Never been sexually harassed in all my years as a young working woman (first job at 14, I’m 30 now). But jealous child-like older women in the workplace bullying and sabotaging me? Oh boy…that’s why I have my own business now…
Do not engage with women in the workplace. No conversation not related to business. If you arrive early to a meeting and then a woman comes into the room leave immediately and wait for others to arrive elsewhere. No out of hours socialising.
I am a 65 years old woman and I can assure you that in my entire life I was never asked whether I wanted this feminist ideology in any shape or form. And yet I hear all the time “women wanted this or that”… well, let me come clear: I am a woman and I have never ever asked, agreed or voted for this shit. I am sure that I am not the only one. In my opinion this is just another well calculated manoeuvre to destroy the family and ultimately weakens each one of us. I love and respect the men in my life and I appreciate how much they enrich my experience in this world.
It means that someone very cleverly capitalized on the propensity of the human animal to suffer rather than to act. Historically speaking it is this force which keeps governments in place. It is why civil wars are few and national wars much less than might be.
ah, this is because feminism is simply marxism in a skirt. marxism only has one goal : to destabilize societies in order to 'magically cause' a communist 'utopia' to come into being.
I was a boss at one time. I found that women also harassed men ... and other women. I've had guys complaining about it. One woman threatened a young man because he asked out another woman. She wasn't jealous of her but of him. It's kinda crazy out there.
My female manager literally slapped my ass with a loud comment about me being a babe, while I was bent forward to change the paper in the printer. She did it in front of the confidence officer (person who handles complaints), also female. The officer flat out told me that I should not consider filing a complaint.
Same, I worked in retail for some years when I was younger, there was a lot of grabbing and touching by some of the older women, which was considered to be 'just having fun', definitely a double standard at play even back then.
Indeed, Janice, lawyers are supreme opportunists. They will recognize a market for their services and pursue it with vigor. Apparently, as you point out, a new one is emerging. You are helping to educate them on the possibilities.
I was hounded out of my job because a women wanted a relationship with me. Later a women from her church group approached me in a supermarket to tell me that this women had a problem with sexual harassment. She was too polite to reference me but it was obviously about me. Thanks Ladies! I've never worked since.
@@hurdygurdyman1905he found a way to game the system and live off the dole. Or he was prudent with his money and managed it well before getting greased at the alter of feminism.
Western Society has done a great job on eliminating male aggressive tendencies in the workplace. When was the last time you heard of two men actually physically fighting at work? It still happens, but is so rare now that it is barely a blip on the radar. Where Western Society has dropped the ball, is eliminating, or even recognizing, female aggressive tendencies in the workplace. As a rule, females do not engage in physical aggression, but rather use non-physical acts, such as verbal undermining. This acts are just as destructive to the workplace as fighting, but instead of tamping down on these embers of aggression, they are flamed by policies that reward such acts.
Like with Opposition MP Julie-Anne Genter, the New Zealand parliamentarianess, who physically & verbally attacked Government MP Matt Doocey in the House Chamber, live on NZ TV.
One could even argue that eliminating so much male aggression isn’t always a good thing either, simply bc that aggression doesn’t just up and disappear, it gets channeled SOMEWHERE. In the workplace, unfortunately, male aggression is often converted to female aggression-character assassination, manipulation, and gossip. Some of the more malicious and nihilistic types will plan a mass shooting. I’m not trying to imply that if men can’t duke it out at work, they’ll resort to murder in every case, but it DOES happen. Others take it out on their families. I guess my point is this: aggression itself isn’t a bad thing, ppl NEED to have the capacity for it, and anyone who thinks male or female aggression disappears is wrong (I’m not saying you think this, just in general). We attach cost to it so that the cost of acting out aggression in certain ways costs more than not acting it out, but it doesn’t “go” anywhere, and this is something no one ever talks about. They also believe that bc women don’t usually express aggression through physical violence that we have no aggression. These are the “toxic masculinity” types who say this. I worked with men in the construction field for years, and then I worked with women in real estate. I can say with 100% confidence that no man EVER treated me as poorly as other women did.
Male aggression has not been eliminated. Its been pushed so far underground by the far left that men are now going postal and k*lling people (mostly women) and k*lling themselves. Idiotic feminist policy is the cause of the increase in violence against women in the West. Men have no outlet and have to neuter themselves so duh, they're going to lose their damn minds eventually. I'm not justifying these actions, I merely see the cause is obvious.
Glad I'm not the only one who sees that...from the Bondi knife man to the domestic violence epidemic, I'm seeing more and more excuses for men, especially marginalised types of men, to be further ostracized, demonized, blamed and alienated, meanwhile the self-harm rates continue to increase. What's that men? You're a danger to yourself? Well to make you feel better, being a danger to yourself means you're a danger to everyone else, especially the fairer sex.
Same in the UK, I recently stayed with my 12 year old nieces, every cartoon they watched, every film they watched and every song they listened to had anti male messages in. Everything.
@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391 it's absolutely disgusting. I know. It's promoted in social media algorithms too. I literally have to decline and remove random Anti-Man feminist pages from my Facebook timeline as suggestions, and everytime I do another one pops up in its place. The powers that be are absolutely pushing this man vs woman agenda by design
The "gorgeous" Chad with the Mercedes S-type tells a lady co-worker that her new dress is sexy, her response? - "Thank you for noticing Chad!" The "ugly" Moe with the used Hyundai tells the same lady that her new dress is sexy, her response? - Moe gets fired for sexual harassment.
Under rated comment. You describe the situation as if happens in reality. 80% of men are "Moe" to 80% of women .... and realistically, the odds are even worse, for men.
@@persnipoles It maybe obvious to some, since I started looking at all the laws/legislations introduced under the guise of "equality" through the lens of "Relational or indirect aggression" it becomes more apparent the laws are being introduced to punish men and destroy reputations.
I've been the only man on my last two teams. Those ladies would say things and make jokes that I would NEVER dream of saying. And they do it all without any hesitation or concern for reprimand.
I have worked in two female dominated professions and I was endlessly harassed by the women. This was long ago, before sexual harassment was a thing. But if it happened today I could sue them for everything they had. I also worked in construction for years and the few women on the site were worthless. All they did was whine and complain about everthing and they were not even smart enough to stay out of the way. They had to be babysat at all times. These women, were, in one word ... worthless.
Agreed. I've had female coworkers and managers make sexually tinged comments and jokes to both me and other female staff and nothing is done. I don't even respond in fear of getting in trouble. There is this unspoken "it's okay if they do it" rule. One example was a female coworker randomly started sharing that some guys were sending her dick pics. She started joking about it and I just had no idea how to react. Just smile and nod.
Women are worse than men. They demand specific details of their girlfriends sexual experiences including cock size and stamina of the bloke. This is considered funny and empowering.
True that. I once worked at a construction site with thousands of men and just a few dozen women. During our weekly safety meeting, one man brought up the fact that one office woman dressed in very sexually revealing attire. My initial thoughts were to laugh at his complaint myself. Upon further reflection, I think I know why he complained. Some Canadians say that if your gaze lingers more than 2 seconds on any female, it is considered to be harrassment. He was probably trying to protect himself. After working weeks in a row in northern camps, it is very hard to not get aroused as a young man.
@@endcgm9277 Of course YT's censorship is all over this. FFS.... Yep. Even when you break it down for people who claim "it's not the same" as FGM, they still can't wrap their minds around something as simple as "ok, so how much of your dau -adjustment for censorship- ghter can I remove before it becomes equivalent?" Just remember, misa -adjustment for censorship- ndry doesn't exist because of reasons, stuff, and things, so don't ask questions.
