BICURIOUS VS BISEXUAL: WHATS THE DIFFERENCE?
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so if I’m incapable of getting a boyfriend or girlfriend, I’m just bi-myself...
hahha good one
this >>>>
Emma Henry omg yes
Me
Yup
i'm nervous that if i say i'm bi, when i'm really bi - curious, people are going to be angry
I just dodge any questions about my sexuality.
i think hetroflexible (bi curious) will settle dwn with opposite gender, have kids, but may go through a man hating stage..or experiment in their party years, i kno alot of girls who av flexed over to female as a 1 off but never had a gf, never planned a future, soon as they get mre mature they just default/gravitate towards men, thts y alot of lesbians see them as "straight girls in disguise
it's ok and totally valid to explore your identity !! if a label helps you then go for it
Omg me too
Oh I feel that one so hard.
I think i'm definitely bi-curious
ou!
Same? Idk just looked it up to see what my friend ment ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Beautiful Jaa yeah same
Same
@@ItsAmandaWan am I bi if I let a guy give me oral sex but have no interest in a relationship with him as I love woman
My situation is funny because I know that I'm into dudes, but I want to experiment with both sexes. I know my sexuality, I just haven't "used" it yet.
that's okay!
@@ItsAmandaWan You replied!!!!! And thank you💛💛💛💛💛💛
This is mee (im a girl btw)
@@ItsAmandaWan OMG I was bicurious but decided to have oral XXX with another guy and to my surprise I liked it, now I feel betrayed by my own feelings and how my body reacted (with total pleasure towards the event). Now I don't know what to do. I thought that by answering the bicurious question I would solve the issue once and for all but now it seems worse since my feelings had intensified. I don't know what to do.
Haha i know the feeling
It's nice to know others are confused as well😂 I think I'm bi curious
confusion is reaaaaal. most people trying to discover their sexuality are likely confused.
@@ItsAmandaWan tru dat bro ahh thank u for that 😂
Finally....inner peace..
@@ItsAmandaWan Is bi curious a sexuality or is it just a phase you go through while still identifying as straight?
@@cloudysky7841 bi curious is either a straight or gay feeling they may like both but are unsure. So no, bicurious is not a sexuality..it is a period of confusion. Lol
I am 13 and bi-curious. I'm not interested in sexual experiences...because I'm 13...but I'm definitely wondering weather it could be possible for me to have a relationship with the same gender in the future.
-2 years later update-
Now identifying as queer (and out) and definitely not a cis girl (closeted on that part), more boy-leaning but still not sure 100%
I started using queer because i found it more freeing as I'm also on the aroace spectrum somewhere and just generally sexuality is hard to define especially with my gender issues .-. so yeah!
if you're thinking about it, it's forsure possible ! take your time . xx
Omg! I'm going through the same thing at the moment!!! :)
This video helped me a lot.
Same here
Ey same cray-Z
same! im also 13 and I started thinking 'im not against dating another female and I think it would be a god experience'
The only thing that I now I am is sexually confused
Im sorry! you got this!
I feel like im bi-curious. I don't think I'm "straight" enough because I have slight crushes/sexually attracted on girls. But I don't think im "bisexual" enough because I haven't really picture myself marrying a girl, and labeling myself as bi is still a lil bit uncomfortable/awkward for me. It's pretty confusing because sometimes I like boys then I like masculine girls then boom i like feminine girls i wanna marry them then boom again I like boys.
Thanks for this video, I think I'm pretty comfortable with labeling myself as bi-curious.
Edit: holy shit i forgot that i replied to this video. Anyway, im bi and im more attracted to men! Take your time guys. It's okay to be confused and it's okay to not have a label!
Paula Holding MEEEE like i would rather do more things with girls than guys (i’m a girl) but then some days i’m like “would i really spend the rest of my life with a girl or not?”
Hetroflexible
Congrats on finding yourself! I wish I could do it that quickly. I want to experiment but the question is who would I do it with?
Same here. I don't have any intentions on marrying a woman but Ik I had a sexual experience with a woman for the 1st time and I didn't enjoyed it as much bc I was involved in a poly relationship with her. If it was monogamous, then maybe. I'm so used to having strong sexual attraction to men but not with women at all. I believe that I'm bi-curious and I'm proud of it!
Same girl same! It’s all good!
