Bruh a simple breakup could only be perceived and thus overexaturated as hell: if you never is and was shit in the first place and had to have another human being fill up the hole you dug on yourself through an absence of self confidence and relience. Patch that shit up immediately it’s imaginary pain in the grand scheme
G G it’s confidence and those guys give them excitement. it doesn’t forgive women who cheat but many men think that once they are with a girl long term/get marrried they don’t have to work at it. you still gotta flirt and take them out. most importantly OTHER women need to find you attractive. and you need to convey that you choose to be with her even tho you can get a hotter woman at the drop of a hat. go watch patrice o neals black phillip show if you want more info.
Try living out the day where you eventually DO find out the reason why she did, and it is all your fault... the secret is learning you REALLY hated her by then!!! Life Lesson.
He isnt kidding, relationships can f*ck people up, when my ex cheated on me I spiraled into drugs, crime, etc. I went from a good person to a bad person.
Trust me , recovering alcoholic . Id you're not mentally strong and have problems it can fuck you up bad . But the best thing is surviving it . The hardest part is just trying to put back the pieces. When i heard joey tell this story of this poor kid. If made me think back to 7 months ago when i was drink . Just glad my life is getting back to order. Im jaded to a few things but im working on it .
I was losing weight, nearing the low 200lbs. Then my s/o of 4 years left me and I spiraled. Gained the weight back, got depressed, all that stuff. Just now after a year im finally out of it and getting back on top of things. Went back to school and the gym
Got cheated on by two different girls, back to back. Didn’t really care about the first girl but the second girl broke my heart. What can you do though, they don’t like you then they don’t like you. Simple as that.
Good way to think about it, especially goin into other relationships. People tend to get more controlling, but if someone wants to cheat or leave you, they're gonna do it. Trying to control them only speeds it up.
@amanda miller no, it's the society norm and culture we're in today. Our rules are different and it encourages shit like this sadly. It's just not that safe to be committed anymore. Everyone wants a FWB now or 3somes with the husband watching and other shit I'll never understand that guys allow and willingly participate in.
Went through something very similar as an advanced and very street smart 17 yearold. Never had any problems picking up girls but I lost THE ONE, it was devastating ! Crying like a little girl in my room and my mom tells me "this is the best thing that ever happened to you, it'll make you a man"....mom was 100% right, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You have to love YOU more than anything else. Patrice O'neal
Got my heart broken and it sucked bad. It took at least 5 months to get over it start exercising and getting back god had my back I thank him everyday. Love yourself before you love someone else
Hey man.. my ex fiance cheated on me. My first true love. I was broken for years and still at times feel like a shell of myself. But it gets better. Time is what shapes us Aint no girl worth your happiness.
This is one of the many stories of Joey that honestly make me cry every time , the fact that this story hits so close home to me makes me appreciate even more to know that I made the right thing to walk away on my terms once I learned what a nutcase and monster she had become.
I had the exact same thing happen to a friend who was the same age as him. Dude completely lost it and got committed. After he got out he ended up going to prison luckily he'll be home soon.
Nothing is more frustrating than listening to Joey talk about a story or topic, and then someone has the nut sack to interrupt his thought process and he doesn’t finish what he was saying
I was thinking to myself - Joey is the only host that can be talking and you get pissed when the guest interrupts. Like stfu bro, you made this about you and added no value to the conversation. He’s telling a story about someone else, let him finish.
If my gf cheated on me, my spirit would get annihilated. Its so risky to rely on the faithfulness of another imperfect human, in order for you to be happy. Dont even have to be cheating, they could just up and change their mind about being with you for whatever reason, sometimes no explanation. "Being in love" is one of the most terrifying things you can go through. I hope i found it already💯 i been with my gf for 3 years
krissy get off my youtube I was with mine for almost 7 years bro.....I saw other people talk about their girls cheating.....and I would feel bad for them and say to myself "well, at least my girl isn't/wouldn't do that to me" She did. Happened like 3 months ago and she broke up with me. Shit is super lame.....because you build them up in your mind to be these good people....but its always an assumption. You never really know who you're dating. Even after years. Watch your girl bro, and pull your heart away. Anticipate this shit. Never think your girl wouldn't cheat. Most do. And they are absolutely amazing at hiding it. They are crazy master level experts. It is almost terrifying how good they are at lying.
Sorry to hear that man. Being cheated on is the fucking worst, but time heals all wounds. In another year, she'll just be a fleeting memory and you'll be a wiser person. Much love
Was just married for 20 years, had two kids, ones in college. Wife started hanging out with 20 year old girls from her work, then right before Christmas moved out and abandoned me and my son. She just had her mother bring me divorce papers. OUT OF NOWHERE after 20 years of having a perfect family. No fights, alcohol or drugs. I am going shithouse rat crazy right about now. Never take a female seriously, ever. Use them for their purpose and treat them like a dirty napkin. Only way you'll ever retain your manhood.
