How To Prepare Yourself for Love - Lisa Nichols
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- Опубликовано: 9 фев 2023
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In this episode, I will discuss the three steps you need to take to prepare yourself for love. Yes, we’re talking about romantic partnerships, but also friendships and expanding the love you already have with your existing partner or friends. We all deserve love, but sometimes we feel scared or unworthy - let me show you how to change that!
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1. Love yourself.
2. Clear any limiting beliefs about partnership.
3. Take action
Lisa, I’ve outgrown the belief system that I can’t have an intimate partner who’s not only in love with my body… but more importantly the way my mind works🙏🏾💙
Amen!
I FOUND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WHEN PUTTING GOD FIRST FEL IN LOVE WITH CHRIST AND MYSELF THAN MET THE ONE WHO IS MY TRUE LOVE AND THE MOST WONDERFULL THING IS WE ARE LIKE TWINS HE IS ME AND I AM HIM AND THE LOVE IS PURE ,MURUAL AND UNCONDITIONAL ❤❤I THANK GOD FOR MY PRICELESS GIFT
Awwww ❤️
Congratulations
Congratulations sista girl. God bless you and your boo
So happy for you
@@chiomaobinna9878 THANK U ALL GLORY GOES TO GOD HE IS THE ONE WHO MADE IT HAPPEN AND AM SO PROUD OF GOD ❤🙏
"I want love"
"I don't want what love might bring me"
WOW. That hit me.
Yes, this has be a subconscious block for me
This has always been me. Thank God for healing.
1. Loving myself 2. Be open for it. 3. My belief has been it's not worth it. Letting that one go .Not trusting anyone, letting that go. We all are a work in progress. 😊
Coming from a messy and unhealthy family, I really struggled to allow "nice guys" in my life. I was always getting the bad boys... Because they were familiar to me e.g abusive father
After a lot of work on myself and therapy.
I found an amazing nice guy and OMG, this was challenging... My mind was constantly rejecting him for X and Y reasons, to the point that I even see him beating me up like my dad used to do to both us and my mom...
I fought my demons and managed to marry him... But, it was very hard to accept him as being a nice human being and admit that nice men exist in this world. Ladies, keep faith...
Once you build yourself up and heal from childhood trauma, or any kind of brokenness it’s hard to open up your heart again to be vulnerable because you love the inner peace from all the work that’s been done, because you don’t wanna take a risk anymore. This was great and on time ❤ Thank you!
@@naukiagriffiths6004 Amen 🙏🏾 I receive this ✨ Thank you ❤️❤️
So very true. Never realized how much I have to lose by letting the wrong one in.
@@journeywithme_erika1890 absolutely. But I believe now we’re more intuitive so we will know which ones to let in. Our hearts are more aware now ✨
I thought I was the only one who felt so strongly about this. YES!!!
I agree. I relate to your comment 💖
Lisa I’ve outgrown the belief system that all men are evil and abusive and love only distracts you and makes you weak. I now believe that there are good men out there and there is someone for everyone and we 100% do miss the shots we do not take and how loving yourself truly does transform your life in amazing ways.
There are so many good men out there. The more you acknowledge that the more often you will see them. It's like your eyes are more open to the possibilities and then the possibilities appear.
I've outgrown the limiting belief that: If I no longer look like I did when I was 20, then I'm unworthy of having a partner.
Hi Mrs Hall, my name is Sabine and I live in Toronto, Canada. Thank you very much for this video and testimony. I am 54 and I have never been married. Being by myself during the pandemic had helped me realise that I needed to change. I decided to go to therapy to heal. Your first point is what I am working on right now. I am finally willing to embrace myself, to accept myself, to love myself just the way I am and where I am at. It is a huge struggle for me but I made the decision to win this war. Thank you so much.
This made me cry , u touched my broken heart and had me looking at myself , twice divorced I thought I didn’t deserve another chance at a relationship , loving myself is key..ty ….. Congratulations on your nuptials 💍
Yes you réserve it and you're amazing!
"People will follow your example on how you love you." That hit hard. So good and so true! 💖
Wow!!! People will love and respect you on the basis of how you love and respect yourself. 👌
I love me and learning to love me more and more. I refuse to be in another toxic relationship. ❤
Thank you, Lisa! I had to go through this myself and was stuck in an abusive relationship for 6 years. As you mentioned, my lack of self-love also affected my friendships. I decided I deserved more, but instead of wishing for a new partner, I decided to love myself and honor myself. 2 years later, here I am, living a happy and authentic life with the love of my life and several new friendships. All of these new relationships are 100% the opposite of my past relationships because I decided to put myself first and love myself, and I continue to do so. Now I have a partner and friends who respect me and my boundaries and appreciate me for who I am right now. I also want to say I am so happy for you and Marcelus! You guys are so cute! I saw all your wedding videos and pictures on IG ❤
Thank you so much for these words of encouragement. Thank you
Lisa, I'm scared of falling in love again because i fall really hard. For the first time in my life I'm loving the freedom of not being emotionally attached to anyone, I'm razor focused on my growth and my business, am loving the place I'm in, but deep down there's that fear, I know its there because i don't even want any man to approach me, much less a man whom I'm potentially attracted to, I just dont want to get into that space again, I feel like am safest when am alone minding my business and not bonding with anyone because people are so complicated and am tired of loving and getting hurt in return, I'm really scared and it hurts when I mentally visit this area of my life.
