Lol nah brother youll be straight. During High School I was in NJROTC like a pre military class and it was mandatory to have a clean cut.. throughout freshman to senior year I noticed me receding farther and farther. It started for me around 15-16. at 19 I had it long so it wasnt noticeable but it still was.. I joined the Army and ever since I had gotten used to it and Im 22 now. Ive also dated and been with more women then ever ;D Its all about confidence and exercise is a big booster for that. Just make some gains in the gym and figure out a super dope style to rock and youll be set.
@@cameroncastleman6496 I agree, of course I´m keeping myself in shape and I know that the struggle is hard especially for younger guys so it´s nice to see it here.
Jakub Kozak Yeah man I’m 21 and I have a Norwood 1.5 or 2ish receding hairline, I can feel my hair thinning too, 4 years ago I had really mad thick hair with zero recession but all of a sudden when I had this bad accident and my girlfriend broke up with me and all this stuff, I started losing my hair. I wish you the best man, as they say “Don’t judge a man by the hair on their head but by the size of their heart”.
Honestly having this channel has been a godsend! I was struggling insanely with losing my hair as I’m only 21 but been losing it since I can remember. Finally shaved it off today and haven’t felt better, honestly like everyone’s said it’s like releasing shackles holding you back. Helped so many people and you helped me immensely during this lockdown! Big respect and I urge anyone struggling with balding to just accept it. You’re the same person just with less hair 🤣 stay safe everyone!
Congratulations man 👏 glad the stories and videos here could give you the encouragement to find it all out for yourself. Absolute respect and thanks for helping strengthen the channel and community with your comment 👍
Love to see these young dudes taking control and killing it! At 46, I embraced it long ago but in my early 20's a channel like this would have helped immensely. Awesome job! BTW young guys - if you're worried about never getting laid again - don't! Work hard on your health, build muscle and keep improving yourself and you'll look great.
Well lads after 2 years of dealing with this im 20 min away from going to the barbers and finally getting over this insecurity thank you to the bald Cafe and for all of yall sharing everything 💪🏼
This channel is so wholesome! I'm 26 and have recently noticed my hairline starting to recede so I'm watching these videos to prepare me for when my hair's time is up.
You can get the genes for baldness from either parent. I started losing my hair at 19 or that's when I noticed it. A hair transplant surgeon later told me that when someone notices hair loss they've already lost 50% of the hair they're genetically programmed to lose. I had one girl tell me that she liked me but couldn't do the "bald thing". It is humbling and depressing to hear that. Someone said girls don't want to date someone that looks like their father with a bald head. When I was young it was not acceptable to shave your head because people thought you were a skin head (neo-nazi). Which is ridiculous. Now its much more acceptable for men to shave it off and it looks so much better than the comb overs I used to see. Good for this guy shaving his head. He looks good.
I started balding with 16, back in 1992. When there was NO internet and channels like this to help me. Tough time especially I just got into metal and wanted to grow my hair to bang properly. Shaved it completely off when I was 24 and never looked back.
Fair play man you look great, I'm considering shaving my hair with a 0 blade and need to feel confident going for it, this channel helps big time in taking the plunge
I love the idea of how you should consider yourself blessed if hairloss is the worst thing to ever happen to you. It’s been a year since I started balding and being 19 at the time i thought it was the worse fate any man can go through but now that I’ve began to mature a little more I feel blessed compared to what some of my family and friends have gone through. I won’t razor shave my head just yet but I recently buzzed it to a two guard and plan to go lower and lower as I age a bit more.
You can't talk about this with someone who isn't bald because they can't relate. It's really wonderful to see guys discuss their insecurites and have empathy towards each other because of the same struggles.
Tbh I was concerned about how my hair was thinner on the top than just six months or 1 year ago, but then I founded this channel, thanks a lot dude. Is very nice know how other people go through this journey and watch how they look more comfortable than ever. I guess isn't the time of shave to me, but at that time i will be able to accept that change. for young boys struggling with this as me *this isn't the end guys :)* !!!
I started to go bald at 17, now I’m 22. I been using Minoxidil for 2 years and it has stoped its effect over time. I have shaved my head like 3 times and let it grow again every time. I feel like it’s time to embrace it once and for all.
This guy has NOTHING to apologize about when it comes to appearance. And it's good that he now understands that his is a look many people LIKE, notice, are attracted to! I especially like it that he didn't run off and grow a beard -- like that''s a balding rule! A really together guy!
