Body Language - CHANGE HOW PEOPLE SEE YOU!!
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- Опубликовано: 7 авг 2024
- They say that 70% of all communication is in the form of body language. In this video you're going to learn how to seem more confident, attractive, and respectable all by simply adjusting your body language.
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"the slower you move the more confident you seem" nice because I move like snorlax not even joking
LOL
i moves like sonic lol
@Joshua Beauchamp LMAO
stephan hawking on fire rn
as long as you dont move as if you were in a matrix movie it might be OK, they say
*Changes posture gradually as video continues*
Real life Mario is an ugly dude.
sameeeeeee
I noticed it after reading your comment! :)
Yeah me to
LOL same XD
I have personal experience with this method.. I used to be suuuuper nervous all the time like social anxiety type of nervousness. So I tried this body language method and it worked.. temporarily.. BUT when you push yourself to do the method over and over again every single day, you do actually become confident (also helps with inner confidence). In this case "fake it till you make it" really does apply. Besides its better to take this kinda action rather than keep wishing that you were more confident!
Thanks a lot! For Such a Great Advise
I tried this method a couple of months ago. It did work at the beginning but I couldn't keep doing it because i started to felt even more uncomfortable and anxious.
Lavish Krish I love you
Womenandm
if u want to be sth its not faking its trying to change your self
You're right, the "chest" is something I look at first. Am I right?
I mean, that is very clear body language revealing your confidence and willingness to mate.
+P
*Whoosh! Right over your head!*
greg77389 ??
he means breasts!
Oh yeah
Move slow
Take up more space
Imorove your posture
Don't force a smile
Man I wish we got taught these types of life lessons during my high school days
SAMEE BRUHH
I guess I m lucky I watched this video in 13/14 years old
@@joudbejok same, im so lucky to find this at my age
Right, so you would fool the police in an interrogation.
They also probably don't teach you to get a lawyer right?
"The slower you movie the more confidence you seem"
Sloths - "confdnce"
*cnfdnc*
Thing about body language is, sometimes the acts you usually know that display insecurity such as the hands in pocket, may be just a normal thing for that person to do. They Are not necessarily insecure, rather just comfortable for him. So before assessing someone using his body language, first develop a baseline of his relaxed or stressed mood to later know what his body is trying to say. For example mention something that would stress the person out, note how his body responds to it. Now you know what his body displays when he's stressed.
yes.. we must analyze our friends, colleagues, everyone...
Wait, I thought putting my hand in my pockets made me look cool?!
Manny Singh me too like laid back or as if I don't care
As I've read it makes you look cool if you keep your thumbs outside of your pocket like in the video, but it makes you look insecure if you put the whole hands in the pocket. I think the video is wrong to be honest.
yea on top of that i thought crossing your legs made you seem more relaxed and laid back.
What are your sources?
same man
We all hear this kind of information time and time again (I know for me it's countless amounts) but I think what helped the most was SLOWING DOWN. Our minds usually move faster than we do so when you realize that you are (or going to be) in a situation that's unnerving; pause, remember, and breathe. Make the needed adjustments and move at a relaxed pace. Easier said than done but everything's better with practice. Great video as always, man.
Jose C but i have adhd
Improvement Pill, may you please bring back that intro sound of the pills shaking, like in your older videos? I always associated that with your brand & it may be smart to bring that back.
dudewat212 I never actually catched that myself, sounds really cool
Haha that sounds great
Please bring it back! :) It matters to me!
yea, it makes a LOT of diference.
Improvement Pill Actually it makes psychological sense if it's about designing. I am new here, so I don't know exactly the intro, but if I hear this it does make your channel more of a profit in a way things comes together and fit to each other. (Maybe now you do know people actually cared about it ;)
"hanging out with your friends"
joke's on you, i don't have friends
bro i gotchu
😂😂😂
3rd
Its have been 4 years did you got friends now?
Wow 70%. I guess that's pretty important. I as your loyal testrabbit will go and try the new stuff tomorrow 😎
Juubes GO RABBIT GOOO!
#testrabbitsquad
Who says 70%?
You probably shouldn't get too caught up in the specific percentage amount
@@ImprovementPill what about people with strabismus eye?
