Alan only saw the error of his ways and supported AJ when he found Michael was AJ's son. He hardly supported AJ at all before that. This goes way before AJ's issues with alcohol and Jason's head injury. A part of Alan always blamed AJ for his mother's affair with Rick Webber. When AJ was born, there was speculation on whether he was truly Alan's son or Rick Webber's which was later proven that Alan was the father. To him, AJ was constant reminder of that so he took it out on AJ
It's amazing how any excuse is acceptable to justify his behavior, I didn't have the best relationship with my parents and being the youngest with older siblings isn't easy. Instead of them taking care of me I got told I must help them instead and their children, being a babysitter or driver at any time of day or night but I never turned to substance abuse to cope. So I can't understand his choices
Plus Tracy never missed an opportunity - even in the mid-2000's - to remind Alan about Rick adn AJ. During Lila's memorial Tracy put doubt into Alan's head. Alan was tough on AJ but at least Alan admitted early on how spending that first year in doubt made it difficult for him to love AJ. But AJ's lying and teen drinking didn't help. I think AJ got a bum wrap - but it wasn't all Alan's fault. Yes, Monica started the trouble. She should have worked harder to bring her men back together.
Jason never bowed to anyone - as Morgen NOR as Quartermaine. Jason was always independent - especially as a teenager before his accident. He was a voice of reason. What changed was his anger. Alan had been supper supportive of Jason being his own man against the Qs. Both he AND Monica wanted Jason to be a doctor. And - as CAM and I debated, they should have let go of their dreams for Jason sooner - and accepted that he was what he was - even if it caused harm to him and those he loved.
The Q's knew that AJ was an alcoholic yet they always had a fully stocked bar. Even though he was drinking water here they should still have it elsewhere.
True. I think they always blamed aj for the accident. Jason should not have jumped in the car & honestly it's a tragedy. I'm not in any way blaming jason but he had just ripped Aj a new one that he was done enabling him. The rest of the family made it worse however. Edward came in screaning aj was a drunken bum. Alan went off on him. Aj went to go upstairs to sleep it off & Alan told him to get out. The qs didn't help at all. What they should have done was had an intervention. Told him it was rehab or else. They needed to give him tough love instead of attacking him. Jason as I said had the right idea saying he wasn't gonna enable him anymore. Sadly had the stupid convertible w/ keys in the car not been sitting outside in winter nothing would have happened. I hated how Alan called Aj weak. Ajs response was perfect " I'm not weak I'm sick " absolutely. Sadly just when aj moved out & got sober hurricane Carly came around. Both got wasted & had a one night stand. It's sad b/c Carly really liked aj & he liked her a lot too. Sadly his new 12 step " don't judge others " shouldn't have applied to Carly. Carly was a pure pychotic. She lied all the time caused trouble where she didn't have to & the irony is Jason q wouldn't enable aj but Jason m enabled Carly & it wound up destroying micheals childhood . Another irony Micheal got on the straight & arrow as a young adult when he moved to the q mansion & worked at elq. I think with so many q's gone I found it amazing Micheal did really well when Tracey became his mother figure. I have to say Tracey was such a great mom figure to everyone. Ned & Dillon seemed OK. She was a mother to lulu when Laura was catatonic for years. She really became the glue to her step kids w/ Luke. I think aj never had a chance. Tracey b/c of her bitterness that Alan's son was the heir made her lash at aj. Ned as well b/c he was not the male heir of Alan. Edward was very much like Asa on oltl in that only the males counted & so did their male heirs. Then throw in Alan thinking aj was Monica's son w/ Rick webber & I think he never bonded w/ aj. Take Jason. He was the son of Alan's mistress Susan. So he always knew jason was his. Then Monica was being so ridiculous about baby jason
Edward caused a load of harm within his family with his need for family competition and constantly arguing. But, Edward's the first AND the second were funny as hell doing so. I was watching the Monica cancer storyline yesterday - and there is so much to be learned about all of them there - but mostly I laughed out loud constantly because of the Edward character. He even messed with poor Lucky - trying to get him to neuter his dog to get the puppy promised by Lila. Edward had no shame.
Yeah.....but wasn't Allan was such a great father.....everyone boasted about how he loved PJ so much.....but Allans loved was contingent on how PJ behaved, if he was or was not drinking and what he brought to the table....that was not love.
Poor Monica. Poor Alan. Poor AJ. But far better than AJ's end, when he asks Monica to love him just enough not to call the mob on him, and then shoots Alan in the back. Shudder.
2 comments: 1. Sean Kanan (this AJ) was recently charged with drunk driving...how ironic. 2. If they all knew AJ was an alchoholic, why did they keep booze so readily available??