Whelp looks like me n my gf couldn't last. She didnt cheat or anything but we're just too toxic for another. Alot of crying and anxiety man. I wish all of yall the best man for real.
krissy get off my youtube hey bro just keep your head up and remember that there's many of us going thru the same situations. I just try to remember that the god (or the universe if you're atheist) will always right wrongs. Balance will always ultimately be brought. These chicks will pay for it one way or another. Things will even out. It is a law of reality.
Yo this is like this Jordan Peterson video (hes a psychologist) i saw, where hes talking about how getting betrayed is really hard on people, and some people never recover - because it changes the fundamental way they see the world. Especially if they were naive and innocent to start with, then they see the "dark" side in someone that they really love, and they just can't understand / come to terms with it. That guy was probably being haunted by the glimpse of the dark side he saw in his girl, and he couldn't come up with a proper explanation for it coming from his naive world-view, so he was desperate for her to explain it to him.
I feel that man. Since my ex fucked me over all i see and feel when woman look at me is darkness and evil around me. They aren't worth it man and they aren't necessary either, thank God
My first girlfriend cheated on me after 3 years. After that, whenever my new girlfriend flirted with someone I would lose all respect. I felt bad about it, I thought it was mistakes to be forgiven. But it is not. It’s called betrayal and it’s one of the worst feelings ever. Jordan explained it to me nicely and now I am alone for 3 years, after a bunch of failed relationships, I feel great and dealing with my life. If I can’t find an honest girl who can’t refrain from small betrayals, then it’s not a problem for me to be alone. What kind of mother would that be? I don't want to know.
@@majorkade I've seen it happen to many times if there is other good looking people around you got to watch out. All men know what's up we'd fuck anything so it's up the the boyfriend's of this world to watch out
I got cheated on while i was home taking care our infant daughter, she slept with my friend, her friend, and her friend's boyfriend all in the same night or at the same time. After i found out she kicked me out on the street and filed for custody, knowing it'd be hard for me to fight it while homeless. Dragged my name through the mud and tried to destroy my reputation and effectively did all while pretending i didnt give a shit about my daughter when i asked to see her everyday and got on a city bus ince a week to see her at my ex's house while her, her mom, and aunt scold me and watch me.
First 3 girls I was with cheated on me, I was a bit soft in my late teens early 20s. Ended up making me tougher in future relationships to the point where any red flags and they’d be dumped without hesitation. In my 30s now and been with same woman 7 years and have a beautiful son. At the time I felt like my world had crashed around me, it’s hard to convince people that heartbreak is just part of life and things will get better.
@@ToastyChud - Never give up, bro. There's 2 out there that ripped my heart up and it knocked me down hard. Had to start over/reinvent myself but I got back up again. I finally found the one meant for me; next month is our 24th wedding anniversary. 3 children and our first grandson. N E V E R G I V E UP, EVER!
I love how everyone ends up selling blow in his stories, she wound up selling blow an some shit went down.. come to Long Island there is a million Joey Diaz’s walkin around
I’ve never been cheated on thank God, I’ve had situations happen where I can see why this dude never recovered. Soul crusher. Love is a euphoria that blinds you. What I have been through is minor compared to that and was years ago now, but it has still given me great hesitation to try a serious relationship again. You just can’t let the emotion of love fool you into allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
am a bit late with this one but anyways im gonna say it - if u get ur heart broken too many times (how often depends from person to person) u will not be able to trust anybody anymore. There are many ways to look at it - One way is that if something like this happens to you then obviously you had wrong expectations about them. I believe not all people are like that - unfortunately today too many tho. One big reason so many people are on medication (antidepressiva, drugs and so on) is that there is no emotional stability anymore. People go to work and in their minds they dont know whether they still have a home later at the evening, because the other person may go off so something else with somebody else. I hope we find a way to fix this in our society - i believe that indians are married so young (not anymore unfortunatly) and the parents choose the spouse is a very underrated tradition
I was with a girl for 6 years, we had a beautiful little girl together. At the end of it I found out she was cheating on me almost the entire time. Completely broke me down and I’m still asking myself why.
MOST would be either giggling school girls, or constantly trying to one-up and out talk Joey every chance they get. The grey area would'nt even bother.
I can relate to the man who lost it after the girl left him. I wouldn't give up my LIFE over her deciet. But I get it. I was DEVASTATED when my ex-wife cheated on me. Took me a while to get over. I hurt physically everytime I thought about it. But the point is to think about it. Don't hide it because then it never goes away. Deal with the pain, it allows you to move on. Hard as it is in the moment. When that happens you realize this person wasn't worth your suffering. They didn't love you the way you loved them, so let them go. They're not worth your time and energy anymore. It's not easy by any means, but once you come to that realization you can then view your situation objectively and make rational decisions.
I totally know what that guy felt . People think it's jokes or easy it's not . U spend years wondering why someone u trusted can mess u up . And that stuff turns u into a different human being . U can either get destroyed or come out of the tunnel stronger. And after years when you recover and look back from the moment I knew that I should never mess with love
Once you come to the realization that no one can claim ownership over another human being, you free yourself from the burden of cheating or being cheated on. You're free. Just enjoy your life.