It's weird, I feel pretty confident at times and do all those things without even noticing it a lot of times, but once I see that girl I fancy or even if she is just in the area I lose it all and go back to closed body language which annoys me. Whenever I talk to someone it's pretty easy for me to hold eye contact even though i was very insecure a few years back, i can even hold eye contact with my crush, but I just feel like I lose all my confidence whenever she's there...
You will get there bro
Amazing video! Funny thing is that while doing most of these things, the speed of my movement never occured to me as a trait of confidence! Intuitively I thought slower moving people were perceived as less excited, making them look less confident. But after watching this I can link to a ton of people who indeed appeal more confident because of their slower movements.
Thanks for your always worthwhile videos. This is one of the few channels actually nót wasting time of its viewers :)
I got such an eye open video ever, I have been trying to apply that to my life and I found out that this bodylauguage technique was really working on get rid of my social anxiety, love this video❤️
Thanks! Hopefully this helps with my BangBros interview..
Snoop Dogg funny comment. You made my day.
annoying people
😂
There are many videos on this topic, but this was the clearest and most straightforward that I've seen so far. Great job!
I have been doing exactly the same things you mentioned when one's nervous around someone. Thanks a bunch!
This is really useful as long as you treat everyone as being entirely shallow and superficial literally all the time. If you have to think about this all the time, you're in the wrong place and the friends you win as a result not to be trusted. Were all forced to be in such places, but best not to confuse them with a safe environment.
Hey improvement Pill! Another great video, thanks for all of your content. I have a question about head positioning - what if people are taller or shorter than you, should you still face directly forward and merely use your eyes to account for the difference?
It's a great question! I'm wondering it too. But 6 years. 6 years!!!
imma try it tomorrow!! Thanks for the videos. They help everytime!
Algo muy importante es sentirse bien por dentro antes de querer mostrar una actitud que no va en relación a como te sientes realmente en tu interior, primero hay que enfocarse en tu bienestar emocional real y luego en ''mejorar'' tu comunicación.
I'm ftnb, and this has changed the way people perceive me so much. I'm pretty tall, and I have a naturally androgenous voice(so very thankful for it) my style is pretty loose fitting and casual (you can't see my chest for the most part) but even still, I just wasn't passing. I started following this as much as possible, and working out more, and the difference is night and day. Instead of people assuming I'm a woman, they either assume in a guy, or get hella confused.(literally the best feeling ever)
I move slowly and people just think I'm lazy
I remember years ago when the idea was to maintain eye contact during an interview for instance. I always thought that to be unnatural as many took that to the extreme.. It seemed like those who did this were either in love or psychotic. Neither of which is a good thing.
I've been watching your videos for five minutes and I just don't understand why you don't have 10 million subscribers yet? Bruh.. you're amazing and you deserve so much more than 200 something thousand subscribers oh my gosh I'm subbing right now you're amazing you're such an inspiration can't wait to see your channel grow
Awesome man ! This year I've decided to improve myself as much as possible , and this channel is one of the best of giving tips for doing that , thanks for your videos !
so, the slower move, what about walking fast. I used to walk fast vcz I dont like to waste the time on walk.
it's not just about pace, it's about controlness of movement. if your movements are quick but precise, accurate (and you actually don't mess up stepping on unecessary stuff) that still portrays confidence.
of course, one must also read the occasion. if you're walking with someone and the journey itself is an important part of the time you're spending together (say when you're going home from going out with a friend or when you are going for coffee with a friend and you start hurring before you get there), then walking fast might seem as hurring which would mean "I want this interaction to end quickly".
Also, when you're walking with other people and they perhaps can't keep up to your pace, not slowing down can be seen as arrogantly (as they are making a huge effort to meet at your point, but you're making none to meet at theirs).
True.. park my car and straight walking asap to the counter. Because i dont like wasting to much time,
When I am walking, I walk slow, except when my Schedule is messed up.
thanks again man, lots of love from India!!!
