YES! Finally, someone said it! If they really care, they should be more than just talk. Time to stop playing the 'blame game' and start getting involved.
It's true that tenants have rights. But so do the homeowners/ landlords. OPs brother is behaving lazy and unwilling to put in the work to create a life for himself.
I have kicked my own sister out of my home before and haven't looked back to that either and I have kicked other people out of my home too and it was the best thing that I could do for my own sanity. And I am too old for drama.
OP did nothing wrong from a moral perspective. However, bitter experience has taught me to approach needy people carefully. It's natural for a decent person to love helping others but it is vital to, at the very least, set boundaries from the very start because the sense of entitlement tends to grow like a cancer. When you give, the recipient can easily, in their minds, turn the gift into: 1) a floor, the minimum you MUST give going forward and 2) a platform from which to make further demands. This is exactly what Blake did in this story; rather than consider what he owed OP for a year of freeloading, he claimed "rights" by virtue of occupation. With his GF, he reached the logical conclusion: "give me your house!" Think about it for a minute; the same person who appealed for help because he was family, was willing to put his own brother out in the street. I would shake my head in disbelief for his outrageous audacity if I didn't already understand human nature.
Spot on. We once picked up a friends kid for them several weeks in a row. It was supposed to end at the end of the month. Next month rolls around and they actually got angry when we reminded them we were not in town. Like somehow it was our obligation to take care of their kid and if we couldn’t we should have made arrangements. You can bet we ended that situation fast. And when they asked later on we said we were busy. They actually argued about us being busy!
Slamming doors and cabinets? You helped them out but showing them the door. But lessons learned. Never help them again. Sell the house and move out of town.
In the other versions, I suggested that the dimbulb dine out. Cheaper than buying the victuals for 3.? more. I also said that any cable be stopped. A home phone replaced by a cell. Letting Jenna back in, after she voluntarily moved, would be very stupid. "Weapons grade stupid" Brad Thor wrote in "Dead Fall".
I'd have already told them to leave. How do I know? I had my own set of freeloaders I forced out of my house. Do not enable moochees or you'll never be rid of them.
TL;DR his brother lives rent free in his inherited home. Gets married and moves pregnant wife in. Wife does not understand inheritance and tries to kick oop out. (Seriously she thinks both brothers own it, so that somehow means oop shouldn't live there. Make that make sense) Leaves. Oop begins legal steps to evict brother. Has an endless supply of extended family. Explains in painstaking detail why he has rights to his own home to every single one instead of just telling them to f off. Deadline arrives, brother leaves. The end. Extremely boring, especially how many times he justified kicking out freeloaders and said all the same things every time he reiterates it.
"Find somewhere else to live." You mean like in a house that's NOT yours. I don't know, but maybe a good parting shot is to tell the father-to-be to get a paternity test done. In front of his wife.
I mean why do these people let somebody move into their own home without first sitting down with them and specifically and clearly spelling out rules guidelines time frames and what they expect from that person letting them know that any taking advantage nullifies everything?
Start charging him rent stop paying his bills enough is enough. You just keep enabling him and the situation will never change. Grow backbone, evict him, and move on.
I WISH YOU WOULD FIND A DIFFERENT BACKGROUND! I cannot hear so I have to read. These are great stories and I really enjoy them, but I’m going to have to stop watching because it’s making me sick with all the strange stuff in the background moving and turning and twisting
4:25 and this is where I stop having sympathy for the original poster because all I'm hearing is doormat doormat doormat doormat. " Family" it's not an excuse to make regardless of how you feel because people use that against you and use what you have as their own until they become too entitled to the point where they start demanding things from you as if they have the right to demand something from you because you let them stay over. Like you said you should have kicked him out the last time you had a conversation with him about getting a job.
"We're family".
"Family helps family".
These phrases are SO overplayed!
Glad that OP didn't let this deter him from putting his brother out!
Finally! A story where the OP tells family why don't THEY help if they care so much!
And the family goes ummm well we uhhh can't because blah blah blah.
YES! Finally, someone said it! If they really care, they should be more than just talk. Time to stop playing the 'blame game' and start getting involved.
Somebody lives with me because of my generosity, and criticizes my stuff:
Well, at least it's mine. What do YOU have?
You should have tell her or him that he/she can move out anytime.
The moment your brother said he had rights and you can't kick me out, that's what I'd hand him an eviction notice; you have 30 days.
I swear people seem to think the word family means use and abuse until there’s nothing left.
"You're so selfish."
The immediate response should have been, "Get out."
if i got sat down by guests in my own home telling me to move out that would be their last day there.
He needed to lawyer up a long time ago and he needs to change the locks after they leave
100%
She would NOT be slamming anything in my house. She belongs out.
You can only be taken advantage of if you allow yourself to be taken advantage of.
In all fairness it sounds like Jenna was acting entitled because she genuinely was under the impression she had a stake in the house.
Omg the "we're family" again. 😢
It's true that tenants have rights. But so do the homeowners/ landlords. OPs brother is behaving lazy and unwilling to put in the work to create a life for himself.
I would tell half brother and his girlfriend that they have to go. Because I am not going to let nobody kick me out of my own house 🏠
Hard to feel sorry for op
i woud not buy food... evict them..
