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  • Опубликовано: 12 дек 2020
  • Are you trying to become a better person? The self improvement road can be daunting and seemingly never-ending. Have you ever felt as if you’re making no progress in becoming the best version of yourself possible? In reality, making yourself better is a slow and sometimes both frustrating and uncomfortable journey. Whether it happens naturally over time as you get more mature, or you make a conscious effort to improve, the results can go unnoticed. They can be subtle, which might make you feel as if all your efforts are going to waste. However, seemingly small changes both matter and add up to make a large difference. Curious as to signs you’re really improving yourself? Watch this video to find out!
    If you relate to this video and want to learn more about how to be more confident, we have a video on the things confident people avoid doing to help you out: • 7 Things CONFIDENT Peo...
    Writer: Lily Metrinko
    Script Editor: Isadora Ho
    Script Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera
    Animator: Ceechan
    RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong

Комментарии • 1,7 тыс.

  • @maijas_music
    @maijas_music 3 года назад +6474

    Maybe RUclips is telling me I’m becoming a better person with these recommendations

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 года назад +6884

    5 things to quit right now:
    1. Overthinking
    2. Worrying
    3. Trying to make everyone happy
    4. Living in the past
    5. Doubting yourself

    • @dashaa6174
      @dashaa6174 3 года назад +339

      That's all I ever do 😂😂

    • @piccadilyroad66
      @piccadilyroad66 3 года назад +23

      agree 👍

    • @marya.denisem.c7109
      @marya.denisem.c7109 3 года назад +169

      psych2go should make a vid on 'how' to quit those 5 things, it'll be cool!

    • @Eternal_Emerald
      @Eternal_Emerald 3 года назад +65

      I'm having those issues right now. I'm hoping to find the time to meditate and think about that.

    • @jkbutterfly3142
      @jkbutterfly3142 3 года назад +37

      *sweats profusely*

  • @waffledoesstuff2145
    @waffledoesstuff2145 3 года назад +3784

    Parents, teachers, adults: RUclips isnt good for your mental health
    RUclips: *laughs in Psych2Go

    • @romany8125
      @romany8125 3 года назад +63

      It is bad for your mental health. Imagine how many naive kids are now under impression that they know a lot about psychology just because they watched some of this stuff.

    • @iliveinsideyourhouse3943
      @iliveinsideyourhouse3943 3 года назад +168

      @@romany8125
      That's those kid fault. This video is meant to makes you understand yourself, not to teach you psychology.

    • @billywong7775
      @billywong7775 3 года назад +37

      RUclips is the best thing happened to me during lockdown

    • @goldenlightfr6380
      @goldenlightfr6380 3 года назад +6

      Haha yeah that's right😅

    • @KarateLauren
      @KarateLauren 3 года назад +53

      @MAK gaming you can't trust *everything* on the internet, but you can know which sources to trust with research. The internet is an infinite bank of knowledge, correct knowledge mind you, if only used correctly.

  • @juliakazama1402
    @juliakazama1402 3 года назад +228

    I just learned to stop pleasing everyone these days and say no it's so important now I feel so happy and proud

    • @acigarette1379
      @acigarette1379 3 года назад +6

      Teach me your ways qwq

    • @juliakazama1402
      @juliakazama1402 3 года назад +16

      @@acigarette1379 we'll just say no into Thier eyes and stop caring if they become angry or not don't care because you worthy as well

    • @acigarette1379
      @acigarette1379 3 года назад +4

      @@juliakazama1402 :o thank you :D

    • @juliakazama1402
      @juliakazama1402 3 года назад +4

      @@acigarette1379 your welcome you made my day

    • @gachalifeakiegaming3315
      @gachalifeakiegaming3315 3 года назад

      I EXPLODED YESTERDAY CUZ I WAS LITTERLY HELPING EVERYONE THEN I FOUND SOMETHING I CANT BEAT!!!@!

  • @Demonetization_Symbol
    @Demonetization_Symbol 3 года назад +2682

    I used to be a toxic person, and I always am scared of becoming that person again.

    • @dashaa6174
      @dashaa6174 3 года назад +309

      I'm still a little toxic but I'm trying to be better 👍

    • @labudig5022
      @labudig5022 3 года назад +50

      If this is joke about your name then haha
      If nit then Im sorry :))

    • @Demonetization_Symbol
      @Demonetization_Symbol 3 года назад +27

      @@labudig5022 it's not

    • @Vapor_ze_floof_
      @Vapor_ze_floof_ 3 года назад +238

      That is awesome so you’re aware of that and that you’re trying to improve because the thing is most toxic people would not like to improve and not recognize they were being toxic and the reality is we can all be toxic but what’s important is we recognize that I’m so glad to hear that you recognized that😁😁

    • @piccadilyroad66
      @piccadilyroad66 3 года назад +50

      I'm proud of you, at least now you're a better person 👌

  • @robertagoddard872
    @robertagoddard872 3 года назад +3207

    Self improvement isn't about not making mistakes, it's about realizing what mistakes you can prevent, and what mistakes are just part of being human

    • @kimberlybogert-nemeth4760
      @kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 3 года назад +38

      Your right guess I kinda forget that sometimes.😅😌

    • @Sambocha
      @Sambocha 3 года назад +9

      @@kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 me to

    • @kimberlybogert-nemeth4760
      @kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 3 года назад +6