I think I'am bi-curious. Im trying not to think about it too much
Same
same
i think hetroflexible (bi curious) will settle dwn with opposite gender, have kids, but may go through a man hating stage..or experiment in their party years, i kno alot of girls who av flexed over to female as a 1 off but never had a gf, never planned a future, soon as they get mre mature they just default/gravitate towards men
the saddest part of my life is that I am living in homophobic country, I can't really experiment and think about it entirely
I’m bi-curious and scared because I’m young 13 and I feel like people will think I’m to young. Which makes me feel like giving all this time to think about this for nothing and I’m actually just straight.
edit (1 year later) - hey! it’s been around a year since then and i’m bi and am so happy. i’m not out to family but i feel content with myself which is all that matters. now that we’re in quarantine i feel as if we’re with our minds a lot so we think about this stuff so try not to get to stressed out over it. it takes time. i hope you have a good time tho on your journey hehe of self discovery. i’m only 14 so i have a long way to go.
You're never too young to know who you are.
ItsAmandaWan - Thank you so much ♥
•Brooke•
I feel like this aswell! :)
This video was very helpful.
We’re on the same boat 😔
• Brooke • it’s normal to question your sexuality, we’ve all done it. you don’t need to share it with anybody. you can go and say it if you feel comfortable doing so :)
Okay so I guess I'm coming out as bi-curious. Right now.
yay!
I could never to my religious homophobic family
@@Bluddiestblud just believe in yourself, I did too and infact, I'm a small town girl from a very conservative traditional family too. Just have faith in yourself and your own choices, everything will turn out great ❤️❤️best wishes to you
fangirl24/7 ❤️
Well it was good to hear that being "just curious" about being with the same sex is totally okay and it doesn't mean I'm actually bisexual. Still a bit confused because I admire women the way I can men, like I see how beautiful they are. Also I have kissed with one of my girl friends and it was good. I'd still like to kiss more girls, even thought that I'm in a heterosexual relationship right now. So... well I surely am confused about if I'm still "just curious" or if that's a bit more. Still not feel bisexual to be honest. This topic can be very confusing but I'm always glad to learn more :)
It's definitely complicated. I mean i'm dating a guy now, but i've also dated girls. It's difficult to understand but if you feel like you can be romantic and sexual with both, perhaps you are! Hope it all becomes more clear soon!
i think hetroflexible (bi curious) will settle dwn with opposite gender, have kids, but may go through a man hating stage..or experiment in their party years, i kno alot of girls who av flexed over to female as a 1 off but never had a gf, never planned a future, soon as they get mre mature they just default/gravitate towards men
Can I be bisexual, but not biromantic? Cause I know I am sexually attracted to both, but I can’t see myself dating a girl.
edit:
Well, guess I didn’t really understand what is sexual attraction. Nowadays I’m pretty sure I’m asexual or at least in the a-spec... and probably biromantic
When I think about dating a girl it's a little weird and I'm not sure this is for me, but when my crush is a girl it's not weird at all to think this way
I'm in the exactly same situation with you.
And because of feeling like that, i identify myself as bi-curious
Lemoon but it’s not like I wonder how it would be like to be with a girl, I actually want it sometimes. I just don’t know if I would be able to have a serious relationship with her, if that makes sense...
Lemoon I mean, I’ve had a crush on girls a few times
@@carolinainacarato9399, yep, same here. I totally understand
i’d definitely say i’m bi-curious for now.
recently i’ve started to question myself bc there’s a girl on tik tok i’ve seen and suddenly i’m VERY attracted to her personality and looks. and it’s not like a regular girl crush like zendaya where i would be like she’s so damn pretty. i’m actually attracted to this girl in a different way than i normally would be. i know for a fact that i’m into guys and some of my friends could tell you i’m a little boy crazy but i’ve definitely been attracted to handful of girls. no one that i’ve known personally yet which is what’s keeping me from actually being able to identify as bisexual or straight in the long run. i’ve never dated anyone before and i’ve only had REAL feelings for one guy (but i’ve has tons of crushes on guys and a few girls) so it’s a bit hard figuring things out and i know i have so much time since i’m only 15 but i just hate being confused. i have zero patience and just want a definite answer but i know i won’t be getting one for a while.
omg sameeee
same here!!
Hey im felling the same way. It’s been 5 months, did you have your definite answer yet? So i can get hopes on mine
despite of age you just described my exact situation in details
I can’t tell if I’m straight or bi. I think that I just don’t want to be bi, but am bi? Or maybe I’m just not bi. Am I bi curious??? I’m super confused
Edit: I’m almost 90% sure that I’m bisexual. Guys can be pretty good, but girls are just- anyways, I think I’m going through a man hating stage rn tho to be fair. Idk. Guys just make me mad easily. (No offense to any guys reading this! I haven’t met u so idk that!)
i think hetroflexible (bi curious) will settle dwn with opposite gender, have kids, but may go through a man hating stage..or experiment in their party years, i kno alot of girls who av flexed over to female as a 1 off but never had a gf, never planned a future, soon as they get mre mature they just default/gravitate towards men.