Used most of these method during my presentation, and it was super helpful .. People be talking about how confident I was, and praising me for it. They won't believe me when i told them that i was a nervous wreck while doing the presentation ..
imagine watching this while offline school lol.it's the best hahah,im in school rn
Haha, you've underestimated my power. CONFIDENCE NO JUTSU
3:04 Yes, my life philosophy is that life is all about balance♥️
Congrats on 200k! Its no wonder you have 200k your voice is so relaxing.
congrats on 200k subs bro! been following you since your Deep Convo vid! You really blew up dude, you really deserved it too! Wish you the best for 2017
I think these are all good rules but how should you have your arms by your side without looking weird. I like to have my hands relaxed in my pockets since I always feel awkward with my hands by my sides and that it also looks weird on others.
Hi same I feel awkward as well sometimes I like to hold something in my hand that helps sometimes
Hi Good question. I used to think about it alot and somehow those thoughts disappeared. Maybe because I found the solution.
I dont even think about it anymore and it just happens that I tend to speak alot with my hands or support my head with them.
Or I lean against something and put my thumbs in my backpockets (but rarely).
Just dont focus on it. (I know its ridiculousy hard to do but its all it takes. Because youre overthinking.)
Its not like I sit down and idle, theres always something to do.
Drinking, holding a cigar, eating, occasionally working, touching a woman or something.
obiwanfisher537 yea it's probably the thoughts you're having that's making you feel awkward
It probably feels weird to you because you aren't used to doing it. Do you ever cross your arms? Try crossing them the opposite way from how you normally do and see how it feels. Same basic concept. The more you do anything the more comfortable it will feel to you and the less weird it will look to you.
Hi OMG SAMEEEE IKR
I kinda have to look down though, seeing as I am 9 feet tall
NI!
Being 9 feet tall isn't something to feel lucky about
lol
I highly doubt that you are 9 feet tall
Zac Van someone hasn't seen knights of the holy grail
THE KNIGHTS WHO SAY NI! No ones 9 feet tall nigga
i just want to say your videos and practical psychology have changed my life thank you so much keep up the good work
Omg thanks for this! I literally smile with my teeth ALL the time. It actually makes sense because most of the time it IS forced. But I do like to smile, thanks!
I personally fell on this channel recently ( that's probably the coolest thing I found this months) and I would like to tell you that I really enjoy every single work you have done. I have a lot of gratitude to you because your work really helps me to stay focus on my objectives and keep motivate ! In addition, we probably share the same values, it could be so awsome to meet you in real life and talk around a coffee.
Stay the same, you're an inspiration for many people.
Hope you will have a perfect day !
A swiss Sub :"))
nice vid man I love your content
Keep up the good work man. I will change my way of sitting beacouse of your vid thank you very much...
That's amazing, i've been looking for a good summary of body language, thanks a bunch!
So true.... Besides the perception part, it also improves your mindset as you feel more confident.
this is good i do most of theese already
same :P
joshua mangan but i feel so awkward placing my hands at my side like it's uncomfortable
I do to but then I still get nagtive feedback
actually a drink shows a lot about people. Like if you have water or if you have a margarita or just a beer it shows what kind of person you are to a group depending on how many people you associate with. Putting your hands in your pockets can show that you are relaxed or comfortable around the people you are around or unconfedent if you are by yourself. Crossing your arms and having a strong posture could mean you are an alpha male or if you are a girl it could mean you are strong and indepentend or pissed. People act differently around other people so if you have one social pattern with one group of people it could be completely different with another.
A friend of mine literaly came into the room just after watching the video and the things you recommendet where actualy very helpful!
yesterday I commented on practical psychology. I asked about body language. You made a video about it.
you and practical psychology have become my favourite youtubers!
keep going
Phoenix Wright in the thumbnail. The most important thing of the body language : OBJECTION :D !
Guys, make sure to keep your hygiene up. Knowing you do your part to stay clean is big confidence booster.
I love this channel!
I bet by the end of this year this channel will be far beyond 1 million subscribers!
I was just thinking about when the pill's gonna post. Awesome
holding a drink actually looks good, have to disagree with that
otherwise nice video ;)
Maybe if you hold it by your side, just not obstructing your chest
Kim Hu I trust improvement pill over a minecraft fanboy any day m8
Holding a blunt looks more sophisticated
Only intellectuals can do so
2:50 "eyes wanted" typo. Should be "eyes wander"
Just a heads up.
