these men are ruining my LIFE!!! (vlogmas day 23)
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- Опубликовано: 22 дек 2022
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The part about investing your time and energy to be with family and friends, but not seeing that reciprocated hit home. I think a lot of times both parties mean well but it honestly boils down to carving out time for people when you’re already spread thin. Although I try to be understanding of this, I think holding each other accountable and being consistent to some degree helps avoid watered down and flaky relationships. Will please know you are appreciated, respected, and supported by your audience. We don’t replace your personal and tangible relationships but we are here nonetheless ❤
Beautifully said!!!!!!
Facts, we love you Will!
I resonate so much with the last part of this video. My family lives not even 30 minutes from me and they have not visited me once and it truly sucks. They make me feel like I don’t even exist.
I'm so sorry. You are deserving of love and time
Do you feel like you visit them more than they visit you? Or that the onus is on them to make time to visit you instead of the other way around?
@@queercomputer I always visit them and basically invite myself asking if I can come visit but I’ve stopped since I noticed it was always one way and not two ways
@@kristinccha thank you ❤
Aww, hugs to all my fellow lonely peeps. I hope you spend Christmas taking care of yourself whether that’s cooking a nice meal, watching tv, or catching a movie
Wow. It’s crazy how so many people are dealing with being alone for Christmas. Also not having friends reciprocate making time, I have had to deal with that recently and it’s so hurtful especially when you’ve put in the work to make time spend with them
haven’t heard from my mom is almost 3 months because I offended her but she asks me shit through my minor sister smh sometimes families can be the biggest source of neglect in life hopefully everyone who has experienced this or is finds someone who will be different and more loving ❤
This really is a lonely time. My family is in South Africa and I'm in California. I been lonely 😥😅😬 just going through all the emotions day in and out but yeah, we continue to move
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That Sandy cheeks “no you ain’t” gets me every single time 😂
Omg vlogmas is almost over?! This has truly been a bright spot in my December
really resonated with the last part of the video. feels like everyone got their own lives/thing going on so i try not to internalize it when we can't make plans but they somehow have time to hang out with literally all of their other friends but me and it sucks sometimes ngl
Same here and it really just comes down to not being an important part of their lives or they are taking you for granted. I would advise conveying this and if nothing changes, move on.
Childddd when you post the excitement that I get 😭
I literally giggled. 🫣
1:57 That's a million dollar business idea. You better get on it Willard!
I’ve been in my very first place since March. Only 30 mins away from where I was. No one has came to see me nor my place. Not even my mother! We put a lot into our relationships with others, when it’s not reciprocated it does hurt. Sometimes you just have to pull back from people to protect your feelings.
This drawing is professional
Awww!!! Will, I'm so sad that you're feeling lonely. Yes, sometimes friends won't reciprocate, and it hurts. I hope the Universe sends you more like minded people in your life. Thanks for all the laughs this year, you definitely made it brighter ❤️❤️❤️
Whewwww, the SKILLED placement of that "get somebody else to do it" clip has SENT me into ORBIT chilee
the self love you build needs friends to match that.. its just natural. You're doing great.
Dropping a quick & easy tip to repot vining plants Will. Prepare your new pot with soil next to the main plant then pin the trailing vines to the tops with the nodes facing down using bobby pins (the round ones that are open not the closed kind. Ones you’d use for an old school French roll/updo). Water as appropriate. After about a week or two it should root then all you have to do is clip it from the mother plant. A whole new plant with half the work. 😊
All of my family and most of my friends are on the east coast and I haven’t been able to go home since 2018. This year has been tough and I’m actually homesick for the first time in my life. Thank God for video chat. Sending lots of love to everyone who is away from family and friends this holiday season ❤
18:48 your feelings are valid. Hugs. Happy holidays Will. Really enjoying vlogmas. Thank you
Feeling alone while with family is right up there but I hope you get people in your life that make time for you Will ✨
I related to your feelings so much! I’ve always been the friend making sure I visit my friends but none have come to see me. If I didn’t visit, I would never see them.
