LOVE Without ATTACHMENT

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2018
  • How to love without attachment? What is the relationship between attachment and love? Is attachment an aspect of love or does it actually inhibit love?
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  • @ultracartoonartist7635
    @ultracartoonartist7635 3 года назад +45

    If most people understood this concept. We would have less stalkers ,serial killers and super jealous "lovers" in this world! This advice is gold!

    • @LT-je2sz
      @LT-je2sz 3 года назад +2

      Very true!

    • @simonavacca3813
      @simonavacca3813 2 года назад +3

      I agree with you that has to be understood at some level, but to feel unconditional love is something that we have to work on, it is natural but doesn't come natural because of all the conditioning of society so we have learned to love from the egotistic mind instead from our hearts.

  • @amyroberts9761
    @amyroberts9761 3 года назад +23

    I really, really, needed to hear this today!!!!! It just about completely lifted my depression!!! Just beautiful!!!! Your videos are always like a warm hug.

  • @carlgregory9776
    @carlgregory9776 3 года назад +7

    Love this video. The idea of love within is more important than expecting to receive love from others. Loving yourself before one can love others is for me what I’m striving for in this life. Thank you very much for sharing this!

  • @gilazarteb8845
    @gilazarteb8845 3 года назад +13

    There is a reason why we confuse love with attachment, since we are born as any other mammals, we interact with our mother and get attachment as a survival mechanism. she become the source of affection, placer and from there nothing would come out right 😂 It takes time to learn what love is, probably our whole life. I am really attached to the idea of agape love... hahahah

  • @lloydjones3371
    @lloydjones3371 Год назад +4

    This could not have been expressed any better - thank you. For anyone suffering in a relationship due to being attached, watch this video often, to remind yourself of the difference between attachment and real love.

  • @kalanijayasekara5285
    @kalanijayasekara5285 4 года назад +9

    Thank you so much! I came across your channel last night, and watched ALL of your videos. It opened my eyes. Thank you so much. Please keep posting more stuff, please 🙏

  • @keshakellogg5995
    @keshakellogg5995 3 года назад +16

    Hmm... "Love without attachment" was the second stage for me. It looked like emotional independence to the point of not sharing myself and feeling afraid of acknowledging that I still had needs. Interdependence has been my third stage of relational development. I'm still learning how that works. 😋

  • @dollypurvis1848
    @dollypurvis1848 3 года назад +7

    Wow 100% makes sense..I never looked at it that way..l&l 🙏

  • @jamesSwhite
    @jamesSwhite Год назад +1

    As I've said before, Nada is a true spiritual teacher of our age. Thank you so much for helping us!!
    Love Always ❤️

  • @sammiz3744
    @sammiz3744 3 года назад +5

    Thankyou for this. I found it easily in your assortment. I knew you would offer me guidance as i come to understand how i have used my fear to satisfy my ego. I do love a person but i have major attachment issues that stop me from loving freely. Instead i have immersed myself in my own self pity and considered his inability to be here with me as rejection. Hmmm, i have some work to do on myself. As i have been considering how to let him go with love, i may now still be more than capable to do this, just by removing attachment. Please i hope this remains as simple as it sounds. My doubt alone, tells me, i may face more hurdles. But i also now know, that has nothing to do with my love for him, but rather love i need for myself.
    Thankyou, again, from me, a work in progress. 💗🤔💗🌄

  • @roundtableknight14
    @roundtableknight14 2 года назад +1

    This video is criminally under viewed. Great stuff!

  • @sodamjeong5443
    @sodamjeong5443 3 года назад +3

    I’ve been learning a lot from you these days. Thank you! 😊

  • @oztinato4099
    @oztinato4099 3 года назад +6

    I love these talks.
    As usual though I have to remark that the powerful force of sex is the cosmic "spanner in the works".
    It's an inbuilt "need" in everyone that doesn't fit so neatly into any spiritual philosophy. People are very attached to "it" and a gigantic power play is set in motion.
    Yes, altruistic agape love is wonderful of course, but it's "evil twin" (paraphrased!) is the attachment bit in every day garden variety love.