@@endcgm9277 Of course YT's censorship is all over this. FFS.... Yep. Even when you break it down for people who claim "it's not the same" as FGM, they still can't wrap their minds around something as simple as "ok, so how much of your dau -adjustment for censorship- ghter can I remove before it becomes equivalent?" Just remember, misa -adjustment for censorship- ndry doesn't exist because of reasons, stuff, and things, so don't -adjustment for censorship- ask questions.
I heard of a case where a woman was sexually joking around with a guy in their car pool. When she figured out that he had no relationship interests, she filed sexual harassment on he and the driver of the car pool. Both men were fired with the carpool being included as part of the work place. You didn't state whether there were cases of women using the sexual harassment as a crowbar to leverage job advantage. I've seen that as well.
Very well done. How to equalize employer sexual harassment rules: 1. Make sure rule applies to both genders in HR. 2. Start defining sexual harassment by women. 3. Long hair is harassment. 4. Eye contact by a woman is harassment. 5. Wearing a dress or skirt is harassment. 6. Wearing make up is harassment. 7. Long nails is harassment. 8. Smiling at a man is harassment. 9. Lipstick is harassment. 10. Wearing purfume is harassment. 11. Wearing high heels is harassment. 12. Talking to a man is harassment. Men have an equal right to define what makes them feel uncomfortable and harrassed. Please share everywhere to all men globally.
You dont have to be unnatractive, you could be a 10 with a girl friend or single and not looking and they'd still accuse if you dont flirt back or act the way they want
If they are going to have this ridiculous inclusion, it should read "actions that would lead a reasonable person to feel uncomfortable." The should not consider the opinion of the accuser.
I've been sexually harassed by women at work several times, twice by managers - one a charge nurse. It was always unpleasant and invasive. Genuine harassment. But all these feminists and chivalrous men don't regard genuine harassment as a problem. It is certainly NOT gender/sex specific.
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It isn't but covering it up and pursuing it is a crime sure is.
The only harassment I experienced in the workforce were from women! I never had issues with men. The harassment from female colleagues forced me out of 2 very good jobs! As a single parent of 3 small kids, their actions irreparably harmed my career and my job opportunities! It took me 20 years to recover financially!
Very well done. How to equalize employer sexual harassment rules: 1. Make sure rule applies to both genders in HR. 2. Start defining sexual harassment by women. 3. Long hair is harassment. 4. Eye contact by a woman is harassment. 5. Wearing a dress or skirt is harassment. 6. Wearing make up is harassment. 7. Long nails is harassment. 8. Smiling at a man is harassment. 9. Lipstick is harassment. 10. Wearing purfume is harassment. 11. Wearing high heels is harassment. 12. Talking to a man is harassment. Men have an equal right to define what makes them feel uncomfortable and harrassed. Please share everywhere to all men globally.
Me too. A few months after rejecting her advances said female manager stole my nightly deposit and tried to get me fired. She had stolen the deposit from another manager too and gotten him fired. She had been sleeping with him and given her love of partying and strong liquor, had drained him dry. She was an all round predator and criminal.
I've never seen or heard a man harass a woman at work. All the jobs I've had, the wide demographic of people....never seen it ONCE. However, I HAVE seen/heard female coworkers rank the attractiveness of the male workers. Ive heard them giggle and joke about the men who were losing their hair, weren't tall, etc. And no one spoke up about it, because they knew nothing would be done.
*"And no one spoke up about it, because they knew nothing would be done."* No, because men don't "speak up" about things like that. The very idea of a man complaining to his boss because a woman "harrassed" him or hurt his feelings is ludicrous.
@bricaaron3978 Plus, they know nothing will be done about it. He will be dismissed as a "thin skinned crybaby". And then rumors would spread and the insults towards him would only get worse. Men's feelings don't matter. No one cares. Until, of course, he comes in with a gun someday.
The problem is that we all know women can be nasty but when they do wrong we think they can do no wrong. This has enabled women to use accusations to destroy innocent men. It is important to remember that abusers will often use false accusations to hurt their victims. I have been the victim of abuse in my time and I make a point of explaining to people that while it is important to listen when a person claims they have been abused, it is equally important to not immediately believe the claim. Those to whom the claim has been made must remain independent so that they can assess both the claimant and the accused versions of events. One of them will be telling the truth or both may be as bad as each other or it may be an escalated event of crossed-purposes that can be easily resolved. On the opposite side- men get sexual harassment from women and do not report because we won't be believed.
As a man who was sexually harassed (under the proper definition) by a woman in the workplace, let me tell you what was done about it. Absolutely nothing.
I feel you. Two women I worked with got an ( less attractive) guy fired for flirting with them. Then proceeded to regularly harass me. They seemed to be of the delusion that all guys would be dtf any girl who offered it to them and guys were lucky to recieve their advances. Like i should be flattered. The irony. Yet, any guy flirting with them when they didn't show immediate interest: a dangerous menace to society.
@@N3ur0m4nc3r I also had several women try to charm me into doing their jobs for them by smiling, batting their eyelids and ever so slightly squeezing their chest together and then pretending they didn't know what needed to be done. I'm not an idiot guided by my loins. That magic doesn't work on me.
This has happened in the past. For example in the USSR they had to reject decadent Western science so a guy named Lysenko invented a whole new field of genetics which caused many famines. The Germans refused "Jewish" science too.
Science has always been ideology, Darwin's religion going back to great grandfather was always Specie-ism long before he stole that thesis from another dude. The Royal Society has always been a religious fabian institution.
This kind of thing is responsible for a lot of the loneliness epidemic, and the rise of online dating as the primary way people meet. Women expect men to initiate, but it is a minefield out there for men to do so. A rejection sucks, but you can walk away from. A harassment charge? Not so much
It's so sad that its gotten so bad! I'm an older lady. I love it when a man opens the door for me. When I was young, men tipped their hat when they paasoa lady. I really miss that polite gesture. I've listened to some of these feminist young women's videos. The things they say really makes me angry!
Gee, I'm scared to like this video as using my finger in such a gesture is a clear violation. I have been sacked from a job for alleged sexual harassment against a female I mostly avoided.
11:40 Isn't it great how people say "it's not a big deal, why are men complaining", but can you imagine the reaction if the same was said towards women? Including about this very issue. Any minute thing that women *feel* a certain way about is taken very seriously
I miss the days when we could tell a dirty joke and no one thought much about it. I worked in my family’s construction business for years, even running my own crew for a time, and a lot of that talk was necessary for bonding. I can count on one hand how many times I was “harassed” by men, and they were never on my crews. It was mostly cat-calling from other crews, and the occasional sexist comment from a rando that I blew off bc he didn’t know me and I didn’t care. Most of the “dirty joke” stuff was bonding, and my guys ALWAYS looked out for me. I was young, so I was in the mentality that I had to do everything as well as the men did it, not to compete with them, but to feel worthy of running the crew. It was my hang up though bc they never let me lift 32’ ladders, they went out of their way to make sure I didn’t have to. I told them constantly how much I appreciated it, and eventually stopped apologizing for being a girl. They would just tell me-it’s our job to do the heavy lifting, it’s your job to make sure we have heavy lifting to do next week, LOL. I worked in a predominantly male field doing a “man’s work” for over 20 years, and can’t think of a single issue that ever came up where I felt I was unsafe or needed to involve any authorities. I heard things that made my ears bleed, at times, true, but one result is that I’m not overly sensitive now. I can listen to a horribly lewd joke and not take it personally, and men don’t have to tip toe around me. They can be who they are, and I like men just the way they are. The 2nd wave feminists have done us ALL a disservice. They’ve framed men as predators who seek to take advantage of us poor, weak females who can’t take a joke without perceiving it as a threat. I’m sick of it.