Growing a beard IS NOT a balding rule, the thing is, many guys who are balding are on the other hand able to grow epic beards. They´re just working with what they got. Why not grow it if you can? The same thing with horseshoe, there are many comments how you have to shave it every day... Not true, most of us don´t freak out because of it. I don´t shave it to hide it, i like the clean shaved look. I am fully comfortable even with 1 week growth horseshoe. You can´t hide it by shaving it, the pattern is still there.
Thank you so much for your video's, shaving my head tomorrow and I will walk with confidence as I introduce my new look to family and friends. Your videos helped me more than anyone or anything to take this step, thank you for giving me this confidence, I see life with different eyes now, you're an absolute legend, keep spreading positivity!
First few days took some time getting used to, had great reactions and a few shocked reactions but eventually the shocked ones turned into positive, best thing I've ever done. I couldn't care less about hair now, pre warning older ladies love a young bald guy with a beard. I would highly recommend anyone that is struggling with balding to just embrace it and move on and focus on what is important in life. 👍
big up fabian, i am part dutch and i get called multiple things like polish and russian because i look european like fabian bald but i can see we are both very looking people bald. good on u fella you look sick bald the ladies are gonna love u
This is such a beautiful community. Men talking about their vulnerabilities and insecurities and deal with them in a healthy manner. I'm female but it's very therpautic to watch these vidoes. We, bot guys and girls, can learn a lot from these men
the main thing i realized was one of symbols people attach to hair is youth. the time glass is flipped the day we were born it’s best to accept as fast as possible and try to improve other areas of life then make a decision that makes u most happy. society has a lot of different ways to box people in you gotta start getting to know yourself better to start knowing what to do.
Ik ben ook Nederlands en ook onlangs kaal gegaan (26). Het is een hele ervaring om door die transitie heen te gaan maar uiteindelijk kom je er veel beter uit aan de andere kant. Mooi om je verhaal te horen en te zien dat je het gewoon accepteert, dat is pas echt mannelijk. In plaats van vast te houden aan een paar zielige haartjes en het non-stop proberen te verbergen. Persoonlijk vind ik zelfs dat ik er volwassener door ben geworden. Niet alleen qua uiterlijk maar ook mentaal. Het maakt je sterker. Het zorgt ervoor dat je kan focussen op écht belangrijke dingen. En ja, een paar vrouwen vinden het niet mooi, maar andere juist weer wel. So be it. Als iemand je alleen leuk vindt voor je haar klopt er sowieso iets niet. Wat ik heb ondervonden is dat die extra zelfverzekerdheid je juist goed doet, dat vinden vrouwen veel belangrijker. En grappen van vrienden krijg ik ook, dan is het juist mooi om mee te doen en grappen over jezelf te maken; dat straalt pas ultiem zelfvertrouwen uit. Rock that shit brother.
Fabian Harland Mijn vriendin ook toen ik het deed vorige maand. Voelt goed als je er gewoon voor gaat en je er na een week achter komt dat er eigenlijk helemaal niks is veranderd. Vriendin blijft vriendin. Familie blijft familie. Vrienden blijven vrienden. Enige wat echt verandert is meer zelfvertrouwen ;) en een paar extra scheermesjes haha
Ja ik ben ook kaal van achteren door een kut haartransplantatie en was al kaal. Hoef de achter kant ook niet meer te knippen en de haren zijn zo dun als wat. Ja voor mij is het niet erg als ik kaal bent en heb ook nep haren. Dat komt omdat die klootzak de operatie niet heeft uitgevoerd.
I used minoxidil and finesteride for 10 days and the side effects on the body are too much like decreased energy levels increased heart rate and overall low level of the body ..so I instead shaved my head and stopped minoxidil as it has to be used for years and years ...
I use Neofollics products, an shampoo, conditioner, lotion and tablets. I was allergic to minoxidil and I don't want the side effects of finasteride. So i use Neofollics and it works perfect for me.
Im the guy in the video and my girlfriend now is really supportive. Im togheter with her 10 months now and she even contacted harry on IG so i could do the podcast.
In two more days i will enter to the 12 month regrowing my hair back, i started shaving it as bald in August 05 2019, now i have it long hair but not enough long in time, i haven't finish my one year yet.