The "threat" to independence and freewill feels so real. It is so hard to go over it. In my mind it says"I worked so hard to take back my independence and fought so much to finally be responsible of my own life's choices, I can't just let someone come into my life and disrupt everything.
Me exactly. It describes it so well. I fear that he will hurt me and all of the work I put into myself will be gone. Or I feel my peace and happiness will suffer if he disrespects me and I'll be devastated
I struggle with this as well. The thought of fully trusting someone else to provide and protect me at all times does seem a little scary. Whew!
Lisa, I will take action in the next 30 days to prepare myself for love. Not just romantic love, but friendships. I learned from this video that I have limiting beliefs when it comes to friendships with women. Thank you so much!! ❤
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Lisa, I used to listen to your videos years ago when you first started popping up on social media. Your story then, with your office in the closet and baby formula, was so inspiring, but today, accidentally seeing this new video of you and seeing that you are finally married, brought joy to my heart. Your life is like a bottle of wine. All the crushing in the beginning just keeps making you sweeter. Thank you for your words of wisdom on love.
Wow, thank you!!
Same here , those videos help me find my purpose . I am so overjoyed that she found love ❤️
I didn't even know that I needed to hear that but I really did. I felt that every sentence was speaking to me like in 1-1 coaching. Looks like I have a lot of work to do. Thank you, Lisa! Thank you for taking the time to share your wisdom. Lots of love from Taiwan.
Hi Lisa. This is so on time. I felt that a relationship would distract from my pursuit of the Lord .I was fooling myself. I now know that it will be enhanced and God's love will be manifested through a loving relationship and help me to stay focus because in a marriage you will definitely need tokeep God first.
Thank you for waking me up to the truth inside of me. You and your husband are a beautiful example of Love. 💕
I’ve outgrown the limiting and toxic belief that romantic love for me can only come from a man being a particular shade. Cultivating love for me has shown me that I am open and accepting of individuals you are like me from the inside out and not the outside in. And I am grateful ❤
love that!!!! ❤❤❤ YES The holidays!!!!
Step 1 Love yourself First
Step 2 Clear Limiting Belief around Partnerships even Friendships
Step 3 Take action Steps!!
Loving yourself is the juicy and magnetic Cake🧲 🍰 ,my spouse freinds and others are the 🍒 on my Cake🍰💖
Thank you so much Lisa! You've shown me that I've outgrown the idea that I don't deserve the love I'm asking for. I've outgrown the idea that I'm a problem and I'll never have someone who loves me for me.
I want to continue to grow and pursue my dreams and I know that I've been afraid of getting hurt again. Giving all of the love that I really wasn't giving myself and hoping someone would care. I lost myself in those thoughts and now I feel drained but it feels good to learning self love. Embracing how my mind works and things that just aren't OK for me. I don't wanna go back to feeling like I have to accept things I'm not OK with just to hold on to someone.
I want good friends and I need to be a good friend.
You're words are extremely encouraging and I greatly appreciate you.
I send you and everyone watching much love light and encouragement.
Never give up on yourself!🌻
I am no longer accepting the limiting belief that because I was molested throughout my childhood that I am unworthy to love due to the scars that left behind. I will always be healing from that experience, but I am dedicated to myself until my last breath to seek therapy and restoration. Therefore I am accepting of the new belief that I am deserving and ready for a love that is dedicated to therapy and restoration. I don't have to be this brand new, never touched being to experience love. That belief kept me believing I was not deserving of more than the bare minimum and that I was only good to be touched or to have sex with.
I'm going to keep pursuing my heart's desire...healthy partner love.
You are intrinsically valuable and worthy of love. I commend your honesty and dedication to healing, and support your journey to find love💗
@@nataliem32 thank you for this positive energy that you have sent my way. 💓 I wish you continuous blessings in your life!