Most if not all women who readily cry sexual harassment at any dirty joke have a limited understanding of men. That or they have antagonistic views of men as a whole - which isn't surprising as the core value of feminism is "men are the enemy." (it's similar to these men who solely look at women as gold diggers, manipulators, or sexual conquests, etc)
Today's young men are almost universally angry and resentful towards women. That attitude is neither fair nor productive, but given this environment, it is predictable.
Don't talk about ' fair' if it's only one side being crapped on all the time. I'm not saying to uplift men at the expense of women. I'm saying if you can't be arsed to get to the root cause of an issue, then what you think is ' fair and productive ' is irrelevant.
That was the stupidest notion I've heard this year. What do you based that on, that the "We choose the bear" trend is being laughed off and made into memes?
I can attest to the validity of this over extension of the interpretation. Lost ability of promotion, received a suspension on the grounds of an individual FELT there was a relationship between myself and another co worker, which there wasn't, but that someone MAY construe there is harassment. Go figure that one. I work in the public sector and have lost multiple advancement opportunities due to a suspension of promotion for 3 yrs. Based on one persons manipulation of the system and the PROACTIVE response....very bitter about it.
I pretty much solved the problem for myself. I rarely speak to women at work. Nearly all communication is by email or chat so there is a record of it. Answers are yes/no and I do not reveal any personal information about myself or inquire about them. We never know who will hit us with harassment.
I started working in the year 2000 as a guy and at a work-related dinner and a 40 something woman made a weird comment about me in front of a whole table of coworkers. I didn't speak to her anymore and she had a drink or two. But whatever...life goes on. (She started talking about another guy in the office in his late 20's saying he was a chick magnet and handsome and has seen him taking out beautiful for dates. Went on a bit about him. Then said if only "we" could [my name]'s head on his body...implication was then he'd be even better. I was thinking "huh?". I looked about 17 but was actually 22)
During my first week teaching in South Korea, my students informed me that three sexual predators had been identified in the neighborhood that had preyed on elementary aged children. Two were middle aged women.
Nice channel. I think the situation is getting to be ridiculous. But I'm not from the US, I'm European (Portugal). Worked for 40 years in the national Railroad, which was a mostly masculine environment, never felt harassed, not for real. If people feel in danger because of a "saltier" joke, well I should recommend the Candice Owens treatment "Life is tough, get a helmet!".
I wanted to add one more thing, something I have no proof of, it’s just personal observation-if men can’t interact with women freely, if they can’t even tell a joke, how can they possibly know when it goes too far? We ALL get signals from others in society as to what’s acceptable and what isn’t. This is why freedom of expression (or one reason why) is so crucial. If you can’t make a mistake without it costing you EVERYTHING, then we, as a society, aren’t teaching ppl what is acceptable and what isn’t. We’re teaching ppl that they have to hide. This will come back to bite us, and I’m positive it already is. As I watch video of men filming women being raped on subways, not doing anything to help, bc they’re afraid of the consequences (and I do believe some of them are resentful enough to not care at this point), we’re in trouble. More and more I’m seeing men comment on videos saying “equal rights and equal lefts”, the implication being that if a woman wants equal rights, she needs to be able to take a punch like a man. Both “sides” of this mentality are wrong, the feminists AND the “red pill” manosphere types. This may be a justifiable anger on the part of men, but sitting back and reveling in women being physically harmed is not ok either.
Damn. This observation hits especially hard. As someone on the autism spectrum, it took me ages to grasp how banter works and what is or is not an appropriate joke to make in a given setting. I still struggle sometimes to maintain tact, and as someone who came of age in the irreverent 2000s, the inability to tell edgy jokes anymore has been stifling. My tastes in humor aside, I and countless other socially awkward men are trapped in a precarious position of not only misreading social cues or giving off the wrong ones, but being labeled as "creeps" over said misunderstandings (or just passing eye contact). I miss when speech was truly free. I miss when [birthing persons] weren't incentivized to cry wolf at every opportunity for attention/social currency at the expense of others.
This idea of ridiculously flexible definitions to paint non-victim women as victims reminds me of an interaction I had just yesterday talking to a neighbor woman. I took the position that we certainly don't live in a "rape culture" as feminists claim. She responded that years ago she went to police to report a rape and they refused to file an incident report, dismissing her claim. I asked what happened and she said that her boyfriend had tried to talk her into having sex. She said no at first but after he went on and on she admitted she in fact consented, due to his verbal pressure. Not coercion, just he talked on and on. Later regretting the whole thing she went to the police. Well of course when she admitted to giving verbal consent the officer is not going to view it as rape, because it isn't. This gets to the core of the batshit of most feminists; feelings over facts. But criminal charges have to be about facts and she consented. I have to wonder if she would have felt satisfied if he had to rot in prison for years and be branded a rapist for life over sex that she had consented to. Considering her increasing hostility toward me for simply questioning "rape culture" and other feminist lies I am afraid so.
My advice, wear a wedding ring men. You will get 2 approaches. Either a woman will leave you alone or she will propposion you. If she does "harass" you turn her in. Fight fire with fire
It’s a dynamic that really favors women. Generally, we must proposition then. They get to be angry and vindictive about it. Every workplace and school seems to attempt to narrow or punish heterosexual expression to the point even most innocent men, happily married with a wife at home, can sometimes experience unease. Some have argued that, at its heart, ‘me too’ type activism is really about transferring income from men to women in the form of more and better job opportunities. The public perception seems opposite from reality. A man and a woman have consensual sex and the man is considered to be exploiting the woman if he has paid her.
I am a man from the USA and I was sexually harassed by a woman that I think would be 3rd degree felony rape under US law. I laughed it off, and went on with my life. I know guys that cannot understand their bad behavior and that bothers me a lot. I don't know, I think this has gone way to far, as you are pointing out, but some guys need to think about their behavior.
True that such men do need to think about how they act. Also you're weak for treating women like children and not having to be accountable. You sound like someone who infantilizes women because you think they're too inferior to be treated equally. Bigot.
The way things are going these days with the aggressive delusions that people are working with, the phrase "feminist scientific journal" sounds like an oxymoron.
I've been in the work force since aged 15, and I've never victimized anyone in such a fashion. Every assault and outright rape I've committed has been perpetrated somewhere I'm not employed at
All that can be done is ignore all women and if you must work with them, never be alone with them. Don’t sit beside them, talk to them, compliment , you get the picture
You are right about avoiding them at all costs unless you absolutely have to . Thing is , there are so many simps out there that grovel to just get tge approval of women, forget about the sex. These idiot men indulge women with superficial praise - it’s sickening to watch - they’ll turn a humble girl into an egomaniac with in 6 months. Seen it a million times times . The Simps are arguably as much of the problem as the man hating narcissistic modern woman.
9:50 ah yes the Schrödinger's woman - simultaneously oppressed and empowered: she doesn't need chivalry at all, but she needs affirmative action in order to land a cashier job. how convenient.
God to Adam: "Where is Eve?" Adam: "Down by the river bathing." God: "Oh no, now the fish will all smell like that!" I was fired when a coworker was offended by this joke.
