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“So the tree rustles in the evening, when we stand uneasy before our own childish thoughts: Trees have long thoughts, long-breathing and restful, just as they have longer lives than ours. They are wiser than we are, as long as we do not listen to them. But when we have learned how to listen to trees, then the brevity and the quickness and the childlike hastiness of our thoughts achieve an incomparable joy. Whoever has learned how to listen to trees no longer wants to be a tree. He wants to be nothing except what he is. That is home. That is happiness.” - Herman Hesse
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As I grow older, I find that I appreciate the ordinary days more and more. I worked in the legal field most of my adult life. I’m a housewife now. Living a very mundane life. But I am happier. I have learned to cultivate what makes my heart at peace 💜
*Peace and happiness are the best gifts we can ask for 😊💕 wishing you more bless days.*
I’m a housewife and I love it. I get time to enjoy nature and small things 💖
Similar circumstances here except mine was in banking. I had people looking at me like I was crazy walking away from my career and I had some that encouraged me and wanted to do the same and some have found a way to do it too! I have embraced my time at home and being a housewife has made me so happy! My kids and hubby are much happier having me home too and I am so glad I listened to my gut on leaving! We have found a way to make it all work and I am forever grateful. I am Loving that mundane life too Misis H! Happy for you!
9 years ago I left my job and became nanny. I am also a single mom of five wonderful adults now and grandmother to 7 gorgeous children. I just turned 60 this past December. On my last years before I retired to the Dominican Republic to read all the books I haven't read and enjoy my home there and grow an orchard. Now all the kids that I nanny are in school and I have taken over the care of the home. I love my job and nothing gives me more pleasure right now that when my boss comes home to a beautiful clean organized home. Enjoy your gift of caring for your family. With all of this that is going on with covid and OMICRON I am greatful to have this wonderful job that keeps me busy and giving back. Warm Dominican hugs from NYC
Voltamos a apreciar a simplicidade com o passar dos anos
Someday someone will hold that hand embroidered heart in their hand and close to their heart thinking "my great grandmother made this. Must have been such a magical time to be alive".
This comment made me tear up. Such a beautiful thing to imagine.
@@xerrias Thank you. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this at this exact moment. You made a difference for me with this comment,
Heirlooms are imperative. Make something today dear ones.
What a Beautiful thought!
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Hello everyone! Hope you are having a beautiful day. Here are some special little snippets from this week at the cottage ❤️ Thank you so much for your orders on my shop, it means the world and really helps me keep making videos.
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“So the tree rustles in the evening, when we stand uneasy before our own childish thoughts: Trees have long thoughts, long-breathing and restful, just as they have longer lives than ours. They are wiser than we are, as long as we do not listen to them. But when we have learned how to listen to trees, then the brevity and the quickness and the childlike hastiness of our thoughts achieve an incomparable joy. Whoever has learned how to listen to trees no longer wants to be a tree. He wants to be nothing except what he is. That is home. That is happiness.”
Herman Hesse
I love you Paola 💕
I've been following your videos for some time now, but I've never thanked you for creating your lovely form of (what I consider to be) true film art. I really look forward to watching them and this has been especially true during the pandemic when I find myself alone at home most days. You have brought a unique talent into this world and captured the calm beauty from within you and your surroundings -- bringing it to film beautifully! What you are offering the world tilts it towards goodness and truth. We could all use a little more if that. May God bless your future endeavors and your upcoming marriage. 🙂
Dear Paola, could you please talk about your diet 🙏🏻 even briefly.thank you
Thanks for your spiritual quote
The Lake Michigan sand dune hardwood & hemlock forests growing right along the western coast of Michigan are maybe the most beautiful I've ever seen. All second growth but well over 100 years old & counting, they're a real joy to be among. And from these, when the west wind is really up, you can hear the distant roar of the waves crashing heavily on the LM shore. As good as it gets.
You have the calmest voice and softest words of anyone I have listened to. Your videos are addictive and so peaceful. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
I agree very relaxing helps with my anxiety I hope she keeps up with this channel I haven't seen anything to recent
If you had a book with your voiceover on audible I'd sleep to it everyday.
Your voice brings so much peace and serenity 💖
Oh yes, great idea, Vanshika Kar! I too would love a book read by Paola -- her voice is wonderful!