Never ever ever let women dictate how you look or feel. Girlfriends should stfu when a man decides to make changes in his life, a woman can jump on board or jog on. Enjoy the bald look!
i started lossing my hair at 19 too and already started to cut it low at to which is where i am now i was so afraid like this guy my friends even my brother tells me its over thanks to bald cafe and this guy i am already acccpting what nature has put inwith in me and hopefully when the time comes i hope it wont turn out like what i emagened......
Gents, for all you balding men. Hear me out. I am 30 years old and have been losing it for the past 5 years of my life. it was my insecurity. I shaved it back in march of 2020, and i shit you not, I have only had women approach me since. High quality women too. nothing but 8+. I have a medium beard, 5'8, thicker eyebrows, and tanned. I do take very good care of my body at about 185 lbs and super lean (semi bodybuilder). Dress well, rock it with confidence and i promise you it will not matter. I can attest to it. I have had nothing but success since. Thanks
If nobody in my family is bald except mums dad who has very little hair at 80 what are the chances of me being bald. I'm 16 and scared cause I think hairline thinned at front and moved back a bit and I have bad head shape
In regards to dating while balding and young, what are your thoughts on using dating apps when they're very focused on appearance? I'm balding and 23 and don't know how to date or where to date
First of all, forget dating apps. They are a scam since the algorythm will never give you good matches on purpose. Only bad ones unless you get a subscription. And even if you do, keep in mind that most people there are shallow who just go by the looks and give a damn about personality. If I were you, I would try at the clubs meeting new people or at bars. You could also ask your friends if they know someone who is single and if they can hook you up. Doing the same with a close friend of mine, his girlfriend broke up and he asked me if I could keep an eye out for someone who might be interested in him. That would be your best options. Still, you could test out the dating apps but I would be pretty careful. Hope that helps!
Dude, that's sad. You really can't blame women though, compared to a guy with good hair, you'll not look good at least 99% of the time. Balding isn't attractive unless you are bald with money or bald with muscles. Really humbling
@@roncerjani9063 but I didn't blame vvomen! At all!. Well 20 years later I now an fully established with money & muscles, of which is now too late for the apples of my eye within my select generation.
Bald / full / shaved - looking "good" won't matter if you base it from other people feedback. As long as you feel happy you'll be fine. For me, trying to fix my hair to cover bald spot is such a hassle. After shaving it's just less worry.
I went to a hair doctor back in 2015 (i was 20 then) and she told me to stab myself with a roller thingy and rub rogaine in twice a day. I bought the stuff and came back home and started reading the side effects and potential dangers if you leave some on your hands and ingest accidentally. And then I decided, fuck hair. Who needs it? What should I stab my head every day like a cuck or I can just shave and stop giving a h*ck. Shaved it all and never looked back.
If she loves you she’ll understand this is something you can’t control. If she leaves, she wasn’t the right one. Just be open with her if you’re balding and insecure about it; you’re not alone!
I am not bald but I have a fear that If I go bald like him what will happen?My girlfriend will leave me like his girlfriend did.Thats why I am scared.My confident will be low also.
If a woman can know you for so long and presumably love you, but then leaves you at a time when you need her support, then what does that say about her character?
Take a look at the hair on the frontside of the guy so it is the same with me and he is bald today the long hair is dead images.app.goo.gl/hHd1iiA7vQgfuujZ9
You'll be doing this for the next 40+ years though. About 20000$ will go just to keep hair on the head. And it's hard to keep that up for long only with propecia, you'll need other things adding more to costs.
@Baldcafe there are actually two more theory i like to share with you look at your baby photo from age 1 years at that should match your hairline from the age of 35 years old and number to two theory determine whenever or not you could grow a full beard by the time you were 18 years old growing a full beard that is connected and thick enough to where if you shaved it off the second day 24 hours later you had a stubble beard that look like you shave a day or two what i am saying they could be strong data were it is linked to male who have high testosterone levels.
I am 35 and have had social anxiety my whole life so I have never had a girlfriend, but was still self conscious about losing my hair. And I thought, why do I care about what women will think? They never wanted me anyway! So I went ahead and shaved it off.
@@fabianharland5585I don't actually care much about how women feel about me, but I care about how I feel about myself. Looking at someone older than me rocking nice styled hair is like having a hammer hit on my head. I don't care if no woman likes me as long as I like myself. If Scarlet Johanson told me she'd sleep with me if I shaved my head, I'd karatekick her away.
