Activities with each other! Maybe your favorite date nights story time while re-creating the dates at home. 😁 ......I know it’s kinda off topic, but I thought I’d give it a shot.
My husband and I are in our 60s, we have two grown kids, eight beautiful grandchildren. Keep your united front strong, don’t sweat the small stuff, draw a line keep it tight, but most of all pray 🙏🏼
See to how you speak to each other. Children pick on that. They will talk to that parent the way their spouse speaks to them. Respect each other in every way.
I freaking LOVED that you both said to not make the other parent the bad guy and decide to work together as parents and knowing when to handle different situations a different way and respecting that. You all are amazing
Love ❤️ that sentence “Make sure your child is a positive addition to the society “ Amin, this is my favorite video of your channel because I’m a mom of 3 teens.
Tip for raising teens coming from a 19 year old. Who doesn't have children but has learned from her years of being a teen and observing. -Don't push. If you have put knowledge in them, expect they will use it. When you don't expect and just assume, they will rebel!!! Basically, hold them to high expectations. -if you say somthing MEAN IT! I can't stress that enough. We are know it all and we will throw back technicalities at you and your argument will not hold. - discipline is key. I hated my mother growing up and loved my father because she disciplined and he didn't. Now that I'm older, I have a stronger bond with my mother. I realized that while both my parents love me unconditionally, my mothers discipline was uncondional love and I now respect her for that. - if you have a reasonable request, they must do it. Don't let it slide. They will learn that your a softy that can be walked on and will learn no sense of authority. - do not buy them everything they want. They need to either earn it or get a job and pay for it. -and finally, one of the biggest mistakes my parents consistently apologize for to this day....do not let your child eat whenever and whatever. Not only will they because overweight, but have that sense of discipline will help them develop self discipline. Don't just says "eat this instead of that because I said so" explain to them why this is better than that. "Because I said so" is a phrase many parents will regret.
My husband and I love hearing different parenting tips as we’d like to have kids one day. We are interracial and I love hearing both of your perspectives because he and I were raised very differently.
I don't think you guys need to worry so much. Your kids love you so much. As long as you both work together and keep praying. You got this. Be blessed. Enjoy your children. Enjoy your children. Again, enjoy your children. Love yall. 😊🤟🏿🙏🏿😇
Teens are completely different. Our daughters are 17 and 16. Our son just turned 10. It’s hard but the joy in parenting teens is being able to have real , deep and meaningful conversations with them. In quarantine I have been journaling more of things they share . Keeping God in the center of your marriage when parenting teens so you are able to sit and communicate about any situations that come up is key . Have a blessed day Housely family .
I love how you guys parent the kids. I totally agree with every single thing you guys do. Im not a mother yet, but i hope to be one one day. God willing if its meant for me and my fiance to be a mommy and daddy. Love you guys!!!😘💕
Love the old school way of raising children. Raised mine that way. One great thing is that you both agree to do tough love. Your Children will always respect you. Respect first , friends second. Bible says Honor your mother and father for your days will be numbered on earth.Honor is Respect! Happy Mother’s Day!❤️
Amen! The dynamic of parent/child will never change; they are not on our level and as old as they get, it is important for them to realize/remember that so they always maintain respect for you and listen to you and respect house rules and such as they age. Great advice!
Tamera, mentioning the amount of summers and the part where you say its blissfuly exhausting i totally understand, and i get it i love my kids and they're so funny and loving but they have their moments that really made me feel good though.
I just LOVE the way that you guys speak to each other and your children. When Adam said, “Can I play off that ?” And Tam said, “Yes!” It was so sweet and endearing. You 2 are such an awesome couple ! My husband and I are really enjoying these parenting tips !!!
To start , I think you two should consider a TV show, I completely enjoy watching you, from this subject of parenting to just being a family. Good , bad and in between. You're always positive , funny and enjoyable to watch. I have told you before you have a beautiful family . keep up the good work.