Lol fr people are like why are you always looking at me? Cause I have thoughts like this just examining and observing everyone, seeing how people are adapting and reacting. It’s an amazing trait as you learn why people do things and how to avoid doing those things when something happens to you.
I got my heart broken five years ago I went through all the stages of depression for about 3 years got healthy, sober I train my body looks amazining I've been with numerous other people but I still nearly everyday get so upset I have to fight the urge to cry or ball my eyes out. IT AIN'T EASY, STAY STRONG AND KEEP MOVIN FORWARD.
Imagine all the years spent bitter over someone else's action.. Now imagine all those years spent being successful in everything else you love. How much of a waste is resentment though?
C Efc same exact thing here man. 8 years. From 17 to 24. It’s been a year and a half. The first year is the worst but trust me it eventually fades away. You don’t forget it but you learn to let it go.its okay. It wasn’t meant for us. Nothing good or bad is meant to last forever. Would I take it all back if I knew this would be the outcome, Absolutely not. Because I was in love all those years and I was happy. Now you just have to find what makes YOU happy. And do more of that. Trust me you’ll get through it. Good luck.
i rmemeber when i got cheated on. the idea of someone telling you one thing and doing the a whole complete opposite. then them not having any regret to what they done, can reallly really fuck you up on a mental and physical scale. its hard to come back from. some people can jump out of it in a few days and some people stay in that funk for years bro....years.i mean on a scale of never getting into a relationship again.your trust has been betrayed. i would never cheat on a girl. always tell a person who you are.
I’ve been through this. Extremely painful. What always hurt me was that she didn’t want me like I wanted her. I wanted to kiss her , hug her, take her to Disneyland... she wants that to ... but just not with me ... the sooner you get over that the sooner the healing begins... I started smoking weed right after I got cheated on it was hard man but keep yourself around good ppl and vibes and you’ll be fine
The betrayal and divorce ARE one of the worst situations to get past. Fuck forgiving, just move on and don't let that anger and humiliation control who you are. We're better than that and have much more to live for.
1Leggo9my9Eggo2 man I can remember in Afghanistan dudes plotting on killing their wives/gfs of course I talked them out of it because ain’t no women worth stressing yourself over. The sad part these were good ass men and they’d do what a man is supposed to do and those are the ones that get cheated on the most
The only reason I didn’t leave to the military straight out of high school because I didn’t want to come home and see my girlfriend pregnant with some dudes kid. Heard stories about shit like that.
My girl is actually pretty hot and she doesn’t go to clubs or bars or anything without me. Idk how people let their girl go get drunk with their friends at the club without them. Like bro are you fucking stupid. You go to the club as a guy and even the ugliest girls get dick.
Broke your heart or not. Don’t waste your time on someone who don’t deserve it in the end. If you gotta cry, cry. If you having bad days, have them. And if you need someone to hear you out, don’t be weak and go to a friend or family and be heard. But handle that shit firmly, reflective, and like a man. That shit they say that “time heals” well that’s true. And the other thing they say “you’ll meet other girls” well that’s even more true. Trust. One thing that helps the most is lift weights, stay sharp, and drink to forget till you no longer need to forget to drink. If you reading this and you going through some shit, it’s all temporary bro. Stay cool.
I’ve been in this same position before. Mother of my three daughters cheated after fifteen years and to this day I’ll always asked why? It’s tough but I fortunately for over it and been the best father I can. Karma has bitten her in the ass three times over so while it was hard I overcame it!
Love is a crazy thing. I think the guy would've been ok if she was honest with him. But if you're madly in love with someone, seeing that person you would die for literally betraying you in real-time would break any guy. Some guys snap and take out the lady, or the guy, or possibly both. If anything, the guy was a puppy compared to what some crazy fuckers would do in that situation. I'll be honest, If I was in that situation, I'd probably be in jail.
Uncle Joey. Not every 8 year old watches their Mom and her friends do blow at 6am when they get home from the bar. Then their mother have him dance with nothing but his underwear on and a hat for her female friends 🤣🤣. Let's just say your upbringing was unconventional at best . But that's what makes you the best. Much Bless y'all
Ex GF cheated on me with my best friend of over ten years when I was asleep in the room next door. He phoned me up and told me about two years later after we broke up. No words really to describe how shit that was, have not spoken to him since. Shame, as we were good mates for a long time.
So cringe when ppl force that in, like they can’t wait their turn or know when it’s their place to say it, they get so Anxious that they won’t be able to get their edgy background in so they can get more attention/woe is me/my trauma was worse statement out there because they identify so hard with that shit and don’t really have a personality. But idk that’s just my take.
god damn relatable. Old high school best friend drank himself to death when his wife left. She was right to leave, he made mistakes. Always had alcohol issues, but this time she wasnt there to turn his head when he puked. RIP, dude. You had demons and anger I didnt want to talk about. and I know some were there because of me.
Love Joey he's amazing, but sometimes it seems like he has on guests as just a new person to listen to his stories. I enjoy his stories, they are all good and He does have so many stories it seems like he has lived 3 lifetimes in 1
On one side of the coin, I hope you get through it. We’ve all been there, and there’s no cure besides time and self improvement. On the other side of the coin. Fuck. That. Bitch.