      @@Sambocha But hey it ok🌸it just happens sometimes essentially if you having a bad or something like that.😌😅

    • @srijabhattacharjee9849
      @srijabhattacharjee9849 3 года назад

      You're absolutely correct

    • @tanyaclouse8354
      @tanyaclouse8354 3 года назад +3

      You grow when you learn from your mistakes

  • @fake_kelly
    @fake_kelly 3 года назад +321

    They really called me out when they said "nor is your life a k-drama 😂😭

  • @innolobaton
    @innolobaton 3 года назад +373

    8 signs you're becoming a better person
    1. You are self- aware
    2. You are conscious of your affect to the people
    3. You accept your shortcoming and mistakes
    4. You are okay being vulnerable with others
    5. You find the actual causes of your problems
    6. You are more selective when you choosing your friends
    7. You make your own decisions.
    8. You ask more questions.

  • @PlanetPsych
    @PlanetPsych 3 года назад +1301

    This is what I learnt from this video:
    "Self awareness doesn't stop you from making mistakes, it allows you to learn from them & grow"

    • @whatifieatedsoap
      @whatifieatedsoap 3 года назад +19

      Howd u time travel

    • @moon_3609
      @moon_3609 3 года назад +9

      @@whatifieatedsoap the video was unlisted and now it’s not

    • @whatifieatedsoap
      @whatifieatedsoap 3 года назад +1

      @@moon_3609 where do i find the video when its unlisted

    • @hooft747
      @hooft747 3 года назад

      @@whatifieatedsoap in the playlists, but you really have to search

    • @whatifieatedsoap
      @whatifieatedsoap 3 года назад

      @@hooft747 whats it called?

  • @DrLizListens
    @DrLizListens 3 года назад +489

    Get comfortable getting uncomfortable.
    Caterpillars literally breakdown into liquid to be transformed into butterflies. Growth is a painful yet beautiful process. Change is coming. You got this. 💗 Dr. Liz

    • @rojejemo7830
      @rojejemo7830 3 года назад +16

      Thank you so much beautiful :) That was a wonderful description..

    • @doloresdelcastillo252
      @doloresdelcastillo252 3 года назад +2

      Beautiful idea.

    • @Jimmyeatshrimp
      @Jimmyeatshrimp 3 года назад +9

      brb gonna break down into liquid

    • @DrLizListens
      @DrLizListens 3 года назад +7

      @@Jimmyeatshrimphaha it'll be worth it!

    • @matteospera8427
      @matteospera8427 2 года назад +2

      well, gotta go sulfuric acid shopping then, brb

  • @moondust158
    @moondust158 3 года назад +482

    *The most important thing in your self-journey: positivity.*

    • @ritabat1875
      @ritabat1875 3 года назад +3

      Ammmy 💜💜

    • @90oflifeisconfidence.53
      @90oflifeisconfidence.53 3 года назад +3

      Armyyy 💜💜

    • @jaywhypapi_mollah
      @jaywhypapi_mollah 3 года назад +6

      I'm having mental break down... there is no positivity

    • @Opethfeldt
      @Opethfeldt 3 года назад +12

      Denying your negative feelings can be just as bad as indulging them.

    • @dbrad5197
      @dbrad5197 2 года назад +3

      I find that Instead of aiming for positivity it's better to learn to be content in all states of affairs. It's OK to feel all feelings and you shouldn't try to shut any out. Just know that they will pass in due course. Negativity, pain and discomfort should be interpreted as signs for action. There is no escaping the human condition you can just learn to not create more Un necessary suffering. I think that its more realistic than aiming for positivity. Also you don't learn when your winning, you really learn when times get hard. So make them an opportunity not a struggle!🖒

  • @JTZombiE
    @JTZombiE 3 года назад +573

    2020 has been the BIGGEST “character-growth” for me lol
    I haven’t been the same since this year had started, I think I’m a slightly different person now; whether that be for the better or worse.

  • @xenomex8000
    @xenomex8000 3 года назад +179

    “With great power comes great responsibility”
    - Uncle Ben

    • @aylii
      @aylii 3 года назад +10

      ***"With great power comes great electricity bill"
      - A wise Man

    • @dhakahealth5935
      @dhakahealth5935 3 года назад

      @@aylii *pakalu papito

    • @alrivers2297
      @alrivers2297 3 года назад +1

      Voltaire said it first

  • @NenaLavonne
    @NenaLavonne 3 года назад +153

    There is nothing more rewarding than self-evolution. ♥️

  • @meenakshysudheer7573
    @meenakshysudheer7573 3 года назад +12

    Realising that you're toxic and wanting to become a better person is the biggest sign that you already are a way better person. I'm not completely over my toxic behaviour but the progress I've made, after being brought up in a really toxic environment, makes me wanna keep getting better at being a decent human being ❤

    • @Samuele-hm2jv
      @Samuele-hm2jv 6 дней назад

      Life update? Also advice for growing virtues🤔🙏

  • @Fernando_Silveira
    @Fernando_Silveira 3 года назад +67

    I find it difficult being vulnerable around others, every time I do so It feels "weird" afterwards, like I shoudn't have said that and kept it for myself. This comment is a good example lol

