The thing I realize about narc people, is THEYare just plain envious, jealous and competitive. I never understood why people do this. Now I realize it's nothing to do with me. Doesn't matter whether I am doing well or not. They are just jealous people. Everyone is a threat to a narcissist. Thank you Jesus for continually protecting us. 🙏
@@theinsightfulvisionary0197 I truly think it is demonic problems. A lot of people worhsip satan and are into the new age religion and they are full of hate. They are showing themselves left and right where I am.
Number 5 for me.... Lost 200 lbs....got critisized for that..... Reached my career goals..critisized for that....did what I said I would do...critisized me for that...corrected the so called construtive crtitsism...critisized for that.... It never ends....
Truth!! The saddest part was finding out my own fam are the ones doin all of this! I let everyone go in March I do feel guilty but at the end of the day I have to save myself! Like you said They will be to their own demise and reap what they sow. :(
I HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS MY WHOLE LIFE FROM FAMILY ,FRIENDS ,NEIGHBOURS ,CO WORKERS ,STRANGERS MY EX HUSBAND ALMOST FROM EVERYONE EVERYWHERE AND ITS SO SAD HOW THESE PEOPLE CURSED THEIR OWN LIFE
Psalm 37 is a great one for these 'people' (a/k/a soulless monsters): 12 The wicked plot against the righteous and gnash their teeth at them; 13 but the Lord laughs at the wicked, for he knows their day is coming. 14 The wicked draw the sword and bend the bow to bring down the poor and needy, to slay those whose ways are upright. 15 But their swords will pierce their own hearts, and their bows will be broken.
It really makes me feel sad when someone is jealous of me, like it really hurts me. I have tons of people jealous of me and they all have way more than me. They all got big homes, nice cars, money, and I have a car that I love but it's old, my house is very small and not nice inside like theirs. I'm a single mom with two girl's. They are all married. I'm the only single mom on both sides of my family. I'm also the one living the farthest away. I do live right by the ocean and they live in the city so I feel very blessed to live by the sea cause I love nature. I'm the only one who picks and eats wild plants and use them for healing. They think I'm weird from it but yet they are very jealous of me. I don't like it cause they invite everyone else to their house but never me ever! The only thing I have more of is being a chosen one, and my little daughter is also. So I have no friends like none, it's just my children and I. I like being alone. I don't date cause all I get are narc's and I'm so tried of it. Both my parents were narc's. My mom was the worst one so you can see how I grew up plus more that I'm not going to share right now. Sorry for the long msg. I don't have someone I can talk to. Thank you for reading my msg. Much love and peace to you.
Thank you for sharing this and I am so sorry to hear about that. I get it. If you do want to talk, please don’t hesitate to reach out on my website and book a session with me. Sending love to you and your daughter 💙
Jen: My life has been very similar to yours (narc egg donor/enabling and now deceased father, narc golden child brother). I also have no friends, the few I had all betrayed me one by one and I've been no contact with narc family since 2014. I wish you lived close to me, I'd love to have a friend like you. I also love nature and herbal remedies. My animals are my best friends now.
You and I have the same life , I’m content with what I do have and that make people uncomfortable, I enjoy my own company, the people who love me really love me it’s just me and my grown children
Let there be a very High Wall of Powerful Fire , Invisible Shield of strong Light and Spiritual Barrier Surrounding me everywhere i go in Christ Jesus , amen .
I go through this at work. It’s been EXHAUSTING, all I want to do is compliment a team but this isn’t possible. They truly are liars, jealous, competitive and always need credit for everything! But they have no genuine credit to give to anyone. Frauds 100%. I have two interviews next week. Please pray that the perfect, healthy position is found soon. I feel like my soul is being drained. I pray and keep the faith. I’ve gone through this my whole life. In so many areas. Enough already!!
At first I thought it was just my sister, then realized it was my whole fam, then met strangers as roommates who copied my hair and they were older than me smh. Everything you said is spot on.
This is my whole family. I did everything for them to avoid their downfall. But they allways rejoice when i am going through hart time and wisch me to fall in the pit
Joseph's own family did that same thing to him in the book of Genesis; but he got the last laugh. :) Keep going. God's got you in the palm of His mighty hands.
Mental health, is the first line, of societal seperation.. stop it. Your not ill, you were born perfect. The world did this, and you have GOD, with you. You are the champion! Gods choosen Champion! I believe in you.
It took me so long to realise this, I would have such low self-esteem, I would take everything people did as genuine and there was something wrong with me. I do still fall for this thinking at the start but when I reflect I can see the truth...I have decided to not let them change me. be me unashamedly ❤️
I resonate so well with this 100% percent right now. I have had relatives downplay my achievements in public. Thank you so much Kevin and God bless you!
I took a class and they said, when someone criticizes you in front of others, CALL THEM OUT ON THE SPOT! Ask them “did that make you feel big, you certainly seemed content in voicing that smear on me”! Do not let them get away with belittling you!🩸♥️💯✌🏽🌻🐝
I have seen this my entire life...at work, in marriage and with so called friends! They criticize you but then they start trying to do exactly what you are doing!!