The betrayal was so heavy Joey had to take a swig of water.
LMAO
It was because he was the one bouncing her on top Cauksucka
Dawg even i felt that betrayal through his story. Man can tell a fuckin story and make you FEEL IT.
The Joey story reserve vault is a borderline national treasure.
Facts.
There’s no borderline here u mezza fanook
KING TOAD u sound dumb AF
I cant find the love button
Actually it's just 90% mothagoose story time ... guy got hell of an imagination tho !
IF YOU'RE GOING THROUGH HELL RIGHT NOW KEEP GOING N KEEP YOU'RE HEAD UP
Thank you, seamore butts.
Woke
Bruh a simple breakup could only be perceived and thus overexaturated as hell: if you never is and was shit in the first place and had to have another human being fill up the hole you dug on yourself through an absence of self confidence and relience.
Patch that shit up immediately it’s imaginary pain in the grand scheme
Thanks Winston
@@balladin9200damn straight, everyone needs to hear this !
Sometimes Joey starts telling a story and you just don’t want it to end.
Paul Higgins especially when you can’t sleep 😂
I am the same age as Joey and from NY I relate to his stories so much . I can listen to him for hours.
That’s right cock suckers 😆😆😆
Totally agree. He really can tell a story well.
Getting cheated on by someone you have been with for years is the hardest thing to grasp. Especially when you dont know what you did.
Cheating rarely has anything to do with the person who was cheated on. It has everything to do with the cheater.
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it’s confidence and those guys give them excitement. it doesn’t forgive women who cheat but many men think that once they are with a girl long term/get marrried they don’t have to work at it.
you still gotta flirt and take them out. most importantly OTHER women need to find you attractive. and you need to convey that you choose to be with her even tho you can get a hotter woman at the drop of a hat. go watch patrice o neals black phillip show if you want more info.
Try living out the day where you eventually DO find out the reason why she did, and it is all your fault... the secret is learning you REALLY hated her by then!!! Life Lesson.
well isnt this just a sea of ill-advised advise
The worst thing to think is that it’s your fault.the reason people cheat is simple selfishness .
No woman is worth ruining your life over none
He isnt kidding, relationships can f*ck people up, when my ex cheated on me I spiraled into drugs, crime, etc. I went from a good person to a bad person.
AC1DTR4P same ended up with a 2 year everyday coke addiction. My lowest I was at 5grams a day. Glad those days are over
Yupp I know that feeling all to well..gotta have an outlet to release all the negative energy...mine was the gym .thank GOD
Sorry man
Trust me , recovering alcoholic . Id you're not mentally strong and have problems it can fuck you up bad . But the best thing is surviving it . The hardest part is just trying to put back the pieces. When i heard joey tell this story of this poor kid. If made me think back to 7 months ago when i was drink . Just glad my life is getting back to order. Im jaded to a few things but im working on it .
I was losing weight, nearing the low 200lbs. Then my s/o of 4 years left me and I spiraled. Gained the weight back, got depressed, all that stuff. Just now after a year im finally out of it and getting back on top of things. Went back to school and the gym
Theres not a girl on this planet worth gettin depressed over remember that fellas
Sounds like someone whose never been in love, you'll learn one day
12tippettm in the long run man it’s true.
Facts their all vultures looking to gain from you not be with you through thick and thin
Been there, done that, samuel is telling the truth guys
Bro true that
Got cheated on by two different girls, back to back. Didn’t really care about the first girl but the second girl broke my heart. What can you do though, they don’t like you then they don’t like you. Simple as that.
Good way to think about it, especially goin into other relationships. People tend to get more controlling, but if someone wants to cheat or leave you, they're gonna do it. Trying to control them only speeds it up.
I approach every relationship cheating I only slowdown when it starts getting serious
I didn’t find out my girl cheated till after she dumped me, shit worked out tho I be fuckin her best friend
Read The Rational Male and it won't happen again.
@amanda miller no, it's the society norm and culture we're in today. Our rules are different and it encourages shit like this sadly. It's just not that safe to be committed anymore. Everyone wants a FWB now or 3somes with the husband watching and other shit I'll never understand that guys allow and willingly participate in.
Went through something very similar as an advanced and very street smart 17 yearold. Never had any problems picking up girls but I lost THE ONE, it was devastating ! Crying like a little girl in my room and my mom tells me "this is the best thing that ever happened to you, it'll make you a man"....mom was 100% right, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
You have to love YOU more than anything else.
Patrice O'neal
This is why cheating on a significant other is one of the absolute worse things you can do to a person. Some people just can't handle it.
I hate when they interrupt Joey when he’s in the middle of a sentence.
Film Focus starts off “I was 19 at the time” 2 minutes into the story “HOW OLD WERE YOU”
lol That's what Joey usually does.