@@bankaihadouken1180 this is meee
go with whatever your heart says. if you feel like you are attracted to both sexes, (even just a little), then you might be either bi-curious or bisexual.
Bankai Hadouken I pretty sure that’s gonna be me
That’s the same for me. I just want to be straight and like the opposite gender and not like the same gender too or just the same gender but I might be bi?
One of my best friends came out as bi-curious, and I really appreciated your help 😊.
I think I'm bicurious but I had a girl crush... I think it was a crush... Omg I'm so confused!!
if you see yourself being able to DATE someone of the opposite sex then perhaps you are BISEXUAL!
@@ItsAmandaWan and lf im a girl wanting to date an girl but at this age just not sex same with boys btw? what than
i was never bi curious tbh,,,,, in the past i would always shut down the idea of being with a girl because i already like dudes so. but when i went to high school there was this girl that i,,,, had a crush on. that was when i looked back to things i use to do when i was younger. weird things = gay things. stuff started to add up.
TRUST!! this is how i felt
I've been there just never fully explored it.
Same
I’m bicurious. I’m a girl who likes girl but idk who else. I’m *pretty* sure I like guys, but I’m not 100% yet. Bicurious is a very comfortable label for me.
I might be bicurious because for a straight person, I am pretty gay. I’ve never been attracted to a man in the same way I am to women, but If I am asked a question about if another man is attractive, I know my answer immediately.
Edit: if I were to put an estimated percentage on my attraction, I would say that I am at least 80% heterosexual
yay i figured it out. *finally*
I'm really confused. I would definetly consider myself as open minded, means i am really interested in different sexualities and the whole lgbtq+ scene, which i always found a bit odd, but i never questionned me being straight.. although i've never had any sexual/romantic interactions wether with boys or girls. But in the last few weeks i have been really confused :/
Someboy got some advice for me?
Same i've been like- reallyyyy confused for the past month, but i try not to think about it to much and give it time. Just know you don't need to put a label on yourself like straight or bi :)
Me too, cuz like I can see myself being with both genders, but I’ve never really had any actual crushes or interest in romance and only really had crushes on male celebrities(which are very few). Like I see myself as someone who’s just very open minded to dating gender, but never considered myself as anything else but straight until recently, so now I’m just really confused.
Also never have had any experience in anything with either gender, so idk if I’m bi, bi-curious, or just a straight person who doesn’t really care.
@@Hannah-ur3ks same im rlly rlly confused, and the worst thing abt is I told my friends I'm bi curious, and they think I'm bi so I have to keep correcting them and they keep pressuring me to come out or smth even tho I'm 13
@@Hannah-ur3ks I absolutely relate with this
Thank you for teaching me what school never will
Sucks how school doesn’t have LGBT+ stuff in sex education
Ahh, thank you for explaining it. I recently just came out as Bi- curious but with experimentation or like I think it would be a nice experience cause I'm barley 13 💀
Cause I really admire and love women but don't know if I like them :)
That makes sense! It can take time sometimes!
Thiz is meee
to anyone sexually confused, I am on this journey with you. Whatever you think you are, I hope you accept and love yourself no matter what your sexuality is. You are beautiful and amazing and you have every right to be who you are and live the life you deserve without judgment. Surround yourself with good uplifting people who will accept you no matter what your sexuality may be. But mostly, love yourself throughout this entire journey. You are learning, you are growing, you are beautiful. Don't judge yourself and be open to anything! Sending lots of love :) You'll get there, I believe in you. Love yourself because you are beautiful no matter what!
Thank you for this!
I was bicurious about 1 or 2 years ago, and now I am confident that I can be with a man, or a woman.
Bicurious? Me? Oyes!
I'm bicurious but not about kissing a man. I think that would be gross. Im curious about without going into detail, the feel of it. Weird huh?
I’ll go out on a limb. I’m not sure what words can be used on RUclips. But I love me some female an (V) But theirs always Curiosity. I lnow what I feel like hard before an during exploding and what I taste like. But I wouldn’t kiss a guy. But have wondered what another feels like before an during exploding and the taste of it’s. And knowing the way I’m throbbing during exploding. Theirs some wonder of another’s inside of me with that happening. For me it’s less about the actual guy but more about his thing itself. If that makes sense.
I feel like I’m bi curios but idk, I try to ignore when ppl talk abt my sexuality because it makes me uncountable and my bsf isn’t rlly big on lesbians, etc because she had a problem like that and she was super uncomfortable and I feel like I would be a disappointment even tho my mom is acceptable I just don’t want to be judged, because I do think abt kissing girls and shit but at the same time I feel like it’s wrong...?