1. false praises an compliments,1. 2 . copy cats 3. down play your achievements and your successful, 4. they are competitive against you, 5. criticize everything you do, 6. they ill celebrate your failures. jealous and. envious people.7. they deliberately give you bad advice.
That’s so crazy you’re making these type of videos during the time I’m going through this. Certain family members and fake friends been giving me fake compliments on my accomplishments and I can feel it’s fake. Then the fake friends is in competition and not happy about the accomplishments. The other ones just distant and watching from a distant and I feel everything they’re doing. THANK YOUUUU FOR THIS CONFIRMATION 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Gosh.. I was just getting better from a lifetime of narcissistic abuse and WHAM.. The ultimate betrayal from a friend. It happened again. It's hurting me and I don't seem to be able to shake it off.
It is very difficult I am in the same boat but I'm letting go of her toxic ways because God wants me to so He can bless me. I struggle with wanting to kick myself for putting up with her sick treatment for almost 18 years of my life. Work in progress. ...I wish you all the best 🙏
Rightly said, the problem of the earth, started with jealousy, it will save us a great lot, to know the sign of jealous people, especially from their conversation, they are often materialistic focus type of people, they always likes to compare one another, and often praised their presumed greater one above the vulnerable,, they have no fear of God, whenever they want to take their evil action, over you, any friend who often argues with you over a matter that you are clearly right about, could be a jealous friend, because he doesn't expect you to know much, or intelligent than them,, and most times during the cause of your argument with him, when he sees someone coming he will quickly, keep silent until the passer-by has pass, then he will continue with the false argument just to defeat you.
I never understood why people are jealous of the anyone especially co-workers because it’s just a job personally I never wanted leadership in the workplace especially if I don’t plan to stay at that workplace for long. So I’m always happy to see people move up and reach their goals so that’s one less person out there struggling.
Only a few weeks ago I met someone who immediatey latched on - innocent and well intentioned - nice guy - but was so bedazzled he was trying to invite me to meet his tribe and excitedly told me it would be great because they would "feed off [my] energy". I had to manually pull my jaw back into place. There it was right there! My life - in words! I have been in complete isolation for over three years - this was the first new person I had met in over a year. And I only know two other people here! I'm afraid to leave my house now!
Liked before you even said a word 💯 I have this guy at work who tries to pick on me because he is a manager but he can’t get to me haha! Blessings brother!!
It's a wrap my brother I had a real bad situation come up as a supervisor at my old job and I quit pretty much the same day and because of that situation I have a lower paying job but I had the option to pay all my debt off except for my car payment and now I'm not stressing I'm staying positive and nobody knows me and knows nothing about me and it's just so nice
Sha.om my brother I am asking all my brothers and sisters to read and share the powerful chapter of Proverbs love you all always Woman of God 144s Chosen One Canada 🇨🇦
Just came across this and the biggest insult over me was that I was single looked upon as worthless for not having a man or relationship. I got a man got into a relationship and then certain people in my family put us down frowned upon him spoke trash about us and said all we were doing is playing tic tac toe with each other. Needless to say their mouths soured our union that our relationship ended. This from 2 people married and putting their lives their relationship in others faces. After it happened GOD opened my eyes to many revelations. I now work with new knowledge and speak better over myself about me and my life.
🗣 All Facts! 💯 💶 💯 💶 Every sign resonates with me! Thank You Coach Kev! Chosen Ones Are Always A Target! Topic was definitely on time as always! The haters are out in full season 🤣🤣🤣 it isn't even summer time yet! Thanks Coach! 😍 😘 Everyone stay blessed!
I'm going through all of this. I have detached from them for a very good reason. 😒🙄 All my family members are pretty much like this towards me. My Co Workers are doing me like this right now. They rejoice when I'm making mistakes....I AM going through it all.
Everyone has some type of good trait. For some people it’s a positive attitude, for others it’s a talent or a strength. However if they have some chip on their shoulder, they won’t believe your compliment. The chip might be something as simple as; jumping to conclusions about you, having no boundaries, criticism, doing covert weird stuff to you and acting like it’s normal, stone walling you from your own matters or business or family. Just so many reasons. You can be sincere all day long but they can’t accept that you see things from a different lens because most people tend to dwell on frustrating comments or times of negativity. Rather than to acknowledge your own positives and negatives. IE. “I’m a good communicator but I can be a procrastinator due to needing all my puzzle pieces to fit.” “I’m a generous person, but can be controlling sometimes”. When we know our own weaknesses, it’s easier to not take offense and believe the compliment is indeed valid.