I feel you Will. Exact same on my end. What can ya do 🤷🏽♀️
I’m so happy you did vlogmas ❤
wait because the fear of going into shake shack is real that’s why i just get it delivered because i can’t
I feel you on the lack of reciprocation from friends and family. More of my online friends acknowledged and remembered my birthday than my real life friends and family did. I realized earlier this year that I was putting much more effort in than others were and if I didn’t reach out to them then, we probably would not talk at all. I try not to take it personally because I don’t want to end up bitter, but I am taking note into how much or how little I should invest into people.
day 23!!! i appreciate your candidness. happy holidays~
I just about had a panic attack when you mentioned the pharmacy. My pharmacist called me bc I forgot to pick up and I thought I had forgotten *again*! But I didn't. 😮💨😪
Im always looking forward to ur post after a long day!!!❤❤
He said I can't pin point why I feel off, then brings up a whole list of things...I relate so hard lol
So relatable with the no friends visiting ❤big hugs 🫂
Love you Will!!! I sit roll and relax from my crazy life to watch yours!!! Your absolutely an inspiration and I pray your Holiday is filled with joy!!! Stay you boo!!!
Awe Will I would come visit you all the time Boo ❤️❤️❤️❤️ thanks for sharing
I feel you on this ending. I used to say I was the disposable friend. I’d make time and invest energy into people who wouldn’t reciprocate (or worse, they’d promise things then ghost). I noticed after a while I started doing the same ghosting things bc that’s what I kept experiencing. Now for the most part I keep to myself to avoid disappointment. But I know folks who follow you here if they were your friends in real life would be down for you. And you’re right, being whole within yourself is the move. Knowing how to make your own fun and depending on yourself. Can be a bit lonely at times but it’s worth it IMO
Sending love ❤. I can so relate to the always visiting and giving to friends and family who don’t do the same. It’s a struggle I’m still working through and all I want is a little reciprocation! 😭
Have you told them? If so, and they are still not making an effort, that should tell you all that you need to know.
Right on time boo
I agreeee with the visiting part 😢😢😢😢 love you Will. Can’t believe it’s Almost the end.
I can definitely relate to you Will.
oh my goodness i just realized i can play twerk for santa at this lil christmas party i’m going to tomorrow at my friends house! AND i’m making some chicken for the gworls?! oh yea they gon love me
"Let's hold hand ls and go to the William convention" 😂😂😂
I understand how you feel. I very rarely get visits like that either, and honestly, it's kind of made it difficult to keep up friendships. I've also moved a lot over the past decade and lived in quite a few countries, so I know it's hard for people to come see me. The worst is when I spend the time and money to come home and then I'm expected to drive around visiting everybody. It's tiring and expensive.
Took my lunch early just to watch this ❤️😂
you did awesome!!!!
You’re not alone with that! I make so much effort to visit friends and none of them do it for me either. Just know you got a lot of internet friends who appreciate you, even though we’re not in person.
i got that same meal prep container. i got it from 99cent store
im lonely this christmas too. young adult Christmases are isolating and depressing..
When is the next live will? I'M FINALLY ON CHRISTMAS BREEAKKK
I totally understood what you were saying about someone interacting with you when you go get food. Like they catch you off guard and you don't know what to say. Lol That happens to me all the time when I'm running errands alone. I end up sounding like a mean person because I'm focused on what I need to do. I'm not a mean person lol.
i'm sitting here on december 25 (doesn't even feel like christmas day) by myself. i have to work later today and i don't even want to turn my phone on to the merry christmas texts. it hurts too much. everyone is spending the holiday with someone else and i'm here with just me and my cat. i don't think anyone realizes how lonely it is and how much it hurts when you're an adult and the holidays really start feeling like nothing more than an extra splash of red everywhere and consumerism at 300%
i hope whatever my situation next year is that i can work through it better and feel a little more jolly. i'm just over it. i rarely hear from my friends through the year since i moved away for work and it's so isolating. let's get on into the new year so i can try to move past it
Remember this feeling is amplified because of the time of year and stupid ass commercials. It will soon pass and allow yourself to open up and find your chosen family.
Wait!! Will!! 😂😂😂 @10:28 did that sound bit come from a voice memo??? I’m so weak rn 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey Will. U are not alone! I always give 100% to people. Time, energy, money.. and only see the same back with certain people. Keep being you. We can always be friends! I think you are the coolest person!!! But ur not alone!
Sometimes i think i feel like that in places because of the lighting. Idk tho but maybe i should talk to somebody too 😂
I need more smoothie videos from you please and thank you… 😁
Hot Ones sandwiches are HOOOOOTTTT LOL but it was sooo good, I survived LOL thank God for the milkshake it saved ya gurl 😂😂😂😂😂
I understand your frustration, and I can almost feel yoyr emotions entirely throyghout this video, patticulary about visiting family/friends and not a single one coming through to see you in return. I moved 4hrs away from my family and it's been 2 years and NO ONE has came to visit me, however, I have 😔. It hurts a lot. The part that's going to kill ya is, I offered to pay for gas, food, and ya kno the usual just to ... I guess... Persuade them into coming up.here, and still I got excuses back to back. Honestly I had to step away and stop being so good heartes towards others. It's slowly becoming a good thing.
