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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2012
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    This video is an example of a microsystem from a social work standpoint. One of the basic types of microsystems is a family. The video shows how each family member's actions impacts the others.

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  • @jayfroggers
    @jayfroggers 5 лет назад +176

    "I'm tired, dont you get that? I'm sick and I'm tired and I'm ugly. Dont you dare tell me that I'm beautiful because I'm not. DONT YOU DARE TELL ME THAT NOBODY'S GONNA STARE AT ME CAUSE THEY WILL! IM A FREAK!"
    Is it bad that I've felt like this before?

    • @blueunicorn4856
      @blueunicorn4856 4 года назад +5

      I feel like this almost every day for the last 4 years.

    • @ShreyaChoudhuryMusic
      @ShreyaChoudhuryMusic 4 года назад +1

      Chrizz #6669 I’ve felt that way before myself. You’re not the only one. ❤️

    • @ambermedellin6832
      @ambermedellin6832 3 года назад +1

      Same here, but no face washing.

    • @2jcward
      @2jcward 2 года назад

      Aww man, praying for everyone in these comments. No one should feel this way. 🙏💕

    • @bente1695
      @bente1695 2 года назад +1

      Yes if you don’t have cancer. Feeling that way when you have cancer is not the same as feeling that way because you’re insecure.

  • @soboredandmad3444
    @soboredandmad3444 9 лет назад +112

    Most beautiful moment I've ever seen in a movie

  • @FanFickChick1992
    @FanFickChick1992 4 года назад +106

    She would shave her hair for Kates self esteem but slaps Ana for standing up for her right to put her own life first (regardless of why). I hate this movie not because of the beautiful story, but because at the end the parents got redemption. In the end neither parent REALLY cared about Ana or what she went through for the sake of keeping Kate alive. They designed a kid for parts, used her and when she fought back against this they treated her like she was being selfish. I LOATHE the parents in this film and find no redeeming qualities in them even after Kate gets her wish. Sara never really feels like she had that come to Jesus moment where it all clicked and she had remorse. It was about Kate from start to finish. Ana wouldn't even exist if they hadn't needed spare parts and that is SICK.

    • @lordfreerealestate8302
      @lordfreerealestate8302 4 года назад +12

      There's a term in psychology: Golden Child. Anna is the sacrificial lamb offered up to the Golden Child.

    • @ambermedellin6832
      @ambermedellin6832 3 года назад

      I liked neither.

    • @1x4
      @1x4 Год назад

      And you're part of the problem with the world today. Forgiveness is not really in your vocabulary or your emotional field. It's why you will be more miserable than most.

    • @xxw_xx6505
      @xxw_xx6505 10 месяцев назад

      ​​@@1x4Um?? No one HAS to forgive someone who used them for spare parts and took literal organs from them to give to a sick girl who was practically doomed??? People who don't forgive aren't choosing to be miserable, and they're not the problem. People who create life for the sake of someone else and not caring about their well being are. Are you good???

    • @therealopaartist
      @therealopaartist 9 месяцев назад

      No the actual way this ended is really disheartening. Ana died after winning the case and Kate got what she needed anyways.

  • @ShreyaChoudhuryMusic
    @ShreyaChoudhuryMusic 6 лет назад +122

    I literally just started crying when Kate started crying. If i was someone in Kate’s shoes, and I had someone treat me this way, I would be mad and upset about being forced like this. The actors did a great job throughout the film. I loved every bit of it!

    • @1x4
      @1x4 Год назад

      When you love your child, sometimes you make them do things they don't want to do. You put them in uncomfortable situations for their long term health, not short term.
      #Dislike

  • @sbchoudhuryable
    @sbchoudhuryable 9 лет назад +269

    I didn't like it when Sara kept bugging Kate and asking her to get up like that when Kate was really sick.

    • @ShreyaChoudhuryMusic
      @ShreyaChoudhuryMusic 6 лет назад +20

      Amber Medellin Brian is not a bitch. Sara is the one that’s forcing Kate to do something that she doesn’t want to do. Kate is dying and Sara didn’t want to hear it.

    • @antoniarico7451
      @antoniarico7451 6 лет назад +2

      You all no in that video she talks like she is sick but no

    • @eurekal1903
      @eurekal1903 6 лет назад

      Shreya Choudhury ...that's how a story goes. It's not like it doesn't show you next move.

    • @chelsiirvine8970
      @chelsiirvine8970 6 лет назад +6

      She can't get up she's too sick let her rest

    • @pusongmanhid
      @pusongmanhid 5 лет назад +2

      kate is not that sick she's depressed

  • @stardustlpsloveheartmlp289
    @stardustlpsloveheartmlp289 8 лет назад +69

    one small act of kindness is all it takes to give a smile

  • @shayduncan7328
    @shayduncan7328 6 лет назад +18

    When I heard her say people stare at her, I was thinking about parents shouldn't let their kids stare, or make fun of someone who is losing their hair.

  • @meghandavis5327
    @meghandavis5327 6 лет назад +14

    I Would like to see the people in the comments actually go through something like this and then write a response.