I feel like I think about kissing the same sex, but would be too scared to actually do it. But then the bisexual one also makes sense attraction wise. But I don't know if I'd actually go through with it. Its confusing omg. But thank you for this video I do think it clarifies things a bit more.
So I need someone’s help. I’m 18 but, For the past few years (starting in middle school) I’ve been sexually confused. I’ve only dated guys but I’ve had a few crushes on females here and there. It’s like, Im not against sexuality but it’s like I feel like it’s wrong for me to be anything but straight. I just feel so cornered 🙁 and I’m currently dating a guy. How do I sort this out?
I actually came out while I was dating a guy! It's hard and super confusing, especially if you are in a relationship as you can't "test it out" and "experiment" as I would say. To confirm, it would not be wrong of you to be anything but straight! Be who you are! You have to differentiate if these are just curious feelings or real ones? Would you picture yourself dating another woman?
Definetly bi-curious at least, I’ve had a crush on a person of the same gender at my schools for a while now, but will have to experiment. I will update when I have!
My Question is, if i am bi-curious, am i a part of the lgbtq+?
Im pretty sure its just a term and not apart of the community
Not sure tho so dont take this as a 100% right answer. correct me if im wrong
I think so. I assume you would be in the Q “questioning” of LGBTQ+
@@LBAW true true
Someone please enlighten me because I don't know how to define this...
I have only been sexually attracted to (and had relationship with) men my whole life but when it comes to girls who are tomboy-ish or even transgender ppl (not necessarily transitioned) I find myself extremely captured by some of them. It's mostly in a platonic way and not sexual - like I'm attracted to their personality but don't feel the need to go to bed with them (not saying I would refuse if I had the chance but it's not my priority).
Also when it comes to men I find those more attractive with a bit of feminine features in them (personality and/or appearance wise) basically men who don't fight so desperately to oppress their feminine side. However.... in a sexual way I only get if I look at a photo of a shirtless fit guy; girls' visuals and nice bodies impress me too but I'm just admiring them I don't feel anything.
I'm so confused lol I don't know if that made any sense.... sorry if it didn't.
Am I pancurious or is this something else? Because I still consider myself a straight female....
i met this girl at a theatre production, she’s like three years older than me and i found myself falling in love with her. BUT I’VE ALSO HAD A CRUSH ON THIS GUY FOR FIVE YEARS. yep i think it’s time i admitted it to myself. i am bi-curious.
i'm glad you were able to admit and accept it!!!
That's biromantic. Romantic and sexual attraction are different things. What is your sexuality?
There’s this shirt on Amazon that says “I like my men how I like my women” haha
The first time I was attracted to guy was in my junior year. We were both Into Fitness and diets so the friendship clicked pretty fast. Nothing happened but I knew I was crushing on him because I would get the same feelings when I like a girl.
I did identify as bi, until last night i realised i might just be straight..only bc i have only thought a handful of girls were sexually attractive, and i don’t even know them. I’ve seen so many pretty girls on tik tok but i don’t feel sexually attracted, only some girls i have. I also don’t see myself in a relationship with a girl because i don’t think i would like them or i’m even capable of getting in a relationship with a girl! i’m just confused... maybe i’m just straight but i don’t really want to..
tysm for making this video! Lately, I have been suuuuuuper confused. Like before these past couple months, I thought I was hands down, no questions asked, undeniably straight. Later tho, I started crushing really hard on this one girl. Which sort of made me think. Is this just a one-time thing? Or am I actually bi? Or bicurious?
Im still tryna figure things out. But this video definitely helped me get one step closer towards understanding myself. So i really appreciate it! Thank you!
Aw! Thank you super glad this was able to help!! hope you stick around and subscribe for more content if you enjoyed this one! xx
@@ItsAmandaWan Yes absolutely! I will definitely check out your other content too!! Thanks again
I never doubted being straight. It was basically clear to me. But lately im just confused. I don't know if I want to be them or if I want to be with them??
hmm that's always tough! but you'll figure it out!
You’re so pretty (:
And thank you for your help (;
aw thanks!!
Someone had told me I was bi curious because I said I liked girls but have never been with one, this helps out alot in being able to get the real meanings behind the two classifications
i came out as bi and all my friends tease me about girls all the time and like lately i’ve been thinking and like i definitely see myself having a relationship with a girl but not a sexual one? but with guys i’m not comfortable with the idea of doing anything sexual either so now i’m questioning my sexuality but also thinking maybe i just don’t like the thought of sex
Maybe experiment more and see where that leads? Be safe when doing so though!