Yes! I was thinking the exact same thing
I have thought the same. 💯💗
Waking up in my 40s during the pandemic, and realizing I have surrounded myself with toxic behaviors and toxic people all my life, has been the hardest challenge I've ever had. Going through it over here, and found this channel. Just wanted to say hello, and thank you. You help bring a measure of healthy energy and peace to my upside-down world.
Come rest your tired heart. I need that so hard right now. Thank you.
I don't think life can get any more magical than chatting with a bunny falling asleep on your lap. 🥰
I was so happy to see you again, Paola. Who needs a therapist when we have you? Sending love back to you
I totally agree 💓
Thank you for your beautiful video. Your words are so inspiring.
I could tell the same story.
Was a nurse
Loved the job but hated the people because they hurt me.
The patients' words didn't hurt bc they were sick. But their relatives and my co-workers' did, deeply.
“Come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” Mathew 11:28 rest in the Lord
He is the devil
Amen! Jesus is the only One that can give us peace!
Also: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
@@objetivista686 may you see the light and find peace .
@@arnicepernice8656 i'm seeing. Peace?? It's been difficult in this "sacred" world...
The one and only on RUclips who represents cottagecore naturally 🌻🌿🌾💛
Paola, I just wanted to let yo know that your videos are a massive source of solace for me. I am currently grieving the loss of my dog, who I've had for 14 years and passed away in my arms only 3 days ago. It's been incredibly difficult to go carry on with life having this big, hollow place in my heart, and your videos give me so much peace. Thank you so much
Lulu, it has been more than a year since you posted this, but I hope you are feeling better. From the loss of two beloved dogs in my life, I know how sad that can be. Take care and God bless.
Hoping your heart has healed and your heart is filled with happy memories.❤
Hey! I just wanted to hop into the comment section, even though I usually don‘t write comments because I think the chances they are being read aren‘t worth the effort 😅
But your videos are just so wonderful, strengthening, healing and motivating. They help me focus on the beauty of the world and of life in general, which honestly is really hard for me to do during the past few months.
I think what I wanted to say is thank you! Thank you for being the way you are and for doing the work you do. It really helps a lot! I wish you all the best and a nice weekend!
Greetings from Austria 🥰
The floral bough, the stitches, the cozy tea and the delightful dog - all so lovely!
and the bunny!
20+ years of customer service. Now a writer and artist in rural America. Big difference. Happy in both places, but nicely quiet and less stress now. Glad you are living a gentle life, too.
I agree with you wholeheartedly that words have power and should be measured and mindful.
Love how you speak of magic while holding the warm tea kettle & poof it becomes a rabbit. Precious.
Jesus said, "Come unto me and I will give you rest unto your soul." He does. He also said to love one another. Sometimes ancient things aren't so bad. You have a wonderful speaking voice and you bring peace into a busy world. Thank you!
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This should honestly be a tv show
Listening other's is a mistake, don't let everyone to ruin your heart, appreciate yourself because you're unique and limited edition.
Lots of love from India ❤️
Awweee your precious little dog shows such happiness and joy when you both go outside together. How wonderful to have such love. God Bless you Both
Watching your fur-baby’s joyful dance pulling that sled made me so happy!! You have many kindred souls watching you, thank you for sharing.
I am a long time cross stitcher, 30+ years... Great way to unwind, meditate through each pull of thread through the fabric.
I laughed when the tea pot turned into a bunny 😊
Try making macarons, they're a bit of work to make but they're so lovely. Crispy outside, chewy, gooey middle, delicious!
I had to double take at that part! 😅 both little warm parcels of joy
I love your Mr. Darcy. He will be missed. I hope you get another bunny one day. God bless.
When my baby goes down for a nap, I make a cup of coffee and settle into a sunny chair with my golden retriever, Watson, to watch your weekly video. Thanks for the light and beauty you capture in the simple life--it's relevant to a stay-at-home mom who can feel isolated sometimes.
You have a big job. I hope you can find beauty in the mundane and have company over.
Hello friend, from someone who has been a stay at home mother for years!☺
Have you ever experienced something so lovely that you just want to hug it? Well....
You are such a comfort. Love your videos ❤️
NO ONE has more fun than your dog!