I started work in the late 80s and 90s. I was on a project then and it was about 120 people and most of the people were in there 20s and early thirties. After 12 months there were about 25 couples. Lots of good clean homo sapien mating rituals. I am sure there were probably a couple of marriages came out of that too. Fast forward 15 years any man would be insane to ever think about getting into a relationships with anyone from work. One wrong word and your career and everything youve worked for goes up in smoke depending on what a woman thought she was feeling. Until this changes and burden of proof standards come back then men will avoid women like the plague. The only other thing that will bring some kind of sanity back to the work place is if women are given the same punishment as the crime for false accusations. ie if a woman falsely accuses a man of sexual harrassment, then after a fast assessment if it is proved that she lied then she is immediately fired, no benefits, no payouts. This will be the only thing that will stop it. I am 53 and I can tell you if I went back into a corporate job I would apply the Spence rule and have cameras going around me all the time. The truth is I am getting out of my industry due to the fact that it doesnt hire white men anymore. Regardless of having 30 years of experience in an industry, mining projects, that really need people with experience as there is a lot of lore that is not written down.
The central government of any country can take credit for whatever ideologically motivated rules they allow institutions to make or enforce. Something to think about on Remembrance Day; Why should men fight for this?
It’s sort of like in Jacobin , Robespierre France , if you were accused of being a counter - revolutionary or royalist you were killed; the accusation is all that mattered , no evidence required. In Soviet Russia under Lenin and Stalin this same terror of accusation reigned . It was so bad some people were professional accusers , many , many innocent people were murdered on these false accusations of being accused of being a part of the bourgeoisie. The irony is Ive seen gay women hitting on women all the time with absolute impunity , and gay men to a lesser degree. I was on a date with a woman and a bi- woman pushed her down on a bench and tried to get gay with her , I had just started dating this lady . She pushed tge aggressive lesbian off and told her to cut it out . I was thinking , if that was a guy he would be in jail . My two daughters have encountered this same aggressive behavior from gay women . I could give many , many accounts of this my sons best friends wife was making out with her boss at work . The husband was red hot angry - yet Hollywood tells us that’s not cheating. The world has turned up side down - in the 70’s that would’ve been considered worse than committing adultery with a man . I guess because of porn and endless movies pushing the lesbian and gay movement men are supposed to be happy when being cucked by a woman . Most guys I’ve seen that actually love their wife or girlfriend are not “ excited” when their woman runs off with another woman . It’s an elephant in the room - at least around here. Anyway - Janice I love what you are doing and I admire you more than words could hope to express. You are truly a kind, wise and virtuous lady !!😊
There is real harassment and it should be taken seriously. When there are gray issues communication should be used. Our society is very open to sexual issues. If someone clearly states that personal comments are unwanted or offensive that should be the end of it. If people feel that their boundaries have been violated when they never made clear what their boundaries should be they shouldn't conclude that they are a victim. If everyone had the same standard of morality and lived by it we wouldn't have a problem but realistically we don't have the same standards. When we are taught that we are victims we have no trouble finding what we think is truth to support that mindset.
LMAO .. There is a 'counterclaim' in a 'countersuit' where I said something 'sexually infused'. I can't wait to see how it plays out at my trial. I'm going to devote a whole chapter to this in my tell-all book.
Here's how to rephrase that in a non-harassing manner. The principle is not to give a compliment to the woman: Hi Janice's hair, you wear that person very well!
@@sneezyfido Sorry. That's a human rights complaint for dehumanizing Janice. I'll accept $20K fine and 3 months of house arrest since I'm offended on Janice's behalf.
@@manonymous4737 Species isn't yet a protected group, although I'm sure that's just a matter of time here in Canada, so only you go to jail this time. ;)
You keep saying Toronto Sun, but I think you mean the Toronto Star no? Nothing like a false allegation in a video about false allegations? LOL!!! Ok, an innocent mistake, but needs correction?
Its interesting HR plays this tightrope walk and talk where they want to validate the "victim" and that belief in another's intentions and all things associated with "MY truth" have value. Yet at the same time there needs to e objective evidence of harassment and a refusal to desist the activity. Its just.... bizarre. It seems to me that it gives off the impression that the legal courts will always need to be fought until people are assumed guilty no matter what, to placate the feelings of the accuser. "I understand how you _feel_ but sadly there isn't much we can go with here..." has a lot of implications
not to mention that in these cases EVERYONE suddenly have identical image in their had as its in the media and social media as to WHAT IS A WOMAN and who are these WOMEN and MEN and noone is using pronounce and CIS or TRANS descriptors
Never been sexually harassed in all my years as a young working woman (first job at 14, I’m 30 now). But jealous child-like older women in the workplace bullying and sabotaging me? Oh boy…that’s why I have my own business now…
Do not engage with women in the workplace.
No conversation not related to business.
If you arrive early to a meeting and then a woman comes into the room leave immediately and wait for others to arrive elsewhere. No out of hours socialising.
I am a 65 years old woman and I can assure you that in my entire life I was never asked whether I wanted this feminist ideology in any shape or form. And yet I hear all the time “women wanted this or that”… well, let me come clear: I am a woman and I have never ever asked, agreed or voted for this shit. I am sure that I am not the only one. In my opinion this is just another well calculated manoeuvre to destroy the family and ultimately weakens each one of us. I love and respect the men in my life and I appreciate how much they enrich my experience in this world.
Yet very few women opposed it. What does that tell us?
It means that someone very cleverly capitalized on the propensity of the human animal to suffer rather than to act. Historically speaking it is this force which keeps governments in place. It is why civil wars are few and national wars much less than might be.
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Your last two sentences describe my thoughts as well.
ah, this is because feminism is simply marxism in a skirt.
marxism only has one goal : to destabilize societies in order to 'magically cause' a communist 'utopia' to come into being.
and then women wonder why men want nothing to do with them in the workplace...
Women simply aren't physcologically equipped to even be in the workplace.
I was a boss at one time. I found that women also harassed men ... and other women. I've had guys complaining about it. One woman threatened a young man because he asked out another woman. She wasn't jealous of her but of him. It's kinda crazy out there.
What kind of harassments was the most common.
My female manager literally slapped my ass with a loud comment about me being a babe, while I was bent forward to change the paper in the printer.
She did it in front of the confidence officer (person who handles complaints), also female.
The officer flat out told me that I should not consider filing a complaint.
Same, I worked in retail for some years when I was younger, there was a lot of grabbing and touching by some of the older women, which was considered to be 'just having fun', definitely a double standard at play even back then.
Women cause 98% of the interpersonal problems in the workplace.
Indeed, Janice, lawyers are supreme opportunists. They will recognize a market for their services and pursue it with vigor. Apparently, as you point out, a new one is emerging. You are helping to educate them on the possibilities.
I was hounded out of my job because a women wanted a relationship with me.
Later a women from her church group approached me in a supermarket to tell me that this women had a problem with sexual harassment.
She was too polite to reference me but it was obviously about me.
Thanks Ladies!
I've never worked since.
I am so sorry!
@@ceilconstante640 Thank you.
Why have you never worked since, how do you support yourself?
@@hurdygurdyman1905Go give Ya head a wobble ..
@@hurdygurdyman1905he found a way to game the system and live off the dole. Or he was prudent with his money and managed it well before getting greased at the alter of feminism.
Western Society has done a great job on eliminating male aggressive tendencies in the workplace. When was the last time you heard of two men actually physically fighting at work? It still happens, but is so rare now that it is barely a blip on the radar.
Where Western Society has dropped the ball, is eliminating, or even recognizing, female aggressive tendencies in the workplace. As a rule, females do not engage in physical aggression, but rather use non-physical acts, such as verbal undermining. This acts are just as destructive to the workplace as fighting, but instead of tamping down on these embers of aggression, they are flamed by policies that reward such acts.