Maybe asexual?
There are different types of it. Maybe you find yourself in the description of that.
I told my at the time best friend ( and ex boyfriend) that I was maybe a tiny bit bicurious because I had a 5 minute crush on a girl and he was the only one I told and I asked him not to tell anyone and he told everyone, he told every single person that I am gay :S
I have nothing against any sexuality but I don’t like that 1. He betrayed me 2. He lied about my sexuality 3. He used it to make himself better because I was the one to break up with him.
We were friends and he completely betrayed me and completely broke the trust
I'm so sorry you went through that. I unfortunately went through a similar situation, and at the end of the day we know our true selves and who we are and that's what matters.
@@ItsAmandaWan Thank you 🙏🏼❤️ I am sorry that you went through something similar as well.
Does it works if (I am a guy) who knows I like guys a lot but I think I might like girls too, am I bicurious?
Yes
Liamii yes, bisexual/biromantic isn’t exclusive to ‘straights’ realizing they’re bi, vice versa
liah pinball oki thanks😊
I’m afraid ppl will say “oh you’re bicurious?? That’s an offence to lgbt+ bc it makes lgbt+ look like who we’re attracted to is a choice”
Like idk...... or maybe I’m just tryna get attention and feel inclusive to lgbt+ 💀💀💀
No - I haven’t heard that. It’s just a stage of when you’re figuring it out and all
I just say I’m queer
I haven’t figured it out yet
😎😍
that's totally okay!
My friend mentioned something about being bi and I was like “lol same” and then “hahah FRICK” cause I actually told them that I’m bi and now I’m scared its been a day and nothings happened but I’m not even 100% sure that I’m bi and shhsbshhsjsi
i hope it's going well!
Good video, it helped clear some things up for me. I'm pretty certain I'm bi curious now, but I'm in a straight relationship that's not going well, which makes things complicated. Plus, I was raised in a religious family that made me push deep down some feelings that I've had about the same sex, which makes having a relationship with a girl seem hard because I know my family would always judge it. Like, in middle school I was ONLY attracted to girls, but that freaked me out so I dealt with it until I finally had a crush on a guy eventually. Ah, life lol
I totally understand, i was also raised religious and was always taught its a man and a woman, then i finally realized who i was!
What about if I’m sexually attracted to the same sex but not emotionally 😭💀 like I’d never date a girl but I’d.......
That’s okay! That’s normal. A lot of people experience this!
_i don't care of any gender, but i am bi-curious._
Bisexual female-somebody who can date male or female, settle down, marriage, meet the parents.
Hetroflexible female- u can flex over to females as one off's, but u could only marry, have kids with a man plus u are naturally drawn to the masciline/feminine chemistry.
yes
I think I’m bisexual but everyone I know is very religious including myself, so I have no one to talk to about it. I don’t want to mislabel myself and I’m confused, and I don’t know how I can be religious and bisexual... help 😖
I think the reason why I’m not as religious as I used to be is how non-inclusive it is. No where does it say no one can love who they love. You can definitely be religious and bisexual.
@@ItsAmandaWan ok, thank you. I still believe in God and now I am almost 100% sure I am bisexual. Thank you for the reassurance, I’m glad to know that there are people I can relate to ❤️
I am straight with a little curve
Ok maybe not that little xd
Hahahah love it
I have a girlfriend and I'm a girl. But I'm definitely bi-curiuos
Ou that’s good!
what about physically disabled people who aren't physically able to go out and have sexual encounters? how do we know for sure we're bisexual if we have never had a sexual experience with a person?
I have always thought of myself as straight (I am female), but recently I've just been wondering if I might possibly be bi. I'm still unsure about it, so I think I might just be bi-curious. The problems are that I already have a boyfriend, and he supports the LGBT+ community, but I don't know how he would react if I was bi. Additionally, my parents don't hate the LGBT+ community, but they don't really support them, so it kinda worries me about what might happen if I were to decide that I was bi. I'm also wondering if maybe this is just me admiring other ladies or being actually attracted to them. I'm just unsure, so I think I just need to think about it.
fun fact: i came out as bisexual while i was dating a guy, he was supportive at the time! my parents i also had no clue how they would react and it ended up going well. having experiences is the easiest way to truly know but i defs understand how it can be confusing. time will tell! you got this.
@@ItsAmandaWan Thank you! It really means a lot🥰
I just trend to overthink things a lot
Idk I’m interested in male parts but I don’t like guys, like I’d rather hit it up with a trans so is that the same thing?
