PART 1: COMMON REASONS WHY MARRIAGES END IN DIVORCE with MR & MRS MAKHS SENIOR! (PART 1)

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  • Опубликовано: 1 авг 2024
  • In today's instalment we are privileged to have The Makhs Seniors; Dr Jerry Mofokeng Wa Makhetha and his beautiful wife Mrs Claudine Mofokeng Wa Makhetha.
    With countless years of marriage counselling experience, we unpack some of the burning issues around why marriages end up in divorce. The wisdom and grace with which they tackle these issues is mind-blowing and inspires hope to those that may find themselves in a place where they have more questions than answers.
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Комментарии • 324

  • @carmelariley9491
    @carmelariley9491 3 года назад +69

    Your Mom is definitely a Proverbs 31 woman👏👏👏

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +5

      She’s incredible!❤️❤️

  • @zilungileluwaca8904
    @zilungileluwaca8904 3 года назад +45

    "there is no season without an expiry date" wow, wisdom

  • @ntsikizulu4592
    @ntsikizulu4592 3 года назад +78

    “It’s nun of society’s business” I felt that. Papa Jerry starting on high notes 👌🏾

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +6

      #1 punchline artist 🤣

    • @refilwemokoka7838
      @refilwemokoka7838 3 года назад +2

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣he seems like one of those parents who'd tell you what they think just out of love, tell you to pick yourself up
      Wena Mfana pila pila thisss.... well and tell you the history you know when I was in New York........
      It's happily broke line for me 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @thabosibanda4923
    @thabosibanda4923 3 года назад +27

    Can't help but notice that Lerato is a perfect combo of his parents

  • @faithsdollsville2662
    @faithsdollsville2662 3 года назад +30

    First and second generations. It is families like yours and couples like mama and papa who give me a physical picture of what I hope and pray our family to look like. Our 7 years old son, Olerato is so in love with marriage. A day doesn’t pass without him speaking about when he is married, his wife, his son and himself as a pastor and how he will invite us to his home. Now as I am watching this and listening I am seeing his vision as well.
    On another note, one of the good days I would love my husband and I (including our children) to be in your company to be more sharpened.
    Thank you Phetola and Mr. Makhetha Jr for this channel. May God give me your more material/topics to minister to couples and those in waiting. 🙏🏽

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK 3 года назад +12

    “Pride comes before a fall, guaranteed.” Sjoe.

  • @nwakhubayi
    @nwakhubayi 3 года назад +60

    My partner and I will watch this before we get married , my partner who’s out there 😅 I don’t even know you partner.
    There’s so much wisdom here 😍

  • @abettermen
    @abettermen 3 года назад +48

    Daddy sound like a solid preacher. So much wisdom, Nice!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +4

      So much wisdom!❤️❤️

  • @LifeAndAngelica
    @LifeAndAngelica 3 года назад +10

    All I can is your wife is blessed to have parents-in-law that are so open and honestly in their teachings. Always great listening to mama le papa speak😇

  • @vinolianomthandazomahlangu666
    @vinolianomthandazomahlangu666 3 года назад +6

    Oh wow!!! I cannot believe I am currently in this phase in my life, sometimes I snap at my man because I feel overwhelmed by being the one that takes care of most of the things financially. But my goodness this gives me strength to carry on because man I love this guy.🥺

  • @Nadiamatlala
    @Nadiamatlala 3 года назад +22

    Job 12: 12 Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?
    This was such an enriching episode and I found myself soaking in every word of wisdom. As a person waiting for God to bless me with a God fearing man, I know he will find his wife filled with wisdom and understanding. Creating healthy and whole marriages brings about a healthy society.
    Thank you for sharing your parents with us and blessings us.
    Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +2

      Nadia, this is the kind of feedback that makes it all worth it. Thank you for encouraging us by sharing how this platform will encourage others like yourself.
      Blessings on blessings. We love you more!

  • @shorti2370
    @shorti2370 3 года назад +5

    Wow are these your parents😍Mrs mofokeng was my psychology teacher in college.I still love her to bits till today😍Combined they just pour out so much wisdom I can listen to them all day

  • @olaideidu9951
    @olaideidu9951 3 года назад +8

    Am a Nigerian, but am in love with this channel and even all the advice given. Keep up the good work.