    • @4137._.gm._.0
      @4137._.gm._.0 3 года назад +10

      Same,, in fact sometimes (rather often these days) its not even exactly about being vulnerable, like.. just simple things I said or did and a while later, I feel I shouldn't have and keep pondering that for quite some time

    • @taleseylad1249
      @taleseylad1249 3 года назад +5

      I'm always vulnerable around one of my classmates. she's my best friend

    • @mica4349
      @mica4349 3 года назад +6

      Same and after that i cant help but to cringe at myself then i just stay away from those people i told my problems to all of a sudden bcos of this inside feeling thinking they're judging me..idk man

    • @salysian
      @salysian 3 года назад +7

      It's the same for me. I find myself feeling guilty afterwards, that's why I try to keep everything for myself... Yeah, this comment is a bad example lmao

    • @246bro9
      @246bro9 3 года назад +3

      @@4137._.gm._.0 same thing happens to me

  • @aIchemic
    @aIchemic 3 года назад +104

    I can relate to some of them.
    The journey is long, but I'm slowly getting there.

  • @samusgaming3367
    @samusgaming3367 3 года назад +78

    This channel has helped alot with finding my girlfriend that we have been together for a few months and I owe it to this channel

    • @rowenfara
      @rowenfara 3 года назад +12

      omg congrats!

    • @oofkillem1719
      @oofkillem1719 3 года назад

      Congrats to you and your girl! ❤️

  • @charliesneddon7383
    @charliesneddon7383 3 года назад +70

    “Treat people with kindness” - Harry Styles

    • @radhathakur5357
      @radhathakur5357 3 года назад +2

      Directioner ?! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kirklurkpu4470
      @kirklurkpu4470 3 года назад +4

      Easy to say, hard to do, mostly when the person you're dealing with is difficult

    • @kritikamittal1240
      @kritikamittal1240 3 года назад +4

      It's incomplete , treat people with kindness till it doesn't hurt you and your mental health. Don't overdo it . If it's too much than its dangerous.

  • @xxkitsune_kidxx1788
    @xxkitsune_kidxx1788 3 года назад +3

    Thank you, I’ve noticed I’m a toxic person and I’m trying to better myself. Three of my friends left me bc they got sick of my bs, it was a huge wake up call.

  • @Superficial_Intelligence
    @Superficial_Intelligence 3 года назад +410

    "You're more selective of the people you spend time with"
    I don't spend time with anyone XD.

    • @jazzygiraffe8589
      @jazzygiraffe8589 3 года назад +23

      Well, you're just being extremely selective then, lol. What a great person you are x)

    • @Superficial_Intelligence
      @Superficial_Intelligence 3 года назад +25

      @@jazzygiraffe8589 It's no longer natural selection, it's a mass extinction event.

    • @reeses_unicorn
      @reeses_unicorn 3 года назад +5

      For the most part, the only person I spend time with is my mom... xD I need to get a life.

    • @katkisaiah40_8
      @katkisaiah40_8 3 года назад +2

      All I got is my bestie, but that's perfectly ok with me. Because my old friends and ex bf turned toxic and such heh. I've always had my bestie though

    • @katemustermann2765
      @katemustermann2765 3 года назад +1

      With time you will get in close with people who love you

  • @FabalociousDee
    @FabalociousDee 3 года назад +24

    The difficult thing about self-improvement is distinguishing between traits of yours that are toxic, and traits of your that are simply shortcomings. Quite often, we live in a society that sees such things as interchangeable, giving not only false standards of perfection, but the expectation that literally everyone can achieve perfection. If any of the signs in this video relate to you, I have to be honest - you're not becoming a better person. You're becoming YOURSELF. The likelihood is, if this is the way you choose to deal with your traumas, you always had kindness in you, and you simply needed the right moment to bring that out. So congratulations are in order for many of you, in more ways than one.

  • @jaspernguyen8674
    @jaspernguyen8674 3 года назад +22

    It may sound crazy guys, but clean your room if it’s messy, and organize it! Don’t just shove things in drawers. The process of dedicating time to do it, committing to it, and recycling/donating what you don’t need anymore, is not also peaceful, but extremely cathartic. I felt so good about myself after doing it. And it made me want to find balance with areas of my life. It’s a great first step towards bettering yourself.

  • @david65662
    @david65662 3 года назад +22

    I'm definitely working to become a better person. I'm learning more and more each day how to love myself. When, for years. I've always put others first beford myself

  • @venus_5937
    @venus_5937 3 года назад +252

    Even Though 2020 was a Bad Year It Made Me A Better Person And Made Me More Productive 💖

    • @Kaira-ic6ci
      @Kaira-ic6ci 3 года назад +3

      Same right here

    • @strange_okapi892
      @strange_okapi892 3 года назад +2

      Yup same

    • @DUMRATBOY
      @DUMRATBOY 3 года назад +2

      Same

    • @dooferfis
      @dooferfis 3 года назад +16

      For me it was the opposite ive become less productive and more lazy to the point that i procrastinated so much that i dont end up doing any work 😔

    • @JustACandyy
      @JustACandyy 3 года назад +2

      Did you get early acces or smth- how is your comment 1 month ago

  • @SuperWiiBros08
    @SuperWiiBros08 3 года назад +277

    After watching a lot of Psych2Go videos I get recommend this one, good timing

  • @xqueenbee8214
    @xqueenbee8214 3 года назад +24

    I needed to hear all of this.. I took a break from almost everything that affected my mental health for a month: Instagram, tiktok, my friends and acquaintances too. God the amount I realized about my relationships and my confidence really felt redeeming. :) I’m taking a lot more action now for myself!!