Look up "heteromantic bisexual"
I’m definitely ✨ bi ✨
yayyyy, welcome to the fam!!!
I’m only curious because I’ve never been with a woman but I know 100% that I am very sexually and physically attracted to women, maybe even more than men. My issue is that I’m not romantically attracted to women, only romantically attracted to men, and because I rely on romantic attraction, I only ever wanted to date and be with a man. And my physical attraction to women was always summed up to “its normal to find an attractive person attractive.”
It took for me to turn 30, and getting married to finally realize, hey, I get aroused by women more than men. But hell at this point I wonder if it even matters since I’m happily married to a man. But I’ve been on a journey of self discovery which has led me to this video. I don’t ever think I’d tell anyone I know because I feel like it doesn’t matter what I find attractive since I already found my soulmate. But I still admire beautiful men and women from afar.
You can admire peoples beauty from afar and that is totally okay! I'm happy you discovered yourself and who you are AND I am also happy you are happily married!
Not sure if I agree. The definition pf bi is to feel some form of attraction to more than one gender. Doesn't need to be "sure" or "certain". And bicurious is just sexual experimentation interest, not romantic or emotional.
I think I’m bi-curious but I did look into my past and I remember I use to watch girls kissing and I liked it I use to listen to these songs and it was basically about these girls falling in love with each other I don’t think I understood exactly what it meant but I’m pretty sure I only clicked on it because I liked that so yeah. When I was little I did look up that stuff and I also remember when I downloaded a app and it said that I probably would date the opposite gender and once I read that I got very scared because I thought it meant that I’d be with the same gender so I got scared and thought wait do I like girls to like I started to think and got scared like I found out I liked girls to but I mean I did just misunderstand but idk why I automatically thought that way I ended up brushing it off. now in 2021 I’m 12 years old and once COVID started I was really starting to think about it and I kept saying maybe I do like girls to but right after I would have those thoughts I ended up being so mean to myself and told myself no your straight but I feel like the only reason why I said that is because I was scared because if I truly was I would have to tell my family so after that it just made me question even more and it just made everything even more difficult and I also remember when my Friends would ask me what my sexuality was and I always would say I’m straight but every single time I said that I had a deep feeling that I was lying to myself anyways. I went to the dentist yesterday and I saw this girl she had blonde hair black glasses I saw her and automatically thought that she was hot I kept staring at her because I thought that and then she came over to me and I got nervous and was like omg she’s hot and yeah but right now I think I’m just bi-curious
The actual problem I have is that I can imagine myself with a girl , both in a a sexual relationship and a normal relationship, and I kind of like it..? But that just make me more and more confused about my sexuality . It's like I like fantasies in which I have a girl with me and all but at the same time... I just don't know . Anyways thanks for the video! It was helpful
okay so I know I'm into guys and I had almost no female crush ever, but I often think about kissing a girl, etc.? And I imagine everything to be really great but I don't feel like being in a relationship with a girl??? Now I'm just confused if maybe it's because I need a crush in order to think about relationships bc I can't imagine any relationship rn (and that's on having trust issues lol)
But whenever I say to myself "Hey Anna you might be bi" it just feels right?? Like the word just tastes like it does belong here?? Idk how to explain I'm just worried that if I'd out myself as bi and I never really get in a relationship with a girl or I never have sex with one (even tho I'd kinda like to) I'm faking it?? But then again why would I do that?? I just feel like I'm definitely not straight ugh.
Love that nutcracker in the background.
hahaha thanks
I'm doubly screwed because while I'm interested sexually in both sexes I'm only interested romantically in the opposite sex...so now I'm stuck wondering if I'm bisexual and heteroromantic or just making stuff up in my head
I was bi-curios for literally 8 years... Then I accept it that I'm bisexual. I'm a bisexual queen. But I still not sure about all my feelings, which is totally okay. You don't need to know everything about your sexuality to describe yourself as bisexual. Be not afraid. We are great people.
exactly!!!! you don't need to know everything right away!
What if i am romanticly attracted to guys and i girls, but i cannot imagine like having a sexual relation to a girl?
hmm tbh not too sure! could be bi-curious?
this made me more confused lmfao. I'm not really bi curious because i know for a fact that i want to be with girls (i am a girl), but i'm also not really bisexual because i've never had a bf or a gf.
You don’t have to have a gf/bf to be bisexual ! If you know you know !
this was really helpful actually. like i know i’ve had a crush on girl but i don’t know if it was a one time thing? i haven’t kissed either boys of girls so i’m not really sure and therefore figure i’m bicurious.
still all confused tho
maybe you'll need some of those experiences to really know but you can also be more into guys than girls, vice versa.
ive just turned 13 and i’ve been questioning for a while, i told one of my best friends about it who’s openly pan and i am still rlly confused but i’m keeping in private for now. i think i’m bi-curious as i’ve never done anything with a girl nor a guy yet
maybe you'll just need some experiences to know 100% and that's totally okay!