Your tips are way too right and I would really appreciate if you make more videos on this particular topic because many things you said and showed in the video where applicable on me. I want to over come this feeling of sudden rush of anxiety and pressure and I really want to be more potent.
Thanks man!! it was a very good video. Please just put more details in the next video and try and elaborate more of the sub topics!!
Head held high, back in great posture, arms folded one hand touching the side of your rib cage, and the other hand underneath the other elbow. confidence!
Can you make another video about Body language??
If you do so, add something about body language in presentations!
yeaa, this kind of videos are really helping us out
I heard
52% Body Language
38% Tone
7% Actually what you say.
52%+38%+7%=97% Where's other 3%?
@@krishnalagiya6418 3% your muscles and jawline
100% your atman
I studied this pre a job interview, and they wanted to hire me on the spot. Thanks great work.
It's amazing people struggle smiling genuinely. I went through deep depression a couple of years back and all throughout my childhood actually, and I'm a realistic man, not positive or negative, but one thing I can always do is smile genuinely, it's just natural. People are turning so empty and cold, it's a shame.
When I try to smile I look awkward and nervous
obiwanfisher537 I agree that's very true, I'm not unhappy I just mean I feel uncomfortable when people are laughing at something or im expected to smile so I have a nervous smile and I look as if I'm scared/nervous/uncomfortable which I am. It's weird to just stare at someone with a blank face so I try to smile. Should I just not smile if it isn't a genuine smile? What should I do instead?
mayte986 Oh thats what you meant. RUclips is just like betting on horses...
Well I never had those problems, or thoughts, before. But I generally smile alot. Maybe thats a weakness anyways.
Theres a question uprising: Why do you feel like you habe to smile? Which situation, ever, gave you that emotion?
obiwanfisher537 let's say they tell me a joke or they're trying to be funny/ say something that's expected to be funny and I might get it but it doesn't make me laugh out loud wouldn't it be weird to not smile
Or maybe even rude or mean
mayte986 You sound like you have a hard time expressing your emotions? Do you often get mistaken with a stone?
Thanks for the amazing video!I have one question: During a conversation i'm supposed to look at the person i'm speaking to for the 80% of the time. Where should i look for the remaining 20? i don't wanna seem disinterested :3.
lorenzo lama Look somewhere down or to a further object somewhere near. in a natural way, there is no bad solution
iGhost Armored Warfare thanks man!
Improvement Pill Gotcha, thanks man! Keep up the good work!
I was doing the slow your body thing thinking it was a great idea before watching your video, AND IT WAS. so happy that i guessed one of the tips
Probably one of the best youtube channels. Simply amazing
2:23
Dam this guy really knows he's audience
People often complain about me speaking too loud. Are there any exercises you'd recommend for me to change that?
Guilherme Ferrão I relate lol
Improvement Pill Alright, thanks
Me too. Fuck them, I DON'T SPEAK THAT LOUD.
Rusty Dreams Haha, I don't know about you but I certainly do. The other day I was telling this guy in my class a joke and without even realizing the whole class was laughing at it including the teacher 😂😂
Sam problem here.
I consider myself as a very confident teenager & I do all these things that you've mentioned. I love your channel btw :D xxxx
I have just been improving myself in other ways and now I am doing these things naturally.
"Those who find me find life, and Lord will be pleased with them. " Proverbs 8: 35
How to get rid of bad habits ?
practicing and getting out of your comfort zone
You could start with just doing less your bad habit.
try journaling,and after 4 or 5 days read what your wrote and detect were your mistakes were made and how you could change(you cant totally remove a habbit).And read books with studies on habits,like the Power of habit and Better than before,hope it helps.Plus,for better organization of time,ALWAYS MAKE LISTS OF YOUR TAKS DAILY.ALWAYS.
Shpetim Pacolli Depends on the habit - is it an addiction? (he's made a video on that) Mind elaborating?
hey thanks a lot guys
I respect the hard work you have put in to create this quality content video.
Thank you for making this video,you are doing a really awesome work man!