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 года назад +94

    THAT SPIDERMAN CARTOON WAS SO SO CUTE!!! Man oh man, I wish my life was a kdrama hahahah

    • @fairymystonight1783
      @fairymystonight1783 3 года назад

      I remember commenting on a comment you made in another video. So I am commenting again. I always see your comments 😂😂

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад

      @@fairymystonight1783 hahahahahaha yes yes I remember!

    • @ifrahjama2215
      @ifrahjama2215 3 года назад

      Sameeee kdrama is life

    • @SamElle
      @SamElle 3 года назад

      @@ifrahjama2215 what has been your fav?? I’m looking for new ones to watch

    • @Jzombi301
      @Jzombi301 2 года назад

      what is a k drama?

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 года назад +40

    The road of self improvement should be the general path in life. Be better than yesterday 💪🏽

  • @redpanda7914
    @redpanda7914 3 года назад +410

    I've realized I'm becoming a manipulative person for either better or worst

    • @certifiedsirius
      @certifiedsirius 3 года назад +111

      Being a Manipulative person doesn’t sound good ngl

    • @erikeippel
      @erikeippel 3 года назад +76

      At least you are accepting it - that’s like the next to last step in changing 180 degrees! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 3 года назад +72

      Maybe EVERYBODY uses some manipulative techniques to get a little more in life to go their own way. Maybe they (most of them anyway) just don't realize it, or even they hide from it. Maybe the worst and most destructive lies are the lies we tell ourselves to avoid our own responsibilities.
      AND maybe, just maybe, you're becoming more and more aware of all the moments you've used some technique or other to manipulate situations for your advantage. Maybe there really isn't an escape from being able to manipulate someone at some point, pretty much everywhere in life.
      SO what do we do about it? Maybe instead of the knee-jerk "Manipulation bad" response, we stop for a moment and ask ourselves "Why should I manipulate this situation or this person?"... If we think about it in terms of what we can get them to do for themselves, then maybe it's NOT so bad that we manipulated them. Maybe this power of manipulation CAN be used for someone else's good, too.
      Sometimes, it's not an act of pure evil that you manipulate someone. Just becoming self-aware enough to realize it's what you do, you've come farther than most. Accepting this about yourself also makes it become a part of you, and like your own hand is a part of you, YOU can now learn to control it. I'd hazard that there's still responsibility to be undertaken with it, but that this isn't for the worst. The fact you find it important enough to type out in the Comments and make an accountenance of it says you're better than that. ;o)

    • @YingLing
      @YingLing 3 года назад +19

      I’ve learned to use my manipulation on ppl who decide to be rude and hurt others don’t know if I’m still a terrible person

    • @redpanda7914
      @redpanda7914 3 года назад +3

      @@YingLing that's pretty much my situation

  • @faithmusser993
    @faithmusser993 2 года назад +2

    Me over here thinking that I'm a terrible person because of what other say about me, but finding out I have been a good person after all. I really needed this today thank you!!

  • @DavidStarrUSA
    @DavidStarrUSA 3 года назад +3

    I love this channel.
    I lost my boyfriend to covid-19 in Feb 2021. Since then I've been on a mission for purpose. In the midst of my search I started looking for peace. And now I'm seeking to make a better me. 💗💗💗✌️

  • @frostlord1246
    @frostlord1246 3 года назад +50

    I saw some of these in myself but the third point really stuck out to me. I feel like I’m trying to be a perfectionist.

    • @itsemmateee
      @itsemmateee 3 года назад +6

      Same! it’s really something that I’ve needed to let go of. Imperfections are hard to accept, but necessary

    • @only_us_ever
      @only_us_ever 3 года назад +3

      Ok so same but your comment is one month ago but this video was 18 minutes ago posted so....

    • @parnianjeiroodi1513
      @parnianjeiroodi1513 3 года назад +1

      @@only_us_ever , the video was unlisted

    • @moon7239
      @moon7239 3 года назад +1

      Agreed! It's really hard to accept that failing isn't something bad

    • @246bro9
      @246bro9 3 года назад

      i feel like im like that as well simply because a lot of the time i dont no which mistakes r ok to make and which ones most ppl really dont like

  • @VerenaSatriani
    @VerenaSatriani 3 года назад +21

    It's interesting how growth takes some uncomfortable feelings. Good thing is away from our comfort zone.

  • @chewingpeppers
    @chewingpeppers 3 года назад +9

    I feel that I'm slowly, but surely, maturing little by little... this video was such a good reassurance,, it motivates me to keep growing!

  • @ravenclawfairy3648
    @ravenclawfairy3648 3 года назад +1

    My brother is on his journey right now to becoming a better person and I'm Very, Very proud of him! ❤️

  • @sheepisfortheweak6164
    @sheepisfortheweak6164 3 года назад +5

    I'm trying to overcome my social anxiety and try to deal with autism. It takes bitter effort, but the results are always worth it.

