Why HNIs Leave India ? A Real Reason Never Told On Any Platform Till Now
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From an NRI: When you have lots of money, u can buy a lot of things. Change a lot of things, but only within your home. You cannot change society, their thinking, their mindset, and that is the biggest problem in India as you have rightly mentioned.
@@Sample-Alok-RUclips No, that's not how foreigners think. If that was the case, then none of the Indian could have become CEOs of big companies or ever get any high positions in foreign countries. In foreign countries, you are respected for your skills/talent, no matter what your skin color is. Money is not a reason in rich foreign countries to be jealous against anybody. Living here for the last 15 years now, there is no such thing.
Puneet Sharmaji please help me...Are you in software IT field..I am also having experience as full stack engieer (Javascript) of 2 years..Please let me know how to get job in Western country without going for Masters
@@Sample-Alok-RUclips Nice, in the end none of these things (who's is jealous, who's not) matter if one progress in life in foreign countries, unlike India where nobody cares about talent. Your last paragraph summed it all up.
I have a whole lot of relatives abroad....do you think their mindset...that society is very good?? Seriouslu ??
@@Sample-Alok-RUclips true....if you arr an Indian...solve problems here rather than running away....abroad have their own problems.....divorces...ternage pregnancies...drugs...gun culture....at least we in India are far bettrr...and yes....baahar gaye logon ke bachche unke haayh se gaye
Not only the reason of HN but also social security is at stake in India. it's challenging to roam on streets without being bullied by gunda, arrogant, jealous type of unknown people no matter if you are HN or not. Also the infrastructure is badly shaped in populated country like us which gives birth to problems like parking issues, minor accidents, fighting, abusing, long queues, manhandling, manual tasks at gov offices leading to rampant corruption, bullying etc.
Go to USA where highest murder rate with racism
@@Sample-Alok-RUclipsRight. I meant to say even common man is aspiring to move out of country for obvious reasons.
I agree with you
@@Sample-Alok-RUclips HNI cannot stay in 5 star hotel all the time he needs to sometimes come out to do his business
I never got bullied by random people on streets, don't know what you are talking about. If you are an HNI, you can afford to hire bodyguards, right ?
I will tell you the actual reasons:
1. Jealousy from relatives/ friends, no interference from them
2. Kalesh in family as Guruji mentioned
3. Even though tax is high abroad, you end up saving a good amount of money every month and you get good ammenties from govt in lieu of them (Free medical/ education etc.)
4. Better work life balance
5. Peace of mind
6. Clean air and no/ less pollution
7. Better traffic
8. Easy to get jobs in foreign once you work here
9. Showoff in our community, I know this will sound arrogant but this it is how it is
Free medical and free education...which country is this?
Certainly not in the US , Australia or Great Britain
@@dannycbe949 Mostly European countries- Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Germany, Finland and list goes on
ok influencer... i know the reality.. so stop influencing others by ur points which is nt true..
@@dannycbe949 Australia and GB have 'Free' healthcare paid from your taxes and education is somewhat subsidized if you are a resident
Tax is not only one reason the main reason rampant corruption in every field low return of tax as low public health , low government schooling bad condition of road ,high level of pollution and other factors like adminstration judiciary and many more, recent incident in UAE of Bangladeshi people agitation and justice for them is a eye opener.
I work in software business and my clients are all abroad. People think i just sleep and get $$ from abroad. I live in Hyderabad and can see the jealousy in people when i take out my BMW.
True. By the way hyd is an amazing place specifically Hitech city. What an infrastructure 👏
@@Civilian10827 hyderabad is good but gurgaon is at another level
Hello bhai aap service dete ho software development ki...can you tell me bit more about I am also doing freelancing but not scale to lakhs.
I have left india because because of poor governance,no social security,better quality and less stressful life abroad.Its been 5 years and I am pretty glad I made the right decision.
This is the main reason
In which country you live in
good decision, those who stayed behind are regretting every day basis,
where are you btw?
I think you r from punjab 😂
Which country have you moved
You dont even need to be HNI to suffer jealousy factor from others. Its apparent in day to day lives too.
True
satya baat hai
😂😂😂
True! But, HNI can move out easily as compared to others.