Thanks for having me harry!! You can all do it Bros.
Respect voor deze video, je ziet er goed uit man. Kaal zijn geeft focus en zelfvertrouwen. Rock that shit.
I buzzed my head recently, all my friends like it only my mom had something to say lol. I really enjoy the low maintenance hair
Kale koppen niet te stoppen😉
Heb zelf ook haarverlies man
@@osman_0394 als je struggles heb gewoon weg ermee, je zal je vrij voelen en jezelf mannelijk voelen.
Respect man! Thanks for sharing your story.
Harry,
The number of souls you have helped are mind boggling. Thank you.
Thank you for always supporting 🤝
Glad to see young guys on baldcafe showing that shaved head isn´t the end of the world.
Lol nah brother youll be straight. During High School I was in NJROTC like a pre military class and it was mandatory to have a clean cut.. throughout freshman to senior year I noticed me receding farther and farther. It started for me around 15-16. at 19 I had it long so it wasnt noticeable but it still was.. I joined the Army and ever since I had gotten used to it and Im 22 now. Ive also dated and been with more women then ever ;D Its all about confidence and exercise is a big booster for that. Just make some gains in the gym and figure out a super dope style to rock and youll be set.
@@cameroncastleman6496 I agree, of course I´m keeping myself in shape and I know that the struggle is hard especially for younger guys so it´s nice to see it here.
Jakub Kozak Yeah man I’m 21 and I have a Norwood 1.5 or 2ish receding hairline, I can feel my hair thinning too, 4 years ago I had really mad thick hair with zero recession but all of a sudden when I had this bad accident and my girlfriend broke up with me and all this stuff, I started losing my hair. I wish you the best man, as they say “Don’t judge a man by the hair on their head but by the size of their heart”.
@@Notreallyxz Thanks man.
I am 22 and I am bald now... best decision ever :D
Honestly having this channel has been a godsend! I was struggling insanely with losing my hair as I’m only 21 but been losing it since I can remember. Finally shaved it off today and haven’t felt better, honestly like everyone’s said it’s like releasing shackles holding you back. Helped so many people and you helped me immensely during this lockdown! Big respect and I urge anyone struggling with balding to just accept it. You’re the same person just with less hair 🤣 stay safe everyone!
Congratulations man 👏 glad the stories and videos here could give you the encouragement to find it all out for yourself. Absolute respect and thanks for helping strengthen the channel and community with your comment 👍
Men talking about vulnerability and embracing their worst fears: welcome to masculinity.
Whoa!! Nice definition man!😉
Golden words man, really
Love to see these young dudes taking control and killing it! At 46, I embraced it long ago but in my early 20's a channel like this would have helped immensely. Awesome job!
BTW young guys - if you're worried about never getting laid again - don't! Work hard on your health, build muscle and keep improving yourself and you'll look great.
Rocking that look Fabian, pressure gone, enjoy the ride👍
Thanks Brother!!
Shaved my head today, it looks good. Even though I'm not really balding yet, I just have a receding hairline, I'm sticking to this "hairstyle".
Well lads after 2 years of dealing with this im 20 min away from going to the barbers and finally getting over this insecurity thank you to the bald Cafe and for all of yall sharing everything 💪🏼
This channel is so wholesome! I'm 26 and have recently noticed my hairline starting to recede so I'm watching these videos to prepare me for when my hair's time is up.
Welcome aboard!
You can get the genes for baldness from either parent. I started losing my hair at 19 or that's when I noticed it. A hair transplant surgeon later told me that when someone notices hair loss they've already lost 50% of the hair they're genetically programmed to lose. I had one girl tell me that she liked me but couldn't do the "bald thing". It is humbling and depressing to hear that. Someone said girls don't want to date someone that looks like their father with a bald head. When I was young it was not acceptable to shave your head because people thought you were a skin head (neo-nazi). Which is ridiculous. Now its much more acceptable for men to shave it off and it looks so much better than the comb overs I used to see. Good for this guy shaving his head. He looks good.
I started balding with 16, back in 1992. When there was NO internet and channels like this to help me. Tough time especially I just got into metal and wanted to grow my hair to bang properly. Shaved it completely off when I was 24 and never looked back.