My biggest problem is..I hate it not being able to label myself. I know I don't have to, but I hate not knowing my exact sexuality.
I will say for now that I am Bi curious but..yeah..sometimes I just feel like I like girls too much to be straight but I then I also question that and think I just admire their beauty, because girls are really really beautiful.
The Thing is.. I can see myself dating a girl I also see myself having sex with a girl. But when think about having a relationship with a boy it just feels different. But to be fair I'm going through a "I hate men"-phase^^'
So maybe I am Bi sexual but Heteroromantic? ahh I am confuuussseed.
Im definetly bi curious but I don't want to go telling people I'm bi when I'm actually straight
it's okay take your time!
In a way, everyone is bicurious. Im pretty sure everyone has had one or more weird moment in their life that made them not the same as before.
As the quote goes “No one is perfect”
I can't speak for everyone but definitely know what you mean!
i’m SURE i’m attracted to the same sex physically, but I had this one dream where I fell in love with this girl mind body and soul. I emotionally and (i think) physically loved her so much, it was an awesome dream 😅🤭 is this just bicurious fantasy or is it a sign that if I can love someone like this in a dream, I can irl? A sign of what my type is? someone help ;--;
it can be a sign for both - i think for you to really know you'll have to experience it
I'm 13 and my only real crush in life was on a girl, and all my celebrity crushes were on women
I think i'm bi????
Idk
i'm confused
omg i relate so much. I’ve liked a couple of girls but idk if i had actual feelings for them or my brain was just playing up on me, yk?
@@shanayadube837 yeesssssss
I'm definitely Bicurious
I am an hetero romantic asexual but I am not sure about the 'hetero' part, I think I might be biromantic. So yeah, I'm not interested in having anything sexual with the person of same sex (or basically anyone since I'm an ace) but surely interested to be in a romantic relation with a person of same sex.
beabadoobee makes me question my sexuality
This is so confusing cus I know I like girls and guys (I’m a girl) but I’ve never had an experience with either. Like does this mean I’m Bi curious even though I KNOW I like both, but I’ve never done anything with either 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
If you KNOW you like both then I’d say your bisexual :)
applejuice714 Ok I think bisexual is the label I’m most comfortable with so I’m gonna go with it - thank you!
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hello!!!! love you!!
I am 12 and I came out to my mom yesterday as Bisexual she said that I should either be lesbian or straight. I’m really worried cause I’m bisexual and can’t believe she would say that to me
That's stupid, don't listen to her of course. Be yourself. I don't understand what's so hard to grasp about the concept of being bisexual lmao
mariarzyt i know I just feel really bad that she doesn’t support me
@@itslindsey5370 I understand, I could never tell my parents about it. For me personally it's not really important for them so know, it would probably be like with you, just disappointing and sad
well i think im bi-curious because im confused. i have a crush on a girl and get that feeling when you see a person you like. i definitely feel like i would date the person in the long run but im still yk confused about it
im bicurious and i REALLLLLLY want to kiss a girl too see if i'm bisexual 🥺 i don't know who's lesbian or bi though that would be down or that i like 🙊
okay but...how do I decide?
Try kissing or dating someone from the same gender and if you like him then you're probably bi and if you didn't then you're straight. You just know
I'm so confused about my sexuality and I'm attracted to both male and female. I also tend to impress female so I am bi-sexual right??
Tysm for the vid girl! I was literally like the other day “I’m literally attracted to men but I’ve always wondered what it’s like to have sex with a girl.” And I was freaking out but this video popped up and I was like omg! Tysm girl you slay!
Omg glad I could help!!! :) thanks for watching 🤍
@@ItsAmandaWan ofc
Ok to me I feel like I try not to think too much in my sexuality because I don’t like labels at the moment and I feel like I’ll just go to whatever floats my boat. Now, I am a girl and I have been thinking about my sexuality since the beginning of sophomore year of high school and I’m not sure, but if I wanted to put a label on myself as bisexual or bicurious, since I don’t know which one because I can see myself dating a girl and have sexual activities but not to the point where the relationship is getting serious but to experience it and see if I like it. I have had a few “crushes” on guys in the past but later on in HS I was never interested in them, like I’ll say “oh he’s cute” and that’s it, but never really interested like have a crush on them and at one point I thought I had a crush on a girl but I had a feeling it was either a friend crush or maybe puppy love.
so i’m just bi- curious?