This is so true and it's a good way of explaining it. These people can also use a form of narcissistic projection. You know it's important not to take what they try to project personally. People should always consider the store and why they might be saying things about someone. I understand now that if somebody calls me a table or a lamp that I am not a table or a lamp so I'm not going to take offense to it. 🤷
When people try to down play things that you did to better your life , it'll be know , they don't congralate you , they are in computation with you thing they know everything , it's certain things they say or didn't say to let you know they are for you. They will celebrate your failure, instead of achievements , these are the people you distance yourself from
You’re describing my jealous co-worker to a “t”! I say a certain phrase that I noticed she copied recently. She presents herself as a very competitive person in the workplace, but also in general. She always “talks smack” behind new coworkers’ backs, especially women, yet if someone corrects her, she can’t handle it. She recently got a haircut and she copied my cut! She got bangs (after I did recently), but she also got blonde highlights. I think she wasted her money, because her hair looked better before. She’s a great bowler and cook, but she always wants to let everyone know, while we’re busy working. I first met her at my previous job, where we were both laid off with a handful of other people that all transferred to our current job. The sad thing is, I worked SO HARD there, and she downplayed my work ethic, saying I didn’t do much, when it was her! She would complain about people dropping parts all the time, yet she does the SAME EXACT THING ALL THE TIME. I could go on and on, but I’m getting frustrated.
This video was just a confirmation for me, of which I already knew. To think I befriended her and even helped her and she went rogue. I won’t even give her my new number. Oh, and her boyfriend is 20 years younger than her, three years younger than me. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but she loves to brag about it.😩
This message most definitely resonates with me. Through many experiences that I personally have been through. They are so evil to where I was in tears but, you know what God is always with me protecting me. It's so sad to see someone like this that I still will pray for them no matter what. It's just so important that if you don't have to be around theses devilish people stay away.
You is absolutely right my family is so jealous of one another till it's a shame especially my only sister she don't want to see me happy or prosper in anything even some of my brothers but I came to realization that God blessed each and everyone of us in a different way I don't go around my family because I'm always getting strange vibes and I feel so uncomfortable
Sad but True. I just recently started socializing with worldly people out of necessity recently, and in a weeks time found 8-10 people to be like this. Probably more on a longer time line. It seems even church isn't safe sometimes. If there are other, "chosen one's" in Alaska it we be nice to hear from them. You know you are always welcome, Expressed Words:)
All these points are super valid. I've also noticed that people who aren't for you will make underhanded remarks and wrap them up in a phony compliment. Or.... They aggressively highlight the strengths which they possess with every opportunity that comes about even when it's irrelevant. The purpose of this is to downplay your strengths. For example, you may be soft spoken and they might be very extroverted and highly articulate. They will argue their points and share nonsensical information just to make you look weak or uneducated. However, the information they share lacks compassion, heart, and a lot of wisdom. Within their diatribe, they're sneaking in those backhanded digs in order to hurt you and make themselves look intelligent. They're more concerned with being heard and hurting you than with the audience receiving the message.
This is so stupid to want to be someone else, that means you are not satisfy with the way you are and you will never find themself.I believe we should be gratefull with the way we are and use our God given talent to motivate ourselves.It doesn't matter how you try to be someone else it is impossible so be yourself.You are right this true.
I'm in a totally different continent. I'm not American and I'm not British. But everything you saying here is so true. God has enough for everybody but many people are busy critising lives. Now I know why. This is life changing. Thanks.
Man you're reading my life! I've had to let so many people go. God is working through you for sure bro. Your content has been my confirmation. Keep up the good work
It is resonating with me perfectly I just got fired from my work. Thanks to you that when I suspect cover, narcissist woman at first she was complementing me a lot especially to the manager, but I got this weird feeling that she’s staring on me all the time and copy me. I was really weird. I cannot even explain. She was trying to be my friend. She even changed the color of her eyes. she forcefully was trying to convince me to be her friend. I denied it because I don’t like gossiping and backbiting and then … she started to turn people on me, gossiping behind my back and by the end I get this feeling that something is off and I was right the manager ask me to come and she told me I’m not matching there and she will let me go just like that
This is so true I went to the wrong person to help all I got was delay so I decided to not go forward with that particular thing God bless you for you're insight
I don't know what this particular thing was but if it's business or you just need some kind of help. Please don't let anyone stop you. I pray that God will send the right person to you to keep you focus and on the right track for whatever it is your trying to achieve. May God Bless You. I just replied because I've let someone talk me out of something that I kind of regret now. But I'm praying for you.♥️💜
THEY fail to realize that THEY are not Anyone else, they... are whom they are....and they too can be the best version of themselves and receive blessings meant for them!
@@tykeria5768 His Royal Highness, Prince Adam Bin Alwaleed Bin Abdulaziz Al Saud, Eldest Son of His Royal Highness, Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Bin Abdulaziz Al Saud, Billionaire, prefers that you address me properly....according to etiquette, "Your Royal Highness".....
facts bro i completely agree with you completely resonate with this message. i have a lot of haters they are jealous of me, im a good looking guy. females love me done lost a lot of friends over the years.
I was seeing someone who was jealous at me, for sure. I sensed that he was angry for my success, and heaving friends and having easy life.. I saw it in his eyes and dementor, i was in shock because i loved him and would always be happy for him
Omgosh that Jezebel roomy-wanted to dress like me, talk like me, tried taking over my garden😤, I’ve been delivered from pain pills, she would sit and shake her pill bottle, I yelled QUIT THE SHAKING THST BOTTLE & TRYING TO GET ME GOING ON PILLS even acted like she was a Christian, agreeable, patronized, lied, seduction😳, revenge… and she was OUT!