  • @arealnowhereman8255
    @arealnowhereman8255 3 года назад +4

    i have been conscious that i have became a better person during this year, so this video is just a confirmation that it's a real change and i am really glad for that

  • @GraceMelia
    @GraceMelia 10 месяцев назад +1

    I am always oversharing by accident and sometimes put the focus on myself without the intention to, but I am finally getting better at being more mindful of what I say

  • @yayyyyyy2191
    @yayyyyyy2191 3 года назад +2

    Sometimes I see videos just to read comments.... it's so great to see ppl opening up and discussing their feelings ✨❤️

  • @ShawntiaKnott
    @ShawntiaKnott 3 года назад +3

    *we can do this every one! Everyday is a battle to changing yourself. Keep getting back up!*

  • @mia1530
    @mia1530 3 года назад +12

    Even through all the stuff that’s happened this year, I think I’ve become a slightly better person in a lot of ways. I’ve learned a lot about myself and others around me. I’m hoping I’ll be able to take this knowledge for when life has become a bit less... chaotic.

  • @javantgarde
    @javantgarde 3 года назад +1

    Sitting with heartbreak and negative feelings is necessary instead of acting on them in spite. You gain inner strength and understanding of who is on your side and what you actually want in life

  • @timwashburn8553
    @timwashburn8553 3 года назад +3

    I know I have a way to go to improve myself, but I've been working on this for so long I'm impatient to get better. As in be more sure of myself and what I want in life.

  • @QuietlyMagnetic
    @QuietlyMagnetic 3 года назад +12

    When we step outside our comfort zone do we begin to truly change, grow, and transform. But stepping outside it is by definition uncomfortable!

  • @vAqeii
    @vAqeii 3 года назад +208

    Uncomfortable Sign 1: You feel weird when you give your friends your diamonds in Minecraft

    • @292_01
      @292_01 3 года назад +7

      Ah yes

    • @andretoliver6108
      @andretoliver6108 3 года назад +5

      Haha

    • @th3lostw4nderer
      @th3lostw4nderer 3 года назад +3

      Yes

    • @Ye_linlin
      @Ye_linlin 3 года назад +4

      Too bad I don't have friends to play with in minecraft 😔

    • @angelisticly
      @angelisticly 3 года назад +5

      @@Ye_linlin Too bad i dont even know how to download minecraft 😔

  • @pamelatorres156
    @pamelatorres156 3 года назад +2

    When you are stuck in a world that always make you feel like you're not good enough, even if you do your best to change, in the end you just want to be loved and appreciated just as you are.

  • @lielnavaro1357
    @lielnavaro1357 3 года назад +1

    I feel like sometimes i'm very focused on the things that I didn't achieve yet and don't pay enough attention to the progress that I've already done and the things that I already achieved. The video helped me realize that I need to give myself more credit.

  • @emmajoy5764
    @emmajoy5764 3 года назад +3

    Wow this almost made me cry. I’ve been trying so hard to be a better person and stop procrastinating but it feels like I haven’t been really getting anywhere. I have almost if not all of these signs though, which makes me feel like I’m actually making progress. So thank you this made me feel a lot better.

    • @tylersloan5365
      @tylersloan5365 2 года назад

      Hopefully you made some progress I myself am struggling with the exact same thing sending love and positivity

  • @Bennyfromthex
    @Bennyfromthex 3 года назад +7

    I noticed that I’m catching the causes to my problems and making different approaches in situations or events. I’m also learning how to help people better understand how that works. Thank you guys for helping us continuously throughout this time❤️

  • @gachadumbass1014
    @gachadumbass1014 2 года назад +2

    I used to be toxic, but I’m getting better and better every day. Even though I still am toxic, I’m forgetting that. I hope I will never be toxic. I don’t want to hurt people.

  • @misshearttree
    @misshearttree 3 года назад +2

    Ive made the mistake of allowing myself to be vulnerable with the wrong people so I stopped being vulnerable but that still didn't stop them so I learnt to be more selective. Still problems were unavoidable so I became vulnerable again but now I have a better understanding of what I need and my boundaries.

  • @CertifiedUser14
    @CertifiedUser14 3 года назад +3

    I relate to some of these signs, still working on vulnerability around others and asking more questions or being curious. I find myself still leaning back and hiding myself in a corner in my chest.
    I've got further steps to make, and the process isn't linear but it's a process. If you're reading this far, rememebr it's a process. Be gentle, take care

  • @katelynbrown98
    @katelynbrown98 3 года назад +3

    I don't know if I'll ever stop loving this channel's videos. I just love how calming you are. And I really do want to become a better person -- more empathetic & loving. Less judgemental towards others & myself. More kind and understanding of why others make the choices they do. But also more diligent about where I want my life to go.

  • @juvydude
    @juvydude 3 года назад +2

    #3, accepting my shortcomings and mistakes is probably the biggest problem I've been having. Thank you for doin this. Every day is a fight, and your guys' videos help pull me back whenever I'm on the edge again.