I just love you guys and it's great to see that their are still people in the world who parent with faith, love, intent and structure just like my husband and I strive to do! All is not doomed in the world for our future generations ☺
I have son who turns 16 tomorrow and a 10 year old daughter. Ive been raising them alone since she was 3 mos. Its been tough and sometimes exasperating! They ABSOLUTELY get more challenging as they get into the tween/teen years. The babies you romanticized about can test your will to keep going! My best advice is to remember that you have ONE SHOT to get it right, STAY IN PRAYER, remember to breathe, STAY CONSISTENT, discipline and always have patience! Cry it out when they're asleep and be sure you're recharge before they wake up. I've loved watching your videos. Theyve brought a sense of peace and laughter to me personally, during these challenging times.
mommyonthego Thank you for sharing your comment with us! We must continue to support channels that promote healthy communication and healthy relationships with God self and others so we build stronger families 🙏🏾
In my 30s single and child free and watching you guys makes me wish and daydream about future spouse and future family. I trust and believe it will happen one day
The best advice to dealing with teenagers, is to remember that you both were teenagers and although times have changed the rules or guidelines will not change ......... it will only means' that a new method of solving teenage issues are to be implemented and how you both mentor them as to know that you both have there best interest at heart.
Hello Guys, great opinions/advice. You're so uplifting, inspirational and realistic people. If more parents/people were like you guys, the world would be a better place. Thank you for your positivity.
Love it!! Momma of 4 here, 1, 4, 6 & 9. And I even learned something new! Thank you both for sharing! Parenting...it's certainly is a blissful journey 😊
Y’all are so cute together! Every time I watch a video, I just smile. PARENTS: I love kids, but I am not a parent. I don’t judge people on how they parent. BUT, it drives me crazy when parents are oblivious to their kid being a terror to others - destroying someone’s house, using foul language aimed at adults, screaming, hitting, throwing things, etc. I’ve had countless airplane rides with kids kicking the back of my seat and mom or dad is off in space. HOW you parent your kid is your is your deal. But, please, please, PLEASE make sure you are aware of how your kid’s behavior is effecting others.
I can’t say it enough that I love you guy. I’m a single mom of 2 special needs teens. So it’s still an learning process. My boys have autism and ADHD. And I agree with you guy that works with one kid won’t work with the other. Oh boy did I ever learn that😂 Love you guy
Thank you for sharing this content with us! We must continue to support channels that promote healthy communication and healthy relationships with God self and others so we build stronger families 🙏🏾
I’m a great mom I love the relationship with my daughter she’s not afraid to talk to me about anything going on in her life. Best relationship ever. She’s 25 and still home I’m living it.
I love you Guys...... I have 6 kids from 24-2 you have two parents each one of them differently and learn as you go and you adapt to what works for you. LOVE THEM KEEP GOD FIRST....... This has worked for us P.S Me and My husband lost or oldest he was murdered in 2016 it just makes us not sweat the Small things and Make everyday every hour every second count... YOU ARE great parents keep the great job
Love this!! I so needed to hear the end about not taking it personally when your kids don’t listen. I literally had that exact convo with my husband two days ago! It’s so good to remember that! Hard at times but absolutely key! You guys are the bomb! Thank you so much for doing this!! 🥰
I have three boys - a nine year old and twin seven year olds. But I also have a 16-year old brother... we are 20 years apart! I’ve seen him go through the ups and downs of puberty and the only piece of advice I have is to love, love, love. Pray. Look for common interests or MAKE common interests. And be thankful for the time together because they will grow up and be on their way Lord willing all too soon! ❤️
As a teenager, I was the opposite. I realized I knew nothing about life or the world and it was terrifying! What I wished I’d had from my parents was a safe space to have honest conversations, ask hard questions, and still receive that comfort I might act like I don’t need at times. Also, with fluctuating hormones came my first battles with depression and, going with that safe space element, I think a lot of teens need some validation for their feelings and reassurance that what they’re going through is salient. ❤️
Just continue to communicate with them and bond with them. My parents didn’t do that and I resented them for it and disliked them for a long time because of it.
Remember each issue is different and will most likely have a different solution. And keep reminding your children how much you love them and they can always talk to you about anything, even if you don’t have all of the answers. 💜
Oh, my!! Tam, I did the exact same thing with my Dear grandmother. I mis-spoke to her like a girlfriend one day, and she went silent on me for 3 days. I meant know harm.