  • @Careen750
    @Careen750 3 года назад +3

    My boyfriend introduced me to your channel and now I am literally addicted 😂😂😂. You are my healthy addiction. It's funny how he introduced me to it but now I have literally taken over, I watch you guys on the daily without fail. When he gets busy but wants to know what lessons you guys had for us today, he asks me and then I feed him your content 😊. Much love to you guys. ❤️

  • @mphokgechane8335
    @mphokgechane8335 3 года назад +27

    Can we talk about the intro music? Love this channel❤️. I’m glad you guys started, it’s inspiring seeing that long lasting black love is possible.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      Yes let’s talk about it 😁. We love music and it was fun to make. Thank you for joining us and for the amazing feedback 🙏🏾

  • @notfan7508
    @notfan7508 Год назад +2

    This is inspirational. Once again The Makhs you have outdone yourselves. This just made me realize I want to get married again, and this time make it work, just from watching this .

  • @lawrencekiminja7182
    @lawrencekiminja7182 3 года назад +10

    This is one of the best marriage sermon, story and insight I have heard. I just felt like crying when Papa was speaking, especially on forgiveness and restoration. Much love from Kenya, God bless you guys!

  • @dineomasetla3443
    @dineomasetla3443 3 года назад +19

    I wish all men could listen to this♥️ so much wisdom from Ntate Jerry.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +2

      The folks are such a blessing! We are led✊🏽

  • @gio3434
    @gio3434 3 года назад +23

    This channel needs way more subscribers!! Wowwww these are golden golden nuggets! 💯👌🏽

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      Aww thank you. Slow and steady wins the race Gio. We’re grateful to have YOU here. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @petronellatalks6912
      @petronellatalks6912 3 года назад

      I agree, one of the most authentic and informative channels

  • @Mbalings
    @Mbalings 2 года назад +1

    Basically free marriage counselling at this point 😫😍😍 thank you so much for sharing Your Parents with us 🙏

  • @simplytumi
    @simplytumi 3 года назад +24

    Thank you guys again for this channel. Maybe marriages will be restored with all this wisdom you share here. Just this episode nje...too much life!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +2

      Thank you Tumi. The goal is to have real conversations around real issues and share them. We appreciate it when people take time to lean in and engage. ❤️

  • @huthmanjagun2639
    @huthmanjagun2639 3 года назад

    This is an incredible quality talk presentation, wisdom from parents for those who want to listen, this has no price tag.

  • @sarahletsoalo9668
    @sarahletsoalo9668 3 года назад +1

    We are so blessed, thank you for bringing the Seniors ❤️

  • @King-Mandla
    @King-Mandla Год назад +2

    Dear The Marks, I was just randomly looking on RUclips and I came across this episode, I didn't know u guys, by the time it reached 13:06 when u say "your wife covered your nakedness" I felt it, man I started crying 😭😭😭(I had to pause).. bcos it hit home my wife she is doing the same thing,.. That is we're I get my strength from, sometimes I even wanted to live cos I felt useless by not presently providing for her.. Thanks God for her, and thanks man I thought I was the only one that had to experience this.. 🙏🏾God bless

  • @bernoveneodendaal8782
    @bernoveneodendaal8782 3 года назад

    Wow! What an insightful segment. It's the everything for me!!!

  • @sibomthembu575
    @sibomthembu575 3 года назад +1

    Thank you guys, I feel like I really needed this....so much wisdom. I love your channel...please continue with bringing us great and relevant content ❤

  • @palesamachaba9261
    @palesamachaba9261 3 года назад +1

    Wow. What a gift you guys have given to us. Tjo!!

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi 3 года назад

    So much wisdom here. Loved it! ❤️

  • @sibahlethandokazincanywa6270
    @sibahlethandokazincanywa6270 2 года назад +4

    This episode was absolutely incredible! So much wisdom and so much powerful references. 👏🏾🔥❤

  • @nokwakhiwamyataza7223
    @nokwakhiwamyataza7223 3 года назад

    Ntate Jerry's wisdom is impeccable 🙌🙌🙌

  • @alicetamur5787
    @alicetamur5787 3 года назад

    I was soooo blessed with the 2 shows with " Papa& Mama" in it...sooo much wisdom here..GOD bless them..this gurl from the Pacific Islands, Papua New Guinea ❤🇵🇬

  • @murunwamainganye5297
    @murunwamainganye5297 3 года назад +18

    Wow, I discovered your channel last night and wow, I love how much I'm learning from you guys.
    I really hope that this episode reach more people ❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      We are so glad that you found us! 🤗We are also on a journey of learning and are grateful that we get to do it with you all❤️

