Why Do People Lie To You?: Ep 31: BK Shivani (English)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 96

  • @pratibhanath4879
    @pratibhanath4879 4 года назад +23

    People lie because they are coward , as it needs a lot of courage to tell the truth, daring people usually don’t lie

    • @sandeepgupta4696
      @sandeepgupta4696 4 года назад +6

      It's not cowardness dear... It's all about reaction of other people or embarrassment who tell truth

  • @balbindarmann7331
    @balbindarmann7331 3 года назад +3

    It’s beautiful but very few people achieve that level of being with self and others

  • @user-wp9vf8kx1h
    @user-wp9vf8kx1h Год назад +2

    For example a married man betrays his wife, she accepts n leads a life with him BUT he Never changes!!!!! Constantly Flirting with other women. How to basically lead a life with such person????? We r not God!!!! Complicated Life 😢. Easy said than done:(.

  • @pradesiparamita1274
    @pradesiparamita1274 4 года назад +2

    There is this one person that keeps sending anger to me, and its not easy to trust how she behaves but when i have constant doubt i feel it hurts me a lot.. she may be not getting it and has nice life but i am the one who has miserable life when i keep on doubting her... thank you for reminding me that all are good souls initially and there must be goodness in every person.. i have to forgive and heal myself 😊

    • @thembisaodendaal
      @thembisaodendaal 3 года назад +1

      I know it's the hardest thing when you know you keep getting negative vibrations from this one person.But keep cancelling the karmic account because eventually you will win

  • @suchitramb8043
    @suchitramb8043 3 года назад +1

    Trusting or not trusting is one thing. Whom to trust among whom we want to trust is the big question 😂

  • @ajitkumardas7561
    @ajitkumardas7561 6 лет назад +5

    Lie not love but poison of love. Trust is less everywhere so watch and trust.

  • @sangeetarathore3416
    @sangeetarathore3416 Год назад +3

    Thank you dii.. Every situation your videos are guiding me on the right path.. ❤☮️

  • @SoumyadeepDutta
    @SoumyadeepDutta 6 лет назад +4

    Hats off mam.. Om shanti.

  • @crisgaba5369
    @crisgaba5369 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for pure soul. I steel train myself on this. I can do it I believe.

  • @dalbirsingh2954
    @dalbirsingh2954 3 года назад +1

    Omshanti omshanti to All Divine Souls

  • @limeorange1657
    @limeorange1657 2 года назад +2

    Wat about people who keeps breaking trust and takes us for granted then we keep trusting them and gets self hurt.

  • @banuradha10
    @banuradha10 6 лет назад +8

    Just lovely didi. Thanks for the new perspective on trust

  • @srimathisamarakoon9106
    @srimathisamarakoon9106 2 года назад +1

    I love watching your videos & at least watch one everyday & try to understand our mind ..but still how can I trust a person who repeatedly doing the same mistake for the last 47 years ..
    Why can't they think of their wrong doing & stop their bad behaviors to keep the relationship smooth .
    Aren't there any videos for them to think & stop their betraying .

  • @parii88
    @parii88 3 года назад +2

    Om Shanti.🤍🙏

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 Год назад

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 года назад

    Stable when sharing truth yess true.

  • @blackrockz5807
    @blackrockz5807 5 лет назад +2

    People will lie because they want to.

  • @ashish01997
    @ashish01997 3 года назад +2

    "hate the deed, not the person" dr zakir says that too 💚

    • @MrPreetvirdee
      @MrPreetvirdee 3 года назад

      Try saying that to a child who has been the victim of sexual abuse.

  • @ruchiagrawal1378
    @ruchiagrawal1378 Год назад

    Thanks

  • @rbrabingia3675
    @rbrabingia3675 2 года назад

    Good morning baba,Om Santi didi

  • @yamininunna7851
    @yamininunna7851 6 лет назад +2

    thank uuu mam...om santhiii mam...love uuu mam...

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 года назад

    Heal of hhurt self.great trust completely ram kripa

  • @manojtomar655
    @manojtomar655 6 лет назад +1

    Dear Sister OM SANTI.

  • @sacredweeds
    @sacredweeds 2 года назад

    Om shanti. I keep hearing from you we are abused to complete our karma. 😔

  • @MsDandiwal
    @MsDandiwal 3 года назад +6

    How can you trust a partner who betrayed you again and again despite trusting them fully each time. Please help

    • @sacredweeds
      @sacredweeds 2 года назад

      According to her episode Ctrl+Alt+Dlt it’s your karma and you need to forgive them. I can’t believe this means you have to stay with them. Forgive and forget and keep yourself safe through changing habits that send you into harm into habit that keep you healthy.
      I used to trust easily until I was repeatedly run over literally by a car as a pedestrian and figuratively.
      I trust thrives to steal.
      The hurt and fear of my husband would disappear for six months until he again beat me. I am now working on my habit of being a fixer to know I am worthy of better.