  • @lorainebejar2837
    @lorainebejar2837 3 года назад +1

    Proud of myself for making progress. We are all learning every day. Blessed be everyone 🙏😊💞

  • @beingmyownfan
    @beingmyownfan 3 года назад +48

    *TIME STAMPS BELOW:*
    1) You are self-aware [0:55]
    2) You are conscious of your affect on other people [1:23]
    3) You accept your shortcomings and mistakes [1:55]
    4) You're okay being vulnerable around others [2:27]
    5) You find the actual causes of your problems [2:56]
    6) You are selective with who you spend time with [3:26]
    7) You make your own decisions [3:55]
    8) You ask more questions [4:18]

  • @witchypoo7353
    @witchypoo7353 3 года назад +33

    Psych2go’s Spider-Man legit made me smile, doesn’t happen often tbh lol

  • @jeffreyphillips4182
    @jeffreyphillips4182 3 года назад +2

    I'm 72 years old and where I am is fine with me. Don't need much in the way of contentment. Just be yourself and you'll be okay

  • @dr.cheetos5189
    @dr.cheetos5189 3 года назад +1

    I took a person granted, being over protective about him, forgot to support him,rather discouage him..I was being toxic to him
    I didn't do this to nyone but to him..yes I was toxic and bcoz of this I lost respect for myself. He is hurt, broken.
    Now I m trying to be a better person. Hope he heals.

  • @sanije6428
    @sanije6428 3 года назад +4

    Becoming a better person isn’t about not making mistakes, it’s about making mistakes then learning from them.

  • @afsheenqureshi7957
    @afsheenqureshi7957 3 года назад +5

    This actually really made me feel good about myself.... I've been trying really hard to overcome my depression and improve my mental health....,❤️❤️

    • @rojejemo7830
      @rojejemo7830 3 года назад +1

      I am so glad to hear that sweetie :)

  • @angelac293
    @angelac293 3 года назад +2

    It’s scary to face your problems but facing and confronting your fears are what will allow you to grow 😁 I hope everyone has the courage to look at themselves in the mirror and learn to love themselves instead of running away from their reflection.

  • @rose.florish
    @rose.florish 2 года назад +1

    im trying so hard to become a better and this video helped me realize my small steps that sometimes we have a hard time to see, ive become such a strong mature person and ive been getting out of my comfort zone and learning :)

  • @minnightxx__5004
    @minnightxx__5004 2 года назад +7

    8 uncomfortable signs you are becoming a better person
    1. You're self-aware
    2. You are conscious of your affect on other people
    3. You accept your shortcomings and mistakes
    4. You are okay with being vulnerable around others
    5. You find the actual causes of your problems
    6. You're more selective with the people you spend time with
    7. You make your own decisions
    8. You ask more questions
    Haven't see anyone do it so i do it myself

    • @lanaeni2194
      @lanaeni2194 2 года назад

      Thank you !

    • @annemarie509
      @annemarie509 2 года назад

      i do that tho your not the only one and im glad im not the only one

  • @jasmingarcia5282
    @jasmingarcia5282 3 года назад +5

    “your life is not like a krama” hit hard🥺 my expectations are so high for my love life because of kdramas but I didn’t know that it was a bad thing.. sigh I’ll never find someone like Ji Chang Wook :/

  • @G-mansin
    @G-mansin 3 года назад +2

    Congratulations if you got this vid in recommendations your becoming a better you ❤️💅 i love you all and im proud of you keep that❤️⭐️

  • @txtmcsoobinyeonjun7849
    @txtmcsoobinyeonjun7849 3 года назад +2

    I think am becoming a better person because I can relate to all the signs.Thank you for letting me know because at first I thought it wasn't a good thing.Thank you

  • @ashironikko5860
    @ashironikko5860 3 года назад +3

    Man...i feel good after hearing all of these and seeing myself on it, I still need to get better at it thought, I hope everyone is doing fine and getting better too ❤

  • @isabelab.5241
    @isabelab.5241 3 года назад +36

    Omg, is that a reference to Boys Over Flowers?? Nice.

  • @amanichj7079
    @amanichj7079 3 года назад +2

    Just as I'm writing ''this year's goals'' in my journal for 2021, I see this video.
    Some of my goals are about working on myself, for example, improving my voice. I use the word ''um'' a lot and it gets really hard for me to get my point accross sometimes, I'd say I'm not good at explaining things, actually, I'd say people are not good at understanding me. I know this is wrong so here I am, telling you all who are reading my comment that I'm not good at explaining things *yet*.
    Another goal of mine is to stop adding to people's words unnecessarily. I've been told I always have a problem, that I always have something to add. Although I do not consider every incident of this sort to be my fault since I'm often just voicing my opinion arond people who have no empathy for others, it does seem to me that they can often be right.
    Nobody is perfect and please do not be ashamed of your flaws. We all make mistakes and have shortcomings. A thing or two might ruin a friendship or a relationship, but as they say, we meet some people for a lesson, not everybody is willing to stay.
    I'm planning to start working on myself before 2021 as a little warm up.
    It's never too late or early to start, if you're reading this in March, amazing! Celebrate the 3rd month by trying to improve yourself :)
    Can't wait to see how far you will all go, best of wishes.
    -Amani

  • @themoonisbeautifulisntit2860
    @themoonisbeautifulisntit2860 3 года назад

    i’ve hurt a lot of people, and i’ve just now become aware of all of the people. i’m working on coming to them and holding myself accountable and apologizing to them so i can help give them closure as well myself, the guilt has been really eating at me and i feel terrible. all i know is that i don’t want to hurt anymore people and i’m going to heal so it never happens again.