If they didn't interrupt him I'm p sure he would never stop talking. Not that I'm complaining 😀
Got my heart broken and it sucked bad. It took at least 5 months to get over it start exercising and getting back god had my back I thank him everyday. Love yourself before you love someone else
Hey man.. my ex fiance cheated on me. My first true love. I was broken for years and still at times feel like a shell of myself. But it gets better. Time is what shapes us
Aint no girl worth your happiness.
Plfj Aa 10:00that’s all I have to say
This is one of the many stories of Joey that honestly make me cry every time , the fact that this story hits so close home to me makes me appreciate even more to know that I made the right thing to walk away on my terms once I learned what a nutcase and monster she had become.
Right! Gets me pretty emotional too. Joey has so much passion when he tells stories from the past
I had the exact same thing happen to a friend who was the same age as him. Dude completely lost it and got committed. After he got out he ended up going to prison luckily he'll be home soon.
what did he do to end up in prison?
boksaboki a crime
maybe tax fraud
@@boksaboki gta, but he’s out now. I felt bad cause he wanted to work with me but can’t. There’s consequences for these things and now he sees😔
Lol the dude got over it and stumbles over this video and ends up in a psych ward again lmao
Funk Shiz 😭😂
Him:“I think I’m ready to go on RUclips again”
RUclips: “guy gets cheated on and broke his heart”
Him: oh my Fuck....
😹😹😭😭
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Funk Shiz i’m dead
Nothing is more frustrating than listening to Joey talk about a story or topic, and then someone has the nut sack to interrupt his thought process and he doesn’t finish what he was saying
It just happened 30 seconds ago, & I had to scroll down through the comments to find out if anyone else noticed that shit.. You're so right
He kept butting in - read the room and witness greatness
I was thinking to myself - Joey is the only host that can be talking and you get pissed when the guest interrupts. Like stfu bro, you made this about you and added no value to the conversation. He’s telling a story about someone else, let him finish.
Is there anything better than a Joey story? Just Tremendous ❤️
If my gf cheated on me, my spirit would get annihilated. Its so risky to rely on the faithfulness of another imperfect human, in order for you to be happy. Dont even have to be cheating, they could just up and change their mind about being with you for whatever reason, sometimes no explanation. "Being in love" is one of the most terrifying things you can go through. I hope i found it already💯 i been with my gf for 3 years
krissy get off my youtube I was with mine for almost 7 years bro.....I saw other people talk about their girls cheating.....and I would feel bad for them and say to myself "well, at least my girl isn't/wouldn't do that to me"
She did. Happened like 3 months ago and she broke up with me. Shit is super lame.....because you build them up in your mind to be these good people....but its always an assumption. You never really know who you're dating. Even after years.
Watch your girl bro, and pull your heart away. Anticipate this shit. Never think your girl wouldn't cheat. Most do. And they are absolutely amazing at hiding it. They are crazy master level experts. It is almost terrifying how good they are at lying.
Sorry to hear that man. Being cheated on is the fucking worst, but time heals all wounds. In another year, she'll just be a fleeting memory and you'll be a wiser person. Much love
Was just married for 20 years, had two kids, ones in college. Wife started hanging out with 20 year old girls from her work, then right before Christmas moved out and abandoned me and my son. She just had her mother bring me divorce papers. OUT OF NOWHERE after 20 years of having a perfect family. No fights, alcohol or drugs. I am going shithouse rat crazy right about now. Never take a female seriously, ever. Use them for their purpose and treat them like a dirty napkin. Only way you'll ever retain your manhood.
Whelp looks like me n my gf couldn't last. She didnt cheat or anything but we're just too toxic for another. Alot of crying and anxiety man. I wish all of yall the best man for real.
krissy get off my youtube hey bro just keep your head up and remember that there's many of us going thru the same situations.
I just try to remember that the god (or the universe if you're atheist) will always right wrongs. Balance will always ultimately be brought. These chicks will pay for it one way or another. Things will even out. It is a law of reality.
Yo this is like this Jordan Peterson video (hes a psychologist) i saw, where hes talking about how getting betrayed is really hard on people, and some people never recover - because it changes the fundamental way they see the world. Especially if they were naive and innocent to start with, then they see the "dark" side in someone that they really love, and they just can't understand / come to terms with it. That guy was probably being haunted by the glimpse of the dark side he saw in his girl, and he couldn't come up with a proper explanation for it coming from his naive world-view, so he was desperate for her to explain it to him.
I feel that man. Since my ex fucked me over all i see and feel when woman look at me is darkness and evil around me. They aren't worth it man and they aren't necessary either, thank God
JDP da goat
My first girlfriend cheated on me after 3 years. After that, whenever my new girlfriend flirted with someone I would lose all respect. I felt bad about it, I thought it was mistakes to be forgiven. But it is not. It’s called betrayal and it’s one of the worst feelings ever. Jordan explained it to me nicely and now I am alone for 3 years, after a bunch of failed relationships, I feel great and dealing with my life. If I can’t find an honest girl who can’t refrain from small betrayals, then it’s not a problem for me to be alone. What kind of mother would that be? I don't want to know.