I’m so sorry that happened. Praying for healing for people with stories like this Yours ❤️❤️
Darling you are worthy of unconditional love and so much more! I'm so sorry you experienced what you did, but you will overcome. Love yourself wholeheartedly and everything will fall into place! 💫
Lisa, I've outgrown the belief system ... (in a 100 pages or less?) that says my past dictates what my present and future will look like. My past is not a cookie cutter of my future. I've outgrown believing that no matter how much I've changed, that my love choices, actions, and reactions remain fixated. I let go of the belief that says, "I have to chase and pour my soul into my love interesting to prove my value." I'm ready to be enough by who I am, as I am, and not by what I scarifies for them. I am willing to show up for me* and allow someone to share my journey with me. Thank you, Lisa, for encouraging me to look deeper. 💕
Thanks Lisa, I have outgrown that I can't find love even though I am in a wheelchair today - I won't be in a wheelchair forever - I took myself out to a jazz concert and spent the night in the Hyatt overnight - I had a great time Solo and made a ton of friends ! I plan to do this every quarter - thanks for the example - And I am one year younger than you were when you got married - I can hear the church bells ringing already ! YIPPEE ! Thanks for this great message - Cheers !
Please come back and testify. I believe in you. Luke 1:45, Prov.18:21 ...In the words of Big Mike, you got, you got it!
Lisa. I have outgrown telling the same old stories over and over. I want to make room for new stories.... Love you! Stay well and Be well... Peace and Bountiful Blessings on your marriage and new Love 💘 🙏....
Lisa, I have outgrown not aligning my actions with what I say I want. I need to begin acting the part of knowing I deserve to be loved.
-thank you
“I have trust issues” - whew! 🖐
Thank you for your femininity, extreme beauty, earned knowledge, and cultivated insight! It is very timely and intensely valuable!
Lisa, I’ve outgrown the belief system that I am unworthy of love and of being loved and I trust God is in control of it all!
I've outgrown the belief system that it's okay to accommodate everyone else but myself. I'm learning to be more okay with saying No, for me.
Lisa, I have outgrown the belief system that love is sufferage more than happiness.
I have outgrown the belief system that love is outside of myself..
I didn’t realize I was thinking that relationships are a distraction. I think some people can be harmful to your growth but not ALL relationships are like that. Some truly help you to grow and learn more about life and yourself than you could learn on your own. I trust myself to navigate friendships and build love while I work on building a life for myself. we are all meant to be connected 🤍 no man is an island.
I've outgrown the belief system that I need to meet someone who loves me at my ''I'm not loving myself''
I really resonate with the fear of losing my independence and having a distraction from what I am building by being in a relationship.
I love the picture of you & coach, that color is fire on you both 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏾💙🖐🏾
This video reaffirmed that I am on the right track. I love myself more than ever, consciously meditating to remove my limiting beliefs and last step is on the way. Lol
Hey Lisa! This video comes as such an important time in my life where I’ve been struggling with loneliness and wanting a partner but at the same time learning how to love myself, my newfound independence, and not wanting anyone to ruin the progress I’ve already made. However, I am releasing the limiting belief that I have to be at my best to deserve love! Time and time again, I look at myself and think I’m not good enough yet or when I have my own place or when I have a stable career or when I have the body I desire, I’ll be ready to attract that partner. I also release the belief that I can’t trust people. After so many “friends” and people I associated with, did me wrong more times than I can count, that should not be a reflection on everyone and I know I’ve got to learn how to forgive and let go. Lastly, I am letting go of the belief that love will be a distraction from my goals in life. You may not read all of this and that’s okay! But thank you so much for giving us the tools and the space necessary to make meaningful change happen. I love reflecting after your videos and this one is no exception! Sending lots of love and light your way Sister ✨
I could def relate to this post. Thank you for putting words on how I have been feeling .
Love 💞
I also resonate with this. Thank you for sharing 🙏
This was beautifully said and exactly what I’m feeling too thank you and many blessings to u
I can relate to your post so much! I'm always putting off finding love due to thinking I'm not perfect enough yet. But I'm going to put myself out there. I will take action and try my best while working on myself and trying to be the best version of myself. Thank you for your post it helped me realize what I was doing wrong. I wish you all the best and hope you find the right person for you ❤️
I resonate so much with your comment. ❤️✨
This episode has built me up to take action.
To take action to be madly in love with myself ❤
My existing limiting belief is that I will not be able to keep him because of my baggage. Also, that I will be too old to enjoy the next person when he comes.
I appreciate your talk soooo much. It's time to reframe my thinking.
XOXO Thank you
Lisa, I have outgrown the system of believing I Am not worthy of love
.. I Am worthy to LOVE. Me, and I Am worthy to be LOVED.🎉 🎉🎉
I thought love was a distraction from my career goals… such a limiting belief. Thanks Lisa you dropped pearls of wisdoms 💙🦋
I've outgrown the belief that love is for other people, not me.
#BOL if I fall too in love it will distract me from the things I'm building. This is definitely a limiting belief of mines so thank you for bringing it to light 🙏🏼💚
Thank you so much Lisa. It made me realise how i have been limiting myself by not trusting people and not allowing anyone to get close to me which has denied me the love i want and deserve. You made me realise how muchni need to fall in love with myself and the ways i can do it. I appreciate you so much.