  • @rynco4270
    @rynco4270 3 года назад +3

    The last thing i gotta be is a vulnerable person and let others know how I feel but I’m still scared for that to happen because of my habit to overthink.
    I really hope one day I tell people how I truly feel…

  • @artisticbeing260
    @artisticbeing260 3 года назад +4

    2 years ago, I was definitely struggling with hard times in to seeing my worth and everything with depression. In 2019, I was able to power through the depression and decided to change my ways during that summer. Fast forward to the end of 2020, and I've been growing A LOT this year especially after a harsh breakup I also had to go through earlier this year. Since then, Im proud to day that Ive been more curious about the world and taking interest in school, Im becoming more spiritual, and I love myself a lot more. I guess my point is I can relate to EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of those signs 💖

  • @penciltamaraart
    @penciltamaraart 3 года назад +2

    I am always on my way to becoming a better person. But the outside world doesn't seem to care. In fact, the better I try to behave, the worse people behave towards me. The people I meet when I leave the house make it very difficult and frustrating for me to try to be a nice person. It's like they respect me more when I don't care about them.

  • @laylams04
    @laylams04 3 года назад +1

    I’m trying so hard to be better that it started to overwhelm me , so I told myself to take it easy from here .. one step at a time . I now believe that my current self is ok ..i mean I don’t need to change in asap but it has to improve at the end

  • @avymationz7024
    @avymationz7024 3 года назад +22

    Ngl she's my favourite voiceover artist of psych2go

  • @TinthiaClemant
    @TinthiaClemant 2 года назад +3

    Let go of past mistakes, forgive yourself, and learn from past mistakes-and love yourself. 🌺

  • @pragprince
    @pragprince 3 года назад +1

    Love your soothing voice and narration and the fact that there is no background music when you speak. So the mind has only one thing to focus on. Quite an effective strategy I realize.

  • @kirtu9035
    @kirtu9035 3 года назад +1

    Who else is becoming a better person

  • @Anne_IsMe
    @Anne_IsMe 3 года назад +27

    Can you make one about “am I getting groomed?” Because one of my friends have been making me feel uncomfortable and does/says weird things. I told my friend and she said I might be getting groomed...

    • @lemonmorning1844
      @lemonmorning1844 3 года назад +15

      Hey there wholesome. It’s not wrong to cut things off with people that make you feel uncomfortable.
      Take it from me, people who don’t respect your boundaries can really hurt you mentally and spiritually in the long term.
      There are too many people in the world that will make you feel great, to spend even one minute with someone who makes you feel a little uneasy.
      It’s not just about feeling uncomfortable. But the uneasiness is an indicator, a sign, that something could be very wrong. It’s your body/spirit’s advance warning system alerting you of s possible danger to your wellbeing.
      Trust those feelings or yours and most important- ACT! Your human intuition will figure things out before our brain is able to make sense of things.
      Don’t walk, run!
      I mean it. Your life will be better and you will be safer without that influence in your life.
      There are consequences to every path and action. Don’t ignore the warning signs. You can do It!

    • @kuljitminhas8707
      @kuljitminhas8707 3 года назад +2

      @@lemonmorning1844 yeah its the thing people may try to force you to but its not good but one person who did goodly was nice

    • @dreamy4522
      @dreamy4522 3 года назад +11

      Try telling that friend that they are making you uncomfortable. If they don't change after that, then its a huge red flag

    • @lemonmorning1844
      @lemonmorning1844 3 года назад +4

      Here is a link (below). This may or may not be helpful to you. It touches on how malevolent people will prey on naivety of malevolence, which having little experience in the world, limited education, and often a comparably happy childhood, is the state of most young people.
      Please also search what to do if you think you are being groomed.
      I hope you don’t ignore fixing the situation. Whatever happens in life you will carry the memories. Be active about avoiding and cutting off anyone who might be trying to use you.
      I really wish you the best.
      ruclips.net/video/whKaja3bg4A/видео.html

  • @k-onenthusiast5234
    @k-onenthusiast5234 3 года назад +8

    Though it definitely is uncomfortable, change comes and goes, and in the end, it always is that. Uncomfortable. In an ever changing environment, we try to find something controllable. Let's strive to change together! :)

  • @CB66941
    @CB66941 3 года назад +1

    I am being more vulnerable with people, and am finding out that many people will tell you:
    -just be more positive
    -only you can help yourself
    -how they managed to achieve where they are
    -unsolicited advice
    And I am glad that I read up on validation of experience and emotion and can recognize when to stop or start listening~

  • @SmileyStudiosable
    @SmileyStudiosable 3 года назад +1

    Feels like number 4 and number 6 come hand in hand. Cuz while some people bottle up and become distrustful, some instead tend to overshare all details of their life to try to show they have nothing to hide and are very open and trustworthy individuals.
    Number 4 is for the former to be more relaxed and number 6 is for the latter to learn to set boundaries

  • @ghost-md8li
    @ghost-md8li 3 года назад +6

    2020 put me through hell, i unrepressed bad memories and am healing. i went through 2 abusive and manipulative relationships. one of which i was raped multiple times, im alot better now. im in a healthy relationship that i feel is going to last forever i feel better i got better this year

    • @3_ormorecharacters
      @3_ormorecharacters 3 года назад +4

      my god...that sounds seriously bad...hope you're in a better place :(

    • @ghost-md8li
      @ghost-md8li 3 года назад +3

      @@3_ormorecharacters i am much better, i feel alot better

  • @bellanovia1648
    @bellanovia1648 3 года назад +3

    I related to all of these and I feel good about it 😌✨

  • @samsalazar23698
    @samsalazar23698 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much! I related to many of these facts. There were parts I felt uncomfortable hearing, but then a release that energy and understood that is ok to feel this way.