Fair play man you look great, I'm considering shaving my hair with a 0 blade and need to feel confident going for it, this channel helps big time in taking the plunge
Thanks bro!!
Do whats best for yourself brotha!!
I love the idea of how you should consider yourself blessed if hairloss is the worst thing to ever happen to you. It’s been a year since I started balding and being 19 at the time i thought it was the worse fate any man can go through but now that I’ve began to mature a little more I feel blessed compared to what some of my family and friends have gone through.
I won’t razor shave my head just yet but I recently buzzed it to a two guard and plan to go lower and lower as I age a bit more.
You can't talk about this with someone who isn't bald because they can't relate. It's really wonderful to see guys discuss their insecurites and have empathy towards each other because of the same struggles.
What an absolute boss he is
Harry you are doing a great job
Shaved head is the new... Trend.... I loved it....... I used to get positive comments only.... Rock the bald head... Be yourself
"Women will still like you"
Well they would have to like me in the first place lol
FABIAN!! You look great bro!!! You can feel the growth you've experienced through your words! 👊😎
Thanks bro!!
Tbh I was concerned about how my hair was thinner on the top than just six months or 1 year ago, but then I founded this channel, thanks a lot dude.
Is very nice know how other people go through this journey and watch how they look more comfortable than ever.
I guess isn't the time of shave to me, but at that time i will be able to accept that change.
for young boys struggling with this as me *this isn't the end guys :)* !!!
Just love ur channel and how you genuinely listen to every single person. ‘!!
I started to go bald at 17, now I’m 22. I been using Minoxidil for 2 years and it has stoped its effect over time. I have shaved my head like 3 times and let it grow again every time. I feel like it’s time to embrace it once and for all.
You can do it bro!!!
Fabian Harland Your story was inspirational to me, thanks bro!
Does that stuff really work?
Alejandro Marroquin would you recommend taking minoxidil or is it a waste of money?
Fin
This guy has NOTHING to apologize about when it comes to appearance. And it's good that he now understands that his is a look many people LIKE, notice, are attracted to! I especially like it that he didn't run off and grow a beard -- like that''s a balding rule! A really together guy!
Growing a beard IS NOT a balding rule, the thing is, many guys who are balding are on the other hand able to grow epic beards. They´re just working with what they got. Why not grow it if you can? The same thing with horseshoe, there are many comments how you have to shave it every day... Not true, most of us don´t freak out because of it. I don´t shave it to hide it, i like the clean shaved look. I am fully comfortable even with 1 week growth horseshoe. You can´t hide it by shaving it, the pattern is still there.
Jakub Kozak Totally agree!
Thank you so much for your video's, shaving my head tomorrow and I will walk with confidence as I introduce my new look to family and friends. Your videos helped me more than anyone or anything to take this step, thank you for giving me this confidence, I see life with different eyes now, you're an absolute legend, keep spreading positivity!
Update? How is it?
First few days took some time getting used to, had great reactions and a few shocked reactions but eventually the shocked ones turned into positive, best thing I've ever done. I couldn't care less about hair now, pre warning older ladies love a young bald guy with a beard. I would highly recommend anyone that is struggling with balding to just embrace it and move on and focus on what is important in life. 👍
Looks good man!
Hello from Spain Harry, Im starting to losing my hair at 17, probably I will be in Your channel in a couple of years 😂😂
Não preocupe por falta de cabelo, hoje tenho 37 anos e sou careca.... A mulherada gosta
😂😂 me to bro
same it is hard
Nice one Fabian. It's scary stuff and you made the decision look pretty easy!
The key is confidence.
8:06 that is so cute. Aww, hit me in the soft spot.
He is lucky to find someone so supportive, bro shes a wife material. She is aware of those insecurity and know how to help
There more woman who support you like my girlfriend. Its the best thing to do in a healthy relation, Just support eachother.
big up fabian, i am part dutch and i get called multiple things like polish and russian because i look european like fabian bald but i can see we are both very looking people bald. good on u fella you look sick bald the ladies are gonna love u
This is such a beautiful community. Men talking about their vulnerabilities and insecurities and deal with them in a healthy manner.
I'm female but it's very therpautic to watch these vidoes. We, bot guys and girls, can learn a lot from these men
the main thing i realized was one of symbols people attach to hair is youth. the time glass is flipped the day we were born it’s best to accept as fast as possible and try to improve other areas of life then make a decision that makes u most happy. society has a lot of different ways to box people in you gotta start getting to know yourself better to start knowing what to do.