. A J should have left that house a long time. ago. Alan did not have a good track record helping his sons when they needed him. He was so wrapped up in his own pain, he never saw their pain.
This proves that it was Alan and Monica , Edward that made aj crazy because all of them put aj and jason against one another , Alan should have handle this a lot better than he did because all this proves to aj is that he loves Jason more.
This guy has been running away since he was a kid feeling like he was never good enough now CarSon did not help the cause but the Q's start it and I think that's why Carly did want Michael there because of how often A.J told her about his childhood
Exactly because A.J problems started way before Carson came around and I hate how the Quartemaines neglect to realize that they played a part in A.J issue I scene a clip where A.J said he started drinking at 12 years old like seriously at 12 years old he was being compared to Jason because Jason was studious and A.J got bad grades and his parents and Edward would berate him really and they wonder why Carly did not Michael around everybody forgets that the Q's have digress only in they last what 8 years that where controlling'band belittling if youndidnt live how they wanted you to live . its a cop out to blame all of A.M's problems on CarSon
AJ was an early problem child that made it tough on Alan and Monica. I see clips in 1988 when they first show AJ running away from boarding school - he came home - but no Jason as the writers claim that he was happy there. Then the drinking, lying and partying, and AJ was rude to Jason early on. Plus, he was quick to jump on Alan and blame him for his parents problems in their marriage. There's an early clip when even Monica had to correct AJ and tell him that all was not Alan's fault. Plus...
I disagree that AJ was a "problem child." I think that term is too black and white. And you're making it sound like AJ was always rude to Jason. He wasn't. AJ was looking for answers, to know if he really belonged. IMO, neither Q son belonged at military school. Kudos to AJ for running away, he was better off, it wasn't right for him, and the Qs were not better off with the other son who did finish military school. Such naivete. They trained a killer. Talk about a problem child.
@@crayzeetony4367and they trained a fantastic one at that.....they pay big bucks for Jason's skillset.....what do PJ come out with?.....how long does it take to find your facking self or where you belong?....because it took him years and he still did not know where he belonged or who he was...don't vex with Jason because he knew his own mind while PJ was weak minded.
Monica's asking "what did she do wrong" is the most hypocritical statement ever uttered! Alan was no jerk! Alan was the most supportive person in every other aspect - including supporting AJ with Michael when no one else would. But, Monica gutted him early in their marriage..with her lie to get Rick Webber. Jeff Webber tried suicide, Alan nearly self destructed and Leslie (and Laura) suffered horribly because Monica had to have Rick. The above happened because of HER - not Alan.
Poor aj just wanted someone to believe in him. That's why alan Edward ned hated aj bc they thought he was weak. Jason q was the only one who loved him unconditionally he always had ajs back. The nail in the coffin was him " killing jason q" but jason was the dope who jumped into a convertible without a seat belt I get he wanted to help aj but what was he supposed to do while aj was driving drunk . Monica the worst thing to say to ur child is " what did I do wrong " basically saying he turned out a loser. Boy I hated carson for ripping michael away from his dad they did a bang up job like Tracey said he wasnt going to turn out a choir boy. He was shot in the head and killed his thug dad s mistress and got raped in jail. I believe ajs good Gene's shine through in Michael's DNA bc hes nothing like carson . Morgan was a mess. Kristina is a mess with no direction Dante is normal bc sonny never raised him poor avery . I loved when michael took her away and called her aj but of course they had Michael run back to sonny. Morgan was a dick and I'm not sure how his death was Ava s fault from what I heard
@Rain89Sweed Even Monica. He should've turned out to be Rick's. And then Rick could've lovingly raised him with Lesley and proved Monica "unfit" because Alan and Monica were unfit...just like Victor and Nikki!
I know it’s absolutely horrendous what AJs drinking has caused but my god no one truly cares about him and it’s incredibly sad 😭 Monica and Keesha have tried but that’s about it😢
They should have kept this AJ, but let’s be honest the real reason they treated AJ like shit is because they hated him for what he did to Jason he was never forgiven
I've been watching GH for 45years now and I remember everything Carlybabes is the worst thing that ever happened in the history of GH!! Carlybabes ruined everything for everyone she was always a hater love Sonny and Brenda True love no one compares to them Real Talk 💯 Love the Quartermaine's without Carlybabes and Michael they were better without Carlybabes she destroyed her mother marriage she slept with her mother husband Tony Jones had an affair with AJ slept with his brother Jason slept with Jason BFF Sonny she was forced on Sonny from the beginning 2023 gh needs to get rid of Carlybabes character for good
I have to say-- it's almost like the writing back then was better than it is now-- this really good between Alan and A.J--very good stuff.