  • @anniewallace3601
    @anniewallace3601 Год назад +13

    As a med tech it bothers me that she decided to refuse her daughter medication that a doctor prescribed her to help her with depression. She had no right to take that away without discussing it with a doctor. If she didn't like how her daughter behaved zombie like then bring it up with her doctor. It could be too high of a dose or could be the wrong meds but to just completely deprive her of this when she needs it. It is wrong and more damaging to her.

  • @MB-hc9qy
    @MB-hc9qy 11 месяцев назад +2

    I loved cameron diaz in this movie.. she did so well

  • @anupriya1622
    @anupriya1622 6 лет назад +15

    In the book Anna gets bald too..

  • @kataleah1798
    @kataleah1798 4 года назад +7

    0:18 that sounds like me when I just want people to leave me alone

  • @boysponge705
    @boysponge705 6 лет назад +101

    Kate's crying is exactly what I do when I find out how much the government takes out of my paycheck.

    • @misse8050
      @misse8050 5 лет назад +2

      Such an underrated comment..

    • @lordfreerealestate8302
      @lordfreerealestate8302 4 года назад +1

      Wait'll you find out how much of your tax dollars corporations received in bailouts.

    • @boysponge705
      @boysponge705 4 года назад

      @@lordfreerealestate8302 I don't think I want to know.

    • @spencerdavies5569
      @spencerdavies5569 3 года назад +1

      Umm okay

  • @Flowerpowerwowa
    @Flowerpowerwowa Год назад +1

    This movie plus hormonal cycle had me cryinggg

  • @chelsiirvine8970
    @chelsiirvine8970 2 года назад +2

    that is a dedicated mom

  • @alleycat2502
    @alleycat2502 6 лет назад +31

    She's so strong. A real mom. She didn't flinch when debilitating obstacles went in their path.

    • @foolslayer9416
      @foolslayer9416 4 года назад +5

      Strong, but foolish. Sacrificing her own kid at the expense of another.

    • @Roselyroses
      @Roselyroses 4 года назад +8

      No, Sara's not strong. Kate is strong. Anna is strong. Sara is mean, narcissistic, and controlling.

  • @pusongmanhid
    @pusongmanhid 5 лет назад +23

    why is the title microsystems?

    • @notyrparty
      @notyrparty  3 года назад +4

      It's a social work term. The video is an example of one microsystem - a family and how they interact with and impact each other. This was posted as part of a project for my Micro Social Work class.

  • @KAYKAYC619
    @KAYKAYC619 Год назад +3

    You guys have obviously never been raised with Hispanic parents. Her mom is acting like this because she didnt want her to just sleep herself to death. This was motivation. Her mom spoke to her like that out of love.

    • @zaniporcher3079
      @zaniporcher3079 Год назад

      Or black parents. Sometimes we as parents just KNOW what is best for our kids sometimes regardless of what a Dr says. Yes she had medication but clearly that wasn't the answer either. Her mom did the right thing. Get up let's get some air today. ❤

  • @sarahimansubhan9745
    @sarahimansubhan9745 8 лет назад +41

    She friggin shaved her hair

    • @romansinterludee
      @romansinterludee 6 лет назад +4

      sarah iman subhan I would too to be honest with you.

  • @kimberlygossett2901
    @kimberlygossett2901 7 лет назад +17

    I Wish I Have This Movie? And I Want this For My Birthday wishes

  • @vickyrodz1122
    @vickyrodz1122 2 года назад +3

    A mother is capable of the most act of love.
    I always wished to have a mother like that..😰😰😰

    • @rt20089
      @rt20089 Год назад +1

      Lol have you watched the movie?
      The mom literally slaps Anna because she stood up for herself and said the truth.

  • @andreaburgin3781
    @andreaburgin3781 11 лет назад +9

    That is soooo sweet:)

  • @unigoatlove6895
    @unigoatlove6895 6 лет назад +22

    Now that's a mom

  • @RifkiRidha
    @RifkiRidha 7 лет назад +2

    Okay, that's it.

  • @maddyperez5375
    @maddyperez5375 Год назад +1

    I think everyone looses the fact that she mainly says she feels ugly and people would judge and she’s tired of that if she already sick cause she looks happy when her mom went out looking like her so u people hush

  • @karmahadid
    @karmahadid 4 года назад +2

    Did cameron diaz really shave her hair in this scene?

    • @anar8343
      @anar8343 3 года назад +1

      I heard it was a bald cap

  • @Roselyroses
    @Roselyroses 4 года назад +3

    Aww, Kate. ❤😭

  • @aniahwhitted8540
    @aniahwhitted8540 6 лет назад +2

    What is this movie called

  • @jaclynschilt4699
    @jaclynschilt4699 5 лет назад +3

    Why did she shave her head?

    • @jolijnattema1638
      @jolijnattema1638 3 года назад +1

      To prove her daughter that having a bald head isn't something to be ashamed of

  • @gracebenjamin5548
    @gracebenjamin5548 6 лет назад +8

    Such a support mum

  • @AliceElenaBravo
    @AliceElenaBravo 11 лет назад +1

    :'D

  • @jakegreen1217
    @jakegreen1217 5 лет назад +1

    Kate Fitzgerald is look like Caillou

  • @mrhanky9
    @mrhanky9 Год назад

    Such a terrible damn representation of a family dealing with a child with cancer.