    • @jamesSwhite
      @jamesSwhite Год назад

      Good observation Oztinato 👍

  • @teddyboef2821
    @teddyboef2821 Месяц назад

    I needed to learn this lesson.
    It's all within...

  • @jr_puffnstuff4743
    @jr_puffnstuff4743 3 года назад +6

    This is the type of thing we should be teaching in schools and it should be mandatory to graduate high school not economics

  • @inthecycles
    @inthecycles 11 месяцев назад

    I really loved this video man, i appreciate you. You just earned a subscriber

  • @majko1111
    @majko1111 Год назад

    I truly know this to be true. I had an relationship, actually my first one for 3 years. I was so attached to the person so when she left, i was totally traumatized. And then I have experienced true love, without attachment and it's total bliss. No negative emotions whatsoever, just pure bliss, harmony. This video is great. A great reminder how love is. Thanks

  • @leidapollak7079
    @leidapollak7079 6 месяцев назад +1

    Well explain

  • @melissaoconnell5648
    @melissaoconnell5648 Год назад

    Yes...without inhibition, to offer oneself up in full when free, happy, willing. Though not in it's entire fullness. Others are not our source of love. I felt that during a twenty year relationship. Ultimately not needing anything in return and then had to suffer the veils of illusion realizing in the end - I was suffering blockages to being fully awake in this truest of loves. To let others go with the desire of their most open, connected and truest sense of their own divine love and being is to be one at heart.....and to do so in conscious love and understanding honors the eternal fullness of meaning and purpose for Life itself - full circle in you and All others. To give wishes of peace, love, joy and freedom in full. May we all be so blessed.

  • @ronaldjperry
    @ronaldjperry 7 месяцев назад

    Such apt illustrations. Thank you for making this concept, more clear to me

  • @MaximumMindPower
    @MaximumMindPower 4 года назад +2

    Thank you. I've got some very good insight from this video. Thanks again.

  • @stewartthomas2642
    @stewartthomas2642 8 месяцев назад

    Great vid....Love your stuff kick on love it 👍 ❤

  • @mariajosegarciapallares9447
    @mariajosegarciapallares9447 2 года назад +1

    You have an incredible insight of the human soul. Thanks so much for sharing your ideas. You make them so easy and clear to understand...I totally relate

  • @edupunknoob
    @edupunknoob 10 месяцев назад

    This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing this!!

  • @neetaarora7908
    @neetaarora7908 Год назад

    Well said and true. Attachments are in way of everything that we are - our truth, real nature.... everything that we seek in and from this world - freedom, love, peace, harmony....is already in us, unseen due to attachments, right!

  • @cavecavecavecave5295
    @cavecavecavecave5295 Год назад

    I am striving to attain your depth of perception. Thank you.

  • @Megztheraspberry23
    @Megztheraspberry23 3 года назад +2

    This helped me greatly! Thanks

  • @tidefall9804
    @tidefall9804 3 года назад +1

    Very clearly explained.....blessings

  • @IMadeThis123
    @IMadeThis123 3 месяца назад

    Thank you. ❤

  • @princesskimo2821
    @princesskimo2821 2 года назад

    Loved this video!

  • @dalboueyful
    @dalboueyful 5 лет назад +2

    Brilliant

  • @PlagueXKill3R
    @PlagueXKill3R 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you.

  • @Bella-jz3oc
    @Bella-jz3oc 3 года назад +1

    this video helped me a lot

  • @dollabhowmik4276
    @dollabhowmik4276 3 года назад +2

    Thank you ❤️

  • @Mrs.Graceqmri
    @Mrs.Graceqmri Год назад

    Wonderful

  • @benita8226
    @benita8226 8 месяцев назад

  • @abovepine7897
    @abovepine7897 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you , your videos help me so much

    • @AwakenInsight
      @AwakenInsight  5 лет назад +2

      I'm happy to hear that, and happy to be of service

  • @elizabethclark4722
    @elizabethclark4722 Год назад

    Selfless love is redundant.