  • @siyamthandandlakuse8042
    @siyamthandandlakuse8042 3 года назад

    Recently came across your channel and playing catchup on all the videos loaded. Thoroughly enjoying your content.
    I am So grateful to come across this video. So much wisdom shared by you all. Thank you #Makhs - Seniors and Juniors. God continue to bless you abundantly - as I herd over to Part 2

  • @sinovuyosithole4647
    @sinovuyosithole4647 3 года назад +3

    So fruitful. I've been surely blessed by this installment, it can honestly only be my God 🙌🙌. Thank you for allowing him to use you. Keep on keeping on

  • @SSMZA
    @SSMZA 3 года назад +1

    Learning so much from your content.God bless you all🙏🏽

  • @mikhailevuyisekatyatya4798
    @mikhailevuyisekatyatya4798 3 года назад +1

    I so relate with the session part. Thank you so much mama no Tata. Awesome🙏. Thanks guys

  • @shynes23sh
    @shynes23sh 3 года назад +1

    This is really helpful & powerful. Thank you

  • @amandakudzai2198
    @amandakudzai2198 3 года назад

    I just discovered this channel and am soo hooked. So much wisdom and inspiring words. Thank you guys

  • @MompreneurLady
    @MompreneurLady 3 года назад +2

    Woooow! Makhs Snrs are oozing Wisdom from Above... This is glorioue! How I wish I understood SeTswana/Sotho... I wouldn't miss ONE word ir even a sniffle. Thank you soooo very much for sitting down witg tge giants in the Marriage Game.👏👏👏💕❤💕

  • @roseramahlafi1899
    @roseramahlafi1899 3 года назад +1

    Wise and helpful counsel. It's true that every problem has a solution, depending on the I tensions of the affected parties.
    You AR ding a good job Bakuena

  • @acupofteawithdjilaindiaspo4873
    @acupofteawithdjilaindiaspo4873 3 года назад +1

    Jo jo jo ....... I am sooo emotional 😭 Touched and moved. Thanks be to God that he send us right angels in our ways. 🙏

  • @samebaganne3099
    @samebaganne3099 3 года назад

    I am sooo inspired by your mom...she's such an amazing mother

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 3 года назад

    The wisdom here...so out of this world ❤

  • @keneilwetsieane
    @keneilwetsieane 7 месяцев назад

    You don't know what you are signing in for when you get married. I love their love journey ❤ ♥ the Makhs snrs.

  • @zeesays726
    @zeesays726 3 года назад

    i hit the like button very quickly the moment i saw the title and guests first time watching these youtubers, great show

  • @BEAUTIFUL_ALLSEASONS
    @BEAUTIFUL_ALLSEASONS 2 года назад

    Such wisdom🔥🔥🔥. Thank you for sharing yoh ❤️‍🔥💝💝💝💝

  • @phumlaradebe4574
    @phumlaradebe4574 3 года назад +1

    Not me binging on all instalments with the Makhs Snrs - literally watched each one after the other
    So beautiful- May the good Lord keep them for us and coming generations

  • @vinolianomhle9948
    @vinolianomhle9948 3 года назад +1

    Talk about sacrifices ❤️❤️❤️I totally see love with a different perspective

  • @padeliangenokesho1139
    @padeliangenokesho1139 Месяц назад

    Keep watching this over nd over. I love your parents soo much.

  • @bonolomasuku5896
    @bonolomasuku5896 3 года назад

    Very eye opening❤💪Important aspects articulated🙏

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 2 года назад

    Thank you for this installment 💝🙏🏽

  • @khulanelehrsa6621
    @khulanelehrsa6621 3 года назад

    Such an honest conversation. Thank you

  • @lungilemasilela2522
    @lungilemasilela2522 3 года назад +1

    Powerful message I like the part were it says if you not ready and willing to forgive then dont marry wow beautiful 🤗🤗🤗

  • @letushilaalina
    @letushilaalina 2 года назад +1

    Thank You God for the Makhs Seniors and Juniors they are such a blessing.

  • @lebuthepoet
    @lebuthepoet 3 года назад

    wow this here is food for the thoughts. One of those topics we are afraid of talking about, God bless you and thank you for this platform 👏❤

  • @ntokozoking3681
    @ntokozoking3681 3 года назад +9

    It's Such conversations that I wish everyone can listen to even before dating. Thank you for so much wisdom

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 года назад +1

    The resentment part Phetola spoke off I know very well and experienced.