Well said
12:06 this man wise
Think about the maintenance when you've got hair- thinning or not. Well done young man!
looks good - bro!
Ik ben ook Nederlands en ook onlangs kaal gegaan (26). Het is een hele ervaring om door die transitie heen te gaan maar uiteindelijk kom je er veel beter uit aan de andere kant. Mooi om je verhaal te horen en te zien dat je het gewoon accepteert, dat is pas echt mannelijk. In plaats van vast te houden aan een paar zielige haartjes en het non-stop proberen te verbergen. Persoonlijk vind ik zelfs dat ik er volwassener door ben geworden. Niet alleen qua uiterlijk maar ook mentaal. Het maakt je sterker. Het zorgt ervoor dat je kan focussen op écht belangrijke dingen. En ja, een paar vrouwen vinden het niet mooi, maar andere juist weer wel. So be it. Als iemand je alleen leuk vindt voor je haar klopt er sowieso iets niet. Wat ik heb ondervonden is dat die extra zelfverzekerdheid je juist goed doet, dat vinden vrouwen veel belangrijker. En grappen van vrienden krijg ik ook, dan is het juist mooi om mee te doen en grappen over jezelf te maken; dat straalt pas ultiem zelfvertrouwen uit. Rock that shit brother.
Wat heb je gelijk man!
Zeker man..
Thanks man voor je lieve woorden. Mijn vriendin heeft me altijd gesupport erin, dat komt altijd goed.
Fabian Harland Mijn vriendin ook toen ik het deed vorige maand. Voelt goed als je er gewoon voor gaat en je er na een week achter komt dat er eigenlijk helemaal niks is veranderd. Vriendin blijft vriendin. Familie blijft familie. Vrienden blijven vrienden. Enige wat echt verandert is meer zelfvertrouwen ;) en een paar extra scheermesjes haha
Ja ik ben ook kaal van achteren door een kut haartransplantatie en was al kaal. Hoef de achter kant ook niet meer te knippen en de haren zijn zo dun als wat. Ja voor mij is het niet erg als ik kaal bent en heb ook nep haren. Dat komt omdat die klootzak de operatie niet heeft uitgevoerd.
just saying, we should do an interview!!
A one on one cage match......
baldcafe vs jake kent and hairsystems
lmao!!! love you brother!
Im in! 😆
@@Baldcafe lets do it! send me an email! jake@dillymedia.com
Great content, can be described as Vital for people having anxieties connected with balding
He looks very handsome with a bald head--like most men.
The most handsome men are bald.
@@nelzelpher2088 Yes, I agree.
Well done mate
I used minoxidil and finesteride for 10 days and the side effects on the body are too much like decreased energy levels increased heart rate and overall low level of the body ..so I instead shaved my head and stopped minoxidil as it has to be used for years and years ...
Good on you. Fin and Min aren't meant for everybody.
I use Neofollics products, an shampoo, conditioner, lotion and tablets. I was allergic to minoxidil and I don't want the side effects of finasteride. So i use Neofollics and it works perfect for me.
Going thru this. Diffuse thinning, but I’ve been using minoxidil and fin for a bit and I’ve got to say it’s saving me
Looks awesome 👍
I hope they’re still together. Finding a woman like that, that loves you even with your insecurities is hard to find. People like that are a blessing.
You look great men 👍👏🏻💪
Thanks bro!!
Looks good Fabian, suits you!
Am so sorry it must be hard for you at that age stay strong
Love your name Fabian,really unusual and quirky.You did the right thing ,you look really good shaved👍
This guy looks good with bold
"It's over!" "you're white tall and buff, it's ok" "looks is everything" yeah I know those forums
i was laughing my ass off when those were mentioned
tressless
It's really heartbreaking to hear girls leaving good dudes just for the sake of their hair.
Biggest insecurity ....
Im the guy in the video and my girlfriend now is really supportive. Im togheter with her 10 months now and she even contacted harry on IG so i could do the podcast.
@@fabianharland5585 it's really good to hear that man . Love from India . U look kinda Jason Statham 🔥
@@fabianharland5585 love you! Always! 💞
@@arhamnabil9461 thanks bro!