NRI....very thoughtful. When a country goes from abject poverty, socialist governance to one of the world's top 5 economies in just 3 decades, people's mindset, and social values dont change.
Some people will be highly successful and the rest so so...this creates tension. Those relatives, including some family members, burn in jealousy (especially if their children dont do well) doing hateful actions like cursing, bad mouthing, back biting, black magic, etc. They even spread rumors, lies, and "tell all" gossip. That's why HNIs who can't leave india at least move to Bangalore.
Black magic even real??
@@vjon8873 ask those who do it.
@@vjon8873 its unreal only till the time you are not at the receiving end.. Its a sad reality , but a taboo topic to talk.
As an NRI I agree to an extent. But one of reasons we leave and is less talked about is social stigma where people look down upon those who stay back. Leaving India is considered mark of success (which is not always the reality). However I am glad the way India is going with infrastructure and talent pool
sir, when you said india me when someone earn good amount money, everyone thinks he/she has done somnething wrong. This is so true, my own family members say these things. When I told them that I want to earn money. They say you can not earn money by honestly. This is so much hipocratic values in our society. Anybody reading this, please do n't listen to society. Everyone should be clear that we have to earn money. Believe me you can not live respectful life and live a very comfortable life without earning money.
Maze lia kar, adani banuga, ambani banuga etc
So true, but they talk behind the person like he was in govt job, how can he have 3 Mercedes. When a person earns a salary in private company with decent income and decides not to own a car, he is a bhikhari
My wife and I were talking about THIS EXACT SAME THING 10 minutes ago and I saw your video.
You're absolutely right.
I was born in an extremely toxic family. My childhood destroyed any semblance of personality I could have developed. Every time I call them (because I have to as per their order), their first reaction is CRITICISM.
I want to leave behind this environment and move abroad with my wife.
I CANNOT have my next generation grow up learning this nonsense.
Thank you for making this video. People will learn that NRIs are not all selfish people. Some of them have been forced out of their OWN COUNTRY.
Eagerly looking forward to your videos on this topic in future.
(because I have to as per their order)? Are you financially/ or via inheritance property depended on them? If not why do you take orders?
@@emailshe I don't think you understand how toxic relationships work. And no, I'm not dependent on them.
@@coermech9620 I know to some extent how toxic relationships work, the key is to ignore rather then trying to fix or worse endure it.
If you call them keep it short and then act as if you have connection problem in phone, as soo as it starts to get Toxic, sooner or later things will fall in place for both parties
ID with your situation. My parents don’t even bother to call me and check how am I doing they think I left country and left them behind. They favour my siblings and their children over me. They never supported me with my toxic in laws and after so much struggle I convince my husband to move abroad. My parents think I made selfish choice and now will not be there to support them when needed
"Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket."
- some happy guy
When you pay high taxes in developed countries, it generally comes with an assurance of quality infrastructure - safe roads, clean water, responsible police and government agencies, and social security. Sadly, that cannot be taken for granted here.
Id from Melbourne originally from Jaipur
Cannot live with people with constant attention for no reason.
My dad has 4 shops and on rent and neighbours are envious that he doesnt work and get rental money etc
Constantly trying to influence renters that you guys are paying a lot of rent etc etc so I dont want to live like my dad I have asked him to just sell the property as I cannot deal with so much negativity and bad energy
I am in the same situation as you are but its because of such people only that people like us will grow. Negativity is everywhere though but with the next generation upcoming this culture might come down is what i feel.
🙏🏻 Me too from AU
Guruji, its absolutely true. I guess Jealousy is one of the main reasons. Bad eyes surely works, Even if you are working your colleagues, managers just hate you for being Talented, Loved, Kind and generous. Some just feel insecure, scared for no reasons although you are not competition with them or but only with yourselves. Abroad people dont really care what you have as long as you are a good human being and doing some social work. There is too much Hatred for no reasons.Just Meri Jaali toh Jaali.🤣🤣😂😂
Very true comment. Experiencing the same, was there in India for 23 years.. Even the HOD of the engineering college disliked me for being good at studies and bringing 1 trophy to the college but without him knowing about it.
Then, cane abroad for masters, here the local people are absolutely cool about whatever you do as long as you follow the rule.. But the Indians and the Latins have the same jealousy, envy, comparison, manipulation tricks, mind games and all. What you aaid is absolutely true.
