to your life. Look up leadership topic and the perspectives of those who are fearlessly living life at the top. Nothing more attractive than a leader whether man or woman. You are no longer needy and desperate like you are talking to people just because you have an agenda for them to fulfill. You know you have limitless options and if someone doesn’t meet the criteria you don’t try to change them or hold them like a prisoner or take their shit and make yourself their prisoner. You let them go peacefully in service of the goals you are dedicated to (such as having a fulfilling relationship etc.). Never put anyone on a godlike pedestal, they are merely human. Life is hard and full of challenges in love, family, friends or work, knowing how to navigate through those challenges will make or break you. It’s not easy but you have to try every single day.
Nose touching is hilarious😂. I laughed harder as the counter appeared again and again, I couldn't concentrate on what you said. If you didn't highlight this, we probably wouldn't even notice. But anyway very funny.
The best thumbnail ever!! 💜
Thank you hahaha.
@@ElliotScottDating got my attention
My formula is, I'm too busy. I see the truth, say nope, and block. I don't delete, because when he gets back in touch somehow, I can look at the stupid text messages he sent which caused me to block him. Oh, that one.
He better make my life better than it is now or forget it.
Why would a man leave me and go back to his ex when clearly i was a better person and he knows this.
Comfort zone I guess
you do adapt editing techniques well i must say. well done on the branding 👍
By that time you already over it and don’t want them anymore
you are on point .every point is top notch.
This video is gold and so is the thumbnail. Hilarious 😂❤
IF a guy will try to cheat on you once, he'll try it again later.
“The best option” that does not sound very romantic or like there are sincere emotions involved, it sounds more like a kind of business deal
Romance is not a thing in nature.
Just because you the best option that don’t mean it’s true in there eyes it’s all stems from the persons perspective
It is a business contract. Always was.. Even in Astrology the relationship house is called the contracts/business house. Forget the romance nonsense.
I broke up with him after dating for like 3 months because he didn't even want a relationship. I really want him to commit. I hope he changes his mind, I hope he even cares. But 3 months isn't forever so blah...sad times for me
Why would you want a man back who utters the words "I don't want a relationship"? You gave him his chance..he had 90 days. And his performance was not satisfactory during his probationary period"not wanting a relationship, not making effort, not choosing you". On to the next candidate. Any guy who tells you he don't want a relationship...should be on your shit list. Good luck to you.
@@jorydwilliams-negron59 you're right, he reached out to me and then kinda ghosted me or hes on vacation. nut, he didnt communicate anything to me. f him, im done
The thumbnail is pure gold😂
Amazing timing once again 🎉
Ok, I'm liking the time line, I've heard where you should only give them 3-4 weeks per stage or whatever. Which I feel is not enough time to evaluate
You missed some at 3:37 and 3:58
What do you think about deleting a man on Instagram after he said he is not motivated to get in a relationship…. But said to everyone I am amazing beautiful Ect … seriously I don’t understand men
I just did this recently and it’s helped me tremendously by not getting his breadcrumbs.
Yea that's code for he is a player. And your just an option.
Your yellow nose touch hints made me laugh hard, you missed out one of them btw 😀
You're a really good coach.
You missed a nose touch at 3:38/3:39ish
Elliott you still got it bro! I love watching your videos. Gay men have the same problems as women with dudes.
does this also apply to an extreme DA?
there are two type of men you date in this world . their behavour towards dating life is like this , 1] they love girls that treat them like shit ,option and ignore their asses ,behaving rude to them ,not respecting them at all ,making everything about themselves . 2] they like girls that give them a fan behavour ,because they ain't searching for a partner ,they searching for a fan . choose wisely girls . your communicating pattern will tell you with what type of a man you are dealing with .
Nouse touches are gold.
Elliot I love the pic with you running😅
AMAZING
Ouch but truth
your thumbnails lately Elliott!! 😅
We never had a fight we got along well, he had to much on his plate not healthy
Why should we ladies Focus on making someone regret anything? This Energy is Not healthy…
I agree. I'm not telling you all to do it. You just want to hence why these vids always get the most views
Nice thumnail😂😂
Thanks 😅
I don’t need any man back I’m just here cuz I like your nose 😂
🙏🏼🌼
😂😂😂😂😂
The nose things a message? Blink twice if you need help
yea my bad. Itched bad haha.