  • @sapling_360
    @sapling_360 3 года назад +2

    I am self aware it’s pretty nice and it is something that I like about myself too! Also i always make sure to know and see how the other person feels when I’m talking to them, I don’t really accept my mistakes I really don’t know why but yeah, i also don’t like coming out to people with my emotions since I do have a therapist- I sometimes make my own decisions but majority of the time I’m able to do stuff for myself, I also have became more curious in stuff but I usually keep it to myself!

  • @mochacoffeebear
    @mochacoffeebear 3 года назад +3

    I love the video. Yes, through thus hard times I have had the time to self-reflect and find more about myself and what I want to be in the future.
    Yes, all of these signs are presently happening to me right now and I'm so glad I'm growing up.
    Thanks for the video, Pysch2Go. I like the animation, it's so cute! Thank you also for adding korean subtitles, I'm not korean but I really appreciate it.💜💜💜

  • @saimasehar5429
    @saimasehar5429 3 года назад +10

    Me: I'm gonna become a better person with this video
    Me after the video: wow I'm kinda sleepy. The voice is so calm and soothing.
    Me after sleep: What did the video really say?
    Me again : let's watch it again.

  • @bethanyfisher532
    @bethanyfisher532 3 года назад +2

    Learning to be the best version of yourself is one of the hardest journeys that can last a life time. One thing that has help me to become the best person i can be is learning about myself, what works for me and what doesnt, what i like and what i dont like, what i need and what i dont need, how i learn, how i express myslef, How I act, How i think, how I cope, how I react in situations. My strengths and weaknesses, my insecurties and the things I am most proud of. These are some questions I have asked my self and leanred about my self. Self discovery has been one of the most helpful coping skills for my depression (yes I was properly diagnosed). Anyways even trying to answer one of these questiosn about your slef is progress!

  • @faithseden293
    @faithseden293 3 года назад +2

    I related to all of these except the “decisions” one. I don’t trust myself. I don’t wanna make the wrong choice or make a mistake. I’m terrified of being independent.

  • @THICCMUNK
    @THICCMUNK 3 года назад +3

    LOVE THE ANIMATION AS ALWAYS THANK YOU GUYS LOVE THE CHANNEL

  • @omfg992
    @omfg992 3 года назад +10

    video: do you avoid problems?
    jeff with 256 homeworks and 45 presentations for next week: no i dont

  • @swanaraj1653
    @swanaraj1653 3 года назад +1

    A year like 2020 really needed a channel like this for people to actually be mentally healthy.
    Thank u so much psych2go

  • @brianschuetz2614
    @brianschuetz2614 3 года назад +1

    Life is a journey of learning and growing. From my teenage years and beyond I've been continuously searching for understanding of who and what I am. We each go at our own pace, and face our own failings and challenges. We each experience our dark times. I have bipolar mood disorder. I have had to deal with depression since my teen years. I was a teenager when I first thought about suicide. I only considered it momentarily, then I rejected it entirely. I promised myself and my God that no matter how bad I feel, or how terrible my life may look or feel, I would never deliberately end my life. I've experienced dark enough times that I fully understand and empathize with those who have committed suicide, or attempted it. I'm not sure how I got through some of those days and actually still did my job. I am currently doing well, and my moods are stable. I have also recently successfully dealt with the last of my emotional baggage. I'm now seeking my next goal or direction I need to pursue. Even though I'm 54 now, I'm still growing as a person. We should never stop learning. If you aren't learning and growing, then you're cheating yourself. No mater how much you hurt, no matter how terrible your life may seem, never give up. Fight to the bitter end if you have to. Life doesn't just suck, it is horrible, sometimes. Make something good of it. You can succeed. You can become a better person than you were before. You can look despair in the eyes and not blink. When you are at your weakest, you can find strength. Strive for it; fight for it.

  • @Khushi-ve3bx
    @Khushi-ve3bx 3 года назад +3

    I identified with the last two ones strongly. It feels really good to know that I'm making progress. Thank you psych2go! You made my day😊♥️

  • @SimpleLifeSG
    @SimpleLifeSG 3 года назад +3

    Accept your shortcomings and mistakes is about knowing yourself and improving from there. Know what is your passion and work on it. 😀

  • @bauhausbastard
    @bauhausbastard 3 года назад +1

    Yea you see the problem I have with #4 is finding people to open up to that won't take your honesty and feelings and use them against you later, and after many times of having being stabbed in the back by "friends" for what seems to be there own personal gain, I have adopted the philosophy of keeping myself to myself now.