Like with Opposition MP Julie-Anne Genter, the New Zealand parliamentarianess, who physically & verbally attacked Government MP Matt Doocey in the House Chamber, live on NZ TV.
One could even argue that eliminating so much male aggression isn’t always a good thing either, simply bc that aggression doesn’t just up and disappear, it gets channeled SOMEWHERE. In the workplace, unfortunately, male aggression is often converted to female aggression-character assassination, manipulation, and gossip. Some of the more malicious and nihilistic types will plan a mass shooting. I’m not trying to imply that if men can’t duke it out at work, they’ll resort to murder in every case, but it DOES happen. Others take it out on their families. I guess my point is this: aggression itself isn’t a bad thing, ppl NEED to have the capacity for it, and anyone who thinks male or female aggression disappears is wrong (I’m not saying you think this, just in general). We attach cost to it so that the cost of acting out aggression in certain ways costs more than not acting it out, but it doesn’t “go” anywhere, and this is something no one ever talks about. They also believe that bc women don’t usually express aggression through physical violence that we have no aggression. These are the “toxic masculinity” types who say this. I worked with men in the construction field for years, and then I worked with women in real estate. I can say with 100% confidence that no man EVER treated me as poorly as other women did.
Male aggression has not been eliminated. Its been pushed so far underground by the far left that men are now going postal and k*lling people (mostly women) and k*lling themselves. Idiotic feminist policy is the cause of the increase in violence against women in the West. Men have no outlet and have to neuter themselves so duh, they're going to lose their damn minds eventually. I'm not justifying these actions, I merely see the cause is obvious.
@@liz9284
Based.
Same in Australia - we are getting primed for the next "all men are evil" adverts and propaganda.
Glad I'm not the only one who sees that...from the Bondi knife man to the domestic violence epidemic, I'm seeing more and more excuses for men, especially marginalised types of men, to be further ostracized, demonized, blamed and alienated, meanwhile the self-harm rates continue to increase. What's that men? You're a danger to yourself? Well to make you feel better, being a danger to yourself means you're a danger to everyone else, especially the fairer sex.
Same in the UK, I recently stayed with my 12 year old nieces, every cartoon they watched, every film they watched and every song they listened to had anti male messages in. Everything.
@joejoejoejoejoejoe4391 it's absolutely disgusting. I know. It's promoted in social media algorithms too. I literally have to decline and remove random Anti-Man feminist pages from my Facebook timeline as suggestions, and everytime I do another one pops up in its place. The powers that be are absolutely pushing this man vs woman agenda by design
It’s been normalized. Victoria now has a minister for Men’s Behavior Change.
The "gorgeous" Chad with the Mercedes S-type tells a lady co-worker that her new dress is sexy, her response? - "Thank you for noticing Chad!"
The "ugly" Moe with the used Hyundai tells the same lady that her new dress is sexy, her response? - Moe gets fired for sexual harassment.
Under rated comment. You describe the situation as if happens in reality.
80% of men are "Moe" to 80% of women .... and realistically, the odds are even worse, for men.
Laws of Sexual Harassment is in my opinion, legalised relational aggression with the aimed to destroy a mans reputation.
Seems obvious enough that it's weird to call it an opinion.
@@persnipoles It maybe obvious to some, since I started looking at all the laws/legislations introduced under the guise of "equality" through the lens of "Relational or indirect aggression" it becomes more apparent the laws are being introduced to punish men and destroy reputations.
@@philliphickox4023 Lens is right, that's an admirable route to it.
This is precisely what it is and precisely the whole point of this 'sexual harassment' push in the first place.
@@simonjj7397 Its only taken me a few decades to recognise this.
I've been the only man on my last two teams. Those ladies would say things and make jokes that I would NEVER dream of saying. And they do it all without any hesitation or concern for reprimand.
They have no repercussions. Why would they fear reprimands?
I have worked in two female dominated professions and I was endlessly harassed by the women. This was long ago, before sexual harassment was a thing. But if it happened today I could sue them for everything they had. I also worked in construction for years and the few women on the site were worthless. All they did was whine and complain about everthing and they were not even smart enough to stay out of the way. They had to be babysat at all times. These women, were, in one word ... worthless.
Agreed. I've had female coworkers and managers make sexually tinged comments and jokes to both me and other female staff and nothing is done. I don't even respond in fear of getting in trouble.
There is this unspoken "it's okay if they do it" rule.
One example was a female coworker randomly started sharing that some guys were sending her dick pics. She started joking about it and I just had no idea how to react. Just smile and nod.
I had a female colleague literally joke about quitting and selling foot pics. No joke.
Women are worse than men. They demand specific details of their girlfriends sexual experiences including cock size and stamina of the bloke. This is considered funny and empowering.
The problem is that when an issue harms men specifically, almost no one cares. And then people scoff at men's rights activism...
Just look at the issue of male genital mutilation (circumcision) for a severe example
@@endcgm9277 indeed: the fact that its practised as standard in the usa for cosmetic reasons is pretty sick.
True that. I once worked at a construction site with thousands of men and just a few dozen women. During our weekly safety meeting, one man brought up the fact that one office woman dressed in very sexually revealing attire. My initial thoughts were to laugh at his complaint myself. Upon further reflection, I think I know why he complained. Some Canadians say that if your gaze lingers more than 2 seconds on any female, it is considered to be harrassment. He was probably trying to protect himself. After working weeks in a row in northern camps, it is very hard to not get aroused as a young man.
@@endcgm9277 Of course YT's censorship is all over this. FFS....
Yep. Even when you break it down for people who claim "it's not the same" as FGM, they still can't wrap their minds around something as simple as "ok, so how much of your dau -adjustment for censorship- ghter can I remove before it becomes equivalent?" Just remember, misa -adjustment for censorship- ndry doesn't exist because of reasons, stuff, and things, so don't ask questions.
@@endcgm9277 Of course YT's censorship is all over this. FFS....
Yep. Even when you break it down for people who claim "it's not the same" as FGM, they still can't wrap their minds around something as simple as "ok, so how much of your dau -adjustment for censorship- ghter can I remove before it becomes equivalent?" Just remember, misa -adjustment for censorship- ndry doesn't exist because of reasons, stuff, and things, so don't -adjustment for censorship- ask questions.
I heard of a case where a woman was sexually joking around with a guy in their car pool. When she figured out that he had no relationship interests, she filed sexual harassment on he and the driver of the car pool. Both men were fired with the carpool being included as part of the work place. You didn't state whether there were cases of women using the sexual harassment as a crowbar to leverage job advantage. I've seen that as well.
Very well done.
How to equalize employer sexual harassment rules:
1. Make sure rule applies to both genders in HR.
2. Start defining sexual harassment by women.
3. Long hair is harassment.
4. Eye contact by a woman is harassment.
5. Wearing a dress or skirt is harassment.
6. Wearing make up is harassment.
7. Long nails is harassment.
8. Smiling at a man is harassment.
9. Lipstick is harassment.
10. Wearing purfume is harassment.
11. Wearing high heels is harassment.
12. Talking to a man is harassment.
Men have an equal right to define what makes them feel uncomfortable and harrassed.
Please share everywhere to all men globally.
"Uncomfortable" can mean anything at all. Might as well just say anyone who isn't attractive is inherently a sexual harasser.
Been saying that for a decade.