Yes I have 3 daughters an almost 2 year old, 7.5 year old, an 8.5 year old. And everyone tells me to enjoy this time now because when they become teenagers it’s going to be rough. As my mom says the older they get, the harder it is to let them go and make their own choices.
Don’t confuse loving and respect for your child as being their friend. The love and structure of a parent is far more important during those first 10 years than being their friend. When they leave the home, will they hear your voice when they are doing things without you.
I grew up in the house with two brothers. I did not have a boyfriend until I was 20 years old. Every time I had a thought of a crush my oldest brother would find out , react and tell on me. 😌 But, I’m thankful because they helped me to guard my own heart. ❤️
You are doing it right... I say patience is the only way thru the teen years... but you are embracing a lot of my parenting style... I am a Caribbean Mom... respect is key...
I just watched this for the second time. I think allowing them to be themselves and speaking life over your children is the best thing you can do for them. You a guys are doing an Amazing job, just remember don’t say the other one will do something because they are like someone else. Life and death are in the power of the tongue.
I think these two are great parents. This "hey buddy" trying to be friends with your kids stuff is a problem waiting to happen!! It usually backfires. Also comparing your kids or making differences between the kids can really tear a family apart. Great advice you two!!
My brother is 2 years 9 months older than me and we were raised in what appears to be a very similar family structure. Our relationship has definitely gone through many ups and downs (especially when he would try to act like a parent during my rebellious teenage streak -- I, like Miss Ariah, am quite strong-willed) but I can tell you now that he always watched over me, had my back, and is truly a best friend to me now. (current ages 27 and almost 30). Love your content. Thanks for sharing! Stay well!
Even though I am not a mom yet, I will be keeping one big advice from my mom. She said that by keeping an open communication with your kids before puberty, when they enter that stage of life they will come to you. But create a no judgement zone.
Hi Tamara and Adam you guys are so cute together. Ariah has her mom's beautiful eyes. Aden has Dad's beautiful eyes. God bless your beautiful family. ❤️❤️❤️
You two give me hope. I tell all my friends and family about you guys and I'm sure I've annoyed them now lol. But, just watching you two give relationship and parenting advice gives me hope and some what of an excitement for my future. Love you Adam and Tamera you guys are beautiful❤️
You two are an extraordinarily wonderful couple. I love the "learn as you go" parenting advice, and I like your parenting style.👍🏾 Just keep taking one experience at a time.
OMG I love your channel I love you two guys together you're a perfect example of compromising and complimenting each other in both marriage❤parenting and of course business partners LOL thanks for sharing learning so much XO😍😘❤👈🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽☝🏽
Hey you guys, I think that you guys is bright spot in anybody’s day. I love watching your channel. I am a identical twin and I used to dream of how our lives would be when we grew up. I never really got that chance. Yep she passed away and I’m still in shock and still trying to figure life out.time makes the pain a little bearable and I will live. I’m so grateful for you guys channels for so many reasons. Thank you for sharing . I love you ❤️
I know you guys will be great parents even when your children are older because you both bring a balance to the forefront. Having similar but different ways of raising a child has its many benefits. Both can't be leaning on the same side all the time. Having a 12 yr old 14, and 17 yr old, my husband and I are soon to have a household full of teens. Nothing is ever perfect, but its definitely our family discussions that has helped them open up regularly, so definitely keep that open the older they get.
I would say that allow Jesus to teach you how to parent your children when they get there. The Holy Spirit will reveal to you as parents what may be going on with them and will give you wisdom on how to deal with each scenario. All the best! (I’m not a parent or married by the way 🙈)
Sibongile Sikhakhane Thank you for sharing your comment with us! We must continue to support channels that promote healthy communication and healthy relationships with God self and others so we build stronger families 🙏🏾
Oh my gosh I love your videos! I’m so glad you were talking about feeling like you are failing. I feel like that a lot and I know I shouldn’t but I do. So I’m glad to see you guys talk about what you struggle with. Thank you so much 😊
I am a child, adolescent and family therapist and I tell parents two main things. 1.) Your teens are your toddlers, so whoever's they were at 2 and 3 is the person you will see at 13 on. They are both ages of independence. 2.) Children are seeking safety. The formula for safety is; consistency + stability + discipline (the learning process not necessarily punishment) = safety.