Agree.
Foreign mein bhi gaad chatne walo ka dabdaba hai. Asli Karan to work pressure hai
This will change in a few years. Indian esp hindu communities will be attacked by blacks and mexicans in America as the country recedes into poverty and destitution.
Then a lot of HNI will migrate to a richer nation like Dubai or Saudi Arabia or eastern Europe that has good terms with Russia.
Yaha toh khud k sage bhai behen hi ek dusre se jalte he ki ye humse zayada khus ya Amir na ho jaye.. behen apni behen se hi jealous feel karti he.. these members are in my own house...
Very true Sir. Most people here have a beggars mentality. Want money without hardword and feel jealous when others work hard and make money. World has mived ahead but people are still stuck in rut here.
Typical socialist/communist mentality.
This I fully agree wit you.
I am an nri and I decided to go abroad this year.. the peace and calmness that you get abroad were hard to come by back home.. also i feel that even though india is progressing and showing rapid growth, the mindset that the general society has is behind by 50 years compared to the developed countries.. I left a lot of friends in india when I came here and I miss many things of India, the music, fun and the food, yet I would not want to come live in India because of the widespread negativity in the society that has ruined the nice aspects of India.. It would be interesting to see how the residents of India will shape the country to be better than it is.. Thanks for doing a great job Sango in addressing these topics of concern :)
Middle of the rock situation for some people having mentality like you but no access to go abroad
yeah, that is true, although I came back to India and did not go back, but people here are so jealous that I cutoff from them and live in metro, but I feel this is not the only reason to leave India for people, quality of life and opportunities are the bigger reason.
for eg. in IT work culture is much better in west especially european countries, it is worst to work for Indian and chinese managers.
I am an affluent lawyers daughter and am a lawyer myself....socially it is very difficult to mingle here because religion and caste are still very dominent....level of education is very low in the sense that outside of what is required for a degree nobody reads books of any kind....also another trait i have noticed is that people here socialise when they can benefit from you in some way....also the ingrained corruption and loss of integrity and quality is a huge huge problem.
The only reason i have not so far left india is because i feel one should stand and fight....but life ebbs away as one tries to reason with the other
MNI and LNI may also be keen to leave due to disrespect, fear, taken for granted and insecurity feeling at workplace, home and on other corners of life
Sir what is the approx minimum net worth for MNI & LNI respectively???
90 % is because of TAX , 10 % Cast Discrimination presently … We are finding no future for our Kids here…
I am an NRI and yes, I agree with everything you said in this video. Even when you go back to visit, few are genuinely happy to see you, the rest are jealous.
from an nri : I left india because of the following reason :
- work culture in IT (too much politics, work life balance issues (people working on weekends)
- struggle with everyday corruption
- pain of dealing with govt corruption from day 1 to till u die.
- life style
I am not HNI but left India because of toxic in laws and unsupportive parents. Even though we are earning good money abroad family, relatives are still jealous and they think we got all money from tree and without any efforts. Until we give money to relatives they talk with us otherwise they don’t even bother to care and call. Whenever we visit India all relatives expect costly gifts and from there side they give very basic gifts .
jo nahi ja sakte bahar out of india,wo negativity kaise dur karen if u have earned money in india..jo jo reason aapne bataya.. negative vibes wala point jo bataya aapne..how to get rid from this india me reh ke
I too want to know this
Shift to new city from delhi to pune Or chandigarh panchkula ,ahemdabad ,navi mumbai example hai
New students passing out from college prefer to settle abroad as reservations here touched 75% practically.
NRI ID. Sango I am very thankful to the god that you exist on earth as the same time as mine. Thanks for coming out in public to share your wisdom. 🙏
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One more reason is that the population of anti social elements is increasing day by day in India and people are feeling unsafe for the future
In that case the population of Anti Social elements is also increasing in Europe since they allowed mass Immigration
I saw that as large as 10% of the population of Sweden is just these migration mu$$lim guys so this is also coming to them now or later.
@@chinmayprakash9252 you are absolutely right but the difference is they're ready to deal with the situation but in India mostly we are not aware with the situation
Real anti social elements are bhagwa sanghi BJP workers and leaders.