  • @masabathamhlongo6378
    @masabathamhlongo6378 3 года назад

    You are indeed blessed hle batho💖💖 I love them they are such a well of glowing wisdom🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @mphoaidoo1508
    @mphoaidoo1508 3 года назад +2

    OH MY GOD GUYS I JUST CAME A CROSS THIS BY ACCIDENT AND I LOVE THE REALNESS THAT IS HERE GUY PLEASE KEEP IT 100 LIKE THAT... I LOVE YOU GUYS I JUST FELL IN LOVE YOU GUYS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ndlovupatience4926
    @ndlovupatience4926 3 года назад

    I had no intention of watching this but when I saw the guests I couldn’t help it and am so glad I did,this will actually save my relationship💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @yonelajafta547
    @yonelajafta547 3 года назад

    Mama said something so profound about forgiveness and cheating. 💫

  • @ceciliatsholoba997
    @ceciliatsholoba997 2 года назад

    Beautiful installment 💫

  • @seratisapelo
    @seratisapelo 3 года назад

    Bathong am addicted. Thank you 💞❤️❤️

  • @esthersambo3782
    @esthersambo3782 3 года назад

    De wisdom n anointing of ntate and mme Makheta🙏🙏🙏Also my sista de m learning alot as a new makoti n also praying to God 2 deal with my ministry ❤️❤️❤️

  • @nicolestroud3009
    @nicolestroud3009 3 года назад

    Loved this!!!

  • @sheronsnethembancube2693
    @sheronsnethembancube2693 Год назад

    Great conversation guys

  • @chiedzachuma2026
    @chiedzachuma2026 3 года назад

    This is amazing!

  • @thutonnena3092
    @thutonnena3092 6 месяцев назад

    This is more than a podcast, it's a ministry. Modimo ale hlonolofatse.❤❤❤❤

  • @thembelihlevivian435
    @thembelihlevivian435 2 года назад

    I am really grateful I discovered this channel 🙏🏾🔥🔥

  • @lilliantwalamaphanga5126
    @lilliantwalamaphanga5126 3 года назад +1

    Felt the whole conversation✊👍👍❤

  • @londiwensindane9962
    @londiwensindane9962 3 года назад

    Im super excited for part 2 omg...so much wisdom in 1 room...thank you guys for such beautiful and informative content...sheesh i even had goose bumps from watching dis...💗💗

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +1

      londiwe nsindane we are excited too 🙌🏾 thank you for such wonderful affirmation. We love you ❤️

  • @ladytee4648
    @ladytee4648 3 года назад +1

    Oh God.... Nothing but wisdom we definitely learning so much from this.... Thank you❤️
    #NotificationGang

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      #GangGang 🙌🏾 thank you for watching. Be sure to watch Part2 when we upload ❤️

  • @Noni4Jesus
    @Noni4Jesus 3 года назад

    Wow you guys have learned from the best of the best....your marriage is so blessed wow 😍❤🙌🏽

  • @keabetswethalakgale9172
    @keabetswethalakgale9172 3 года назад

    Sho this story is so amazing😭😭

  • @wendysokhela7908
    @wendysokhela7908 3 года назад +2

    Can’t wait for part two! Thank you guys for taking us on this journey. Always leave with so many prayer points. Bless 🤍

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +1

      Wendy Sokhela that’s amazing! We’re glad our sharing is beneficial to someone. Part 2 is going to be AMAZING!

  • @mitnapmash4125
    @mitnapmash4125 3 года назад

    😍😍😍...Wisdom is really generational💯

  • @rosinahmolala3535
    @rosinahmolala3535 3 года назад

    Oh wow ! What at wisdom indeed, i so love the humility and Nhlompo ya Phetolo. I do also like how you two met, im a Christian as well, at first hearing how you two met, i was like but if is from God, He God does not do mistakes, so now why there is someone hurting, meaning the relationship Lerato had before, but as the story unfold i really forgave myself and realize that ,that was God leading, your really a gift from God to this young generation, keep up the good work, God bless you.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      Thank you so much for this encouraging heartfelt message Rosinah 🙏🏾

  • @tebogolebelo9270
    @tebogolebelo9270 3 года назад

    Sho this is so good 👏i am so going to share

  • @cynthiasmith9385
    @cynthiasmith9385 2 месяца назад

    True gems of wisdom.