Even though teens are frustrating (and they are) sometimes they understand so much more than when they were that that in itself is the sweetest blessing ever. Don't get me wrong - they do have their moments, but the rewards are sometimes soooooooo worth it! It's amazing! (My daugher Tiara is 15)
I found that you can't guess or imagine what will happen in the future. My daughters are now married and have become parents. I'm extremely proud of them. But getting them to this time of their life was difficult. One was rebellious in her teen years and the other one was a little irresponsible in her twenties. At the time we went through those rough times, I didn't think that I would make it. I did and they did and I'm so grateful that we are all here more than fifty years later. Adam is right. They will always love you and you'll be surprised that they won't remember the bad times as much as you will. Stay happy and know that you two are doing the best that you can.
I think you all are doing a beautiful job looking after your children,and that is sweet you both you working together,I must say your daughter look like her aunt that pass , You both have been blessed with beautiful children, Always put God in front of everything. God blessed your family
What other topics would you guys like to see a Q&A on??
Juggling work,kids and lifestyle. How do you guys still keep the romance btwn you alive
activities with the kids please. Love seeing Aiden and Ariah. You should do like a competition and maybe get your brothers to judge the winner.
Activities with each other! Maybe your favorite date nights story time while re-creating the dates at home. 😁
......I know it’s kinda off topic, but I thought I’d give it a shot.
I’d love a hair care routine by Tamera, especially through this quarantine! 🌱
The Housley Life finances and money
My husband and I are in our 60s, we have two grown kids, eight beautiful grandchildren. Keep your united front strong, don’t sweat the small stuff, draw a line keep it tight, but most of all pray 🙏🏼
Well said.
The best compliment I got was when my 12 year old daughter told me that she told her friends that I knew when to be a mom and when to be a friend.
susan routly love that
That is really sweet and as 39yr old daughter don't lose that because as an adult we still need both.
That's sweet💝
absolutely!
🤍🤍🙏🏼🙏🏼
See to how you speak to each other. Children pick on that. They will talk to that parent the way their spouse speaks to them. Respect each other in every way.
No children nor married however, love the content♥️
same. But I love watching family content. Its very loving and warm
Same 😄
Yeap me too. 😉
Sterling B. Lucky you !
Taking notes for the future. 👌😊
TAMERA LOOKING ALL GLOWY AND BEAUTIFUL 🌸🌸🌸
I freaking LOVED that you both said to not make the other parent the bad guy and decide to work together as parents and knowing when to handle different situations a different way and respecting that. You all are amazing
Tamera your skin is literally glowing!!!
When Tam and Adam were talking about Ariah and Adien's relationship as a teenager sounds like a movie they should make lol!!!!
Adam is such a guy's guy and has such an old school , chill ,real way about him ..love you guys!
A real man.
I’m old school all day long! I’m coming from a black mom from the Caribbean.....enough said!🤣
Haitian👀
Lol #dontplaywithme
Love your comment
the way Ariah layed her head on her Tamera’s shoulder🥺🥺🥺 my heart melted. i love their relationship ❤️ she is so beautiful, just like her mama🥰🥰🥰
Love ❤️ that sentence “Make sure your child is a positive addition to the society “ Amin, this is my favorite video of your channel because I’m a mom of 3 teens.
Awesome! Yes that is important .
Tip for raising teens coming from a 19 year old. Who doesn't have children but has learned from her years of being a teen and observing.
-Don't push. If you have put knowledge in them, expect they will use it. When you don't expect and just assume, they will rebel!!! Basically, hold them to high expectations.
-if you say somthing MEAN IT! I can't stress that enough. We are know it all and we will throw back technicalities at you and your argument will not hold.
- discipline is key. I hated my mother growing up and loved my father because she disciplined and he didn't. Now that I'm older, I have a stronger bond with my mother. I realized that while both my parents love me unconditionally, my mothers discipline was uncondional love and I now respect her for that.
- if you have a reasonable request, they must do it. Don't let it slide. They will learn that your a softy that can be walked on and will learn no sense of authority.
- do not buy them everything they want. They need to either earn it or get a job and pay for it.