@@fabianharland5585 Good on you man. I did the same thing. 10 years in best decision I made.
I know how it feels like caus im 18 and started balding since 16 and yeah i just shaved my hair and dont even have trouble with the ladies
I hear the dutch accent
You know how we rocking XD
Ik dacht precies hetzelfde 😉 Respect voor jou Fabian!
@@fabianharland5585 Kale koppen Niet te stoppen! 💪
Awesome episode! However, I feel you should adress the women part more Harry. I think that‘s the main if not only insecurity regarding balding.
In two more days i will enter to the 12 month regrowing my hair back, i started shaving it as bald in August 05 2019, now i have it long hair but not enough long in time, i haven't finish my one year yet.
Honestly he looks very handsome even he bald😊
Never ever ever let women dictate how you look or feel. Girlfriends should stfu when a man decides to make changes in his life, a woman can jump on board or jog on. Enjoy the bald look!
Absolutely. WE are the prize.
Looks great, no need for any beard. Reminds me of martin skrtel
i started lossing my hair at 19 too and already started to cut it low at to which is where i am now i was so afraid like this guy my friends even my brother tells me its over thanks to bald cafe and this guy i am already acccpting what nature has put inwith in me and hopefully when the time comes i hope it wont turn out like what i emagened......
Gents, for all you balding men. Hear me out. I am 30 years old and have been losing it for the past 5 years of my life. it was my insecurity. I shaved it back in march of 2020, and i shit you not, I have only had women approach me since. High quality women too. nothing but 8+. I have a medium beard, 5'8, thicker eyebrows, and tanned. I do take very good care of my body at about 185 lbs and super lean (semi bodybuilder). Dress well, rock it with confidence and i promise you it will not matter. I can attest to it. I have had nothing but success since. Thanks
Keep smashing it man 👏
12.51 harry I think it's the way you carry yourself, as hes stroking a fluffy dog 🤣🤣🤣 all man harry👍
😂 👍
If a girl leaves you for losing your hair then she ain’t the one
No such thing as the one unless you’re rich
Thank u man
If nobody in my family is bald except mums dad who has very little hair at 80 what are the chances of me being bald. I'm 16 and scared cause I think hairline thinned at front and moved back a bit and I have bad head shape
In regards to dating while balding and young, what are your thoughts on using dating apps when they're very focused on appearance? I'm balding and 23 and don't know how to date or where to date
Just do what you would do normally hair or not. And read 2 books. Mark Manson Models. And coach Corey Wayne How to be a 3% man.
First of all, forget dating apps. They are a scam since the algorythm will never give you good matches on purpose. Only bad ones unless you get a subscription. And even if you do, keep in mind that most people there are shallow who just go by the looks and give a damn about personality. If I were you, I would try at the clubs meeting new people or at bars. You could also ask your friends if they know someone who is single and if they can hook you up. Doing the same with a close friend of mine, his girlfriend broke up and he asked me if I could keep an eye out for someone who might be interested in him. That would be your best options. Still, you could test out the dating apps but I would be pretty careful. Hope that helps!
Hey Harry, nice video! I got a suggestion for you, should try to interview Meechie Terry, pls🙆🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️ ps: Fabian, u look awesome, salute man💪🏽💪🏽
I went bald @19. I had a gf the year before. She jumped ship when she realized what i had going on. I had 1 gf since and im now 39.
Dude, that's sad. You really can't blame women though, compared to a guy with good hair, you'll not look good at least 99% of the time. Balding isn't attractive unless you are bald with money or bald with muscles. Really humbling
@@roncerjani9063 but I didn't blame vvomen! At all!. Well 20 years later I now an fully established with money & muscles, of which is now too late for the apples of my eye within my select generation.
She is keeper :)
love it
Not everyone looks good like him with bald head.I am scared now.
I think shaving your head is not about looking better, it's about being yourself
Bald / full / shaved - looking "good" won't matter if you base it from other people feedback.
As long as you feel happy you'll be fine.
For me, trying to fix my hair to cover bald spot is such a hassle. After shaving it's just less worry.
Yeah not everybody looks as good as him but everybody looks better after they shave it than what they did balding
@@Alexander-go8no but girls don't like it.I have a fear that If I go bald in future what will happen?