Ramesh bidhuri abuse muslims in parliament ...do u think it is right 😂
प्लीज कोई ऐसे आदर्श देशका नाम बताओ,जिधर हम भारतीय जाकर सुख, चैन और आरामसे रह सके|बडी कृपा होगी|
People in my circle have left because of the quality of life and the kind of lifestyle you can enjoy there, especially rich and wealthy people.
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Growing population of unwanted type is a major reason.
The reservation system is also one factor general category people are facing in every expect of life.
My daughter and son in law both software engineer refuse to stay Abroad as they are logical that in india there is bound to be Gardi Garmi Gandagi etc yet there is no better life than india to enjoy
ID , myself staying abroad last few years. Though i or spouse do not like here but you rightly said that it's parents and clashes that make us to stay here
Politicians, Police , Etc prey on rich. Indians are punished for being rich at home and harrassed unless someone has connections.
Africa is no different.
Partly true. It is the side-effect of getting rich and known. The HNIs do find it awkward that they can't find similar groups to blend with. When we pay tax and when we pay high tax, we want basic facilities from government like good infra and a better balance in life. Else it will only bring in more suffering. As a high tax payer we do not get anything in return. Then there are so many who do not pay income taxes at all.
Just look at the conditions of railways and even flights. Railways are so dirty that it is more a bane than a boon. But for a general public it is a boon.
Then there are people who buy BMWs... Do they apply breaks or accelerator more often? Road conditions are so bad and so is the traffic condition.
The list goes on...
I have been to UK and see a drastic difference in life style. With money should come our personal growth and that is missing after a certain stage in our nation.
Today I'm hearing record number of HNIs leaving our country. This is bound to happen. Leave HNIs even intellects who are skilled want to leave and settle outside our country. I am still not one of them as I'm very sentimental and prize family and community over money and luxury. Maybe I'm wrong and stupid but that is elemental of me and I can't depart from me!
Fortunately I don't find any close relatives who's jealous of me. I see proud feeling in their eyes ❤
Lol😂
In Indian cities mainly people coming from small and remote towns they work hard and able to buy homes or settle in cities but their mindset is still small town. may people here not able to make money as either they are not qualified or doing business or have mindset to do something in life. When they see some one doing far better than them they feel small and jealous. Its obvious on road, market, malls. When some one is dressed well and buying something immediately prices are told double in high end 3 BHK society. Plumbers, electricians, house keeping start asking more money, vegetable vendor also doubles price just looking at person.
Agree 100% there is a jelousy in people when they see some one better with clothing, house and car.
In society meeting 2 bhk people not ready to share security or hosukeeping charges equally even number of people staying same in flats. They ask pay more just because one room is more.
India is going through very diffrent phase where frustration in lower class is increasing which results in violence, road rage, cheating.
You have presented very valid topic.
ID, Sir, You have hit right spot on. I am an NRI and what you mentioned is 100% correct. Thanks for confirming and giving clarity. Always a fan of yours. You are intelligent.
In India agar aap HNI bhi nahi ho just aap achhi padhai kar lete ho aur achhe clg me jaate ho phir bhi log jalne lagte hai aur har tarah ke tantra mantra karne pe aa jaate hai lol. Aur ye aur koi nahi bhot bhot najdiki log hi hote hai jaise ki bade papa ke gharwale etc. MAIN THING IS INDIA ME LOGO KI KHUSHI KHUD KE ENJOYMENT SE JYADA KISI AUR NAJDIKI KI PIDA AUR DUKH ME REHTI HAI. Speaking from experience
Black magic ka toh maine bhi case sune hai by relatives
Yes when Lakshmi starts flowing into your account, maya with all her attractions will follow. It will become very difficult for any person to go back to his roots and Sanaatan philosophy and realize the true use of money in his hands.
The Western lifestyle is very conducive to material enjoyment and for people who see material pleasure is the only utility of money better go where the environment is conducive, but making generalizations is not correct.
Truth
Sanatan Dharma k purusharth 1) Artha(money, prosperity) 2) Dharma (duty , righteousness) 3)Kaam ( sex, wish, will) 4) Moksha ( taking a leave, returning all ingredients of you to its original source and yourself to Ishwara).