Sorry to hear that about ur friend man
Never move your girl in to a house with other dudes. That was his first mistake. He should have just left.
damn right. about like these couples who hire a beautiful babysitter or nanny. shit's bound to happen.
@@majorkade I've seen it happen to many times if there is other good looking people around you got to watch out. All men know what's up we'd fuck anything so it's up the the boyfriend's of this world to watch out
I got cheated on while i was home taking care our infant daughter, she slept with my friend, her friend, and her friend's boyfriend all in the same night or at the same time.
After i found out she kicked me out on the street and filed for custody, knowing it'd be hard for me to fight it while homeless.
Dragged my name through the mud and tried to destroy my reputation and effectively did all while pretending i didnt give a shit about my daughter when i asked to see her everyday and got on a city bus ince a week to see her at my ex's house while her, her mom, and aunt scold me and watch me.
First 3 girls I was with cheated on me, I was a bit soft in my late teens early 20s. Ended up making me tougher in future relationships to the point where any red flags and they’d be dumped without hesitation. In my 30s now and been with same woman 7 years and have a beautiful son. At the time I felt like my world had crashed around me, it’s hard to convince people that heartbreak is just part of life and things will get better.
Don’t know where I’d be without this podcast, thank u Lee, thanks you Joey
Broken heart is what killed my cousin at 39yrs old. Never was the same after she left him.
You'll never find out why. Eventually you have to just accept that you'll never know why.
Joey - “He was 22 at the time..”
*5 seconds later*
Jayson - “So how old was he?”
The attention span of a fish
poor cat- that's really sad
Exact same happened to me. First love head over heals. Developed pretty heavy addiction after that that’s never gone away
@@ToastyChud - Never give up, bro. There's 2 out there that ripped my heart up and it knocked me down hard. Had to start over/reinvent myself but I got back up again. I finally found the one meant for me; next month is our 24th wedding anniversary. 3 children and our first grandson. N E V E R G I V E UP, EVER!
Jeremy V that is amazing. stuff like that give me hope
@@jeremyv4636 this comment reminded me of another guy who's wife up and left after 20 years.
@@dullknifefactory damn-sad to hear it, man
I’m still legitimately scarred by my first heartbreak I don’t think I’m ever gonna be the same so I definitely understand this
Everyone has to go through something like that to show you that anyone and everyone is capable of deceiving you. Keeps you on your toes
You can only be deceived if u had wrong expectations to begin with
I love how everyone ends up selling blow in his stories, she wound up selling blow an some shit went down.. come to
Long Island there is a million Joey Diaz’s walkin around
What kind of blow was she selling?
JL 😂😂
"reALLY?? more than COKE??"
lmfao i spit out my water
I’ve never been cheated on thank God, I’ve had situations happen where I can see why this dude never recovered. Soul crusher. Love is a euphoria that blinds you. What I have been through is minor compared to that and was years ago now, but it has still given me great hesitation to try a serious relationship again. You just can’t let the emotion of love fool you into allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
Hit the nail on the head with his comment man
am a bit late with this one but anyways im gonna say it - if u get ur heart broken too many times (how often depends from person to person) u will not be able to trust anybody anymore. There are many ways to look at it - One way is that if something like this happens to you then obviously you had wrong expectations about them. I believe not all people are like that - unfortunately today too many tho. One big reason so many people are on medication (antidepressiva, drugs and so on) is that there is no emotional stability anymore. People go to work and in their minds they dont know whether they still have a home later at the evening, because the other person may go off so something else with somebody else. I hope we find a way to fix this in our society - i believe that indians are married so young (not anymore unfortunatly) and the parents choose the spouse is a very underrated tradition
I thought it was lee because of the picture lmao
its probably happened to the christ killer at some point in his life lol
It’s okay to hold onto the things that make you upset because they made you happy at one point but jeez I felt this guys pain
P***y will mess with your mind. Be strong fellas. Whatever you do...just don't rely on drugs or alcohol to cope.
“The only thing in my horizon was crime” 😂😂😂😂
The biggest lesson from this is be very careful who you let in your heart
I was with a girl for 6 years, we had a beautiful little girl together. At the end of it I found out she was cheating on me almost the entire time. Completely broke me down and I’m still asking myself why.
Same but after 13 years. Its a terrible position to be in. We will truly never understand.
Start working out and get fucking swole
Justin Lopez I’m on juice
DovaTV how you doing now ?
Been depressed after a female. She took everything from me. Respect yourself fellas. She doesn’t car e about you how you think. I promise
just start hittin her bro, smack her around a lil knock some sense into her
this is why private investigators are important. They get you the “why”
Joey should bring just a random fans like 1-2 times a year, idk would be cool?
Yeah dude but it can't ever be you.
tanner mackay no lol
tanner mackay whiteboy7street profile pic??
They would have to interview him and teach him how to be on a podcast. Most people are terrible
MOST would be either giggling school girls, or constantly trying to one-up and out talk Joey every chance they get. The grey area would'nt even bother.
I don’t get why these clips don’t have timestamps. There are so many episodes I would’ve started watching if I knew where the clip ended.