You dont have to be unnatractive, you could be a 10 with a girl friend or single and not looking and they'd still accuse if you dont flirt back or act the way they want
Bingo
If they are going to have this ridiculous inclusion, it should read "actions that would lead a reasonable person to feel uncomfortable." The should not consider the opinion of the accuser.
I've been sexually harassed by women at work several times, twice by managers - one a charge nurse. It was always unpleasant and invasive. Genuine harassment. But all these feminists and chivalrous men don't regard genuine harassment as a problem. It is certainly NOT gender/sex specific.
It isn't but covering it up and pursuing it is a crime sure is.
The only harassment I experienced in the workforce were from women! I never had issues with men. The harassment from female colleagues forced me out of 2 very good jobs! As a single parent of 3 small kids, their actions irreparably harmed my career and my job opportunities! It took me 20 years to recover financially!
Very well done.
How to equalize employer sexual harassment rules:
1. Make sure rule applies to both genders in HR.
2. Start defining sexual harassment by women.
3. Long hair is harassment.
4. Eye contact by a woman is harassment.
5. Wearing a dress or skirt is harassment.
6. Wearing make up is harassment.
7. Long nails is harassment.
8. Smiling at a man is harassment.
9. Lipstick is harassment.
10. Wearing purfume is harassment.
11. Wearing high heels is harassment.
12. Talking to a man is harassment.
Men have an equal right to define what makes them feel uncomfortable and harrassed.
Please share everywhere to all men globally.
Make sure there are also MEN in HR
Me too. A few months after rejecting her advances said female manager stole my nightly deposit and tried to get me fired. She had stolen the deposit from another manager too and gotten him fired. She had been sleeping with him and given her love of partying and strong liquor, had drained him dry. She was an all round predator and criminal.
I've never seen or heard a man harass a woman at work. All the jobs I've had, the wide demographic of people....never seen it ONCE. However, I HAVE seen/heard female coworkers rank the attractiveness of the male workers. Ive heard them giggle and joke about the men who were losing their hair, weren't tall, etc. And no one spoke up about it, because they knew nothing would be done.
Worked at Bath Iron Works as a very attractive female in my 20’s.
Not harassed even one time!
*"And no one spoke up about it, because they knew nothing would be done."*
No, because men don't "speak up" about things like that. The very idea of a man complaining to his boss because a woman "harrassed" him or hurt his feelings is ludicrous.
@bricaaron3978 Plus, they know nothing will be done about it. He will be dismissed as a "thin skinned crybaby". And then rumors would spread and the insults towards him would only get worse. Men's feelings don't matter. No one cares. Until, of course, he comes in with a gun someday.
@@bricaaron3978 Men's feelings don't matter.
The problem is that we all know women can be nasty but when they do wrong we think they can do no wrong. This has enabled women to use accusations to destroy innocent men. It is important to remember that abusers will often use false accusations to hurt their victims.
I have been the victim of abuse in my time and I make a point of explaining to people that while it is important to listen when a person claims they have been abused, it is equally important to not immediately believe the claim. Those to whom the claim has been made must remain independent so that they can assess both the claimant and the accused versions of events. One of them will be telling the truth or both may be as bad as each other or it may be an escalated event of crossed-purposes that can be easily resolved.
On the opposite side- men get sexual harassment from women and do not report because we won't be believed.
As a man who was sexually harassed (under the proper definition) by a woman in the workplace, let me tell you what was done about it.
Absolutely nothing.
Take both the company and the individual to court
@@dennisrounds1996 You say that as if the courts have any interest in hearing such cases. It's been well established that they don't.
I feel you. Two women I worked with got an ( less attractive) guy fired for flirting with them. Then proceeded to regularly harass me. They seemed to be of the delusion that all guys would be dtf any girl who offered it to them and guys were lucky to recieve their advances. Like i should be flattered. The irony. Yet, any guy flirting with them when they didn't show immediate interest: a dangerous menace to society.
@@N3ur0m4nc3r I also had several women try to charm me into doing their jobs for them by smiling, batting their eyelids and ever so slightly squeezing their chest together and then pretending they didn't know what needed to be done.
I'm not an idiot guided by my loins. That magic doesn't work on me.
Feminist scientific journal? I guess they don’t understand that science and ideology do not mix.
"I guess they don’t understand that science and ideology do not mix"
Sadly they do mix.. and rather often.
@@arofhoof The result is ideology wins and science goes out the window.
This has happened in the past. For example in the USSR they had to reject decadent Western science so a guy named Lysenko invented a whole new field of genetics which caused many famines. The Germans refused "Jewish" science too.
You can leave off the last half of the second sentence.
Science has always been ideology, Darwin's religion going back to great grandfather was always Specie-ism long before he stole that thesis from another dude. The Royal Society has always been a religious fabian institution.
This kind of thing is responsible for a lot of the loneliness epidemic, and the rise of online dating as the primary way people meet. Women expect men to initiate, but it is a minefield out there for men to do so. A rejection sucks, but you can walk away from. A harassment charge? Not so much
It's so sad that its gotten so bad! I'm an older lady. I love it when a man opens the door for me. When I was young, men tipped their hat when they paasoa lady. I really miss that polite gesture.
I've listened to some of these feminist young women's videos. The things they say really makes me angry!
Be sure to tell these girls how you feel
Janice returns. +_+
This is an old video, I think.
Gee, I'm scared to like this video as using my finger in such a gesture is a clear violation.
I have been sacked from a job for alleged sexual harassment against a female I mostly avoided.
I'm getting nervous about rejecting adverts on FB. What if someone is collating my dislikes and drawing conclusions against me?
11:40 Isn't it great how people say "it's not a big deal, why are men complaining", but can you imagine the reaction if the same was said towards women? Including about this very issue. Any minute thing that women *feel* a certain way about is taken very seriously
Actually, "busy forever" is not correct, should be "busy for YOU specifically", that is what men often get wrong
I miss the days when we could tell a dirty joke and no one thought much about it. I worked in my family’s construction business for years, even running my own crew for a time, and a lot of that talk was necessary for bonding. I can count on one hand how many times I was “harassed” by men, and they were never on my crews. It was mostly cat-calling from other crews, and the occasional sexist comment from a rando that I blew off bc he didn’t know me and I didn’t care. Most of the “dirty joke” stuff was bonding, and my guys ALWAYS looked out for me. I was young, so I was in the mentality that I had to do everything as well as the men did it, not to compete with them, but to feel worthy of running the crew. It was my hang up though bc they never let me lift 32’ ladders, they went out of their way to make sure I didn’t have to. I told them constantly how much I appreciated it, and eventually stopped apologizing for being a girl. They would just tell me-it’s our job to do the heavy lifting, it’s your job to make sure we have heavy lifting to do next week, LOL. I worked in a predominantly male field doing a “man’s work” for over 20 years, and can’t think of a single issue that ever came up where I felt I was unsafe or needed to involve any authorities. I heard things that made my ears bleed, at times, true, but one result is that I’m not overly sensitive now. I can listen to a horribly lewd joke and not take it personally, and men don’t have to tip toe around me. They can be who they are, and I like men just the way they are. The 2nd wave feminists have done us ALL a disservice. They’ve framed men as predators who seek to take advantage of us poor, weak females who can’t take a joke without perceiving it as a threat. I’m sick of it.
God bless you, ma'am.
Most if not all women who readily cry sexual harassment at any dirty joke have a limited understanding of men. That or they have antagonistic views of men as a whole - which isn't surprising as the core value of feminism is "men are the enemy."