It was.
The Q's knew that AJ had a drinking problem but they never helped by always having a fully stocked bar around.
😂
It could be fruit juice
Exactly 🤣🤣 AJ was doing pretty good, considering
Definitely not alone, the resemblance between them is amazing.
Ahh man...I forgot about this...CLASSIC Q's...I miss this soo much:(
Rest In Peace Alan 💔
this was the storyline that changed everything.
Rip Edward Lila and Alan 🙏
Sean Kanan's AJ was and is the best AJ Quartermaine. I hated how Alan treated him. it was horrible. and I'm glad monica was there to stop it.
I agree he was the best aj
Alan is such a jerk. If only edward and lila had been there with monica.
@Draper Scott no she wasn't, she was the only one who had AJ's back!
@Draper Scott he wasn't a horrible person though, then again I'm more sympathetic with SK AJ than bw AJ
@@maureenmeagher6415 Monica threw AJ under the bus.
When Aj said who cares I literally just said I do
omg this scene is heartbreaking. Ill miss both of these characters. How much does Sean Kanan look like on screen brother steve burton. wow!
They’re cousins in real life
@roseannesanto4861 I didn't know that, they are Cousins in real life.
When did the Qs find out AJ was driving the car that hurt Jason?
@@roseannesanto4861 Only by marriage, funnily enough.
@@cytforevathey found out in 97 I think....PJ spilled his gut to some reporter.
RIP Stuart Damon
💜🙏🏼
Alan only saw the error of his ways and supported AJ when he found Michael was AJ's son. He hardly supported AJ at all before that. This goes way before AJ's issues with alcohol and Jason's head injury. A part of Alan always blamed AJ for his mother's affair with Rick Webber. When AJ was born, there was speculation on whether he was truly Alan's son or Rick Webber's which was later proven that Alan was the father. To him, AJ was constant reminder of that so he took it out on AJ
good point.
PS.
I feel so sorry for A.J, the Q was so mean to A.J over the years.
so do I
It makes me sick to see how badly Alan treated AJ
me too
They treated AJ like complete shit. I don't like AJ but i like this AJ. He deserved better
Absolutely
@@crayzeetony4367not.
If they want Aj to stop drinking or anyone else to stop drinking then they shouldnt hae alchol in the house.
I hated the way they treated AJ. That is why they have so much grief now, for the way they treated him like trash.
Preach!
He is trash.
It's amazing how any excuse is acceptable to justify his behavior, I didn't have the best relationship with my parents and being the youngest with older siblings isn't easy. Instead of them taking care of me I got told I must help them instead and their children, being a babysitter or driver at any time of day or night but I never turned to substance abuse to cope. So I can't understand his choices
Poor AJ
Plus Tracy never missed an opportunity - even in the mid-2000's - to remind Alan about Rick adn AJ. During Lila's memorial Tracy put doubt into Alan's head. Alan was tough on AJ but at least Alan admitted early on how spending that first year in doubt made it difficult for him to love AJ. But AJ's lying and teen drinking didn't help. I think AJ got a bum wrap - but it wasn't all Alan's fault. Yes, Monica started the trouble. She should have worked harder to bring her men back together.
When was this?
Jason never bowed to anyone - as Morgen NOR as Quartermaine. Jason was always independent - especially as a teenager before his accident. He was a voice of reason. What changed was his anger. Alan had been supper supportive of Jason being his own man against the Qs. Both he AND Monica wanted Jason to be a doctor. And - as CAM and I debated, they should have let go of their dreams for Jason sooner - and accepted that he was what he was - even if it caused harm to him and those he loved.
The Q's knew that AJ was an alcoholic yet they always had a fully stocked bar. Even though he was drinking water here they should still have it elsewhere.
Thank you. Great point.
Great vintage GH!
That was awesome. A weird sense of closure.
St Jason, the family's golden boy, even when he became a common thug.