  • @varshalatasunghuttee8848
    @varshalatasunghuttee8848 3 года назад +3

    Thank u for these wonderful words 🌹

  • @shivashankar6218
    @shivashankar6218 6 лет назад +6

    Om Shanti madam I am very thankful you because when I feeling some reason, I will get very good answer from your speech or conversations, great once more on Shanti.

  • @sant-osh
    @sant-osh 6 лет назад +2

    agar aap log ye video hindi me banate to ye bahut achha rahata . aapka bahut bahut dhanyavad....

  • @bkritikapuresoul8912
    @bkritikapuresoul8912 4 года назад +1

    Om shanti🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 года назад

    Different way of living. Om Shanti b stable n secured..

  • @RosasResources
    @RosasResources 2 года назад

    Sounds good on paper but a lier and a cheat will only do it again . its like say kill me again, i lived this and it kept happening again and again. You have to know when its time to love someone from a far

  • @farizai7327
    @farizai7327 4 года назад +1

    Baat may wazan ha...

  • @rajkumariputtoo736
    @rajkumariputtoo736 Год назад

    Very nice words respected shivani and surashjee God bless you both 🙏 😊

  • @sumabaiju101
    @sumabaiju101 3 года назад

    Om santhi...... Thank you sister🙏🙏🙏

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 Год назад

    Ready to hear truth

  • @maxell008
    @maxell008 3 года назад +1

    It’s really giving me clarity

  • @meghachalekar
    @meghachalekar 2 года назад

    Om shanti🙏☺️

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 года назад

    Unconditional trust ram g

  • @shajankv4838
    @shajankv4838 6 лет назад +1

    omsathi .. i trust you

  • @zoyamadhavan3869
    @zoyamadhavan3869 3 года назад +1

    Very true sir I’m agree with ur. Thoughts

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit59 6 лет назад +1

    Om shanti didi

  • @banashrisaha7216
    @banashrisaha7216 6 лет назад +1

    Om shanti didi.....😘

  • @soniyasharma1846
    @soniyasharma1846 6 лет назад +1

    om shanti...

  • @aanchalgupta3610
    @aanchalgupta3610 5 лет назад +6

    Buttt when people keep lying to u ? And u keep forgiving and forgetting them butt they still continue to do that ??

    • @nehajain6542
      @nehajain6542 4 года назад +7

      That is bcoz there is a past karmic account they ll keep sending those black ball of cheating that they have earlier received by u may b in costume or previous costume..
      Ur work here is to sending white ball once nd keep closing past karmic account in meditation
      Soon they ll stop sending black ball nd start receiving ur white
      Have patience law of karma is there
      One day u ll feel amazing that u trusted them no matter what nd then they ll really become trustworthy
      Stop sending negative thoughts keep a check on them
      Do morning meditation for them
      Check ur thoughts
      Sooner or later chnge will gonna arise
      Om shanti

    • @faaizavawda9966
      @faaizavawda9966 4 года назад

      Neha Jain hey how to do this meditation? How to overcome this negativity of spouse lying again and again...

    • @shubhrapashine2668
      @shubhrapashine2668 3 года назад

      Walk away from liars.

  • @snehareetun3746
    @snehareetun3746 Месяц назад

    what about when a partner cheats in a relationship? should we continue to trust

  • @jahnvimakwana9613
    @jahnvimakwana9613 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you didi for this video...

  • @mindtunessublimers8573
    @mindtunessublimers8573 2 года назад +1

    That wasss so smooth.....❤❤❤

  • @anilghorpade4372
    @anilghorpade4372 3 года назад

    Omshanti
    Good morning dadji

  • @spiderweb9609
    @spiderweb9609 6 лет назад +1

    Om Shanti Sister

  • @shaziamoughal9662
    @shaziamoughal9662 6 лет назад +5

    Hi, it would be nice to shear the book name or references, you use/take the quotes from. Thanks

  • @sehrishnaseem8104
    @sehrishnaseem8104 3 года назад

    Thank you

  • @archanajaiswal3778
    @archanajaiswal3778 3 года назад

    Om Shanti

  • @EliShanti
    @EliShanti 11 месяцев назад

    She might be right but for how long should a person allow abuse to change someone? I am giving up after more than 30 years. I trust the process not the people. I'm sorry if this is not spiritual. To me is life or death litterally

  • @gaytrirami9496
    @gaytrirami9496 4 года назад +1

    My momma is like this

  • @shambhavisingh2484
    @shambhavisingh2484 3 года назад +1

    Is it a sin when you lie out of insecurity that people will judge you or laugh at you?

  • @meenalsawant3388
    @meenalsawant3388 6 лет назад

    Very true om Shanti didi

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 2 года назад

    Excellent helpful tome thank you.

  • @monarajput1226
    @monarajput1226 4 года назад +1

    Lovely!