(it's similar to these men who solely look at women as gold diggers, manipulators, or sexual conquests, etc)
Today's young men are almost universally angry and resentful towards women. That attitude is neither fair nor productive, but given this environment, it is predictable.
Todays young women are almost universally angry and resentful towards men, and that's considered fair and productive.
Don't talk about ' fair' if it's only one side being crapped on all the time. I'm not saying to uplift men at the expense of women.
I'm saying if you can't be arsed to get to the root cause of an issue, then what you think is ' fair and productive ' is irrelevant.
That was the stupidest notion I've heard this year. What do you based that on, that the "We choose the bear" trend is being laughed off and made into memes?
and 95% of women complain that "men" do not approach them (men = top 5% of looks, personality, and wealth)
I can attest to the validity of this over extension of the interpretation. Lost ability of promotion, received a suspension on the grounds of an individual FELT there was a relationship between myself and another co worker, which there wasn't, but that someone MAY construe there is harassment. Go figure that one. I work in the public sector and have lost multiple advancement opportunities due to a suspension of promotion for 3 yrs. Based on one persons manipulation of the system and the PROACTIVE response....very bitter about it.
If there is damages, it can go to court as a crime. If it is only speech, it can not be a crime. All else is hearsay, injustice and vigilantism.
I pretty much solved the problem for myself. I rarely speak to women at work. Nearly all communication is by email or chat so there is a record of it. Answers are yes/no and I do not reveal any personal information about myself or inquire about them. We never know who will hit us with harassment.
Great to see you back Janice. 😊
Paul Elam tired of her nose being lodged in his asshole 24/7. JF is thus free to re-post videos from her old channel
this is a brave channel and a great resource. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
And then they wonder why men are avoiding women and dating.
I started working in the year 2000 as a guy and at a work-related dinner and a 40 something woman made a weird comment about me in front of a whole table of coworkers. I didn't speak to her anymore and she had a drink or two. But whatever...life goes on.
(She started talking about another guy in the office in his late 20's saying he was a chick magnet and handsome and has seen him taking out beautiful for dates. Went on a bit about him. Then said if only "we" could [my name]'s head on his body...implication was then he'd be even better. I was thinking "huh?". I looked about 17 but was actually 22)
When i was 15 a female work colleague made her interest known.
During my first week teaching in South Korea, my students informed me that three sexual predators had been identified in the neighborhood that had preyed on elementary aged children. Two were middle aged women.
Funny how we don't hear anything from the feminists regarding men competing in women's sports. Is NOW still in existence even?
Nice channel. I think the situation is getting to be ridiculous. But I'm not from the US, I'm European (Portugal).
Worked for 40 years in the national Railroad, which was a mostly masculine environment, never felt harassed, not for real. If people feel in danger because of a "saltier" joke, well I should recommend the Candice Owens treatment "Life is tough, get a helmet!".
This needs a lot more views. Excellent analysis.
I wanted to add one more thing, something I have no proof of, it’s just personal observation-if men can’t interact with women freely, if they can’t even tell a joke, how can they possibly know when it goes too far? We ALL get signals from others in society as to what’s acceptable and what isn’t. This is why freedom of expression (or one reason why) is so crucial. If you can’t make a mistake without it costing you EVERYTHING, then we, as a society, aren’t teaching ppl what is acceptable and what isn’t. We’re teaching ppl that they have to hide. This will come back to bite us, and I’m positive it already is. As I watch video of men filming women being raped on subways, not doing anything to help, bc they’re afraid of the consequences (and I do believe some of them are resentful enough to not care at this point), we’re in trouble. More and more I’m seeing men comment on videos saying “equal rights and equal lefts”, the implication being that if a woman wants equal rights, she needs to be able to take a punch like a man. Both “sides” of this mentality are wrong, the feminists AND the “red pill” manosphere types. This may be a justifiable anger on the part of men, but sitting back and reveling in women being physically harmed is not ok either.
Damn. This observation hits especially hard. As someone on the autism spectrum, it took me ages to grasp how banter works and what is or is not an appropriate joke to make in a given setting. I still struggle sometimes to maintain tact, and as someone who came of age in the irreverent 2000s, the inability to tell edgy jokes anymore has been stifling. My tastes in humor aside, I and countless other socially awkward men are trapped in a precarious position of not only misreading social cues or giving off the wrong ones, but being labeled as "creeps" over said misunderstandings (or just passing eye contact).
I miss when speech was truly free. I miss when [birthing persons] weren't incentivized to cry wolf at every opportunity for attention/social currency at the expense of others.
Bravo, superb presentation.
This idea of ridiculously flexible definitions to paint non-victim women as victims reminds me of an interaction I had just yesterday talking to a neighbor woman. I took the position that we certainly don't live in a "rape culture" as feminists claim. She responded that years ago she went to police to report a rape and they refused to file an incident report, dismissing her claim.
I asked what happened and she said that her boyfriend had tried to talk her into having sex. She said no at first but after he went on and on she admitted she in fact consented, due to his verbal pressure. Not coercion, just he talked on and on.
Later regretting the whole thing she went to the police. Well of course when she admitted to giving verbal consent the officer is not going to view it as rape, because it isn't.
This gets to the core of the batshit of most feminists; feelings over facts. But criminal charges have to be about facts and she consented.
I have to wonder if she would have felt satisfied if he had to rot in prison for years and be branded a rapist for life over sex that she had consented to. Considering her increasing hostility toward me for simply questioning "rape culture" and other feminist lies I am afraid so.
Yep. I've come to find as a whole true sexual assaults are rare, true rapes are much rarer. Not to mention SA is highly subjective crime.
My advice, wear a wedding ring men. You will get 2 approaches. Either a woman will leave you alone or she will propposion you. If she does "harass" you turn her in. Fight fire with fire
It’s a dynamic that really favors women. Generally, we must proposition then. They get to be angry and vindictive about it. Every workplace and school seems to attempt to narrow or punish heterosexual expression to the point even most innocent men, happily married with a wife at home, can sometimes experience unease. Some have argued that, at its heart, ‘me too’ type activism is really about transferring income from men to women in the form of more and better job opportunities. The public perception seems opposite from reality. A man and a woman have consensual sex and the man is considered to be exploiting the woman if he has paid her.
I am a man from the USA and I was sexually harassed by a woman that I think would be 3rd degree felony rape under US law. I laughed it off, and went on with my life.
I know guys that cannot understand their bad behavior and that bothers me a lot. I don't know, I think this has gone way to far, as you are pointing out, but some guys need to think about their behavior.
True that such men do need to think about how they act.
Also you're weak for treating women like children and not having to be accountable. You sound like someone who infantilizes women because you think they're too inferior to be treated equally.
Bigot.
The way things are going these days with the aggressive delusions that people are working with, the phrase "feminist scientific journal" sounds like an oxymoron.
I've been in the work force since aged 15, and I've never victimized anyone in such a fashion. Every assault and outright rape I've committed has been perpetrated somewhere I'm not employed at
All that can be done is ignore all women and if you must work with them, never be alone with them. Don’t sit beside them, talk to them, compliment , you get the picture
and work in the backhand when they get mouthy...obviously
You are right about avoiding them at all costs unless you absolutely have to . Thing is , there are so many simps out there that grovel to just get tge approval of women, forget about the sex. These idiot men indulge women with superficial praise - it’s sickening to watch - they’ll turn a humble girl into an egomaniac with in 6 months. Seen it a million times times . The Simps are arguably as much of the problem as the man hating narcissistic modern woman.
@@BobbyRenner-yw8zy no backhand is needed.
Women will only change their bad behaviour when they no longer get rewarded for it.