I'm getting that at my job....how does everyone don't like one person....ME! Crazy....and I am smart,very intelligent, neat guy....I'm like get over yourself....Up watching me,my every move....but I could care less bought yall move....It's weird.....
I relate & sorry cuh it doesn't stop not even when it considered old, use public transit, live w/someone, disposable income isn't high etc. If the chosen don't hv much they want that 2 in addition 2 what they hv- children of Satan, the greedy, merciless, prideful Miserables.
Same. lol just keep doing you and keep shining✨🌟show them it isn’t bothering you because that will kill them. Kill them with kindness. Be the bigger person 👍
Do we really Have that high of vibration...I mean we must carry the smart,Intelligent, Stay away from me cause you can't think of the number I'm thinking,Ass away from me.....It is a little scary cause of the looks, but the staring is weird....
This is so true....My so called friend has been doing this to me for YEARS AND YEARS! Other seasoned Saints told me about her years ago, but I just didn't see it then....But thank God for Spiritual maturity and DISCERNMENT....I can see all of the envy and jealousy and other things now😊😁
Work force indeed....i got played for my MBA but God opened the doors literally within these last few weeks. Now this wednesday i will start as a College Advisor while they tried to make me feel that i cant make it without them.I literally have been through this for years with leaders and managers on jobs...and I'm like jealous of what I'm just trying to be the best I can
Kevin, I enjoy your videos! Please consider removing the flashing light portion of your videos! For some that could trigger seizures in some people. You are doing a great job!
The thing I realize about narc people, is THEYare just plain envious, jealous and competitive. I never understood why people do this. Now I realize it's nothing to do with me. Doesn't matter whether I am doing well or not. They are just jealous people. Everyone is a threat to a narcissist. Thank you Jesus for continually protecting us. 🙏
They not even hiding it now a days it so obvious n sad. 💔
Yes Lord!!! I think that narcissistic behavior is a mental disorder and they need help!!!
@@theinsightfulvisionary0197 I truly think it is demonic problems. A lot of people worhsip satan and are into the new age religion and they are full of hate. They are showing themselves left and right where I am.
@@glow8757 and thats why we laugh out loud and ignore them
But the chosen one takes their hate to a whole other level
Sometimes your spirit aggravates their demons
Exactly
First, I do not care what others do or say about me, second. MY Silence is killing them! Not knowing what I am doing drives them nuts!!!
KILLING ME SOFTLY WITH HIS WORDS!!!
You nailed it brother!! 💯
@@tykeria5768 Which Version, The Johnny Cash one or The Fugies?
Original!!!
@@tykeria5768 So...the Johnny Cash original
You are so right. Enemies are everywhere, I just smile in their face and let God deal with them. Have a blessed day
Number 5 for me.... Lost 200 lbs....got critisized for that..... Reached my career goals..critisized for that....did what I said I would do...critisized me for that...corrected the so called construtive crtitsism...critisized for that.... It never ends....
Congratulations brother, huge accomplishments for you, that is fantastic!! Lol they jealousssssss 😎
Hey man I'm proud of you bro keep going God sees the work your putting in congratulations
@@christianchoseng2523 Thankyou...I really needed this today.
@@adamthomas1246 no problem fam
Congratulations if no one told you before, I'm truly happy for you!
I got strange compliments for things that are not worth even mentioning
Truth!! The saddest part was finding out my own fam are the ones doin all of this! I let everyone go in March I do feel guilty but at the end of the day I have to save myself! Like you said They will be to their own demise and reap what they sow. :(
I say fuk um Its all part of your growth
Im in the same boat. Its been my parents holding me back all my life
I totally understand what your going through. I have tested the spirit over and over and it always points to my family
You're not alone. As sad as it is. We have to move on. In Jesus our Lord!! God bless you and keep you and give you strength..
Especially, but sadly mines too, my own brother, sister, mother, so negative...
We need to pray for each other ask God for his covering especially our enemies Thankyou Jesus
We need to remember that we have the power to cast out demons and surround ourselves and others with angelic warriors.
The lack of real people is just ..... anyway good to know there’s real people out here.
I HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS MY WHOLE LIFE FROM FAMILY ,FRIENDS ,NEIGHBOURS ,CO WORKERS ,STRANGERS MY EX HUSBAND ALMOST FROM EVERYONE EVERYWHERE AND ITS SO SAD HOW THESE PEOPLE CURSED THEIR OWN LIFE
Psalm 37 is a great one for these 'people' (a/k/a soulless monsters):
12 The wicked plot against the righteous
and gnash their teeth at them;
13 but the Lord laughs at the wicked,
for he knows their day is coming.
14 The wicked draw the sword
and bend the bow
to bring down the poor and needy,
to slay those whose ways are upright.
15 But their swords will pierce their own hearts,
and their bows will be broken.