I spend too much time on RUclips sadly, now that I’ve deleted Snapchat and Instagram. But, out of all videos I’ve come across… your channel, your videos.. bring a sense of peace and hope. It’s really nice. Rare to find. Thank you. ❤
Same I deleted my Instagram I only watch RUclips videos. Instagram made my self confidence low tbh
Me too, I spend far too much time on here! But I love such peace that some of the videos bring x
I cried when you were reading that passage. Sometimes it is hard to be kind to ourselves
Your giving me a peace when i saw your videos🥺💗
Love the flowers over the door and your pillow!
Any time I seek peace and calm in my life .. I turn to your channel and I can choose any video to watch and my heart smiles and I feel free of negative emotion !
the serenity in her valley amazes me
I was starting to spiral down in a self depreciation state but this video really soothed me. The atmosphere, your voice, the music, the messages you convey… Watching your videos is always the best decision I could take in my day!
Lou, you might check out Louise Hay. This was her philosophy and teaching. Lots of good videos of her on RUclips and books as well. You Can Heal Your Life is her most famous book. I would suggest Mirror Mirror as well. 💕✌
Her vice she's me, to.
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Did you know you have a beautiful voice? Your dog yanking that sled along put a big smile on my face.
Hello Paola, I have been feeling a bit down lately. Probaby with current events world wide relating to Covid. We haven't seen much sun lately, and it's been bitterly cold. Winter is beautiful, no doubt about that, and I fully enjoy it's beauty. But recently things had just been taking a toll on me emotionally. And then, lo and behold an upload from Cottage Fairy. What could be sweeter. A cup of herbal tea, curled up on the couch with a soft warm blanket and lovely Paola with furry friends to brighten the end of my day. Thank you so much for letting us into your world.❤
Yes!!👏👏self-talk is so important💕🌼
"Our darkest moments and most upsetting feeling are an opportunity for uncovering a natural wisdom."
That really spoke to me. And I find it to be very true. I am in the middle of making a youtube video on my channel where I finally want to open up about my past with mental health issues and the darkest time in my life. I think we are so used to shying away from these topics and trained by social media to only focus on not even the happy moments but the spectacular ones that we or at least I forget that the hard times in my life teach me the most about myself and about how I want to live.
Good for you. You've figured it out. Life's eases teach us very little more than how to relax. It's our difficulties that most effectively teach us how to live a more rounded, a more meaningful, & a more valuable life.
The older i grow the more i desire a simple life, peace and quiet, i pray God brings it when the time is right
This post brought tears to my eyes. I felt engulfed with stress, anxiety and despair this morning. Your post was the first on my subscription list and what a blessing you are! Thank you for your uplifting words and your gentle spirit. I really needed the reminder to change my self-talk to a more positive energy to get me through the things that I can not control. Also, your sweet pup made me laugh as he pulled your sled. ♥
I hope your day gets better and more peaceful.
These days everyone is having a hard time adjusting. Our lives have change drastically. NYC doesn't feel the same anymore, but we have to take slow and dance with ourselves as much as we can. Stay strong and in prayer. It will pass. Sending hugs from NYC
I hope that you feel a little better now. Sending love xx
Valarie sending you hugs🤗. May all of your days be full of blessings. Will keep you in my prayers. 😄
Peaceful, beautiful, amazing and a life full of blessings 😍❤️🙏👍.
I had become so mean. I was carrying everything from the past that i couldnt change. I lost the love of my life because of it. So in turn I had to get rid of the past i had to learn how to keep it from sneaking back in.. Now i see the good side. I give myself positive affirmations to help me in my endeavors. You channel has a very calming effect so I consider you part of my healing. Thank you!
Forgive yourself and move ahead
Wao beautiful. Hugs from NYC
Same here, don't let bitterness make a home in your heart, warm hugs.
Aegir pulling the sledge is literally the cutest thing I have seen in my life oh my god
Hehe I love how he can’t just pull it smoothly, he needs to yank at it randomly lol 😂
Curled on my sofa and cuddling with my snorring dog ;-), enjoying your video - as I always do.
Such a gifted lady.
In my journey to limit not only the chemicals I put on my body but also the waste I let out to our planet I discovered the art of soap making and it is trully wonderfull. Making soap and body butters or creams is such a soothing and beautiful process, plus you are left with something very useful. My personal favourites are olive soap, chamomile soap and traditional beeswax cream.
This brings memories to my mind, from my childhood, in the soviet union. Beautiful.
Thank you for inviting us into you life, Paola... I feel like a truly honored guest and am so grateful for these nuggets of nourishment. Sending love to you from Connecticut!