Should have told brother it's your house your rules when he moved in
This story should have been 5 minutes long. OP could of handled this so much better.
The first thing I would have done was check how long he could stay when he moved in, without him getting rights.
I have kicked my own sister out of my home before and haven't looked back to that either and I have kicked other people out of my home too and it was the best thing that I could do for my own sanity. And I am too old for drama.
I hope you
changed all the locks
OP did nothing wrong from a moral perspective. However, bitter experience has taught me to approach needy people carefully. It's natural for a decent person to love helping others but it is vital to, at the very least, set boundaries from the very start because the sense of entitlement tends to grow like a cancer. When you give, the recipient can easily, in their minds, turn the gift into:
1) a floor, the minimum you MUST give going forward and
2) a platform from which to make further demands.
This is exactly what Blake did in this story; rather than consider what he owed OP for a year of freeloading, he claimed "rights" by virtue of occupation. With his GF, he reached the logical conclusion: "give me your house!" Think about it for a minute; the same person who appealed for help because he was family, was willing to put his own brother out in the street.
I would shake my head in disbelief for his outrageous audacity if I didn't already understand human nature.
Spot on. We once picked up a friends kid for them several weeks in a row. It was supposed to end at the end of the month. Next month rolls around and they actually got angry when we reminded them we were not in town. Like somehow it was our obligation to take care of their kid and if we couldn’t we should have made arrangements. You can bet we ended that situation fast. And when they asked later on we said we were busy. They actually argued about us being busy!
Slamming doors and cabinets? You helped them out but showing them the door. But lessons learned. Never help them again. Sell the house and move out of town.
In the other versions, I suggested that the dimbulb dine out. Cheaper than buying the victuals for 3.? more. I also said that any cable be stopped. A home phone replaced by a cell. Letting Jenna back in, after she voluntarily moved, would be very stupid. "Weapons grade stupid" Brad Thor wrote in "Dead Fall".
I'd have already told them to leave. How do I know? I had my own set of freeloaders I forced out of my house. Do not enable moochees or you'll never be rid of them.
TL;DR his brother lives rent free in his inherited home. Gets married and moves pregnant wife in. Wife does not understand inheritance and tries to kick oop out. (Seriously she thinks both brothers own it, so that somehow means oop shouldn't live there. Make that make sense) Leaves. Oop begins legal steps to evict brother. Has an endless supply of extended family. Explains in painstaking detail why he has rights to his own home to every single one instead of just telling them to f off. Deadline arrives, brother leaves. The end.
Extremely boring, especially how many times he justified kicking out freeloaders and said all the same things every time he reiterates it.
take her down to the government agencies and they can sign her up for her very own pen. they won't even care if she has the sidepiece
A year? I wouldn't have been that generous. Nothing at the end of the 1st month, you're gone.
"Find somewhere else to live."
You mean like in a house that's NOT yours.
I don't know, but maybe a good parting shot is to tell the father-to-be to get a paternity test done. In front of his wife.
I mean why do these people let somebody move into their own home without first sitting down with them and specifically and clearly spelling out rules guidelines time frames and what they expect from that person letting them know that any taking advantage nullifies everything?
the channel is not getting traction because he start doing youtubeurs stuff maybe next he going to throw animation bell and the story is extent by gpt
Start charging him rent stop paying his bills enough is enough. You just keep enabling him and the situation will never change. Grow backbone, evict him, and move on.
Eviction is done in court. You pay someone to serve them. You don’t do it yourself
I don't feel bad for op, this all started because he had no spine
family help family yada yada yada....
I know this is AI but if they didnt invite them to the wedding why would he allow them to move in and certainly didnt pay for everything.
Bet the child is not his. Tell your family to take him in
lived rent free for a year where did his money go?
En el momento en que tu hermano dice que tiene derechos y no puedes echarme, es por eso que le entrego un aviso de desalojo; tienes 30 días.
Play need to get a DNA test I think she was pregnant already
I WISH YOU WOULD FIND A DIFFERENT BACKGROUND!
I cannot hear so I have to read.
These are great stories and I really enjoy them, but I’m going to have to stop watching because it’s making me sick with all the strange stuff in the background moving and turning and twisting
Same. I try not to look at the screen too much and just listen to it
Put Blake and his freeloading Ass girlfriend out there users u owe them nothing
4:25 and this is where I stop having sympathy for the original poster because all I'm hearing is doormat doormat doormat doormat. " Family" it's not an excuse to make regardless of how you feel because people use that against you and use what you have as their own until they become too entitled to the point where they start demanding things from you as if they have the right to demand something from you because you let them stay over. Like you said you should have kicked him out the last time you had a conversation with him about getting a job.
Do it for B-la-kay….
Like your stories, but hate the fast-based/jumpy background. I'm old and it gives me a headache.
I'm really sorry to hear that! We're currently working on a new channel with a different background. Stay tuned for updates!
Need DNA test.
Knowing your brother, why were you so supine you let him guilt-trip you?
Reddit writers are always so dumb!!
Yes, you have to jump through hoops because you are soooooo naive.
You are so naive.
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