Amen
True. I think they always blamed aj for the accident. Jason should not have jumped in the car & honestly it's a tragedy. I'm not in any way blaming jason but he had just ripped Aj a new one that he was done enabling him. The rest of the family made it worse however. Edward came in screaning aj was a drunken bum. Alan went off on him. Aj went to go upstairs to sleep it off & Alan told him to get out. The qs didn't help at all. What they should have done was had an intervention. Told him it was rehab or else. They needed to give him tough love instead of attacking him. Jason as I said had the right idea saying he wasn't gonna enable him anymore. Sadly had the stupid convertible w/ keys in the car not been sitting outside in winter nothing would have happened. I hated how Alan called Aj weak. Ajs response was perfect " I'm not weak I'm sick " absolutely. Sadly just when aj moved out & got sober hurricane Carly came around. Both got wasted & had a one night stand. It's sad b/c Carly really liked aj & he liked her a lot too. Sadly his new 12 step " don't judge others " shouldn't have applied to Carly. Carly was a pure pychotic. She lied all the time caused trouble where she didn't have to & the irony is Jason q wouldn't enable aj but Jason m enabled Carly & it wound up destroying micheals childhood . Another irony Micheal got on the straight & arrow as a young adult when he moved to the q mansion & worked at elq. I think with so many q's gone I found it amazing Micheal did really well when Tracey became his mother figure. I have to say Tracey was such a great mom figure to everyone. Ned & Dillon seemed OK. She was a mother to lulu when Laura was catatonic for years. She really became the glue to her step kids w/ Luke. I think aj never had a chance. Tracey b/c of her bitterness that Alan's son was the heir made her lash at aj. Ned as well b/c he was not the male heir of Alan. Edward was very much like Asa on oltl in that only the males counted & so did their male heirs. Then throw in Alan thinking aj was Monica's son w/ Rick webber & I think he never bonded w/ aj.
Take Jason. He was the son of Alan's mistress Susan. So he always knew jason was his. Then Monica was being so ridiculous about baby jason
@@nattyps3160Michael got on the straight and narrow when he went to live with the q's....seriously 🤔ok then.
Poor aj
Yep
Edward caused a load of harm within his family with his need for family competition and constantly arguing. But, Edward's the first AND the second were funny as hell doing so. I was watching the Monica cancer storyline yesterday - and there is so much to be learned about all of them there - but mostly I laughed out loud constantly because of the Edward character. He even messed with poor Lucky - trying to get him to neuter his dog to get the puppy promised by Lila. Edward had no shame.
It all makes sense of the root of all Aj's problems especially with his own family.
Cj Smart I totally agree
Yeah.....but wasn't Allan was such a great father.....everyone boasted about how he loved PJ so much.....but Allans loved was contingent on how PJ behaved, if he was or was not drinking and what he brought to the table....that was not love.
Addiction runs in the family. Doesn't Alan get addicted to pain meds?
Yep and monica to alcohol
Yes
Poor Monica. Poor Alan. Poor AJ. But far better than AJ's end, when he asks Monica to love him just enough not to call the mob on him, and then shoots Alan in the back. Shudder.
YISS!!!! THIS^^^^
2 comments:
1. Sean Kanan (this AJ) was recently charged with drunk driving...how ironic.
2. If they all knew AJ was an alchoholic, why did they keep booze so readily available??
The actor irl? Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn.
2. The Qs were a bunch of drinking buddies. The mansion was their watering hole. AJ needed to get out of there.
The rest of them were drunks too. They just hid it better.
. A J should have left that house a long time. ago. Alan did not have a good track record helping his sons when they needed him. He was so wrapped up in his own pain, he never saw their pain.
First piece of writing they've got correct in awhile! Will be interesting!
This proves that it was Alan and Monica , Edward that made aj crazy because all of them put aj and jason against one another , Alan should have handle this a lot better than he did because all this proves to aj is that he loves Jason more.
This guy has been running away since he was a kid feeling like he was never good enough now CarSon did not help the cause but the Q's start it and I think that's why Carly did want Michael there because of how often A.J told her about his childhood
Nickole colon thank you finally someone else see the root of aj problems.
Exactly because A.J problems started way before Carson came around and I hate how the Quartemaines neglect to realize that they played a part in A.J issue I scene a clip where A.J said he started drinking at 12 years old like seriously at 12 years old he was being compared to Jason because Jason was studious and A.J got bad grades and his parents and Edward would berate him really and they wonder why Carly did not Michael around everybody forgets that the Q's have digress only in they last what 8 years that where controlling'band belittling if youndidnt live how they wanted you to live . its a cop out to blame all of A.M's problems on CarSon
GH AT IT'S BEST!!!
Thank you, all very well said.
Meanwhile Alan was taking pills! lol
And for a doctor, he sure knew nothing about alcoholism!
LMAO!
Cause they're Quartermaines, they need to drink to put up with each other.
lmao!
This AJ was a real life cousin by marriage to Steve Burton.
@Krillin Vegeta yep.
AJ was an early problem child that made it tough on Alan and Monica. I see clips in 1988 when they first show AJ running away from boarding school - he came home - but no Jason as the writers claim that he was happy there. Then the drinking, lying and partying, and AJ was rude to Jason early on. Plus, he was quick to jump on Alan and blame him for his parents problems in their marriage. There's an early clip when even Monica had to correct AJ and tell him that all was not Alan's fault. Plus...