Frost in the desert sparkles at night too. So magical!
I was so happy to see Mr. Darcy in your video today. Was beginning to worry that something had happened to him. Just love your beautiful little pillow! You always amaze me with your beautiful creations.
Yes, our words have the power to build up or to tear down.
You spoke about how we talk to ourselves. When I was in my early thirties I went to therapy to learn to undo a lifetime of negative self-talk. It was the single biggest change I've ever made in my life. Thank you again for the peacefulness that your videos bring to our lives. Whether it's making a cup of tea or doing your embroidery, or making the beautiful dried flower bouquet for your doorway... everything you do with your hands is so incredibly beautiful! I love that you take time to enjoy the snow with your sweet dog!
I quilt, consequently nobody in my house goes cold. It is a really lovely mindful activity that provides warmth and comfort whilst reusing fabric. Even small pieces of fabric can be used with patchwork to make something beautiful and useful. It gives me great joy and peace. You can also combine it with embroidery.
Oh, I had the same experience with customers when I worked in retail. I was about 18 and people who were mean to me just about destroyed me. At 51, I still remember those encounters and try to be lovely to all those retailers and waiters I interact with... really try to be kind to people in general. You never know who you'll encourage by your kindness.
I took an Orthodox Christian catechetical class once, and one thing that really resonated with me was how the ancient interpretation of the Bible was not rooted in shame. "To sin" simply means to fall short of the goal. The ancient orthodox outlooks on things seemed very practical and nonjudgmental. The religious practices are designed to help a person reach that divine communion and be their best self. I found this ancient interpretation (dating back more than 2000 years) to be very open-minded and conducive to love and forgiveness.
Your posts are like sitting down with a large cup of tea with a friend. 💛
I am amazed with how Mr. Darcy is so relaxed when bring lifted up in your arms. My rabbitd hate to be picked up!
I’m saving to watch this evening as a reward after I’m done my work day. As I know it will help me decompress. Thank you for relaxing and comforting content. Hugs 💛
Hi Jessica,
Don’t forget to make some tea 🫖
That little heart pillow turned out so beautiful.
“How can I cultivate a beauty that last forever?” That’s a beautiful question ❤️ Another wonderful video Paola, as always 😊
the thoughts of your mind make up the day you will have. One can choose what one thinks about. "Whatever is good, noble, right, worthy, think on those things"
When I lived in Connecticut we would get tons of snow. We had this big bay window that overlooked the front yard. At night I would just sit in the dark staring out the window at the glittering snow. I had almost forgotten that. Thank you for bringing that memory back to me. ❤
I totally agree with what you are saying. I was rejected by others as a child at school, because I was bottom of the class, and kept down a year. I had dsylexia, and no one knew at the time as this was in the 60s/70s. I suffered a lot from what people said, and their reaction to me. I am now 65 and do not go out at all, only to walk my dog from the front door. Those things that happened in the past have kept with me all my life, and although I do the best I can for others, I do not have anyone to give me some love back now, which would be lovely. I feel so lucky I have my rescue greyhound, as she is the thing that gets me out, and keeps me going. Love to you from Devon. England. xxx
this is literally just what I need
Паола,у вас золотые руки! И украшение на дверь из сухоцветов и сердечко с вышивкой,получились,очень красивыми!!! 👍👍👍
You are suck a beautiful soul. Thank you for bringing peace and light through your videos to so many.
I work full time in a hospital, though I love helping others, I can also feel drain in giving of myself. I so look forward to the weekend and drown myself in doing my art. This is my happy place and where recharge my energy.
My heart yearns for this solitude, out in the wild. Just me and God, untainted nature and the animals. I’ve changed so much of myself these past years, all for the better. Your comforting voice, music, and story telling are a great solace to me, Paola. Thank you, dear girl. You speak my heart in so much of your everyday living. What a blessing you are to others. 🙏🏼💕🐰
I wish we could find a way to spread around the joy dogs always seem to have when they encounter snow. :-)
Embroidery was the first needlecraft I learned as a child. Your work is lovely! Quilting and English Paper Piecing are such a joy and very satisfying. Give them a try!🪡🧵♥️
I was going to suggest quilting. It's my sanctuary. :-)
Oh my gosh that’s my favorite thing is the moonlight on the snow ,and the glittering ..I sometimes wake in the middle of the night and will get up just to peer out a window and stare at the moon and dancing across the glittery snow.. ❄️♥️
I absolutely LOVE spending video time with you!