I can relate to the man who lost it after the girl left him. I wouldn't give up my LIFE over her deciet. But I get it. I was DEVASTATED when my ex-wife cheated on me. Took me a while to get over. I hurt physically everytime I thought about it. But the point is to think about it. Don't hide it because then it never goes away. Deal with the pain, it allows you to move on. Hard as it is in the moment. When that happens you realize this person wasn't worth your suffering. They didn't love you the way you loved them, so let them go. They're not worth your time and energy anymore. It's not easy by any means, but once you come to that realization you can then view your situation objectively and make rational decisions.
I totally know what that guy felt . People think it's jokes or easy it's not . U spend years wondering why someone u trusted can mess u up . And that stuff turns u into a different human being . U can either get destroyed or come out of the tunnel stronger. And after years when you recover and look back from the moment I knew that I should never mess with love
Once you come to the realization that no one can claim ownership over another human being, you free yourself from the burden of cheating or being cheated on. You're free. Just enjoy your life.
This is the best take, focus on you, who loves you will love you and everyone else doesn't matter
Lol fr people are like why are you always looking at me? Cause I have thoughts like this just examining and observing everyone, seeing how people are adapting and reacting. It’s an amazing trait as you learn why people do things and how to avoid doing those things when something happens to you.
This shit just happened to me after 8 years been 6 months now an feel nothin but anger and depression
I got my heart broken five years ago I went through all the stages of depression for about 3 years got healthy, sober I train my body looks amazining I've been with numerous other people but I still nearly everyday get so upset I have to fight the urge to cry or ball my eyes out. IT AIN'T EASY, STAY STRONG AND KEEP MOVIN FORWARD.
@@hottdoggeatta7692 thank u bro means alot man
@@royeaston6067 thank you for that my bro means alot
Imagine all the years spent bitter over someone else's action.. Now imagine all those years spent being successful in everything else you love. How much of a waste is resentment though?
C Efc same exact thing here man. 8 years. From 17 to 24. It’s been a year and a half. The first year is the worst but trust me it eventually fades away. You don’t forget it but you learn to let it go.its okay. It wasn’t meant for us. Nothing good or bad is meant to last forever. Would I take it all back if I knew this would be the outcome, Absolutely not. Because I was in love all those years and I was happy. Now you just have to find what makes YOU happy. And do more of that. Trust me you’ll get through it. Good luck.
We all can feel this
You have earned my subscription. I think that you're funny, insiteful and sincere keep up the good work Mr Diaz peace!!!!!!!
I grew up with a few ppl that got depressed and started getting high off pcp and jumped, from a bad breakup
some people are stupidly reckless and don't think their actions effect others especially in their 20's.
Sometimes what sucks about cheating is that people do it for no reason and it leaves you questioning why me
Love having 🍻 beers and listening and telling interesting stories/experiences
i rmemeber when i got cheated on. the idea of someone telling you one thing and doing the a whole complete opposite. then them not having
any regret to what they done, can reallly really fuck you up on a mental and physical scale. its hard to come back from. some people can jump out of it in a few days and some people stay in that funk for years bro....years.i mean on a scale of never getting into a relationship again.your trust has been betrayed. i would never cheat on a girl. always tell a person who you are.
I’ve been through this. Extremely painful. What always hurt me was that she didn’t want me like I wanted her. I wanted to kiss her , hug her, take her to Disneyland... she wants that to ... but just not with me ... the sooner you get over that the sooner the healing begins... I started smoking weed right after I got cheated on it was hard man but keep yourself around good ppl and vibes and you’ll be fine
this guy sounds like a normal Theo Von
Diaz had a podcast with Jeffrey Dahmer
Beachside Patriot no he didn’t
The betrayal and divorce ARE one of the worst situations to get past. Fuck forgiving, just move on and don't let that anger and humiliation control who you are. We're better than that and have much more to live for.
I love you Joey.
When Joey reaches the "Listen guys" you know it's gonna get deep.
I’ve seen this myself before countless times in the service
That must be the worst, going into the military with a girlfriend or wife is almost asking to be cheated on it seems
1Leggo9my9Eggo2 man I can remember in Afghanistan dudes plotting on killing their wives/gfs of course I talked them out of it because ain’t no women worth stressing yourself over. The sad part these were good ass men and they’d do what a man is supposed to do and those are the ones that get cheated on the most
The only reason I didn’t leave to the military straight out of high school because I didn’t want to come home and see my girlfriend pregnant with some dudes kid. Heard stories about shit like that.
Word of advice fellas MOVE ON!
Never let your girl be around other guys.
MalLa 225 you have to control them
My girl is actually pretty hot and she doesn’t go to clubs or bars or anything without me. Idk how people let their girl go get drunk with their friends at the club without them.
Like bro are you fucking stupid. You go to the club as a guy and even the ugliest girls get dick.
@@supergbonin I let my girl, if she cheated on me, fuck i'll bounce quick af would be happy i dodged that shit
If that's all it takes she was never your girl.
If you can't trust your " girl" to be fateful when she's alone then she was never your girl lol.