It really makes me feel sad when someone is jealous of me, like it really hurts me. I have tons of people jealous of me and they all have way more than me. They all got big homes, nice cars, money, and I have a car that I love but it's old, my house is very small and not nice inside like theirs. I'm a single mom with two girl's. They are all married. I'm the only single mom on both sides of my family. I'm also the one living the farthest away. I do live right by the ocean and they live in the city so I feel very blessed to live by the sea cause I love nature. I'm the only one who picks and eats wild plants and use them for healing. They think I'm weird from it but yet they are very jealous of me. I don't like it cause they invite everyone else to their house but never me ever! The only thing I have more of is being a chosen one, and my little daughter is also. So I have no friends like none, it's just my children and I. I like being alone. I don't date cause all I get are narc's and I'm so tried of it. Both my parents were narc's. My mom was the worst one so you can see how I grew up plus more that I'm not going to share right now. Sorry for the long msg. I don't have someone I can talk to. Thank you for reading my msg. Much love and peace to you.
Thank you for sharing this and I am so sorry to hear about that. I get it. If you do want to talk, please don’t hesitate to reach out on my website and book a session with me. Sending love to you and your daughter 💙
Jen: My life has been very similar to yours (narc egg donor/enabling and now deceased father, narc golden child brother). I also have no friends, the few I had all betrayed me one by one and I've been no contact with narc family since 2014. I wish you lived close to me, I'd love to have a friend like you. I also love nature and herbal remedies. My animals are my best friends now.
You and I have the same life , I’m content with what I do have and that make people uncomfortable, I enjoy my own company, the people who love me really love me it’s just me and my grown children
Let there be a very High Wall of Powerful Fire , Invisible Shield of strong Light and Spiritual Barrier Surrounding me everywhere i go in Christ Jesus , amen .
I go through this at work. It’s been EXHAUSTING, all I want to do is compliment a team but this isn’t possible. They truly are liars, jealous, competitive and always need credit for everything! But they have no genuine credit to give to anyone. Frauds 100%. I have two interviews next week. Please pray that the perfect, healthy position is found soon. I feel like my soul is being drained. I pray and keep the faith. I’ve gone through this my whole life. In so many areas. Enough already!!
At first I thought it was just my sister, then realized it was my whole fam, then met strangers as roommates who copied my hair and they were older than me smh. Everything you said is spot on.
My sister did that 15 years ago.... I walked away when I could...Honey- I could coach you!
This is my whole family. I did everything for them to avoid their downfall. But they allways rejoice when i am going through hart time and wisch me to fall in the pit
Yes. I basically saved lives and get repaid with spite years later.
Joseph's own family did that same thing to him in the book of Genesis; but he got the last laugh. :) Keep going. God's got you in the palm of His mighty hands.
Mental health, is the first line, of societal seperation.. stop it. Your not ill, you were born perfect. The world did this, and you have GOD, with you. You are the champion! Gods choosen Champion! I believe in you.
Yes you are right...however now it's time for me to sit on someone's coach... that jealous spirit it draining!
With God bless instincts, we are able to detect false praises and those who are fake🤥
It took me so long to realise this, I would have such low self-esteem, I would take everything people did as genuine and there was something wrong with me. I do still fall for this thinking at the start but when I reflect I can see the truth...I have decided to not let them change me. be me unashamedly ❤️
I resonate so well with this 100% percent right now.
I have had relatives downplay my achievements in public.
Thank you so much Kevin and God bless you!
You are so welcome, keep on keepin on!
When people do that, recognize that those people are nothing more than #SociopathicNarcissists.
I took a class and they said, when someone criticizes you in front of others, CALL THEM OUT ON THE SPOT! Ask them “did that make you feel big, you certainly seemed content in voicing that smear on me”! Do not let them get away with belittling you!🩸♥️💯✌🏽🌻🐝
It seems that they have more than you but for what ever reason when you accomplish just little in your life they get upset.
You have really exposed so many people who are very manipulative, if one is not praying you can't see their hidden agendas. It's their own Karma.
Only one who can speak life into existence is the heavenly father.
I have seen this my entire life...at work, in marriage and with so called friends! They criticize you but then they start trying to do exactly what you are doing!!
1. false praises an compliments,1. 2 . copy cats 3. down play your achievements and your successful, 4. they are competitive against you, 5. criticize everything you do, 6. they ill celebrate your failures. jealous and. envious people.7. they deliberately give you bad advice.
Thank you!
YOU CAN NEVER EVER, EVER, EVER GET ON MY LEVEL!!!!Just a little Razzle Dazzle. 💥💜🍫💥💜💜
They thought they had me when they forced me to clock out early lol I just switch shifts lololol cant see me now lolol
@@trickywily2823 CLOCKING WATCHING
🤣
Nothing can stop my infinite prosperity good fortune success
That’s so crazy you’re making these type of videos during the time I’m going through this. Certain family members and fake friends been giving me fake compliments on my accomplishments and I can feel it’s fake. Then the fake friends is in competition and not happy about the accomplishments. The other ones just distant and watching from a distant and I feel everything they’re doing. THANK YOUUUU FOR THIS CONFIRMATION 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
WOW... confirmed, you are so welcome!