In reality, in our country and society Aartha is bad, kama is chichi thing, Dharma is paap you have to be secular, Moksha -dimag nam ki chiz hai? Aise kaise chor du, sapne kam dekha kar, humari haddiya gal gyi pai pai kamate tu sab luta de.
Where is any iota of chance for Sanatan Dharma? Baap patak k kutega oske chune hue suar se dahej aur daru wala biyah nahi kiya to.
NRI here- sadly even parents are jealous of their kids. My parents specially mom who was always proud of how she made her home over the years, nothing wrong in that. But she can’t digest that her son can buy everything in a day that took her 30 years. She always talks like , we don’t use public transport for short distance, we bargain a lot, we save money, but tge fact is they don’t have any significant property or something which is bought by such savings.
Now i have money and try to live comfortable life, but she doesn’t like that. She thinks that we should live how they lived their life.
Mera kuch friends news channel bahot dekhte thy or bolte rehte thy yaha mahol bahot khrab hai... yaha ab rehne layak mahol nahi hai. wo sab ab bahar chale gaye hai.
Absolutely right Guruji!!
Jealousy, irsha is the main reason behind this.. sabke liye acha kar ke bhi, burai hi mol milti hai, phir ek yahi rasta dikhta hai ki, kaise bhi nikal jao
Yes clearly a contributing factor, driven individuals are attracted towards nations with growth and capitalistic mindset
In India , jisse baat karo apna Rona leke baith jata hai ki kaise modi ne uski bhains khol li
jisse baat karo banda will think about you " aree yaar yeh toh dhoti khol raha hai"
Hahahahaha so true 🤣
100% right guru ji.....kalesh and interference in personal life is main reason........people and specially relatives who have achieved nothing in life, always teach you how to live......
Guru ji... eagrily waiting for more videos on same topic......make some videos on reverse migration please.....
Self confidence is thinking correct and doing what is right. Biased verdict of people should not matter.
दुनिया में सबसे आसान काम है तीन इंच की जीभ चलाना और दूसरों की कमियां निकालना
Jealous relatives and society are the biggest problem in India.
This is so true, A lot of my friends turned on to me because I was doing great in my field. I had nothing against them in my heart & I never understood why are they doing that, So I decided to move out of India as I have nothing to cherish anymore. And yes, I am an NRI
Even moving from the lower middle class to the middle middle class, a lot of people make negative comments about your progress. Passive aggressive "taana" about becoming "badein aadmi" is so common.
I am not HNI but I can imagine HNIs who were initially middle class must experience something similar.
ID, yes, I have come across this, with many of cousins, who have gone abroad precisely for the reason you mentioned,
Absolutely spot on. A contentious topic which people shun to discuss. My parents have been victims, unfortunately.
Hi Sir, I live in Australia, and your point 10% of all things. There are multiple factors that make this happen. I appreciate your efforts
You are cent percent right in your views. You seem to say my experiences here being a well heeled executive in oil exploration work at working times.Even was deprived of my taxpaid funds by this regime.
Sir, you are a gem..love from Canada. Please make a video on " why NRI shall come back to India".
Do also address the similar issue of people who chose to live in india despite being successful. How do they deal with everybody's changed behaviour. How to thrive while not getting hurt by changed attitude of close family.
, 😔😔😔😔😔
Also the art of keeping relations with everbody
Yes this was the one of the main reasons. Mehnat kar k paisa kamao fir har rishtedar ki shadi, matam me bi jao. Jab jisko chahiye Financial help also is a thing from which you can not take escape route.
I left due to lack of walkable foot path, I love to walk. Even shitty poor countries of the world have foot path. Our politicians have cars (which is fine) give a shit about people who walk. Dangerous to walk, on the mercy of rash drivers. Politicians just blame the people who occupy footpath, ideally politicians need to provide empty space and register footpath vendors. Also provide dedicated space and paid parking for two wheelers away from footpath.
Old/young people die early because of lack of walkability
I'm an NRI and i identify with your explanation and understanding.
NRI I have live abroad since last 35 years, Humans are humans no matter where they live. People complain about everything but in India’s case main reason is quality of life (pollution, unhygienic, quality of food etc) esp in the big cities and that is due to a big population. Due to Big population people are competing over everything be it schools, jobs, housing etc etc . This competition is affecting the mentality. It is a dog eat dog world. Survival for the fittest mentality. People mindset is how i can use the other person for my own benefit. It has become a part of the psyche now. Abroad people keep to themselves, less population and enough resources to go around. We seriously need to reduce our population otherwise it will only get worst.