-and finally, one of the biggest mistakes my parents consistently apologize for to this day....do not let your child eat whenever and whatever. Not only will they because overweight, but have that sense of discipline will help them develop self discipline. Don't just says "eat this instead of that because I said so" explain to them why this is better than that. "Because I said so" is a phrase many parents will regret.
Love how you talk about your faith in God n raise your kids in God's way n you guys doing a great job .
I like their openness and acknowledgement that they don't know it all but are willing to give things a good try.
This was great. Thank you. My biggest takeaway is the thought of only 18 summers (Whoa!). And I really liked the advice of "don't take it personal".
My husband and I love hearing different parenting tips as we’d like to have kids one day. We are interracial and I love hearing both of your perspectives because he and I were raised very differently.
Im not only in an IR, but intercultural marriage. My husband was opposed to spanking. So we didnt. Now, he regrets it.
@@home4life505 He regrets not being physically abusive to children?
Fizzy Bizzy a pop pop is not abuse. Please calm down
I don't think you guys need to worry so much. Your kids love you so much. As long as you both work together and keep praying. You got this. Be blessed. Enjoy your children. Enjoy your children. Again, enjoy your children. Love yall. 😊🤟🏿🙏🏿😇
Teens are completely different. Our daughters are 17 and 16. Our son just turned 10. It’s hard but the joy in parenting teens is being able to have real , deep and meaningful conversations with them. In quarantine I have been journaling more of things they share . Keeping God in the center of your marriage when parenting teens so you are able to sit and communicate about any situations that come up is key . Have a blessed day Housely family .
"If you noticed I haven't talked over you, Have I?" lmaooo same
I love how you guys parent the kids. I totally agree with every single thing you guys do. Im not a mother yet, but i hope to be one one day. God willing if its meant for me and my fiance to be a mommy and daddy. Love you guys!!!😘💕
Great advice don’t compare your kids and draw the line between parents and friends some of the best advice ever
Love the old school way of raising children. Raised mine that way. One great thing is that you both agree to do tough love. Your Children will always respect you. Respect first , friends second. Bible says Honor your mother and father for your days will be numbered on earth.Honor is Respect! Happy Mother’s Day!❤️
Amen! The dynamic of parent/child will never change; they are not on our level and as old as they get, it is important for them to realize/remember that so they always maintain respect for you and listen to you and respect house rules and such as they age. Great advice!
Tamera, mentioning the amount of summers and the part where you say its blissfuly exhausting i totally understand, and i get it i love my kids and they're so funny and loving but they have their moments that really made me feel good though.
I just LOVE the way that you guys speak to each other and your children. When Adam said, “Can I play off that ?” And Tam said, “Yes!” It was so sweet and endearing. You 2 are such an awesome couple ! My husband and I are really enjoying these parenting tips !!!
18 summers ...ohhh my! Never looked at it that way. So true!!
To start , I think you two should consider a TV show, I completely enjoy watching you, from this subject of parenting to just being a family. Good , bad and in between. You're always positive , funny and enjoyable to watch. I have told you before you have a beautiful family . keep up the good work.
gloria shaeffer thank you
Good good good, yes! Discipline and respect are key! My husband and I are very old school and we’re only 30. Love them
I would love to see a video about your walk/relationship with the Lord, how it began, advice for parents, the hardships, etc!! Love you Tam Tam!!
I love how you guys are very honest
I just love you guys and it's great to see that their are still people in the world who parent with faith, love, intent and structure just like my husband and I strive to do! All is not doomed in the world for our future generations ☺
This is such an inspirational channel.Thank you for starting it
Glad you enjoy it!
oh wow 18 summers is not long when you think of it. Great advice and video
It really flies by!
Great video I’m married 8 years and I have no kids yet but I’ll take these tips and use them when it’s our time . Thanks 😊
My husband & I have no children and don’t plan to for a few more years but I’m still over here taking notes! My favorite family💗💗
I have son who turns 16 tomorrow and a 10 year old daughter. Ive been raising them alone since she was 3 mos. Its been tough and sometimes exasperating! They ABSOLUTELY get more challenging as they get into the tween/teen years. The babies you romanticized about can test your will to keep going! My best advice is to remember that you have ONE SHOT to get it right, STAY IN PRAYER, remember to breathe, STAY CONSISTENT, discipline and always have patience! Cry it out when they're asleep and be sure you're recharge before they wake up.