@@ExpressedWordz yes you been speaking to my soul lol 😆🙏🏾❤️💯
Your absolutely right coach Kevin Brown!
Gosh.. I was just getting better from a lifetime of narcissistic abuse and WHAM.. The ultimate betrayal from a friend. It happened again.
It's hurting me and I don't seem to be able to shake it off.
It is very difficult I am in the same boat but I'm letting go of her toxic ways because God wants me to so He can bless me. I struggle with wanting to kick myself for putting up with her sick treatment for almost 18 years of my life. Work in progress. ...I wish you all the best 🙏
Trying to attack while being friendly...e shock me...you saw it..🙏🙏🙏
Rightly said, the problem of the earth, started with jealousy, it will save us a great lot, to know the sign of jealous people, especially from their conversation, they are often materialistic focus type of people, they always likes to compare one another, and often praised their presumed greater one above the vulnerable,, they have no fear of God, whenever they want to take their evil action, over you, any friend who often argues with you over a matter that you are clearly right about, could be a jealous friend, because he doesn't expect you to know much, or intelligent than them,, and most times during the cause of your argument with him, when he sees someone coming he will quickly, keep silent until the passer-by has pass, then he will continue with the false argument just to defeat you.
I never understood why people are jealous of the anyone especially co-workers because it’s just a job personally I never wanted leadership in the workplace especially if I don’t plan to stay at that workplace for long. So I’m always happy to see people move
up and reach their goals so that’s one less person out there struggling.
Only a few weeks ago I met someone who immediatey latched on - innocent and well intentioned - nice guy - but was so bedazzled he was trying to invite me to meet his tribe and excitedly told me it would be great because they would "feed off [my] energy". I had to manually pull my jaw back into place. There it was right there! My life - in words! I have been in complete isolation for over three years - this was the first new person I had met in over a year. And I only know two other people here! I'm afraid to leave my house now!
Lmao dang
This totally resonates with me! They critique you in front of the whole class/family/church group, etc......
I learned a long time ago I don't care what people think because they don't like me cuz I'm Different in this world
Liked before you even said a word 💯 I have this guy at work who tries to pick on me because he is a manager but he can’t get to me haha! Blessings brother!!
It's a wrap my brother I had a real bad situation come up as a supervisor at my old job and I quit pretty much the same day and because of that situation I have a lower paying job but I had the option to pay all my debt off except for my car payment and now I'm not stressing I'm staying positive and nobody knows me and knows nothing about me and it's just so nice
And you know what…. That is OK because your money situation will turn around for you for the better. Glad you found peace my brother 💙
@@ExpressedWordz yes it is a good feeling to start all over. Single dad and if something is going to try to disturb my peace it's got to go
You never lied bro 👏👏👏💯
Sha.om my brother I am asking all my brothers and sisters to read and share the powerful chapter of Proverbs love you all always Woman of God 144s Chosen One Canada 🇨🇦
Full Armor of God!
Just came across this and the biggest insult over me was that I was single looked upon as worthless for not having a man or relationship. I got a man got into a relationship and then certain people in my family put us down frowned upon him spoke trash about us and said all we were doing is playing tic tac toe with each other. Needless to say their mouths soured our union that our relationship ended. This from 2 people married and putting their lives their relationship in others faces. After it happened GOD opened my eyes to many revelations. I now work with new knowledge and speak better over myself about me and my life.
Have a blessed day that's nice of you to help people we all need help sometimes and our life it's a blessing 🌹
🗣 All Facts! 💯 💶 💯 💶 Every sign resonates with me! Thank You Coach Kev! Chosen Ones Are Always A Target! Topic was definitely on time as always! The haters are out in full season 🤣🤣🤣 it isn't even summer time yet! Thanks Coach! 😍 😘 Everyone stay blessed!
Hahah facts! You’re always welcome 🙏🏾
Petfect choosen ónel.
I'm going through all of this. I have detached from them for a very good reason. 😒🙄 All my family members are pretty much like this towards me. My Co Workers are doing me like this right now. They rejoice when I'm making mistakes....I AM going through it all.
Each note of the seven points you make are absolutely, sharply accurate !!
Encouraging to hear the unravelled honesty.
Thank you brother for opening my eyes!! 🙏🏾 for you!
So glad to hear this, you’re welcome!
Thank you 🙏 for all the wonderful things you do!
Anytime and thank you!
God bless you Beloved brother for coming as a true divine helper for God's glory in Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏🙏❤️
Half of this I’ve actually witnessed!
Definitely resonates with me.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Good stuff sir🙏🏾
Everyone has some type of good trait. For some people it’s a positive attitude, for others it’s a talent or a strength. However if they have some chip on their shoulder, they won’t believe your compliment. The chip might be something as simple as; jumping to conclusions about you, having no boundaries, criticism, doing covert weird stuff to you and acting like it’s normal, stone walling you from your own matters or business or family. Just so many reasons. You can be sincere all day long but they can’t accept that you see things from a different lens because most people tend to dwell on frustrating comments or times of negativity. Rather than to acknowledge your own positives and negatives.
IE. “I’m a good communicator but I can be a procrastinator due to needing all my puzzle pieces to fit.”