OMG, were you listening to heat waves by Glass Animals in thuh car? I love them, and you! HAPPY HOLIGAYZ to you and yorn.
I love you ♥️
I’m literally just commenting as I watch: I got into an accident like that when I was in high school. I was backing out and some parent came rushing around the corner and smacked the back of my car. They were found at fault and not me. Maybe the laws are different in TN or something.
WILLLLLLLAHHHH!! WHAT IN THE HAPPY HOLIDAYS HAPPENED TO THE OUTRO🤣🤣SHE UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL TODAY
I’m tired chile…23 days in I’m bursting at the seams
I know EXACTLY what you mean!! My younger bro made his way 6 hrs away from me to visit a friend, a friend did the same, my mother and fam went to the Grand Canyon but did not tell myself nor my twin bro and we are relatively the same distance give an hour or 2 more for my twin and I, and another friend made her way a few hours away as well.
I get that people have their own things going on but when you see them prioritizing and or making time for other people, it sucks. I haven't spoken to my step-mom (who raised me) this entire year. If I do not call, then we do not talk. I do not go out my way for anyone that I am NOT a priority, hell even a thought, in their life.
Not the suitcase! End of an era
Will!! 💃🏾💛💛💛💛
Funny enough, my therapist and I were having a conversation about friends not really showing up in the way I want them to. She basically said I have to allow my friends to actually have an opportunity to do what I need. For instance, if I am having a tough time with work and I want a sounding board, typically these days I will just bottle that up and only share with my spouse because I don't want to overburden my friends, they have "a lot going on" too. Instead of holding on to my frustration long enough that I end up trauma dumping on them, I would be better off asking one of them if they have a moment to hear me about what I'm going through and allow them to make the call on whether or not they can support me. So for you, Will, if you want your friends to come visit you because you're lonely, you may need to ask them if they can possibly plan a trip out to see you. If they can, that's great, but if they can't for whatever reason, then at least you'll know, and you can move forward with the friendship in the way you want to. In an ideal world, friends would know when to reciprocate without being prompted to, but in reality, some do, and some don't.
YASSSSSS intro
At shake shack they also sell a packet of the infamous last dab hot sauce to go with the burgers/sandwiches. It’s wayyyy hotter than the sauce they put on the burger.
They don’t advertise it very well unfortunately. you have to ask them to add it to your order
I have one of those rugs.
When I got married traditionally (zulu wedding) my parents have to get a cow for me and then my mom took the skin to a tannery. 😂 I love it though, it lasts forever and reminds me of my wedding day. Ok that’s all😅
I’m alone Will 😢😢😢
BONK!!! lol
Will this is random asf but can u PLSSS tell me where that “WASH YA BODY GOOD” meme comes from 💀😭😭 I quote it all the time I need to knowww
It’s from a TikTok by cleopatra1 lmao
@@WillOnAWhim ahhh thank u bae 😮💨❤️
Can I visit you? It’s too damn cold 🥶
Hi Will! This video was so good. I really enjoyed it. I can definitely relate. I only visit those who visit me from my previous state, and I established a new "tribe" of great people in my new state. The Law of Reciprocity 💗- mutual beneficial exchange of support. I got tired of being the one putting in all of the work. Folks make time for the things that are important to them.
Will, you said we were gonna open a barber shop/spa. I graduate Esthetician school at the end of February. Wassup 👀
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Try out the loop earplugs if you don’t feel like wearing your AirPods all the time. Edit: I think you should try telling ppl you’d like them to visit. I know I get so stuck in my own head not wanting to burden others or so wrapped up in my own life that I just do surface level check ins, but I don’t think I’ve ever turned a friend away in need of some quality time. It just never dawns on me that I’m all that special to people that they would want to see me, specifically, if that makes sense.
If you haven’t already, try it out.
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Y’all the card he was gonna give to his ex said “blow me”… I’m scared y’all 😳
Don’t be scared 😂😂😂
Will. Web3. When.
ikea will take something back 5 years later
WHERE TF DOES HE FIND THESE CLIPS 🤣🤣😂😂😭😭😭💀💀💀💀
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I’m sorry you’re feeling lonely, Will. I know it’s not the same, but if you can’t see your loved ones in person try FaceTime. ❤
I always wonder what happened to Emily? (I think that was her name)
Why you didn’t post this sooner so we can all cashapp you some coin to get to momma for the holidays?
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