@@sjsaad2023 you need one girl lmao its not like you get abudance of girls after having hair
I went to a hair doctor back in 2015 (i was 20 then) and she told me to stab myself with a roller thingy and rub rogaine in twice a day. I bought the stuff and came back home and started reading the side effects and potential dangers if you leave some on your hands and ingest accidentally. And then I decided, fuck hair. Who needs it? What should I stab my head every day like a cuck or I can just shave and stop giving a h*ck. Shaved it all and never looked back.
The best way in my opinion Jack. Good choice 👍
Man my biggest insecurity is, if I go full bald my ex girlfriend will think I'm a loser
If she loves you she’ll understand this is something you can’t control. If she leaves, she wasn’t the right one. Just be open with her if you’re balding and insecure about it; you’re not alone!
Wait, I didn’t see the “ex” part. You still have feelings for her?
If you go bald and smash life the complete opposite will happen.
Baldcafe agreed^
I shaved it of and got more attention from girls. Just like i said in the video.
Is he dutch ?? I am almost sure
You are correct 👍
My female barber told me yrs ago, that a girl cares on how good ur hair looks but a woman cares on how well u perform in bed.
Haha nice 👌
Hope you got her number
She has to be a girl 1st 😂
Try to avoid drinking caffeine specially coffee at all cost.
Why?
If your hair is make-or-break for a girl, that shit won't work out regardless of how you look
He kinda looks like pewds bald brother.
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Sir i am from India and my age 26 and i am bold
congratulations
Is that Patricia or Hedwig??
Looking good ! God Bless in Jesus Christ Name Amen.
Try using stinging nettles plants and hit your scalp with them for hair regrowth.
I dont want my Hair back
Is this guy Dutch?
He's Dutch, judging by the accent
Hell yeah XD
I am not bald but I have a fear that If I go bald like him what will happen?My girlfriend will leave me like his girlfriend did.Thats why I am scared.My confident will be low also.
I too thought the same
@@Baldcafe thanks for your reply♥️.
@@sjsaad2023 My girlfriend did not leave me bro. My ex left me before I was bald and my girlfriend now is really supportive.
@@fabianharland5585 you are lucky bro.
If a woman can know you for so long and presumably love you, but then leaves you at a time when you need her support, then what does that say about her character?
Oh I'm 19 too and I realize I'm getting hair loss but I'm fighting for my hair Propecia saves my hair
Take a look at the hair on the frontside of the guy so it is the same with me and he is bald today the long hair is dead images.app.goo.gl/hHd1iiA7vQgfuujZ9
You'll be doing this for the next 40+ years though. About 20000$ will go just to keep hair on the head. And it's hard to keep that up for long only with propecia, you'll need other things adding more to costs.
Deze gozer komt uit Holland ;)
Yup
@@fabianharland5585 bro ik ben 18 ik ben nu ook mijn haar verliezen
I don't believe this guy should be having any problems getting it, bald or not.
Only my right side is going up but not my left is that still a sign of balding?
@Baldcafe there are actually two more theory i like to share with you look at your baby photo from age 1 years
at that should match your hairline from the age of 35 years old and number to two theory determine whenever or
not you could grow a full beard by the time you were 18 years old growing a full beard that is connected and thick
enough to where if you shaved it off the second day 24 hours later you had a stubble beard that look like you shave a day or two
what i am saying they could be strong data were it is linked to male who have high testosterone levels.
Am 30 I feel bad when I see young guys going balds... I still have my hair and even I fear I would lose it one day
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Why didnt you use propecia. Derma roller. Minoxidil. Scalp massages
I just like how I look now so i wont bother with all that stuff, being bald has not been negativefor me.
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Euy Nederlander
Einzelgänger?
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the scariest part of going bald was definitely what he said, that it's game over with women
But it is not over with woman. Look at the thumbnail and listen to what i say!!
I am 35 and have had social anxiety my whole life so I have never had a girlfriend, but was still self conscious about losing my hair. And I thought, why do I care about what women will think? They never wanted me anyway! So I went ahead and shaved it off.
@@fabianharland5585I don't actually care much about how women feel about me, but I care about how I feel about myself. Looking at someone older than me rocking nice styled hair is like having a hammer hit on my head. I don't care if no woman likes me as long as I like myself. If Scarlet Johanson told me she'd sleep with me if I shaved my head, I'd karatekick her away.
he is definitely not from the netherlands
Perhaps
joo, the barber is coming