“I’m a generous person, but can be controlling sometimes”.
When we know our own weaknesses, it’s easier to not take offense and believe the compliment is indeed valid.
This is so true and it's a good way of explaining it. These people can also use a form of narcissistic projection. You know it's important not to take what they try to project personally. People should always consider the store and why they might be saying things about someone. I understand now that if somebody calls me a table or a lamp that I am not a table or a lamp so I'm not going to take offense to it. 🤷
Yesss all 7 signs resignated with me my Lord I'm new to your channel and I am serious.
You hit everyone of them.
Be Encouraged ✝️
When people try to down play things that you did to better your life , it'll be know , they don't congralate you , they are in computation with you thing they know everything , it's certain things they say or didn't say to let you know they are for you. They will celebrate your failure, instead of achievements , these are the people you distance yourself from
This isn’t just work colleagues, this can also be family members.
You’re describing my jealous co-worker to a “t”! I say a certain phrase that I noticed she copied recently. She presents herself as a very competitive person in the workplace, but also in general. She always “talks smack” behind new coworkers’ backs, especially women, yet if someone corrects her, she can’t handle it. She recently got a haircut and she copied my cut! She got bangs (after I did recently), but she also got blonde highlights. I think she wasted her money, because her hair looked better before. She’s a great bowler and cook, but she always wants to let everyone know, while we’re busy working. I first met her at my previous job, where we were both laid off with a handful of other people that all transferred to our current job. The sad thing is, I worked SO HARD there, and she downplayed my work ethic, saying I didn’t do much, when it was her! She would complain about people dropping parts all the time, yet she does the SAME EXACT THING ALL THE TIME. I could go on and on, but I’m getting frustrated.
This video was just a confirmation for me, of which I already knew. To think I befriended her and even helped her and she went rogue. I won’t even give her my new number. Oh, and her boyfriend is 20 years younger than her, three years younger than me. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, but she loves to brag about it.😩
This message most definitely resonates with me. Through many experiences that I personally have been through. They are so evil to where I was in tears but, you know what
God is always with me protecting me. It's so sad to see someone like this that I still will pray for them no matter what. It's just so important that if you don't have to be around theses devilish people stay away.
Peace and blessing brother
I was struggling big time with a lot of stuff you’ve been talking about.
Perfect timing I found your channel
Those people are the negative people you told us about. Facts
You is absolutely right my family is so jealous of one another till it's a shame especially my only sister she don't want to see me happy or prosper in anything even some of my brothers but I came to realization that God blessed each and everyone of us in a different way I don't go around my family because I'm always getting strange vibes and I feel so uncomfortable
TQVM,4 UR INFORMATION, I'M NOT SCARED OF ANYTHING BECAUSE GODS R ALWAYS WATCHING ME PROTECT ME 🔱😇🔱🙏🔱⭐🙏
Sad but True. I just recently started socializing with worldly people out of necessity recently, and in a weeks time found 8-10 people to be like this. Probably more on a longer time line. It seems even church isn't safe sometimes. If there are other, "chosen one's" in Alaska it we be nice to hear from them. You know you are always welcome, Expressed Words:)
I would love to visit!! Must make that happen💙
So freaking true! And on point! Kevin!
All these points are super valid. I've also noticed that people who aren't for you will make underhanded remarks and wrap them up in a phony compliment.
Or....
They aggressively highlight the strengths which they possess with every opportunity that comes about even when it's irrelevant. The purpose of this is to downplay your strengths. For example, you may be soft spoken and they might be very extroverted and highly articulate. They will argue their points and share nonsensical information just to make you look weak or uneducated. However, the information they share lacks compassion, heart, and a lot of wisdom.
Within their diatribe, they're sneaking in those backhanded digs in order to hurt you and make themselves look intelligent. They're more concerned with being heard and hurting you than with the audience receiving the message.
U speaking 🔊 facts
This is so stupid to want to be someone else, that means you are not satisfy with the way you are and you will never find themself.I believe we should be gratefull with the way we are and use our God given talent to motivate ourselves.It doesn't matter how you try to be someone else it is impossible so be yourself.You are right this true.
I agree and receive this Message from the Holy Spirit.
I'm in a totally different continent. I'm not American and I'm not British. But everything you saying here is so true. God has enough for everybody but many people are busy critising lives. Now I know why. This is life changing. Thanks.
Man you're reading my life! I've had to let so many people go. God is working through you for sure bro. Your content has been my confirmation. Keep up the good work
I appreciate that so much, thank you!
It is resonating with me perfectly I just got fired from my work. Thanks to you that when I suspect cover, narcissist woman at first she was complementing me a lot especially to the manager, but I got this weird feeling that she’s staring on me all the time and copy me. I was really weird. I cannot even explain. She was trying to be my friend. She even changed the color of her eyes. she forcefully was trying to convince me to be her friend. I denied it because I don’t like gossiping and backbiting and then … she started to turn people on me, gossiping behind my back and by the end I get this feeling that something is off and I was right the manager ask me to come and she told me I’m not matching there and she will let me go just like that
Blessings❤️
Peace💛
Love💚
My brother, may the Lord bless you my brother❤❤❤❤💎💎💎💖💖💖💖💥💥💥💥💥💥🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣
Thank you for this video. You are on point.