Small correction. 70% of communicate in form of body language is accurate only in instances in which verbal message and body language doesn't match. Such as in instances in which someone says "I love you", with arms crossed and angry frown in the face. In instance such as this, the message is not consistent and then non-verbal sights are becoming much more significant,
"Save the teeth smile for special occasions (*touching*)"
Uhh lol what do you mean by that
I really appreciate that you showed the last slide that shows all the other slides! :D
I cant describe how useful this video is for me, thanks for creating
This is not easy for introverts
Parabalani
I think, that's kinda the point...
To get you more extroverted.
Hey, it's gotta start somewhere !!!
Baby steps man that's where it all starts
I feel I’m an introvert but I have no trouble maintaining a confidence in body language
the thing is that, even the slightest things you do at a time, you see a change in how people percieve you, and that gives you power and power should give you confidence.
whos says that? just dont by afraid of new things,.
who the hell dislikes stuff like this it's so stupid
Meena Kaur Ive never seen a video without dislikes.
obiwanfisher537 i've seen it...in my own channel
Meena Kaur extreme feminists maybe "spread your legs apart" XD
eyeballs are delicious hahahaha i guess so i mean all videos have dislikes but why people dislike stuff made to help them is beyond me
Thanks a lot for the video. I'm going to start using this right now
Like ur havin a good day... I lost it 😂😂😂 lmao
"let your eyes wanted for 20%...." 3:00
i was actually criticized ( in a joking way) about my crossed arms while i was sitting in a bar with some people i met through a friend, i will admit i was feeling a bit nervous that day since im not used to going out and meeting new people and i did the crossed arms thing subconsciously but now that i know about it ill be taking steps to show more confidence in my body even if im not feeling it
The best body language video , thanks !
Eye contact? But, what *eye* do you look at 😭
Feminists in 3..2..1
Amazing vid, helped me a lot, I tens to forget these
It really helps. Thanks for making this video
Great content! Keep up the good work.
man I'm a gangster, ain't no body got time for this
Differential Equations ok...
K brah 😂
Comedy gangster
stfu please.
Guys tomorrow I am going to meet my girlfriend parents. and I end up looking for confidence tips. please pray for me
How did it go?
@@cherrycat5599 very well I acted like a presidential candidate and kept imagining that and it really paid off.
@@AlaaAdile nice
I love these videos to brush up on my social skills
Dude your advice is so boss hahaha that slow part made me laugh so much ! Thank for the advice man
*gasp* Did Improvement Pill just tell us to....MANSPREAD!?
*TRIGGERED*
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
So basically stand like Cristiano Ronaldo
This is amazing, thank you!
Imporvement Pill Your My Inspration For Live I Got A Lot of Benfits with When I Was Watching You Video Thank You soooooo Much Of Helping me improving my life and body langugae Thank YOU....
at 4:38 every feminist ever was triggered
Bullshit... You just act like a badass and feel like one , that's confidence ( little bit of arrogance|trust in self ) , be cool and relaxed (chill) the best thing to do is to make sure that you also have the facts to back you up , not only your attitude... Read books , workout , do things that are out of your comfort zone. For example I like to keep my hands in my pants because it's relaxing , does this mean that I am not confident ? No! It means that I like to chill , btw if you keep your chest caved inward you will look even more beastly ( this only if you workout , the muscle on your back around your neck will look bigger and will make you look scarier) the main thing is your attitude and how you react to things or how you carry yourself , your attitude will be shown in your body language , no matter how much you will try to hide it ... Eventually people will see your insecurities , your mindset is very important when it comes to confidence .
Pug Bandito Lol , okay :D !.
Gotta show the gains
Dick twice a day And chill plus Reptilian Hunter hahaha true :)
Archons Yeah I lost interest when he said not to do certain things like with your arms some people are confident with their hands in their pockets and I used to be the kind to hold my arm and yet I felt confident! This guys is giving false information. There is not just "1" type of confident person. There are shy confident people, awkward confident, and pointing feet is who we are lol. This guy has weird conclusions.
It's not about how you feel, it's about how others perceive you.
I suddenly find out your channel...it has amazing content..!!
Please make video on how to ask questions in the classroom...or how to confidently present your self in the classroom
It's a request from your new subscriber!
so glad I found this channel, honestly.
I really love this channel, it's life-changing at least for me. It's provided me great improvements in my life and I really appreciate your effort! cheers!