I am an NRI (prolly not an HNI. aspire to become one though).
I left India just because of the people and the crab mentality. other reasons include --
1/ taxes
2/ quality of life
3/ medical infrastructure
4/ ease of travel
How is Taiwan ?
Sir i have a interesting topic can you explain logic of touching feets of elders in india and what is its significance and should we practice it now and then???
Pls explain this its really nice topic…
Sango ji has already explained this topic , you can watch the family playlist , you will find the video, he totally supports touching feets of elders, but the reason is why is interesting 😅 you should watch the video
@@pravejwhey, could you pls tell exactly which video
Thanks
@@pravejwcan you provide us the link
OMG!! U r so 100% correct sir. I hv not been 2 India since 2 years bcoz of this exact reason. I try n invite friends n family here. Right from your neighbour to every God damn relative has something sarcastic to say. People just cant b happy for others.
You are wrong, we are happily settled overseas since last 14 years and my parents and siblings visit me at least 3 times a year.
No kalesh before settling and after settling overseas.
Sabki life mein itni pareshani nahi hai jitni aap project karte ho.
There are more growth opportunities, lesser competition, better salaries and higher quality of life.
In addition to that you get rid of corrupt Indian system, uneducated and illiterate people around you.
Absolutely right. I moved out cause i didn’t feel that my knowledge and talents were valued. It took so much to make an impact because the work culture itself was a barrier. People didn’t hear me out, they didn’t understand what i was saying. Friends and relatives wanted to stay comfortable and didn’t have any aspirations in life. It made people to flourish very difficult. All that made me so angry and frustrated that i set my mind to leave the country and settle abroad. And I have achieved all that in 5 years. If had stayed there, i would have regretted for life and probably would have been miserable right now. I am lucky to have the courage to take this step.
sir yhi chezz app chote shero p bol sakte ho.. log aisa hone p bde shero ko move kr jate h... log within the city apne mohalla chod dete h
I am 25 and working with one of the biggest Infrastructure companies of the world in their Headquarters in Europe. Still my father sends me PDFs of Government job posts and circulars and exam forms as if what I am doing is of no value to him. Extremely disheartening. I am learning here world class Infra which in no case I will learn in India because India me aj bhi sadakchaap mistri sadak bana deta he aadi tedhi, as a civil engineer waha koi kese infrastructure development sikh sakta he??
You should talk about this from you father
After getting AIIMS Nagpur MBBS seat it happens with me .
Doctors se to khas jealousy hoti hai relatives ko.. ye to hamesha rahege
. I m doctor also.
@@jyotirrr7798 doctor is not a profession but a service, you guys give everything in, should be respected instead of jealousy,
otherwise there were other professions where one wants to just earn money and nothing at stake,
Relatives to jalan ke mare pagla jate hai
Aap 100 percent sahi kah rahe hen. Hum bhi shikar the rishtedaaro ki jealousy ke...nikal jaate to pati ki jaan bach jati. Usko jealously ke mare pressure dede ke maar dala sago ne hi!
Kuchh nhi ker paaye hum!😪😪😪
Hi . From NJ, USA. Agree , it may be financially better than before but Attitude wise lot needs to happen. Also , any differences in North vs South ? How does Delhi/Chandigarh Return compare to Mumbai/Bangalore return or any other city which has better quality of life than Big metros? Also to reach that financial level in India vs West ( considering PPP ) is also very competitive and tough in India, as lot of chasers for those few good opportunities which adds to stress .
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Namaste Sir
I am Nidhi from Bangalore...I work in an MNC...I am following you past a month and really it has been a blessing for me..
I resonate with your thoughts.I use to talk similar things from my childhood but ultimately I dint hv too many like minded people so I am always the odd man(woman)out.
I do not have many friends...I am introvert ..but Happy..😊
Lekin I am a misfit amongst my friends and relatives..
I want to do consultation Sir..please guide Sir..