I disagree that AJ was a "problem child." I think that term is too black and white. And you're making it sound like AJ was always rude to Jason. He wasn't. AJ was looking for answers, to know if he really belonged. IMO, neither Q son belonged at military school. Kudos to AJ for running away, he was better off, it wasn't right for him, and the Qs were not better off with the other son who did finish military school. Such naivete. They trained a killer. Talk about a problem child.
@@crayzeetony4367and they trained a fantastic one at that.....they pay big bucks for Jason's skillset.....what do PJ come out with?.....how long does it take to find your facking self or where you belong?....because it took him years and he still did not know where he belonged or who he was...don't vex with Jason because he knew his own mind while PJ was weak minded.
Monica's asking "what did she do wrong" is the most hypocritical statement ever uttered! Alan was no jerk! Alan was the most supportive person in every other aspect - including supporting AJ with Michael when no one else would. But, Monica gutted him early in their marriage..with her lie to get Rick Webber. Jeff Webber tried suicide, Alan nearly self destructed and Leslie (and Laura) suffered horribly because Monica had to have Rick. The above happened because of HER - not Alan.
I suppose Edward will stick his nose in the matter too. Lila will tell him to lay off.
he kinda pissed me off in karate kid 3 but i feel bad for him in this sope oprha crap poor mike
Poor aj just wanted someone to believe in him. That's why alan Edward ned hated aj bc they thought he was weak. Jason q was the only one who loved him unconditionally he always had ajs back. The nail in the coffin was him " killing jason q" but jason was the dope who jumped into a convertible without a seat belt I get he wanted to help aj but what was he supposed to do while aj was driving drunk . Monica the worst thing to say to ur child is " what did I do wrong " basically saying he turned out a loser. Boy I hated carson for ripping michael away from his dad they did a bang up job like Tracey said he wasnt going to turn out a choir boy. He was shot in the head and killed his thug dad s mistress and got raped in jail. I believe ajs good Gene's shine through in Michael's DNA bc hes nothing like carson . Morgan was a mess. Kristina is a mess with no direction
Dante is normal bc sonny never raised him poor avery . I loved when michael took her away and called her aj but of course they had Michael run back to sonny. Morgan was a dick and I'm not sure how his death was Ava s fault from what I heard
Wow, agree with everything you said.
@amcradio03 why?
Imagine if Edward was there….
@Rain89Sweed Even Monica. He should've turned out to be Rick's. And then Rick could've lovingly raised him with Lesley and proved Monica "unfit" because Alan and Monica were unfit...just like Victor and Nikki!
I know it’s absolutely horrendous what AJs drinking has caused but my god no one truly cares about him and it’s incredibly sad 😭 Monica and Keesha have tried but that’s about it😢
@binxis2cute exactly!
AJ is not a child. He's a grown man. Nobody can help an alcoholic until they are ready to be helped. Allen is right.
BW was such an awful AJ.
Don't blame Billy! He didn't want AJ's downfall either. Blame the writers!
@@pierrefrancois7396 - hard not to blame BW. He played AJerk’s skeevishness with such gusto.
@@pierrefrancois7396 - hard not to blame BW. He played AJerk’s skeevishness with such gusto.
@@pierrefrancois7396 - hard not to blame BW. He played AJerk’s skeevishness with such gusto.
They should have kept this AJ, but let’s be honest the real reason they treated AJ like shit is because they hated him for what he did to Jason he was never forgiven
Jason's hot, but AJ's hotter
I've been watching GH for 45years now and I remember everything Carlybabes is the worst thing that ever happened in the history of GH!! Carlybabes ruined everything for everyone she was always a hater love Sonny and Brenda True love no one compares to them Real Talk 💯 Love the Quartermaine's without Carlybabes and Michael they were better without Carlybabes she destroyed her mother marriage she slept with her mother husband Tony Jones had an affair with AJ slept with his brother Jason slept with Jason BFF Sonny she was forced on Sonny from the beginning 2023 gh needs to get rid of Carlybabes character for good
"I'm not weak. I'm just sick."
Oh fine. Yeah, just rip out my heart and shit upon it why don't you!!! D':
they 're cousin
Aj was Jason's half brother but raised under the same roof. Poor aj I hated how he was treated. Sean brought out sympathy bw played him as a weasel
@@natalieps2387 I wasn't referring to the show. I was talking about in real life they are cousins
check in the mail ain't God good all the time dub
Now alan aj and monica are dead
@jcpurple503 you have to admit, GH is all about Sonny nowdays. But hey you're the one that still watches. I think you're wasting your time.