You one in a million. God bless you 🙏
Congratulation Lisai am So Happy for you ❤
The ultimate success factor is to take #action.
Keep moving
Momentum matters
Love it Lisa
Lisa. I have outgrown the limiting beliefs that I can never be a success and achieve Big dreams. I am an overcomer and I love me dearly!
Thank you Lisa! I am ready to release the belief that a relationship is a threat to my career! I will move forward knowing I have enough love to continue pouring into myself and loving my partner. Which will enhance my life
comeThru MamaLisa for Valentine's Day! xoxoxo 2023, Love is OURS
I am growing and learning to love myself after 55+. Eliminating childhood wounds since slowing down and observing circumstances. In the past too busy paying attention to situations out of my control and preparing for my future😏 Now it is time for me to love, respect myself and more importantly let go of things I can not change.
One must examine One self 🙏🏿.
This is so helpful, thank you Lisa. My last relationship broke me and I’ve been terrified at the thought of getting back out there.
Likewise hon.
We got this.
We are worthy and deserving of the best.
Thank you dear
Thanks Lisa for encouraging me, I am now preparing myself for love. I have started to love myself but I don't think I am mastering the art of loving myself. I am going there:)
Lisa, you might not realize how much of an impact this episode is having on our family. It brought many improvements to me and my wife and awakened a hidden happiness we had been looking for. Thanks a lot!
Lisa, I have outgrown the belief system that a man could not just love me, without being attracted to other woman and flirting with any lady that takes their fancy.
Lisa, I’ve outgrown the belief system that I need a man to help me with manly things because then I am with the man on a dependency need versus a healthy desire for love, partnership, and connection.
Lisa, I recently connected with someone and started to worry about how I can let go of limiting beliefs about relationships. Thank you, for sharing this at the perfect time. Yes YES
Thank you Lisa for sharing, transparency helps so many..... sending tons of love, hugs, & kisses. 💙💙🙏🏾 After a narcissist & bigamist husband, it made me weary, but Thank God for healing....
This make-up and hairstyle suits you unbelievably!
😍
You're really beautiful and young.
This is my deepest work while being in action with MTM and Uplift.
I have out grown the belief that I need to please others to be happy and that every one must like me equally
Lisa I've outgrown the belief system that I am not good enough for what I truly desire and I have to settle for less.
I am worthy and I will get what I want and need.
Lisa, thank you, I’ve outgrown the limiting belief that love and high achieving women do not exist in the same place.
That a relationship isn’t worth it if it isn’t exactly what I want.
My beautiful Coach, thank you for sharing your wisdom
Wow, once you said "I felt like a relationship is a distraction". That's exactly how I feel and how it may pull me back from everything I am trying to build.
Great Day Sister,
The journey is…to love myself more than anyone else can possibly love me! As usual, you are a God-send! Blessing & congratulations!❤
I have been sober now for four years and I'm still working on giving myself permission to trust myself again or maybe 🤔 for the first time in my life
This is so powerful and true!! Heaven sent! Thank you Lisa. Will always listen to this🥰💗
My deepest condolences and sympathies 💞 💐🌳 to all Nichol's/Nicholson's families. Asé 🖤🤎🤍🎀
Thank you for sharing this video. You helped me understand that I've been unconsciously rejecting love AND friendships because I believed I wasn't lovable or "enough". I've outgrown the belief system that I'm not enough just as I am to be loved, seen & appreciated by a romantic partner or friends.
I like this message!
Thank u Mrs. 😇
Thank you .
I needed to hear this ❤️Thank you so much 🙏🏾
I love this.
Thankyou ❣️
Thank you, Lisa!
Everything that was said is spot on Lisa❤
Thank you ❤
Gratitude.
Thank you 🙏🏽
HI! Looking very pretty today! This video is a God send! My limiting belief is that the Romantic love of my life/ first marriage was over for me. This video gives me inspiration!
I'm rebuilding my Life and it's no easy task but thankful for your videos that give me great hope that one day I'll be healed from trauma and my heart will be open to receive Love again. Thank you Lisa for motivation and inspiration always😊❤
Thank you for this ❤
Thank you Lisa
I love this! I needed this, thank you! ❤
Love your authenticity!!! Thank you!
So juicy and magnetic!!! Love it 🥰
I loved that part too, am the Cake 🍰 and others are the cherry 🍒 on my Cake 🍰💖💞👏
Lisa I've outgrown the belief system that Somehow I don't deserve a good, healthy and wholesome relationship. I believe I have mastered ❤ myself and as such treat myself very well. I can't wait to share my goodness and wholesomeness with my future husband.
Magic ✨
Thank you so much Lisa🥰🥰🥰
Thankyou Lisa
Thanks