I've loved watching your videos. Theyve brought a sense of peace and laughter to me personally, during these challenging times.
mommyonthego Thank you for sharing your comment with us! We must continue to support channels that promote healthy communication and healthy relationships with God self and others so we build stronger families 🙏🏾
In my 30s single and child free and watching you guys makes me wish and daydream about future spouse and future family. I trust and believe it will happen one day
The best advice to dealing with teenagers, is to remember that you both were teenagers and although times have changed the rules or guidelines will not change ......... it will only means' that a new method of solving teenage issues are to be implemented and how you both mentor them as to know that you both have there best interest at heart.
You know what? You both are fine. What you think you don't know, you know. You'll do great as you already are. Nothing is perfect. ❤
Hello Guys, great opinions/advice. You're so uplifting, inspirational and realistic people. If more parents/people were like you guys, the world would be a better place. Thank you for your positivity.
Love it!! Momma of 4 here, 1, 4, 6 & 9. And I even learned something new! Thank you both for sharing!
Parenting...it's certainly is a blissful journey 😊
I love tamera lmfaooo she's hilarious and the best part is that she doesn't even realize it lmao
Your family is so beautiful! God Bless your family !
Y’all are so cute together! Every time I watch a video, I just smile.
PARENTS: I love kids, but I am not a parent. I don’t judge people on how they parent. BUT, it drives me crazy when parents are oblivious to their kid being a terror to others - destroying someone’s house, using foul language aimed at adults, screaming, hitting, throwing things, etc. I’ve had countless airplane rides with kids kicking the back of my seat and mom or dad is off in space. HOW you parent your kid is your is your deal. But, please, please, PLEASE make sure you are aware of how your kid’s behavior is effecting others.
I can’t say it enough that I love you guy. I’m a single mom of 2 special needs teens. So it’s still an learning process. My boys have autism and ADHD. And I agree with you guy that works with one kid won’t work with the other. Oh boy did I ever learn that😂 Love you guy
B3llet Truth Thank you hun it’s not ma’am but I tries to do the best that I can
I enjoy you two so much. One day at a time. You will be just fine.
Thank you so much!
This was so encouraging. Parenting is hard. I have 3.
I couldn't help but smile all through this video. You two are so sweet
😊 thank you
Thank you for sharing this content with us! We must continue to support channels that promote healthy communication and healthy relationships with God self and others so we build stronger families 🙏🏾
I’m a great mom I love the relationship with my daughter she’s not afraid to talk to me about anything going on in her life. Best relationship ever. She’s 25 and still home I’m living it.
I so Agree with you both!!! I know of so many grown adults that disrespect their parents. I just shake my head!!! Like that could not be me!!!
I love you Guys...... I have 6 kids from 24-2 you have two parents each one of them differently and learn as you go and you adapt to what works for you. LOVE THEM KEEP GOD FIRST....... This has worked for us
P.S Me and My husband lost or oldest he was murdered in 2016 it just makes us not sweat the Small things and Make everyday every hour every second count... YOU ARE great parents keep the great job
Love this!! I so needed to hear the end about not taking it personally when your kids don’t listen. I literally had that exact convo with my husband two days ago! It’s so good to remember that! Hard at times but absolutely key! You guys are the bomb! Thank you so much for doing this!! 🥰
Always a pleasure seeing you guys. Working from home here in Killeen, TX.
I have three boys - a nine year old and twin seven year olds. But I also have a 16-year old brother... we are 20 years apart! I’ve seen him go through the ups and downs of puberty and the only piece of advice I have is to love, love, love. Pray. Look for common interests or MAKE common interests. And be thankful for the time together because they will grow up and be on their way Lord willing all too soon! ❤️
As a teenager, I was the opposite. I realized I knew nothing about life or the world and it was terrifying! What I wished I’d had from my parents was a safe space to have honest conversations, ask hard questions, and still receive that comfort I might act like I don’t need at times. Also, with fluctuating hormones came my first battles with depression and, going with that safe space element, I think a lot of teens need some validation for their feelings and reassurance that what they’re going through is salient. ❤️
We need 2-3 videos a week!! We love the storytelling sit-downs. Cooking episodes. Children! All the content🙌🏾just keep it coming🤗
Love the feedback, thank you!! More cooking and story time coming up!