Nice bait job loser
The difference between a wonderful romance or a lawsuit depends if the woman thinks you're hot or not.
More importantly, how entitled she is.
I hold the door open for men and women.
9:50 ah yes the Schrödinger's woman - simultaneously oppressed and empowered: she doesn't need chivalry at all, but she needs affirmative action in order to land a cashier job. how convenient.
Bravo
God to Adam: "Where is Eve?"
Adam: "Down by the river bathing."
God: "Oh no, now the fish will all smell like that!"
I was fired when a coworker was offended by this joke.
we need millions like janice . imagine janice for president .
The term has been so watered down I really don't bat an eye anymore.
I started work in the late 80s and 90s. I was on a project then and it was about 120 people and most of the people were in there 20s and early thirties. After 12 months there were about 25 couples. Lots of good clean homo sapien mating rituals. I am sure there were probably a couple of marriages came out of that too. Fast forward 15 years any man would be insane to ever think about getting into a relationships with anyone from work. One wrong word and your career and everything youve worked for goes up in smoke depending on what a woman thought she was feeling. Until this changes and burden of proof standards come back then men will avoid women like the plague. The only other thing that will bring some kind of sanity back to the work place is if women are given the same punishment as the crime for false accusations. ie if a woman falsely accuses a man of sexual harrassment, then after a fast assessment if it is proved that she lied then she is immediately fired, no benefits, no payouts. This will be the only thing that will stop it. I am 53 and I can tell you if I went back into a corporate job I would apply the Spence rule and have cameras going around me all the time. The truth is I am getting out of my industry due to the fact that it doesnt hire white men anymore. Regardless of having 30 years of experience in an industry, mining projects, that really need people with experience as there is a lot of lore that is not written down.
Thanks!
The central government of any country can take credit for whatever ideologically motivated rules they allow institutions to make or enforce.
Something to think about on Remembrance Day; Why should men fight for this?
Said with an enthousiam i share
This looks like an AI generated avatar reading a blog post
hahah
she accidentally crossed the uncanny valley in five different ways
I almost lost my job one time for calling a Karen momma. She was offended.. this was 5 or 6 years ago I can only imagine how much worse it's gotten.
Appreciate ya. Thanks for sharing.
Note that the lawyers make out by getting paid to argue both ways. Somehow, it’s always about the money.
It’s sort of like in Jacobin , Robespierre France , if you were accused of being a counter - revolutionary or royalist you were killed; the accusation is all that mattered , no evidence required. In Soviet Russia under Lenin and Stalin this same terror of accusation reigned . It was so bad some people were professional accusers , many , many innocent people were murdered on these false accusations of being accused of being a part of the bourgeoisie. The irony is Ive seen gay women hitting on women all the time with absolute impunity , and gay men to a lesser degree. I was on a date with a woman and a bi- woman pushed her down on a bench and tried to get gay with her , I had just started dating this lady . She pushed tge aggressive lesbian off and told her to cut it out . I was thinking , if that was a guy he would be in jail . My two daughters have encountered this same aggressive behavior from gay women . I could give many , many accounts of this my sons best friends wife was making out with her boss at work . The husband was red hot angry - yet Hollywood tells us that’s not cheating. The world has turned up side down - in the 70’s that would’ve been considered worse than committing adultery with a man . I guess because of porn and endless movies pushing the lesbian and gay movement men are supposed to be happy when being cucked by a woman . Most guys I’ve seen that actually love their wife or girlfriend are not “ excited” when their woman runs off with another woman . It’s an elephant in the room - at least around here. Anyway - Janice I love what you are doing and I admire you more than words could hope to express. You are truly a kind, wise and virtuous lady !!😊
There is real harassment and it should be taken seriously. When there are gray issues communication should be used. Our society is very open to sexual issues. If someone clearly states that personal comments are unwanted or offensive that should be the end of it. If people feel that their boundaries have been violated when they never made clear what their boundaries should be they shouldn't conclude that they are a victim. If everyone had the same standard of morality and lived by it we wouldn't have a problem but realistically we don't have the same standards. When we are taught that we are victims we have no trouble finding what we think is truth to support that mindset.
LMAO ..
There is a 'counterclaim' in a 'countersuit' where I said something 'sexually infused'. I can't wait to see how it plays out at my trial. I'm going to devote a whole chapter to this in my tell-all book.
Men walking away is the sad response. Self fulfilling.
I love that unicorn logo. Is it printed on bumper stickers or T-shirts anywhere?
how about harassment without intent?
I wonder what the rate of sexual harassment was before women in the workplace?
I'm a big fan of Janice Fiamingo, but this is an old video, which I saw long ago.
I had charged talk yesterday.
I remember these videos from years ago. What ever happened to Janice. I’d like to hear the behind the scenes story.
3:26 I gotta say, Hey Janice, your hair IS amazing, so sorry for the sexual harassment
Here's how to rephrase that in a non-harassing manner. The principle is not to give a compliment to the woman:
Hi Janice's hair, you wear that person very well!
@@sneezyfido Sorry. That's a human rights complaint for dehumanizing Janice. I'll accept $20K fine and 3 months of house arrest since I'm offended on Janice's behalf.
@@BeholderThe1st how dare you assume her species. Damn, i just assumed their gender. Both of us straight to phobojail
@@BeholderThe1st you'll have to enforce that through the black mask brigade having a peaceful protest on my doorstep
@@manonymous4737 Species isn't yet a protected group, although I'm sure that's just a matter of time here in Canada, so only you go to jail this time. ;)
Schrodinger's Feminist ... victim or empowered depending on what benefits them at the moment.
You keep saying Toronto Sun, but I think you mean the Toronto Star no? Nothing like a false allegation in a video about false allegations? LOL!!! Ok, an innocent mistake, but needs correction?
Metoo let us all know men were at an end.
The only sexual harassment I've seen was a gay who got fired for showing the younger female coworkers his boyfriends ween pics
I bet they asked to see.
@@neomaredi5922 no he was obnoxious and routinely made people uncomfortable
Any time a subjective opinion can be called or used as a "fact" then there is trouble brewing. Did you say Tomato? How dare you :-(
I have to ask; is this deep fake?
No
Men just need to enter their soft guy era, let the women have the cooperate jobs and drizzle drizzle
All these silly, non-issue claims undermine legitimate cases of actual harassment.
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Look how far things have fallen when you treat women as equals.
what about brittany higgins, she got rapped in parliament house, if anyone was wondering ..
When I worked in an office years ago I had a female boss. If she encountered someone who wanted to speak to the manager I would take the call.
I'm a high end painter. I've been sexually harassed on the job by both women and gay men
And one of the outcomes from the feminist shit show is the asinine bear vs random man in the woods meme and uproar.
Professor Fiamengo, may i interview you on a YT livestream? You are well regarded within the Mgtow community. May I contact you via email?
way to go Janice
Its interesting HR plays this tightrope walk and talk where they want to validate the "victim" and that belief in another's intentions and all things associated with "MY truth" have value. Yet at the same time there needs to e objective evidence of harassment and a refusal to desist the activity. Its just.... bizarre.
It seems to me that it gives off the impression that the legal courts will always need to be fought until people are assumed guilty no matter what, to placate the feelings of the accuser. "I understand how you _feel_ but sadly there isn't much we can go with here..." has a lot of implications
not to mention that in these cases EVERYONE suddenly have identical image in their had as its in the media and social media as to WHAT IS A WOMAN and who are these WOMEN and MEN and noone is using pronounce and CIS or TRANS descriptors
Thanks!