  • @shemillionheir
    @shemillionheir 3 года назад +1

    Possibly my favourite channel on RUclips. Thank you guys. Amazing content as always💗

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +2

      Musa Ndlovu STOP IT WE LIKE IT 😍😍😍 thank you for watching and engaging!!!

  • @emmahmaepa7071
    @emmahmaepa7071 3 года назад +1

    wow beutiful people with amazing stories ❤❤

  • @vee8420
    @vee8420 2 года назад

    Hello the Makhs, your content is such a blessing & am really enjoying 💯💯♥️

  • @Thegirlsihle
    @Thegirlsihle 3 года назад

    “Let’s go” wamama 😍🔥

  • @kokimothoagae1820
    @kokimothoagae1820 3 года назад +1

    Powerful love your channel

  • @luvogiba1526
    @luvogiba1526 3 года назад +17

    We are led! This is really powerful thank you guys! There is so much power in being surrounded by such wisdom. I learned so much from this episode and I think one of my take homes is that if you are not willing to forgive don't go into the institution of marriage/enter into a relationship. Looking forward to Part 2.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching Luvo. Absolutely love what Mr Makhetha Senior said about forgiveness. Such a hard hitting truth!

    • @phumimthiyane289
      @phumimthiyane289 3 года назад

      That was so powerful...I also loved that statement

  • @kgomotsimolepo6420
    @kgomotsimolepo6420 3 года назад +5

    #inspired, Moghel o ke mosadi sadi yoh... Lot of respect for you 👑
    Thanks for including ntate and mme Mofokeng on this episode ♥️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +3

      She is everything dreams are made of. I’m a lucky dude 😉

  • @mosalethoba5267
    @mosalethoba5267 3 года назад +1

    He Banna khanthe ntate Mofokeng ke motswadi wa lona? Im impressed to know this.

  • @bokamosomcephe2965
    @bokamosomcephe2965 3 года назад

    The wisdom in this video. I always say cheating yes I see but what you do after cheating will determine if I should stay and fight or leave and choose peace.

  • @precioussunya3809
    @precioussunya3809 3 года назад

    I am learning🤩. Thank you.

  • @TheOlgad
    @TheOlgad 3 года назад

    Very profound lessons from this video

  • @kioussamayanda570
    @kioussamayanda570 3 года назад

    Keep up the good work the Makhs😇

  • @louiscanthyshakela88
    @louiscanthyshakela88 3 года назад

    Thank you for the advice

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 3 года назад +4

    Ohhwow👏🏾 so much wisdom in this video!! I'm not yet married but I've learned so much from this, thank you for sharing your parents' wisdom with us❣ your channel has great quality content

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It is our hope that people can start having these conversations before they get married. ❤️We honestly didn’t know we would go through half the things we went through 🤣🙆🏾‍♀️. We have definitely learnt a lot over the years❤️

  • @mackokhumalo6836
    @mackokhumalo6836 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much, this episode was a blessing👌🏾🙏🏽

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for taking time to watch. We appreciate you ❤️

  • @carmelariley9491
    @carmelariley9491 3 года назад +1

    You Dad has so much wisdom !!! I’m enjoying this!!!!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      Right?! The folks are such gems🙌🏾❤️

  • @LeboLizMolaba
    @LeboLizMolaba 3 года назад +1

    Great content 👌🏻a session worth sharing ❤️ I’m blessed by the honesty and openness ❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️❤️thank you so much for watching

  • @mabotsechoshane
    @mabotsechoshane 3 года назад +1

    This is so beautiful to watch. Marriage surrendered to God and His will are so fruitful, evidently so. Loving your family so much!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      Aaaah this is precious. Thank you for the affirmation ❤️

  • @zandilematshoba9842
    @zandilematshoba9842 3 года назад

    Very profound discussion, thank you for sharing and building others up

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      It is our absolute pleasure. The response has been amazing and we’re grateful 🙏🏾

  • @keamogetsemosiako5922
    @keamogetsemosiako5922 3 года назад

    Mhmmmmm 👌🙏👏👏👏 to normalizing counseling 💫

  • @ngobeni_kile
    @ngobeni_kile 3 года назад +1

    There is just so much wisdom in this video. I wish you could have more sit downs with the seniors♥️... the way I’m just taking down notes and learning so much. I can’t wait to watch more and more of these conversations to prepare me for when I also get married♥️. God bless you

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  3 года назад

      We will definitely have them back at some point. We also learn and grow from them. Thank you for joining us. ❤️ God bless you too!