Just continue to communicate with them and bond with them. My parents didn’t do that and I resented them for it and disliked them for a long time because of it.
I am not a parent but I have been a nanny for the past 14 years and any advice is always greatly appreciated. Love watching your videos!
I'm early. Thank you so much Tamara im just a kid but today is my birthday and I look up to you so much. Stay safe hope you have a great day.
Happy Birthday!! 🎉
Happy Birthday!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!🙌🏽🎁🙌🏽🎂🙌🏽🎊💞
Remember each issue is different and will most likely have a different solution. And keep reminding your children how much you love them and they can always talk to you about anything, even if you don’t have all of the answers. 💜
The foundation you lay at the beginning helps coz they will grow up knowing what line to not cross!!
I loved all of the parenting tips! I am not a parent yet, but I am old school lol!😊
I love you guys because of how honest you are and how you seem to accept everyone and own up to who you both are its incredible !
None of us are there in person to actually see how you handle your kids BUT I can tell you are GREAT parents and you are doing an AMAZING job!!
You guys are such a blessing. You’re doing a great job with parenting and your family is lovely.💙
Oh, my!! Tam, I did the exact same thing with my Dear grandmother. I mis-spoke to her like a girlfriend one day, and she went silent on me for 3 days. I meant know harm.
Lol it happens. I remember I answered my mom really short and abrupt one time. It hurt her feelings and I felt so bad.
@@Denise-ob8dk it hurts,we should remember not to cross that line for real
Yes I have 3 daughters an almost 2 year old, 7.5 year old, an 8.5 year old. And everyone tells me to enjoy this time now because when they become teenagers it’s going to be rough. As my mom says the older they get, the harder it is to let them go and make their own choices.
Don’t confuse loving and respect for your child as being their friend. The love and structure of a parent is far more important during those first 10 years than being their friend. When they leave the home, will they hear your voice when they are doing things without you.
I grew up in the house with two brothers. I did not have a boyfriend until I was 20 years old. Every time I had a thought of a crush my oldest brother would find out , react and tell on me. 😌 But, I’m thankful because they helped me to guard my own heart. ❤️
You are doing it right... I say patience is the only way thru the teen years... but you are embracing a lot of my parenting style... I am a Caribbean Mom... respect is key...
I just watched this for the second time. I think allowing them to be themselves and speaking life over your children is the best thing you can do for them. You a guys are doing an Amazing job, just remember don’t say the other one will do something because they are like someone else. Life and death are in the power of the tongue.
Love that "Don't take it personally" advice. I hate conflict, but if you love your kids you have to sometimes. Parenthood is the scariest hood!😆
It's cute watching you two. You both are very smart.Keep up the good job with your kids.
I’m a first time mom & this helps to guide me if I have future kids. Thank you 🙏🏻 🥰
Carmen Gallardo Congratulations!!!
I think these two are great parents. This "hey buddy" trying to be friends with your kids stuff is a problem waiting to happen!! It usually backfires. Also comparing your kids or making differences between the kids can really tear a family apart. Great advice you two!!
Great advice! It’s so true, 18 summers will go by fast. It’s great seeing you two work together.
Adam, you are so right on the best friend scenario... You are spot on. There must be a boundary between parents and children.
My brother is 2 years 9 months older than me and we were raised in what appears to be a very similar family structure. Our relationship has definitely gone through many ups and downs (especially when he would try to act like a parent during my rebellious teenage streak -- I, like Miss Ariah, am quite strong-willed) but I can tell you now that he always watched over me, had my back, and is truly a best friend to me now. (current ages 27 and almost 30). Love your content. Thanks for sharing! Stay well!
Even though I am not a mom yet, I will be keeping one big advice from my mom. She said that by keeping an open communication with your kids before puberty, when they enter that stage of life they will come to you. But create a no judgement zone.