It's ok, don't need to be change
Even I accept myself, watching your comments made me think who wrote about me
As a NRI I agree to guruji. I am living a peaceful life in North Korea
My own brother jealous of me sometimes due to money
Only one way try to help him or his kids , wife
I left IND because of desi bosses. There were maybe 2 good bosses but the rest were all just iceholes.
Sir kutchh countries me to tax Bharat se kahin zyada hai so tax ke liye to koi nahi jata. This is clear
One does not have to be NRI HNI and leave Bharat to experience this! I have experienced this that people around you envy your success and money in a bad way, thats why I prefer to minimize contact with them and live a very private life just because I dont want to attract anyones attention with bad vibes!
totally agree with your point in this video kalash factor etc in india debate topic discuussion are of low level like women clothing etc , usa talk about how we can create such type of enviroment that indians can settle
Mei pehle se hi yeh sochta tha ki Tax to bahr bhi jyada hei Europe, US Aus NZ mei to kam nhi hei. 4-5 countries woh bhi notorious naam wale hei jahan kum hei.. Aap wala reason hi sahi lagta hei. Yehan to naukar chakar 24 hrs wale bhi araam se mil jaate hei ,jabki jahan woh jaa rahe hei yeh araam nhi milta. Aapke vichar mere se kaafi milte hei..
Born here, suffered here, migrated, came back. will settle score and not run away.
Moving to other cities could be a good solution, if someone doesn't want to leave the country, but wants to leave the toxic environment he/she is living in.
I am NRI - I agree with your point . But I have seen the emptiness in people who have left India .People considering leaving india should consider the fact that it's a luxury to speak in your mother tongue , age with your people .
Indians are good by heart - just misguided.
Sir pichhale hi kuchh salo me itne zyada HNIs kyu gaye is par bhi kuchh bataye. Jealousy inhi saalo me Karan bani pahle jealousy nahi thi India me. Aur log bhi itni aasani se bhatakte hain sab shuru ho gaye ha ha log jalte hain ..logo ne tum bhi ho. Aur Topic yaha tha ki why HNIs leaving India na ki jealousy.
please make video on anxiety in new generation.
NRI
Keep up the good work. Very clear mindset. Very helpful in understanding issues facing contemporary Indian society.
Guruji, how you explain the increse of migration trend in recent years?. Has suddenly Indians conceived jealousy recently?
NRI. V True.
Also if i can add another reason, to give family and kids a good environment (wrt delhi air) and education (safe from the competitive pressures of Indian system, where exams matter more than overall development /happiness of children.) Besides having a multicultural setting is overall more conducive to a more happier person…
I agree but let me remind here, the crab mentality of the diff Nation & when the an Indian Crab was put in the tank it pulled back the other Crab that was climbing high. Like I read a comment here, not only do they want to work hard but don't let others too. Abroad ppl are broad & open minded.
Iam 22 and iam listening this.
Education for kids is also one of reason...lot.of competetion in India and mental stress on kids
India is heavily taxed nation. It is very difficult to earn money in India with no control on tax evaders like pvt.hospitals etc etc. 10 percent of Indians corner all wealth in India.
Bahut sahi bola apne, idhar jalan aur kilasnaa hi sab karte hai, mehnat aur struggles koi nahi karega 😮😢
Very right
You are doing great job. Well researched
if anybody says no work life balance check Japanese work environment.. i do see ppl comparing money exchange prices and decide quality of life
Sir, kya one nation one direct tax ya 2 direct tax hona chaiye hone chaiye
One direct tax by central
One direct tax by state
I am moving out because of news channel and high level of polarization. I feel uncomfortable with the atmosphere.
NRI here! Absolutely true. Very well said. Thanks so much for sharing this…
Can’t thank you enough for all the content you provide 🙏
Gurudev...when you use acronyms like HNI...please tell its full form too to understand better.
High networth Individuals
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With one million US dollar for liquid cash 83*10 lakh - 8 corer 30 lakh
So true. Success makes true enemies
90 % is TAX only rest 10 % others like social security..
Great content... I feel the real happiness comes from within (which is 100% in our control) but people find it in outer world that is material- money, fame, assets, brands etc. (which can never be in 100% control). All this cause hatred, jealously, stress.
The only difference is - people feel these more in developing country like India than materially developed countries, so they go there. But the time has come they will feel these more in developed countries - then what will they do?