Happened to me twice, second one broke me. Over a year going downhill
Start to hit the gym
That drink of water at 3:56 !!! Fuckin tremendous!
Broke your heart or not. Don’t waste your time on someone who don’t deserve it in the end. If you gotta cry, cry. If you having bad days, have them. And if you need someone to hear you out, don’t be weak and go to a friend or family and be heard. But handle that shit firmly, reflective, and like a man. That shit they say that “time heals” well that’s true. And the other thing they say “you’ll meet other girls” well that’s even more true. Trust. One thing that helps the most is lift weights, stay sharp, and drink to forget till you no longer need to forget to drink. If you reading this and you going through some shit, it’s all temporary bro. Stay cool.
I’ve been in this same position before. Mother of my three daughters cheated after fifteen years and to this day I’ll always asked why? It’s tough but I fortunately for over it and been the best father I can. Karma has bitten her in the ass three times over so while it was hard I overcame it!
Happend with one of my friends . Crazy real shit . Real talk it's like a spell.
Hahaha joey your a soldier, keeping the regime in order. Salt of the earth proppa real bad boy stories!
Love is a crazy thing. I think the guy would've been ok if she was honest with him. But if you're madly in love with someone, seeing that person you would die for literally betraying you in real-time would break any guy. Some guys snap and take out the lady, or the guy, or possibly both. If anything, the guy was a puppy compared to what some crazy fuckers would do in that situation. I'll be honest, If I was in that situation, I'd probably be in jail.
GamingTutor Me too
@@Psyminds is this what your girls boyfriend told you
I feel this too much.
Uncle Joey. Not every 8 year old watches their Mom and her friends do blow at 6am when they get home from the bar. Then their mother have him dance with nothing but his underwear on and a hat for her female friends 🤣🤣.
Let's just say your upbringing was unconventional at best .
But that's what makes you the best.
Much Bless y'all
Oh wow, how sad...
Ex GF cheated on me with my best friend of over ten years when I was asleep in the room next door. He phoned me up and told me about two years later after we broke up. No words really to describe how shit that was, have not spoken to him since. Shame, as we were good mates for a long time.
Joeys moobs looking real nice in that shirt
I’m gonna motorboat them
never interrupt joey diaz dude nobody cares about your upbringing
So fucking annoying Joey is trying to get into it and just keeps getting interrupted by questions.
So cringe when ppl force that in, like they can’t wait their turn or know when it’s their place to say it, they get so Anxious that they won’t be able to get their edgy background in so they can get more attention/woe is me/my trauma was worse statement out there because they identify so hard with that shit and don’t really have a personality. But idk that’s just my take.
Who is that guy?
Yeah I Just wanna hear
Learn , learn watch n learn ,
He should’ve cheated on her man damn
ultimate revenge
Tht sounds gay
UNO reverse card
god damn relatable. Old high school best friend drank himself to death when his wife left. She was right to leave, he made mistakes.
Always had alcohol issues, but this time she wasnt there to turn his head when he puked. RIP, dude. You had demons and anger I didnt want to talk about. and I know some were there because of me.
What mistakes did he make? Cheating?
As sad as this is the way joey always tells his stories is hilarious 😂
Imagine the stories of the guys that didn't make it out...
Samurai night fever.
Lol
*knight**
A house, but he lived in the apartment underneath it. 🤔
Speaking American, House can mean an apartment.
Where can i find this whole podcast ep? Anyone know
Fuck me this is too relatable, what can you do to stop going outta control?
Move on . Try and better yourself . New girl
never ever give someone 100%, always keep atleast 10% for yourself because if that women goes and youve given her 100%, whats left for you.
Never looked at it that way but this is the truth.
Never knew Joey Diaz had a podcast lol
I love you Joey! Going through a rough divorce myself
Ya grow through what ya go through..
Had ptsd since I was five.I can understand where Joey is coming from.A frustration with people not having context on how good it really is.
How u get ptsd at 5??
@@blackkkabllakkcaa best not to ask something like that
@@zk3212 bruh they posted on YT what u expect
- What was harder to get through? The drugs or the divorce?
- The drugs
- REALLY?? *THE COKE* ??
Oh Lee ahahah the way he said it, he kills me
Great convo as always
Best outro by far 👌
Joeys friend story!!😮 Sheeeeessh
Joey”back in 87” Diaz
Love Joey he's amazing, but sometimes it seems like he has on guests as just a new person to listen to his stories. I enjoy his stories, they are all good and He does have so many stories it seems like he has lived 3 lifetimes in 1
That closure trap fellas. Dont ever rely or wxpect closure when youre wronged. Ever.
Treat people kindly and with respect and dont expect it back. Dont accept disrespect just drop contact.
Simple lessons we live and learn
Love is a drug literally..... I got cheated on after 5years and a baby together, imagine that pain
Damn man. That's some serious shit. God is good though I hope you make it there man.
On one side of the coin, I hope you get through it. We’ve all been there, and there’s no cure besides time and self improvement.
On the other side of the coin. Fuck. That. Bitch.
No wonder im fucking nuts!!!! Lmao lmao