You might be! Unless you want to date anyone :)
hey so i’ve been really confused w my sexuality lately
like
so i currently don’t have any crushes on anyone, but i still feel like i’m bi..? (i don’t feel like the term bi-curious fits me tho)
like, for example, i’ve liked guys my whole life but all the sudden like last week my mind wandered off to me kissing one of my friends who is also a girl. but, i don’t have a crush on her. also, this same girl was on a facetime call i joined and when i saw her all the sudden i get nervous, like jittery and 🦋, yk? but again, i don’t think i have a crush on her..? idek.
can someone pls give me some advice or help me??? thanks loves
you might have a crush but you might be curious about being with girls! It might help to have experiences and see how you feel, but also wouldn’t suggest this in a pandemic of course! do you see yourself dating a girl or kissing a girl? if no, then I’d say you’re bicurious. if yes, then perhaps you may be bisexual!
@@ItsAmandaWan i’m not sure (tho i think i could see myself kissing a girl..) bc i’ve been looking at girls a little differently lately, but don’t have any female crushes. idk tho bc i’m really confused on my actual intentions w girls bc i feel like i’m faking it to myself but i also feel like i’m not. i feel like me directly saying i’m bicurious or bisexual is a huge step and i keep doubting that i actually am and stuff.
also, is bicurious like a stage to knowing you’re bisexual or..?
If I ever date, then I think I’ll know, since I can’t identify wanting to be friends with someone and wanting to go out with someone,
sometimes that's what you need to really figure it out and thats okay!
i wouldn’t say i’m bi-curios but neither bisexual because i know for a fact that i like girls and guys but i have never tried anything with a girl even thought i would love to. like i would much rather date and kiss and do more things with a girl than a guy. but idk. i also have had a crush on a girl so yeah i can see myself with a girl but there are just some days where i can’t see myself with a girl and it confuses me. rn i’m leaning towards bisexual more though !!
Idk which one i am
i can see myself dating the girls that are fictional characters, cuz i just love them so much. But idk if i see it with girls irl. I kinda do, but at the same time not rlly. That was confusing anywayss.
i mean the first girl i ever crushed on was a fictional character lol!
@@ItsAmandaWan oh haha cool! 😅
I'm bi- curious.
I'm 11 years old and just today I really felt like being in any type of relationship ( cuz I never was in one lmao) and asked my good friend to help me find a girlfriend or boyfriend cuz I'm mostly curious about being with a girl.
She agreed and we went to Roblox lgbtq hangout. So we were looking and I saw a lesbian girl asking people if they are taken. I told her I'm looking for someone to date, and we started chatting. My friend told me she's going offline and for me to have fun. So we were talking, she said she was almost 12 and lives in the UK. I old her I'm actually questioning / bi curious and she got really mad. She told me I was selfish and I was lying. I got really sad and went offline. I texted to my friend in discord it didn't work out and now I'm scared to look for someone.
Please help-
the thing is i’m 95% sure i’m not straight bc i mean i know i like guys and i’m sexually attracted to girls bc they u know...get me going lol but i don’t really want to label myself because i don’t think it’s other peoples business but at the same time how can i explain that or to other people or even kind of “come out” without just sounding bi-curious ://
sometimes i just say "i love who i love" we do not NEED a label, so just know that!
ItsAmandaWan aww ok that’s very true, thank you 🥺❤️
im 13 and think im bi but i told myself i wasnt going to come out till i fell in love with a girl, but like, i feel like i would want to be with a girl but i never really fall in love. last time was like 5 years ago. i really dont knooooow. it sometimes just feels like i WANT to be bisexual
sometimes it takes time, you're still young so you have sooo much time for experiences!
I really felt the last sentence
Is weird like I am totally sexual attracted to both girls and boys plus I could imagine myself in a relationship with both (I am a girl) und sometimes even wish for a relationship with a girl but I just can’t imagine catching feelings for a girl idk I think I’m just dumb lol
I am a little bit confused.. I don't really know if I am bi-curious or bisexual
I am interested in dating a girl, and dating guys.. but I am not sexually attracted to them.
I literally have no idea how to find out what I am 😭
I'm exploring my sexuality more because when younger I was told to " not mess with that stuff. " So now I'm trying to figure things out..
I'm confused I think I'm more sexually attracted in female body than male but I'm more into men romantically...again I'm more into tomboys when it comes to girls...and sometimes I don't even know if I like girls because i feel comfortable with the ppl of same gender even with my female crushes more than male crushes..i get nervous around boys even male frnds (i think it's mostly because of my past experiences but still idk if it can mean anything)