Hi Tamara and Adam you guys are so cute together. Ariah has her mom's beautiful eyes. Aden has Dad's beautiful eyes.
God bless your beautiful family. ❤️❤️❤️
You two give me hope. I tell all my friends and family about you guys and I'm sure I've annoyed them now lol. But, just watching you two give relationship and parenting advice gives me hope and some what of an excitement for my future. Love you Adam and Tamera you guys are beautiful❤️
You two are an extraordinarily wonderful couple. I love the "learn as you go" parenting advice, and I like your parenting style.👍🏾
Just keep taking one experience at a time.
I love my family! Protect your family. Your home is your safe place.👍💯🙏🥰
OMG I love your channel I love you two guys together you're a perfect example of compromising and complimenting each other in both marriage❤parenting and of course business partners LOL thanks for sharing learning so much XO😍😘❤👈🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽👏🏽☝🏽
Hey you guys, I think that you guys is bright spot in anybody’s day. I love watching your channel. I am a identical twin and I used to dream of how our lives would be when we grew up. I never really got that chance. Yep she passed away and I’m still in shock and still trying to figure life out.time makes the pain a little bearable and I will live. I’m so grateful for you guys channels for so many reasons. Thank you for sharing . I love you ❤️
I know you guys will be great parents even when your children are older because you both bring a balance to the forefront. Having similar but different ways of raising a child has its many benefits. Both can't be leaning on the same side all the time. Having a 12 yr old 14, and 17 yr old, my husband and I are soon to have a household full of teens. Nothing is ever perfect, but its definitely our family discussions that has helped them open up regularly, so definitely keep that open the older they get.
I would say that allow Jesus to teach you how to parent your children when they get there. The Holy Spirit will reveal to you as parents what may be going on with them and will give you wisdom on how to deal with each scenario. All the best! (I’m not a parent or married by the way 🙈)
Sibongile Sikhakhane with that advice you’re going be a great mother I love it 💯💯💯
MrsAmayaKobe aah thank you so much ❤️🤍🤍🤍🥺
So so true,
Sibongile Sikhakhane you’re welcome 😇
Sibongile Sikhakhane Thank you for sharing your comment with us! We must continue to support channels that promote healthy communication and healthy relationships with God self and others so we build stronger families 🙏🏾
Oh my gosh I love your videos! I’m so glad you were talking about feeling like you are failing. I feel like that a lot and I know I shouldn’t but I do. So I’m glad to see you guys talk about what you struggle with. Thank you so much 😊
my dad worked outside the country for months at a time. so my mom took care of everything . my parents wanted respect. they got it.
I am a child, adolescent and family therapist and I tell parents two main things. 1.) Your teens are your toddlers, so whoever's they were at 2 and 3 is the person you will see at 13 on. They are both ages of independence. 2.) Children are seeking safety. The formula for safety is; consistency + stability + discipline (the learning process not necessarily punishment) = safety.
I have appreciated Adam more in these parenting videos. Well done guys
Even though teens are frustrating (and they are) sometimes they understand so much more than when they were that that in itself is the sweetest blessing ever. Don't get me wrong - they do have their moments, but the rewards are sometimes soooooooo worth it! It's amazing! (My daugher Tiara is 15)
I found that you can't guess or imagine what will happen in the future. My daughters are now married and have become parents. I'm extremely proud of them. But getting them to this time of their life was difficult. One was rebellious in her teen years and the other one was a little irresponsible in her twenties. At the time we went through those rough times, I didn't think that I would make it. I did and they did and I'm so grateful that we are all here more than fifty years later. Adam is right. They will always love you and you'll be surprised that they won't remember the bad times as much as you will. Stay happy and know that you two are doing the best that you can.
Thankful that my kids have kids of there own I can spoil without feeling guilty but would love to go back! Enjoy this time!
Love when both parents participate in the questions/answers
My Son is 16 and O boy! the challenges at 14/15 it gets better . I learned to step back from disciplining all the time be calm and do the best I can .
I think you all are doing a beautiful job looking after your children,and that is sweet you both you working together,I must say your daughter look like her aunt that pass , You both have been blessed with beautiful children, Always put God in front of everything. God blessed your family