You are so welcome
Coach Kev...Keep on keeping on ...You are the Goat of RUclips we really appreciate you bringing us....what you do.....peace and blessi gs....
This is so true I went to the wrong person to help all I got was delay so I decided to not go forward with that particular thing God bless you for you're insight
I don't know what this particular thing was but if it's business or you just need some kind of help. Please don't let anyone stop you. I pray that God will send the right person to you to keep you focus and on the right track for whatever it is your trying to achieve. May God Bless You. I just replied because I've let someone talk me out of something that I kind of regret now. But I'm praying for you.♥️💜
Thank you this is true I wasn't aware of this
THEY fail to realize that THEY are not Anyone else, they... are whom they are....and they too can be the best version of themselves and receive blessings meant for them!
Who is THEY?
PRINCE
@@tykeria5768 The same THEY spoken in the video
@@tykeria5768 His Royal Highness, Prince Adam Bin Alwaleed Bin Abdulaziz Al Saud, Eldest Son of His Royal Highness, Prince Alwaleed Bin Talal Bin Abdulaziz Al Saud, Billionaire, prefers that you address me properly....according to etiquette, "Your Royal Highness".....
@@princeadambinalwaleed9483 Tykeria Gilbert
Thanks for uplifting us!
I don't involve my mind into what petty people are doing. I focus on what I'm doing.
I love to hear it, you know what to do... keep on keeping on!!
🦅 Thank you Coach
Yep, so true.
Because the Lord Keep Blessing Me...🙌🏾And you keep downing Me. Get on broad with the Lord and You'll get blessed too 🙏🏾period
Thank you for reading my life right now but. Still I rise in Jesus name I love the things you say
Thank For Your Wise Console! Glory Be To GOD!💯💪🏽💕💪🏽🙏🏾😊
facts bro i completely agree with you completely resonate with this message. i have a lot of haters they are jealous of me, im a good looking guy. females love me done lost a lot of friends over the years.
This coworker was jealous of my work out, she could not work out like me and i am 33 years older than her, jealousy is like cancer
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I was seeing someone who was jealous at me, for sure. I sensed that he was angry for my success, and heaving friends and having easy life.. I saw it in his eyes and dementor, i was in shock because i loved him and would always be happy for him
OMG! This is SO good! Excellent (and TRUE!) content 🌹
Hallelujah!
I have definitely been divinely protected!
Omgosh that Jezebel roomy-wanted to dress like me, talk like me, tried taking over my garden😤, I’ve been delivered from pain pills, she would sit and shake her pill bottle, I yelled QUIT THE SHAKING THST BOTTLE & TRYING TO GET ME GOING ON PILLS even acted like she was a Christian, agreeable, patronized, lied, seduction😳, revenge… and she was OUT!
Now that’s wild!
I'm getting that at my job....how does everyone don't like one person....ME! Crazy....and I am smart,very intelligent, neat guy....I'm like get over yourself....Up watching me,my every move....but I could care less bought yall move....It's weird.....
I relate & sorry cuh it doesn't stop not even when it considered old, use public transit, live w/someone, disposable income isn't high etc. If the chosen don't hv much they want that 2 in addition 2 what they hv- children of Satan, the greedy, merciless, prideful Miserables.
Same. lol just keep doing you and keep shining✨🌟show them it isn’t bothering you because that will kill them. Kill them with kindness. Be the bigger person 👍
Do we really Have that high of vibration...I mean we must carry the smart,Intelligent, Stay away from me cause you can't think of the number I'm thinking,Ass away from me.....It is a little scary cause of the looks, but the staring is weird....
Sorry Lord for speaking 🔊about you not loving me...That's what Satan wants me to think period
This is so true....My so called friend has been doing this to me for YEARS AND YEARS! Other seasoned Saints told me about her years ago, but I just didn't see it then....But thank God for Spiritual maturity and DISCERNMENT....I can see all of the envy and jealousy and other things now😊😁
Love gratitude🔥
it is pathetic that adults misbehave like this! They are insecure and are covert haters - they hate and we love x
"And i dont want just ANYBODY in this community..." and i cant say i blame you cause theres too many ppl out there that dont have good intentions
That's it! 🎯
🙏🙌 Gratitude ❤
OMG 7. Thats how I figured them out...gave me bad advice and then was happy to see me fail.
I’m half way through and you speaking straight facts 💯
Work force indeed....i got played for my MBA but God opened the doors literally within these last few weeks. Now this wednesday i will start as a College Advisor while they tried to make me feel that i cant make it without them.I literally have been through this for years with leaders and managers on jobs...and I'm like jealous of what I'm just trying to be the best I can
Kevin, I enjoy your videos! Please consider removing the flashing light portion of your videos! For some that could trigger seizures in some people. You are doing a great job!
I added a warning label awhile back to newer vids if you haven’t seen them, you’ll see that in the other vids. I appreciate you!