  • @dazknight9326
    @dazknight9326 7 месяцев назад

    Love is love. It is not a tool or reward. You can love anyone, if they do not love you, let them go. we certainly do not force it. Some people say liking is better than loving. Some people say you are just not my thing. We do not resent it ever. Ok does it mean bad things happen, absolutely not. Just do things with harm to none of course. Just turn around and say ok see you around take care. If someone you love goes somewhere and changes then tries to come back and manipulate you to change because they love you, let them go again.
    Archangel Michael

  • @jilldezsenyi7361
    @jilldezsenyi7361 Год назад

    I love with the love of God and i be danged if i be numb to hurt and feelings to please another again...its like saying its ok to have that affair and its not it hurt me tyvm laters

  • @mvp5514
    @mvp5514 2 года назад +1

    Nada does this apply to only romantic love, or also my adult children who has caused me hurt and pain?

    • @mvp5514
      @mvp5514 Год назад

      @Shadarra Lockett Seriously? 🥺

    • @encouraginglyauthentic43
      @encouraginglyauthentic43 Год назад

      There is no such thing as romantic love, there is just love.
      This means that yes, this applies to any relationship.

  • @abovepine7897
    @abovepine7897 5 лет назад +3

    That is the intro song ?

    • @AwakenInsight
      @AwakenInsight  5 лет назад

      Intro song is "Ina Apsu". Here's a link to the full track: algodesdenada.bandcamp.com/track/ina-apsu

  • @janjustice999
    @janjustice999 10 месяцев назад

    Aquarius?

  • @metheboom
    @metheboom 4 года назад

    What if communication becomes a problem and that becomes the attachment for me to her. She used to talk but soon had chosen what she wanted to talk about and when things became hard for her to explain no matter how much leeway i gave for her, she slowed and stopped talking to me altogether. If my attachment was just the need for her to communicate with me and she blocked me from any possible way but maybe just 1flimsy way, how could love be achieved without that attachment?

    • @imjustezzy2076
      @imjustezzy2076 3 года назад

      I camp. But I think that you should look at it as you need her to communicate with you in order for you to learn how to love her better. In another video he describes love as not a feeling necessarily but just finding someone that you want to give to, you want to give yourself to them you want to give them happiness you just want to give. If she’s having trouble communicating with you that’s just something that not only she needs to work on but you can help her work on that as well because you love her and love is to give.

    • @metheboom
      @metheboom 3 года назад

      @@imjustezzy2076 Well, it's a little too late for that now that she has totally blocked me for god knows what f*n' reason. So, forget it. Sometimes it's utter nonsense.

  • @leidapollak7079
    @leidapollak7079 10 месяцев назад +1

    Attachment is not love. Love is uncondistional and trust

  • @KristinaUmer-of1np
    @KristinaUmer-of1np 2 месяца назад

    What if they take advantage of our love and kindness?

  • @rozcindylove4583
    @rozcindylove4583 3 года назад

    So who I love is in love with someone else when I pulled him up on rubbing my face in it by posting their romantic meal together he brings up this throry here. I keep getting hurt at the posts of them together giggling. I think it's deliberate. So if I love without attachment this is not hurtful and disrespectful? We've never got together but shared our feelings. I often feel he's withdrawing that.

    • @encouraginglyauthentic43
      @encouraginglyauthentic43 Год назад

      If you loved them you would be happy that their happy.
      It's time to move on.

    • @queenneurotica4591
      @queenneurotica4591 17 дней назад

      Stop looking at the posts then. People can only manipulate you if you let them.

  • @rahmasamir909
    @rahmasamir909 2 года назад

    Love Never Can be romantic romance is ego is attachement