  • @meenalkhemchandani4893
    @meenalkhemchandani4893 3 года назад

    I accept the fact that lying and hiding the truth are equivalent. But sometimes we tend to hide the truth from loved ones because we know that it would hurt them even more. Is this wrong?? If yes then how can this tendency be corrected??

  • @nitichadha6988
    @nitichadha6988 Год назад

    Stop telling us true because of stability.

  • @dhirendraagarwal4612
    @dhirendraagarwal4612 6 лет назад +2

    Sweet gud morng g🌹💕🙏

  • @vandanachauhan4369
    @vandanachauhan4369 Год назад

    10:54 26:42 ❤️

  • @kusumsharma1032
    @kusumsharma1032 6 лет назад +1

    Om shanti shivani ji
    Please video hindi main jada banaye first of all matra bhsha mai kahi bat jada deeply prabhavit karti hai ras nishpati jada achhe se hoti hai me samajati hun apke video pooriduniya main deke jate hai esliye international language b jaruri hai par kyunki mera adhyan adhyapan ka visha hindi raha hai esliye sulabhta se hindi main samj pati hun

  • @happysoul8263
    @happysoul8263 4 года назад +2

    i have one genuine question what to do when we have lied someday and the thing is of nature which just can't be told to that person otherwise it will hurt person badly. relationship, guilt, love, trust all will come again but it will be knot in their heart life time. what to do ?

    • @aditisharma842
      @aditisharma842 3 года назад

      Confess it tell them the truth .... Becoz if once lied it will make u vulnerable to lie many a times.... And it will come to a stage that u can't even tolerate there hurting nature and u will say I did so much for u why r u getting hurt and there will be a loss of understanding especially from your side .... Clean Stains from your heart your side .... It will surely help them to do so .... It is not even good for your mental health and there's too .... They will become comfortable from your so called trustable lover side That even a small matter can destroy there whole relationship

  • @sharletlobo2016
    @sharletlobo2016 3 года назад

    Sr. Could you please elaborate on the difference between trust and capability you touched on, in the story of the lady with the cheating husband..

  • @kirtitomar2407
    @kirtitomar2407 Год назад

    Om shanti didi... bt if someone lie to u in their 1st meeting nd stick to tat lie until u scold nd ask them to tell the truth. Wt does tat suppose to mean ????

  • @ashishnirghude5494
    @ashishnirghude5494 2 года назад

    My partner breaking my trust even after promisingv she wont do it again
    Now i have proof she is still breaking trust i have not told it to her
    How can i still continue trust and maintain relation ?

  • @singaporevirtualtours1101
    @singaporevirtualtours1101 3 года назад

    If only i had watched this video earlier, if only i had heard about Sister Shivani earlier, but it is better to be late than never😀

  • @Marcolino5467
    @Marcolino5467 6 лет назад +4

    I love you BKShivani

  • @barnalidebbarma4379
    @barnalidebbarma4379 4 года назад +1

    😍

  • @calmdowngurl
    @calmdowngurl 2 года назад

    ❤️🙏

  • @dollydolly628
    @dollydolly628 2 года назад

    Maa kya hume sawal karna chahiye ki apne juth kiu bola.. par yeh sab puchne se ek relationship anger, hatred ke sath khatam hoti he, mai anger ke sath unko hate karke relation nhi todna chahti.. toh iske sath kaise deal kare.. hum unko pucche ya na? Nhi puchne se andar dabi rehti he, puchne se v shanti nhi hoga jo outcomes niklega..

  • @nabanitasarkar8080
    @nabanitasarkar8080 6 лет назад +1

    ওমঃ শান্তি

  • @swaminiwalawalkar6635
    @swaminiwalawalkar6635 2 года назад

    😇🙏

  • @souravhalder5086
    @souravhalder5086 3 года назад

    Why people say lie Hindi language please please uplode

  • @beingindian2746
    @beingindian2746 6 лет назад +1

    💐💐💐

  • @suspenserealitykatha
    @suspenserealitykatha 3 года назад +2

    Sorry i am not agree

  • @mallikaj3240
    @mallikaj3240 3 года назад

    Their wish

  • @sheokandamit59
    @sheokandamit59 6 лет назад +1

    Didi plz video Hindi m banao

  • @ektayadav3083
    @ektayadav3083 6 лет назад +1

    didi pliz hindi me bolo

  • @nehapanwar9044
    @nehapanwar9044 6 лет назад +1

    hlo mam plz can i talk to personally????

    • @reemas8128
      @reemas8128 6 лет назад +2

      Neha Panwar you can mail them up or call them up.. There's a channel called peace of mind, which provides all this info 's 😇

    • @rakshithas3734
      @rakshithas3734 6 лет назад

      Reema S can u say email Id r number

  • @ruchiagrawal1378
    @ruchiagrawal1378 Год назад

    Thanks