And I always love it when Mr. Darcy makes an appearance!
:=8)
Mr Darcy looks so comfortable at the end
Agree! After the family, the career, I now so enjoy the days I'm snowed in, as now in Missouri. I've taken up quilting and these quiet snow banked days are my favorite.
Crochet is great for stress, I think you would love calligraphy too! Thank you for sharing your day and soothing our life's.
1:21 I am indeed all snuggled up in bed with my cat purring on my chest, a hot cup of tea text to me and the noise of the raindrops on the roof and stormy wind outside my window ❤ THIS is LIFE 😍😍
Love, love, love your calming videos. Mr Darcy is so adorable 💙🌻🤗
Love the flower garland over the door and the flower pillow. 🌼 I used to do embroidery as a child and am thinking of relearning the stitches and embroidering again. I live in Colorado and know the transformative power of sparkling snow!
Hello Colorado! We finally got a decent snow, didn't we, sparkles and all!? 💖 from the CO foothills. ☺
I live alone. My husband left me. No pets. I find your videos peaceful and relaxing. I garden, cook, clean, read, sing, like music, watch you tube. I work of course too but with the pandemic stay home alone a lot. It snowed here in AR.
You have inspired me to create my own channel purely from you being so authentic and unabashedly yourself. Thank you 🙏🏻❤️
Good luck with your channel!
@@kimalonzo3363 Thank you so very much Kim! That is very sweet of you
I love watching your crafty hands at work, you are so gifted.
Thank you so much for such a warm tea and teapot close to home video. Your creativity is so natual to you and its so inspiring.
My heart and soul are so very weary... thank you for inviting me to this peaceful place. I long for quiet...
Hello Paola: The depth and clarity of your self-awareness is a constant source of wonder to me. Your analysis of events from customer service interactions and how illogical it was to let comments from an irate individual control your mood and self confidence, was a prime example. Your narratives in these videos are always a source of serenity; a reminder to be still, breathe slowly, be grateful, and look inward with compassion. You are a remarkable, insightful young woman. I wish you all the best! 👍👍
Ok, your dog pulling the sled up the hill is the cutest thing! That is what brought joy to me today!
I am a first year college student in data science field, sometimes I am too tired with exams but when I see your video my soul feels calm and peaceful, thank you very much for that.❤️
You are so talented I appreciate your quiet approach to your beautiful world but perminant peace is found in Christ alone
As someone who worked in customer service for 8 years through college. I appreciate your videos so much.
That bunny looks right at home being held.
Your videos are so aesthetically pleasing, even down to the pace and music you choose.
I’m living a slower life now after working for years in a stressful role. You can find such pleasures in the little things.
You really are a talented lady 😊
I really recommend crocheting and knitting, they're so therapeutic and you can make something wonderful for yourself or a friend. And it's the perfect time to just focus on one thing and be with yourself. My partner actually bought me an alpaca knitting kit so I could knit my own dress and it was my first project, I still love it. ☺️
I also worked as a customer service, and you're right it will take one angry customer to ruined my day, I'm an introvert and watching your video helps me calm my mind, and my heart, I really love hearing your words. ♥️
So cute! He's pulling the sled!❤❤❤
I love you and your videos. It helps me calm my soul. Take care
You have the calmest voice and softest words of anyone I've ever listened to. Your videos are very attractive and peaceful. Thank you for sharing your life with us.
As years have gone by, I’ve healed and learned over the years that the more I let ego and negativity take ahold, it only created more negativity and toxicity. Once I started focusing inward and healing myself, using affirmations such as “I will” and “I am” instead of “I hope” or “I wish”, my life changed for the better and you are right, words are very powerful and hold a lot of energy. Whatever we say is put out into the universe and it’s our decision how we take things in and how we react 💖 It’s amazing to know that others are recognizing the importance of how we treat ourselves, and how we speak our words. It’s truly inspiring to have came across your videos years ago, to feel so connected with you on so many levels! I adore you and all you do, thank you so much for always sharing your words and being such a kind and pure soul 💖 I absolutely love your floral pillow, I would LOVE one in every room I have! 😊 Best wishes and sending my love back! May your days always be bright and joyful 💖
The pillow is beautiful. I love the mindfulness of
Winter.